I was 17 when I found out I was going to be a father.. She was born 2 months after my 18th birthday... And when she was 9 months old I was a single father but I did it... My daughter is now 35 with a master's in Psychology and just blessed me with a grandson last week...
I was 22 when my first daughter was born!! I have 5 grown children 3 girls 2 boys and I can honestly say that if Not for my First & oldest daughter I would have ended Up in prison and her baby sisters and brothers would not exist and she knows it and The Love of a father for his baby girl even though she is 33,her sisters are 31, and the baby will be 22+in March but they'll forever be my baby GIRLS
If not for my second born child daughter I would have never made it past the loss of my best friend please understand he was 10 years older than I and I was 14 when we met and truly the best easiest way to describe our relationship is just that snippet from Southeast that is trending where Ben affleck's character says to Jeremy Renner hey I need you to come with me you can't ask me why you can never asked me about it bring it up and we're going to hurt some people and Jeremy renner's character simply says whose car are we going to take because it is very actions speak louder than words and when someone repeatedly has your back physically and when you're told stories by other people how was speaking Bad about you and then the person telling you the story tells you that the Same person who has physically had your back you now find out has your back when you're not even in the room because as the person said when you're real BFF STANDS UP TELLS THE PERSON SPEAKING bad about YOU IF HE HERE'S YOUR NAME COME OUT OF THAT PERSON'S MOUTH (1+MORE TIME YOUR BFF TELLS HIM FACE TO FACE NOT ONLINE WERE EVERYONE IS A TUFF GUY WE THROW AROUND BFF WITHOUT ANY MEANING BEHIND IT LIKE YOUR SHOPPING BUDDY IS NOT YOUR BFF TRUST ME IT'S AN OLD SAYING BUT VERY ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS
My father left when I was 11. Watched him leave down the drive. When my wife got pregnant in 2000,I was scared to death. I thought back, I told my self, I don't know what kinda dad I'm gonna be, one thing I know is I'll be there always. She's now 24 and a chemical Engineer. I did one thing right in my life. She's now successful and my best friend. Thanx for all your help Jesus.
Yeah well most people that prop up the people everyone idolizes are under appreciated :P For the most part the songwriters are the real superstars. Without them 90% of the “artists” out there would be toast :P
ditto , I was also a Mom @ 15- now 62 with 7 kids & 7 grandkids & been married 26 yrs since 1993 & as of Easter 1994 that baby boy I had @ 15 calls me MOM & his name is Adam & just as they promised me they would do- His parents told Adam about me. I will never forget that phone call.. ever, so our blended family w/6 kids proudly was always 7 & @ 18 yrs old his 100 % sister finally met the brother she’d known of since she was 5 & who we cried for every March 9th #Blessed❤
@@debbiemulcahy-cugier5839I am about your age and I don't have any family. You are truly blessed!! Seems I just started to figure things out in the last 10 years or so...
My Mom just passed away last night, she was my rock. She raised 4 kids by herself when my Dad left her for another woman. 4 kids 6yrs old and under. No money, no support. We saw him 2 times after that. She struggled and scraped and raised us right. She was my hero. Good bye Mom I love you.
Thank you for appreciating your single mother and I’m sorry you lost her too soon but I understand. I was adopted and all my adopted family died very young and it’s just me and my son and I appreciate him every single day.
At 56 my life changed when a little girl was born to my son and his girlfriend. Neither of the two parents were responsible then, nor now, and capable of taking care of her. She just turned 7, and this past March the adoption was completed, and she is ours. Yes, my retirement plans have changed, my entire life has changed, and just now my little girl came and asked for help only moments ago - while I was writing this tribute to her. Yes, she changed my life and every day I struggle to do my best to give her the childhood she deserves; my little gift from God.
Your an Angel, God put you here to be HER mother....God Bless You and that little girl, this song gets me every time, and life is so short I know just lost my husband of 43 yrs your giving her a chance at a great life, and your putting ❤ a sense of stability, and a forever momma....like I said Angel ....🎉
As a woman who's husband left during my high risk pregnancy, I commend all these great fathers who stepped into parenting, scared as hell but did whatever they needed to do. Being a single parent isn't easy but the rewards are endless. My daughter just graduated from medical school, has the best husband & I couldn't be more proud. As parents we all want is the best for our children.
Susan, I concur... and I'm glad you made it through the miracle of growing your baby, through that pain... I KNOW. 💕 On the step up fathers .. I often think of B.Paisley's"He Didn't Have to Be" ... 🥲🙏🏼
I ask God and my child that was never born that they forgive me for choosing the easy way out, because I was only 17 at the time . I’m now 60 and the pain I live with is haunting at times.
You were forgiven long ago by God and her. She is waiting in Heaven for you. We tend to hold on to our mistakes and pain. Be loving and compassionate to yourself. You are loved. Be blessed and happy.
I work with men just like you. I have the same story. God has forgiven you, but healing is another matter altogether. I helped write a book with other men that have the same story. Reclaiming Fatherhood is a book to help you heal. Please reach out for help. God wants you to have peace. I can help you through this.
At 22 years old I found out I would be a father. Young scared and confused. This song touches my soul. My daughter will be turning 7 this May. And my other daughter will be 2 in May. Yes. They are MY LIFE. God bless.
Best of luck to you my friend. I was 16 and found out my girlfriend was pregnant. By 26 I had 4 children. Three girls and a baby boy. Fast forward.... Have 6 great grand children, 3-Daughters, our son was murdered in 2014, but we still have a relationship with the daughter he never met. My son was 19 when he was killed. Brother, "Don't blink". I'm noy to old, just 50. Son keep your head straight on the path for your family. Family is all you have!!!
i feel this so much i was 19 when i found out and man i was so so scared shes now 3 and doing amazing i was terrified i wouldnt be enough but she shows me every day i am!!!
Wendell's voice is world class. Gave me the chills, so much emotion. As a father, I'm scared to see the day my children are old enough to live without me.
It’s not fun guys but it gets better I have 3 girls 30,27,12 the older 2 I rarely see they live across country from me, but my 12 yr old helps! It’s nice though when you can sit back and watch them raising their babies and they make you proud! You can sit back and go alright they grew up right and got what I was trying to teach them!
I would also think having a superstar sing your song would be more lucrative for the songwriter. Trying to sing it yourself would be a bit of a gamble and maybe risk the song never seeing the light of day. However, that guy does have a great voice and very nice delivery.
I wanted to be a Dad so bad my whole life & would tear up during this song just at the THOUGHT of being able to love a little girl so much. FINALLY, at age 56 in March of '23, my wife & I adopted a sibling set of 2 boys & 1 girl. I obviously love them all, but my daughter & I have an incredible bond, and I love her more than I thought possible. NOW this song takes on a new meaning to me and will no doubt have me weeping uncontrollably the day she leaves the house.
This song is one of my favorites by Kenny Chesney who does an outstanding job with it. But when I heard Wendell's version sung together with Kenny, WOW! I like their duet even better. It's fantastic!
I’m an Iraq and Afghan vet. My heart was broken after my tours of duty. I carried that around with me for so long and then my son was born. He put my heart back together and gave me a second chance to be happy. This song is hard to listen to without getting emotional because I know I’ll be heartbroken when he grows up and leaves to start his life. Beautiful song
This is my cry song. My daughter and I were going through some pretty bad times. She wanted to go to college at US San Diego and wore those Abercrombie clothes with lots of shoes and a Honda. Instead, she finished school in Texas and has ended up on the East Coast. I’ll always be the lady you see at Kenny’s concerts crying, even if she’s standing next to me.
I remember dropping off my daughter at college. Her & I had been through a lot since her Mom/my wife had passed away midway through her senior year in high school. Yes, my daughter’s Honda was loaded down with tons of clothes, shoes & my American Express. After she was completely settled in, I gave her a big hug, told her how much her mother & I loved her & I walked down to my truck where I cried. This song always hits home with me.
This song often brings tears. Not to sound sappy..lol. me and the old lady were 17 and 16 when we welcomed our first baby boy. Now we got 3! Maybe have lost a college scholarship but it was the best mistake we ever made. Just wish they would stop growing so fast.
Life experience is way more valuable than a piece of paper that end in massive debt. Count your blessings brother, and yes, they grow too fast. Last one just graduated.... Never be afraid to let them know you love them.
What a masterpiece of a song 🎵 I had my son very young and I can relate to 🎶 to this song totally 👍 but I wouldn’t change a thing 😊the decision I made I would never change 😊 and I am happy 😊 I did 😊 this song is very special to me 💙💙💕💕🤗🤗
A little more than 17 years ago, not a young man but hoping and dreaming i would one day be a father this song came out. I was scared but excited. Next weekend we take our OUR son out to the University of Chicago to start his freshman year. Brilliant and beautiful he is. The hardest and best job i ever had - being a father. What a blessing so late in life. This song nails it....
I’m not crying! You’re crying! Lol I love this song. Gets me every time. I was a dad by 19 and 4 kids now, my world, my little girl recently turned 2. They’re my blessing
matchbox3eb No some one is cutting onions. I started late did not have my first biological kid till I was 37. Then we had four more. My first two kids are not biologically mine, but they are. Now we have seven beautiful kids. Love the song by Brad Paisley he didn’t have to be. Yes they are a blessing. 4 girls 3 boys.
My daughter will be 4 next week. I’m a pro mma fighter. Sometimes there’s a stigma on how fighters are so “tough” but... this song breaks me down every time I listen. I love this song.
The truth is singers would be nothing without the incredible songs of the great songwriters. I can't tell you how many songs have been sung that are forgetful as soon as the song is over no matter how incredibly well sung as opposed to just an average singer singing an incredible song that sticks with you the rest of the day and you're humming it everywhere you go. Then of course those rare times where incredible singers get paired up with incredible songs....which is what turns singers into superstars.
The energy on that stage is amazing. They’re not playing like the powerhouses they are, they’re just having a good time like a bunch of normal guys. I wish I could’ve been that audience
MUSIC IS LIFE! (Think of the soccer dude on Ted Lasso joyously yelling "FUTBOL' IS LIFE!!" I love this song, these voices. Music in my life is a necessity.
My daughter gave birth to my grandaughter in 2002 when she was 20. My daughter would sing this to Skye. I lost my daughter last yr. My grandaughter is surfing in Hawaii right now. 🤙💖 Bittersweet memories filled with with love... Sending love to you Mae!💖💖💖
So sorry about your loss. I lost my wife when she was 42 and left me with twins boy and girl. One day you will see him again he will sing the song again
I was 25 years old when my daughter was born, and I thought I was prepared. Seeing my daughter be born absolutely floored me, and I cried like a baby. She changed my life, and I love her dearly. She is my oldest of 3, having 2 sons later on. All of my children have my heart and my undivided love. At 55 years old, I am now a grandfather, as my daughter has blessed our family with 2 boys. This song really hits home and makes one think about what is really important in life. Children are a blessing.
I am 56 years old and my daughter is 34 it wasn’t even a second thought on what song her and I would dance to at her Wedding just a few years ago the Dance was a real Challenge and Special to us as years Earlier I suffered a Major Stroke and lost 90 to 95% of my brains right hemisphere during a emergency heart operation to repair a condition that only 10% of the people Survive ! , Although technically insurance wont pay for Dancing lessons my Physical Therapist and I practiced moving to the song when doing Strenghth and Balance Exercises before the Wedding and i got to share the dance with one of the prettiest Btides Ever ! After i walked her down the Aisle earlier this that day in Key West Florida fast foward a few years and now I am a Grandfather to a 15 month old Granddaughter who is almost a exact copy of her Mother at that age and is Wonderful to watch growing up
LOVE this song because no child...is a mistake...sometimes bad timing...saving the parents..that did not know They were lost....hugs to all that have been there...
@@Claymore1977 Maybe your parents show not have produced. As for Hitler, he was not always evil. Every mass murderer, is in someway mentally ill, or they would not have done as they did...God has a purpose for ever child. The reason there are do many children...is because if THEY had to support the ones they have there would not be do many.
@@Claymore1977 yes there are too many people in this world. You must be the one too many. Every child on this earth has a spirit. That spirit belongs to God. You want to bash on children well they weren't asked to be born. All children deserve a chance in life.
I’m a HUGE Kenny Chesney fan but this other man (the song writer) outsings Kenny in a heartbeat. How did he not record it himself?!!! Awesome vocals and a beautiful song.
I was there,once, did not go well...I am 65 and I doubt I ever get over that, but I do what I can...and I still miss her and Our son...life is good even with the heartaches
"Couple years of up all night and a few thousand diapers later. That mistake he thought he made, covers up the refrigerator" kicks my ass and makes me cry every time.... I love my boys 💙❤️💙❤️
Never had any kids, but every time I hear that line I’m reminded of an old tough biker dude whose wife rode off & left him with a baby boy. Shortly afterwards, he married a woman with a young child, & the artwork overflowed on the refrigerator. He said, “We’re gonna have to get a bigger refrigerator!”. That was so out of character for him, it made me smile. Unfortunately, his son passed away a hero, 13 years later, fighting a fire.
I cannot imagine, never having children, to carry on our family name. I hope you don’t regret, not having children, because that could be quite haunting.
This song reminds me of both of my oldest sons. They both found out 2 mths before they turned 19 that they were going to be daddy's. They both stepped up and have done a fantastic job so far. My oldest has three girls now at 24 yrs old. My middle son still has just the one daughter qnd he is 21 now. Each of my precious granddaughters have the best daddy's they could have ever asked for!!!
First time I ever went to nashville , I met Wendell in a bar after an awards show. I remember that I didn't fit in with the crowd as I was wearing tattered jeans and button down shirt that was untucked. Everyone else was dressed to the nines in finding Wendell. However I struck up a conversation with him and he bought me a beer. I noticed he had an award ,but didn't ask what it was for, only later did I find out that he had written this song and had won the award for writing it. Still one of the best songs Kenny ever recorded.
Most songwriters don't want the fame and stardom. They just want to write what their heart is telling them and give that amazing piece of poetry to someone who understands and respects it. Kenney, clearly a perfect candidate. I can name dozens of amazing writers who never wanted that fame. Those are the real music heroes. The writers.
Love hearing this song. When I was 14 just going into high school, I found out I was going to be a father in the 8th grade, very scary time, but I stuck with it, my daughter is now 11 and she is my entire world.
Saw your post and was filled with admiration. Most people when life throws them adversity they say why me, if I understand your post correctly you became a father at 15 and it worked out to be something good. Most people would have considered this to be a life altering mistake and you made it it out to be a good thin. I admire your actions and the way you made lemonade out of sour lemons. I truly admire you and wish I as well as most people had the follow through to make something fod out of something that most people would consider terrible. I truly admire you and don’t even know who you are.
I love this version of this song so, so, SO MUCH! The cry in your voice gives me goosebumps every time I hear it! I can feel every heartbeat in this song. I'm so sorry for all you had to go through for this song to be written. I can't even imagine. Just know your baby in heaven hears you when you sing! God bless you!
Brings me to tears every time I hear this. I remember 9 years ago listening to this wondering how was I going to raise a little girl. Ended up not only doing a good job but also she ended up being my entire world. Two years ago ended up becoming addicted to opiates, my dad took her from me right from under my feet. Been sober for a year and two months, however he has yet to give her back or even give me the time of the day. Breaks my heart beyond words
I just realized this. His dreams of living on the coast never got fulfilled, but as his daughter moved to the west coast, she fulfilled his dreams for him.
Kenny Chesney are the best I’ve been listening to you for 20 some years and my daughter also she’s 28. She still loves all your music. Keep him coming.
Damn this really is a deeply moving song. 1st verse is him thinking his life is over 2nd verse is him accepting his life and loving his daughter 3rd verse is him understanding that his life (referring to his daughter) is moving away
You can love parents. You can love family. You can love your partner. Real love comes when you have a child in your life - it's the most beautiful, intense love ever! Breathtaking, rewarding and just the best and most rewarding experience ever - from the proudest, happiest Daddy ever! xx
By the time I was 26 yrs old (1996) I finally got my boy. He was the youngest, with 3 older sisters. My wife and I started young too. My son was murdered in March of 2014. Please always let your youngins know you love them by saying you love them and showing a little compassion. My last words to my son was "I love ya and I'll see ya when I see ya". I could go into the whole thing which wasn't bad. Point being is tell all your loved ones you love them and talk with them. try to gain some wisdom from the older folks.
While Wendell is an AMAZING artist and songwriter. I think the reason Kenny is the man for the song is that he can deliver songs like this to the world. Kenny has the ability and the platform to sing/play just about any country/rock song. They are both such talented musicians.
Beautiful in 2008 I lost my. only son this sing is awesome I was 19 when I had him but it was the best time on my life with him he was 29. But I miss him every day Feb 8th he would have been 41 this song is beautiful I love it thanks Wendell and Kenny
As a Dad to my baby girl who just turned 24 last week, graduated college this year, and bought her first house with her Fiance, I have to say this song has always killed me. This version is phenomenal! Thank you!
24 and expecting my own little one with my sweet love at the beginning of 2022. I see all the amazing comments about living through every verse of this song and one day I want to come back to this comment to also say that I’ve lived through every verse also. I’m going to take every day in and cherish every moment cause I know after I blink, they will be hanging out on the west coast. 🖤
I have three girls and when my first born came into this world she was 1 year old. I cried then and now.. She just left for college and on her second semester. When she leaves i to go back to this song everytime!
As a single mum who had my daughter at 18 I can relate. Its exactly how I felt & it reminds me of the day 17 years later when she packed up the car and moved to the city to follow her dreams. She has been away from home for 10 years now but this song still brings a tear to my eye. This version is the best i have heard!
At 62 and a daughter 25 and son 21 that I am just super proud of, I cry every time. We were in our late 30's, the opposite of the song. Kids were our dreams, started with our daughter obviuosly then out son. Lots of heart brakes in between the two....we were so happy to have our son, unfortunately, we couldn't have any more after my son...The up all nights and diapers never change no matter they age you have you kids......I love them and my wife so much...My daughter and I are not that close anymore because of someting I did when she was in high school when I could not confirm where she was. She is still mad at me. She will know why I did what I did when she has kids, I will be dead and gone by the then most likely. Still, this is a favorite of mine, I love it, always reminds of her and makes me love them more everytime I hear it
This has me balling right now brotha. I remember when this song came out. I was 21 and had just been kicked out of Virginia Military Institute my senior year. I’m from Richmond, VA and some friends of mine had decided we were going to move to Orlando or San Diego. Next thing I know, my daughters mother is pregnant. My life had done a total 180. All my hopes and aspirations for life were gone in a span of 6 months. This song tugged at my heart 18 years ago. Wound up raising my daughter on my own for the most part. Those days of her dragging that teddy bear flew by way too fast. She is now 18 and went to visit Denver two months ago. She’ll be back soon to pack the rest of her stuff to go “Hang out on the west coast. “ This song has come full circle for me and I’ve lived every verse. Thank you Mr. Mobley for writing such a bittersweet heartfelt song. It has meant more than you will ever know to me. God bless! And he cried "There goes my life There goes my future, my everything I love you, Baby, goodbye" I love you Isabella!!
Just dropped off my eldest son at his university in California for the first time. Revisited this song... complete WATERWORKS. Almost had to pull over. This song is timeless. BRAVO!
I was 17 when I found out I was going to be a father.. She was born 2 months after my 18th birthday... And when she was 9 months old I was a single father but I did it... My daughter is now 35 with a master's in Psychology and just blessed me with a grandson last week...
@Bob Sculky Congrats sir!
You Da Man!
Bob Sculky congratulations!
You did it man. Proud of you!
I was 19 maybe 20 was scared to death, and I have officially screwed it up
I was 22 when my first daughter was born!! I have 5 grown children 3 girls 2 boys and I can honestly say that if Not for my First & oldest daughter I would have ended Up in prison and her baby sisters and brothers would not exist and she knows it and The Love of a father for his baby girl even though she is 33,her sisters are 31, and the baby will be 22+in March but they'll forever be my baby GIRLS
If not for my second born child daughter I would have never made it past the loss of my best friend please understand he was 10 years older than I and I was 14 when we met and truly the best easiest way to describe our relationship is just that snippet from Southeast that is trending where Ben affleck's character says to Jeremy Renner hey I need you to come with me you can't ask me why you can never asked me about it bring it up and we're going to hurt some people and Jeremy renner's character simply says whose car are we going to take because it is very actions speak louder than words and when someone repeatedly has your back physically and when you're told stories by other people how was speaking Bad about you and then the person telling you the story tells you that the Same person who has physically had your back you now find out has your back when you're not even in the room because as the person said when you're real BFF STANDS UP TELLS THE PERSON SPEAKING bad about YOU IF HE HERE'S YOUR NAME COME OUT OF THAT PERSON'S MOUTH (1+MORE TIME YOUR BFF TELLS HIM FACE TO FACE NOT ONLINE WERE EVERYONE IS A TUFF GUY WE THROW AROUND BFF WITHOUT ANY MEANING BEHIND IT LIKE YOUR SHOPPING BUDDY IS NOT YOUR BFF TRUST ME IT'S AN OLD SAYING BUT VERY ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS
My father left when I was 11. Watched him leave down the drive. When my wife got pregnant in 2000,I was scared to death. I thought back, I told my self, I don't know what kinda dad I'm gonna be, one thing I know is I'll be there always. She's now 24 and a chemical Engineer. I did one thing right in my life. She's now successful and my best friend. Thanx for all your help Jesus.
Ri chard marx. Yeah 🎉😂❤❤❤❤❤
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Songwriters are the most underrated artist in the industry.
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Underrated, never. Unappreciated, maybe.
You are 100 percent correct!!😮
Yeah well most people that prop up the people everyone idolizes are under appreciated :P
For the most part the songwriters are the real superstars. Without them 90% of the “artists” out there would be toast :P
As a 15 year old dad. I’m 40 now and my daughter is my first love and the best thing to happen to me.
ditto , I was also a Mom @ 15- now 62 with 7 kids & 7 grandkids & been married 26 yrs since 1993 &
as of Easter 1994 that baby boy I had @ 15 calls me MOM & his name is Adam & just as they promised me they would do- His parents told Adam about me. I will never forget that phone call.. ever, so our blended family w/6 kids proudly was always 7 & @ 18 yrs old his 100 % sister finally met the brother she’d known of since she was 5 & who we cried for every March 9th #Blessed❤
@@debbiemulcahy-cugier5839I am about your age and I don't have any family. You are truly blessed!! Seems I just started to figure things out in the last 10 years or so...
Good man
As a father. I cannot listen to this song without crying.
Who thinks Wendell should be more recognised
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That voice. Wow.
Wendell does this song so so well
Unique voice, he's awesome.
Wendell is waaaaay better than Kenny on this song. Not even close.
My Mom just passed away last night, she was my rock. She raised 4 kids by herself when my Dad left her for another woman. 4 kids 6yrs old and under. No money, no support. We saw him 2 times after that. She struggled and scraped and raised us right. She was my hero. Good bye Mom I love you.
Thank you for appreciating your single mother and I’m sorry you lost her too soon but I understand. I was adopted and all my adopted family died very young and it’s just me and my son and I appreciate him every single day.
Had the same situation. Best women in the world. Miss my mom.
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So sorry for your loss I will keep you in my prayers
Prayers for you 🙏
At 56 my life changed when a little girl was born to my son and his girlfriend. Neither of the two parents were responsible then, nor now, and capable of taking care of her. She just turned 7, and this past March the adoption was completed, and she is ours. Yes, my retirement plans have changed, my entire life has changed, and just now my little girl came and asked for help only moments ago - while I was writing this tribute to her. Yes, she changed my life and every day I struggle to do my best to give her the childhood she deserves; my little gift from God.
God is Good
Kudos 😂❤
God bless
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Your an Angel, God put you here to be HER mother....God Bless You and that little girl, this song gets me every time, and life is so short I know just lost my husband of 43 yrs your giving her a chance at a great life, and your putting ❤ a sense of stability, and a forever momma....like I said Angel ....🎉
Wendell you should be singing your own songs. Your voice is awesome brother.
He and Neil have been doing this for a while.....Her is one with Edwin..
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The composers voice was out of this world than the singer who record it! produce you own album sir, inspire the world..
Agreed!!
Yes!!
This is his song lol
As a woman who's husband left during my high risk pregnancy, I commend all these great fathers who stepped into parenting, scared as hell but did whatever they needed to do. Being a single parent isn't easy but the rewards are endless.
My daughter just graduated from medical school, has the best husband & I couldn't be more proud. As parents we all want is the best for our children.
You know you'll be loved and appreciated baby
Yeah well don't give up honey they are honest men out there
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Susan, I concur... and I'm glad you made it through the miracle of growing your baby, through that pain... I KNOW. 💕
On the step up fathers .. I often think of B.Paisley's"He Didn't Have to Be" ... 🥲🙏🏼
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I ask God and my child that was never born that they forgive me for choosing the easy way out, because I was only 17 at the time . I’m now 60 and the pain I live with is haunting at times.
God forgave you be easy on yourself!
You were forgiven long ago by God and her. She is waiting to meet you in Heaven. Be blessed....be gentler on yourself. 😅
You were forgiven long ago by God and her. She is waiting in Heaven for you. We tend to hold on to our mistakes and pain. Be loving and compassionate to yourself. You are loved. Be blessed and happy.
The blood of Christ was shed once for all for all time. Trust Him for forgiveness and walk in freedom. You are loved.
I work with men just like you. I have the same story. God has forgiven you, but healing is another matter altogether. I helped write a book with other men that have the same story. Reclaiming Fatherhood is a book to help you heal. Please reach out for help. God wants you to have peace. I can help you through this.
At 22 years old I found out I would be a father. Young scared and confused. This song touches my soul. My daughter will be turning 7 this May. And my other daughter will be 2 in May. Yes. They are MY LIFE. God bless.
Eddie Ruiz ♥️
This post touched my heart!!
My daughter turned 2 in April other turns 7 in June. I feel ya...they truly are blessings! Hug the heck out of them! Goes by way to fast!
Best of luck to you my friend. I was 16 and found out my girlfriend was pregnant. By 26 I had 4 children. Three girls and a baby boy. Fast forward.... Have 6 great grand children, 3-Daughters, our son was murdered in 2014, but we still have a relationship with the daughter he never met. My son was 19 when he was killed. Brother, "Don't blink". I'm noy to old, just 50. Son keep your head straight on the path for your family. Family is all you have!!!
i feel this so much i was 19 when i found out and man i was so so scared shes now 3 and doing amazing i was terrified i wouldnt be enough but she shows me every day i am!!!
I'm crying. I sent that to my Son who has a daughter that he probably loves more than me!
the amount of respect Kenny had for Wendell during this was one of the coolest things I've seen
if kenny was a respectful musician he would let the man sing his own song without interrupting. Wendell is so much better.
Wendell has a great voice. Kenny is way more powerful vocal.
@@justinkidd4425 you don't realize how good Kenneth Arnold chesney is do you bro .... go see him live he will blow you off your chair
Wendall literally asks for Kenny’s help and nods for him to sing the verse when it’s Kenny’s time. Maybe pay attention to the details next time idiot
@justin kidd
I lost my mom and brother within a few years now I cry daily. I owe yall my world
Wendell's voice is world class. Gave me the chills, so much emotion. As a father, I'm scared to see the day my children are old enough to live without me.
I agree Matthew Sturgeon....as a dad....with a 15 year old daughter, Im scared to death
I can relate, my daughters are 15 and 17.
It’s not fun guys but it gets better I have 3 girls 30,27,12 the older 2 I rarely see they live across country from me, but my 12 yr old helps! It’s nice though when you can sit back and watch them raising their babies and they make you proud! You can sit back and go alright they grew up right and got what I was trying to teach them!
No need to be afraid, you will find pleasure in being a Grandfather. Embrace the moment.
You don’t have to worry about that. My dad died this year, I’m 31, my sisters are 47,49. We were never old enough to live without him, but we are.
Man Wendell sounds incredible and I’ve never even heard him before.
Same.
Songwriter Baby that’s where It comes from
He and Neil been doing it a long time! th-cam.com/video/NsSx2H_7d9M/w-d-xo.html
If you don't get the chills / goosebumps, or start crying when Wendell sings that first verse / chorus - check your dang pulse and your soul.
Yeah…Dang it
😢😢😢😢
2023
Random but I always find it amazing how so many of the songwriters are amazing singers but never get popular.
Colton Blumhagen very true! He is a fantastic singer.. maybe they don't want the fame
Because in today's world, it's who you look like not who you are!
I would also think having a superstar sing your song would be more lucrative for the songwriter. Trying to sing it yourself would be a bit of a gamble and maybe risk the song never seeing the light of day. However, that guy does have a great voice and very nice delivery.
Colton Blumhagen lol
Chris Stapleton!
I wanted to be a Dad so bad my whole life & would tear up during this song just at the THOUGHT of being able to love a little girl so much. FINALLY, at age 56 in March of '23, my wife & I adopted a sibling set of 2 boys & 1 girl. I obviously love them all, but my daughter & I have an incredible bond, and I love her more than I thought possible. NOW this song takes on a new meaning to me and will no doubt have me weeping uncontrollably the day she leaves the house.
That's amazing you got your kids cheers
@@randy1982777 Thank you :)
That's amazing, brother! I have you, your wife, and your 3 children have a wonderful life! Much love from Minnesota 💜
Love this ❤ Congratulations!
As a Daddy this is hard to listen too without tears. Incredible version!
Say that again!!
So true
yup
Especially when you have a little girl who is everything to us.
I can't listen past the 2nd chorus
This song is one of my favorites by Kenny Chesney who does an outstanding job with it. But when I heard Wendell's version sung together with Kenny, WOW! I like their duet even better. It's fantastic!
Same
I’m an Iraq and Afghan vet. My heart was broken after my tours of duty. I carried that around with me for so long and then my son was born. He put my heart back together and gave me a second chance to be happy. This song is hard to listen to without getting emotional because I know I’ll be heartbroken when he grows up and leaves to start his life. Beautiful song
Good for you brother, it gets even better, especially if you are ever blessed with a grandchild
Thank you for your service sir 🫡
I would love to hear you sing this entire song, sir.
I could have a private session with you if you wish.
Hello Teena Reynay!
How're you doing?
Comments like this are priceless, Thank you❤️
it's nice meeting you here.
I like Kenny Chesney, but I'm just going to say it: I'd rather listen to Wendell.
No me KC is the best
Same
I would say I’m an unbiased fan of both but I personally enjoy Chesneys version
@@all-timealien4483 Chesney's sounds too country and less heartfelt. You can tell it is not his song.
I’ll take kenny on this one
This guy deserved a recording contract of his own, especially since he’s obviously a great writer to go with his incredible voice.
I suspect he was wealthy from his royalties and not to keen on being in the spotlight. You are right his voice is great.
This is my cry song. My daughter and I were going through some pretty bad times. She wanted to go to college at US San Diego and wore those Abercrombie clothes with lots of shoes and a Honda. Instead, she finished school in Texas and has ended up on the East Coast. I’ll always be the lady you see at Kenny’s concerts crying, even if she’s standing next to me.
Boom 🤯 love you Anji Petty
Such a powerful song. I never get tired of watching this video. So good.
At 38, I was ten feet tall and bulletproof.. now I'm 40 with a 2 year old girl and I sob at every waking moment... i feel this so hard.
2:35-3:00 is absolutely amazing. Wendell’s performance is magical. Every time he sings the chorus I get goose bumps.
Exactly, just enough rasp in his voice to convey the emotion but not too much 👌
Got a lump in my throat listening to this song. Great duet between these two. Rare to hear the writer and the singer collaborate on stage.
The songwriter sounds as good as Kenny.
I get teary all the time
@@johnznutas8609 sounds better than kenny! Wendell is an amazing songwriter and singer!
I know you do Travis’s songs, but I sure would like to see you do a tutorial on this one...
I remember dropping off my daughter at college. Her & I had been through a lot since her Mom/my wife had passed away midway through her senior year in high school. Yes, my daughter’s Honda was loaded down with tons of clothes, shoes & my American Express. After she was completely settled in, I gave her a big hug, told her how much her mother & I loved her & I walked down to my truck where I cried. This song always hits home with me.
This song often brings tears. Not to sound sappy..lol. me and the old lady were 17 and 16 when we welcomed our first baby boy. Now we got 3! Maybe have lost a college scholarship but it was the best mistake we ever made. Just wish they would stop growing so fast.
Wow same age as my mom and dad I'm now 15 and my dad had a few college scholarship for football but it all went after he had me
Life experience is way more valuable than a piece of paper that end in massive debt. Count your blessings brother, and yes, they grow too fast. Last one just graduated.... Never be afraid to let them know you love them.
Love this.
Love you 🥰 Kenney Chesney and Wendall Mobley ❤for this tune 🎶 that changed my life for the best 💙💙💕💕🤗🤗
What a masterpiece of a song 🎵 I had my son very young and I can relate to 🎶 to this song totally 👍 but I wouldn’t change a thing 😊the decision I made I would never change 😊 and I am happy 😊 I did 😊 this song is very special to me 💙💙💕💕🤗🤗
A little more than 17 years ago, not a young man but hoping and dreaming i would one day be a father this song came out. I was scared but excited. Next weekend we take our OUR son out to the University of Chicago to start his freshman year. Brilliant and beautiful he is. The hardest and best job i ever had - being a father. What a blessing so late in life. This song nails it....
Thanks 😊 so much for the love and support ❤️🩹 …Are you one of my great fans out there?
I’m not crying! You’re crying! Lol I love this song. Gets me every time. I was a dad by 19 and 4 kids now, my world, my little girl recently turned 2. They’re my blessing
matchbox3eb No some one is cutting onions. I started late did not have my first biological kid till I was 37. Then we had four more. My first two kids are not biologically mine, but they are. Now we have seven beautiful kids. Love the song by Brad Paisley he didn’t have to be. Yes they are a blessing. 4 girls 3 boys.
My daughter will be 4 next week.
I’m a pro mma fighter.
Sometimes there’s a stigma on how fighters are so “tough” but... this song breaks me down every time I listen. I love this song.
Amen brother
The truth is singers would be nothing without the incredible songs of the great songwriters. I can't tell you how many songs have been sung that are forgetful as soon as the song is over no matter how incredibly well sung as opposed to just an average singer singing an incredible song that sticks with you the rest of the day and you're humming it everywhere you go. Then of course those rare times where incredible singers get paired up with incredible songs....which is what turns singers into superstars.
All four of my sweet little girls grew up and moved away. I still get so see them a lot. I love each one more every minute.
I got 3 girls.. all under age 6.. so just starting on my journey.. any advice Mark?
MrJude1321 don’t blink. Don’t waste a moment. I’ve got a granddaughter now. Hope I get to make a difference for her.
One got married tonight
The energy on that stage is amazing. They’re not playing like the powerhouses they are, they’re just having a good time like a bunch of normal guys. I wish I could’ve been that audience
MUSIC IS LIFE! (Think of the soccer dude on Ted Lasso joyously yelling "FUTBOL' IS LIFE!!" I love this song, these voices. Music in my life is a necessity.
Man, what a song. As a father of two girls this one tears me up EVERY time I hear it.
Me too bro! I have one 16 and 11....My 16 year old has plans to go to college in NYC, we're from GA. Just thinking about her taking off kills me.....
Easy pervert
My daughter gave birth to my grandaughter in 2002 when she was 20. My daughter would sing this to Skye.
I lost my daughter last yr.
My grandaughter is surfing in Hawaii right now. 🤙💖
Bittersweet memories filled with with love...
Sending love to you Mae!💖💖💖
I'm so very sorry for your loss. God bless you and your granddaughter 🙏❤
This song makes me cry ,my late husband sang this to our daughter I miss him
So sorry about your loss. I lost my wife when she was 42 and left me with twins boy and girl. One day you will see him again he will sing the song again
@@foobarmaximus3506 am saddened and the same time hoping you're staying strong
I was 25 years old when my daughter was born, and I thought I was prepared. Seeing my daughter be born absolutely floored me, and I cried like a baby. She changed my life, and I love her dearly. She is my oldest of 3, having 2 sons later on. All of my children have my heart and my undivided love. At 55 years old, I am now a grandfather, as my daughter has blessed our family with 2 boys. This song really hits home and makes one think about what is really important in life. Children are a blessing.
I am 56 years old and my daughter is 34 it wasn’t even a second thought on what song her and I would dance to at her Wedding just a few years ago the Dance was a real Challenge and Special to us as years Earlier I suffered a Major Stroke and lost 90 to 95% of my brains right hemisphere during a emergency heart operation to repair a condition that only 10% of the people Survive ! , Although technically insurance wont pay for Dancing lessons my Physical Therapist and I practiced moving to the song when doing Strenghth and Balance Exercises before the Wedding and i got to share the dance with one of the prettiest Btides Ever ! After i walked her down the Aisle earlier this that day in Key West Florida fast foward a few years and now I am a Grandfather to a 15 month old Granddaughter who is almost a exact copy of her Mother at that age and is Wonderful to watch growing up
Just Stunning Truly Lovely You Guys Are So Talented I did not want it to end ! Chris H a fan in the UK
LOVE this song because no child...is a mistake...sometimes bad timing...saving the parents..that did not know They were lost....hugs to all that have been there...
Well spoken friend, well spoken !!! I personally have one who, without knowing saved my life !!
Just found out im having a baby girl
Your life will never be the same Congrats...enjoy the ride...don't blink...
@@Claymore1977 Maybe your parents show not have produced. As for Hitler, he was not always evil. Every mass murderer, is in someway mentally ill, or they would not have done as they did...God has a purpose for ever child. The reason there are do many children...is because if THEY had to support the ones they have there would not be do many.
@@Claymore1977 yes there are too many people in this world. You must be the one too many. Every child on this earth has a spirit. That spirit belongs to God. You want to bash on children well they weren't asked to be born. All children deserve a chance in life.
Just came across this song today. Thanks TH-cam!😁
I’m a HUGE Kenny Chesney fan but this other man (the song writer) outsings Kenny in a heartbeat. How did he not record it himself?!!! Awesome vocals and a beautiful song.
Because getting a record deal is like hitting the lottery. There is no rhyme or reason to who the companies decide to back. It makes no sense.
I was there,once, did not go well...I am 65 and I doubt I ever get over that, but I do what I can...and I still miss her and Our son...life is good even with the heartaches
"Couple years of up all night and a few thousand diapers later. That mistake he thought he made, covers up the refrigerator" kicks my ass and makes me cry every time.... I love my boys 💙❤️💙❤️
Yup.... That line never seemed to do anything for me until I had kids of my own. Now it hits me so damn hard.
Never had any kids, but every time I hear that line I’m reminded of an old tough biker dude whose wife rode off & left him with a baby boy. Shortly afterwards, he married a woman with a young child, & the artwork overflowed on the refrigerator. He said, “We’re gonna have to get a bigger refrigerator!”. That was so out of character for him, it made me smile. Unfortunately, his son passed away a hero, 13 years later, fighting a fire.
Boston hat. I love this dou .great job. Brad from Maine
This song is so very beautiful just can't listen to it enough! Good job guys!! Love it❤😂😊
I can only imagine getting to sing this song for the rest of my life! Wow Kenny! Much love always❤❤❤
This songs brings a tear to my eyes every time I hear it. What a great duet. Thanks for the collaboration.
I love thissonge
I'm an old man now. I never had children. But this song makes me weep every time I hear it. So good.
I cannot imagine, never having children, to carry on our family name. I hope you don’t regret, not having children, because that could be quite haunting.
Wendell Mobley singing, now that's a record I'd like to buy. What a voice!
This song reminds me of both of my oldest sons. They both found out 2 mths before they turned 19 that they were going to be daddy's. They both stepped up and have done a fantastic job so far. My oldest has three girls now at 24 yrs old. My middle son still has just the one daughter qnd he is 21 now. Each of my precious granddaughters have the best daddy's they could have ever asked for!!!
That song is timeless! Thanks for sharing your gift Wendell
First time I ever went to nashville , I met Wendell in a bar after an awards show. I remember that I didn't fit in with the crowd as I was wearing tattered jeans and button down shirt that was untucked. Everyone else was dressed to the nines in finding Wendell. However I struck up a conversation with him and he bought me a beer. I noticed he had an award ,but didn't ask what it was for, only later did I find out that he had written this song and had won the award for writing it. Still one of the best songs Kenny ever recorded.
Most songwriters don't want the fame and stardom. They just want to write what their heart is telling them and give that amazing piece of poetry to someone who understands and respects it. Kenney, clearly a perfect candidate. I can name dozens of amazing writers who never wanted that fame. Those are the real music heroes. The writers.
Stay cool.
I was 30 when my daughter was born changed everything in mine and my wife's life for the good
Love hearing this song. When I was 14 just going into high school, I found out I was going to be a father in the 8th grade, very scary time, but I stuck with it, my daughter is now 11 and she is my entire world.
Saw your post and was filled with admiration. Most people when life throws them adversity they say why me, if I understand your post correctly you became a father at 15 and it worked out to be something good. Most people would have considered this to be a life altering mistake and you made it it out to be a good thin. I admire your actions and the way you made lemonade out of sour lemons. I truly admire you and wish I as well as most people had the follow through to make something fod out of something that most people would consider terrible. I truly admire you and don’t even know who you are.
a REAL MAN...bless you!!!
I love this version of this song so, so, SO MUCH! The cry in your voice gives me goosebumps every time I hear it! I can feel every heartbeat in this song. I'm so sorry for all you had to go through for this song to be written. I can't even imagine. Just know your baby in heaven hears you when you sing! God bless you!
Unbelievable writing! This is up there with songs like You're gonna miss this, & God gave me you! I watch this like every night lol
I had my daughter 2 weeks before my 18th birthday. And she made my life.
Hello Lisa 👋 how are you doing today??
Brings me to tears every time I hear this. I remember 9 years ago listening to this wondering how was I going to raise a little girl. Ended up not only doing a good job but also she ended up being my entire world. Two years ago ended up becoming addicted to opiates, my dad took her from me right from under my feet. Been sober for a year and two months, however he has yet to give her back or even give me the time of the day. Breaks my heart beyond words
Same boat here, that we are in Brandon. Got an 11 year old World in my life!
Father’s Day is tomorrow and this some brings it home. Happy Father’s Day boys. Enjoy your little girls. They Get older fast.
I don’t know how I stumbled upon this on TH-cam but now I’m CRYING
This song makes me cry every time I hear it my little baby is 20 years old now
I return to this version of the song so often. You can not help but get emotional, you can hear it in your voice.
it is shattering, then redemptive- just like real life, just like real comments here...
I just realized this. His dreams of living on the coast never got fulfilled, but as his daughter moved to the west coast, she fulfilled his dreams for him.
So much more emotion in Wendell’s voice! This song is one of the greats!
Kenny Chesney are the best I’ve been listening to you for 20 some years and my daughter also she’s 28. She still loves all your music. Keep him coming.
Damn this really is a deeply moving song.
1st verse is him thinking his life is over
2nd verse is him accepting his life and loving his daughter
3rd verse is him understanding that his life (referring to his daughter) is moving away
My little girl will make her arrival around Christmas Eve. You best believe this “tough” guy is terrified. Can’t wait to meet her.
You can love parents. You can love family. You can love your partner. Real love comes when you have a child in your life - it's the most beautiful, intense love ever! Breathtaking, rewarding and just the best and most rewarding experience ever - from the proudest, happiest Daddy ever! xx
By the time I was 26 yrs old (1996) I finally got my boy. He was the youngest, with 3 older sisters. My wife and I started young too. My son was murdered in March of 2014. Please always let your youngins know you love them by saying you love them and showing a little compassion. My last words to my son was "I love ya and I'll see ya when I see ya". I could go into the whole thing which wasn't bad. Point being is tell all your loved ones you love them and talk with them. try to gain some wisdom from the older folks.
While Wendell is an AMAZING artist and songwriter. I think the reason Kenny is the man for the song is that he can deliver songs like this to the world. Kenny has the ability and the platform to sing/play just about any country/rock song. They are both such talented musicians.
So awesome you guy are great 👍 thank you 🙏 you made my day
Our daughter just graduated from college. This song says it all. ❤️
Beautiful in 2008 I lost my. only son this sing is awesome I was 19 when I had him but it was the best time on my life with him he was 29. But I miss him every day Feb 8th he would have been 41 this song is beautiful I love it thanks Wendell and Kenny
As a Dad to my baby girl who just turned 24 last week, graduated college this year, and bought her first house with her Fiance, I have to say this song has always killed me. This version is phenomenal! Thank you!
Pretty sure I've watched this video 50 times...for real. SO GOOD.
So sorry for your loss, I lost my son, I don't know anymore. She loved you, remember that ❤️
My husband has accepted us as a hero should. Trisomy 21 made us stronger. Xo we got this!
Thanks for your comments and patience God bless you
@@kennychesney7574 Thanks K ! Forever remember Connor , my son . Mr.Clapton knows ... Everyday baby boy
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24 and expecting my own little one with my sweet love at the beginning of 2022. I see all the amazing comments about living through every verse of this song and one day I want to come back to this comment to also say that I’ve lived through every verse also. I’m going to take every day in and cherish every moment cause I know after I blink, they will be hanging out on the west coast. 🖤
That was one of my favorites Mark. Saw you in Albany, Oregon in I think 1996. Still today I listen to your songs often. Thanks.😊
Who in the world would thumbs down this song???
Beats me Travis but there always seems to be someone bitter enough to do it.
I have three girls and when my first born came into this world she was 1 year old. I cried then and now.. She just left for college and on her second semester. When she leaves i to go back to this song everytime!
As a single mum who had my daughter at 18 I can relate. Its exactly how I felt & it reminds me of the day 17 years later when she packed up the car and moved to the city to follow her dreams. She has been away from home for 10 years now but this song still brings a tear to my eye. This version is the best i have heard!
Choked up
At 62 and a daughter 25 and son 21 that I am just super proud of, I cry every time. We were in our late 30's, the opposite of the song. Kids were our dreams, started with our daughter obviuosly then out son. Lots of heart brakes in between the two....we were so happy to have our son, unfortunately, we couldn't have any more after my son...The up all nights and diapers never change no matter they age you have you kids......I love them and my wife so much...My daughter and I are not that close anymore because of someting I did when she was in high school when I could not confirm where she was. She is still mad at me. She will know why I did what I did when she has kids, I will be dead and gone by the then most likely. Still, this is a favorite of mine, I love it, always reminds of her and makes me love them more everytime I hear it
This has me balling right now brotha. I remember when this song came out. I was 21 and had just been kicked out of Virginia Military Institute my senior year. I’m from Richmond, VA and some friends of mine had decided we were going to move to Orlando or San Diego. Next thing I know, my daughters mother is pregnant. My life had done a total 180. All my hopes and aspirations for life were gone in a span of 6 months. This song tugged at my heart 18 years ago.
Wound up raising my daughter on my own for the most part. Those days of her dragging that teddy bear flew by way too fast. She is now 18 and went to visit Denver two months ago. She’ll be back soon to pack the rest of her stuff to go “Hang out on the west coast. “
This song has come full circle for me and I’ve lived every verse. Thank you Mr. Mobley for writing such a bittersweet heartfelt song. It has meant more than you will ever know to me. God bless!
And he cried
"There goes my life
There goes my future, my everything
I love you, Baby, goodbye"
I love you Isabella!!
Flippin beautiful rendition of this song! It's so good that I just told my daughter with tears in my eyes to never leave me....😢😢😢
Redetion??!!
My daughter is 3. I cry everytime I sing this to her...
This one and You’re Gonna Miss This are tear jerkers for dads.
Kenny is the man for giving the song writer the exposure he deserves.
Just dropped off my eldest son at his university in California for the first time. Revisited this song... complete WATERWORKS. Almost had to pull over. This song is timeless. BRAVO!