"The best relationship advice that I have received.." - Matthew Hussey
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- "The best relationship advice that I have received" - Matthew Hussey #shorts
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"And then be that list"
Welp that took a turn lol.
Was not expecting that.
Wonderful
Women/men who want a man/woman with a big d/boobs: wait..
It’s great advice 😊
@@SYRNofNNINE it really is
😂
My dad always said everyone wants the perfect person but they never want to be the perfect person that really inspired me to better myself for others
True... Very well said
@@nishisingh997 that's wonderful advice
Exactly..
true
N.
Don't find someone who just makes you happy find someone who makes you a better person
Amen that's definitely the truth
Basically my pfp and soulmates
I've found that no one can make you happy...thats a tough job. Being happy is an inside job. They can bring happiness to the relationship. 💕
@@positivevibe7684 hi
Hello
Worst: Make it work no matter the situation.
Best: Find someone who challenges you to be the best version of yourself, but won't bully you into being someone else.
Nice!
I needed to hear this today❤
You're right. Everything is possible when you both understand each other and share more ideas. Sounds good to me ❤❤
Wow you have a beautiful comment and I love your comments, can we please be close friends
I exactly wanted to listen to this thing... I was confused between these both, Thank you😊
That "be that list" is such a great twist and an honest advice to apply tbh. Because you simply can't demand something from someone if you aren't capable of delivering the same thing. And if "you are" that list, then the process of dating gets easier because you get to save your energy.
You are so beautiful you should be every man dreams ,you are wife material
Nice comment can we please be friends
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Hey how are you doing today
@@SteveAustin-kg4en i also believe you must have heard little about me
his 'best relationship' advice was fabulous. it's called 'taking responsibility.'
Agreed on the worst advice
I was in a relationship with a person who loved me And i kept saying to myself it’s ok as along as they love me I’ll learn to love them…
Spoiler alert , i did not love him in the end
My heart was not happy I wasn’t happy there was something missing I didn’t know…
This was my first relationship,,,
I am still waiting for the right person💜
I learned that you are not obligated to love someone back this is something i struggle with i feel like i always should give something back to please others..
You’ll lose yourself.
Don’t do that
Accept your feelings and learn to put yourself first
Yes I agree. It's important to be with someone you truly desire that makes your heart happy. Otherwise they are just feeding your ego. I canceled a date tonight cause he really likes me and I don't like him as much 🤷♀️
It’s not okay to be with someone that you don’t equally 100% love each other. Not 50% not 40/60%… 100%. I love that you spoke truth. ❤
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This is true in some cases not everyone
@@fredajohnson506 can you give an example ?
I can’t think of any scenario where you’re obligated to love someone just because they love you
"Find someone who loves you more than you love them." Here is my perspective; if you know you're generally the type to prioritize your partner's needs and have this nurturing personality towards your lover but these same things were hardly reciprocated in your past relationships then I honestly see where this advice may come in handy.. I mean everyone deserves to experience the positive things they contribute in their relationship be reciprocated. It's like hey I am a passionate lover, natural giver but it will be great to find someone who loves me more than I love them, so I do not "overdo" things in my relationship.
I think you've just described a person who either needs to be by themselves or they need to go through therapy because they are not ready for a serious relationship. You confirmed this by stating they have hang ups from a previous bad relationship. They haven't healed and all the person you are describing is doing is taking their trauma into another relationship.
the first instinct should always be to love .....! to put the other first..! if you'll think through everything...... I don't think that person would ever knock your door....! I've had bad experiences....., but i didn't leave my ability behind.
it was the other person's pov that he couldn't get me.....
but i think that someone will understand your efforts and give you more than that !
and you needn't ask that from him...!
you love them not because they told you to love them, you love them because you fell for them!
you must be able to melt the other person with your love and genuine care!
@@bhoomiverma1216 greetings from Bassam Riyad hello how are you doing
Greetings from Bassam Riyad hello how are you doing
@@Howtonaturally hello my belove
If you want to find a 10, you must become a 10
No one going find a ten because no one perfect that's what number ten first of all a woman is not supposed find the man he supposed find her and both supposed be equally yoke that's what bible says otherwise you're going be going through realationship like open doors
Yes
Hey
The person that cares most always loses
Actually 😢
That's not true
Sure
Be that , be what l look for... Awesome advice
I know how good
Absolutely!
Hello
Hey dear can we had a little bit word together if you don't mind..?
True That. The first part. Heard it so many times. Its not great to be in that position. You marry Someone who loves you immensely and you don't feel the same and you feel bad for not being able to give back the love you are receiving. :(
Thankyou I needed to read this as I was wondering what could be wrong in that thought. Thanks.
I'm in that situation. Have this amazing girl who love me to death but it's not mutual. We're not together, I like her a lot but I know she likes way more than I like her.
@@lawtraf8008 Then, be truly honest with her!
@@lawtraf8008 even me i have a boy like that and everytime he proposed me and i say give me time😢
Lol, the first part is frustrating. Very frustrating
Leaving a relationship you’re not happy in is much easier than emotionally damaging someone. But selfish people don’t get that
You just stated fact and we have to be sure if our partners aren't cheating and deceiving us
Yes but the problem is how do we catch a cheating partner
Through the help of an hacker, I know about one who helped me access my wife's phone last month
Please how do I get in touch with this hacker?
you can get in touch with him on
this got me in the feels. the guy asking the questions is so gorgeous!
The name's Jay Shetty. ;)
@@ThinkItThroughOfficial Indian, probably!
I've only just seen these likes and the responses lol hey Jay Shetty lol
@@SmartRobot-wc2fb yes
Hey how are you doing today can we please be friends
My best advice was find someone who loves you at your worst
hold each other in high esteem, believe in one another-often more than you each believe in yourselves-and trust that your partner is doing his/her best with what they've got.
Greetings from Bassam Riyad hello how are you doing
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@@YellshacodeMary greetings from Bassam Riyad hello how are you doing
This is the best advice actually.Find Someone who really loves you and love them back in equal measure.For as you go through life you will realize how hard and rare it is to find such a person.
I think it's good to be with a person who loves you equally or more than you love them. They will appreciate you in their life more. This helps in happy relationships.
Thanks so much God bless you more and more
Damn ur words is true friend
There is no such thing as equal and people who expects that ends up in divorce cus there expectation was not meet. Ask urself why 50-50 love ends up in divorce ?
You know finding someone that loves u more than u love them is fuckin rare. Its like trying to look for a one treasure in a pile of golds, diamons, emeralds,ruby, platinums, golds
"...and then be that list"
It's so cool how a few words can have such an affect and deepen the strength of such a clichéd idea
What I got from this video is that #1 real love is equal from both the sides, not more or less on one side or another #2 you don't get what you want instead you get what you are .Thank you .🥰
Then ask urself how come there are higher divorced rate in love marriages? lol
From what i saw . People last long if one love the other person more and other person is so so but as time passed the so so person love will blossom too and ends up in marriage.
Hey 👋
The first advice is not the worst. It actually works..
Yes this guy is still single he doesnt know sht lol
He was with camilla cabello and she broke his heart
That type of love comes from fear and ultimately if you do that you're either limiting to potential of your relationship or settling for someone who you don't truly love just so you can't get hurt. Which is cowardly and a waste a everyone involves time. Love courageously or don't love at all
Mine would be; Love yourself enough to have a defined relationship with the person you want. Make sure there's an alignment to vision and set your priorities right. You both should also be ready to put in work.
Number one i stan for that. I dont think it is a bad advice. My boss also told me that same quotes.... find someone who loves u more than u love him. I nvr listen cus duh i just cannot be with someone i dont like. I always reject guys i never like and i did not give them a chance and go for the one i really love the most. I broke that pattern
I am with handsome man, generous, supportive, loyal, honest , rich and he propose to me at age 30 yrs old. At first i didnt fancy him ( didnt like him) but as time passed by. I start loving him . So much so that were finally married. And he spoils me lots just like how i spoil him
And yes love do grow as time passed by. I dont see that quotes as negative unless u r with a person for hidden agenda then thats just being fraud, user.
OHHHH ME TOO. My Dad said this to me. First time got my heart broken. I honestly think its a great advice for a Woman
No you just settled because you were passed around so much before you realised if you don't settle now you'll be alone. Haha
BE THAT LIST⭐
My Mum always used to say that about #1. But after 30 yrs, I discovered it is true because you will grow to love that person. ❤
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That's Stockholm syndrome
Yes.. They make you realize your worth.. Nothing better than that.. You end up loving them..
I think this works for women not men
@@tiffanyfoxworth3491 No person who loves you deserves your respect and love.. Never waste time behind a person who doesn't have a heart for you.. If you do you are a fool..
I’m the list for every person I meet. Doesn’t mean those people stick around…
Oh sorry about that
Someone who can laugh and roll with my odd modes and humor, who won’t get mad that I walk into stuff and forget things a lot. Someone who never makes me feel like my innate playfulness is annoying or too much or god forbid, immature in some way.
Someone who genuinely wants to explore life, try new things all the time, and who is eager to please me. (Because I’m always the one that is more eager and thoughtful).
Someone who is good with where their money goes, and who wants with all their heart to be the best human (and parent and friend and partner) they can be.
Yeah, I guess I do have stuff to do before I am matched
hold each other in high esteem, believe in one another-often more than you each believe in yourselves-and trust that your partner is doing his/her best with what they've got.
lolzzz, just exactly like me
Are you really sure about this.... 🤔🤔🤔
@@user-lh5dr4dz5f yes. I am, you want to test me
Greetings from Bassam Riyad hello how are you doing today
"And be that list," that hits hard and very enlightening. Thanks again.
i noted down what i want in my partner, and i tried being that , like 5years.... i was in toxic relationship, believe me if they don't share same feeling, it's not worth it... never over love someone never
Hmmm really
really Hello's
How are you doing 💕💕💕
Are you on Google chat so we can talk better
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Wow I accidentally took that best advice in high school then lol. I put all my effort into being "that person" and I met "that person" soon after I graduated. Without entertaining anyone else beforehand. Fast forward some years, we are currently engaged.
This gave me hope,thank you for sharing your story. I pray & hope that the two of you shall remain together forever in a healthy bond 🤍
Wow you are very lucky and I hope you stay together
The first one actually applies to men, because men are incapable of growing to love a woman, they do or they dont, nothing in between. But a woman can grow to love a man, thats why its important for women to make sure he likes het more than she likes him. Its literally life saving for the woman, because a man you love more will annihilate you especially if youre self sacrificing. Ive seen it time and time again and my mother almost lost her life over loving my father too much.
I'm sorry if I'm offending men....
but in my opinion, men usually fall for beauty....
a woman who loves a man more has much more to offer....
a man who knows he's a man but understands that love is something more than his manliness, will understand the love women bring.
women do have this thing for growing in love, but that doesn't mean men are incapable of doing so ..!
Men should understand, if, not only a woman, but an intelligent woman starts investing in you, she has definitely seen something in you...!
and you must never let that go because then you're gonna fall for her harder!
@@bhoomiverma1216 thank you 🙏🏾✨
@@ShivamSingh-tc7to On top of that, women typically care about looks much more than men, and not just genetically but he also has to be big, as in tall and muscular. And quite possibly the most important thing a man has to have (for a women to find him attractive) is his SOCIAL STATUS
@@bhoomiverma1216 I had a stroke trying to read this comment
True love is good
Its kinda good one because those are the people who'll never leave you, will try understanding you better atleast. There are 1 in a million chances that two people love each other equally. So if you gonna find someone you love more , you will easily be manipulated in the future.
Wow! That second answer was so unexpected and got me choked up.
You're right. Everything is possible when you both understand each other and share more ideas. Sounds good to me ❤❤
Hello dear
Hi queen of beauti ❤
Hi beautiful
How are you doing ?
Perfect said darlin
I am what I am looking for.... that's why it's hard to find someone
It's not actually hard to find one
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I'm here
I think the ‘worst advice’ mentioned is the best advice. You want someone who adores you and if they don’t, you should run.
Hello, how are you doing today
Hello , its my pleasure to have you here now and would be very glad if we get to know more about our self if you dont mind
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Yes, that was the worst relationship advice. My ex boyfriend never made me feel loved because he never loved me inreal. He was with me just because I loved him, not because he feels for me. It was his first relationship, and one day I had asked him that why we are together ? He said that he have heard somewhere that "Be with someone who loves you, not with someone whom you love." That killed me from inside and outside.
Hey' I'll like to know more about you only if you gonna allow me pls😢
@@Carlojean-ux7ni He was a narsisstic and it's a mental disorder, he had manipulated me, guilt tripping, gave me silent treatment, used to gaslight and one day I found out that he was cheating on me with my cousin whom once I considered my best friend. Now, I have been cut off with both of them.
@@Kehkasha_123sounds like his lack of love or that quote wasn’t the problem, his entire personality is f*cked up 😅
@@Steph1 Yeah, I am glad he is no longer in my life. I wish nobody go through that situation in their life which I have suffered.
Make sure you still have your life/goals/dreams, don't become just apart of someone else's life...
Self love self respect comes first.. if you dont love yourself, dont expect anyone else to...
.. if your partner doesn't respect you..than they won't/dont love u.
Good that's awesome
Hello how are you doing
Exactly, that just the fact kudos 👍
Hello handsome
@@DanielleRose-co2ge hi
That is so true. Me and a woman had a discussion like that years ago. She said list everything you want in a partner. Be honest and check how many of those things you are. Most people are not what they want in someone else.
Wow !! best relationship Advice....
Hello , its my pleasure to have you here now and would be very glad if we get to know more about our self if you dont mind
Best advice I got is love slow it go love fast it won’t last
Thats a good one..I think the (one) will come into your life and just makes you exceptionally better..without even realizing it..
Yea that's true
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And you think so, do men really deserve a good one with their behavior?
Hello how are you doing
I am the list already. Faithful, honest, respectful, genuine, physically attractive (i am told), sex drive, keep myself in shape, work to pay my own bills, kind and funny. And I’m alone at 38. So sick of this.
Hi can we be friends
Do you put yourself in enough situations to meet enough people to have a good chance of meeting a person that’s a good match?
Eg high quantity of people by going to bars every week, or low quantity but high quality by getting a great dating service that finds people that fit your ideal partner profile
Wow! Nailed It!
Hello , its my pleasure to have you here now and would be very glad if we get to know more about our self if you dont mind
Hey can we be friends
How honestly he answers 🥺 we can clearly seen in hies eyes
This is the most BADASS advice about relationship ever. I heard that once that you should become who you want to have in your partner.
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Oh sorry about that
I wish I heard these advice when I first born. 😌
Nowadays, girls just want guys with 3x their salary ..it's like a product selling, jitni hot girl, utna rich guy chahiye & *they hate if the boy has a younger sibling too!*
Ohhj am so sorry about that 😢
You can still get them now , it’s not late
Greetings from Bassam Riyad hello how are you doing
@@BassamRiyad367 good good thank you bro, how about you?
THIS is why I love your channel Matthew.
Thank you so much for posting this💯
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Hi
I love this
Worst advise is to compromise. This word.means so many things and it includes one giving up something but the other spouse doesn't.
Hello how are you doing
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Pufff, that's exactly what I got out Jordan Peterson talks.
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Perfectly said,, Praise God,Hallelluiah!❤❤❤
Do onto others what you want them to do onto you. Is like give and take. If you don't show yourself as an example of something good, you can't expect the other person to do the same.
I always follow the best relationship advice ✌🏻
If I wish a person to have some habits or qualities, I adopt that habits and build myself according to that.
thank you ❤️
Greetings from Bassam Riyad hello how are you doing
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Sure
@@BassamRiyad367 hi
@@SandraWatts-er7iy hello my belove
I literally figured the best one he said at the age of 20 and been doing that and telling others ever since. It’s the most important thing to know yourself before starting
Oh
My mother told me back then, find someone who loves you more than you love him. Maybe that has subconsciosly stayed in my mind.. Because I have been very sad and unhappy since as a teen, and it’s getting worse every ear. My previous relationships were very toxic. Now 23 soon 24 and I thought that I found the love of my life.. Kind way this is toxic too because my man got mental issues but he’s more suicidal. He’s trying genuesly best that he can to meet my needs. But I’m so broken because Im scared of him, being with him and I feel like emotionally abandoned because these no room for my feelings. I have developed a fake smile at home as it was long previosly at everywhere else.
Thank you if you read this, im sorry if you’re broken too❤️❤️
Only God loves you more than you love Him.
You need to love others the way you love yourself.
It works perfectly 🥰
Amen ❤
Amen God is only one that will truly love you unconditionally
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Non of those is important. You decide to be with someone because you just appreciate them who they are and they appreciate you as well.
Yes my dear that's true you love who you love as he is and he loves you as you I think you're making a good sense there my dear❤
"Be that list"-✨💛✨
Bars. Simply put.
Seriously 2 best answers
The worst: love ur partner more than ur kids
The best: a good relationship is built off a good friendship
Hey dear, all I know is that true love is most important thing in life so keep it up
He’s figured it out, very powerful
That advice literally gave me goosebumps
Hahaha the worst advice example is what my mom’s always told me 😂
It's litterly what my neice (who's unofficially engaged) says is the best thing about her man 🤦♀️
Not a great advice for me.
my mom & my sister always tells me this, lol
I don't agree with the worst advice. I think it's okay if you be with someone who loves you more than you love them. Love doesn't happen in a single day, it's a slow process, sometimes you fall in love almost immediately, sometimes it takes you months and probably years.
Thats true it took me months to love my husband to see his worth and he never gave up on me cus he love so much and i thank him for that. We are happily marriage now.
My boss told me that quotes whrn i work fastfood and i reject it in a heartbeat cus at that time i was young and my pride and ego wont permit it.
Well in way that good and then it's not because some people love so deeply that end up thinking you are there possession
hold each other in high esteem, believe in one another-often more than you each believe in yourselves-and trust that your partner is doing his/her best with what they've got.
Greetings from Bassam Riyad hello how are you doing today
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Brilliant as ever!
This is good!! And so true
hold each other in high esteem, believe in one another-often more than you each believe in yourselves-and trust that your partner is doing his/her best with what they've got.
Love is not only a feeling or only about receiving.
Yeah
U can't find someone who loves you more then you do love happens to u and stays in your life if it is in ur destiny n love is always equal from both sides if it is not equal it is not love there is nothing like less love or more love love is love
But a lot of people dont know what love is .. if you love a woman and you cheat and she would never, love is still equal? I believe not.
I could listen to these two all day.
2nd was really great advice, you shouldn't want anything from love, instead you should just love them.
By following that advice, you can love someone instead of wanting/needing someone
Give love more and more but don't expect anything in return. If they love u truly u will recieve more than u have ever thought of. But there isn't any loss in giving more . Be happy make everyone happy,be kind and generous.
Worst advice: Be in a relationship
Best advice: Don't be in a relationship.
Relationships I'd say is the worst thing someone can do to themselves. It's heart breaking and at the end there was nothing special about it. Because they'll turn around and find another person and you meant nothing. Everything you went through with that person good and bad meant nothing.
Greetings from Bassam Riyad hello how are you doing
That's not really true pretty
hello my belove
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Hello
Nice comment can we be friends?
Be that person who you want to meet ....😃😃
Can you be that one person
Wheeeewwwww!!!! He’s at it again 😮💨👏 love it
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Hello dear.. how are you doing?
Hey dear
Im a 24 woman from algeria and im looking for a kind smart man
Hi can we be friends
Worst =adjustment is the key for a good relationship
Best= understanding is the best thing in a relationship
Perfectly said....
Greetings from Bassam Riyad hello how are you doing today
Sure love
Well, all I know is that true love is most important thing in life
Hello
Whatever person in relationship that cares the least is in power in said relationship. Always be able to walk away!
Good people with good heart
Hey if you don't mind can we have a little discassion ?
@@Carlojean-ux7nireally
You are welcome to my official fans page
Where are you from?
@@PhilippLeon-vj1hk uk
I'm here for serious relationship with someone will serious
True love is most important in relationships and I believe i can find mine here
That's true...
@@user-lh5dr4dz5f yes where are you located
Yes you can like am looking for are you sure is not destiny that brought us together
Greetings from Bassam Riyad hello how are you doing
@@shugaberry6447 where are you located and do you have any other way to talk better to know more about each other?
Heard the first one many times before.
I think I realized though, for myself at least, I’ll do more my part if I’m into the person as well. If I found someone who is into me more than I’m into them, I feel I would let the person do the relationship work more of the time because I’d have little relationship motivation. I think I see the appeal to have someone do that work. I’m sure love can be grown over time for people with one person gaining a persons love through affection and acts of kindness but I prefer a mutual more equal relationship in the beginning. Id have reassurance for myself that the motivation to be with that person and love for the other person wouldn’t be called into question.
Ask urself . How come people that love each other equally when they first meet has higher divorce rate? Just like the advice said find someone who loves u more than u love them and then u will love that person bck as mos passed by
There is no such thing as 50/50 when ur in relationship. Sometimes u give more and sometimes ur man gives more in the relationship
This has to be the best one ❤👏🏼
Find somone you love so much and that loves you so much that nobody knows who loves who more❤
I don’t want to be a tall handsome man though 😢😩😂
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Greetings from Bassam Riyad hello how are you doing
Why?
hello pretty how are you doing ❤❤❤
Wow. I found my partner when I decided to be that partner I was looking for
Very true... I hear also the same worst advice... it's really worst for me...
This is 💯 correct! Live your life EXACTLY in accordance to what you desire to attract. ZERO DOUBLE OR TRIPLE STANDARDS ✌️
My granny told me “don’t bite off more than you can chew.” If you start your marriage doing everything in the house for your husband and he doesn’t have to lift a finger. Don’t get mad when you’re older and need help around the house and he won’t move. 😅
hold each other in high esteem, believe in one another-often more than you each believe in yourselves-and trust that your partner is doing his/her best with what they've got.
Hi I don't really think that's true
Yes you find her because she loves you.. someone else will find you because you love her.. Cycle is never ending
Sure 😊
Greetings from Bassam Riyad hello how are you doing
But the can still pretend to be true
Greetings from uk
I totally agree with you on that. Because I believe that is the key to a perfect relationship❤❤❤
Relationships are complex.. people change over the period and if your lists still remains the same there is gonna be a problem...
For me relationship is like a team working on a project...njoy and understand each other
He is just making it up, nobody gave him those advices. 😂 But its not bad.
Number 1 is for women, because generally, men love disappear much faster, number 2 is for men, because generally women would give everything to the men they're with and stick to him no matter what
Idk about that last one
It’s simply the law of magnetism.
People don’t invest in it but want to benefit from it. Be the LIST
His worst is the best and best is the worst.
Hello pretty
Hello , its my pleasure to have you here now and would be very glad if we get to know more about our self if you dont mind
Here's one from my side (I mean I read it somewhere lol): A good relationship is never 50-50. It's always 60-40 where both the partners try to give in the 60.
There is no fucking 50-50
There are days where a man gives love more than the woman and days where the woman gives love more than the man such as if the man is sick and the woman care for him . Dont expect something bck cus it will be return to u when u need it
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My grandmother told me to find someone who loves me more than I love them. The best advice that I have ever gotten.
I found the LOrd Yahushua
This is a 🔑, unlock your self, be that list! Profound and well said gentlemen! I follow material like this to arm me with material to guide my son. Thank you both !! for your individual work !!
The question was good and the answer was amazing