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I guess, mine all made the mistake of thinking I was insecure enough to try and compete with other women for them. It was never true. I always walked away, yet I still get more trying the same tack. its almost as if they all got the same background evidence folder on me. But they don't understand my real motives. everything I do comes from love not from insecurity or pride - which is what they always deeply believe. That's why they lose. I love and support other women. I love and support men who are loving and supportive to themselves and others. Yes, I fell for the act. They are smooth af. And yes, it was heart breaking when they did things I couldn't make sense of. But because I truly love them and did not want to own them, I simply let them make their own choices and didn't ever try to control them. I let them know their behavior was unacceptalbe and distasteful to me and distanced myself. Ha ha, just because I went through hell with my family, it doesn't mean I believed that was my identity.
Ignoring the Red Flags, and not Admitting these things Exist is truly not reality,You can't fix a Cheater, a Psychopath, or A Narcissist, it's as simple as you can't take Blood from Stone. My husband started getting frequent night calls, when I asked him just waved off those calls as unimportant. At some point i could take no more of his lies, I decided l deserve to know what was going on. Someone on here referred me to this Tech genius who helped cloned his phone without physically touching it. All I did was send his phone number to him and through a remote link sent to my email, I was able to access all of his texts, emails, Facebook and Instagram chats, real-time call listening and her long deleted messages as if the phone was physically with me. He is a narc, a cheater and a terrible liar, I’m glad i found out all his secrets. Perhaps, you are in a similar situation and you need help you can get in touch with him instagram.com/jeanson_james_hack__?
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I feel so bad for the new supply- she has no idea what is coming. His Flying monkeys contact me and tell me that he has a new girlfriend and I’m sure he’s posting it all over social media but I don’t look because I am indifferent and I don’t care anymore.I got the NARP Program and it works it’s also reasonably priced thank you for all that you do Melanie! Your message here is very powerful thank you for breaking it down so clearly best thing I ever did was discard that demon narc. I’m almost a year Narc free and it feels amazing 🙌🙏 Education on TH-cam and your relationship with God is key
My ex Narc lovebomed the new supply for 8 short weeks, he promised her the world and even convinced her to buy a home together. He went from Prince to monster and she was stunned, she reached out to me and I could give her no reasons for his craziness even though I lived it for 18 years
I've been divorced for 1 year and separated for 2 after 22 years of toxic marriage. I have a tendency to think that maybe I became so toxic after all the narc abuse. I feel shame that I did things that made me look like the bad person. He seems to be prospering and living the lap of luxury now. 😔 I am still putting my life back together. He got the house and eveything. I had no energy or health left in me to fight him anymore.
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I'm at this point now. Just last night I told him I wanted a divorce. Today he shut off my phone. I don't know what to do. I'm stuck and have zero places to go. There's no way I can work in this condition. I'm a complete mess
I feel like I'm losing it, they pretend a lot very insecure..always telling you what you did but never admits their wrongs, and stuff they said makes absolutely no sense, I can't rap my mind around it's unbelievable how a person can act like this, they are not human,I don't know what kind of ppl they are, they like to trick they supply until they are drained and they get what they want..I'm so tired..it makes no sense with these kind of people..
The new supply contacted me..he lied to her about me by twisting everything to make him look like the victim. He told her he struggled with cooking so she was doing all the food prep for him and feeding his kids...yet he cooked just fine and was super organised with prep .. LOL. He was desperate for her apparently but she seemed unaware she was a rebound.He talked about me all the time. She knew everything about me. She was in rescue mode, said he needed his mother's love and he'd be fine.. she'd previously had a narc partner. She said he liked her more, said she knew all about narcs and yet they spend 18 months together and she had no idea he was one. She told me she'd broken his heart and I laughed hard. I felt sorry for her. What a mess. I wished her healing and blocked her from my Instagram. It's great to be healed. Single nearly three years, worked on my life and finally living the life I should. 💕 Thanks Mel
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Thank you, this is so helpful 🙏 it’s been 11 months but sometimes it still hurts and messes with my mind. His new supply (the girl I found he was cheating on me with) is everything he said was better than me (younger, white, tattoos, piercings, etc). He was never on social media but after I left him and ended our engagement, he’s on every kind with his “love”. Eww 🤢 I need to remind myself that he didn’t change and she will (if she hasn’t already) be abused as well.
I need to remind myself of the same. His new supply was an old supply that had him blocked for three years. Three weeks after last telling me he loved me and I was the best woman he ever had, he married her. We were previously engaged but I didn’t let him move in with me after he lost his job so he moved back to his home state and rekindled with her.
@@annd1411 Ignoring the Red Flags, and not Admitting these things Exist is truly not reality,You can't fix a Cheater, a Psychopath, or A Narcissist, it's as simple as you can't take Blood from Stone. My husband started getting frequent night calls, when I asked him just waved off those calls as unimportant. At some point i could take no more of his lies, I decided l deserve to know what was going on. Someone on here referred me to this Tech genius who helped cloned his phone without physically touching it. All I did was send his phone number to him and through a remote link sent to my email, I was able to access all of his texts, emails, Facebook and Instagram chats, real-time call listening and her long deleted messages as if the phone was physically with me. He is a narc, a cheater and a terrible liar, I’m glad i found out all his secrets. Perhaps, you are in a similar situation and you need help you can get in touch with him instagram.com/jeanson_james_hack__?
Thank you Melanie!! I am a NAPR THRIVER/survivor!! Thanks to you and your program I am alive. You saved my life and I am eternally grateful. Thank you as well for sharing your story - it really helps! xoxo much love!
I’ve got to saying, having read malignant self love well and listened to Les Carter for 4 years or so, listening to you Melanie has been extremely helpful. Thankyou for sharing your well thought out experiences and knowings on the subject. The way you present your information is very intelligent and I do hope you get the recognition you deserve on this platform. Thankyou truly.
An abusive person can be that way due to just being mean, drug and alcohol problems, problems like ODD or BPD, or a fit f rage, etcthey gaslight and try to drive people crazy, pathological liars, cheaters, etc Get a basic analysis of what your partner does in secret! This professional can get you TEXT MESSAGES! CALL LOGS! EMAILS AND SOCIAL MEDIA all clouds (DELETED AND NON DELETED MESSAGES) and they are legally accepted in court I can also help you access, recover deleted pictures, videos ,child arrangements ,finiancial orders? Research infidelity Battle Blackmail Finding Relatives Surveillance Fake profiles and many more message me privately for help on anything I’m a cyber expert and private investigator
I gave 34yrs..left 2×then 3rd time a charm. I'm free thank God. Went to therapy and he was asked to answer dms 5. He lied and the counselor told him he was not a narc and I was paranoid with his interaction with women. He was a verbal and emotional monster to me and my children. I'm grateful that I found the inner strength to tell him he wasn't that great in or out of bed.he said was the 1st women to ever say that. The relation shit has bleed on so many areas of my life its gonna take a miracle from above. He stole from me..nothing that can't be returned 10 fold. I believe that for me when you have everything you can end up with nothing and when you have nothing you have everything. I still have a beautiful soul..my small circle of family especially my daughter in laws were very jealous and envy of my home belongings and each other. I took the knife out of my back and cut these women out. We live in very messed up times and you'd think family cares..think again. Thank you Melanie 😊 💓
Ignoring the Red Flags, and not Admitting these things Exist is truly not reality,You can't fix a Cheater, a Psychopath, or A Narcissist, it's as simple as you can't take Blood from Stone. My husband started getting frequent night calls, when I asked him just waved off those calls as unimportant. At some point i could take no more of his lies, I decided l deserve to know what was going on. Someone on here referred me to this Tech genius who helped cloned his phone without physically touching it. All I did was send his phone number to him and through a remote link sent to my email, I was able to access all of his texts, emails, Facebook and Instagram chats, real-time call listening and her long deleted messages as if the phone was physically with me. He is a narc, a cheater and a terrible liar, I’m glad i found out all his secrets. Perhaps, you are in a similar situation and you need help you can get in touch with him instagram.com/jeanson_james_hack__?
My ex narc discarded me for an ec supply. I know what he was looking for from her. I rented my place, I was on a disability so my income was low. I had worked 2 jobs before I met him and most of the 10 years I was with him. I now know why I got fired from my job I had been at for 10 years. My boss got an email addressed from me. It was so sickening. I didnt know he was a narc at the time. I was being tortured mentally, emotionally and sexually by this thing, but I stayed and kept trying to make things work. I had called cyber crime because who ever sent this email to my boss had got me fired. In the end of the investigation it was traced back to my cp address. I was in shock. How, I would never do that. I told him what they found. He said sounds like someone hacked my computer. Me not knowing much about this stuff I believed him, I would have never thought my boyfriend would or could do something that cruel. After learning about narcissism I figured it out oh yeah he could and he did. What kind of love is that. I'm an empathy. In 10 years of torture I have never fought back. I forgave him every time with ought as much as an apology. He's never said I'm sorry for anything after all it was always my fault. So 6 months before my final discard I found out by accident what he was and I started studying it. I never said a word. When I seen the discard coming I said no more. He left and went back to an old supply who knew about me but ran around with him for a year before he left me to go back with her. When he did I didn't know he was with her but I knew he had to have someone waiting or he would still be with me. I was right it was her. So while he was off playing house with an ex in another town I went total blackout. I did it so quietly my neighbors didn't know I left. So knowing the ex new supply I knew what he did to her. I didn't know her personally I knew who she was and what happened when they were together before. He tortured me but I never would fight or argue with him. He was always right so what was the point. He lied so much he believed his own lies. So he's tempted me so many time, he would say hit me and get right in my face but I'd walk away. I never hit him and he's never put a hand on me in 10 years. Now this ex he was seeing again oh she had fist fights with him. When I told an ex flying monkey he never hit me she was shocked. He hit all his exes and his ex wife. Oh I got mine in other ways but never hit. So now she was back and running around with him. He told her he quit drinking which was a lie. She must have thought he changed big time. Her relationship with him before lasted 2 years. He was with me for 10. So she wanted him back. She got him. She married him in 3 months after he left me. Guess he had to get married because he was tired of playing the good guy he had to get back to being him. But she knew what the last time with him was like. He's good at what he does I'll give him that. See I had nothing more to give him. I was sexually tortured by him to the point I had 2 sergeries. So I finally said no more. I can't let this happen anymore, but I was already into learning what they are capable of. So I finally said no more. He was pissed he left me about a month later. The day he left he said he needs to be by himself it was during covid. I told him its only us so why are you worried. He said he can't get civic or he will die because he has COPD. Well I wasn't around anyone I knew this was my discard. That night he sent a text, go find someone who doesn't drink that will make me happy because hes not stopping for anyone. So I never said anything until he said but I'll miss the grandchildren,all mine but he was there for 5 births out of 7 he was grampy, so he said I'll miss the grandkids, I love them. Then I texted back you don't love anyone, period. Then I blocked him. So I was just used for his sick sex fantasies till I said no more. But the ex new supply was working and had her own home. Oh he said he'd have his own home again someday. But he knew it wasn't going to be from me. So she married him, I got to laugh it won't be long before she has nothing. He's been with her 2 years now. I'd say almost time to make his move and now his name is on everything. Well she thought he changed he was still with me 10 years. Guess she wanted him back so bad she knew about me and it didn't stop her. Well she deserves what she gets. Oh I forgot to tell you, she was the ex wife's best friend when she took him from her. Karmas coming that's all I can say. They deserve what they get. I'll leave that to god. Well I just wrote a book lol. God bless. Keep up the great work.❤❤🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Should add Dr Les Carter for me has been a life saver throughout my relationship. Listening to you though Melanie somehow cuts deeper for me into waking up to the need to leave. Life force is so important to guard and impossible with a npd sufferer. It’s tough but it’s true. Thanks again you are really walking in your genius here on TH-cam. God bless you and more power to you.
I need some help I broke up with this demon of a girl, I left to travel home for a bit I came back and she started a smear campaign throughout my community. It’s evil. I e listen to quite a few of your videos you’re one of my favorites. I need some help. I’m uncomfortable in my own apt I don’t want to even show my face here. The bad thing is she’s the leasing office manager it’s a huge apt complex so she knows a lot of people and she does the whole I’m kind and sweet gossiper that would normally not say cut others down” sorta Narc. I want to be vindicated but she’s way to good at this. I’m empathetic for her. Now I’m at a lost for words. Should I leave my community where I have lived for 5 yrs?
Ignoring the Red Flags, and not Admitting these things Exist is truly not reality,You can't fix a Cheater, a Psychopath, or A Narcissist, it's as simple as you can't take Blood from Stone. My husband started getting frequent night calls, when I asked him just waved off those calls as unimportant. At some point i could take no more of his lies, I decided l deserve to know what was going on. Someone on here referred me to this Tech genius who helped cloned his phone without physically touching it. All I did was send his phone number to him and through a remote link sent to my email, I was able to access all of his texts, emails, Facebook and Instagram chats, real-time call listening and her long deleted messages as if the phone was physically with me. He is a narc, a cheater and a terrible liar, I’m glad i found out all his secrets. Perhaps, you are in a similar situation and you need help you can get in touch with him instagram.com/jeanson_james_hack__?
It’s a term used in the business world on how to keep an employee who is planning to quit. They give the employee a raise, a bonus or maybe a vehicle which can make it harder to quit the job that they are unhappy with. In my marriage he made sure I was living a beautiful lifestyle where he made sure that I had so many things that I loved. I thought the gifts were because he loved me. No, it was a trap. He wanted my eyes to be on the gifts more than the abuse. The abuse outgrew the gifts and I divorced him, he learned that I was not for sell. Also, since I worked the entire marriage of 35 1/2yrs that means that I helped pay for those gifts which put me in Golden Handcuffs. Take care of yourself, God bless you and keep you safe. I am grateful. Debbie
Melanie you seem very truthful and sweet and your agenda seems to be relatively pure but you should really address the fact that a lot of the women in your audience want men with money and a lot of single men with money have significant narcissistic tendencies.
Idk but the narcissist treated his sons mother way better than me, he posted pictures with her all the time and triangulated me with her, he never once posted pictures of us and he kept her on his social media and took me off and eventually he left me for her, she got all the gud treatment while he was with me, she got everything I wanted
I was discarded after 25 yrs of abuse by the narc and his handler narc 'mother' he ran off 8 yrs ago and re married, apparently his wifey is extremely controlling she also collects $500 wk rent from him? LOL.
The proven 10-step system to heal each wound sustained through narcissistic abuse. The Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Program: courses.melanietoniaevans.com/p/narp 🦋
I guess, mine all made the mistake of thinking I was insecure enough to try and compete with other women for them. It was never true. I always walked away, yet I still get more trying the same tack. its almost as if they all got the same background evidence folder on me. But they don't understand my real motives. everything I do comes from love not from insecurity or pride - which is what they always deeply believe. That's why they lose. I love and support other women. I love and support men who are loving and supportive to themselves and others. Yes, I fell for the act. They are smooth af. And yes, it was heart breaking when they did things I couldn't make sense of. But because I truly love them and did not want to own them, I simply let them make their own choices and didn't ever try to control them. I let them know their behavior was unacceptalbe and distasteful to me and distanced myself. Ha ha, just because I went through hell with my family, it doesn't mean I believed that was my identity.
Ignoring the Red Flags, and not Admitting these things Exist is truly not reality,You can't fix a Cheater, a Psychopath, or A Narcissist, it's as simple as you can't take Blood from Stone. My husband started getting frequent night calls, when I asked him just waved off those calls as unimportant. At some point i could take no more of his lies, I decided l deserve to know what was going on. Someone on here referred me to this Tech genius who helped cloned his phone without physically touching it. All I did was send his phone number to him and through a remote link sent to my email, I was able to access all of his texts, emails, Facebook and Instagram chats, real-time call listening and her long deleted messages as if the phone was physically with me. He is a narc, a cheater and a terrible liar, I’m glad i found out all his secrets. Perhaps, you are in a similar situation and you need help you can get in touch with him
instagram.com/jeanson_james_hack__?
An abusive person can be that way due to just being mean, drug and alcohol problems, problems like ODD or BPD, or a fit f rage, etcthey gaslight and try to drive people crazy, pathological liars, cheaters, etc Get a basic analysis of what your partner does in secret! This professional can get you TEXT MESSAGES! CALL LOGS! EMAILS AND SOCIAL MEDIA all clouds (DELETED AND NON DELETED MESSAGES) and they are legally accepted in court
I can also help you access, recover deleted pictures, videos ,child arrangements ,finiancial orders?
Research infidelity
Battle Blackmail
Finding Relatives
Surveillance
Fake profiles and many more
message me privately for
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Love this! “This person wasn’t the healer of our wounds, they were the messenger.”
Thank you🙏🏽
Really good way to put it!
I feel so bad for the new supply- she has no idea what is coming. His Flying monkeys contact me and tell me that he has a new girlfriend and I’m sure he’s posting it all over social media but I don’t look because I am indifferent and I don’t care anymore.I got the NARP Program and it works it’s also reasonably priced thank you for all that you do Melanie! Your message here is very powerful thank you for breaking it down so clearly best thing I ever did was discard that demon narc. I’m almost a year Narc free and it feels amazing 🙌🙏 Education on TH-cam and your relationship with God is key
My ex Narc lovebomed the new supply for 8 short weeks, he promised her the world and even convinced her to buy a home together. He went from Prince to monster and she was stunned, she reached out to me and I could give her no reasons for his craziness even though I lived it for 18 years
I've been divorced for 1 year and separated for 2 after 22 years of toxic marriage. I have a tendency to think that maybe I became so toxic after all the narc abuse. I feel shame that I did things that made me look like the bad person. He seems to be prospering and living the lap of luxury now. 😔 I am still putting my life back together. He got the house and eveything. I had no energy or health left in me to fight him anymore.
An abusive person can be that way due to just being mean, drug and alcohol problems, problems like ODD or BPD, or a fit f rage, etcthey gaslight and try to drive people crazy, pathological liars, cheaters, etc Get a basic analysis of what your partner does in secret! This professional can get you TEXT MESSAGES! CALL LOGS! EMAILS AND SOCIAL MEDIA all clouds (DELETED AND NON DELETED MESSAGES) and they are legally accepted in court
I can also help you access, recover deleted pictures, videos ,child arrangements ,finiancial orders?
Research infidelity
Battle Blackmail
Finding Relatives
Surveillance
Fake profiles and many more
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I'm at this point now. Just last night I told him I wanted a divorce. Today he shut off my phone. I don't know what to do. I'm stuck and have zero places to go. There's no way I can work in this condition. I'm a complete mess
How did he get the house?
I feel like I'm losing it, they pretend a lot very insecure..always telling you what you did but never admits their wrongs, and stuff they said makes absolutely no sense, I can't rap my mind around it's unbelievable how a person can act like this, they are not human,I don't know what kind of ppl they are, they like to trick they supply until they are drained and they get what they want..I'm so tired..it makes no sense with these kind of people..
The new supply contacted me..he lied to her about me by twisting everything to make him look like the victim. He told her he struggled with cooking so she was doing all the food prep for him and feeding his kids...yet he cooked just fine and was super organised with prep .. LOL. He was desperate for her apparently but she seemed unaware she was a rebound.He talked about me all the time. She knew everything about me.
She was in rescue mode, said he needed his mother's love and he'd be fine.. she'd previously had a narc partner.
She said he liked her more, said she knew all about narcs and yet they spend 18 months together and she had no idea he was one. She told me she'd broken his heart and I laughed hard. I felt sorry for her. What a mess.
I wished her healing and blocked her from my Instagram.
It's great to be healed. Single nearly three years, worked on my life and finally living the life I should. 💕
Thanks Mel
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Thank you, this is so helpful 🙏 it’s been 11 months but sometimes it still hurts and messes with my mind. His new supply (the girl I found he was cheating on me with) is everything he said was better than me (younger, white, tattoos, piercings, etc). He was never on social media but after I left him and ended our engagement, he’s on every kind with his “love”. Eww 🤢 I need to remind myself that he didn’t change and she will (if she hasn’t already) be abused as well.
I need to remind myself of the same. His new supply was an old supply that had him blocked for three years. Three weeks after last telling me he loved me and I was the best woman he ever had, he married her. We were previously engaged but I didn’t let him move in with me after he lost his job so he moved back to his home state and rekindled with her.
@@annd1411 Ignoring the Red Flags, and not Admitting these things Exist is truly not reality,You can't fix a Cheater, a Psychopath, or A Narcissist, it's as simple as you can't take Blood from Stone. My husband started getting frequent night calls, when I asked him just waved off those calls as unimportant. At some point i could take no more of his lies, I decided l deserve to know what was going on. Someone on here referred me to this Tech genius who helped cloned his phone without physically touching it. All I did was send his phone number to him and through a remote link sent to my email, I was able to access all of his texts, emails, Facebook and Instagram chats, real-time call listening and her long deleted messages as if the phone was physically with me. He is a narc, a cheater and a terrible liar, I’m glad i found out all his secrets. Perhaps, you are in a similar situation and you need help you can get in touch with him
instagram.com/jeanson_james_hack__?
Thank you Melanie!! I am a NAPR THRIVER/survivor!! Thanks to you and your program I am alive. You saved my life and I am eternally grateful. Thank you as well for sharing your story - it really helps! xoxo much love!
Amen to that...😇🙏🏼😊
Thank you, this very much confused me!! It shows what top predators they are, they cater their abuse to each individual.
This resonates with me.
Working each day with letting go.
I’ve got to saying, having read malignant self love well and listened to Les Carter for 4 years or so, listening to you Melanie has been extremely helpful. Thankyou for sharing your well thought out experiences and knowings on the subject. The way you present your information is very intelligent and I do hope you get the recognition you deserve on this platform. Thankyou truly.
You are telling my story literally. Dear God.
An abusive person can be that way due to just being mean, drug and alcohol problems, problems like ODD or BPD, or a fit f rage, etcthey gaslight and try to drive people crazy, pathological liars, cheaters, etc Get a basic analysis of what your partner does in secret! This professional can get you TEXT MESSAGES! CALL LOGS! EMAILS AND SOCIAL MEDIA all clouds (DELETED AND NON DELETED MESSAGES) and they are legally accepted in court
I can also help you access, recover deleted pictures, videos ,child arrangements ,finiancial orders?
Research infidelity
Battle Blackmail
Finding Relatives
Surveillance
Fake profiles and many more
message me privately for
help on anything I’m a cyber expert and private investigator
I gave 34yrs..left 2×then 3rd time a charm. I'm free thank God. Went to therapy and he was asked to answer dms 5. He lied and the counselor told him he was not a narc and I was paranoid with his interaction with women. He was a verbal and emotional monster to me and my children. I'm grateful that I found the inner strength to tell him he wasn't that great in or out of bed.he said was the 1st women to ever say that. The relation shit has bleed on so many areas of my life its gonna take a miracle from above. He stole from me..nothing that can't be returned 10 fold. I believe that for me when you have everything you can end up with nothing and when you have nothing you have everything. I still have a beautiful soul..my small circle of family especially my daughter in laws were very jealous and envy of my home belongings and each other. I took the knife out of my back and cut these women out. We live in very messed up times and you'd think family cares..think again. Thank you Melanie 😊 💓
Ignoring the Red Flags, and not Admitting these things Exist is truly not reality,You can't fix a Cheater, a Psychopath, or A Narcissist, it's as simple as you can't take Blood from Stone. My husband started getting frequent night calls, when I asked him just waved off those calls as unimportant. At some point i could take no more of his lies, I decided l deserve to know what was going on. Someone on here referred me to this Tech genius who helped cloned his phone without physically touching it. All I did was send his phone number to him and through a remote link sent to my email, I was able to access all of his texts, emails, Facebook and Instagram chats, real-time call listening and her long deleted messages as if the phone was physically with me. He is a narc, a cheater and a terrible liar, I’m glad i found out all his secrets. Perhaps, you are in a similar situation and you need help you can get in touch with him
instagram.com/jeanson_james_hack__?
One of your best videos yet. And, that's a very high bar. Thank you. xo
Thank you Melanie for all your wisdom and love ❤️
So true having several on the side in advance
My ex narc discarded me for an ec supply. I know what he was looking for from her. I rented my place, I was on a disability so my income was low. I had worked 2 jobs before I met him and most of the 10 years I was with him. I now know why I got fired from my job I had been at for 10 years. My boss got an email addressed from me. It was so sickening. I didnt know he was a narc at the time. I was being tortured mentally, emotionally and sexually by this thing, but I stayed and kept trying to make things work. I had called cyber crime because who ever sent this email to my boss had got me fired. In the end of the investigation it was traced back to my cp address. I was in shock. How, I would never do that. I told him what they found. He said sounds like someone hacked my computer. Me not knowing much about this stuff I believed him, I would have never thought my boyfriend would or could do something that cruel. After learning about narcissism I figured it out oh yeah he could and he did. What kind of love is that. I'm an empathy. In 10 years of torture I have never fought back. I forgave him every time with ought as much as an apology. He's never said I'm sorry for anything after all it was always my fault. So 6 months before my final discard I found out by accident what he was and I started studying it. I never said a word. When I seen the discard coming I said no more. He left and went back to an old supply who knew about me but ran around with him for a year before he left me to go back with her. When he did I didn't know he was with her but I knew he had to have someone waiting or he would still be with me. I was right it was her. So while he was off playing house with an ex in another town I went total blackout. I did it so quietly my neighbors didn't know I left. So knowing the ex new supply I knew what he did to her. I didn't know her personally I knew who she was and what happened when they were together before. He tortured me but I never would fight or argue with him. He was always right so what was the point. He lied so much he believed his own lies. So he's tempted me so many time, he would say hit me and get right in my face but I'd walk away. I never hit him and he's never put a hand on me in 10 years. Now this ex he was seeing again oh she had fist fights with him. When I told an ex flying monkey he never hit me she was shocked. He hit all his exes and his ex wife. Oh I got mine in other ways but never hit. So now she was back and running around with him. He told her he quit drinking which was a lie. She must have thought he changed big time. Her relationship with him before lasted 2 years. He was with me for 10. So she wanted him back. She got him. She married him in 3 months after he left me. Guess he had to get married because he was tired of playing the good guy he had to get back to being him. But she knew what the last time with him was like. He's good at what he does I'll give him that. See I had nothing more to give him. I was sexually tortured by him to the point I had 2 sergeries. So I finally said no more. I can't let this happen anymore, but I was already into learning what they are capable of. So I finally said no more. He was pissed he left me about a month later. The day he left he said he needs to be by himself it was during covid. I told him its only us so why are you worried. He said he can't get civic or he will die because he has COPD. Well I wasn't around anyone I knew this was my discard. That night he sent a text, go find someone who doesn't drink that will make me happy because hes not stopping for anyone. So I never said anything until he said but I'll miss the grandchildren,all mine but he was there for 5 births out of 7 he was grampy, so he said I'll miss the grandkids, I love them. Then I texted back you don't love anyone, period. Then I blocked him. So I was just used for his sick sex fantasies till I said no more. But the ex new supply was working and had her own home. Oh he said he'd have his own home again someday. But he knew it wasn't going to be from me. So she married him, I got to laugh it won't be long before she has nothing. He's been with her 2 years now. I'd say almost time to make his move and now his name is on everything. Well she thought he changed he was still with me 10 years. Guess she wanted him back so bad she knew about me and it didn't stop her. Well she deserves what she gets. Oh I forgot to tell you, she was the ex wife's best friend when she took him from her. Karmas coming that's all I can say. They deserve what they get. I'll leave that to god. Well I just wrote a book lol. God bless. Keep up the great work.❤❤🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Should add Dr Les Carter for me has been a life saver throughout my relationship. Listening to you though Melanie somehow cuts deeper for me into waking up to the need to leave. Life force is so important to guard and impossible with a npd sufferer. It’s tough but it’s true. Thanks again you are really walking in your genius here on TH-cam. God bless you and more power to you.
Yep....tailored abuse...they are insane
I need some help I broke up with this demon of a girl, I left to travel home for a bit I came back and she started a smear campaign throughout my community. It’s evil. I e listen to quite a few of your videos you’re one of my favorites. I need some help. I’m uncomfortable in my own apt I don’t want to even show my face here. The bad thing is she’s the leasing office manager it’s a huge apt complex so she knows a lot of people and she does the whole I’m kind and sweet gossiper that would normally not say cut others down” sorta Narc. I want to be vindicated but she’s way to good at this. I’m empathetic for her. Now I’m at a lost for words. Should I leave my community where I have lived for 5 yrs?
Ignoring the Red Flags, and not Admitting these things Exist is truly not reality,You can't fix a Cheater, a Psychopath, or A Narcissist, it's as simple as you can't take Blood from Stone. My husband started getting frequent night calls, when I asked him just waved off those calls as unimportant. At some point i could take no more of his lies, I decided l deserve to know what was going on. Someone on here referred me to this Tech genius who helped cloned his phone without physically touching it. All I did was send his phone number to him and through a remote link sent to my email, I was able to access all of his texts, emails, Facebook and Instagram chats, real-time call listening and her long deleted messages as if the phone was physically with me. He is a narc, a cheater and a terrible liar, I’m glad i found out all his secrets. Perhaps, you are in a similar situation and you need help you can get in touch with him
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So good
Narcs and empaths are the same. Both very very wounded and messed up people.
That is true. 😞😞😞
But empaths can heal, self reflect and make better choices.
Golden Handcuffs. He put Golden Handcuffs on me without me knowing it until it was time for me to divorce him.
What does this mean??
It’s a term used in the business world on how to keep an employee who is planning to quit. They give the employee a raise, a bonus or maybe a vehicle which can make it harder to quit the job that they are unhappy with. In my marriage he made sure I was living a beautiful lifestyle where he made sure that I had so many things that I loved. I thought the gifts were because he loved me. No, it was a trap. He wanted my eyes to be on the gifts more than the abuse. The abuse outgrew the gifts and I divorced him, he learned that I was not for sell. Also, since I worked the entire marriage of 35 1/2yrs that means that I helped pay for those gifts which put me in Golden Handcuffs. Take care of yourself, God bless you and keep you safe. I am grateful. Debbie
Melanie you seem very truthful and sweet and your agenda seems to be relatively pure but you should really address the fact that a lot of the women in your audience want men with money and a lot of single men with money have significant narcissistic tendencies.
Idk but the narcissist treated his sons mother way better than me, he posted pictures with her all the time and triangulated me with her, he never once posted pictures of us and he kept her on his social media and took me off and eventually he left me for her, she got all the gud treatment while he was with me, she got everything I wanted
I accidentally thumbs down. Right afterwards I thumbs up.
It wont last
I was discarded after 25 yrs of abuse by the narc and his handler narc 'mother' he ran off 8 yrs ago and re married, apparently his wifey is extremely controlling she also collects $500 wk rent from him? LOL.
Where is the cat?
greetings. someone is using your website to scam people, it just happened to me. please contact me...
Harsh
Also some narcs marry narcs as some kind of deal