I will reiterate here. Critical and judgemental vegans.. . the problem isn't vegans, the problem is zealots. My vegan diet is my own business. What you do with your body is yours. Mazeltov!
I think I'm going to have it hypnotized away.... I don't have much mind left in this reality. I'm scared it will go wrong. Take it all way.... P.S. none of the people or numbers are real Aaron. Pigs!!!! Pigs!!!! All of you Pigs!!!! Crazy laugh.... Live it up and just don't give a fuck! Congratulations brother.... I'm going to wipe my mind.
I love the messages in the video. I do wish the person editing would stay with the camera that's directly in front of you - it's distracting when it's a camera off to the side as it means you're never looking at the camera during those bits; the lighting is also much darker. I don't understand the reason behind it.
Wow it's very rare I discover someone that trully understands these laws of nature and embodies them, especially with a strong masculine energy. You earned a subscriber today, not because I need your guidance but as someone who has spent many years studying and practicing, and hears the confidence and truth in your words.
Good day to you Aaron I have been a mess with my thoughts and to be honest I only have watched three of your videos so far just by understanding what you are speaking about instantly I have felt a change in my mood and my life.Your knowledge you share is vibration and it connected with me.I have just started coming out my shell of this conventional reality society views as normal.Thanks you do much you made made me dive deeper into my spiritual energies and I have found some keys to the answers I have searching for my whole life basically.But I want to ask you one question.Hiw would you respond if you as someone for help and they never replied?I have already told myself it's no big deal or take their lack of response personal but I would really like to know how would you think or feel about this kind of situations?Thanks much 👊👊
Doesnt Aaron NOW gets more "chosen" and attractive than before because now he has more money, fame and influence? Just wondering, plus he has good "energy" cause he has Most Things He wanted.
@@MZBS639 tbh I am on that path of being "chosen", having people often telling me I give off an energy they want to be around or that I am attractive, and none of this has to do with how much money I have, influence or fame.
As a child I was never allowed to have an opinion so I learned to stay quiet. I'm 49 years old and thanks to you Aaron I'm learing to find my voice and speak my truth. I feel guilty sometimes because I feel if I give an opinion or speak my truth especially about the things I stand for..that people will be upset and not like me anymore, but I'm working through that fear. Speaking my truth on any topic makes me feel so great inside...having a voice and actually giving my own personal opinion makes me feel more liberated everytime I do it. I'm getting better at standing up for what I believe in...finding out who I am and what I like, I feel like a brave new person. I love the way this new me feels. Baby steps....i will definitely get there
I was allowed to have an opinion, but everything I did was wrong, could have been better, wasn't good enough, didn't meet up with my potential, or I should be more like somebody else. I just figured out 3 weeks ago that that was abuse. I am proud that for the first time ever, I made some new years resolutions. I'm proud that one of them was to trust my initial instincts more. That abuse just left me always second guessing myself when I'm more often right than wrong so Ive totally been screwing myself over. Proud that I at least saw that. Now I believe in myself but I'm not a brick wall either. With more evidence may come different conclusions.😊
It was after a traumatic event whete not even my so-called friends did not validate me. I mean it was so bad I actually lost the ability to self regulate. I was laughing and crying at the same time and couldn't tell the difference. Lasted for 3 days and after that event i showed up for me. For the little girl who did everything for everyone else. I blocked numbers. Deleted many. And started to treat myself in love. From the moment I wake up. And if any negative needy person approaches me I say no abruptly because I love me fiercely. Love you. Your flaws are beautiful even. Be vulnerable with yourself. I wish i would have done this sooner and not needed to be abandoned in a strange city. Better late than never.
Nailed it Aaron! I love all of these points you raised. Especially #3. Once I got REALLY authentic and owned my worth, alot of people fell away and left my life. But at least I am true to me. The sensitive, vulnerable, loving, funny, weird and introverted writer. Been called a weirdo so many times, because I don't follow the crowd. But that is fine. I am who I am. Their approval is not needed.
Your problem is you have been brainwashed into believing you are sensitive when in fact that have healthy emotional reactions to being disrespected. Have you ever seen how a powerful politician or celebrity reacts when an interview disrespects them? They immediately get sensitive to the disrespect and respond by either setting a boundary or getting up and leaving. During your childhood I’m guessing a parent was constantly mocking or disrespecting you, and when you got angry, which is a sign of confidence, you were told you are too sensitive. This is a tactic that abusers use to justify their abuse. You are not “too sensitive” you are confident in yourself and don’t tolerate bullshit or disrespect.
I recently discovered that loving myself, and becoming someone I can rely on is far more fulfilling than any relationship with another person has been. I sort of stumbled upon this realization when I decided to recover from being a chronic people-pleaser. Once I started making and maintaining boundaries, and following through on commitments to MYSELF, I became happier, more confident, and calmer. I’ve been saying for years that each person is the only person they know for sure that they have to live with for the rest of their lives… but I feel like I only just recently truly internalized that sentiment. Thank you for putting words to this realization 🖤.
These really resonated with me: You save yourself time the more unapologetic you are Don't be afraid of owning who you are Love according to what you believe
I've been going through the same thing. I am traditionally both anxious and avoidant. I attract both, and become both, sometimes even with the same partner in short periods of time. They pay too much attention to me, I go avoidant. A few days later, they disapear, here comes my anxious! lol. Over the last year or so I have been really sinking into my freedom. I wake up early and do yoga, undisturbed. I drink a tea in bed and read at sunrise. I take classes to further my spiritual and emotional self on a consistent basis. I would love a fulfilling partnership, but I no longer am desperate for it. I eventually would love a kid, but I also no longer NEED it in this lifetime. If it doesn't happen, it will next lifetime, or the one after that. There is plenty of time. Thank you for the video and happy freedom to you and all you out there reading this.
Lol, and I used to be vegan as well and was concerned. I realized though that stating I am "vegan" just pigeonholed myself. I realized "vegan" is an identity piece for many people to feel like a "good person", my past self included. When in reality, every human is different and there are sustainable ways of eating meat. I decide each day what I want to eat, I do not need a label. I may go through a detox where I only eat raw veg. But then I'll switch back to high protein meat diet, especially when my body needs it as support through big emotional shifts. It all depends on the day!
i learn that if u expect so much from other people, your putting yourself into possibility of getting hurt. so i don't expect much from other people, i keep reminding myself that i dont need anyone to make me happy because i know how to make myself happy more than anyone in the room. i trust myself so much ❤
Magetism results from residing in your heart light, aligning in awareness with your connection with Source there, knowing wisdom, knowing who you are, knowing where your expansion lies, and knowing what is relevant to your well-being, receiving and giving. Letting go of things people events and energies that dont serve you. And Aaron definitely serves on a golden platter.
I've read a lot of books and articles on ASPD (formerly called psychopathy and sociopathy) and one of the patterns to note from different researchers is that it is not uncommon for folks on this spectrum to be unusually magnetic, attractive, and/or charming to others. In my own observations, I've noticed this about people on the NPD spectrum as well. There are of course people not on either of these spectrum's who are magnetic, charming, attractive, but I was trying to make a deeper point. It isn't necessarily a good trait nor indicative of personal positivity. Me personally, I just want to be authentically myself without having much attachment to what others do or don't think/feel about me. It is the ego in us that desires to be attractive to others.
I have been having such a difficult week, and your videos are exactly what I needed to see to help me feel better and realize I can't give up. Thank you for sharing this, you're making the world a better place ❤
this dude is...smh...just...SOARING! he's gone! GONE! SOARING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and he's lifted me as a result! you can see IT in his eyes. hear IT in his voice. FEEL IT IN HIS ENERGY!!! he's LIVING! ENJOYING LIFE! and i'm loving it for him and definitely appreciating his sharing and teaching!!!!!! Happy New YOU to ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!you, him, US!!!!!
I think its crazy how words post different meaning as I change. 2 years ago, I would've probably not even grasp WTH Aaron is talking about. As I get more connected to my being, these insights and philosophies make so much sense. Thanks for being.
I am one of those magnetic people. I wasn’t always that way, but I grew into that state over a period of years. The stories I can tell … many would not believe.
So spot on, I love me and dont need others to agree because I agree, its so awesome not needing anyone else to feel good about myself. I am grateful to have discovered your channel tonight, you're really smart.
I'm learning this stuff and the people around me hate it that I'm not as easy to manipulate anymore. I no longer need to help others to avoid them being angry at me and for a sense of self worth. I know the nice person that you are wants to let them down easy, willing to explain yourself sincerely, but don't waste your breath. These people don't care one bit what your needs might be, they have zero concern for your satisfaction, all they want to know is that they can count on you to help them constantly for the rest of your life.
I used be a subscriber years ago then was not. This video popped up on my feed. I have to say, you’ve become your most authentic self. I’m back to being a subscriber!
As I see it time itself is like a shattered mirror and for all we know if we don't believe in this world who said God won't choose a next journey for our spirit. There's an endless possibility and from what I've witnessed only two sides.
Serving yourself so that you can take that best version of you, and then be inspired by serving others. You are appreciated my man, and that’s why I check in at least once a week. 🙌🏻💥😎
Thank you! I was having trouble trying to figure out if I am " mean" or "very forward" based on occasional feedback I received over the years. I can't stand sugar-coating, small talk, or having to suppress how I really feel. I love honestly from others, deep conversations, authenticity. Listening and trying to understand other people's points of view and having discussions about them is invigorating while staying authentic to who I am. Vulnerability is beautiful and helps you understand people on deeper, more personal level. Much LOVE!! ❤❤❤
My mother was a successful real estate salesperson because she loved helping people find the perfect house. It was never about the money. Love you and miss you Mom ❤️❤️❤️
I have been working intensely on my inner wounds and fears for a long while. This way I surrendered to love and living in the now. Living in total vulnerability and trust in myself to be my own anchor. I’m attracting a lot of attention and love from people as well as Source. Give in! Trust!
About a year ago i was on the cusp of achieving exactly what you're talking about. I had been obsessed with being in a relationship and being in love for around 10 years to a point it was all consuming and i would destroy the relationships i did get into because of this, but a year ago that had started to change, i was recognizing the freedom i had and all of the things i had that i could appreciative about my life and i didnt need love to be happy. Weirdly enough this chage had stimed from my father passing and afterwards me looking at his life and how in all regards it sucked due to past trauma and really bad health problems yet he was always such a positive person that people loved to be around and i wanted to be like that. Then suddenly not long after beginning that change i got an opportunity to be in a relationship and i jumped at it. It was amazing, everything i had wanted but it didn't last long because I fell back into my old pattern of needing that validation and affirmation and i suffocated the love we had started to build. Now im trying to find my way back and i gotta say your videos have been a great starting point. Thankyou.
Your work continues to be more relevant and relatable. It's as if I'm manifesting the exact content I need in the moment lately, including the detachment from outcome combined with self love & abundance. Thank you for the work you do, Aaron!
Crazy just before you touched on your vulnerability I thought to myself it’s his vulnerability that I appreciate. Then you said it lol. Sometimes I listen to you and I think omg! He is a male version of me. When listening to attachment styles I have often said I have both depending on the person and dynamic. Anyways, your vulnerability has assisted me with so many of my confirmation moments. Thank you!
To the reciprocity thing- when I was earning my psychology degree I learned it’s because when you ask someone else for their help they become more personally invested in you. In turn, the person who invested their time or resources tend to like and care about you/your outcome more as a result. Loving your videos!
I absolutely love love your videos and the more vulnerable and real you are the more I like your videos💖 This one was fun to listen to☺️😂 I like your humour!
I left my gf (we're still in contact) just cause I know it's time to do the work... Finally taking care of myself to quit this anxious attachment style that has been leading all my relationships. Not easy but has to be done ! I don't really have any problem to be vulnerable though, it pushes a lot of people to open up too :) Authenticity is one of my top 3 value ! ~ I also hate small talks ~ Thank you Aaron 🙏🏻 [Little anectode : Two years ago my gf broke up with me, I've sent few messages over the two months of separation and she never responded. One evening, after those two months of total silence I was like "fuck that" and really meant it, I just went to do a bike session, focused on myself only. I finished my training and saw that she just wrote an email to me...]
OMG same thing happened to me! My ex dumped me. I was hurt over it for a few months until one day I decided it was time to move on. Went to yoga, mediated and shifted my energy. The very same day I received an email from my ex. It’s so crazy how that works!
Oh my goodness!! I just read this comment and thought I had wrote it. This is literally exactly the same for me. I need to do the inner work and let her come back to me
Since i was a young kid people treated me differently they gravitated towards me i then i got with a narcissist over the years she stole my self confidence i finally broke free now i am glowing again the magnetic me is back its a great feeling 😊
Aaron, I’m 21 and I’ve been watching you since about the age of 17 and it’s been amazing how much information you share. Thank you. More importantly the quality of information and how well you articulate yourself.
Hey Aaron, just wanted to say thank you for sharing all this. I‘ve been through a lot of stuff in my life but when I broke up with my girlfriend two weeks ago I felt like I was in a pit from which I would never be able to escape. All the videos about relationships I watched to understand the situation were not nearly as helpful as your stories and perspective of being yourself. I realized I wasnt myself for so long and I stopped appreciating myself because I was seeking validation. I‘m still processing and learning but I now remember how important I am for myself. Thank you for reminding me and teaching me. Wish you all the best man 🙏🏻
Love your work Aaron. I need to be super careful being vulnerable. After a lifetime of being vulnerable lve learned it made me prey to the narcs and toxic people who were part of my life for too long.
So HOW do we navigate that? To be vulnerability and honor our authneticity and our journey our now OR to not be vulnerable out of FEAR of being ridiculed exploited judged ostracized
Work on self-love, make that your priority. Learn about boundaries and how to choose yourself first. There are many helpful videos here on TH-cam. Once you start to do that, the narcasissts won't find you so appealing. When we know who we are, value ourselves, when we are direct and assertive, we can love others more safely, and those behaviors are narcasisst repellants. Learn as much as you can about codependency, trauma bonding, and narcasisstic abuse. That knowledge will help you become more solid and stronger. It's easy to get sucked in by narcasisstic abusers and their "love bombing" when we think we have done the work and believe that we are healed. I thought that repeatedly, yet I'd still be pulled by them. Thankfully, the cycles became shorter, and the attachments were not as intense as I worked on healing. My radar has also become increasingly sensitive. Healing is a process. Be patient with yourself... but keep on empowering yourself with knowledge.
Trait no. 5 when you said “…or from the divine!” a butterfly fluttered gracefully in front of me! Loud and clear, my inner authority is from the divine and I am connected to the divine! Yes I am loving and living in my dharma!
Thank you so much Aaron! I've listened to a few of your video presenations in the past few hours and I'm already feeling so much better about myself and more magnetic to be myself. I have always been my authentic self in expressing vulnerability. Thank you. Cherry from Perth, UK
So much truth to think about, absorb and process. You are speaking straight wisdom my friend. 20 year relationship ended and this one episode is so revealing. Thank you!
I grew up in a narcissistic family and finally broke free an figuring out all this crap. I completely resonate. Going thru a strange break up as well (this passed week I finally chose to let go) and it brought out childhood scenario that has been on replay that I now realize. Everything you’ve talked about relationships I’ve had to go thru and I’ve been on both sides. I’ve learnt so much about myself in the process. Actually my greatest life lessons have been thru intimate relationships. Thanks so much for sharing, it helps me stay motivated, hopeful 😅
Thank-you Aaron!💛🌟💛 This is a vulnerable thing I’m going to share. I used to seriously be concerned and feeling guilty for the living vegetables as well as meat that I was digesting in my stomach… something I never shared with anyone. I felt for the living plants and once living animals being digested… I now realize that the soul and spirit of the vegetables and animals have moved on and no vegetables and animals soul and spirit are being hurt, because the Souls and Spirits are Divine and have moved on. That negative belief caused me a lot of stomach problems. Crazy… I know.
I came across entering your channel and I was surprised to know that what you said resonates with what I feel. When we follow our divine true nature within ourselves and feel the gratitude of just existing as a being, we don't need other's affection or recognition that much anymore, because being as a divine self will lead us to a true deep happiness and fufillment. I appreciate your sharing of enlighting insight so much!!! 🙂
I found this truth a couple of years ago, again! The love I sought outside of myself my entire life, was within the whole time. Divine. I couldn’t receive it externally, because I wasn’t connecting with it from its true Source, and once I did, I could finally begin to see it. Thanks for sharing! Much love 🙏💜🌍
Thanks, Aaron. Woke up at 4 am and asked myself how can I love myself more, raise my vibration, and choose myself... And went to TH-cam and your video was the first one on my screen. Everything you said it's like about me. Thanks
I just loved the way you said "depth" 😂😂😂😂 it cracked me up!!! Excellent Channel..just subscibed...all the way from the UK 🇬🇧..whoop whoop! 🎉 I've always been quite positive and in my own world...I'm now a 45yr young Mother of 2 teenage kids and a husband who works and lives abroad. I found detaching from all outcomes has been amazing in being a great daughter, wife and mum...it used to consume me but over past 5 years been on a fantastic journey of self love and healing and feel like that same little girl aged 7yrs who used to think she had Supernatural Powers at school...little did she know we all have!!!! 😊
Thank you for sharing. I keep nodding as you mention choosing ourselves and owning who we are. I had a few surprising conversations recently, people told me they like what I do, and that I should continue being who I can. Never experienced this feeling before until I decided to be brave and expressed myself authentically, it feels great :)
Thank you for your story , I was always wondering why I was always abandoning myself for others, looking back I did have a bandonment issues ,and listening to you lol I did the same . Sometimes it takes someone with courage to help other realize, we all can change. If we apply the right values to ourselves. Thank you I needed to hear these words of wisdom.
I fell asleep to yt and then this video came on, apparently. So here I am sleeping and hearing this gorgeous man saying all this high-value things about himself. I almost fell in love, lol.
I resonated with so much that you shared in this video. For all of my life I have held a strong truth that when we share our vulnerabilities it allows space for others to feel safe to do so as well. The last few months have been hard in my heart as I navigated a relationship that ultimately was not in alignment with who I am and what I am aligned with... I wish I had found this a few months ago!!! It would have spared me a lot of grief. Thank you once again. ❤
I like where you say "vulnerability will repel some people..superficial people and that's actually a good thing." I'm definitely on the vulnerability journey of self love and embracing all the lessons along the way!
Thank you for this video, Aaron. I was struggling with someone home. I was seeing good things off suddenly, and it really affected the way I felt about myself. This video change my perspective on the whole thing. Keep them coming, Aaron!
Yes i started watching you from the beginning and you were open about your history, about how you hated your job. I could relate. You inspired me to hang in there, to try and make my life better. I really enjoy your energy.
I am so happy I found your channel at that exact time , I really needed it . That’s an amazing video and very eye opening and healing, wonderful ! Thank you Aaron 😊
"people want Depth" you just made me laugh a lot right now with this one. Thank you for your authenticity and magnetic energy I felt the moment I start watching your channel. I can't precisely describe it, I just felt that vibrate energy!
So this is crazy. Literally everything you're saying here is what has happened to me! It would take too long to type it all out here, but if you were to read through my writing, through my Facebook page, it completely echoes what you are saying. I LOVE seeing others experiencing such deep self-acceptance and enlightenment. And I love that you're using this platform to share this. I'm writing a book because that's more my style, but I'm so thankful for the many platforms out there to share this imperative information. ❤️
Yeah!! Your vulernability has me here after 5 years I watched one of your videos and when a friend is entering this "spiritual" world and they ask who can I follow and you always come up. You are always option #1. That is because we can relate to your experiences, you act human. 😂 Sending love and light!!❤
Healthy attachments with people, good financial standing, maintain relationships and friends, healthy body and mind are the aspects we need to meet for self love. Example, I know some rich people who are depress, sick and lonely. it's okay to be alone to recharge from stress, collate our thoughts, and cultivate creativity.🎉
I feel that completely with being anxious and avoidant in my attachment style as well as feeling I need someone to affirm or validate that I have worth or am worthy of love/affection. My disconnect with detachment is I associate being detached with being avoidant or not caring. Nail on the head with outsourcing. I like bringing value to others but still want the affirmation or acknowledgement of being of value and loved by another. Right now I'm struggling with comparison and shallowness that any new romantic interest I may have or pursue needs to be as or more externally appealing/attractive than my ex and that's a superficial and limiting belief I need to free myself of.
raising your vibration = becoming more magnetic! to learn more about raising your vibe to epic levels take my quiz here! whatsmyvibration.com/
I will reiterate here. Critical and judgemental vegans.. . the problem isn't vegans, the problem is zealots. My vegan diet is my own business. What you do with your body is yours. Mazeltov!
I think I'm going to have it hypnotized away.... I don't have much mind left in this reality. I'm scared it will go wrong.
Take it all way....
P.S. none of the people or numbers are real Aaron. Pigs!!!! Pigs!!!! All of you Pigs!!!! Crazy laugh.... Live it up and just don't give a fuck!
Congratulations brother....
I'm going to wipe my mind.
I love the messages in the video. I do wish the person editing would stay with the camera that's directly in front of you - it's distracting when it's a camera off to the side as it means you're never looking at the camera during those bits; the lighting is also much darker. I don't understand the reason behind it.
Wow it's very rare I discover someone that trully understands these laws of nature and embodies them, especially with a strong masculine energy. You earned a subscriber today, not because I need your guidance but as someone who has spent many years studying and practicing, and hears the confidence and truth in your words.
Good day to you Aaron I have been a mess with my thoughts and to be honest I only have watched three of your videos so far just by understanding what you are speaking about instantly I have felt a change in my mood and my life.Your knowledge you share is vibration and it connected with me.I have just started coming out my shell of this conventional reality society views as normal.Thanks you do much you made made me dive deeper into my spiritual energies and I have found some keys to the answers I have searching for my whole life basically.But I want to ask you one question.Hiw would you respond if you as someone for help and they never replied?I have already told myself it's no big deal or take their lack of response personal but I would really like to know how would you think or feel about this kind of situations?Thanks much 👊👊
"as soon as you choose yourself, people start choosing you" I love this!
Doesnt Aaron NOW gets more "chosen" and attractive than before because now he has more money, fame and influence? Just wondering, plus he has good "energy" cause he has Most Things He wanted.
@@MZBS639 tbh I am on that path of being "chosen", having people often telling me I give off an energy they want to be around or that I am attractive, and none of this has to do with how much money I have, influence or fame.
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As a child I was never allowed to have an opinion so I learned to stay quiet. I'm 49 years old and thanks to you Aaron I'm learing to find my voice and speak my truth. I feel guilty sometimes because I feel if I give an opinion or speak my truth especially about the things I stand for..that people will be upset and not like me anymore, but I'm working through that fear. Speaking my truth on any topic makes me feel so great inside...having a voice and actually giving my own personal opinion makes me feel more liberated everytime I do it. I'm getting better at standing up for what I believe in...finding out who I am and what I like, I feel like a brave new person. I love the way this new me feels. Baby steps....i will definitely get there
I so relate to your share. 🌺
ABSOLUTELY 1OO % ... MY SENTIMENTS ..... NAMASTE 🙏
I feel you ❤
That is awesome. 👏🏻 Your comment resonates with me so much. (And you and I happen to be the same age as well. Lol)
I was allowed to have an opinion, but everything I did was wrong, could have been better, wasn't good enough, didn't meet up with my potential, or I should be more like somebody else.
I just figured out 3 weeks ago that that was abuse. I am proud that for the first time ever, I made some new years resolutions. I'm proud that one of them was to trust my initial instincts more.
That abuse just left me always second guessing myself when I'm more often right than wrong so Ive totally been screwing myself over. Proud that I at least saw that.
Now I believe in myself but I'm not a brick wall either. With more evidence may come different conclusions.😊
Being authentic is a breath of fresh air in a world full of people trying to be what everyone “wants them to be”
It was after a traumatic event whete not even my so-called friends did not validate me. I mean it was so bad I actually lost the ability to self regulate. I was laughing and crying at the same time and couldn't tell the difference. Lasted for 3 days and after that event i showed up for me. For the little girl who did everything for everyone else. I blocked numbers. Deleted many. And started to treat myself in love. From the moment I wake up. And if any negative needy person approaches me I say no abruptly because I love me fiercely. Love you. Your flaws are beautiful even. Be vulnerable with yourself. I wish i would have done this sooner and not needed to be abandoned in a strange city. Better late than never.
I love your vunerability! You have a lot of wisdom but you don’t allow your ego to take over! Your humanity attracts me to your channel 🎉
I 100% agree and resonate with your comment 💙🌸
Nailed it Aaron! I love all of these points you raised. Especially #3. Once I got REALLY authentic and owned my worth, alot of people fell away and left my life. But at least I am true to me. The sensitive, vulnerable, loving, funny, weird and introverted writer. Been called a weirdo so many times, because I don't follow the crowd. But that is fine. I am who I am. Their approval is not needed.
Just described me❤
Good for you , you are unique and gifted, f**k the crowd! ❤
@@ambrostasia Same here, too!! I’m a proud weirdo 😂
Hi fellow weirdos! ❤ love y’all,keep being weird! 🎉
Your problem is you have been brainwashed into believing you are sensitive when in fact that have healthy emotional reactions to being disrespected. Have you ever seen how a powerful politician or celebrity reacts when an interview disrespects them? They immediately get sensitive to the disrespect and respond by either setting a boundary or getting up and leaving. During your childhood I’m guessing a parent was constantly mocking or disrespecting you, and when you got angry, which is a sign of confidence, you were told you are too sensitive. This is a tactic that abusers use to justify their abuse.
You are not “too sensitive” you are confident in yourself and don’t tolerate bullshit or disrespect.
I recently discovered that loving myself, and becoming someone I can rely on is far more fulfilling than any relationship with another person has been. I sort of stumbled upon this realization when I decided to recover from being a chronic people-pleaser. Once I started making and maintaining boundaries, and following through on commitments to MYSELF, I became happier, more confident, and calmer. I’ve been saying for years that each person is the only person they know for sure that they have to live with for the rest of their lives… but I feel like I only just recently truly internalized that sentiment. Thank you for putting words to this realization 🖤.
These really resonated with me:
You save yourself time the more unapologetic you are
Don't be afraid of owning who you are
Love according to what you believe
When you said "the divine can flow through you with the love" it made me tear up because I could feel it. Thank you!❤️
I've been going through the same thing. I am traditionally both anxious and avoidant. I attract both, and become both, sometimes even with the same partner in short periods of time. They pay too much attention to me, I go avoidant. A few days later, they disapear, here comes my anxious! lol. Over the last year or so I have been really sinking into my freedom. I wake up early and do yoga, undisturbed. I drink a tea in bed and read at sunrise. I take classes to further my spiritual and emotional self on a consistent basis. I would love a fulfilling partnership, but I no longer am desperate for it. I eventually would love a kid, but I also no longer NEED it in this lifetime. If it doesn't happen, it will next lifetime, or the one after that. There is plenty of time. Thank you for the video and happy freedom to you and all you out there reading this.
Lol, and I used to be vegan as well and was concerned. I realized though that stating I am "vegan" just pigeonholed myself. I realized "vegan" is an identity piece for many people to feel like a "good person", my past self included. When in reality, every human is different and there are sustainable ways of eating meat. I decide each day what I want to eat, I do not need a label. I may go through a detox where I only eat raw veg. But then I'll switch back to high protein meat diet, especially when my body needs it as support through big emotional shifts. It all depends on the day!
i learn that if u expect so much from other people, your putting yourself into possibility of getting hurt. so i don't expect much from other people, i keep reminding myself that i dont need anyone to make me happy because i know how to make myself happy more than anyone in the room. i trust myself so much ❤
Magetism results from residing in your heart light, aligning in awareness with your connection with Source there, knowing wisdom, knowing who you are, knowing where your expansion lies, and knowing what is relevant to your well-being, receiving and giving. Letting go of things people events and energies that dont serve you. And Aaron definitely serves on a golden platter.
I've read a lot of books and articles on ASPD (formerly called psychopathy and sociopathy) and one of the patterns to note from different researchers is that it is not uncommon for folks on this spectrum to be unusually magnetic, attractive, and/or charming to others. In my own observations, I've noticed this about people on the NPD spectrum as well.
There are of course people not on either of these spectrum's who are magnetic, charming, attractive, but I was trying to make a deeper point. It isn't necessarily a good trait nor indicative of personal positivity. Me personally, I just want to be authentically myself without having much attachment to what others do or don't think/feel about me. It is the ego in us that desires to be attractive to others.
I have been having such a difficult week, and your videos are exactly what I needed to see to help me feel better and realize I can't give up. Thank you for sharing this, you're making the world a better place ❤
thanks aaron. magnetism is a real thing. energy is what life is about
aaron i cannot even begin or end explaining how much i love u n ur work
this dude is...smh...just...SOARING! he's gone! GONE! SOARING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and he's lifted me as a result! you can see IT in his eyes. hear IT in his voice. FEEL IT IN HIS ENERGY!!! he's LIVING! ENJOYING LIFE! and i'm loving it for him and definitely appreciating his sharing and teaching!!!!!! Happy New YOU to ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!you, him, US!!!!!
I think its crazy how words post different meaning as I change. 2 years ago, I would've probably not even grasp WTH Aaron is talking about. As I get more connected to my being, these insights and philosophies make so much sense. Thanks for being.
I love this guy's essence. Thank you man for deciding to do this with your time; you are right on time every time for me.
Your vulnerability is what inspired me to subscribe to your page back in 2017/2018.
I really appreciate your style of speaking , the honesty and authenticity shines through. Thanks ❤️
I am one of those magnetic people. I wasn’t always that way, but I grew into that state over a period of years. The stories I can tell … many would not believe.
So spot on, I love me and dont need others to agree because I agree, its so awesome not needing anyone else to feel good about myself. I am grateful to have discovered your channel tonight, you're really smart.
I'm learning this stuff and the people around me hate it that I'm not as easy to manipulate anymore. I no longer need to help others to avoid them being angry at me and for a sense of self worth. I know the nice person that you are wants to let them down easy, willing to explain yourself sincerely, but don't waste your breath. These people don't care one bit what your needs might be, they have zero concern for your satisfaction, all they want to know is that they can count on you to help them constantly for the rest of your life.
"people want DEPTH"..wow this is so true, I actually got goosebumps when I heard you saying this. Felt that message.
Love what you’re saying about not “needing” someone. I love that. I also love that quote , “I love you, but I don’t need you”. Very powerful.
I used be a subscriber years ago then was not. This video popped up on my feed. I have to say, you’ve become your most authentic self. I’m back to being a subscriber!
Your victories are on the other side of your fears 💫
You only live once, but if you do it right, once is enough
As I see it time itself is like a shattered mirror and for all we know if we don't believe in this world who said God won't choose a next journey for our spirit. There's an endless possibility and from what I've witnessed only two sides.
Serving yourself so that you can take that best version of you, and then be inspired by serving others.
You are appreciated my man, and that’s why I check in at least once a week. 🙌🏻💥😎
Thank you! I was having trouble trying to figure out if I am " mean" or "very forward" based on occasional feedback I received over the years.
I can't stand sugar-coating, small talk, or having to suppress how I really feel.
I love honestly from others, deep conversations, authenticity. Listening and trying to understand other people's points of view and having discussions about them is invigorating while staying authentic to who I am. Vulnerability is beautiful and helps you understand people on deeper, more personal level.
Much LOVE!! ❤❤❤
My mother was a successful real estate salesperson because she loved helping people find the perfect house. It was never about the money. Love you and miss you Mom ❤️❤️❤️
I have been working intensely on my inner wounds and fears for a long while.
This way I surrendered to love and living in the now. Living in total vulnerability and trust in myself to be my own anchor. I’m attracting a lot of attention and love from people as well as Source.
Give in!
Trust!
Just signed up to the High Vibe Tribe. Thank you Aaron for sharing your journey and knowledge. You are a beautiful, kind and generous person!
Organize a 3 day retreat in Bali. 🎉 your presence is needed and a huge community welcomes you there. Your energy resonates. 🌊⛱️ 🌞 🍖 🍅 🥑 🥕🙏 ❤️
About a year ago i was on the cusp of achieving exactly what you're talking about. I had been obsessed with being in a relationship and being in love for around 10 years to a point it was all consuming and i would destroy the relationships i did get into because of this, but a year ago that had started to change, i was recognizing the freedom i had and all of the things i had that i could appreciative about my life and i didnt need love to be happy. Weirdly enough this chage had stimed from my father passing and afterwards me looking at his life and how in all regards it sucked due to past trauma and really bad health problems yet he was always such a positive person that people loved to be around and i wanted to be like that. Then suddenly not long after beginning that change i got an opportunity to be in a relationship and i jumped at it. It was amazing, everything i had wanted but it didn't last long because I fell back into my old pattern of needing that validation and affirmation and i suffocated the love we had started to build. Now im trying to find my way back and i gotta say your videos have been a great starting point. Thankyou.
Your work continues to be more relevant and relatable. It's as if I'm manifesting the exact content I need in the moment lately, including the detachment from outcome combined with self love & abundance. Thank you for the work you do, Aaron!
Crazy just before you touched on your vulnerability I thought to myself it’s his vulnerability that I appreciate. Then you said it lol. Sometimes I listen to you and I think omg! He is a male version of me. When listening to attachment styles I have often said I have both depending on the person and dynamic. Anyways, your vulnerability has assisted me with so many of my confirmation moments. Thank you!
To the reciprocity thing- when I was earning my psychology degree I learned it’s because when you ask someone else for their help they become more personally invested in you. In turn, the person who invested their time or resources tend to like and care about you/your outcome more as a result. Loving your videos!
I absolutely love love your videos and the more vulnerable and real you are the more I like your videos💖 This one was fun to listen to☺️😂 I like your humour!
Love your content, Aaron. Always what I need to hear. What a service!
Vulnerability = Genuine self
I left my gf (we're still in contact) just cause I know it's time to do the work...
Finally taking care of myself to quit this anxious attachment style that has been leading all my relationships. Not easy but has to be done !
I don't really have any problem to be vulnerable though, it pushes a lot of people to open up too :)
Authenticity is one of my top 3 value !
~ I also hate small talks ~
Thank you Aaron 🙏🏻
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Two years ago my gf broke up with me, I've sent few messages over the two months of separation and she never responded.
One evening, after those two months of total silence I was like "fuck that" and really meant it, I just went to do a bike session, focused on myself only. I finished my training and saw that she just wrote an email to me...]
OMG same thing happened to me! My ex dumped me. I was hurt over it for a few months until one day I decided it was time to move on. Went to yoga, mediated and shifted my energy. The very same day I received an email from my ex. It’s so crazy how that works!
Oh my goodness!! I just read this comment and thought I had wrote it. This is literally exactly the same for me. I need to do the inner work and let her come back to me
@@prtdivaIt’s weird you both got an email? What gf emails you, there is all social media and sms
Since i was a young kid people treated me differently they gravitated towards me i then i got with a narcissist over the years she stole my self confidence i finally broke free now i am glowing again the magnetic me is back its a great feeling 😊
Aaron, I’m 21 and I’ve been watching you since about the age of 17 and it’s been amazing how much information you share. Thank you. More importantly the quality of information and how well you articulate yourself.
Well said. Imagine if more people put in the work to come to these realizations and understand themselves.
I’m definitely both anxious & avoidant. Thank you for this.
I really appreciate your videos. I’ve got you on in the background while I clean and you got me stopping to think so much. Thank you and bless you ❤❤
Hey Aaron, just wanted to say thank you for sharing all this. I‘ve been through a lot of stuff in my life but when I broke up with my girlfriend two weeks ago I felt like I was in a pit from which I would never be able to escape.
All the videos about relationships I watched to understand the situation were not nearly as helpful as your stories and perspective of being yourself. I realized I wasnt myself for so long and I stopped appreciating myself because I was seeking validation.
I‘m still processing and learning but I now remember how important I am for myself.
Thank you for reminding me and teaching me.
Wish you all the best man 🙏🏻
Love your work Aaron.
I need to be super careful being vulnerable. After a lifetime of being vulnerable lve learned it made me prey to the narcs and toxic people who were part of my life for too long.
So HOW do we navigate that? To be vulnerability and honor our authneticity and our journey our now OR to not be vulnerable out of FEAR of being ridiculed exploited judged ostracized
Work on self-love, make that your priority. Learn about boundaries and how to choose yourself first. There are many helpful videos here on TH-cam. Once you start to do that, the narcasissts won't find you so appealing. When we know who we are, value ourselves, when we are direct and assertive, we can love others more safely, and those behaviors are narcasisst repellants.
Learn as much as you can about codependency, trauma bonding, and narcasisstic abuse.
That knowledge will help you become more solid and stronger.
It's easy to get sucked in by narcasisstic abusers and their "love bombing" when we think we have done the work and believe that we are healed. I thought that repeatedly, yet I'd still be pulled by them.
Thankfully, the cycles became shorter, and the attachments were not as intense as I worked on healing. My radar has also become increasingly sensitive.
Healing is a process. Be patient with yourself... but keep on empowering yourself with knowledge.
Trait no. 5 when you said “…or from the divine!” a butterfly fluttered gracefully in front of me! Loud and clear, my inner authority is from the divine and I am connected to the divine! Yes I am loving and living in my dharma!
This is one of those lessons that we learn in layers. Awesome delivery! So timely for me atm... 💕
Thank you so much Aaron! I've listened to a few of your video presenations in the past few hours and I'm already feeling so much better about myself and more magnetic to be myself. I have always been my authentic self in expressing vulnerability. Thank you. Cherry from Perth, UK
I just started watching you not to long ago and i jus wanted to let you know i appreciate your vids man. They helped me improve my mindset a lot
So much truth to think about, absorb and process. You are speaking straight wisdom my friend. 20 year relationship ended and this one episode is so revealing. Thank you!
Just watched you for the 1st time and you are genuine,funny, and very insightful all at the same time which=CHARISMA!!
Love you Aaron! ❤️🔥🌎 Thank you for talking about these things so openly. It gives me more energy to be myself and stay consistent with it. ♻️🦋
I grew up in a narcissistic family and finally broke free an figuring out all this crap. I completely resonate. Going thru a strange break up as well (this passed week I finally chose to let go) and it brought out childhood scenario that has been on replay that I now realize.
Everything you’ve talked about relationships I’ve had to go thru and I’ve been on both sides. I’ve learnt so much about myself in the process. Actually my greatest life lessons have been thru intimate relationships.
Thanks so much for sharing, it helps me stay motivated, hopeful 😅
Thank-you Aaron!💛🌟💛 This is a vulnerable thing I’m going to share.
I used to seriously be concerned and feeling guilty for the living vegetables as well as meat that I was digesting in my stomach… something I never shared with anyone. I felt for the living plants and once living animals being digested… I now realize that the soul and spirit of the vegetables and animals have moved on and no vegetables and animals soul and spirit are being hurt, because the Souls and Spirits are Divine and have moved on. That negative belief caused me a lot of stomach problems. Crazy… I know.
It is good to have affective empathy, but it needs to be balanced with holistic logic and a bigger picture perspective, as you have found.
I came across entering your channel and I was surprised to know that what you said resonates with what I feel. When we follow our divine true nature within ourselves and feel the gratitude of just existing as a being, we don't need other's affection or recognition that much anymore, because being as a divine self will lead us to a true deep happiness and fufillment.
I appreciate your sharing of enlighting insight so much!!! 🙂
YES. I recently had this epiphany…it’s magnificent ❤️🦋
The timing of this!!! Every word. Thank you 🙏
It's a journey 💪first time here, yup agreed! Vulnerability & Authenticity 💙it's the heart that is magnetic🙏being open with healthy boundaries ☀️
The thing that attracted me to you is how authentic and relatable you are!!
I found this truth a couple of years ago, again! The love I sought outside of myself my entire life, was within the whole time. Divine. I couldn’t receive it externally, because I wasn’t connecting with it from its true Source, and once I did, I could finally begin to see it. Thanks for sharing! Much love 🙏💜🌍
Thanks, Aaron. Woke up at 4 am and asked myself how can I love myself more, raise my vibration, and choose myself... And went to TH-cam and your video was the first one on my screen.
Everything you said it's like about me.
Thanks
I just loved the way you said "depth" 😂😂😂😂 it cracked me up!!! Excellent Channel..just subscibed...all the way from the UK 🇬🇧..whoop whoop! 🎉 I've always been quite positive and in my own world...I'm now a 45yr young Mother of 2 teenage kids and a husband who works and lives abroad. I found detaching from all outcomes has been amazing in being a great daughter, wife and mum...it used to consume me but over past 5 years been on a fantastic journey of self love and healing and feel like that same little girl aged 7yrs who used to think she had Supernatural Powers at school...little did she know we all have!!!! 😊
Thank you for sharing. I keep nodding as you mention choosing ourselves and owning who we are. I had a few surprising conversations recently, people told me they like what I do, and that I should continue being who I can. Never experienced this feeling before until I decided to be brave and expressed myself authentically, it feels great :)
Your energy is so contagious! I can only imagine what it is like to be around you in person. You have helped me in so many ways.
This so resonates with me as this exactly is happening to me the past year and it’s getting better and part of my life every day! Feeling so blessed 🥰
You did very good with this video. For all of us insecure out there or for our moments of insecurity, we need to remember all this truth/ depth😂🤗
This really really helped open some doors. Thank you Aaron
Thank you for your story , I was always wondering why I was always abandoning myself for others, looking back I did have a bandonment issues ,and listening to you lol I did the same . Sometimes it takes someone with courage to help other realize, we all can change. If we apply the right values to ourselves. Thank you I needed to hear these words of wisdom.
Love every part of this
Aaron i call you twice.... You're energy is on another level
I agree 100% that you can be either anxiously attached or avoidant depending on who you attract. 💯
Yeah you share it all. And you’re funny 😂 Thanks Aaron and Nick 😂
I fell asleep to yt and then this video came on, apparently. So here I am sleeping and hearing this gorgeous man saying all this high-value things about himself. I almost fell in love, lol.
You have no idea how helpful this content is Aaron. You are truly a God's warrior.
I resonated with so much that you shared in this video. For all of my life I have held a strong truth that when we share our vulnerabilities it allows space for others to feel safe to do so as well.
The last few months have been hard in my heart as I navigated a relationship that ultimately was not in alignment with who I am and what I am aligned with... I wish I had found this a few months ago!!! It would have spared me a lot of grief.
Thank you once again. ❤
I like where you say "vulnerability will repel some people..superficial people and that's actually a good thing." I'm definitely on the vulnerability journey of self love and embracing all the lessons along the way!
Omg !! Projection 😮 makes so much sense how you’ve explained
It !! I’m going to try this ❤
Thank you for this video, Aaron. I was struggling with someone home. I was seeing good things off suddenly, and it really affected the way I felt about myself. This video change my perspective on the whole thing. Keep them coming, Aaron!
Yes i started watching you from the beginning and you were open about your history, about how you hated your job. I could relate. You inspired me to hang in there, to try and make my life better. I really enjoy your energy.
I think you speak from the heart ..love you for all the wonderful insight and teachings of self love
I am so happy I found your channel at that exact time , I really needed it . That’s an amazing video and very eye opening and healing, wonderful ! Thank you Aaron 😊
I really value your vulnerability! ❤
"people want Depth" you just made me laugh a lot right now with this one. Thank you for your authenticity and magnetic energy I felt the moment I start watching your channel. I can't precisely describe it, I just felt that vibrate energy!
Disorganized attachment is both anxious & avoidant aka fearful avoidant
So this is crazy. Literally everything you're saying here is what has happened to me! It would take too long to type it all out here, but if you were to read through my writing, through my Facebook page, it completely echoes what you are saying. I LOVE seeing others experiencing such deep self-acceptance and enlightenment. And I love that you're using this platform to share this. I'm writing a book because that's more my style, but I'm so thankful for the many platforms out there to share this imperative information. ❤️
Yeah!! Your vulernability has me here after 5 years I watched one of your videos and when a friend is entering this "spiritual" world and they ask who can I follow and you always come up. You are always option #1. That is because we can relate to your experiences, you act human. 😂 Sending love and light!!❤
Healthy attachments with people, good financial standing, maintain relationships and friends, healthy body and mind are the aspects we need to meet for self love. Example, I know some rich people who are depress, sick and lonely. it's okay to be alone to recharge from stress, collate our thoughts, and cultivate creativity.🎉
Thank you Aaron, I needed this message ❤❤
YOU GOTTA HAVE DEBTH 🤣 love your videos bro, you had be crackin up lol
Oh man.. gonna be saying "depth" and "oil" all day today thanks Aaron! 😅😂😂😂😂😂😂
every word you've said resonate with me
it incredible
🙏🏽 Thank you so much
I keep watching your videos and the more my life keeps changing for the good! Let’s see how much more magnetic I can get ! 🙏🙏🙏Thanks for all your help
I resonate so much! I appreciate that you spend the time to express yourself on these topics, because it puts words to what I am also realizing.
Dude just about everything you said in this video is exactly what’s happening to me it’s crazy!
I feel that completely with being anxious and avoidant in my attachment style as well as feeling I need someone to affirm or validate that I have worth or am worthy of love/affection. My disconnect with detachment is I associate being detached with being avoidant or not caring. Nail on the head with outsourcing. I like bringing value to others but still want the affirmation or acknowledgement of being of value and loved by another. Right now I'm struggling with comparison and shallowness that any new romantic interest I may have or pursue needs to be as or more externally appealing/attractive than my ex and that's a superficial and limiting belief I need to free myself of.