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7 SIGNS A WOMAN CAN GIVE HER ALL TO A MAN by RC Blakes

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  • @tequilachanel7312
    @tequilachanel7312 2 ปีที่แล้ว +582

    “You cannot make him worthy, you cannot give a man what he needs to be your man. He either has it or he doesn’t.” Love this, thank you so much father in Christ 🖤

    • @Inga377
      @Inga377 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I concur!💕

    • @tanikanakeyalewis4202
      @tanikanakeyalewis4202 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You can not make your Male Child your Marital Type of Lover, or, other Type of Obligor:
      neither could Mary, Jesus' Mother (although, Mary didn't Try: Mary simply attempted to maintain Control: similar to most Males):
      however, It's a Man's World "and You can't Raise a Man". 😶.

    • @chikFromMTL
      @chikFromMTL 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Indeed

    • @zelin7460
      @zelin7460 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      That’s true. We, as women, spend years trying to build a man until we become mentally drained because these type of men are not pouring into us.

    • @gugumkhwanazi9482
      @gugumkhwanazi9482 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I learned a lot at all times. Thank you. Thank you, Pastor RC BLAKES. we're so. Blessed to have you. We love you.

  • @healthylifestyleandhealthy2023
    @healthylifestyleandhealthy2023 2 ปีที่แล้ว +477

    Giving a man your all definitely requires prayer and discernment.

    • @sherryilly6758
      @sherryilly6758 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Agreed 100%

    • @earthreign
      @earthreign 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      You can pray in every language known to man and have the best discerning spirit ever given to a woman and still fall for the wrong man. What ruins most women is the fact that our flesh goes after what looks great, smells even better and can make us feel like a million bucks after the "Back Breaking ceremony"...yes I'm going to keep it 💯.

    • @janellamurphy5665
      @janellamurphy5665 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      In total agreement💯💯💯💯🙌🏿👐🏿🙋🏿‍♀️🙋🏿‍♀️!!!!

    • @naishabrignac9214
      @naishabrignac9214 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Amen 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 Yes

    • @desiree2299
      @desiree2299 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Heck...and I'm gonna need to hear a clear response from The HolySpirit! I put Him in everything I Do now 😌

  • @ghutchin33
    @ghutchin33 2 ปีที่แล้ว +92

    " The right man is a man that teaches you to truly appreciate yourself by how he makes you his priority ." RC Blakes Jr.

  • @rosemjames6721
    @rosemjames6721 2 ปีที่แล้ว +130

    I found out from my second husband. This man Loved me when I was at my worst. I was an acholic and a drug addict drugs. I ask him why me. He said I see a goodness and greatness in you. God sent him to me. I truly felt that in my heart. No matter what I did.he haven't leave me. And believe me I didn't some mess up thing. God so good. He had a plan for us. After we had been together for 8 years. He didn't do drugs. But he did drink. God lead me to a preacher that had his hand in God's hand. I Got Born Again. May 27th 1996. God gave my man a wife. He got Born Again Feb 8th 1997. We was married May 24th 1997. God delivered up from all our vices. We was married 25 years in God and he died Feb 3nd 2014. When a man can love at your worst.

    • @JP-sg1xb
      @JP-sg1xb 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Beautiful testimony.

    • @janetbatsietswe4057
      @janetbatsietswe4057 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      May his soul rest in eternal peace, continue trusting in the Lord my sister.

    • @macareuxmoine
      @macareuxmoine 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      So sorry for your loss. But still, to have known love 💕 🥰

    • @octaviacoaxum8459
      @octaviacoaxum8459 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      🙏🏾 your story is beautiful

    • @kidchocolate9253
      @kidchocolate9253 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      That truly was a love story worth sharing.

  • @roxilavelle5812
    @roxilavelle5812 2 ปีที่แล้ว +255

    He needs potential AND character 9:09 He needs to have all the pieces in the box but he's probably going to need the right woman to put it together because the woman is the life-giver. 10:26 What man is worth you making a full deposit of everything you have into him? 10:42
    The woman has to be wise enough to know who to give all of her favor, all of her goodness, to....(lists what he has to have) 11:44
    Just because you're fond of a man doesn't mean he's worthy 13:17 Just because he needs you doesn't mean he deserves you. 13:48 There must be a vetting process.
    You must first understand your own value. 15:24 You cannot make him worthy. 15:33 He either has it or he doesn't.
    Assessment before investment. 19:08 Potential without... is... 19:37
    Don't throw your pearls before swine. 20:50 Resist dressing a pig up with your pearls...
    Now let's get to it. 22:32 Here are the 7 points:
    1) He is interested in the core of you and not the fringe benefits. He listens deeply to things you say lightly. He learns and remembers. Only the Creator gives a man an interest in your core. 22:49
    "What does this look like?" 27:15
    A) His conversation is explorative and non-sexual or -financial. 27:23
    B) He doesn't ask you for anything (help from you) 28:01
    C) He has a transparent and honest energy. Not a flatterer. 28:25
    D) He's proud to be in public and on social platforms with you 28:48
    E) He welcomes you into his world. Brings you to meet his people. 28:55.
    F) He makes the investment of time and resources to build the connection 29:07
    G) He adores you as you are and lovingly supports your desire for growth, but will love you even if you don't (lose weight, for example). 29:20
    2) He's already manifesting his potential as an individual. 30:03
    3) He supports your goals a much as you support his. 35:05. (If you got to hide your goodness/richness so he's not intimidated, he ain't the one.)
    4) He always makes you feel seen and heard. His energy is consistent. 39:37
    5) He lives his life like an open book before you. 41:55
    6) He is a man who helps you love yourself more. 44:45
    7) He has articulated the desire to make you his wife. 47:00

    • @makeupviews
      @makeupviews 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Thank youuuu

    • @roxilavelle5812
      @roxilavelle5812 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      @@makeupviews YES!!! You're welcome! I've gotten to the point where the first thing I look for on a long video is the comment where some lovely person gave me the points so I can decide if I want to listen. This time, there wasn't such a comment yet, so I got to do it! YAY! Glad to help and thankful for the appreciation! (I have 3 teens at home! I thrive on a little appreciation!

    • @kimberlyjefferson882
      @kimberlyjefferson882 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Omg thank you, i needed to reread it and couldnt make notes

    • @corabevill-thomas4632
      @corabevill-thomas4632 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@roxilavelle5812 Thanks for making the points for us ❣

    • @ladyzinada5341
      @ladyzinada5341 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Things to pray on for Manifesting our husbands.

  • @ckl5801
    @ckl5801 2 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    Never help a man who refuses to help himself…

  • @sandraoswald6930
    @sandraoswald6930 2 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    A worthy man brings clarity & peace. And, automatically receives respect from a woman.

  • @mayam6678
    @mayam6678 2 ปีที่แล้ว +150

    I can so relate... still today, single at 69, with no children, I feel sad that I did exsactly that and was not appreciated. Thankfully GOD has been my strength and kept me whole throuout the years and blessed me with a kind hearth and great health.

    • @rodahmusyoka831
      @rodahmusyoka831 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      God is good all the time Maya.

    • @watchwoman6957
      @watchwoman6957 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Maya! You did exactly what?

    • @ginatarro2552
      @ginatarro2552 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I'm single never married and no children. God has a plan.

    • @Pabinta
      @Pabinta 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      May God bless you with the desires of your heart Maya. Praying for you. ❤️

  • @Inga377
    @Inga377 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    “If man can not celebrate you”. Red light!!

  • @charitythapelo8611
    @charitythapelo8611 2 ปีที่แล้ว +94

    "Only the Creator gives a man, an interest of who you are at your core." Night made, Sir!

    • @CK-solutions
      @CK-solutions 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      This was meant for my spirit to hear also.

  • @nomfundomolefe5881
    @nomfundomolefe5881 2 ปีที่แล้ว +156

    Let's share these teachings with our daughters, sisters etc in their twenties.. If I knew all this probably I wouldn't be divorced at 36years.. The teachings come handy while I am starting again

    • @janellamurphy5665
      @janellamurphy5665 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      If I had known what I know now Pastor Blakes, I would not have wasted my time and energy with clowns with crowns before🤡🤡🤡🤡. Now I can start on the right way and Gods Way to being HIS Queen Amen!!!!

    • @aceazar2806
      @aceazar2806 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      23 years old and grateful to know RC Blakes and Jesus Christ

    • @mimi.w667
      @mimi.w667 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Here's a sister in 20s

    • @bethnorris1361
      @bethnorris1361 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes and aaaamen!!! 🙋

  • @sharriettefinley467
    @sharriettefinley467 2 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    #1) Interested in me at the core, not only the fringes. #2) He is already manifesting his potential as an individual. Luke 19:17. #3) He supports my goals as much as I support his. Hallelujah!!! Praise God!!! Proverbs 31:28. #4) He always blessed me to feel seen and heard. 1 Peter 3:7. Consistency is one of my favorite words. 1 Corinthians 14:33. #5) He lives his life like an open book before me. #6) He helps me love myself more. Glory to God, in Christ Jesus. He makes me a priority. Proverbs 18:21. #7) He has articulated the desire to make me his wife. Wow!! I appreciate this message so much. I really needed this. Thank you Bishop Blakes💖🦋💖

    • @thelifeofamoya
      @thelifeofamoya 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks so much for noting this sis as I was driving while listening n couldn't make notes. God bless Bishop Blakes for making himself available to be used in this way. I can testify that I have invested all my time, energy and funds into a man that is doing the complete opposite of these 7 points. I thank God for his infinite wisdom and chastening love. He rescued , forgiven me & restored me. I am seeking after my purpose in Christ now and learning to be patient while the Lord prepares me for my future husband.

  • @faith7934
    @faith7934 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    6. Helps You to love yourself more.
    I have a friend that does that.
    7. He that finds a wife. Girlfriend has limits. Make it public.
    5. Lives his life like a open book.
    4. Consistent and stable.
    3. He or she can handle you and everything about you.
    2. Already have an idea of what he is here for an is currently doing something about it.
    1. Not asking for a come up.
    My ex-husband used me and he resented me for making him my project.

  • @cassandrajones7023
    @cassandrajones7023 2 ปีที่แล้ว +109

    Bishop this is so good, I have been listening to you and Queen Lisa for 4 yrs and I have been healed by your Father Daughter Talk and through your Queenology teachings this coming late into my life at 55 yrs old I am now 59 and engaged to my God given King and he is just what your speaking on tonight .. at dinner tonight my King played A song and sang it to me called you make me better the words of this song was from his heart ❤ Thank you

    • @chartimbe946
      @chartimbe946 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Cassandra Jones I too started late but we got it when we were supposed to have the knowledge.

    • @heather7119
      @heather7119 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Girl your comment blessed me. So happy for you. God bless 💜

    • @cassandrajones7023
      @cassandrajones7023 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@heather7119 God Bless you my Sister Queen

    • @cassandrajones7023
      @cassandrajones7023 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@chartimbe946 in God's timing he's An on time God God bless you my Sister Queen

    • @cassandrajones7023
      @cassandrajones7023 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@chartimbe946 Won't he Do it, it's all in his timing Amen He's A on time God .....

  • @queenleo1332
    @queenleo1332 2 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    No submissive until the blessed man arrives to become your husband in the name of Jesus Christ in his Will....Thank You Bishop RC Blakes....GOD's blessing continue to be among you and your family....

    • @JJ47436
      @JJ47436 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      what about if you have LDR bf and his talking all the time sex

    • @JJ47436
      @JJ47436 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      was he is serious to me or not

    • @JJ47436
      @JJ47436 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      need some guidance and inlightment 🙏🙏🙏

    • @nofybn7794
      @nofybn7794 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@JJ47436 DUMP HIM NOW. He doesn't care about you. Find someone locally as well.

  • @musicmaker1311
    @musicmaker1311 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    It’s almost as if I’m afraid to watch this bcz I already know I’ve yet to have 1/2 of 1 sign that I could give a man my all. I’ve actually given up on a real man wanting a real relationship/marriage with me. I think there’s great men still out there, just none that will want me. So tired of being initially approached/pursued only to hear, “I’m not looking for a relationship I just wanna be friends.”
    I will still watch & support because I adore this man and his beautiful wife!

    • @knowtruth2773
      @knowtruth2773 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Diddo.

    • @carlo9678
      @carlo9678 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Hi Love2Worship! Don't you dare believe that lie from the pit of hell. God made someone perfect just for you, believe that... And most importantly, Believe God! Because there's nowhere in God's Word where it says anything contrary to that. I don't know everything, but I do know this... If God will and can make a way out of no way - and God can and will of course, then God-created female-male relationships are nothing to God... They're a piece of cake! Sometime last year, I told God... That's okay, God. On the man tip, I'm good. Adding... God, you don't need to send a man into my life. I told God that I was content being alone. Because that is exactly how I've felt. LOL! But I promise you, God has a sense of humor. Because we make plans... And God laughs! After that conversation that I had with God, I went on with my life and didn't give it much thought. Except, the extra part I added (in my heart and mind, without speaking it aloud) telling God that the *only* man I would ever accept into my life would HAVE TO LOVE GOD WITH EVERY FIBER OF HIS BEING. I went on with my life without giving it a second thought. Enters 2022... On the 2nd day of this year, God spoke a man's name into my spirit (who I knew of but hadn't actually ever met and didn't know). I laughed out loud and told God... Dude, I don't even know him! And God told me... Well, you better get ready because it's going to happen fast. And on January 25th, the Man of God (who loves God with every fiber of his being) that God spoke to me about, who I didn't know, miraculously began communicating with me online. We're taking our time getting to know each other, but we pretty much check in with each other every day. LOL! God is such a trip! This Man of God and I live in the same state - about 4 hours away from each other. And the MOG and I have had a very similar experience; God told him about me too. Although we're excited and anxious to meet face-to-face, we've decided to give it time and continuing to communicate by text and email until April. LOL! And today, I'm still laughing at God... Why hurry for us to meet, right God? That's how I see it anyway. I mean, God SAID that this man is my husband... for life. If I don't forget, I'll come back to report what happens next. But always remember this: Don't give up on God. Because as you already know... God won't ever give up on you. Things change. Nothing stays the same. And for God, IMPOSSIBLE IS NOTHING! Take this time to lean in and enjoy the special time that you have to love on God. God's promises are true. God's timing is always perfect. And God won't forsake you... God hasn't forgotten you or your heart's desires.

    • @musicmaker1311
      @musicmaker1311 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@carlo9678 wow, I pray Gods best for you both & rebuke any plan of destruction from the enemy as we know he hates marriage! I so appreciate your encouragement. I love God and although I trust Him, I’ve just shut of this area of expectation so I don’t get heartbroken again. God is amazing and my heart is His.

    • @carlo9678
      @carlo9678 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@musicmaker1311 Thank you! Just remember, you're on your way! And that God is so pleased with the faith and trust that you have in Him! Whenever I get frustrated, I go back and yell to remind Him, saying ... God! YOU SAID in your Word (thus and such that I'm believing God for)!!! What I love about God is that His promises are true. God NEVER lies! Keep standing with God for every request your heart desires. He's no respector of person's... He'll come through for you, I just know it!!! And, you know what? I'm happy for you already!

    • @RCBlakesJr.
      @RCBlakesJr.  2 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      There’s a man that will love and adore you. I’m standing in prayer for that.

  • @rinawilliams6249
    @rinawilliams6249 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Wow!!!..."Only the Creator can give a man an interest to look at your core".This is soo profound!!!

  • @sandragreen5146
    @sandragreen5146 2 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    Exactly!!🙏i just went through this with this Narcissistic man i was dating,now im on my way out this situation...and on my way to healing..Thank you lord Jesus for protection and coverage upon my life an waken me up and bringing me back to myself and removing my blindfold off my eyes so i can see this Narsitic delvish person that was in front of me trying to take me down and still my Joy, peice,and happiness.but you step right in on time and remove your child from out that Narcissistic
    situation ship..and i thank you lord!!!🙌🙏🙏

    • @October3074
      @October3074 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      It's "narcissistic"

    • @naishabrignac9214
      @naishabrignac9214 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      🙏🏾🙏🏾🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

  • @razbliss3367
    @razbliss3367 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    WOW !!!! Pastor, I'v been there 10 year's ago so sad... But I have learned . I'm still single, and I'm still working on my self and watch you every day all day for 4 year's . I'm happy and single. Thank you so much. I am very knowledgeable and I know the game.😀💕😇❤️😏😇

  • @je39981
    @je39981 2 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    This video is literally an answer to my prayer. I nag my Dad all the time about "how would I know" and here is the answer. I do believe my question has already been answered but I can be stubborn at times. I sat down and wrote down notes and made sure to let it marinate in my spirit. All is well.

  • @lolamcclain1288
    @lolamcclain1288 2 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    I am in complete expectation of what this message will drop in my spirit tonight!

  • @loisthomas5465
    @loisthomas5465 2 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    WOW. Bravo Bishop. I am feeling good because I had my 28 and 23 year old daughters listening to this. I always tell my daughters to respect their bodies. Thank you again Bishop ❤️❤️❤️

    • @j.j2846
      @j.j2846 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Your daughters are so blessed 💕

    • @loisthomas5465
      @loisthomas5465 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@j.j2846 Thank you sweetie ❤🙏🏼

  • @2B-Steele
    @2B-Steele 2 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Discernment and definitely facts over feelings for sure

  • @bonitasmith6064
    @bonitasmith6064 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I'm ready for this teaching, because last year I gave my ex fiance my all because I didn't know what love Bombing was and he was a DEACON. He turned out to be a full blown narcissist 😢😢😢😢

    • @platinumbranch2056
      @platinumbranch2056 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You gave your fiance your "all"? With all due respect if you weren't MARRIED to him, that was an error. May God comfort you with His peace! 🙌🏽

    • @bonitasmith6064
      @bonitasmith6064 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@platinumbranch2056 Thanks, believe me I know this to be true. If I didn't walk in the flesh especially when I know the word of God this wouldn't have happened. I have taken responsibility and God has forgiven me. That's why I was able to tell the truth. Our trials and tribulations are to strengthen our faith and be a testimony. Appreciate you honesty and feedback. Blessings to you 💯❤️🙏

    • @platinumbranch2056
      @platinumbranch2056 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@bonitasmith6064 Thank you! And, I have been there as well. Our testimonies will be helpful to comfort others. 🙌🏽❤🙌🏽

  • @user-uw5pg8cj9x
    @user-uw5pg8cj9x 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I found a man at 63 who is also 63 and is a man of substance financially and has goals for a bright future he has excellent character. I am struggling because he is not the flashy roller coaster ride I'm used to but I'm hanging in there because been there done that. This man really deserves me and I am going to get used to being respected and treated well.

  • @jr9941
    @jr9941 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Amen Bishop! "ASSESS BEFORE YOU INVEST"! I will definitely keep that phrase of wisdom! Love it and thanks for all your great teachings! ♥️

  • @poetz153
    @poetz153 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    He’s done it again. Absolutely amazing. I have peace, I have an amazing future ahead of me, and I got God in my heart. I’m on top and going higher. I will see you at the top RC. God bless you. 🤗

  • @SamiAm9494
    @SamiAm9494 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    This sermon was pure GOLD Pastor thank you so much!! I believe I have found the "one" or rather he found me! You confirmed alot of things for me regarding him and our future within this segment.

  • @kimberlyserrano4047
    @kimberlyserrano4047 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    My God, this is so true and I would dim my light so he could shine. 5 years I gave my all, now I am 50, on dialysis because of stressful jobs, high blood and diabetes. Ieft this situation in October and have been asking God to remove him out of my life. I still feel like no one will want me because of the dialysis, it's hard...please pray 4 me...

    • @thetarotcottage7262
      @thetarotcottage7262 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I know of a man who can help you out with your problems you might be facing now

    • @thetarotcottage7262
      @thetarotcottage7262 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      What sApp him

    • @kimberlyserrano4047
      @kimberlyserrano4047 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@thetarotcottage7262 I also know a man that will and can help and his name is God. I don't know what type of scam u r tying to try but I am not the one...you will pay 4 your devious deeds.

    • @alicehardy8040
      @alicehardy8040 ปีที่แล้ว

      Jesus is your answer

  • @QIKWIA
    @QIKWIA 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    OUTSTANDING TEACHING!👍🏿
    Thank you dearly Bishop Blakes!❤

  • @macareuxmoine
    @macareuxmoine 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Excellent content. Whenever I turn to your material I find pearls. Too bad many of us women haven’t been taught that from youth. RC, you are parenting more than some fathers do. Thank you from the bottom of my heart. So healing ❤️‍🩹

    • @tiatsele
      @tiatsele 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I couldn't agree more.

  • @nikkyshamz2696
    @nikkyshamz2696 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Thank you so much, always timely. Divine confirmation. ❤
    You can't give a man what he needs to be your man, he either has it or he doesn't. Phew. A word!!!

  • @joannahulitt3161
    @joannahulitt3161 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Thank you RC my close friend told me to listen to you and I have been doing nothing but getting fed every since. Currently going through a divorce and it was definitely a horrible situation because it wasn’t god ordained. I was the more spiritual one going to church with my daughter and zooming church due to pregnancy. My husband was always unavailable and gone. I spent Mother’s Day alone I did most things alone. Paid half of the bills and all of my personal bills alone and didn’t work for six month after my son was born he passed away soon after birth. About nine weeks after birth I had to be rushed to the hospital due to minor complications. All was well just a lot of pain. My husband never ever kept his word. He always ran to his family and friends discussing things about our marriage. He very much so treated it like a high school relationship. I hadn’t worked in 6 month and paid for a movers truck to move our family to a different state. We went and got things set up and was going back and forth because his father was ill at the time.
    About a week and a half later I returned to Texas to handle business and finalize moving I was about to leave my job but something within me kept telling me don’t do it. On Nov 2 (the same day my close friend and her baby were killed in a horrific accident) he called four hours later to tell me he wants a divorce.
    I’m leaving out so many details but I must say I have grown closer to god in this process started back attending church and loving my daughter and myself. We were left homeless and my husband didn’t care. So cold and seems like something was hovering over him. But I realized quickly that was the real him. And because I ignored the fast relationship the ring and everything I entertained.
    Now seeking god more. Now happier. Now more opportunities coming my way. Now looking forward to new life and life more abundantly

    • @avadonadelle2815
      @avadonadelle2815 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Amen!!! It's going to get better and better! God bless you and your daughter! 🙏🏽❤️😇

  • @veronicajones8914
    @veronicajones8914 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    What an awesome and on time word. Your transparency, wisdom and knowledge has truly blessed me this evening.I lost my husband of 37 years to covid on 4/18/20. I can say that I saw some of my mistakes and vow if given another chance that I will do things differently. Thank you so much for speaking truth and for imparting into so many women. I speak for all women. We appreciate you.

    • @ladyzinada5341
      @ladyzinada5341 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sorry for your loss

    • @veronicajones8914
      @veronicajones8914 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ladyzinada5341 Thank you ❤️

    • @ShirleyLaTour
      @ShirleyLaTour 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So sorry for your loss. May God keep, protect and heal every hurt, every wound. And if you desire marriage again, that God send a double blessing your way and you are able to receive him, in Jesus name! I rejoice with you now, Hallelujah!
      I am waiting on my king too, second chance after divorce🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @teatime3318
    @teatime3318 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I'm am so ready for this. 😃
    WOW! What a way to spend the evening, listening to a conversation with such elevation. Thank you.

  • @stephanielewis9667
    @stephanielewis9667 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    When u know the nature of a person, they behaviors won’t surprise you!!! That was good rite there.

  • @clare3791
    @clare3791 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I love you RC and Lisa ❤️you’ve helped me tremendously on my journey ❤️

  • @stacy-ann9457
    @stacy-ann9457 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thank God I no longer take on projects. 👌 I'll wait for the God sent one.

  • @jamescoley3543
    @jamescoley3543 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I love all these videos. I use these videos to do a self assessment to check and see if I'm on the right path as a man and as a husband.
    I thank God that my wife introduced me to R.C Blakes videos, while we was dating.

  • @amina0816
    @amina0816 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This is so so true! The man that I’m with now is all of this and more!! 👑♥️

  • @feliciaperkins1713
    @feliciaperkins1713 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    What an awesome Valentine's gift! Very resourceful thank you so much!

  • @jewishbride5010
    @jewishbride5010 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Another good topic, thank you! In accordance with this word and proverbs 31:10-12, proverbs 18:22, acts 16:16-19, matthew 7:6, 1 samuel 16:7, luke 19:17, ecclesiastes 4:9-10, proverbs 31:28, 1 peter 3:7, 1 corinthians 14:33, 1 kings 10:2-3, proverbs 18:21, proverbs 25:1-12, 1 peter 3:1, 2 corinthians 6:14-18 I choose not to be with and bind to hell being with any random opportunist who only uses me for one's personal gain. My best I will give to God and after that to a man worth investing in, a man who can set a firm foundation for the both of us where I can build a home for the both of us. I do not like to be underestimated by any man, nor placed on a pedestal which is God his place. I pray for a godly man that is interested in my core personality and not in what my fleshly manifestations represent. And so it will be, in the name and blood of Jesus Christ, amen and hallelujah!

  • @begee5847
    @begee5847 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Happy Valentine’s Day ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @janellamurphy5665
    @janellamurphy5665 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Happy Valentine's Day Pastor and Lisa Blakes❤🧡💚💙God bless you both!! I love your teachings, shows me how to walk, talk & behave like a Queen should💃🏿🙋🏿‍♀️👑👑 be AMEN!!!!!

  • @jd869
    @jd869 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    It is amazing how Bishop Blake is always on poimt! Continue to do God's work! 🙌

  • @pendomayeka588
    @pendomayeka588 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Pastor Rc Blakes sir you are wisdom personified this is priceless teaching never taught to some of us who came from broken homes .I will pass on the batton to the younger generation.God bless you and keep you

  • @chantalmarie8361
    @chantalmarie8361 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is one of the most powerful dating messages I will ever hear, and it made me laugh on several occasions! Thank you.

  • @krystletownsend6403
    @krystletownsend6403 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I poured my life into a man who was not worthy.

  • @slrhall75
    @slrhall75 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This was SUCH a blessing. I’m passing on to everyone that will listen. Bless you!

  • @mariamagnusdottir2749
    @mariamagnusdottir2749 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I believe that God has appointed the right mate for us if we give him our everything. He and only he, knows what is best for us and that only he knows us perfectly!! Thank you RC Blakes for your wonderful videous 🙏

    • @overcomerbtboj
      @overcomerbtboj 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      💯💯💯- totally agree with all you said- God has to acknowledged as our Husband first - we make Him our King and Husband first- every day i pick out a ring 💍 and tell God He is my Husband every day

    • @maxinecollins4333
      @maxinecollins4333 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      This is so awesome thanks for the love you share with us. God's love be with you 🙏🙏😇😇💓

  • @cheyluv6256
    @cheyluv6256 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    His conversation is explorative, he adores you as you are, he makes the investment of time & resources....all major points!

  • @ilissawalker7051
    @ilissawalker7051 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    A super excited about this one. I can't wait to hear from Pastor / My TH-cam Dad🙏🏾🤗❤. I'm sure this one will be just as good as the father-daughter talk. Let Your Heart Break in order for your soul to heal🤗🤗🤗. Truly a blessing can't wait to hear from him.

  • @stephaniemarkham405
    @stephaniemarkham405 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hi from the uk. I'm an avid listener and I'm spreading the word to my sisters. What you said about your wife not seeing her beauty really touched me. Thankyou for sharing your wisdom 🙏

  • @rhondaedwards664
    @rhondaedwards664 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Awesome message! Thanks for your powerful words of truth and encouragement ❤️. Have a wonderful Valentine's day Bishop and Lady Blakes!!!

  • @maggieedwards3951
    @maggieedwards3951 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    There is no man or woman that is perfection , we seek to become better people, I have yet to be attracted to a man based on financial status, his spiritual being has been what’s attracted me , that don’t mean he is the right choice, since even those with spiritual discernment I have found are not worthy of what god has put in me , since they have shortcomings that were detrimental to me,
    What I have learnt is that if you have broken consciousness you cannot make right choices , when you heal , you are less inclined to even entertain a man just to say you have a significant other , abstinence has taught me value of self RC Blake’s and subs bless .

  • @RacialEqualityMatters6648
    @RacialEqualityMatters6648 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Great message Pastor Blakes! I needed this word from God about the man who would be my husband. Unfortunately, there are not many men who demonstrate the characteristics you mentioned. However, God is faithful I will continue to ask, seek & knock. Pray for me. 🙏🏽

  • @kalapaul2895
    @kalapaul2895 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This message is great...nd powerful. I told yall tht there's no one like bishop rcblakes..this man is anointed for this. I love this message. I know i won't be makin certain mistakes bcuz the bishop does take his time to sit nd teach us, nd his words does play in my head daily.

  • @jodyayers4592
    @jodyayers4592 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thank you so much, you have been the dad I never had. You say things I knew deep down. But the clamor of the world said otherwise. So I doubted myself. But you have said, what I only thought. But never heard from others.
    Thank you. ❤

  • @tq325
    @tq325 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Assessment before investment. Preach!

  • @MyVlogTherapy
    @MyVlogTherapy 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    22:51 interested in the core of you and not just the fringe benefits of you. How much do they see you and hear you?
    36:07 Supporting her purpose and passions, just as much as she supports his.✨
    42:57 Many won’t pass this test! ✨ I’m grateful for the heart and integrity of honest people.

  • @davinityt.741
    @davinityt.741 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thank you once again Pastor Blake’s, You answered my prayers of what to do about my situation. I thank GOD for you, and my blessings which are coming will be shared with your ministry. GOD bless you and First Lady Lisa.

  • @ldaisysharvest8658
    @ldaisysharvest8658 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I appreciate this thank you. Because once you’ve been through so many bad relationships, its hard to recognize a good man. Now that I know I have one, I am relieved. May the most high continue to bless you😇

  • @ChaiTogether
    @ChaiTogether ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks for sharing about Lisa’s past. I can relate ❤

  • @angelalaurel5622
    @angelalaurel5622 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you so much it resonated
    I prayed and asked my husband for a candlelight dinner at home
    He would bbq a nice steak and roasted potatoes put on music
    I would make a veggie and pick out a movie
    What I didn’t do was ask God to provide a peaceful healing safe time for the both of us to enjoy each other and be able to be ourselves and be volnerable
    God gave to us much more ✝️☮️😇🕊

  • @sandragreen5146
    @sandragreen5146 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Great message!!i needed to here this.🙌❤️🙏

  • @jaywill6783
    @jaywill6783 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Amazing message for Valentine's Day. Just amazing.

  • @nialeilakande
    @nialeilakande 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Listening to this right now as I am soon turning 50 dating again and I don’t want to waste my time this time around

  • @SunShine-qq2jw
    @SunShine-qq2jw ปีที่แล้ว

    Teach the truth, it took me three marriages to see the truth. I was so blinded. Guess what, I am not BLINDED ANYMORE!! HALLELUJAH

  • @tammyjo1256
    @tammyjo1256 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I'm excited too! This will be good

  • @paradiselivinginpurpose
    @paradiselivinginpurpose 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    "WOMEN ARE DRAWN TO NEED."
    "...BUT JUST BECAUSE HE NEEDS YOU DOES NOT MEAN HE DESERVES YOU... "
    "THERE MUST BE A VETTING PROCESS OF ANY AND EVERY MAN THAT YOU WOULD ALLOW TO COME INTO YOUR LIFE.."
    "YOU NEED A VESTED PARTNER, AND NOT ANOTHER PROJECT"
    Bullet points!!!!

  • @latoyahloper7752
    @latoyahloper7752 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you JESUS! God bless you all! I needed this, I have been back and forth between two men one financially stable and kind and the other one financially educated sold out to God but still getting himself together as being ready to be a husband.

  • @mari5496
    @mari5496 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Can’t wait for this video🥰

  • @ritadoran5039
    @ritadoran5039 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yes Pastor
    And of all these consistency I like the most in a man, not wishy washy I want a sober reliable man .

  • @downwiththeclique7239
    @downwiththeclique7239 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love to pause your videos and get a whole reflection going on my past or current situation. Thanks for the advice

  • @user-ix5mr7ce1k
    @user-ix5mr7ce1k 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you Pastor after failed relationships and having just met a nan I'm praying is the right one this information is invaluable.

  • @tressiemckoy4407
    @tressiemckoy4407 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I receive this blessed word in Jesus name!! I come into agreement with it and I stand on God's word concerning it. Thank you RC for your time, this beautiful blessed word and wisdom I've gained from it. Happy Valentine's to you and First Lady Lisa. Continued blessings to you both, peace be with you. HALLELUJAH thank you Jesus

  • @sherryilly6758
    @sherryilly6758 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This reading is so spot on gave me chills the whole way through....it was just what I needed. Thank you so much for your insightful thoughts. It is so so good. This is the guidance that I have been needed to help me break my past patterns.

  • @wisdomknowledgelover6293
    @wisdomknowledgelover6293 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Of course when you are married to him and it is right...

  • @ladyzinada5341
    @ladyzinada5341 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So deep! I love all that you do for us ladies Pastor BLAKE'S and momma Lisa BLAKE'S. We are grateful to you both. Thanks for sharing love to all your Spiritual daughters Pastor BLAKE'S for valentine's night. 🥰 mother BLAKE'S a Blessing to allow her to let you come on to bless us. We are so Grateful. ☺

  • @kimberlymay9497
    @kimberlymay9497 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My ex was in bankruptcy when we met from a previous divorce. But he treated me so good. Cooked for me, ran baths I had never had that. I hung in there with him. Long story short he got out of bankruptcy got himself together he had already been on his job 20 plus years. Bought me a house and put me in a brand new car. I was able to quit my job finish school and I was able to follow a life long dream of doing hair. He was a 1 in a million. We married. But unfortunately he loss a child. Then I loss a child and we just couldn’t communicate anymore…

  • @jvincy32
    @jvincy32 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Oh my goodness I needed this. I surely messed up this one. I knew better but settled for no reasons. Give and give but he showing no effort that he is worthy.

  • @alexissmith4339
    @alexissmith4339 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Absolutely great show. I haven't been listening in awhile cause I have worked alot on myself through some of Bishop RC BLAKE messages, but glad I tuned in

  • @mofimTV
    @mofimTV 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    from FAITH 79
    7. He that finds a wife. Girlfriend has limits. Make it public.
    6. Helps You to love yourself more.
    5. Lives his life like a open book.
    4. Consistent and stable.
    3. He or she can handle you and everything about you.
    2. Already have an idea of what he is here for and is currently doing something about it.
    1. Not asking for a come up.

  • @tiffanym9954
    @tiffanym9954 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Started watching your videos yesterday, and I have never been so convicted in my life. I have a wonderful man, and I am on the right path. Thank you!

  • @ANGAFACE1
    @ANGAFACE1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Let me first start off asking RC What is the instrumental song playing at the end starting at 55:11, how can we get the full version, I've played it back like 5'xs. Anyway, this is a clear and 100% description of the person I've been dating for a few months (No Sex-yet) at my pace he said, GOLDEN! He's All 7 of your points and the alphabets points too. I did my homework and vetted him, ALLL reports were clean, so he's also done the work as a man to BE THAT MAN!! Nervous YES! happy and can breath easy DEFINITELY! but when R.C. stated the man should be interested in my core/ bring me into his world-friends-family/adores me as I am/supportive/spiritual inquiring/honorable/consistent energy/open book/discussing his plans as an individual and our plans together for marriage and forever I almost shed a tear. My work and waiting has not been in vain. Thank you GOD!!!

  • @Fierceness
    @Fierceness 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    First time watching live! Yay! 💝

  • @cherylcoleman9524
    @cherylcoleman9524 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for this powerful message , your teachings help me navigate differently as I date I am woke because of your teachings

  • @aredfield2179
    @aredfield2179 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    May God continue to bless you Pastor RC Blakes this Truly Blessed My Soul! 🙏🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾

  • @monasmotivationalminutes4966
    @monasmotivationalminutes4966 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wonderful encouraging words that I will be applying even more in my marriage of 33 years. Me and my husband are learning more and more everyday to love on and be there for each other more now than we ever have before in our marriage. I have always been the type of wife to give my all to my husband and he does the same for me. And this kind of relationship and marriage that we have is because we put JESUS CHRIST first. JESUS is the reason we love each other the way we do. Our marriage foundation wasn't always spiritual. But now that it is, it's makes a world of a difference. Listening to this just makes me want to do even more and show my love and support to my husband even more. Thank You!

  • @bosslady874
    @bosslady874 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    God bless yours and Lisa’s love life and marriage. Thank you for sharing this wisdom.

  • @debbystage2409
    @debbystage2409 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you so very much pastor Blake's are helping me see my true worth as a woman and not wasting any more time I don't want to ever waste any more time in my life may God bless you and Lisa everyday of your life every moment thank you for opening my eyes one person who I thought was genuine questioning and another and appreciating how do you determine okay I think I just got the answer if he's asking me to give him things and he's not okay I got it thank you in Jesus name I look forward to your next teaching

  • @joanbarrington9914
    @joanbarrington9914 ปีที่แล้ว

    As far as l am aware, l don't know of any other source of enlightenment as explicitly accurate and valuable as your teachings in this video. I am so respectfully grateful RC. God bless you and your lovely First Lady Lisa.

  • @tiatsele
    @tiatsele 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for this Reverend. I've been asking for clarity, and God gave it to me through your message. I'm grateful for learning something new, and I am happy that I have not given up because of my mistakes of the past, of not valuing myself enough. This is the time where women of my generation will get their healing and start owning their value.

  • @shari247peace
    @shari247peace 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you Bishop Blakes for this life-changing message. I’m sure many that watched this wished our fathers had been wise enough to live out this example and to teach us these lessons while we were young. Thank you for stepping into that gap and sharing your Godly wisdom. My spirit has been nourished, and my mind renewed to what God has in store for me. 🙏🏻

  • @yolandawright789
    @yolandawright789 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    A high value couple!! You preaching today!!

  • @raniyuna2930
    @raniyuna2930 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for this video. Very rich for knowledges. It made me cry in part about sexual abuse etc. And about real love for woman. Beautiful! Thank you!❤🙏🏻

  • @mariagrady8425
    @mariagrady8425 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am sure that so many women my age could have heard talks like this. I remember coming to my parents asking about marriage. They said just get somebody an settle down.
    The young women an other women that GOD has sent across you an Lisa path are privileged an need to know that. It is a very hurtful life to see your children suffer. Because you tried but did not know how to try.
    Keep teaching an preaching FATHER GID ways of WISDOM while walking with GOD. YOU HAVE TO LOVE GOD TO KNOW HIM ❤️.
    I Believe You do.

  • @Kimberlygarnett9592
    @Kimberlygarnett9592 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I wish I had heard this many years ago. What a blessing. Thank you lord, for allowing me to hear this message. In Jesus Name Amen

  • @carlawilliams9078
    @carlawilliams9078 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yay!!! I made it from the beginning. I do need this.

  • @monahosokawa4327
    @monahosokawa4327 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I've seen a few of your videos now and always walk away with great ideas. Would like to see more addressed to men on how to better treat women. Thank you