10 STOIC RULES FOR LIFE | Listen to This , They Will Prioritize You ( STOICISM )
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- 10 STOIC RULES FOR LIFE | Listen to This , They Will Prioritize You ( STOICISM )
Learn 10 simple Stoic rules to make sure people prioritize and respect you. We cover how to be mysterious, independent, and happy on your own and they will prioritize you. These tips will help you stand out and show your worth in relationships. Watch for easy-to-follow Stoic rules on being a priority, not an option.🌿🧘♂️📜🔍.
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We may add that we should not expect OTHERS to drop everything for us ( in summary - we should expect the same things in this from others as well)
With a open mind, you can use this to your advantage to your maturity, mentally and😊 spiritually
If someone treats you as an option, leave them as a choice.
Correct🎉
But not so easy .
If someone treats you as an option, narrow down their options and run
@@billiecruthis607ikr not if your emotionally attached to them then yh its hard
Big YES 👏👏👏👏
If someone ignores you, Never bother them again.
This comment should be pinned! well said🙏
But what if they are busy having a life or working 💪
@abbz23 true but where is that line. Especially if they don't give you a courtesy? Hey I'm super busy. wasn't able to respond, or we'll talk soon? Seems a little ridiculous to be so busy not to even shoot a text
It depends on who that someone is…and why I need to bother them! 😂❤😂❤
People always have priorities and if they ignore you then you are not their priority
The summary:
1:Keep some things to yourself and be a bit mysterious
2: Make people afraid of losing you
3: Make your own happiness
4:Make yourself valuable and let others invest on you
5:Don’t make someone the most important thing in your life
6:Make sure your needs come first
7:Don’t always be ready and waiting
8: Don’t always be the one to start the conversation
9: Don’t get attached too emotionally
10:Be willing to walk away from a relationship that doesn’t treat you well
Thanks so much for taking time to highlight it! 😀
AMEN!!!!!! @@kamiliachadli
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Add one thing more ...don't keep expectations towards others
I wonder if a relationship would really be happy or survive for long if each partner behaved this way to the other.
“Waste no more time arguing about what a good man is; be one.”
One of my favorites! Action NOT words! Stay Strong 🙏
"The best revenge is to be unlike him who performed the injustice." - Marcus Aurelius
" Know that nothing is bad if we don't think it's bad." - Marcus Aurelius
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Never forget with a narcissist individual you're always an options, nothing is EVER concrete with them, waiting for the next bus all the time. That is a life lessons, disgusting human.
Imagine how hard it is to change yourself and then how hard we try to change others! Put the work into yourself!
"A wise person doesn't let their thinking depend on others."
Thanks for the Video
I have really enjoyed and also learnt alot of things from it
Keep up with your that spirit
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I dore the voice
Good one! 🙏
Just refer from them
Yes, absolutely! I went through so much heartache! I don't know how I went through all this! Everybody just rejected me! People they knew me over 40 years! because of my way of thinking! Because I am old-school! and I didn't know that when you say thanks! Even if it's the truth! They! Abandon you! Like a broken vessel! I don't know how I survived this storm! but I guess my heavenly father! My God was there for me! Because he knows that I have a good heart! In fact, is too good to be true! I never thought of me! Always everybody else! That's why they took me for granted! But now I'm listening to you! and it's opening my ears! And I realize how fake people are! thank God I have one friend! Who is true blue to me?! she's an angel! I would call her a guardian angel! She drove 4 hours to come and help me! What a sweetheart! Thank you! may God bless you and protect you always! My sweet Maria!❤❤❤❤❤
we learn all our life! keep going🙏
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wow! I feel honored! don't give up ... success is coming your way! 🙏
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Much Wisdom from this content. Im 58 and had to learn much of this the hard way. You wd do yourself a great service by listening to this many many times. Do not be afraid of losing ppl in your life. Be your authentic self. Dont think or count on anyone to assist, help or save you. Love authentically dont expect it back. Dont tolerate being disrespected. No one has the right to trest you like shit. . . Unless you let them.
💯agree. everybody please read this comment 5 times!!! Thank you so much Brian for sharing! 🙏
Thanks for your comment... Am 60 and also had to learn it the hard Way.
@@rebeccaanouche lol I hate learning things the hard way BUT it's the only thing that wd make me believe it. They say seeing is believing But I think FEELING IT is believing 😥
Thank you for the wisdom you shared . It makes sense to me now
So inspiring, thanks again.
I am now making a decision to forgive myself because I allow this person to betray me again and again. My husband of 20 years, we are separated, he neither treated me as a wife nor divorce me. The most selfish man Ive met, so desperate at this point I raised his boys and now, brainwashing one of his sons to disrespect me and this man at 60 yrs old is till a liar and all he knows is blaming...whining...complaining and finding fault. I will fight for my release and freedom. He just actually got married because the family doesnt want him and they didnt tell me he had mental issues. I cant believe there was a family so dysfunctional and never wanted to make themselves better. I am working on my book, so my story can inspire other young people. What they are not aware is...everytime they bully or gaslight others, they think they are winners ...NO...what you do to others,you do it to yourself first. And I AM NOT ACCEPTING THEIR GARBAGE ANYMORE.
Hello Abigail! Sorry to hear that! Very well said in the end 🙏 . Wish you heal fast and release the resentments for your own good. Keep up us updated with the book 🙏
Yes. Forgiving yourself is key to living a victorious vibrant fulfilling life! Keep going and don’t look back! ❤
By allowing him back, you betrayed yourself. So, look where you are crossing your boundaries and betraying yourself and forgive yourself. Is all about you, not them. Take responsibility for you life and actions!
Don't let others determine your happiness
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You have power over your mind - not outside events. Realize this, and you will find strength." My all time favorite.
good one Eric 💯
I just recently separated and love the feeling. I liked my single life so much that I didn't get married until I was 34 years old. So, I never felt I had to be with a partner to feel complete at all. It's great to start a new chapter in my life. I also don't feel the need to show anyone anything. You either like me or you don't. I play by my rules and dont need to act a certain way. I’m myself, and that's what's unuque.
Uhh..34 is YOUNG! Lol
Seneca: "True happiness is... to enjoy the present, without anxious dependence upon the future."
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I really enjoyed this master piece. It cut across all aspects of our lives
Glad you enjoyed it! Stay Strong 🙏
Thank you .
Thank you very much
Thank you very much ❤
Thank you
❤❤❤love this thanks so much God bless you ♥ 🙏
The best ever video i have seen!
That's what I want for all year, not just Christmas.
haha good one! 😁💯💪
Excellent advice ☝️👍
Well explained
I love this video😍🥰 nothing ads😍🥰
Thank You!!
You're welcome! Stay Strong 🙏
Thank U For Sharing & Helping Me Heal & Understand ing
Stay strong! you got this! 🙏
Much wisdom in this content
when I start and learn how to be a stoic, It makes me feel more joyous and I can see with another side of this world ✌
I agree with this
Beautiful video the truth thank you ❤
Hi! I am very happy to hear you liked it! Stay strong! 🙏
Great advice
Hello Monique! I am glad you liked it. Which one resonated the most with you ? Stay Strong 🙏
Thank you. I am learning
Wonderful! Keep going! 🙏
Powerful insightful teachings there. Thank you ❤😊
You are so welcome Monica! Stay Strong 🙏
I needed to hear this 😢
I am happy you did! Keep going!🙏
Thanks so much for this beautiful guidance wisdom ❤
You are so welcome@aaasa6580 ! Stay Strong 🙏
Awesome!!!🙏
Thank you!
Yes I am thank you 🙏
Wonderful! Stay Strong 🙏
Thank You this was absolutely a necessary video. I appreciate it! Right on time ✊🏽💪🏽🙏🏽💯🎯✨🦋💫
Congrats for seeking knowledge🙏
yes thats true
Awesome thank U..I keep allowing people to use me.
This has made me wake up....❤
Wonderful! It can be eye opening at some point...
thank tou
Alethea Hi! I am glad it resonated with you. Stay Strong 🙏
All your rules are superbly the greatest 👍
I am amazed at your 10 principles.
Each of your rules take me to cloud ☁️ 9
I am grateful to listen such a wonderful video with highly influential wisdom it conveys
After listening it I am delighted 😊
I learn a lot from the teaching ❤.
I'm so glad! Stay Strong 🙏
Ty
I truly appreciate you being here! 🙏 Stay Strong
I respect this knowledge and wisdom
Hi Julia! Congrats for seeking knowledge! Keep improving! Stay Strong 🙏
Useful information; applies to all aspects of life
Thanks
Glad it was helpful! 😊
Thanks for advice it was great I appreciate you.🙏
Glad it was helpful! Which you all the best Marya! 🙏
thanks much for this vid
Congrats for seeking knowledge! Stay Strong 🙏
Very important advice for me thank you very much
Hey Maria! Your very welcome! Stay strong 🙏
so helpful
Glad you think so! Stay Strong! 🙏
All the truth ❤❤❤❤❤
Thnk u I really2x need this time..Im going through difficulties and I fnd strnght in everything u said
You got this! KEEP Going 🙏. I am glad it helped! ❤️
This video is number 1!
I am glad you like it. Stay Strong 🙏
Great
Happiness confidence and independence ❤....
Great motivation to right.❤
Glad you think so! Keep going 🙏
Yes🎉. Exactly how I felt the last 4 weeks 😢 broke my heart
Sorry to hear that!
This came right on time. Whew, You just created a monster 👀👀🥊🥊🔥🔥💜💜
👐 We are just starting... 😉
Thank you, as I have to deal with dispectful people this is a wonderful and reassuring support. Happy Christmas 🙏🌲🎅🥰
Happy Christmas to you too ! 😊 🙏
You’re real gentleman❤
Wish you all the best things in the world and I mean it!
If your are in peace with yourself then you are in harmony with the 🌎 world❤
Good good❤
They will be applied to my everyday life moving forward
Hey Tonya! Excelent! 🙏
I Always Wanted To Go To Madison Square Garden!!
These (many) rules make sense with hindsight, after breaking them repeately. That caused me much pain , yet started a learning process. My advice would be: Go break them, observe yourself, your feelings, and if you end up being unhappy re-read the rules and adjust your thinking and behaviour abd try again. My personal big issue was over rule 6. It's taken a life time of wrestling with it but I never shy away when the "opportunity" comes along, or rather Stepping stones. Respect and integrity are essential ingredients in a relationship. Otherwise walk away.
Hi Gabriele! Keep improving and all the best things will come to you. 🙏
Yeah it's true this choth standing to me ❤
Hi there! 😊 Glad you like it. Which part did it resonate with you the most?
After watching the video, I find the 10 rules for becoming someone interesting and valued by others quite insightful. Rule one about maintaining a level of mystery resonates with me as it suggests that revealing too much too soon can diminish intrigue. Rule two's emphasis on finding happiness and meaning from within is a valuable reminder, especially in a world often focused on external validation. Rule three's idea of making oneself valuable and allowing others to invest in you feels empowering, highlighting the importance of self-worth. Lastly, rule four's encouragement to prioritize personal dreams and interests strikes a chord, reminding me of the significance of self-fulfillment in building an interesting and fulfilling life. Overall, these rules offer practical guidance for cultivating authenticity and value in relationships and life.
Im a sunshine and songster. Many dont understand me but only positive people🥰👑🙏🏾📖
Ok ❤
In life no body can become priority, person always is option, all person born alon and will go alon .you can't create dependency unless you will use your power,and forcefully trying to become priority.
🌸 VALUE YOURSELF FIRST, LOVE YOURSELF FIRST, WORK ON YOURSELF
CREATE A NEW PATH & BELIEVE IN YOURSELF
Now watch as everything else falls in alignment with your new life 🎉
You don’t need the old toxic people, as you surpass them in every way 🌟✨
Mind over body ❤
This words of wisdom makes me cry 😭😭😭😭
Hey Olga! I am glad you resonated with the video. Stay Strong 🙏
Value yourself and make yourself a very-needed partner thus people will always value your presence
"Think of yourself as a bright star in the sky, shining with your own light and energy "
والله صحيح 👍
بجاني هذا الكلام
Be priority not an option
Roudwana Stay Strong 🙏
What do you do when your dealing with someone you have to deal with on a daily, and they get really upset when they feel like this way of being is a personal attack?, I always resonated with these teachings, it wasn’t until now that I discovered there was a word for it. I was always told I was to frigid for thinking this way, I ended up changing to accommodate the person I cared for, and was left feeling like i was taken advantage of, now I don’t do that because I found this channel and realized there was nothing wrong with who I am naturally, it doesn’t mean I don’t care, it just means I go about it differently from the ones that disagree.
Personal attack? Stoic's don't "attack" anything or anyone. Sounds like this person isn't getting enough attention from you.
Don't be afraid to be you. Don't be afraid to stand up for what you think. Don't be afraid that you will be seen "different". I don't encourage stupid things but you don't have to be "one with the crowd". 🙏
Absolutely!! I’m glad to find a name for the type of person I am 👍🏽👍🏽
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Helping others is overrated especially if they are ungrateful. After I found that out I left those people and they have never tried to reach out to me. So I have a hard time believing rule number two. And happy on my own and glad that no one is trying to seek me out because they would probably just try to use me.
Thanks for sharing!! Just do it without expecting anything in return. Some will appreciate it, some will not but you did the right thing. Try il and let me know how it went 😉
The problem was I couldn't even expect a reply to a text message, so I called that person out on his lack of ability to lift his finger to be a friend. After that I was excommunicated so I am glad I did what I did because I found out earlier rather than later. People like this use and take from others without giving in return. People don't do things for absolutely nothing they at least expect a thank you. And come to think of it, this other person seems to be more a stoic than I am, caring only about himself and not any external things (like for example me). I don't want to be like him.
Also now I'm not really in the mood to help anyone I will help myself. And to answer your question, I have helped people without expecting anything in return. How it ended up later? someone else asking me for similar help.
@@vance67 exactly! People always talked about doing things for "ppl", but never caring about how unloved the giver would feel, no its not okay for one to always be giving out their good heart! "Ppl" should Only be teaching bully and narc adults to be empathetic aka giving and expecting Nothing in return!
Wow -that's heavy load to carry all through...if you feel within you-happy to give- GIVE; if you're ALWAYS disappointed - DON'T! it's simple - NO STRESS...
If someone smothers you then blanks you, be like a dice if they show you a one, the five is hidden.
I am a priority to myself.
I needed to hear this 30 years ago, so late, but nevertheless, the experiences, the journey and growth process has been rewarding in its own strange way. Hearing this, only validates my conclusive ideas.
we learn one way or another. when you look back it's fun on both sides. 😀
Working on frustration
Concentrate on present and forget about future/past worries. 🙏
Nice
Thanks! Stay strong 🙏
Good morning
Morning 🙏
🙏 Be your own best friend 🙏
You can help yourself for sure ...😁
I have learnt that walking away is n'ot an abuse but self defense 😊
Don't be sad, just be aware that there is no receipt with giving so don't expect a refund or a return
Absolutely, understanding that giving is about the act itself, not expecting anything back, is a valuable perspective. It's all about kindness without strings attached. 🙏
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KNOW your life has value.
This comment should be pinned! Stay Strong 🙏
I saw the title and misread it as “Be a priority not an onion. “
We are all onions.
😂😂😂
Hillarious
Hilarious
Value yourself
Excelent!
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Stay Strong 🙏
Even without the minute?
I know what was meant. Great upload.
Glad you enjoyed it! Stay Strong 🙏
Mystery
I'd have to agree. Proving anything to anyone is well,
foolish. It's a waste of time as well.