Your book is the only one who gave me the confidence to sleep teach my son. I was too scared of traumatizing him before I read your book. Thank you so much. ♥️
Belle! Your message really resonated with me. Being a parent is so hard! You only want the best for your baby and there is a lot of fear out there. Thank you so much for the feedback. I'm always so grateful for Amazon reviews if you are so inclined :) Other parents want to hear your experience. www.amzn.com/B08WQ2J8MZ
I say there's two steps to sleep training. 1- teach them to sleep on their back in a crib or bassinet. 2-teach them to extend that through the night. People who contact sleep or rock to the point of sleep teach a baby a sleeping habit leaving the child to need to unlearn that habit and then learn level 1. It's better to work on level 1 earlier.
I love this channel! I’m thinking of purchasing the sleep training for my four month old. You give me such confidence is possible without traumatizing him.
Great sleep is entirely possible. The people who tell you it is traumatizing have never done it! Definitely consider joining the monthly group membership program where you get to ask Dr. Sarah questions about what YOUR baby is doing :) all the best.
Painful how? I missed the part where they are in pain. Plus, creating a self sufficient individual is helping your child. We do plenty for them, but sleep is an individual activity that we all need. It is DANGEROUS to continue to care for a child when you aren’t rested or well taken care of yourself.
@@Elisa82694cry it out method does not create independence, it severs the attachment to the caregiver and breaks the security of a child. Secure attachment is built by being there
I would not advise CIO sleep training at one month. However, you can absolutely work on sleep habits and sleep predictability. Check out our book on Amazon for step by step gentle newborn sleep shaping for 1 month olds. amzn.to/3GJOSCc
Sleep training is extremely harmful to babies. Please y’all get educated and don’t put your baby through this. Don’t have kids if you aren’t prepared to parent them at night.
I'd love to hear your sources for this comment. I'm always open to learning more. Here are the research studies I've consulted, from the American Academy of Pediatrics, publications.aap.org/pediatrics/article-abstract/130/4/643/30241/Five-Year-Follow-up-of-Harms-and-Benefits-of?redirectedFrom=fulltext. And here's another one: www.jpeds.com/article/S0022-3476(22)01000-9/fulltext It's been my experience that the people spouted this "harmful" to babies tend not to be educated on facts and generally don't have babies that sleep very well.
Wtf do you mean parent them at night. My son wakes up every hour at 10 months old. I work a full time job and have other children. I need to parent them too , do please tell me me how?
@@swiftguatemalanchili2301 In general, 10 month olds who wake up every hour at night are extremely overtired and reliant on something external to put him to sleep at bedtime and hence return to sleep at night! Start by not having him be awake more than 3.5 hours between naps and before bed. Beyond then you might have to teach him to self soothe so he can return to sleep on his own in the night.
I'd love to hear what research data you have to support those claims. I'd also love to share with you data about maternal health - anxiety and depression, and how sleep deprivation increases those risks and severity. I have two kids, both of whom I sleep trained, who I'm incredibly close with. They are 10 and 12. They come to me and tell me when they are having a hard time. Sometimes we even have sleep overs and bedshare. No one wants to do sleep training, but they do this because the way they are currently sleeping is unsustainable physically or mentally. Comments like yours, which are scientifically unfounded and judging others are harmful to parents everywhere. Never judge someone until you walk a mile in their shoes. Wishing you all the best.
@@HelpingBabiesSleep yes, I am a new mom of a 5 month old, sleep deprived, on 3 different medication for anxiety and depression and I still have suicidal thoughts 😞 CIO method is my last resort
@@tequilabumbum4373 Please seek help immediately. Dial 988 or call your doctor. You matter in this world! 5 months, you can sleep train her and be in a completely different place in 7 days. My heart goes out to you. This is a late reply and I hope you're okay.
@@tequilabumbum4373I hope everything is going well. It will not hurt you or your baby to try the CIO method. My baby is 5 months old. I bought her a sleep sack and plan to try it out tonight. This is my 3rd child. It did it with my first daughter and it worked. The first night was rough but she was bathed, changed, and fed so I knew she was fine. The second night was great and the third night was a dream. I notice when I get up for my third child she most times uses me as a pacifier so I figure I’ll put her back in the crib since she doesn’t need to be fed and she cries a bit but I leave her to see what she will do and she self sooth herself back to sleep using her hand by sucking them. One time she woke up after 30 minutes of me breastfeeding her and I think she broke out of her swaddle. I swaddled her back and she automatically stopped crying and fell back to sleep for a few hours. It’s that comfort that they want on their chest and belly but they can learn to self sooth on their own. She does better sleeping on her stomach (she rolled over twice on her stomach) but I’m not ready for her to sleep on her stomach just yet. I hope you figured something out and I hope this helps you and your little one. Hope all is well!
Omg....i am sorry to say but what kind of horrible mother are you to let your baby cry her/him self desperately to sleep without giving her/him the comfort/breastfeeding/kisses/closeness they sooo badly need during these first months of their live? Don't you have a heart? It's best you stop making kids if you don't have the patience, empathy & nurturing qualities a good mother has...Please stop 'teaching' parents to traumatise their baby's...
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Your book is the only one who gave me the confidence to sleep teach my son. I was too scared of traumatizing him before I read your book. Thank you so much. ♥️
Belle! Your message really resonated with me. Being a parent is so hard! You only want the best for your baby and there is a lot of fear out there. Thank you so much for the feedback. I'm always so grateful for Amazon reviews if you are so inclined :) Other parents want to hear your experience. www.amzn.com/B08WQ2J8MZ
I say there's two steps to sleep training. 1- teach them to sleep on their back in a crib or bassinet. 2-teach them to extend that through the night. People who contact sleep or rock to the point of sleep teach a baby a sleeping habit leaving the child to need to unlearn that habit and then learn level 1. It's better to work on level 1 earlier.
I love this channel! I’m thinking of purchasing the sleep training for my four month old. You give me such confidence is possible without traumatizing him.
Great sleep is entirely possible. The people who tell you it is traumatizing have never done it! Definitely consider joining the monthly group membership program where you get to ask Dr. Sarah questions about what YOUR baby is doing :) all the best.
Is it really learning though? Sounds more like resignation to me.
People commenting about how horrible with out watching the video. Way to go 😅😅😅
So painful for the kids
Don’t have kids if you can’t give them support when they are helpless and bedridden
Yes, I completely agree!! 😓
Shut up
100% yes
Painful how? I missed the part where they are in pain. Plus, creating a self sufficient individual is helping your child. We do plenty for them, but sleep is an individual activity that we all need. It is DANGEROUS to continue to care for a child when you aren’t rested or well taken care of yourself.
@@Elisa82694cry it out method does not create independence, it severs the attachment to the caregiver and breaks the security of a child. Secure attachment is built by being there
Can I start at 1 month?
I would not advise CIO sleep training at one month. However, you can absolutely work on sleep habits and sleep predictability. Check out our book on Amazon for step by step gentle newborn sleep shaping for 1 month olds. amzn.to/3GJOSCc
Traumatizing
Sleep training is extremely harmful to babies. Please y’all get educated and don’t put your baby through this. Don’t have kids if you aren’t prepared to parent them at night.
I'd love to hear your sources for this comment. I'm always open to learning more. Here are the research studies I've consulted, from the American Academy of Pediatrics, publications.aap.org/pediatrics/article-abstract/130/4/643/30241/Five-Year-Follow-up-of-Harms-and-Benefits-of?redirectedFrom=fulltext. And here's another one: www.jpeds.com/article/S0022-3476(22)01000-9/fulltext It's been my experience that the people spouted this "harmful" to babies tend not to be educated on facts and generally don't have babies that sleep very well.
What harm exactly? Learning to sleep is an exceptionally important skill…
Wtf do you mean parent them at night. My son wakes up every hour at 10 months old. I work a full time job and have other children. I need to parent them too , do please tell me me how?
@@swiftguatemalanchili2301 In general, 10 month olds who wake up every hour at night are extremely overtired and reliant on something external to put him to sleep at bedtime and hence return to sleep at night! Start by not having him be awake more than 3.5 hours between naps and before bed. Beyond then you might have to teach him to self soothe so he can return to sleep on his own in the night.
i hate ppl who leave these comments w/ no substance
Super training, later you will habe children which dont feel close to you. You destroy their psychic health. 🙃
I'd love to hear what research data you have to support those claims. I'd also love to share with you data about maternal health - anxiety and depression, and how sleep deprivation increases those risks and severity. I have two kids, both of whom I sleep trained, who I'm incredibly close with. They are 10 and 12. They come to me and tell me when they are having a hard time. Sometimes we even have sleep overs and bedshare. No one wants to do sleep training, but they do this because the way they are currently sleeping is unsustainable physically or mentally. Comments like yours, which are scientifically unfounded and judging others are harmful to parents everywhere. Never judge someone until you walk a mile in their shoes. Wishing you all the best.
@@HelpingBabiesSleep yes, I am a new mom of a 5 month old, sleep deprived, on 3 different medication for anxiety and depression and I still have suicidal thoughts 😞 CIO method is my last resort
@@tequilabumbum4373 Please seek help immediately. Dial 988 or call your doctor. You matter in this world! 5 months, you can sleep train her and be in a completely different place in 7 days. My heart goes out to you. This is a late reply and I hope you're okay.
@@tequilabumbum4373I hope everything is going well. It will not hurt you or your baby to try the CIO method. My baby is 5 months old. I bought her a sleep sack and plan to try it out tonight. This is my 3rd child. It did it with my first daughter and it worked. The first night was rough but she was bathed, changed, and fed so I knew she was fine. The second night was great and the third night was a dream. I notice when I get up for my third child she most times uses me as a pacifier so I figure I’ll put her back in the crib since she doesn’t need to be fed and she cries a bit but I leave her to see what she will do and she self sooth herself back to sleep using her hand by sucking them. One time she woke up after 30 minutes of me breastfeeding her and I think she broke out of her swaddle. I swaddled her back and she automatically stopped crying and fell back to sleep for a few hours. It’s that comfort that they want on their chest and belly but they can learn to self sooth on their own. She does better sleeping on her stomach (she rolled over twice on her stomach) but I’m not ready for her to sleep on her stomach just yet. I hope you figured something out and I hope this helps you and your little one. Hope all is well!
Omg....i am sorry to say but what kind of horrible mother are you to let your baby cry her/him self desperately to sleep without giving her/him the comfort/breastfeeding/kisses/closeness they sooo badly need during these first months of their live? Don't you have a heart? It's best you stop making kids if you don't have the patience, empathy & nurturing qualities a good mother has...Please stop 'teaching' parents to traumatise their baby's...
You have absolutely no idea what you are talking about lmao
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so true
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