@@curstinw6420 i never hesitate to give black women compliments...ever...just gave one out to the ups cashier when calling her queen, she was really trying to help and i had to tell her "it was cool" lol. She was so sweet 🥰
I love it! I try to spread those tingles to the folks I come across. So many beautiful and handsome people. Once there was a young Queen walking looking forward. As she passed me I curtsy and say "Queen". That little smile she gives to acknowledge me keeps me alive for a day. 😁💖 Weird thing though when it happens to me, it scares me a little. 😅 If their eyes are sincere, I blush. 😁😂🥰
Ha! I’m a white Irish guy, moved to the US.. got hit on by black women, married one beautiful black lady who had the audacity to tell me I made her day just by being in it 😂 3 kids. Soul mates. Black women are next level human beings 😂❤
yes. Black women are great companions. Quite a few white Billionaires have Black second wives. People like George Lucas. All Black women are not the loud angry ghetto stereotype.
Yeah they are when it comes to serving yall because many hate themselves as African descendants. White Jesus really messed our people up. These women will serve you and argue with a good blk man all day everyday over absolutely nothing.
I totally agree with you my Sister. Asian men have a swagger about them that makes this Lady swoon. My first high school crush was a Korean guy. I never said anything until we met up 30+ years later. He recognized me, but I didn't him . He had gotten taller, greyed to slay & had buffed up.
@@loyaltyb71052 really honestly i do not know,. i didnt even consider black women until i was 19 years old. And once i did i realized you are very beautiful creatures. i guess until then i just thought ya'll considered us as undesirable? Thats is the most genuine answer i can give my love
I've never been hit on by a Black woman, but one complimented me on a potato salad I brought to a potluck once, so I understand the feeling he described.
Dude, she complimented your potato salad?!!!! You don't even know. I'm a black woman originally from the country in Bama. That compliment is top tier above all other compliments. The only 2 that are superior are complimenting the way you seasoned your food and your Mac & cheese.
I had a black woman as my best friend for 40 years and she would always say, you’re gorgeous and leave messages on my phone and say, hello blondie. It made me feel so great. She died of cancer two years ago. I still miss her terribly. ❤✌️
As an Asian American woman with Black female friends, best believe they do not mince words for nobody. Compliments are real. They know how to hype you up. But, hey, check this. Remember to reciprocate. Black women need to be hyped up too. Give them the love they deserve. I'm so grateful for all of my friends but I feel especially seen by some of my Black female friends. Take care of them like the precious jewels that they are.
Thanks for emphasizing “straight women” cause you never know nowadays. I feel you and agree with you. A compliment from another sista means alot to me. I do my best to pay it forward. We need to show one another more love than we do.
@@mahoganystructure exactly. I'm a lesbian and you wouldn't know just from looking at me. A lot of women I compliment probably think I'm straight. Generally, I am not attracted to straight women anyway. I prefer masculine women. Just because I like your hair/outfit/or think you're beautiful does not mean you're my type.
African woman here when I get compliments from a fellow black woman. It’s different coz it’s genuine. There’s nobody whose more unimpressed than black women so when they are impressed I’m always happy 😊
We always have to be so indulgent, like a mother with their children - which is technically true as everyone is descendent from black women. So when you actually do impressive things, we notice.
A black woman told me she liked my hair in 9th grade. I'm almost an adult now, and i go back to the same stylist every few months to keep the same haircut she said she liked
the support from Black women is unmatched. saying this as a Black woman who has been supported by Black women. we truly make the world a better place ❤🥰🥹
I am a WM, a widower from a 35 year marriage before her untimely passing😢 I am currently engaged to a wonderful BW who I met because we BOTH lost someone. We started as mutual support for each other & evolved into a relationship based on MUTUAL love, MUTUAL trust, and MUTUAL respect. We are currently engaged and working on life TOGETHER! She is every bit as wonderful as my late-wife and she let's me know that I matter to her. Yes, some black women are WONDERFUL❤
As Asian guy When I was in school we got nothing But now, as much as it hurts my Filipino pride, K-pop really got us in the market. These compliments from black women are something else, you feel like you don’t need your family’s approval anymore
Black women get a bad rap but most love a good laugh and will be super sweet to people who are nice to them. Disrespect them and you’ll see that switch flip but as long as you are cool 90% of the time you will find them to be fun loving and cool. I love black women.
We don’t have a “ bad rap”. Most of you dudes today hate all women because of the attention you can’t get. Low self esteem, low self worth having black men don’t have anything else to talk about on the internet and other weak groups of men follow.
Real talk. As a brown Mexican man, when black women tell me these things, I'm believing I can do anything in the world. Ain't nothing like black women in this world. ♥️
One of the greatest compliments I’ve ever received is from a black woman I worked with. She said, “John, I like you. You ain’t like those other white boys. You’ve got balls.” Still thinking about it ten years later. 😊
I’m 40 years old and told an 18 yr old Mexican kid that he was so handsome. He said “Who, me?!?!?” I wondered if his mom or friends ever told him that after his response. He finished working on my car, pulled out his phone and said “So, can I have your number?” I said “No!! I was just complementing you! You’ll get a lot of girls, trust me.”
@@saramatthews7159 lol Sara he’s younger than my oldest kid. I knew he was a child but I thought it was okay to say because I’m a grandmother also. I thought he would take it as a compliment from an older lady. I wasn’t being creepy and calling the kid sexy or fine, he was a handsome young man and I also tell women they’re beautiful as well. He took my compliment and ran with it.
😂😂😂 can’t blame the young man. You just boosted his ego sky high. He had to shoot his shot. He would have been made at hisself if he let you walk away without trying.
I read a lot of comments about young men going after older women because they received a compliment or sweet word. I'm happy for y'all. I'm married but you need to go get it.
They get all child like and goofy - some of them. Its a beautiful thing tho. And when you lay it on really good and they dont respond just then, you'll see them the next day after they have processed it. Its looks like light bulbs are surrounding them and even their eye color brightens. Black men are somewhat the same but its contained and as if a power button has been pushed!
I grew up in a predominantly white community. Never really knew or had any black friends. I attended college out of my home state and loved the cultural diversity of the school. On my very first day of college I sat next to this beautiful black girl in one of my courses. Just after I sat down, she leaned over and told me that she thought I was very handsome. I was from Montana and she was from South Carolina and her Southern accent, directness, and genuineness had me floating in the clouds. She and I became very close during our 4 years at school. She was one of my closest friends. She was the most direct and honest person I'd ever known, so I came to believe most all black girls were like her. Since knowing her, I’ve always been a big fan of black women and love it when a black woman pays me some attention or a compliment. One of the many things I learned to appreciate while at college is the beauty and sex appeal of a black woman.
As a Black woman I genuinely love giving compliments, but I especially love compliments from other Black women. A well placed, “Okay boots!” Will have me on cloud9 all day😂
As an Italian-Egyptian man who has been married to a black woman for over 10 years and have been dating black women for 30 years. I can totally relate.
Mature black woman here, my man's Italian-English ohhwee, some next level kind of love I have never experienced. Style, dress code, opens doors for me, home never without flowers, got me resting in my feminine... People love seeing us together too, always giving us extra treatment and things when we go places haha. We were so blessed to find each other two years ago😁 ❤❤❤
With that mentality, you will find that you you will have an overwhelmingly positive experience with the black women you encounter. People who say most black women have bad attitudes usually have attitudes towards black women and get back what they sent out. Obvs you can encounter unpleasant people of any group but most black women love to smile and laugh with people who make them feel comfortable.
You go out of your way befriend us just so that we can be your emotional support person? I hope you reciprocate the same kindness that you seek from black women.
Gave a compliment to a white lady at the grocery store and she hugged me and started crying. She said she was having an awful day and I really helped her mental state at that moment. It's always the little things that make the most impact 💗
As a black woman, I remember this time when I was 12 years old i went out shopping with my aunt, and then i saw this middle aged black woman coming from across the street, and as she was getting closer to me she kept smiling at me in the most gentle and motherly way and then she just said "god bless you sweetheart", told me I was beautiful and went on her way. It was the first time someone ever told me that. 🥰
The world is already a difficult place to be in a little smile, a little love and compliments where they're due won't hurt. Me and my friends who are my sister we do that alot sometimes we just send or post random pictures to each other or about the other and say look at how beautiful this soul this human being is, I feel nice and I know they do and we do that to our european sisters as well they were uncomfortable at first but then now they know we say it when we see it
I as a Black woman saw a beautiful Sista in the parking lot at Ingles. She was such a beautiful natural haired chocolate Black woman that I had to tell her out loud, “Sis, your skin is so flawless. Your hair is so beautiful. You just look beyond amazing.” She started crying and asked me for a hug. I hugged a stranger in a parking lot for what felt like hours. She needed my energy and I gladly gave it to her. She was a bright STAR but I do not think she felt that way about herself at that moment until I reminded her and spoke the truth to her.
Yeah, I'm a white guy who worked in Downtown Brooklyn for 36 years. I've always been in good shape and wear my hair relatively long. Black woman are not shy about compliments, and whenever I got one - which was almost always exactly like this comedian phrased it - I always felt REALLY good about myself.
This is real. As a black woman, I love receiving compliments from other black women, especially the older ones. I know I look good when I get a compliment from them.
I’m a white woman, and when black women give me compliments, I accomplish so much in that year. I started my own business. 😂 ay, compliments can be about your achievements, and what they see that you’re capable of. ❤
As a Black woman, when I tell a man he looks good, *he knows full well that comment comes slathered with all kinds of sincerity.* But telling a man he looks good does not equate to hitting on him. You're just letting him know he's handsome and he's got swag, style, and all that.
Black men have incredible compliment game too! I still remember during finals week my junior year of college, I had just gotten out of an exam, felt really bad about it. A guy jogged down the hall past me, obviously on his way to an exam. He turned around, still jogging but BACKWARDS, and just said, "Girl, you're so pretty. Everyone knows that about you." and then turned around and kept jogging. First of all, how was he so charming running with a backpack on? Second, I swear he blessed me because I ended up getting an A- on that exam. Third, it's been almost 10 years and just thinking about that makes me blush. And it makes me look back on years of insecurity and avoidance of male attention because as an asian woman, sometimes men are weird about that. But he seriously helped me get some confidence back. Because if it's finals week and a man wearing jeans and a backpack running to a final makes time to stop to say something nice to you, you have to accept that you're not as ugly as you think.
@@wmhfv992 That was very sweet of him for doing that. ❤️ It is wonderful to know how meaningful that moment was for you. It's the little things that matter the most.
Coworker at part time job when I was college student said sonething similar to me. She was hot, too. Nearly 50 years ago but I still frequently and happily recall.
Ralph, little one, please make sure you return the energy and compliment a bw, don't just take their energy. You must reciprocate it and make a connection, ok? Please remember ❤
I (a Black woman) told an older white woman that I loved her hair and haircut and she didn’t believe my compliment. I acknowledged that she was beautiful and she looked like she was going to cry. It’s like she was seen for the first time.
As a brother he's telling no lies. I honestly feel when a sista pays me a complement like that it's sincere as hell. I still remember I was in my 1st year of college in '03 and I just moved to California and I was walking down the street and this random lady looks at me and said '' mmm mmm mmm you a fine looking bald head chocolate man! 'I've never blushed harder in my life, she turned me into a shy kid. My old roommate keeps reminding me of that to this day.
Black women let's compliment the hell out of each other from now on! Everybody feels so good when we do it for them and we damn sure owe it to each other! 😊
As a black woman, when I tell a white guy (or anyone really), he has beautiful eyes it stops them in their tracks and brings a smile to their face. I think because black women are confident enough to actually look at people where many people shy away from staring or giving eye contact, we observe more and give more specific and genuine compliments.
I love hearing how our words impact and empower everyone around us. Now, your role is to protect us. Listen to Black women. Protect Black women. So that we can continue to give the world our gifts. ❤
@@brianwashington5474"If you say so" Ok uknowWOT. that is IT. I have HAD IT with these types of snide remarks. uknowWOT Brian, you do NOT deserve bw energy and compliments. You're just rrrrrreally mean and nasty for no reason. It is not hard to be nice sometimes, but you still find a way to make a put-down comment. I am VERY disappointed in you.
And you can tell Nick meant every word he said too 😆 look at em'.... blushing red cheeks, hands shuffling in his pockets, can't stop smiling through his story.... completely Chocolatized ! 👏🏾 ❤
what I appreciate the most about this bit is that he didn't feel the need to use a blaccent to make the joke funny, and it was still hilarious! well done! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@@trevorjames4619 not if you’re normal and give a regular genuine compliment. don’t say anything you would be embarrassed to repeat it in front of your mother.
You know why he believes in his dreams⁉ "Beacuse black women are the blueprint, the cradile of civilization. It's an inituitive spiritual knowing that the mother of all races sees you and it hits different ❣️
@@misstunes1765 Of course! They are full of variety and complexity and contradictions like everyone else. I wasn't saying anything more than that they have a way of talking that to an over-thinking white guy like me seems over the top, and if it is out of the blue, it contrasts with the generally dead-pan or half-hearted way that most other people deliver compliments.
This is sooo true. same thing fkn happened to my brothr.. he was like swooning for a month.. she called him some delicious white chocolate dessert and he literally giggled & blushed. Hard! Fkn grown man. HAHAHAAA 😂😂😂 also he bought white marble cake for a month. No jk.
I complemented this older white man on his hair, it was medium length mostly gray but the way it layed on his head in thick waves. When I gave him a compliment he didn't know what to say, "Oh my hair?...Oh thank you! I'm just not used to getting compliments! 😂" I could tell then it made his entire day...or year! 🤗
I’m a black woman (44 years old) and I still remember getting a compliment at age 6 from a dance mom. It was before our recital and she volunteered to do our little makeup. She told me the pink eye shadow looked so good on my pretty skin and undertones. She was holding my face and applying it. I was like, “who me??!?! 🥰🥹” I remember it like it was yesterday.
The bad rep we get come from black men and the media. We are human just like everyone else and probably the most genuine people on the planet! If we give you a compliment, better believe it’s from the heart and we mean it! God bless us all and may we all learn to treat each other better! Love the jokes! Honest and funny❤
It works for women too. Just as I'm saying 'thank you for working on this with me, that was great." She goes "look, I'm heterosexual, like REALLY hetero, but girl, you, there's something about you I can't explain, just mmmm. Thought you should know." & walked out. I tell you, I walked out GLOWING & BEAMING (& BLUSHING), felt so confident, self-assured & sexy for the next MONTH you'd have thought I was getting some something every night - no, no I was not - but I was just a hormone high as if I was. Then her visa expired, we all knew she was temp/working holiday. A DECADE LATER I still remember her! That's POWERFUL! Whooo, I'm still blushing now!
There really is no compliment that is better than that of a black woman… Even when they are older and they happen to call you “baby”, “sweetheart” or “honey” you know you did something right! However, if they say “little girl”, “little boy” or “child”… just leave her alone. Find a quiet corner where she can’t see you over her +3.00 reader glasses that rest on the tip of her nose like an acrobat in Cirque Du Soleil.
@@denisefoster8831 I have never felt more isolated than when Mrs. Robin Norris looks over her glasses with her hand on her hip and said “little girrrllll”. I wanted to be invisible so bad.
At the beginning of Humanity stands a Beautiful Black Woman... When a Black woman tells you your Beautiful, its like this First Human Perfection seeing you as Blessing 🖤Beautiful!
I just saw an Instagram post about how welcoming black people are to everyone including those outside of our race but not all are welcoming to us. I’ve heard various times how Black women are especially welcoming and when we speak to someone it’s on a whole other level. I’m pretty sure there is something special about all females but it’s just something within us that’s just different that’s all good vibes. Proud to be a melanated female.
@@CreativeMedicine7: I appreciate you and if my comment offended you .... I apologise. I'm just triggered by divestors who level up by punching down on BM.
@@blackmagic6 as a woman of mocha complexion, I get it. And it was a fair question. Many times we support others and badger our own people. It’s an unfortunate reality. So being positive, speaking life, uplifting my people..is natural for me. Thank you for asking
Back when I worked for the DMV, I was working the Drive-Thru tag renewals and this white man handed me his license and I looked at it and said, ' You look like Liam Neeson in this photo. " It wasn't flirty, just an off hand comment. But he just lit up, and was like , "REALLY?" His wife was in the passenger seat and said, " I wish!" But as I was printing his sticker, she kept eyeing him up and down. Like, suddenly, there was new appreciation there. I gave him his stuff, and they pulled off, still grinning. I thought to myself, I just renewed your marriage. Somebody's getting it tonight. You're welcome!
Not gonna lie, as a black woman (who’s shy so I don’t apply here lol) black people’s rizz game is bold.😂 We tell it how it is and we’ll hype you up if we like what we see.
Black Girl Magic is a Real Thing! Whatever we SHINE a Little Love on Will have Nutrition... Even if just for that Day. 99.99% of the time, if we are passing out compliments, We 100% Mean It!!! Most of our Grandmothers taught us to Pay a Good Compliment Forward, and that it costs nothing to Smile with Joy in your Heart. All of God's Creations should get some recognition from time to time, and a Good Vibe is a Great Thing. So if you get a Feel Good Compliment from a Black Woman you have Never met in your Life, that means The Holy Spirit put it in her Heart to Speak that Message into You 💗
As a black woman, I am hardly impressed by anything so if I give you a compliment, you best believe I meant it. Receive it like an infinity stone to activate your dreams.
I work in a hospital and I hype up EVERYONE especially the patients. Imagine being brought into the hospital in a stretcher from a stroke, in despair that life has pretty much ended. Then as you struggle to brush your teeth without assistance, you hear a cheerful voice saying "You better work that brush, sir! You doing the darn thing!" I see their eyes light up and it makes me feel like I have a purpose 😊
This is cute, but also bittersweet imo. People looooooove the way black women make them feel or inspire them. They enjoy being nurtured and uplifted, but do they love to give it back? Do they love us? My newsfeed is FULL of really weird subliminal messages about black women that I am intentional to reject, and I have to actively search out uplifting content to wash my brain. We’re great! Not a monolithic demographic (like any) 🤷🏾♀️ But if you like women, and you haven’t considered black women… well,
Agreed but we also need to watch ourselves and black men because too often when other races compliment us or find us attractive it will be written off as “fetishizing.” This way other black people will condition us to keep our esteem low, feel suspicious about compliments and not want to date out. I want us to be able receive compliments freely from all, no strings attached like other people ❤
@@caressaclark1042 we started loving and putting ourselves first....those boundaries are becoming increasingly clear, as well as the consequences...i see blk men in this comment section actually being....complimentary. imagine this last year how they would have torn into the comedian telling them how intolerable we were.....
When a black woman compliments you SHE MEANS IT
You must not know too many black men then.
@@brianwashington5474Stop🤦🏿♂️
@@brianwashington5474 black woman....
EXACTLY!! We don’t usually waste compliments on anyone, especially men!! When we like what we see we will tell you!
@@mekosSpeak on it, sis!✊🏾
"A black woman tells me I'm hot, I believe in my dreams" ~ what a 💖 line!! 😂❤🔥
You betta believe it 😂😂😂🙋🏾♀️
😂😂😂😂
That was amazing 😂
Really talk! If we say u LOOK GOOD! U betta believe it!!
We have that effect 😂❤
Even AS a black woman getting compliments from other black women is like levitating🙂↔️
no fr bc even though i'm a black woman, i feel like i've made it when other black women compliment me 🙌🏾
@@curstinw6420 i never hesitate to give black women compliments...ever...just gave one out to the ups cashier when calling her queen, she was really trying to help and i had to tell her "it was cool" lol. She was so sweet 🥰
Y lie
I love it! I try to spread those tingles to the folks I come across. So many beautiful and handsome people. Once there was a young Queen walking looking forward. As she passed me I curtsy and say "Queen". That little smile she gives to acknowledge me keeps me alive for a day. 😁💖 Weird thing though when it happens to me, it scares me a little. 😅 If their eyes are sincere, I blush. 😁😂🥰
Yes. It's authentic. I don't even question it ❤.
Facts. Getting a compliment from a black woman is equivalent to receiving an Infinity Stone.
Lmao
Flattered, truly. ❤
Ok, you win the internet!! 😂
I just wanna hit like 3000😂❤
Damn I’m going to give out more compliments 😂
Ha! I’m a white Irish guy, moved to the US.. got hit on by black women, married one beautiful black lady who had the audacity to tell me I made her day just by being in it 😂 3 kids. Soul mates. Black women are next level human beings 😂❤
yes. Black women are great companions. Quite a few white Billionaires have Black second wives. People like George Lucas. All Black women are not the loud angry ghetto stereotype.
Thank you!
Yeah they are when it comes to serving yall because many hate themselves as African descendants. White Jesus really messed our people up. These women will serve you and argue with a good blk man all day everyday over absolutely nothing.
thank you❤
Thank you! ❤
As an Asian American male, I can confidently say that compliments from African American females stick. Bless them all. 🙏
Bless you sweetheart! We love our smooth Asian brothers too;);)
I totally agree with you my Sister. Asian men have a swagger about them that makes this Lady swoon. My first high school crush was a Korean guy. I never said anything until we met up 30+ years later. He recognized me, but I didn't him . He had gotten taller, greyed to slay & had buffed up.
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@@ms.d.b.9283 they're a different type of sexy..just whew!
@@ms.d.b.9283 yess suh! Sounds very sexy!!
I'm a black man and it has the same effect on me 😂❤
🥰🙏🏽
😊
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That's because you are the baddest dude on earth!!!
@@lenalove8138 ✊🏾 That’s WHY they are hated!
As a black woman, I approve these comments 😂😭
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100% agreed
as a 32 year old white man, i was raised thinkin ya'll didnt like us at all
@@justinneal4661 serious question, why would we not like you (white men)?
@@loyaltyb71052 really honestly i do not know,. i didnt even consider black women until i was 19 years old. And once i did i realized you are very beautiful creatures. i guess until then i just thought ya'll considered us as undesirable? Thats is the most genuine answer i can give my love
When you hear "MMM, MMM, MMM" as you walk by... yeah that.
Jason you know the sistas too well 😂
😂😂… and then we just: “😏”
@@Vatti. 😂😂😂 yesss with a smirk
The accuracy 😂
LMFAO!
I've never been hit on by a Black woman, but one complimented me on a potato salad I brought to a potluck once, so I understand the feeling he described.
😂😂we are VERY picky about potato salad
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Your potato salad must have been 🔥🤣
Dude, she complimented your potato salad?!!!! You don't even know. I'm a black woman originally from the country in Bama. That compliment is top tier above all other compliments. The only 2 that are superior are complimenting the way you seasoned your food and your Mac & cheese.
@@Mebeshe Oh, I can't make mac and cheese to save my life. Even Chef Boyardee would tell me to recognize my limitations.
I had a black woman as my best friend for 40 years and she would always say, you’re gorgeous and leave messages on my phone and say, hello blondie. It made me feel so great. She died of cancer two years ago. I still miss her terribly. ❤✌️
So glad you have this memory of her! I'm so sorry for your loss, too.
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I'm so sorry for your loss but also love hearing about friendships that end up being lifelong. They become our family and often the best ones. ❤️❤️
@@Lokian_Mermaid Me too.
Thank you so much for sharing your precious memories🌺
My sincere condolences for your loss 🙏🏾
As a black man, getting a compliment from my sistas will have me levitating for the rest of the week.
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@@Sidewinder528someones mad
@B4ll1n ...You?
Simp
As an Asian American woman with Black female friends, best believe they do not mince words for nobody. Compliments are real. They know how to hype you up.
But, hey, check this. Remember to reciprocate. Black women need to be hyped up too. Give them the love they deserve. I'm so grateful for all of my friends but I feel especially seen by some of my Black female friends. Take care of them like the precious jewels that they are.
Omg you just made my heart melt, so sweet 🥰❣️🫠
This was a VERY VERY cute comment.
MY HEART 💜 Thank you sis 🥹
Great comment!
Thank you for saying that ❤
I love how confident and sweet black women are. They tell you things and you just know they aren’t lying. Genuine group of people I can say.
I'm not confident
@@nicolec8884 you should be confident as a human being. Your race shouldn’t matter.
I am sometimes 😂@@nicolec8884
Thankyou 😢🖤
Confident? Sweet? Chile, who? Me?😆😆
I’m a straight black woman and nothing makes me feel prettier than when another straight black woman compliments me. It’s just so genuine 🤗🥰
Thanks for emphasizing “straight women” cause you never know nowadays. I feel you and agree with you. A compliment from another sista means alot to me. I do my best to pay it forward. We need to show one another more love than we do.
The emphasis on "straight" is some crazy dialect
What does it matter if the female is straight. A lesbian can give another woman a compliment without it being an ulterior motive behind it.
@@mahoganystructure exactly. I'm a lesbian and you wouldn't know just from looking at me. A lot of women I compliment probably think I'm straight. Generally, I am not attracted to straight women anyway. I prefer masculine women. Just because I like your hair/outfit/or think you're beautiful does not mean you're my type.
righttt lol. Have you smiling so hard lol and thinking about that compliment all day with a lil extra pep in your step lol
I mean we don’t just give compliments to anyone. 😂
Facts. If we say it, we mean it 😊
EXACTLY!
Agreed❤!
True
Yes!! 😂
African woman here when I get compliments from a fellow black woman. It’s different coz it’s genuine. There’s nobody whose more unimpressed than black women so when they are impressed I’m always happy 😊
😂😂😂 True! It's hard to impress us.
Yes!
We always have to be so indulgent, like a mother with their children - which is technically true as everyone is descendent from black women.
So when you actually do impressive things, we notice.
*unimpressed black woman checking in FACTS!
That is so true!
A black woman told me she liked my hair in 9th grade. I'm almost an adult now, and i go back to the same stylist every few months to keep the same haircut she said she liked
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awwww😊
This is so precious 😊
Awwwwwh baby ❤😊
Too cute!
Aww ❤ it
the support from Black women is unmatched. saying this as a Black woman who has been supported by Black women. we truly make the world a better place ❤🥰🥹
FACTS ❤
YEP. You really do.
We do!! 🥹❤️
This is the kind of information that we white dudes need to hear.
I am a WM, a widower from a 35 year marriage before her untimely passing😢
I am currently engaged to a wonderful BW who I met because we BOTH lost someone. We started as mutual support for each other & evolved into a relationship based on MUTUAL love, MUTUAL trust, and MUTUAL respect.
We are currently engaged and working on life TOGETHER! She is every bit as wonderful as my late-wife and she let's me know that I matter to her.
Yes, some black women are WONDERFUL❤
As Asian guy
When I was in school we got nothing
But now, as much as it hurts my Filipino pride, K-pop really got us in the market. These compliments from black women are something else, you feel like you don’t need your family’s approval anymore
Damn! 😂😂😂
@@natashathomas3743that was my exact reaction
“Don’t need your family approval anymore” that’s deep!
😂😂😂 thats too deep!
Them compliments got me going deeper 😂
We put a little seasoning in those compliments!
And a whole lot of hot sauce, both which I carry in my purse! 👜😁
Ain't lying 😂
😂😂😂😂😂
It's the spice 😁🤌
@@alicetheegreetI had a friend that kept hot sauce in her purse at all times, she was literally the coolest.
Black women get a bad rap but most love a good laugh and will be super sweet to people who are nice to them. Disrespect them and you’ll see that switch flip but as long as you are cool 90% of the time you will find them to be fun loving and cool. I love black women.
💯 You get what you give!
I don't know why people try to act like there's anything else going on other than that.
We don’t have a “ bad rap”. Most of you dudes today hate all women because of the attention you can’t get. Low self esteem, low self worth having black men don’t have anything else to talk about on the internet and other weak groups of men follow.
Simp harder bro
The desperation for zaddy is actually embarrassing
Black women don't really get that much of a bad rap. At least not in my experience.
Real talk. As a brown Mexican man, when black women tell me these things, I'm believing I can do anything in the world. Ain't nothing like black women in this world. ♥️
Black women have no time for BS. Life is literally too short! If we say it, it's facts!!! 💯😏
FACTS!
This is the comment. This.
DAMN RIGHT!
One of the greatest compliments I’ve ever received is from a black woman I worked with. She said, “John, I like you. You ain’t like those other white boys. You’ve got balls.” Still thinking about it ten years later. 😊
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That was a serious compliment..its something I def would've said..
10 years later! Damn! 😂
@@ashdapr1 😂
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I’m 40 years old and told an 18 yr old Mexican kid that he was so handsome. He said “Who, me?!?!?” I wondered if his mom or friends ever told him that after his response. He finished working on my car, pulled out his phone and said “So, can I have your number?” I said “No!! I was just complementing you! You’ll get a lot of girls, trust me.”
I'm also 40, and I would've gave him the number. 18+ is fair game.😜❤
@@saramatthews7159 lol Sara he’s younger than my oldest kid. I knew he was a child but I thought it was okay to say because I’m a grandmother also. I thought he would take it as a compliment from an older lady. I wasn’t being creepy and calling the kid sexy or fine, he was a handsome young man and I also tell women they’re beautiful as well. He took my compliment and ran with it.
@@caressaclark1042 lmbo!!! I’m not into younger men.
😂😂😂 can’t blame the young man. You just boosted his ego sky high. He had to shoot his shot. He would have been made at hisself if he let you walk away without trying.
I read a lot of comments about young men going after older women because they received a compliment or sweet word. I'm happy for y'all. I'm married but you need to go get it.
I like seeing white boys blush ☺️
Facts 😍
It is fun 🤭
Naw for real
They get all child like and goofy - some of them. Its a beautiful thing tho. And when you lay it on really good and they dont respond just then, you'll see them the next day after they have processed it. Its looks like light bulbs are surrounding them and even their eye color brightens. Black men are somewhat the same but its contained and as if a power button has been pushed!
@br0k3ndad
Nah... white BOYS.
Pretty white BOYS😜❤💪🏻
I grew up in a predominantly white community. Never really knew or had any black friends. I attended college out of my home state and loved the cultural diversity of the school. On my very first day of college I sat next to this beautiful black girl in one of my courses. Just after I sat down, she leaned over and told me that she thought I was very handsome. I was from Montana and she was from South Carolina and her Southern accent, directness, and genuineness had me floating in the clouds. She and I became very close during our 4 years at school. She was one of my closest friends. She was the most direct and honest person I'd ever known, so I came to believe most all black girls were like her. Since knowing her, I’ve always been a big fan of black women and love it when a black woman pays me some attention or a compliment. One of the many things I learned to appreciate while at college is the beauty and sex appeal of a black woman.
Just curious but did you two ever date? If not, why not? Sounds like a missed connection for a rrrrrreally nice future to share a family/marriage 😢
Black WOMAN!!! 🤡
@@knf4451 because he's lying for TH-cam likes!!!! 🥱🤡
@@knf4451You don’t have to date someone because you like them😂
Hum, again black women holding up everyone yet left alone, 😢
As a Black woman I genuinely love giving compliments, but I especially love compliments from other Black women. A well placed, “Okay boots!” Will have me on cloud9 all day😂
Big facts 💯 😆
Lol, ive said this 😅😅🤣
😂 my sister just had a kidney transplant and one of her nurses hair was so nice that I said “ok braids, come through” lol she was beaming!
@@team8137 😂 I love Black women
same i love us
As an Italian-Egyptian man who has been married to a black woman for over 10 years and have been dating black women for 30 years. I can totally relate.
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Mature black woman here, my man's Italian-English ohhwee, some next level kind of love I have never experienced. Style, dress code, opens doors for me, home never without flowers, got me resting in my feminine... People love seeing us together too, always giving us extra treatment and things when we go places haha. We were so blessed to find each other two years ago😁 ❤❤❤
Egyptian = African = "Also Black"
@@crunckNATIon What is your point? He is half Egyptian and half Italian, which means that he is not black.
Smh too bad ppl dont go out of their way to compliment black women as a collective.
Huh? Black women get complimented all the time.
Exactly. They just take take take. This is why I don't extend my kindness to just anyone.
They do, just not the certain demographic u seek validation from ⛄️
@@mazzb305 if you're referring to black males, I could care less about getting validation from them.
@@saramatthews7159 It also speaks to YOUR circle of influence and the company YOU keep; along with the energy YOU attract.
That is why I go out of my way to be-friend the black women around me. It's the positive vibes and laughter that I enjoy.
With that mentality, you will find that you you will have an overwhelmingly positive experience with the black women you encounter. People who say most black women have bad attitudes usually have attitudes towards black women and get back what they sent out. Obvs you can encounter unpleasant people of any group but most black women love to smile and laugh with people who make them feel comfortable.
Or leave us alone. We do appreciate that as well.
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Where? All the ones I interact with are toxic but go ahead. A cute dude will attract all of us, good AND bad.😁😁
You go out of your way befriend us just so that we can be your emotional support person? I hope you reciprocate the same kindness that you seek from black women.
“You one of those fine white boys” 😂😂😂😂 -this type of compliment is co-signed and approved by this black woman
Gave a compliment to a white lady at the grocery store and she hugged me and started crying. She said she was having an awful day and I really helped her mental state at that moment. It's always the little things that make the most impact 💗
As a black woman, I remember this time when I was 12 years old i went out shopping with my aunt, and then i saw this middle aged black woman coming from across the street, and as she was getting closer to me she kept smiling at me in the most gentle and motherly way and then she just said "god bless you sweetheart", told me I was beautiful and went on her way. It was the first time someone ever told me that. 🥰
🥺☺️☺️☺️
@@africandaisy310 ❤️
The world is already a difficult place to be in a little smile, a little love and compliments where they're due won't hurt.
Me and my friends who are my sister we do that alot sometimes we just send or post random pictures to each other or about the other and say look at how beautiful this soul this human being is, I feel nice and I know they do and we do that to our european sisters as well they were uncomfortable at first but then now they know we say it when we see it
I as a Black woman saw a beautiful Sista in the parking lot at Ingles. She was such a beautiful natural haired chocolate Black woman that I had to tell her out loud, “Sis, your skin is so flawless. Your hair is so beautiful. You just look beyond amazing.” She started crying and asked me for a hug. I hugged a stranger in a parking lot for what felt like hours. She needed my energy and I gladly gave it to her. She was a bright STAR but I do not think she felt that way about herself at that moment until I reminded her and spoke the truth to her.
Aww this is so SPECIAL 😊
@@knf4451 ❤️❤️❤️
You're an angel 💞
@@highlovevibration awww thank you so much ❤️❤️❤️
Wow that gave me chills! My mum use to say
"It's nice to be nice"😢
As a white guy, I appreciate the the honesty and down Earthiness of black women. Luv 2 them.
Sending love back!😊
Yeah, I'm a white guy who worked in Downtown Brooklyn for 36 years.
I've always been in good shape and wear my hair relatively long.
Black woman are not shy about compliments, and whenever I got one - which was almost always exactly like this comedian phrased it - I always felt REALLY good about myself.
He is not lying. Black women don’t give up the compliments easily so when they do they mean it.
This is real. As a black woman, I love receiving compliments from other black women, especially the older ones. I know I look good when I get a compliment from them.
As a black woman I find this hilarious and so true!!!😂😂😂
I’m a white woman, and when black women give me compliments, I accomplish so much in that year. I started my own business. 😂 ay, compliments can be about your achievements, and what they see that you’re capable of. ❤
Ahh. You must be real genuine too to receive it.
Reciprocate by hiring Brown Women, and not exploiting our hard working, dedicated characteristics.
As a brotha, it has the same effect on me. Idk something about when a sista thinks you got "It", puts a battery in your back. lol
Ya mon
I’m putting more batteries in more backs! Starting tomorrow 😂
I appreciate your perspective!
And yet, black men like to state that they prefer white women because black women are so combative and masculine.
Some of you all are just beautiful though. Healthy sisters talk about you all of the time…
Black women just got taste. That's why we love em
If we tell you "you fine"!!! Baby, best, believe you fine!!!! 😍💯👏🏾
As a Black woman, when I tell a man he looks good, *he knows full well that comment comes slathered with all kinds of sincerity.* But telling a man he looks good does not equate to hitting on him. You're just letting him know he's handsome and he's got swag, style, and all that.
Same
He said " I believe in my dreams" 😅 that's funny. I'll have to compliment more often now that I know it has this effect on people. ❤
My thoughts exactly sis! 😅
I've seen this happen in real life! I give a WM a simple compliment like, "I love your beard!" and you can just see his whole body LIGHT up!! 🥰😂
DIvestors are a disgrace. SMDH.
No lies detected...
All I need is an "Okay" with a happy side-eye/wink... lol
😭😭😭 I love it!!! Okkkk thennn ❤️
🗣️OKAY! I see you! 😂
That’s it and that’s all
Getting that lately. Maybe on day in the near fiture.
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As a black man, I confirm. I blush whenever I am complimented by a black woman ☺️
Black men have incredible compliment game too! I still remember during finals week my junior year of college, I had just gotten out of an exam, felt really bad about it. A guy jogged down the hall past me, obviously on his way to an exam. He turned around, still jogging but BACKWARDS, and just said, "Girl, you're so pretty. Everyone knows that about you." and then turned around and kept jogging. First of all, how was he so charming running with a backpack on? Second, I swear he blessed me because I ended up getting an A- on that exam. Third, it's been almost 10 years and just thinking about that makes me blush. And it makes me look back on years of insecurity and avoidance of male attention because as an asian woman, sometimes men are weird about that. But he seriously helped me get some confidence back. Because if it's finals week and a man wearing jeans and a backpack running to a final makes time to stop to say something nice to you, you have to accept that you're not as ugly as you think.
@@wmhfv992 That was very sweet of him for doing that. ❤️ It is wonderful to know how meaningful that moment was for you. It's the little things that matter the most.
Coworker at part time job when I was college student said sonething similar to me. She was hot, too. Nearly 50 years ago but I still frequently and happily recall.
It sticks with you.
Ralph, little one, please make sure you return the energy and compliment a bw, don't just take their energy. You must reciprocate it and make a connection, ok? Please remember ❤
“When black women tell me I’m hot, I believe in my dreams!”
This is one the most sincere complements, thank you.
Sincerely, a black woman 🫶🏾✨
That's black girl magic for ya baby 🤣
No, that''s black girl desperation.
@@blackmagic6 I have read a few of your comments. Why are you so negative and triggered? Please seek therapy for YOUR issues.
@@blackmagic6awwww you never been complimented by a black woman and you jealous huh 😂
Sadly, this sincerity and appreciation is never returned. Sistas need to keep lifting each other up
This!☝️
That’s right! Cause they love when we do it, but they don’t often do it in return. It’s up to us to love on each other ❤️
Exactly!
I (a Black woman) told an older white woman that I loved her hair and haircut and she didn’t believe my compliment. I acknowledged that she was beautiful and she looked like she was going to cry. It’s like she was seen for the first time.
POWERFUL!!!
As a brother he's telling no lies. I honestly feel when a sista pays me a complement like that it's sincere as hell. I still remember I was in my 1st year of college in '03 and I just moved to California and I was walking down the street and this random lady looks at me and said '' mmm mmm mmm you a fine looking bald head chocolate man! 'I've never blushed harder in my life, she turned me into a shy kid. My old roommate keeps reminding me of that to this day.
Black women let's compliment the hell out of each other from now on! Everybody feels so good when we do it for them and we damn sure owe it to each other! 😊
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As a black woman, when I tell a white guy (or anyone really), he has beautiful eyes it stops them in their tracks and brings a smile to their face. I think because black women are confident enough to actually look at people where many people shy away from staring or giving eye contact, we observe more and give more specific and genuine compliments.
As a black woman, I appreciate this clip and will make sure to give more compliments to make the world a better place 😂
I love hearing how our words impact and empower everyone around us. Now, your role is to protect us. Listen to Black women. Protect Black women. So that we can continue to give the world our gifts. ❤
If you say so.
I say later for the gender roles. We protect each other.
@@brianwashington5474"If you say so"
Ok uknowWOT. that is IT. I have HAD IT with these types of snide remarks. uknowWOT Brian, you do NOT deserve bw energy and compliments. You're just rrrrrreally mean and nasty for no reason. It is not hard to be nice sometimes, but you still find a way to make a put-down comment.
I am VERY disappointed in you.
@@knf4451 Truth is truth whether or not YOU LIKE IT.
What's "TRUE" to like/dislike😕
And you can tell Nick meant every word he said too 😆 look at em'.... blushing red cheeks, hands shuffling in his pockets, can't stop smiling through his story.... completely Chocolatized ! 👏🏾 ❤
what I appreciate the most about this bit is that he didn't feel the need to use a blaccent to make the joke funny, and it was still hilarious! well done! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
"I've been told I was attractive by white women before. It's not remotely the same thing."
True. True.
I’m a black woman and I approve this message. ❤ ❤
As a black woman. You are embarrassing .... you are THE joke. It is not famine to be the predator.
I'm Puerto Rican and it does feel different in a real good way 😂
Appreciate this video I only wish in real life people would compliment Black women too.
Right, people always wanna take from us but never give. Call me a pessimist, but I see through this kinda stuff.
Exactly!
It’s hard to compliment black women without being looked at as being a perv, or a creep.
@@trevorjames4619 not if you’re normal and give a regular genuine compliment. don’t say anything you would be embarrassed to repeat it in front of your mother.
@@trevorjames4619 no its not 🙄 just dont be weird.
You know why he believes in his dreams⁉ "Beacuse black women are the blueprint, the cradile of civilization. It's an inituitive spiritual knowing that the mother of all races sees you and it hits different ❣️
I think it's because they are more unreserved in their expression.
Ase.Ase.
@@markaurelius61"Unreserved"? Don't be fooled by the stereotypes. Black women know how to keep others on a need to know basis.
@@misstunes1765 Of course! They are full of variety and complexity and contradictions like everyone else. I wasn't saying anything more than that they have a way of talking that to an over-thinking white guy like me seems over the top, and if it is out of the blue, it contrasts with the generally dead-pan or half-hearted way that most other people deliver compliments.
@@markaurelius61
Excellent wording👌❤️
As a black woman I approve this message. New subby. ❤
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You want zaddy huh
@@PlatinumHustle Just like to hang out where I'm made to feel comfortable. You can take that however you want to. 🍵
@@unbotheredmovement yeah aight 👍🏾
@@PlatinumHustle don't be bitter about things that don't concern you hun.😊
Black women are magical.
This is sooo true. same thing fkn happened to my brothr.. he was like swooning for a month.. she called him some delicious white chocolate dessert and he literally giggled & blushed. Hard! Fkn grown man. HAHAHAAA 😂😂😂 also he bought white marble cake for a month. No jk.
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That's true... It's a different energy when black woman hit on you
Getting compliments from other black people in general is so validating
I complemented this older white man on his hair, it was medium length mostly gray but the way it layed on his head in thick waves. When I gave him a compliment he didn't know what to say, "Oh my hair?...Oh thank you! I'm just not used to getting compliments! 😂" I could tell then it made his entire day...or year! 🤗
I’m a black woman (44 years old) and I still remember getting a compliment at age 6 from a dance mom. It was before our recital and she volunteered to do our little makeup. She told me the pink eye shadow looked so good on my pretty skin and undertones. She was holding my face and applying it. I was like, “who me??!?! 🥰🥹” I remember it like it was yesterday.
When you genuinely compliment someone, you can literally see them light up from the inside. It is truly a beautiful thing to witness.
I love when I see any interracial couples but especially black women and white men!! It makes my heart sing!! ☮️🩵⭐️🥰🥰🥰
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"when a black woman tells me I'm hot, I Believe in my dreams" 🤣🤣🤣👌❤️
The bad rep we get come from black men and the media. We are human just like everyone else and probably the most genuine people on the planet!
If we give you a compliment, better believe it’s from the heart and we mean it! God bless us all and may we all learn to treat each other better!
Love the jokes! Honest and funny❤
Yeah black men take us for granted and then when we move on they have a problem with it
@@stephaniehenry5617 exactly!! They exhibit the most bizarre behavior, strange 🙄
As a black woman when we give u a compliment we mean that 😂😂😂
We got power that no one can understand not even us ❤✊🏾 I LOVE being a black woman no matter the hardships I'd do it again and again.
It works for women too. Just as I'm saying 'thank you for working on this with me, that was great." She goes "look, I'm heterosexual, like REALLY hetero, but girl, you, there's something about you I can't explain, just mmmm. Thought you should know." & walked out. I tell you, I walked out GLOWING & BEAMING (& BLUSHING), felt so confident, self-assured & sexy for the next MONTH you'd have thought I was getting some something every night - no, no I was not - but I was just a hormone high as if I was.
Then her visa expired, we all knew she was temp/working holiday. A DECADE LATER I still remember her! That's POWERFUL! Whooo, I'm still blushing now!
There really is no compliment that is better than that of a black woman… Even when they are older and they happen to call you “baby”, “sweetheart” or “honey” you know you did something right! However, if they say “little girl”, “little boy” or “child”… just leave her alone. Find a quiet corner where she can’t see you over her +3.00 reader glasses that rest on the tip of her nose like an acrobat in Cirque Du Soleil.
And let the church say amen. 😂😂
@@denisefoster8831 I have never felt more isolated than when Mrs. Robin Norris looks over her glasses with her hand on her hip and said “little girrrllll”. I wanted to be invisible so bad.
So you've met my grandmother, Isee 🤣🤣🤣
This whole comment section is beautiful!!! This just made my Sunday!!!❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Watching a grown man blush is everything!! ❤😂
😂😂😂 #facts! I’ve noticed that they will smile a lil brighter when WE compliment them. 💯🤷🏽♀️
VERY. GOOD.
As a NY black woman, when we compliment a man- we mean it. If your fine, your fine. But when you smell good, you’re even finer. 😊
The look on white guys' faces when you say something nice is hilarious. It's like they go into a state of shock. OMG AND THE BLUSHING!!!
Aww they're so cute when they act like that awww
At the beginning of Humanity stands a Beautiful Black Woman... When a Black woman tells you your Beautiful, its like this First Human Perfection seeing you as Blessing 🖤Beautiful!
I just saw an Instagram post about how welcoming black people are to everyone including those outside of our race but not all are welcoming to us. I’ve heard various times how Black women are especially welcoming and when we speak to someone it’s on a whole other level. I’m pretty sure there is something special about all females but it’s just something within us that’s just different that’s all good vibes. Proud to be a melanated female.
Reminds me of that video of a lady complimenting a cop 😂❤
Yes! Peace to the Middle East 😂😂
As I thoroughly watch you walk to your car and back.
He just sat there soaking it all up. Couldnt get him to walk away lol
Please link me the video or give me the title? Thank you!
@@cherubicnerd lady compliments cop
As a woman of chocolate I agree lol. We can make you feel delicious, smart, and happy at once
“Woman of chocolate” sounds so cute and sweet 🤎
Do you go out of your way to "big up" black men as well?
@@blackmagic6 I do. I’m married to one. Gave birth to 3 sons. I pour into my own. It’s necessary.
@@CreativeMedicine7: I appreciate you and if my comment offended you .... I apologise. I'm just triggered by divestors who level up by punching down on BM.
@@blackmagic6 as a woman of mocha complexion, I get it. And it was a fair question. Many times we support others and badger our own people. It’s an unfortunate reality. So being positive, speaking life, uplifting my people..is natural for me. Thank you for asking
Back when I worked for the DMV, I was working the Drive-Thru tag renewals and this white man handed me his license and I looked at it and said, ' You look like Liam Neeson in this photo. " It wasn't flirty, just an off hand comment. But he just lit up, and was like , "REALLY?" His wife was in the passenger seat and said, " I wish!" But as I was printing his sticker, she kept eyeing him up and down. Like, suddenly, there was new appreciation there. I gave him his stuff, and they pulled off, still grinning. I thought to myself, I just renewed your marriage. Somebody's getting it tonight. You're welcome!
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Not gonna lie, as a black woman (who’s shy so I don’t apply here lol) black people’s rizz game is bold.😂 We tell it how it is and we’ll hype you up if we like what we see.
Black Girl Magic is a Real Thing! Whatever we SHINE a Little Love on Will have Nutrition... Even if just for that Day. 99.99% of the time, if we are passing out compliments, We 100% Mean It!!! Most of our Grandmothers taught us to Pay a Good Compliment Forward, and that it costs nothing to Smile with Joy in your Heart. All of God's Creations should get some recognition from time to time, and a Good Vibe is a Great Thing. So if you get a Feel Good Compliment from a Black Woman you have Never met in your Life, that means The Holy Spirit put it in her Heart to Speak that Message into You 💗
Amen! 👏🏼👏🏼
you are doing an outstanding job! keep up the good work!!
Yes ebt magic 😅
Amen ❤🙏🏾
@@hundreds2696 You’re full of envy. Go and heal.
As a black woman, I am hardly impressed by anything so if I give you a compliment, you best believe I meant it. Receive it like an infinity stone to activate your dreams.
I mean you can feast on a compliment for weeks. I definitely agree 😂
Lol. Black women are great.
Beauty recognizes beauty❤
I work in a hospital and I hype up EVERYONE especially the patients. Imagine being brought into the hospital in a stretcher from a stroke, in despair that life has pretty much ended. Then as you struggle to brush your teeth without assistance, you hear a cheerful voice saying "You better work that brush, sir! You doing the darn thing!" I see their eyes light up and it makes me feel like I have a purpose 😊
This is cute, but also bittersweet imo.
People looooooove the way black women make them feel or inspire them. They enjoy being nurtured and uplifted, but do they love to give it back? Do they love us?
My newsfeed is FULL of really weird subliminal messages about black women that I am intentional to reject, and I have to actively search out uplifting content to wash my brain.
We’re great! Not a monolithic demographic (like any) 🤷🏾♀️ But if you like women, and you haven’t considered black women… well,
Agreed but we also need to watch ourselves and black men because too often when other races compliment us or find us attractive it will be written off as “fetishizing.” This way other black people will condition us to keep our esteem low, feel suspicious about compliments and not want to date out. I want us to be able receive compliments freely from all, no strings attached like other people ❤
I made a similar comment and these ppl came for my neck lol. Ppl want us to boost their egos but never uplift us!
It is bittersweet. But we are SLOWLY... getting more love, in America. Overseas it's no issue whatsoever.❤
You are so beautiful. Your cheekbones and smile ❤
@@caressaclark1042 we started loving and putting ourselves first....those boundaries are becoming increasingly clear, as well as the consequences...i see blk men in this comment section actually being....complimentary. imagine this last year how they would have torn into the comedian telling them how intolerable we were.....