A king looks for a woman who: 1. She EXCLUSIVE to him 2. She REPRESENTS herself well 3. She ENFORCES her boundaries 4. She is capable of creating a high-value partership with 5. She is RESPECTFUL to her husband
I had a “King” for my husband but I chose wisely. He passed in 2020 but I’m so blessed to have had him as my husband and father to my two children. We were married almost 22 years. 💕
I was in such a bad place drinking way to much upset about my past and just so lonely, I decided to stop drinking and would go to bed and tell myself stay on your path One night I was looking for some calming music and I saw you so I listened to what you were saying . You Sir have helped me so very much , the way you speak to women and the truth behind everything you talk about. I just want to thank you so very much for all you have showed me so far
Yeah rare i have one in my inbox ,now finally on my WhatsApp but i don't know how to behave❤bt trying to be me and pray when time is right all works out well
This was very informative. I considered myself as being a virtuous woman and my husband prospered because of it. Then he decided he could get a better family because financially and socially he was a "King" and I needed to be more submissive and then he became abusive physically and mentally toward me and the children. The very person he wanted, he tore down. Some men just don't know what they want. Now he wants his family back, which will never happen. I thank God for rescuing me and healing me.I might be torn, but I'm not broken.
Sweetie, what a heartache 💔 It sounds like you were ensnared by a Narcissist. I have experience with them, and I'm learning about Narcissism through reading and being in professional therapy. God bless you, and continue to comfort and heal you. You're precious to Him.❤️
@@caroliner2029 Hello. I most definitely was involved with a "narc" and his mom supported him all the way because money was involved for her. Now she wants to be in her adult grandchildren lives, which they won't call her or anything.They probably blame that on me too, but they remember her not calling and sending gifts for Christmas. Now she's trying to assist her son into getting back to me. Crazy, huh?. We all are well and I do wish him the best as well as her; but as for me and my children, we will stay away from them. Our emotional state depends on that. Thank you for your concern and have a blessed day.
@@caroliner2029 I was going to say the same. Have you checked out Dr. Ramani’s channel and Lisa A. Romano’s? I have had a terrible experience and spent the past almost 3 years learning about NPD. I own nearly 30 books on this topic. I love Shahida Arabi’s books and the latest book from Dr. Ramani. I listen to them on audio all the time. I’m sorry you had to go through something so awful! Sending you love and light!
@@katalinmcewan these are two amazing channels. I agree. Dr. Ramani and Lisa A Romano have helped lead me to some powerful revelations regarding narcissists and narcissistic abuse.
My mom is almost 87 and much of what you are teaching was taught to us years ago. She and my dad was married over 50 years before dad died. It would hurt her feelings if dad left the house in dirty, wrinkled or torn clothing..... she always said it was a reflection on her......
And how a QUEEN treats her KING is a reflection of whether she's taken responsibility for healing herself in Christ, to ensure she's not speaking or behaving from a place of woundedness or toxic Feminism. This is a two-way street of two adults owning & taking responsibility for becoming emotionally integrated, to be able to treat each other with mutual respect & love within the boundaries of their God-designed roles, so they can be a Kingdom Couple who adorn the gospel. 💜🙏💜
Thought it was just me and wouldn’t put it out there. “A woman is happy and polite.” This was so important to me. When I met my wife she was so delightful and respectful to everyone that she captivated me. I said to myself “That is who I want beside me!”
5 things a woman is looking for in a man: 1. FAITHFULNESS 2. A FREE MAN who IS INDEPENDENT OF PLEASING THE CROWD. 3. A MAN WHO SUPPORTS HER CAREER OR INTERESTS AS WELL AS HIS OWN. 4. A MAN WHO DOES NOT SEE HER AS A BODY PART. 5. A MAN WHO SEES HER IN HIS FUTURE WHEN HE LOOKS IN HIS MIRROR.
7. A man who is respectful and kind, loving and gentle, not abusive and evil !!! A man who will respect the woman if she has children, and will help her to raise them if he loves her enough to do that. A man who has the strength to do the right thing ALWAYS; and NEVER needs to follow the crowd!!!💯💜🙏
Most men do not understand this; perhaps they did not have role models especially from a father's, the friends they had, other family members, the mothers not teach their sons the value of a woman & the marriage & family institution ordained by God Almighty Jesus Yeshua Christ Jesus hallelujah and soon coming king! R.C Blake's is a real God sent; to promote the education & change so much of our men need & women; it is both sides balance . Most family need Christ character in their hearts, in truth in the lives; not just 'profession' bug to walk thecwslj; talk the talk; live the life; in accordance to st John chapter 14 & verse 6 & 7. Ephesians chapters 6; we are not wrestling with flesh & blood... to understand Galatians chapter 5 , those who practice such things will not inheritance the kingdom' of God. And Absouletly understand II Timothy chapter 3. ' 'Perilous times shall come" it here & now. Individuals will be lovers of pleasures; themselves more than lovers of God. Love will be waxed cold, without natural affection, law breakers, ferce...On so on read for yourselves & let no man deceive you.. says Christ Jesus hallelujah! Yeshua . ❤and appreciate to you all the body of Christ; for all the gifts abilities & talents; the calling; service & ministries; diversity that Jesus Yeshua Christ Jesus hallelujah and soon coming king have blessed his people with. May you all, seek his face now in true humility, repentance, love & obedience; faith & righteous; holiness which is lacking in the body of believers/ church hence the lack of real power & shining light before men; to glorified our father in heaven. Prsy God me as I continue to pray for you all! Because my hope is built on nothing less; than The merits of Jesus Yeshua Christ blood & righteousness; than blood will & cannot loose it power, so simple to the cross I will cling❤ ;
1. Exclusivity 2. A king values a woman that represents herself well 3. A king waits for a woman that draws the line 4. A king needs a woman to create a high value partnership with 5. If you respect him you can have anything
1. He knows who he is. 2. Where he is going. 3. Who he needs. THAT PART ! This is a man who knows his purpose and with whom he needs to align so as to allow God to get glory from his life.
I jus happened to click on your message about a woman should not pursue a man. You were so right Bishop Blake's. I want to thank you for allowing me to fess up to myself about a previous relationship that was just as you stated. I now have a man that I have never met (he is an Orthopedic Surgeon serving our country in Bagdad , Iraq). We met on line, we communicate by text and he calls often. I don't call him he calls me quite often. He has asked me to marry him as soon as he gets home. He has never asked me for anything with the exception of loving him. He does not let me have my way all the time. He steps up to the plate and puts me in my place. You know sometimes we women like to try a man to see how far her man will let her. I'm so happy he is a man that I can love and respect. Thanks for your knowledge and scriptural influence on my life. Glad I took the time to listen to you tonight. I will continue to listen to your programs.
"When my mother and father forsake me, its the Lord that will take me up. "God knew parents aren't perfect people..follow by their with their struggles...with brokenness leads too disfunction...uncertainty hopelessness and despair. The Bible says ",when not hypothetically speaking...not if but when means there's going to be challenges..heartbreak and pain.
@@yvonneyoung7443 "He does not let me have my way all the time. He steps up to the plate and puts me in my place." "He has asked me to marry him soon as he gets home". Met online, never met him, communicates by text, he calls often. RED FLAGS!!!! Beware!
"A woman that says before I disrespect myself and get in this masculine energy...I will find my happy place within myself which is the only place it resides anyway, I will live my life with purpose and fulfillment and I will be a blessing to the world for all of my years before I come down off my place of virtue." Thank you for your guidance!! God Bless you and your family.
This was SO GOOD! If this ain't preparation, I don't know what is. One of my prayers has been, Lord teach us about relationships and how to go about this thing. Well, Pastor Blakes is the voice for this hour and helping us to understand how to present ourselves. He's talking to the KINGS and helping them as well!! "He who has an ear...let him listen, understand, take into consideration!! Thank you Pastor Blakes and Lady Blakes! Appreciate you both GREATLY!!
Amen I found your teachings about 8 years ago, and to this day, I credit you for my understanding about the dynamics of men vs women and the sacred role that we play in each other lives for the Glory of God in the Sacred Institution of HOLY MATRIMONY.
I’m 22 years old and I’m taking in all this wisdom from your videos, it help me in my journey of becoming of virtuous woman of God, setting the example for my daughter❤️❤️❤️ thank you
Listen you are hitting everything that needs to be said this day and time!! This is a right now message. And I'm so tired of social media and television teaching us how we should be as women. But they are not teaching us how to be Kings and Queens. My husband and I talk about these things all the time. We are that power couple!
Thank you being obedient to the holy spirit and using your voice. You are giving many women a well needed Father - Daughter talk that some never got, and some that needed reminded of.
Now that is deep. A King honors his woman so good that his woman naturally submits to him. 💕I love it, & believes it's true. It's her free will and how she shows her love for him.
For a few months I’ve seen you on my timeline and had the nerves to roll my eyes because I’ve had no desire for a relationship… however today I’ve started listening and I’m stuck. Thank you for checking and directing me for when I am ready.
yea i 100% messed up on who i had a kid with. 😔 y’all pray for my son Elias please, and his father too. 🙏🏼 God bless. praying for every woman here watching this too
I LOVE YOUR VIDEOS AND THEY'RE ALWAYS WELL WORHT MY TIME. Thank you for all of your knowledge. Spoken like a true king. You and your wife give the rest of us hope knowing that this type of blessing does exist and isn't just in fairytales. Thank you again 💝
Thank you for your teaching. You sound so much like my dad when I was a young girl teaching and telling me what to look for I a man. He passed away at 83 years of age, and I miss so much talking and listening to him. It's like hearing him thru you thank you and your wife. I send this teaching to my 3 sons. Keep it up people need to hear these messages.
Love what you said when a man honours his wife and takes care of her, submission is her natural response. When a man treats a woman well she fall in love with him more and want to be closer to him 😊
Absolutely! When we feel protected, not exploited, but valued, we feel relaxed and excited at the same time. The pleasure felt is greater, and we fall in love so completely.
I don’t know what I would have done without Mr. Blake’s, I’m grateful to have found him. So many things learned through his ministry, so much comfort to the heart after we accept what he and Gpd have to teach us. 🙏🏼
This is literally the most sober word and instruction I have ever heard on this subject. Thank you so much for taking your time and including relevant scripture! God bless you!
Submission is her natural Response, so true. My father Was that man. My father had Standards for us, enforced By example and love. We Never wanted to disappoint Him. We had a treasure in Him.
You are blessed. My father was argumentative, forceful and angry more than anything else. So I entered into some very abusive relationships with my last one almost killing me. We learn from our fathers. So true.
Thanks for your Reply. My father was Loving, and taught me To take care of myself. However he didn't teach Me about abusive men. Therefore I married Not a physically abusive Person but emotionally Abusive person, because They hide they're true Selves until after you Come to love and trust Them. What I am relearning Is balance self love. Just left the doctors office To begin getting my health In order to live better. I'm on my journey. As soon As you can start your Journey. I can understand The things you may have Endured. Their are so Many of us who care about Our neighbors. I'm Your neighbor , don't Give up for yourself and Those that love you.
God led me to your teachings and I look forward to watching your teachings daily , you are the earthly father I didn’t get the opportunity to have to sit down and teach me these important lessons … I was taught the worldy way but now that I am saved woman of God , I feel God has used you to teach me the Godly way 🙏🏾 God bless you Bishop
Life is so Beautiful. I gave my life to Jesus when I was 19 and Ive not regretted that, but I have made some wrong decisions along this journey but I will not allow them to define me!
A friend stumbled upon your channel. She decided to listen in and found that what you were speaking about was very interesting. Well she just told me about your channel. I tuned in and liked what I heard as well. All Praises to The Most High!
I like what you said about "A King waits for A Woman that draws the line." Too many women do not have the self-respect for themselves to enforce this. This is good preaching! Thank you for speaking the truth!
Your teachings quench my thirst for knowledge and wisdom and empowers me to practice healthy boundaries. Thank you so much for ministering to my friends and I... you're loved and appreciated ❤
Thank You your MAJESTY you are a great example of a real KING .and the real definition of a high value man . I watched Kevin Samuels video and it made me cry for three days . Then I found you and I just feel renewed thank you so much Mr. Blakes Pastor Blakes , KING BLAKES. Bless you for taking your time to heal the black women and men.
Thanks! Pastor! I really enjoyed this sermon! I have never been Married so I have stopped all things regarding to my own flesh instead I’m waiting on the right woman by the grace of “GOD” waiting on the “LORD”🙏🏽
I fight against all my conditioners to keep the best aspects of myself relevant...I know insecurities are not real...not to a real person... they are a process of colonization and programming... men and women are important...we are all conditioned from children to accept violence...that violence is the colonizer's way to have its precived enemies obliterate themselves, so they don't have to...
Happy, fulfilled within herself but open to the right situation if it suits her. When a woman represents herself well, it speaks of her self-respect. Food for thought, thank you pastor RC Blakes.
Ty for blessing me I’ve never been married and I had 2 kids... you truly bless my soul and God has really saved me from pain...I’m single and in no hurry ty bishop keep the teachings coming...I am a proverbs 31 woman
Representation is everything! This is the message that Monique have been speaking about , woman coming out in public with bonnets and pajamas. It's crazy how she's getting bashed for her message!
For all the people out there always remember couples don't complete each other they only unite in the physical realm it's god and god alone who completes them in an institution of marriage and marriage is not a contract it's a covenant made by him so let's honour it .
Amen!!! Draw the line..... and enforce the line. I am the butt of many jokes because I have self respect and I am fine with that. I refuse to compromise....
I just discovered this channel. Actually today. I really enjoyed his talks. I also really like the way he talks about his wife. U can tell he does cherish her.
Thank you so much!!! I am 33 and Single. I am working on my healing process. Waiting for a King that God will put in my path. Thank you for this clarity.
I cannot express with mere words how grateful I am for all that you have taught me to better myself. You are truly my spiritual father and for this I will always give thanks to God. I wish I could have been blessed to have had a father like you to help guide me as a young girl. Better late than never Bishop and I will ensure my daughter is very familiar with all you have taught me in order to put that crown back on my head and straighten it! Love ya and Beautiful Mrs. Lisa Blake’s -2 beautiful souls Helping millions of people in need of the Lord’s guidance
36:49 caught me off guard 🤣😭 his sense of humour is priceless like yes he’s serious with the things he’s saying but jokes here and there it adds to the teaching 😂👏🏾‼️
Goodafternoon real good man will sacrifice for you make you happy n also ask what ‘s you need help with seriously n what ‘s your future goals . A real good man willing take burden off you n also send you roses , help with bills , communications is the key n trust , get away weekend , make you first in his life . He going to honor you n value seriously, a lots men doesn’t take this seriously n do a lots of talking but not actions . It’s simple things too keep a woman
Pastor Blakes, you have really helped me to understand my whole disastrous romantic history with this one video. I have always been a queen, but lacked patience because of the dire lack of kings in my circles, in tandem with my biological clock. I am from Trinidad and Tobago, aged 42. I have been a question asker from childhood, a voracious reader and strong thinker, and I was always interested in creating high value children and a high value visionary partnership with their father. I always had a style that was self-respecting; I always felt my body was only to be seen by my king. No booty shots for me, and no decolletage or pum pum shorts, either. But I could never respect or give exclusivity to a man who did not cherish, honour, commit to and demonstrate king-leader qualities both in his own life and with me. I just don't know how to do that. And my boundaries haven't always been clear, especially the older I got. So now I know exactly what work I have to do and I also know what the man who would be my husband must be able, by his lifestyle and character, to inspire in me. Thanks a million. The Force is really strong with you.
I'm so impressed with you. Your messages are so profound and accurate. Just perfect for this time frame, a message for required learning for happiness.
I too was physically,emotionallly and verbally abused by my ex husband I was so torn. I was a submissive wife but he was so unfaithful. I lost all respect for him. I'm free from him now. Thank God. Don't think I will ever get married again.
This message was so good and timely. I spend much time in my vehicle listening to words of wisdom and encouragement. Your messages give clarity to the "how" and "why" of a matter, this was lacking growing up. Thank you for taking the time.
My best friend is a high quality man. He is a King. I thank you for clearing this up. I highly respect him. He told me today how much that he appreciated me for my respect him and appreciated him.
Love and honor my wife. My pride doesn't mean anything when it comes to her needs. God Bless.
Not many out here thinking like you. Glad your here to testify Men like you exist in these TH-cam streets. Amen
Amazing...god bless you!!
Thank you for sharing my brother
Amen
Amen 🙏🏽
A king looks for a woman who:
1. She EXCLUSIVE to him
2. She REPRESENTS herself well
3. She ENFORCES her boundaries
4. She is capable of creating a high-value partership with
5. She is RESPECTFUL to her husband
Thank you!
well said, many women are not exclusive the ones that are or the loyal ones God will bless even more
Thank you 🙏🏾
only agree with 2, 3 is redundant 5 is a consequence not a relevant measure, 1 false, 4 is vague
Thank you so much for this valuable information!!!!
I had a “King” for my husband but I chose wisely. He passed in 2020 but I’m so blessed to have had him as my husband and father to my two children. We were married almost 22 years. 💕
@Alicia Hope Alexander thank you 🌺🌸
Oh how precious sister Nadine! Your beloved king had his queen. So many of us wait a whole lifetime for this bond in Father's Love.
Nadine am sorry for that loss be strong and hold on the bond he left with you in its well and God is your strength
Sorry for your loss.
Sorry for the loss.
“He’s a man who honors his woman so well that ‘submission’ is her natural response”
That blessed me down in my toes!
That’s a KING!
This is what a lot of these men do not understand.
Bingo that's the part men forget about
That's right!
“When you want to help people, you tell them the truth. When you want to help yourself, you tell them what they want to hear.” - Thomas Sowell
I heard this : " Men need to be respected. Women need to be cherished. " Thank you RC BLAKES !
So a women don't need respect also but to be cherished...Sounds kind of unusual 🤔
A woman needs to be respected as well.
@@tranishaguzman-lopez7054 Tell and say that again.
At what point does a woman being cherished mean she’s being disrespected? Smh
I was in such a bad place drinking way to much upset about my past and just so lonely, I decided to stop drinking and would go to bed and tell myself stay on your path One night I was looking for some calming music and I saw you so I listened to what you were saying . You Sir have helped me so very much , the way you speak to women and the truth behind everything you talk about. I just want to thank you so very much for all you have showed me so far
Thank you 🙏🏽 I can’t tell you how much this means to me. 😊♥️
I pray your strength in the Lord in Jesus name.
💝💝
❤️❤️❤️
You just touched my heart young lady this word has also blessed my life
A KING mindset is so rare these days. I have faith and patience that there are a few still left.
I’m with you Sis.
Yeah rare i have one in my inbox ,now finally on my WhatsApp but i don't know how to behave❤bt trying to be me and pray when time is right all works out well
There are, but very few of them.
I have found one, its beautiful sis. Prayer and wait ,he will find you.
I'm waiting and seeking for my king
This was very informative. I considered myself as being a virtuous woman and my husband prospered because of it. Then he decided he could get a better family because financially and socially he was a "King" and I needed to be more submissive and then he became abusive physically and mentally toward me and the children. The very person he wanted, he tore down. Some men just don't know what they want. Now he wants his family back, which will never happen. I thank God for rescuing me and healing me.I might be torn, but I'm not broken.
Sweetie, what a heartache 💔
It sounds like you were ensnared by a Narcissist.
I have experience with them, and I'm learning about Narcissism through reading and being in professional therapy.
God bless you, and continue to comfort and heal you. You're precious to Him.❤️
@@caroliner2029 Hello. I most definitely was involved with a "narc" and his mom supported him all the way because money was involved for her. Now she wants to be in her adult grandchildren lives, which they won't call her or anything.They probably blame that on me too, but they remember her not calling and sending gifts for Christmas. Now she's trying to assist her son into getting back to me. Crazy, huh?. We all are well and I do wish him the best as well as her; but as for me and my children, we will stay away from them. Our emotional state depends on that. Thank you for your concern and have a blessed day.
Be very discerning about what you see.
@@caroliner2029 I was going to say the same. Have you checked out Dr. Ramani’s channel and Lisa A. Romano’s? I have had a terrible experience and spent the past almost 3 years learning about NPD. I own nearly 30 books on this topic. I love Shahida Arabi’s books and the latest book from Dr. Ramani. I listen to them on audio all the time. I’m sorry you had to go through something so awful! Sending you love and light!
@@katalinmcewan these are two amazing channels. I agree. Dr. Ramani and Lisa A Romano have helped lead me to some powerful revelations regarding narcissists and narcissistic abuse.
My mom is almost 87 and much of what you are teaching was taught to us years ago. She and my dad was married over 50 years before dad died. It would hurt her feelings if dad left the house in dirty, wrinkled or torn clothing..... she always said it was a reflection on her......
“Queens draw the line.” God has been molding and teaching me that this year. It feels empowering to have stern boundaries
I agree Sis
@@l.christinejones8164 🙌🏼🙌🏼
True
Ft to see BB xxx zzw
You Got it Precious 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
The quality of a man woman is basis on how he treats her. So how a KING treats his QUEEN is a reflection of him.
REAL TRUTH AMEN!!!!!!👍🏾👍🏾🔥🔥💚🙌🏿👐🏿💜
I cant agree more. 💯✔️
And how a QUEEN treats her KING is a reflection of whether she's taken responsibility for healing herself in Christ, to ensure she's not speaking or behaving from a place of woundedness or toxic Feminism.
This is a two-way street of two adults owning & taking responsibility for becoming emotionally integrated, to be able to treat each other with mutual respect & love within the boundaries of their God-designed roles, so they can be a Kingdom Couple who adorn the gospel. 💜🙏💜
FACTS!
That is the exact truth.
Thought it was just me and wouldn’t put it out there. “A woman is happy and polite.” This was so important to me. When I met my wife she was so delightful and respectful to everyone that she captivated me. I said to myself “That is who I want beside me!”
Some men sees that in a woman, and only intend to tear her down.
💝
Yes! A MAN 'recognize' a gift from GOD!🙏😉
@@patriciawhite9509 : PLEASE! DON'T confuse a MAN with a 'pair of pants.'😢👀
@@gloriousjohnson1807 i hear you loud and clear.
5 things a woman is looking for in a man: 1. FAITHFULNESS 2. A FREE MAN who IS INDEPENDENT OF PLEASING THE CROWD. 3. A MAN WHO SUPPORTS HER CAREER OR INTERESTS AS WELL AS HIS OWN. 4. A MAN WHO DOES NOT SEE HER AS A BODY PART. 5. A MAN WHO SEES HER IN HIS FUTURE WHEN HE LOOKS IN HIS MIRROR.
6. A MAN OF GOD WHO FEARS AND LOVE GOD.
7. A man who is respectful and kind, loving and gentle, not abusive and evil !!! A man who will respect the woman if she has children, and will help her to raise them if he loves her enough to do that. A man who has the strength to do the right thing ALWAYS; and NEVER needs to follow the crowd!!!💯💜🙏
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A man who is not into substance abuse like alcohol and cigarettes, a man who is emotionally controlled, a man who has wisdom and maturity.
#2!!!!! Yes!!!! We need more of that in the world! 🌎 🙏❤️
“He is a man that honors a woman so well that submission is her natural response.” Yessir. 👏🏽 🔥
Most men do not understand this; perhaps they did not have role models especially from a father's, the friends they had, other family members, the mothers not teach their sons the value of a woman & the marriage & family institution ordained by God Almighty Jesus Yeshua Christ Jesus hallelujah and soon coming king! R.C Blake's is a real God sent; to promote the education & change so much of our men need & women; it is both sides balance . Most family need Christ character in their hearts, in truth in the lives; not just 'profession' bug to walk thecwslj; talk the talk; live the life; in accordance to st John chapter 14 & verse 6 & 7. Ephesians chapters 6; we are not wrestling with flesh & blood... to understand Galatians chapter 5 , those who practice such things will not inheritance the kingdom' of God. And Absouletly understand II Timothy chapter 3. ' 'Perilous times shall come" it here & now. Individuals will be lovers of pleasures; themselves more than lovers of God. Love will be waxed cold, without natural affection, law breakers, ferce...On so on read for yourselves & let no man deceive you.. says Christ Jesus hallelujah! Yeshua . ❤and appreciate to you all the body of Christ; for all the gifts abilities & talents; the calling; service & ministries; diversity that Jesus Yeshua Christ Jesus hallelujah and soon coming king have blessed his people with. May you all, seek his face now in true humility, repentance, love & obedience; faith & righteous; holiness which is lacking in the body of believers/ church hence the lack of real power & shining light before men; to glorified our father in heaven. Prsy God me as I continue to pray for you all! Because my hope is built on nothing less; than The merits of Jesus Yeshua Christ blood & righteousness; than blood will & cannot loose it power, so simple to the cross I will cling❤
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Reverse manipulation?😊
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@@yuu_miran😂
Ahhhhhhhhh there. It is an honor to follow the lead of her leader.
KINGS and QUEENS do not have time to waste they do not play relationship games
Facts
I agree with you 🥰👍
No will leave before that happens
Absolutely correct
Amen!! ❤
Submission is her natural response... I love this!! 💜❤️
1. Exclusivity
2. A king values a woman that represents herself well
3. A king waits for a woman that draws the line
4. A king needs a woman to create a high value partnership with
5. If you respect him you can have anything
Thank you! I always look for the blessed person who summarized the video into a bullet list! :D
Same here.♥️
Thank you!
1. He knows who he is. 2. Where he is going. 3. Who he needs. THAT PART ! This is a man who knows his purpose and with whom he needs to align so as to allow God to get glory from his life.
A king does not share! Shout out to you Mr Blakes, you hit the nail on the head.... Preach!!!!! Great message
You are the father I wish I had growing up ❤️ thank you for teaching women how to value themselves like queens ❤️👸🏻
I just adopted him today!
I jus happened to click on your message about a woman should not pursue a man. You were so right Bishop Blake's. I want to thank you for allowing me to fess up to myself about a previous relationship that was just as you stated. I now have a man that I have never met (he is an Orthopedic Surgeon serving our country in Bagdad , Iraq). We met on line, we communicate by text and he calls often. I don't call him he calls me quite often. He has asked me to marry him as soon as he gets home. He has never asked me for anything with the exception of loving him. He does not let me have my way all the time. He steps up to the plate and puts me in my place. You know sometimes we women like to try a man to see how far her man will let her. I'm so happy he is a man that I can love and respect.
Thanks for your knowledge and scriptural influence on my life. Glad I took the time to listen to you tonight. I will continue to listen to your programs.
"When my mother and father forsake me, its the Lord that will take me up. "God knew parents aren't perfect people..follow by their with their struggles...with brokenness leads too
disfunction...uncertainty hopelessness and despair. The Bible says ",when not hypothetically speaking...not if but when means there's going to be challenges..heartbreak and pain.
@@sharonmathis-washington3455 Be careful of this man you have NEVER met. Long distance relationships often times don't work out well.
@@yvonneyoung7443 "He does not let me have my way all the time. He steps up to the plate and puts me in my place." "He has asked me to marry him soon as he gets home". Met online, never met him, communicates by text, he calls often. RED FLAGS!!!! Beware!
"A woman that says before I disrespect myself and get in this masculine energy...I will find my happy place within myself which is the only place it resides anyway, I will live my life with purpose and fulfillment and I will be a blessing to the world for all of my years before I come down off my place of virtue."
Thank you for your guidance!! God Bless you and your family.
This was SO GOOD! If this ain't preparation, I don't know what is. One of my prayers has been, Lord teach us about relationships and how to go about this thing. Well, Pastor Blakes is the voice for this hour and helping us to understand how to present ourselves. He's talking to the KINGS and helping them as well!! "He who has an ear...let him listen, understand, take into consideration!! Thank you Pastor Blakes and Lady Blakes! Appreciate you both GREATLY!!
Yes girl.
Tony Gaskins is also a good man to listen about relationships
You are right
A man wants a woman who will represent him well 👏👏
First herself.
A woman wants a man who will represent well and protect her always
A real King takes his time observing and already prayed to God about you before approaching. Real Queens only pay attention to real Kings.
Amen
I found your teachings about 8 years ago, and to this day, I credit you for my understanding about the dynamics of men vs women and the sacred role that we play in each other lives for the Glory of God in the Sacred Institution of HOLY MATRIMONY.
I’m 22 years old and I’m taking in all this wisdom from your videos, it help me in my journey of becoming of virtuous woman of God, setting the example for my daughter❤️❤️❤️ thank you
Yassss
Im 20❤ same here
@@lisette1976 WE GOT IT SIS!!
Yes, start now sweetie.
Beautifully said!
“My spouse represents me better than I represent myself.”
Listen you are hitting everything that needs to be said this day and time!! This is a right now message. And I'm so tired of social media and television teaching us how we should be as women. But they are not teaching us how to be Kings and Queens. My husband and I talk about these things all the time. We are that power couple!
Amen🙌🏿
Amen!
Thank you being obedient to the holy spirit and using your voice. You are giving many women a well needed Father - Daughter talk that some never got, and some that needed reminded of.
Thank you Brandy 😊🙏🏽♥️
Now that is deep. A King honors his woman so good that his woman naturally submits to him. 💕I love it, & believes it's true. It's her free will and how she shows her love for him.
“A great man is governed by his hearts integrity ““ 🙌🏽💯 RC Blake
💯💯
My reminder is set!.. my mind and ears are OPEN!!!...Lord Jesus help me fully understand the message you've given Bishop to rely.
For a few months I’ve seen you on my timeline and had the nerves to roll my eyes because I’ve had no desire for a relationship… however today I’ve started listening and I’m stuck. Thank you for checking and directing me for when I am ready.
Great!! Online speech!!! I enjoyed it!!!!❤
Thank you Holy Spirit for putting these teachings in my Path! Our culture old and young needs to hear this.
I finally found my king in Africa.This Queen couldn't settle for less
Congrats!
Wow! Do I need to go there too? Lol
yea i 100% messed up on who i had a kid with. 😔 y’all pray for my son Elias please, and his father too. 🙏🏼 God bless. praying for every woman here watching this too
@@lala5061 i’m sorry girl. it really, really, REALLY sucks. 🙁 i’ll pray for you sis 💜 love you so much. hang in there. Romans 8:28
That's makes 2 of us 😓
I LOVE YOUR VIDEOS AND THEY'RE ALWAYS WELL WORHT MY TIME. Thank you for all of your knowledge. Spoken like a true king. You and your wife give the rest of us hope knowing that this type of blessing does exist and isn't just in fairytales. Thank you again 💝
Thank you for your teaching. You sound so much like my dad when I was a young girl teaching and telling me what to look for I a man. He passed away at 83 years of age, and I miss so much talking and listening to him. It's like hearing him thru you thank you and your wife. I send this teaching to my 3 sons. Keep it up people need to hear these messages.
Love what you said when a man honours his wife and takes care of her, submission is her natural response. When a man treats a woman well she fall in love with him more and want to be closer to him 😊
Absolutely!
When we feel protected, not exploited, but valued, we feel relaxed and excited at the same time.
The pleasure felt is greater, and we fall in love so completely.
True ,love is reversible not irreversible, when you sowed is what you will reap
XR cuz
@@caroliner2029 p
AMEN!!!🙌🏻
I missed it Bishop in my 20's, but God is opening my eyes and healing me. Thank you.
This!!🔥.
Found my king
Your ministry❤️is RELEVANT and VERY MUCH NEEDED inside and outside the body of Christ‼️ Thank u Sir. Dallas, TX🙋🏾
Thank you 🙏🏽
GLORY TO GOD I,AGREE & AMEN!!!
I don’t know what I would have done without Mr. Blake’s, I’m grateful to have found him. So many things learned through his ministry, so much comfort to the heart after we accept what he and Gpd have to teach us. 🙏🏼
This anointed teaching is needed in our church & schools today.
This is literally the most sober word and instruction I have ever heard on this subject. Thank you so much for taking your time and including relevant scripture! God bless you!
I agree
A common man WOW! Such a clever speaker love this and your compassion and devotion to clarifying all these issues in our world of clowns.
I am Russian and I just love all what you saying every day watching 😍
Yes, me too
It's really a blessing for me to find your channel here, Pastor!
Submission is her natural
Response, so true. My father
Was that man. My father had
Standards for us, enforced
By example and love. We
Never wanted to disappoint
Him. We had a treasure in
Him.
You are blessed. My father was argumentative, forceful and angry more than anything else. So I entered into some very abusive relationships with my last one almost killing me. We learn from our fathers. So true.
Thanks for your
Reply. My father was
Loving, and taught me
To take care of myself.
However he didn't teach
Me about abusive men.
Therefore I married
Not a physically abusive
Person but emotionally
Abusive person, because
They hide they're true
Selves until after you
Come to love and trust
Them. What I am relearning
Is balance self love.
Just left the doctors office
To begin getting my health
In order to live better.
I'm on my journey. As soon
As you can start your
Journey. I can understand
The things you may have
Endured. Their are so
Many of us who care about
Our neighbors. I'm
Your neighbor , don't
Give up for yourself and
Those that love you.
Amen.🙏💋
I’m so grateful for finding this channel.
God led me to your teachings and I look forward to watching your teachings daily , you are the earthly father I didn’t get the opportunity to have to sit down and teach me these important lessons … I was taught the worldy way but now that I am saved woman of God , I feel God has used you to teach me the Godly way 🙏🏾 God bless you Bishop
Bless your heart, Precious🙏🙏🙏
Life is so Beautiful. I gave my life to Jesus when I was 19 and Ive not regretted that, but I have made some wrong decisions along this journey but I will not allow them to define me!
OMGJESUS!what/\who can fix the problems You have caused for Yourself?
As we shouldn't let errors in life define us. Live Learn Improve.
A friend stumbled upon your channel. She decided to listen in and found that what you were speaking about was very interesting. Well she just told me about your channel. I tuned in and liked what I heard as well. All Praises to The Most High!
I like what you said about "A King waits for A Woman that draws the line." Too many women do not have the self-respect for themselves to enforce this. This is good preaching! Thank you for speaking the truth!
Another gem. Thank you for the priceless lessons, Pastor. You are a blessing to us all, especially those who did not have a father figure.
Your teachings quench my thirst for knowledge and wisdom and empowers me to practice healthy boundaries. Thank you so much for ministering to my friends and I... you're loved and appreciated ❤
It really takes two to tango. Thank you for teaching us women from the perspective of a man, and a godly one at that
Thank You your MAJESTY you are a great example of a real KING .and the real definition of a high value man . I watched Kevin Samuels video and it made me cry for three days . Then I found you and I just feel renewed thank you so much Mr. Blakes Pastor Blakes , KING BLAKES. Bless you for taking your time to heal the black women and men.
Thanks! Pastor! I really enjoyed this sermon! I have never been Married so I have stopped all things regarding to my own flesh instead I’m waiting on the right woman by the grace of “GOD” waiting on the “LORD”🙏🏽
Absolutely important
Absolutely important
That's great and you will find a good one
Have you been to his church?
I fight against all my conditioners to keep the best aspects of myself relevant...I know insecurities are not real...not to a real person... they are a process of colonization and programming... men and women are important...we are all conditioned from children to accept violence...that violence is the colonizer's way to have its precived enemies obliterate themselves, so they don't have to...
All the way from Tanzania East Africa...listening to your teachings bring out the best in me..thank you may God bless you😇
I seriously thank God for allowing him to use you by teaching us how to be Godly women/ Godly wife.. it’s very well needed. Help me Lord!!!
Happy, fulfilled within herself but open to the right situation if it suits her. When a woman represents herself well, it speaks of her self-respect. Food for thought, thank you pastor RC Blakes.
Ty for blessing me I’ve never been married and I had 2 kids... you truly bless my soul and God has really saved me from pain...I’m single and in no hurry ty bishop keep the teachings coming...I am a proverbs 31 woman
I too had a King for almost 33 years. He passed away June 3, 2023.
Where are these men? I'm worthy....This type of man is exactly what I desire.
Just how some women can not handle a king likewise some man can not handle a queen
I was looking at another TH-camr where the men are encouraged to be pimps. This video makes sense and a breath of fresh air. Thank you so much
Representation is everything! This is the message that Monique have been speaking about , woman coming out in public with bonnets and pajamas. It's crazy how she's getting bashed for her message!
I seen a woman while out grocery shopping, in boy shorts with both her cheeks exposed 😳
Just crazy... the children you will raise sad commentary about society; she is just stating the truth.
Monica? Says the woman who has an open relationship Yea ok.
On point 👍
@@BB-ll2ih Monique the comedienne not R&b singer Monica but hey yt has been playing on comments/spelling heavy lately
Hello Pastor and First Lady Blakes Jr. Hello Everyone!
I just had time to listen to this video. All I can say the wisdom in this message is great. Thank you.❤
Thank you Pastor, so nice to meet a true Christian man who doesn't promote the misuse and abuse of women! God bless you!!!
For all the people out there always remember couples don't complete each other they only unite in the physical realm it's god and god alone who completes them in an institution of marriage and marriage is not a contract it's a covenant made by him so let's honour it .
My man is fully governed by his integrity. He’s all about his unspoken and sometimes spoken code!
You are awesome! You have really helped me put my stake in the ground, unwavering! Thank you so much!
Amen!!! Draw the line..... and enforce the line. I am the butt of many jokes because I have self respect and I am fine with that. I refuse to compromise....
Yes indeed never leave house no hair done not fully closed neat clean smelling good watched my grandma. Thank God saw that
That is the Gospel truth Angelique Smith!
@@Mathilda5xp Proverbs 31 what man should be seeking woman that fears Lord loves Him with all her heart is worthy of His praise at gate.
preach it Brother, you are so funny
some of us never had a proper father to teach us so I'm appreciating you.🙏
I just discovered this channel. Actually today. I really enjoyed his talks. I also really like the way he talks about his wife.
U can tell he does cherish her.
Thank you so much!!! I am 33 and Single. I am working on my healing process. Waiting for a King that God will put in my path. Thank you for this clarity.
Hi dear my name is Kwame from Ghana I want to be your King I do it
I respect the hell right out of him
“And another thing I love about my wife.” Ladies isn’t that just so precious?❤️
It is😍
I love to hear men speak well of their wives.
Pastor Blake’s be saying “sorry this is my last time talking about my wife”. Me: “Nuh-uh, she got the sauce! We love her!”
@@sfcc-itsanewday6389 we are here for it Pastor Blakes
Yess the boss loves the queen
Discerning how woman carries herself it’s plus when she has wisdom like Proverbs 31 wise woman.
I cannot express with mere words how grateful I am for all that you have taught me to better myself. You are truly my spiritual father and for this I will always give thanks to God. I wish I could have been blessed to have had a father like you to help guide me as a young girl. Better late than never Bishop and I will ensure my daughter is very familiar with all you have taught me in order to put that crown back on my head and straighten it! Love ya and Beautiful Mrs. Lisa Blake’s -2 beautiful souls Helping millions of people in need of the Lord’s guidance
Amen!💋🙏
When you’re available you’re available and when you’re not!
36:49 caught me off guard 🤣😭 his sense of humour is priceless like yes he’s serious with the things he’s saying but jokes here and there it adds to the teaching 😂👏🏾‼️
I love this. This is confirmation to what I tell my daughters.
No pimps or simps.....I NEED A KING!! 👑❤️🙏🏾
Goodafternoon real good man will sacrifice for you make you happy n also ask what ‘s you need help with seriously n what ‘s your future goals . A real good man willing take burden off you n also send you roses , help with bills , communications is the key n trust , get away weekend , make you first in his life . He going to honor you n value seriously, a lots men doesn’t take this seriously n do a lots of talking but not actions . It’s simple things too keep a woman
Oh yes hun we need kings 😁.
Goodevening I take this seriously
Be a Queen.
The Lord brings CONFIRMATION! Thank you Mr. Blakes!!🤗
Pastor Blakes, you have really helped me to understand my whole disastrous romantic history with this one video. I have always been a queen, but lacked patience because of the dire lack of kings in my circles, in tandem with my biological clock. I am from Trinidad and Tobago, aged 42. I have been a question asker from childhood, a voracious reader and strong thinker, and I was always interested in creating high value children and a high value visionary partnership with their father. I always had a style that was self-respecting; I always felt my body was only to be seen by my king. No booty shots for me, and no decolletage or pum pum shorts, either. But I could never respect or give exclusivity to a man who did not cherish, honour, commit to and demonstrate king-leader qualities both in his own life and with me. I just don't know how to do that. And my boundaries haven't always been clear, especially the older I got. So now I know exactly what work I have to do and I also know what the man who would be my husband must be able, by his lifestyle and character, to inspire in me. Thanks a million. The Force is really strong with you.
I'm so impressed with you. Your messages are so profound and accurate. Just perfect for this time frame, a message for required learning for happiness.
KINGS do not share neither do QUEENS
Now that needs to be said AGAIN AND AGAIN AND AGAIN !🙌💯🔥
Thank you, Daddy Blakes and Queen Lisa. You are a blessing to women and men.
Thank you for the clarity I have never, ever heard or learned. The whole wide world needs to hear your perfectly divine message 🌍💫✨🙏💛
I too was physically,emotionallly and verbally abused by my ex husband I was so torn. I was a submissive wife but he was so unfaithful. I lost all respect for him. I'm free from him now. Thank God. Don't think I will ever get married again.
May God Bless you when the Blessed man shows up in your life, to know it and accept God's gift Amen
gosh, i wish i gad known your teachings 72 years ago.... everything you say is true. unfortunaity you werent around yet lol
“ Maybe you’re not supposed to be on this Bentley lot.. Move on to Ford, or Chevy” I love it! PREACH!!! PREACH!! Absolutely Pastor Blakes.
This message was so good and timely. I spend much time in my vehicle listening to words of wisdom and encouragement. Your messages give clarity to the "how" and "why" of a matter, this was lacking growing up. Thank you for taking the time.
My best friend is a high quality man. He is a King. I thank you for clearing this up. I highly respect him. He told me today how much that he appreciated me for my respect him and appreciated him.
THERE ARE MANY KINGS MOST OF US ARE QUIET AND MILD MANNERED BUT LOOKING !!
This is so on point. I can tell you right now, he is speaking facts. 🙏