Folks need to remember and retort to those flying monkeys - "If you all care so much, YOU PAY HER DEBTS THEN!!" Enough of them pitch in they wouldn't need to ask him
Every family member who called would have gotten the same reply... "Im so glad youre willing to help her, being family and all. I'm keeping a tab. How much are you going to contribute to bail her out of this mess?"
Anna's problems are ANNA'S responsibility, NOT OP'S responsibility. And why is "family helps family" when it pertains to Anna, but when OP needs help, THEY'RE expected to "figure it out"? "Family" turned their back on you when you became an adult.
Why are people so scared to tell someone that they are better than someone else. Anna: "you think you're better than me?" OP: "Yes, I am better than you." See simple...
I feel like most of these stories are written by the same person, it’s always about a golden child that needs help, then the family always saying “family loyalty “ then the family brings in a lawyer, and op just so happens to have their own
More because its TH-cam's metrics like other businesses its about numbers and were over covid so the viewers have gone back to normal but TH-cam bases its users value based on previous numbers so it just means last year at this time or trends show overall people funding in on any channel is dropping. Meanwhile everyone is going back to work a school more and more. But metrics dont care they want a stedy up clime not a stable number of viewers and to care means the channel is monitized because otherwise they'd care they had fans more then complain about the metrics. The issue though is metrics effect TH-cam's recommended programs so people we follow loose rankings and stop being in the top 10 to recommend so they are worried about getting new viewers
When you have a toxic family you have to find a way out ASAP. After living without the toxicity for a couple of months you'll come to the realization you feel much better now.
You have absolutely no obligation to bail your family members out of their messes. If they choose to borrow money, especially from loan sharks, and they’re unable to repay said loans, that’s not your problem
9:01 Block everyone's number, change your phone number. Consider changing phone companies. Close your accounts ASAP. Transfer money to a new account preferably in a different bank. If possible find a job in a different city and move. Leave no forwarding address and stay off social media.
Op needs to become that family member who people say, "No, man, don't ask Op for money, he's a hardass. He'll want your bank statements and expense sheet and budget for the next six months before he'll even talk to you, and THEN he'll want a $1,000 good faith fee up front before you can get a penny".
If you are made out to be the bad guy by others, then be the bad guy! It's that simple. It is already that bad! It can't get worse, can it? Why don't you block them? Get a TRO. Not your circus, not your monkeys. Let your boss know about your parents' possible vindictiveness. Ask a lawyer what to do. Defamination is a crime. Call the police about the account tampering.
Damn at the audacity in a lot of these stories how parents try to make one sibling responsible for the other tell your parents take care of your own damn kid
Or, “family helps family “ Or, “first came the guilt tripping phone calls “ Or, “I went no contact “ Then op reads the email messages, then the letters…blah, blah, blah… Just throw the blasted letters away and don’t answer the phone calls. It’s not rocket science.
No is the right answer. The enabling has to stop. If you stop enabling her it will get better. Tell mom you’re the selfish one, who enabled this and she needs to hit rock bottom. Spread the story of your parents not understanding what family means Anna needs to step up and help herself.
Mom and Dad needs to step up get part time job until the little butterfly get out of her bad spending habits. Leave you out of their ,mwill they can take what ever in their will and pay her bills off. +
@satanicmercy7729 OPs parents are threatening to cut him from their will unless he gives his idiot sister 40,000 if I have 40k I'm not worried about being cut out they should pony up the 40k
When they when this person got the letters from their parents, admonishing them and trying to guilt trip them, they just sort of should have taken a magic marker blacked out their address and then wrote on each letter, " RETURN TO SENDER."
See a lawyer. Have them sign a contract to put the house into your name in exchange for 40k and the right to live their until they die. Solid investment, and you dont have to worry about them leaving everything to their golden child.
Is that supposed to have been the confrontation? I've seen confrontations of people doing smaller s*** than this and they lost their mind if this is called a confrontation then I'm a stripper and I'm definitely not a stripper.
STOP BEGGING! Be a normal content creator, aay things like, if you enjoy this pls sub... The channel is NOT losing traction! You are gaining subs, stfu with trying to guilt the ones already subbed to the channel.
I don’t understand why other family say “but they are your family “! I would say they are your family too! You pay their bills see how that gos for you.
I'm going to be perfectly honest here I really don't understand why the poster is bitching about their family in the beginning of their story but yet by the time they're done with that call with their mom they're over here like oh I feel guilty all because my mom said that my sister's blood will be on my hands and I'm like dude what are you feeling guilty for and on top of that why are you even letting these people like come into your life when you're the one who said you wanted nothing to do with them because of the way they treated you so why is it that this situation is so special and different from what's been going on before that
do not give in to them sis made the trouble so she can fix he own debts you must not give a penny to them,,,,,,,,,,get a job or two and fix it yourself
Your stories aren't bad, easy on the ears, but the background videos are absolutely awful. Puts me right off. Can you find something better? Easier on the eye?
People are probably going to get mad at me cuz I'm going to use vulgar language but I don't care. Please explain to me what the fuc but we're family means and they're your family means? Especially when it's other family members saying this to you? The sister is also their family, so why the fuck aren't they paying for her bills???
I keep seeing similar stories to this.. probably AI. Thing is this girl has parents and all these relatives who harrass the son to pay for his sister? Sure it would be nice if he helped but shes not his responsibility... the parents are
"Do you want her blood on your hands...?"
My reply: "Blood cleans off my hands with soap and water..."
Folks need to remember and retort to those flying monkeys - "If you all care so much, YOU PAY HER DEBTS THEN!!" Enough of them pitch in they wouldn't need to ask him
@CG-yb6zj always think that exact same thing.. if you so worried.. you pay for her then!
Every family member who called would have gotten the same reply...
"Im so glad youre willing to help her, being family and all. I'm keeping a tab. How much are you going to contribute to bail her out of this mess?"
Exactly! You want to play the guilt tripping card then you can give Anna the 40k
More like HER* mess ;) Bet they wouldn't be so supportive after that, huh! 👏👏
For the other family memebers who think he should help out, he should have said, "Why don't you?"
I’ve never understood why, none of these say why aren’t you helping her then?
Anna's problems are ANNA'S responsibility, NOT OP'S responsibility. And why is "family helps family" when it pertains to Anna, but when OP needs help, THEY'RE expected to "figure it out"?
"Family" turned their back on you when you became an adult.
Why are people so scared to tell someone that they are better than someone else.
Anna: "you think you're better than me?"
OP: "Yes, I am better than you."
See simple...
lmfao
@@JayX762 I know I am better than you. Hence why you need help and I don't :) cheers have a great life!!
@satanicmercy7729 lol, you definitely gamma male status...
It would be $40,000 then Anna would know she can get away with it and next time it'll be a lot more.
I feel like most of these stories are written by the same person, it’s always about a golden child that needs help, then the family always saying “family loyalty “ then the family brings in a lawyer, and op just so happens to have their own
@@RalphMalph8020 they are all probably taken from the same source on Reddit loo
Anyone can write a toxic drama. Take it at face value.
I think it's called extortion. Even if you end up moving to get away.. You nay need a protective order.
@phyllis9750 the mighty piece of paper that doesn't mean much. Get a firearm and then you will truly be protected
The channel is losing traction because it is not improving.
More because its TH-cam's metrics like other businesses its about numbers and were over covid so the viewers have gone back to normal but TH-cam bases its users value based on previous numbers so it just means last year at this time or trends show overall people funding in on any channel is dropping.
Meanwhile everyone is going back to work a school more and more.
But metrics dont care they want a stedy up clime not a stable number of viewers and to care means the channel is monitized because otherwise they'd care they had fans more then complain about the metrics.
The issue though is metrics effect TH-cam's recommended programs so people we follow loose rankings and stop being in the top 10 to recommend so they are worried about getting new viewers
When you have a toxic family you have to find a way out ASAP. After living without the toxicity for a couple of months you'll come to the realization you feel much better now.
"you've always been my rock, now you're leaving me to drown"
if you hold onto a rock, you will probably drown...
I'd tell Anna, stop asking me for money, stop making our family guilt trip me, or I'm going to the police for fraud
OMG! good luck OP for the future...stay safe and have a good, stress free life.❤
You have absolutely no obligation to bail your family members out of their messes. If they choose to borrow money, especially from loan sharks, and they’re unable to repay said loans, that’s not your problem
Blood of the Covent is thicker than the water of the womb!
Thank you for using that correctly. People always say blood is thicker than water and it completely contradicts the actual phrase
9:01 Block everyone's number, change your phone number. Consider changing phone companies. Close your accounts ASAP. Transfer money to a new account preferably in a different bank. If possible find a job in a different city and move. Leave no forwarding address and stay off social media.
Op needs to become that family member who people say, "No, man, don't ask Op for money, he's a hardass. He'll want your bank statements and expense sheet and budget for the next six months before he'll even talk to you, and THEN he'll want a $1,000 good faith fee up front before you can get a penny".
So the sister gets no responsibility in her actions? The parents can pay it!
I was thinking the exact same thing. Why don't they pay it, since they care so much?
If you are made out to be the bad guy by others, then be the bad guy!
It's that simple. It is already that bad! It can't get worse, can it?
Why don't you block them? Get a TRO.
Not your circus, not your monkeys.
Let your boss know about your parents' possible vindictiveness. Ask a lawyer what to do. Defamination is a crime. Call the police about the account tampering.
Most of us don't have time a spare$40,000
@ 24 its your responsibility to respect money and credit…
Its your mommy and daddy responsibility not a siblings.
ANNA’s mess no one else’s
"My parents made me who I am today...so, naturally I HATE THE BASTERDS!"
40k IS DRAMATIC
Why don't parents ever realize they made that kid the way she/he is and that's on them.
@@velrc58 cause they make excuses and don't want to see it
Damn at the audacity in a lot of these stories how parents try to make one sibling responsible for the other tell your parents take care of your own damn kid
I love stories about choosing to break bad dynamics
absolutely!!
All of these stories have 1 thing in common... no backbone... people just rolling over
Or, “family helps family “
Or, “first came the guilt tripping phone calls “
Or, “I went no contact “
Then op reads the email messages, then the letters…blah, blah, blah…
Just throw the blasted letters away and don’t answer the phone calls.
It’s not rocket science.
No is the right answer. The enabling has to stop. If you stop enabling her it will get better. Tell mom you’re the selfish one, who enabled this and she needs to hit rock bottom. Spread the story of your parents not understanding what family means Anna needs to step up and help herself.
if you go no contact and stay in the same town, you will NEVER be no contact!
The right thing? How is trying to steal from you and and then sueing you the right thing?! Their problems are their fault and not your responsibility.
Mom and Dad needs to step up get part time job until the little butterfly get out of her bad spending habits. Leave you out of their ,mwill they can take what ever in their will and pay her bills off.
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How can you Threaten someone with cutting them out of a will if you don't up 40k🤔
@@bryanstoudenmire details... lmfao
@satanicmercy7729 OPs parents are threatening to cut him from their will unless he gives his idiot sister 40,000 if I have 40k I'm not worried about being cut out they should pony up the 40k
When they when this person got the letters from their parents, admonishing them and trying to guilt trip them, they just sort of should have taken a magic marker blacked out their address and then wrote on each letter, " RETURN TO SENDER."
A demand for $40,000 isn't something you can just ignore and it will go away.
If you can settle the debt and parents can’t why would you care about being cut off
It's a beautiful thing having the legal rights ❤❤
See a lawyer. Have them sign a contract to put the house into your name in exchange for 40k and the right to live their until they die. Solid investment, and you dont have to worry about them leaving everything to their golden child.
Is that supposed to have been the confrontation? I've seen confrontations of people doing smaller s*** than this and they lost their mind if this is called a confrontation then I'm a stripper and I'm definitely not a stripper.
Any person saying op should help out. You help out if family matters so much. Simple as
You didn’t lock down your credit!
STOP BEGGING!
Be a normal content creator, aay things like, if you enjoy this pls sub...
The channel is NOT losing traction!
You are gaining subs, stfu with trying to guilt the ones already subbed to the channel.
Tell your family "I'm not my sister's/brother's keeper"
I don’t understand why other family say “but they are your family “! I would say they are your family too! You pay their bills see how that gos for you.
Why don't your parents pay your Sisters debt? Sounds like your parents are the Selfish ones!
@@kurtkieffer6305 they are already tapped out.. its how it works
Great story !!!
Some of these stories are unique but a lot of them are just this story. Also why is the older sister always named Anna in these videos? 😂
Dam ur parents are really slow no means no u owe them nothing them or ur siblings
I'm going to be perfectly honest here I really don't understand why the poster is bitching about their family in the beginning of their story but yet by the time they're done with that call with their mom they're over here like oh I feel guilty all because my mom said that my sister's blood will be on my hands and I'm like dude what are you feeling guilty for and on top of that why are you even letting these people like come into your life when you're the one who said you wanted nothing to do with them because of the way they treated you so why is it that this situation is so special and different from what's been going on before that
Love your videos so much
these stories are all the same. why do the extended family not verify the story before accusing OP?
do not give in to them sis made the trouble so she can fix he own debts you must not give a penny to them,,,,,,,,,,get a job or two and fix it yourself
This is definitely an Asian story. Nobody gets sued for a moral obligation to their family. This Story is a croc-a BS
So, by your logic Asia doesn't exist....
So they chucked you away at 18 ....... I wouldnt do anything for any of them
Your stories aren't bad, easy on the ears, but the background videos are absolutely awful. Puts me right off. Can you find something better? Easier on the eye?
AI channels are falling like dominoes, find your real voice, learn to read and try again, traction... HA
Please, get rid of the jumpy background. It's very distracting
People are probably going to get mad at me cuz I'm going to use vulgar language but I don't care. Please explain to me what the fuc but we're family means and they're your family means? Especially when it's other family members saying this to you? The sister is also their family, so why the fuck aren't they paying for her bills???
This screen is so annoying!
AI = dislike
I keep seeing similar stories to this.. probably AI. Thing is this girl has parents and all these relatives who harrass the son to pay for his sister? Sure it would be nice if he helped but shes not his responsibility... the parents are