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I post pithy retorts based on the points you posit us here. With heartfelt respect for the timeless poignant wisdom of the mindfulness of Stoicism. 🎉🎉🎉 😊
I am so glad i found stoisim, I actually believe i have always had these ways of thinking. I was brought up with these morals, old school. people have lost compassion for others, and how to interact with people because of the internet. we as people need human interaction and that is lost, people dont know how to talk to each other face to face, a txt an email is not interaction. come to my door, speak to me, look on my eyes. hug the people you love. stop texting your friend and saying hugs, its not a hug its bullshit. put ur phone down. go chap your friends door and give them a hug, lets start being human again. peace and fuck social media
Think about the last tine a situation tested your patience; earlier today at 18:30hrs with an obnoxious colleague, instead of responding negatively, I embraced the stoic principles and controlled the situation whilst maintaining my equanimity. It was relieving to see my colleague upset that I did not respond with conflict or aggression. I felt calm and peaceful knowing I did not react impulsively. Stoicism is the way of life.
@@chainedwaves thank you. Embracing stoicism has truly changed my life. I find myself not losing my patience or temper hardly at all now. I used to be a very angry person. Every time I find myself in a situation testing my resilience, I pause, take a breath and assess the situation. That pause is all it takes for me to not be quick to anger. I do slip up sometimes, but I do call myself on it, reminding myself that stoicism teaches us that whilst it’s ok to make mistakes, it is important to learn from them.
Absolutely, @mortyc137a2! Your story is a perfect example of how powerful Stoic principles can be in daily life. Staying calm and composed truly makes a difference. Keep practicing and inspiring others. Stoicism for the win! 💪🌿
A long time ago I started adopting Stoic principles while going through depression. More than anything else it helped me through. Maybe odd but more often than not my track is smooth and not a rollercoaster. More good than sad.
Stoics can come off as cold, via detachment. To have charisma, one must be warm, and accessible. "Sometimes we are feeling good, sometimes bad...but we go through life with feeling".
Reacting to stuff kept my life messy and stressed out, I knew it was happening, from the beginning but couldn't get a grip on things until I began to embrace Stoic principles. Was my life all negative and stressful, no but it contained a lot of it and it made me uncomfortable and this lack of ease eventually pushed me into Stoicism.
I truly appreciate how the video explains the importance of pausing and thinking before reacting. It's a valuable lesson that helps improve not only relationships but also decision-making skills!
Sam Vaknin, author and professor of psychology in an email: Sent: Sunday, 10 March 2024 12:09 PM “Just finished reading your magisterial book. [MIND GAMES The Dual Facets of Manipulation and Dark Psychology] The most thorough survey of Machiavellianism I have ever come across. Congratulations. It is awe-inspiring and seamlessly combines erudition with practical advice. Take care there! Sam Vaknin, Ph.D.” Member of the Faculty of CIAPS (Commonwealth Institute for Advanced Professional Studies), Cambridge, UK; Toronto, Canada, Lagos, Nigeria Former Visiting Professor of Psychology, Southern Federal University, Rostov-on-Don, Russia
Hello Stoics, I once played a video game in my youth it was called Final Fantasy 8. A character that I could instantly relate too was Zell, Young, quick to anger and all around hot head. Zell Had a special skill however he would take off running around the world and end the skill in a punch that would do devastating damage. I listened to this video and I want to run around the world fast and free like Zell, I want to close my fist and fly into your face until you realize they took everything from you and now teaching you how to cope with it. keep posting hope as they rob you.
I like the message that this video is conveying, but I got distracted and confused when I noticed "Away In a Manger" playing on piano in the background 😅
I listen to these in the shower I have to listen to them at least 3 times But yesterday day my boss said wow you really can't wait for Christmas What I said You been singing Christmas songs for the last 2 days it's summer I was like have I can't think why ? 😂😂 Listen to it again this morning and it clicked 😂😂 So if you find yourself humming and singing Christmas songs in the middle of the summer It's this video 😂😂
I went through about 4 1/2 minutes many TH-camrs believe that having music behind their speaking is the way to do it however it is like listening to a professor while the school band is playing in the background. The human mind absorbs better and can focus better with just the voice.
i have yet much to learn about reacting and responding over anger ......im still working on practicing mindfulness i have power over my mind not out side events i will keep learning and practacing.
We can choose not.to react, but it's tough to deal with people who keep changing their minds. They cannot move forward and being in their circle will hinder our forwarding steps too. Energy draining
there's a book called whispers of manifestation on borlest , and it talks about how using some secret tehniques you can attract almost everything in life it's not some bullshit law of attraction, it's the real deal
Only one question I have. What about spontaneousness or spontaneity ? Children have that but I believe it is balanced with their innocence and impartiality. I don’t think being emotionless is part of them. So how can we be child-like in that regard, so that we don’t appear un-natural in our responses? Children do reach an ‘age of reason’ as it is called . But I’ve witnessed them doing things with perfect logic at a very young age . It is a natural response in them.
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This article discusses Stoicism, an ancient philosophy that teaches how to face adversity and find peace in the midst of chaos. Stoicism encourages us to focus on what we can control, and to respond thoughtfully and intentionally rather than reacting on instinct. It also discusses strategies for developing a reactive mindset, including mindfulness, self-awareness, and keeping a larger purpose in mind.
Good video, but there's nothing specific here. I recommend everyone to find the forbidden book Whispers of Manifestation you'll be shocked by the secret attraction techniques it contains
Good video, but there's nothing specific here. I recommend everyone to find the forbidden book Whispers of Manifestation on Borlest you'll be shocked by the secret attraction techniques it contains
I’m 45 & cold turkey gave up alcohol 8 months ago & realised this since. Better late than never & finally moving forward in life instead of being everyone’s doormat
Congratulations on YOUR choice. I quit cold turkey 3 years ago. It has been very enlightening how toxic booze was in my life. Best decision I've made. Keep it up, it's worth it!
Great Job! I last took a drink in 2015 and not a sip since! It gets better but you can't give up. Even on the bad days reach for a barbell not a drink 💪
Keep going strong mate! 4 years and some for me. Started off by quitting for 6 months because it was getting out of hand. Realised those were the best 6 months I had since I was a child. Haven’t had a drop since.
I am 15 years off alcohol and it was hard very hard but now I know that I would have lost my family, my freedom or my life if I hadn't done it so keep going and stoicism will help you through the darkest days all the very best.
This sounds so good and so simple yet it’s so hard for me to do all the time. Great inspiration. If I can make this work for me I will be a much happier person. Stop & reflect before reacting with emotions. I’ve regretted so many confrontations by reacting on unbalanced emotions. I wish I found this long ago. I have to implement this process in my life. Pause instead of spaz.
Feel exactly the same as you do I also feel like this is very difficult to do and almost contrary to my nature Maybe that is kinda the point Any keep trying I think itll be worth it Im rooting for u
Today I feel terrible, rejected by my husband who is probably with someone else and is leaving home. I'm trying to study for a competition and I'm waiting for the interview for my master's degree. I'm helpless watching this video and I want to come back here to tell you that I'm fine, that I'm over it!
Your waiting for your interview for a Master's Degree. Master stoicism and you will ace your interview, you will have your Master's Degree. You can do it. My mother received her Master's in her 50s she just retired in June at 64. 😊
To quote the greatest psychologist ever, Carl Jung: "“There can be no transforming darkness into light, and apathy into movement, without emotion.” E-Motion is Energy in Motion. It calls the Life Force through us. The stoics come from the draconian society of "rules and logic." Only Universal Laws will lead us into the new heaven and the new earth. A belief is just a thought you keep thinking; it doesn't make it TRUE. Your Emotional Guidance System will NEVER lie to you.
The transcript emphasizes the power of Stoic philosophy in transforming life's challenges into victories by cultivating a mindset of responding rather than reacting.
I’ve been angry my whole life, recently ruined two relationships with it out of control and intoxication.. I feel like honestly I want to just never deal with anyone again. I’ve been trying to let people in for 8 years but I wasn’t getting the results I thought I might achieve. While this video is informative I still feel like I can’t love or ever feel like I’m heard when I speak or actually open myself up. It’s not how I want to live anymore, I’m tired of being angry at the world. I don’t know how I will overcome it, because I’m so used to being cynical about things I don’t like or believe in.
@@chainedwaves I’d like to think something worth of value came from watching these in general. I can only hope I’m not grasping at straws yet again through my own hubris.
Have you looked into Buddhism? I'm not a strict Buddhist, but after being helped by some of Shi Heng Yi's videos, who is a Shaolin master, here on youtube, I read the Dhammapada, and it has definitely helped me with detachment from people and society, and has made daily life easier to deal with and I'm calmer emotionally. I'd definitely recommend watching some of Shi Heng Yi's videos, and see whether what he talks about resonates with you. You often find with philosophy and the eastern religions that they share the theme of other people often being at the root of your problems, and recommend detachment from people, and external events that are out of your control. I found it a significant conscious effort at first to do this, but once you commit to this way of thought, I found it started to become natural after a few months and it has the power to change the way you feel and look at the world quite profoundly.
I know that feeling, I’ve been there. I want to share something with you that has improved the quality of my life immensely, and it’s a metaphor based on the foundations of Stoicism. Understand that the flow of life is like water. It is smooth sometimes and choppy at other times. Think of your existence like a boat. As long as you can stay afloat, you can deal with whatever the water conditions may be. I have found solutions, maintained peace, and been a good citizen by approaching all life circumstances with this in mind for 12 years now. Just keep reminding yourself of this, and watch that anger melt away. Wishing you the best, cause I know you can do it ☀️☀️☀️
How do I respond and not react when a nine year old is having a total tantrum, screaming, slamming doors, and saying mean things because I said no, she can't go to next-door neighbors to play at 938pm? Please help!!!!! 🙏
dont allow bratty behavior nip it in the bud respectful discipline explain to your kid sounds like they're are hard headed which is a good thing u gotta show em boundaries firmly and dont loosen ur cool evrn when ur upset. that will set the example that tantrums dont work. idk i got the same a hard headed kid thats what i could think of gd luck. Sometimes i forget whos raising who;)
Let them have the tantrum. When it’s over have the rational discussion that the behavior is unacceptable for a 9 year old. Set the limits. Whatever you choose, I.e. loss of privilege, whatever. And a suggestion for how to express ones’s anger and disappointment.
Im fully embracing stoicism and I'm more calm and measured in stressful situations. I keep my cool when I'm in traffic or someone cuts me off, I'm calm with difficult clients and colleagues. I'm struggling with my three kids aged 12, 9 and 6. They still push my buttons bigtime. If i can get past this I have it cracked!!
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I post pithy retorts based on the points you posit us here. With heartfelt respect for the timeless poignant wisdom of the mindfulness of Stoicism. 🎉🎉🎉 😊
..and okay a fair question would be "Is Stoicism a spiritual cousin to Absurdism?" .
how to apply stoicism in yourlife?
I'll keep with my rage and fists.
I am so glad i found stoisim, I actually believe i have always had these ways of thinking. I was brought up with these morals, old school. people have lost compassion for others, and how to interact with people because of the internet. we as people need human interaction and that is lost, people dont know how to talk to each other face to face, a txt an email is not interaction. come to my door, speak to me, look on my eyes. hug the people you love. stop texting your friend and saying hugs, its not a hug its bullshit. put ur phone down. go chap your friends door and give them a hug, lets start being human again. peace and fuck social media
“He who is slow to anger is better than the mighty, and he who rules his spirit than he who takes a city.” Proverbs 16:32.
Thank you for commenting this. So much wisdom in that book. I needed to hear it.
Yep pretty much nailed it. 😂 i think that is tge translation for the meek. 🤘🏻
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@OutstandStoic-rl4xp king Solomon.
yes, you are right
"Waste no more time arguing what a good man should be. Be one." - Marcus Aurelius
one of my favs. :)
my seneca saying for the day is it is not because things are difficult that we do not dare, it is because we do not dare that things are difficult.
Think about the last tine a situation tested your patience; earlier today at 18:30hrs with an obnoxious colleague, instead of responding negatively, I embraced the stoic principles and controlled the situation whilst maintaining my equanimity. It was relieving to see my colleague upset that I did not respond with conflict or aggression. I felt calm and peaceful knowing I did not react impulsively. Stoicism is the way of life.
That's an awesome example of true, everyday stoicism!
@@chainedwaves thank you. Embracing stoicism has truly changed my life. I find myself not losing my patience or temper hardly at all now. I used to be a very angry person. Every time I find myself in a situation testing my resilience, I pause, take a breath and assess the situation. That pause is all it takes for me to not be quick to anger. I do slip up sometimes, but I do call myself on it, reminding myself that stoicism teaches us that whilst it’s ok to make mistakes, it is important to learn from them.
Absolutely, @mortyc137a2! Your story is a perfect example of how powerful Stoic principles can be in daily life. Staying calm and composed truly makes a difference. Keep practicing and inspiring others. Stoicism for the win! 💪🌿
Once “obnoxious” is gone from your response… judgment is a reaction. Don’t stop the progress… develop it!
A long time ago I started adopting Stoic principles while going through depression. More than anything else it helped me through. Maybe odd but more often than not my track is smooth and not a rollercoaster. More good than sad.
This is the stuff kids should be learning in schools at an early age.
Should yes,
Look into the history of schooling and its reasoning, you'll discover why it is not.
No! They are children not adults! Let children have their childhood. They do not have the maturity nor should they to be forced to act like adults.
Those were my exact thoughts
Law of attraction.....relies on not reacting to situations, rather observe them and go with the flow. Great video.
Stoics can come off as cold, via detachment. To have charisma, one must be warm, and accessible. "Sometimes we are feeling good, sometimes bad...but we go through life with feeling".
He who laughs at himself never runs out of things to laugh at.
I work in a Hospital, and this is mental medicine for me😎😎💢💯💪💪
Stoicism isn’t just philosophy; it’s a toolkit for life. This video perfectly explains that. Well done!
Reacting to stuff kept my life messy and stressed out, I knew it was happening, from the beginning but couldn't get a grip on things until I began to embrace Stoic principles. Was my life all negative and stressful, no but it contained a lot of it and it made me uncomfortable and this lack of ease eventually pushed me into Stoicism.
The way you start by saying, " Today we are going to go deep into the heart of Stoicism"", makes me pay attention more than necessary 🙏
I'm impressed with how you highlighted the key points of Stoic philosophy in a concise and understandable manner
I truly appreciate how the video explains the importance of pausing and thinking before reacting. It's a valuable lesson that helps improve not only relationships but also decision-making skills!
Peace and blessings to you along the journey
Great tips on training the mind! Responding thoughtfully rather than reacting impulsively can truly transform our interactions and personal growth.
this is just the beginning. Read the forbidden book Whispers of Manifestation on Borlest, and you'll see the secrets they're keeping from us.
Dude .. no ..
where to buy this book?
There's nothing 'forbidden' about this.
@@bluejay2369 its scam don't
Your journey of growth starts here! Dive deeper into stoicism, and embrace its wisdom. 💪
Sam Vaknin, author and professor of psychology in an email:
Sent: Sunday, 10 March 2024 12:09 PM
“Just finished reading your magisterial book. [MIND GAMES The Dual Facets of Manipulation and Dark Psychology]
The most thorough survey of Machiavellianism I have ever come across. Congratulations. It is awe-inspiring and seamlessly combines erudition with practical advice.
Take care there!
Sam Vaknin, Ph.D.”
Member of the Faculty of CIAPS (Commonwealth Institute for Advanced Professional Studies), Cambridge, UK; Toronto, Canada, Lagos, Nigeria
Former Visiting Professor of Psychology, Southern Federal University, Rostov-on-Don, Russia
4:45 - enlightened me, great - Strategies for Training the Mind to Respond
Hello Stoics, I once played a video game in my youth it was called Final Fantasy 8. A character that I could instantly relate too was Zell, Young, quick to anger and all around hot head. Zell Had a special skill however he would take off running around the world and end the skill in a punch that would do devastating damage. I listened to this video and I want to run around the world fast and free like Zell, I want to close my fist and fly into your face until you realize they took everything from you and now teaching you how to cope with it. keep posting hope as they rob you.
I like the message that this video is conveying, but I got distracted and confused when I noticed "Away In a Manger" playing on piano in the background 😅
I realize resilience can learn that human design to use effectively our own thought
Excellent documentary, narrated by the Chosen One's . Very seasoned, too ❤ 🙏🏻
I listen to these in the shower
I have to listen to them at least 3 times
But yesterday day my boss said wow you really can't wait for Christmas
What I said
You been singing Christmas songs for the last 2 days it's summer
I was like have I can't think why ?
😂😂 Listen to it again this morning and it clicked 😂😂
So if you find yourself humming and singing Christmas songs in the middle of the summer
It's this video 😂😂
A must watch! kudos!
I went through about 4 1/2 minutes many TH-camrs believe that having music behind their speaking is the way to do it however it is like listening to a professor while the school band is playing in the background. The human mind absorbs better and can focus better with just the voice.
Inspiring message!
Something that I have been trying to figure out Ty for education and the opportunity for this lesson
i have yet much to learn about reacting and responding over anger ......im still working on practicing mindfulness i have power over my mind not out side events i will keep learning and practacing.
Thank you for this. It was exactly what I needed at this time. ;)
We can choose not.to react, but it's tough to deal with people who keep changing their minds. They cannot move forward and being in their circle will hinder our forwarding steps too. Energy draining
Yeah. Time to take a step back and ask why they can’t make up their mind and tell them when they do let you know. Then go about your business.
I am practicing this skill daily 😊
am learning self control it's great
The fact that nobody talks about the book whispers of manifestation on borlest speaks volumes about how people are stuck in a trance
Thank you ❤
there's a book called whispers of manifestation on borlest , and it talks about how using some secret tehniques you can attract almost everything in life it's not some bullshit law of attraction, it's the real deal
Just do the right thing.
Only one question I have. What about spontaneousness or spontaneity ?
Children have that but I believe it is balanced with their innocence and impartiality.
I don’t think being emotionless is part of them.
So how can we be child-like in that regard, so that we don’t appear un-natural in our responses?
Children do reach an ‘age of reason’ as it is called . But I’ve witnessed them doing things with perfect logic at a very young age .
It is a natural response in them.
Good lessons, thank you ❤
"Love your neighbor as yourself." - Mark 12:31
Love this philosophy
I pray 🙏🏽 I could master this skill…
Good kids! God bless!
thanks alot
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This article discusses Stoicism, an ancient philosophy that teaches how to face adversity and find peace in the midst of chaos. Stoicism encourages us to focus on what we can control, and to respond thoughtfully and intentionally rather than reacting on instinct. It also discusses strategies for developing a reactive mindset, including mindfulness, self-awareness, and keeping a larger purpose in mind.
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I couldn't take the background music. If I want to listen to piano there's lots of music videos for that.
@IronWillWarrior just posted a video titled
"CONQUER YOUR MIND"
No you're anger is you're strength use it wisely and rule the world
Enduring life's suffering is one way.
Learn to be Silent and be Clam 💪
Response is also a reaction.
🙏
Does anyone know the name of the song that starts around the 3:45 mark?
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How to receive the money
Briljante Video ek leer baie!
Hey pal I’ll train my mind as I choose, suggest you do same, all are free to be as they be🙏😎
Too bad these concepts aren't taught in public school
Have you ever wanted to counter-program a poncey english-accent villain? Me,too! 😅😀😊
Little Milton "That's How Strong My Love Is.." . 🎉
🙏⭕️🙏
May Allah Subhanallah grant the abilities to follow all 8 bashihat, inshallah
Even our Lord lost his
temper. Like when he
whaled on the money
changers? 😏
Double Dutch
Good video, but there's nothing specific here. I recommend everyone to find the forbidden book Whispers of Manifestation you'll be shocked by the secret attraction techniques it contains
We're only scratching the surface here. Explore the forbidden book Whispers of Manifestation on Borlest to uncover hidden truth.
I recommend everyone to find the forbidden book titled Whispers of Manifestation on borlest it goes deep into all of this, and it changed my life
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The afternoon tea in a hotel music is far too distracting, irrelevant and irritating. Couldn't listen to the end.
AI BS
Good video, but there's nothing specific here. I recommend everyone to find the forbidden book Whispers of Manifestation on Borlest you'll be shocked by the secret attraction techniques it contains
I’m 45 & cold turkey gave up alcohol 8 months ago & realised this since. Better late than never & finally moving forward in life instead of being everyone’s doormat
Congratulations on YOUR choice. I quit cold turkey 3 years ago. It has been very enlightening how toxic booze was in my life. Best decision I've made.
Keep it up, it's worth it!
Great Job! I last took a drink in 2015 and not a sip since! It gets better but you can't give up. Even on the bad days reach for a barbell not a drink 💪
Keep going strong mate! 4 years and some for me. Started off by quitting for 6 months because it was getting out of hand. Realised those were the best 6 months I had since I was a child. Haven’t had a drop since.
I am 15 years off alcohol and it was hard very hard but now I know that I would have lost my family, my freedom or my life if I hadn't done it so keep going and stoicism will help you through the darkest days all the very best.
Cool ur so right
I have been sober for 15 months and I can look back and see how alcohol made me settle for less since I had low self esteem
🙏
This sounds so good and so simple yet it’s so hard for me to do all the time. Great inspiration. If I can make this work for me I will be a much happier person. Stop & reflect before reacting with emotions. I’ve regretted so many confrontations by reacting on unbalanced emotions. I wish I found this long ago. I have to implement this process in my life. Pause instead of spaz.
Feel exactly the same as you do
I also feel like this is very difficult to do and almost contrary to my nature
Maybe that is kinda the point
Any keep trying I think itll be worth it
Im rooting for u
Understanding yourself and your deep seeded emotional triggers is the first step to mastering your responses. You’ve found the right path!
Today I feel terrible, rejected by my husband who is probably with someone else and is leaving home. I'm trying to study for a competition and I'm waiting for the interview for my master's degree. I'm helpless watching this video and I want to come back here to tell you that I'm fine, that I'm over it!
You WILL be fine, you WILL get over it. Chin up--that day is coming, friend.
You will be fine stay strong
Your waiting for your interview for a Master's Degree. Master stoicism and you will ace your interview, you will have your Master's Degree. You can do it. My mother received her Master's in her 50s she just retired in June at 64. 😊
Response , not reaction . So intense yet so simple . I have yet to learn how to respond . 😮
Practice makes perfect
To quote the greatest psychologist ever, Carl Jung: "“There can be no transforming darkness into light, and apathy into movement, without emotion.” E-Motion is Energy in Motion. It calls the Life Force through us. The stoics come from the draconian society of "rules and logic." Only Universal Laws will lead us into the new heaven and the new earth. A belief is just a thought you keep thinking; it doesn't make it TRUE. Your Emotional Guidance System will NEVER lie to you.
Why Away in a Manger? Is it to test stoicism?
Is the music playing Away in a manager?
Help help help,yall,i been tryin,wel see.❤❤❤
"Very little is needed to make a happy life." - Marcus Aurelius
Law of attraction...relies on not reacting to situations, rather observe them and go with the flow. Great video.
The transcript emphasizes the power of Stoic philosophy in transforming life's challenges into victories by cultivating a mindset of responding rather than reacting.
I’ve been angry my whole life, recently ruined two relationships with it out of control and intoxication.. I feel like honestly I want to just never deal with anyone again.
I’ve been trying to let people in for 8 years but I wasn’t getting the results I thought I might achieve.
While this video is informative I still feel like I can’t love or ever feel like I’m heard when I speak or actually open myself up.
It’s not how I want to live anymore, I’m tired of being angry at the world.
I don’t know how I will overcome it, because I’m so used to being cynical about things I don’t like or believe in.
Stoicism is the best way to deal with anger. There are so many videos about how to be better. You're doing great already by watching this stuff :)
@@chainedwaves I’d like to think something worth of value came from watching these in general. I can only hope I’m not grasping at straws yet again through my own hubris.
Have you looked into Buddhism? I'm not a strict Buddhist, but after being helped by some of Shi Heng Yi's videos, who is a Shaolin master, here on youtube, I read the Dhammapada, and it has definitely helped me with detachment from people and society, and has made daily life easier to deal with and I'm calmer emotionally. I'd definitely recommend watching some of Shi Heng Yi's videos, and see whether what he talks about resonates with you.
You often find with philosophy and the eastern religions that they share the theme of other people often being at the root of your problems, and recommend detachment from people, and external events that are out of your control. I found it a significant conscious effort at first to do this, but once you commit to this way of thought, I found it started to become natural after a few months and it has the power to change the way you feel and look at the world quite profoundly.
@@Andygb78 I’ll be sure to looking into the sect of it for sure, appreciate the recommendation.
I know that feeling, I’ve been there. I want to share something with you that has improved the quality of my life immensely, and it’s a metaphor based on the foundations of Stoicism. Understand that the flow of life is like water. It is smooth sometimes and choppy at other times. Think of your existence like a boat. As long as you can stay afloat, you can deal with whatever the water conditions may be. I have found solutions, maintained peace, and been a good citizen by approaching all life circumstances with this in mind for 12 years now. Just keep reminding yourself of this, and watch that anger melt away. Wishing you the best, cause I know you can do it ☀️☀️☀️
this is merely the start. Get the forbidden book Whispers of Manifestation on Borlest, and uncover the secrets they've been hiding.
It's emezing education and emotional for those who love statistics. ❤️
Peace and blessings to you along the journey
Same old stuff repackaged.
Not even repackaged, just a new label.
But I don’t need four minutes of you telling me what this is about and what I will learn from this seriously what a joke
Wonderful ❤
Thank you for this video it thought me alot
Any response imports consequences.
How do I respond and not react when a nine year old is having a total tantrum, screaming, slamming doors, and saying mean things because I said no, she can't go to next-door neighbors to play at 938pm? Please help!!!!! 🙏
dont allow bratty behavior nip it in the bud respectful discipline explain to your kid sounds like they're are hard headed which is a good thing u gotta show em boundaries firmly and dont loosen ur cool evrn when ur upset. that will set the example that tantrums dont work. idk i got the same a hard headed kid thats what i could think of gd luck. Sometimes i forget whos raising who;)
Let them have the tantrum. When it’s over have the rational discussion that the behavior is unacceptable for a 9 year old. Set the limits. Whatever you choose, I.e. loss of privilege, whatever. And a suggestion for how to express ones’s anger and disappointment.
Thank you for your advice.
Im fully embracing stoicism and I'm more calm and measured in stressful situations. I keep my cool when I'm in traffic or someone cuts me off, I'm calm with difficult clients and colleagues. I'm struggling with my three kids aged 12, 9 and 6. They still push my buttons bigtime. If i can get past this I have it cracked!!
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