How to detach yourself and still get what you want

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  • @AaronDoughty44
    @AaronDoughty44  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +39

    Hey! have you joined the High Vibe Tribe yet? its my new free community! I go live and do free workshops and meditations in there, join here! aarondoughty.com/highvibetribe

    • @mayhtoo3576
      @mayhtoo3576 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      😂❤

    • @darrah3854
      @darrah3854 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@mayhtoo3576😊❤

    • @saharafradi
      @saharafradi 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@mayhtoo3576?

  • @pablovolant13
    @pablovolant13 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +113

    I 100% agree with this. This was me for years. I was always chasing things. That was money, approval, but especially relationships. I felt I always craved a romantic partner, until I realised that my ideal partner is ME! Once I gave myself the love and approval, and STOPPED looking to the outside world through desperation. My energy and reality shifted. The right partner came into my life effortlessly and In a way where I'm unattached to the outcome. So overall I got what I wanted without needing it!
    Hope you get something from this, don't give up in achieving your goals
    Much love ❤🙌

  • @FuchsiaFire444
    @FuchsiaFire444 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +60

    Right. Detaching means letting go of doubt stress struggle and strain and allowing your real power of belief in self, joy, and wisdom, accepting trusting and allowing what is trying to come to you to come.

  • @zhenren9703
    @zhenren9703 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +136

    I'm proud of you Aaron. Been following you over the years and you've grown sooo much. It's cool to see. Your authenticity grew as well... yay!

    • @charliehilbrant
      @charliehilbrant 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      You must see a part of yourself in him, which means you must be an authentic and powerful AF being too 🥰

    • @sonialoves444
      @sonialoves444 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      sounds a bit condescending, especially the “yay”
      who are you supposed to be?!

    • @gracereyes2857
      @gracereyes2857 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I was just thinking this, like I used to think he was getting repetitive and now he is giving the message with such depth and clarity.

    • @mayhtoo3576
      @mayhtoo3576 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Sooo much more😮❤

  • @michellebrady2715
    @michellebrady2715 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    I don’t know why it’s taking me so long but this finally clicked in my head. I’m always chasing. Looking back, I realized I received the most was when I was not thinking about the end. I’m saving this video for a frequent reminder to let it go!

    • @tonyjlorns1727
      @tonyjlorns1727 21 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Michael am with you buddy spent 30 years chasing / making things important

  • @businessmanph
    @businessmanph 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

    This is better than having a life coach or therapist. Google algorithm already knows me better than I know myself.

  • @erendiraperez9455
    @erendiraperez9455 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

    Omg I’ve been sleeping for years.. I’ve followed you since you started and my life changed, but I couldn’t get this until now. Aleluya! Got it finally! 🙏🏽

    • @tonyjlorns1727
      @tonyjlorns1727 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I know the penny has only really dropped in the last week after “ chasing” everything all my life without any success for 30 years

  • @charstar4361
    @charstar4361 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    ‘I’m good either way’ ❤

  • @emilykasuya
    @emilykasuya 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    This guy tapped into my inner unconscious jumbled thought process, looked it in the face and spoke to it with compassion.

  • @nataliamiceli-karaokeinmyr23
    @nataliamiceli-karaokeinmyr23 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    I believe letting go of your desires as one of the hardest things in manifesting for me. Thank you Aaron for this amazing explanation. I’ve heard it so many times before but it says if we need to hear it over and over again let go and allow let go and allow be what you desire to be, live in the present moment

  • @emmakarolyna
    @emmakarolyna 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    GENIUS. life is such a paradox, it's so weird.

  • @jillkx
    @jillkx 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Your explanations are the best! What most people in the community do is they do tons of techniques but from a place of lack. We don’t affirm in order to get something but as a reminder of who we already are. I don’t do techniques anymore as they always make me feel in lack too! If I had what I desire, I wouldn’t be sitting here doing affirmations and whatnot. So now I’m just focusing on my self concept, self love and balancing my nervous system 😊

    • @theonethatisforever
      @theonethatisforever 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I like that !

    • @cindy_laila11
      @cindy_laila11 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      True! I am like that too now. But sometimes and for some people or situations persisting with affirmations or whatever technique is necessary to really impress the subconcious. However, i got kinda tired of that, now I just affirm only when I feel like reminding myself I am the operant power and everything is working out in my favor. Just basically speaking out gratitude and self love 😊

    • @fabiboy2311
      @fabiboy2311 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Right now I only really affirm my self concept

  • @thisisaaryak
    @thisisaaryak 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    in today’s time, this is something i clearly needed. to everyone out there who’s having trouble detaching, you got this. you got yourself, and that’s all you need🌸

  • @CharleneGreen-jq8sz
    @CharleneGreen-jq8sz 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love the simplicity 🦋 the vibe you give to others of “being” as you are…not needy. Worthy, whole and complete! Thank you!

  • @MindfulSoulDreams
    @MindfulSoulDreams หลายเดือนก่อน

    This video was very powerful! Your power is filling the lives of the humans of this earth and fueling growth! I have so much gratitude for you and being able to hear your truths. It’s beautiful thank you!

  • @MisschrissyT
    @MisschrissyT 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Hey Aaron, thanks so much for that. You’re talking to a huge generation of people who have been brought up psychologically tricked into wanting more. Nothing was good enough. You always had to have the next best thing. Commercial kids. Greater impact than one would have thought to undo that psychological imprinting, you need tools and absolutely a different perspective. This is so empowering. Much love to you. 💕🙏

  • @Badkhela
    @Badkhela 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I just popped in to say that the way i believe you do it is by detaching yourself from wanting something and aligning yourself with your calling for a higher purpose. By the alignment, the "want" becomes a byproduct.

  • @tinkerbellUK
    @tinkerbellUK 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Sometimes in business we crave to push forward and try new things.. however I have found it is wise to stick with what works and that you are good at! That is what brought you success in the first place n shouldn’t be taken for granted 💁🏼‍♀️

  • @johnhancock9573
    @johnhancock9573 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I didn't like the way i looked. I wanted to look more fit. I worked out. I got fit. I look more fit. I eventually learned to enjoy the process!

  • @rinrin7524
    @rinrin7524 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Very logical about the frequency story and it was easy to understand :)arigatou

  • @sonialoves444
    @sonialoves444 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    i don’t watch your videos. even though i liked the title of this one, i’d been struggling and i didn’t really want to hear it and also kinda figured i’ve already heard it anyway. this one kept coming through my feed..i finally clicked on it because there was literally nothing else of interest and it kept coming up! i wasn’t really even in the mood for loa content. well..i came to leave this comment because i know i was meant to hear this message in the particular way you conveyed and spoke it here. this video made a big impact and was so helpful to my specific situation and unanswered questions. im now quite glad and grateful i finally watched.
    SINCERE THANK YOU

  • @asmahossain3743
    @asmahossain3743 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Such an awesome life changing video! The way you describe energy dynamics bro, no one does.
    ❤ ❤ ❤

  • @SheDay444
    @SheDay444 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you, I am FINALLY who I want to be and in the arms of my twin flame.❤ I HAVE won against the corruption I've been fightingl.🎉

  • @lunareclipsetarot
    @lunareclipsetarot 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Think FROM it, not about it. Everything is energy and that which we are seeking is also seeking us. I needed this video this morning. It's so easy to get distracted with what we want vs just allowing it to flow. Eh, say it's the human condition. Great video, thanks Aaron

  • @JewelzWest
    @JewelzWest 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Been following you for four years and my life has radically improved. Exponentially exploded into abundance as I practice these principles every day thank you 🙏 ❤

  • @KKP20111
    @KKP20111 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I love how wise and honest you are, Aaron! 💯❤️ Bless you! 💯🙏

  • @davidgarcia1633
    @davidgarcia1633 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This podcast eerily appeared just now when I needed to watch it as I'm embarking on a business out of the US. This is too surreal. Will watch a few more times to really let it sink in. Thanks Aaron! 🙏💫

  • @sachiajuneau380
    @sachiajuneau380 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

    omg.. He is so right!! I was doing all the wrong thing..

  • @joananguyen3942
    @joananguyen3942 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you Aaron ! I have watched a few videos talking about visualisation and receiving , but couldn’t grasp the concept, the feeling intented , but your explanations and the way you convey it make it so much more clear ! I think it will help me ! Thank you !

  • @adele9925
    @adele9925 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you for all your inspired content.🙏 Am so glad you are doing more video again. I live in Australia so cannot attend your live events. You have taught me so much about myself at age 68!😉 Sending much love and light to all on this magnificent journey of life.🙌💞🌟

  • @papa_rambo
    @papa_rambo 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    You have only the right to the Karma, and not the fruits of the Karma.. Hence, Hey Arjun, do your duty without thinking about the outcome!
    --- Lord Krishna
    (Srimad Bhagwad Geeta)

  • @BalanceWellOfficial
    @BalanceWellOfficial 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Im good either way 😊 I'm tuning to the vibe. Thanks Aaron

  • @bhawnachauhan7349
    @bhawnachauhan7349 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hi Aaron, just wanted to tell you Thankyou for making this so easy to understand, I have heard it so many times pretend as you already have it. But never understood logic behind it. You made it very clear. I saw the vdo 4 hours ago and trust me you have made me understood which I cannot from 6 months. Keep growing.🌸

  • @Brittany777Wolf
    @Brittany777Wolf 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You help ALOT of people with youtube people all over the world so glad to hear you may be back more I was shocked to see you making more videos again and happy about it. Thanks

  • @boblossie3192
    @boblossie3192 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    As I listen to this, I'm thinking back to my biggest achievements and they happened in exactly the way Aaron said.

  • @sheidaa99h
    @sheidaa99h หลายเดือนก่อน

    auron thank you so much you've opened my eyes ❤

  • @motherbird9208
    @motherbird9208 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love this talk I really resonate with “ I’m good either way”. I wanted a guy for a year and he was not interested. Then I left and stopped trying and caring. Now he’s flirting with me and trying to visit me. I’m sorta blown away because … it really works.

  • @Theo22211
    @Theo22211 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Agreed meditation gives you huge shifts!!

  • @Just-A-Nerd-888
    @Just-A-Nerd-888 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I can already feel a massive shift in my life, gratitude, and appreciation

  • @VarshiniLokkuntla
    @VarshiniLokkuntla หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I'm good either way🤗

  • @idamyrevik
    @idamyrevik 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you Aaron ❤ very nice to be grounding and to be reminded in in the middle of the hustle

  • @mayhtoo3576
    @mayhtoo3576 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    It's the point,know it❤

  • @samantha9988
    @samantha9988 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm so grateful I found you on youtube. You answer so many of my deep-rooted life questions, it feels liberating.❤

  • @ME-hv9kx
    @ME-hv9kx 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I would like to be successful in growing financially as I have already grew spiritually...When I meditate I meditate being already rich and happy .. I enjoy the meditation because I can feel happy as if It is happening already.

  • @tanyagoodpasture761
    @tanyagoodpasture761 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Good to see you, love. I have always enjoyed your guidance. Blessed be. In love and light ♥️ ✨️

  • @alvav.6054
    @alvav.6054 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Just absolutely love your content Aaron it really empowers me everyday and I feel myslef shifting and as I do, so does my reality ❤

  • @tarunnarang9701
    @tarunnarang9701 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You’ve been godsend, thank you.

  • @spyderqueentrading
    @spyderqueentrading 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    OMG!!! Literally the greatest opening line of any video I've ever seen!! 😂

  • @EcomCarl
    @EcomCarl 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Insightful video on the power of resonance in manifestation! 🌟 Shifting our mindset to embody the energy of already having what we desire not only aligns us with our goals but also opens up pathways for opportunities and success.

  • @jaimeethrash774
    @jaimeethrash774 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for your videos! I have been having a rough time letting go of my ex fiancé. This has helped tramendously

  • @jasminecoppage711
    @jasminecoppage711 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Absolutely 💯. I have been being shown this over the last year especially.

  • @shayansoudmand6993
    @shayansoudmand6993 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wonderful video. You explained it very well and simple and everyone can understand it. I appreciate you and wish you the best bro💎💯

  • @rushana16
    @rushana16 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I really do love that editing format, when there is a shadow behind the text and that the main ideas are highlighted. Thank u for information, Aaron, and thanks for editor 🙏🏽🤍

  • @lookwaticando909
    @lookwaticando909 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Frequency , is reality , thoughts , are matter

  • @Zee-hl8mp
    @Zee-hl8mp 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Aaron i truly love you from the bottom of my heart, thank you so much. You have no idea how many times your videos have saved me from dire states. I was suffering pretty badly the past 3 hours and i swear to god just listening to the first 3 minutes of your video changed my entire state upside down. I was on the verge of another panic attack and now im suddenly feeling so lighhhhhttttt and loving and hopeful and compassionate. If there is anyway i can directly support you please tell me
    -Love 'A fellow pure soul'

  • @heartlightmagic
    @heartlightmagic 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Such a great video, thanks for sharing. I know I need to embrace that even more, that 'I'm good either way!'

  • @arletrodriguez4965
    @arletrodriguez4965 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you so much dear Aaron 🤍🙏

  • @fyren1984
    @fyren1984 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Before you attract love, realized you are love, your mom loves you, mother earth loves you ❤

  • @helebele77
    @helebele77 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    o.m.g Aron so good that you are in the world.🎉 what we would do otherwise.😊

  • @lucalin07
    @lucalin07 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    How come your every video just reminds me of exactly what I need 😮

  • @abeldk8861
    @abeldk8861 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Very informative video! Can speak on romanticizing possible relationships and self sabotaging them before it kicks off. I know this resonates with childhood wounds but would like to know more about the topic.

  • @rachaelburkinshaw7160
    @rachaelburkinshaw7160 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love this. How do you make sure you're not gaslighting yourself into thinking a situation is good when really you need to be out of it?

  • @DoctorSoulHere
    @DoctorSoulHere 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    your content is life changing -)

  • @mayhtoo3576
    @mayhtoo3576 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Feeling natural in abundance 😮❤

  • @DenisaStancu
    @DenisaStancu 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The key is to make it natural to you. And this is different for every person. Here is where the real work is, to discover what is natural to you.

  • @felicecancellara4524
    @felicecancellara4524 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Simple and effective, as always thanks Aaron 🙏🏻

  • @Nocturnal_Lorena
    @Nocturnal_Lorena 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +37

    My family: We're worried about you. Get married!
    Me: No. (Internally whispers: I already am!) 😂

    • @ayushrohilla008
      @ayushrohilla008 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Loll 😂 but yeah somehow you should focus on understanding what kind of feeling it brings to u. Whether you're enjoying the way you are rn and believing that I'm ready to be married. Or does it surface some unpleasant experience from past. You have to figure out that for real to bring clarity

  • @thecuriouscaseofkianathoma8354
    @thecuriouscaseofkianathoma8354 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You are doing a great job!

  • @blkonblkenabledred854
    @blkonblkenabledred854 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You are a true human being leading us all

  • @andymholt
    @andymholt 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The first sentence is amazing

  • @TammyKrassick
    @TammyKrassick 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm good either way. Perfect.

  • @Angie.313
    @Angie.313 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yes i do imagine all the details when manifesting in purpose that's how visualization works ... Well for me with the last part of feeling its here and let it go because it's done

  • @askfirestarter
    @askfirestarter 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I feel this - thank you for sharing. I love your channel and hope you are having an amazing day
    ❤❤❤❤💯💯💯💯

  • @marthademetriou8673
    @marthademetriou8673 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    you post at the right time thank you soo much! Thank you !

  • @ShylohWest
    @ShylohWest 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you 🙏🏽 this was very helpful to me ❤takes practice I’m sure.

  • @Oddishhly
    @Oddishhly 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    I call this "duping the vibes", it's incredibly effective.

  • @Pranks414
    @Pranks414 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Literally watching this video on my lunch break

  • @tialynn1111
    @tialynn1111 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you - you explained perfectly

  • @dominiquecarla9035
    @dominiquecarla9035 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Amen brother! thank you so much for this

  • @andrewconway1395
    @andrewconway1395 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you Aaron!

  • @SS-wg7nh
    @SS-wg7nh 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is SO good, thank you thank you thank you 🙏🙏🙏

  • @IvyaBKK
    @IvyaBKK 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you so much. Greeting from Bangkok. 👍🏼

  • @mayhtoo3576
    @mayhtoo3576 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    (really love this in being,Awesome eve Sunshine white brightly after shower rain,feel great joyness too,its kind of love naturally,thanksss JJ)😮❤

  • @mayhtoo3576
    @mayhtoo3576 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Enjoy the process,still on level vibes,receiving tuning,radioooooooo😅😊😊😊😊😊❤

  • @KatMarie
    @KatMarie 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Needed this! So wise. Thank you :)

  • @amygeorge1653
    @amygeorge1653 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you for this content 🙏

  • @penelopecruz2495
    @penelopecruz2495 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Commenting on here so you get more of the attention you deserve. :)

  • @deenabryant
    @deenabryant 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks Aaron for the video ❤❤❤❤ and daily reminder

  • @AmandaLindgren-k6k
    @AmandaLindgren-k6k 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Youre getting hotter and wiser everyday🔥🔥🔥

  • @OrangeGrove55
    @OrangeGrove55 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I am a fellow content creator, occasionally get 'haters' that will attack me etc. Am I unconsciously attracting these people by my own thoughts? thank you for all u do!!!

  • @karlagillis7090
    @karlagillis7090 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Awesome video thank you Aaron👏😇💖✨✨✨✨✨✨✨

  • @MartinPerezIII-uw7eq
    @MartinPerezIII-uw7eq 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for all the videos and putting up with me. I guess im assuming you did.

  • @asnova81
    @asnova81 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Aaron, you’re Awesome!🙌😄🎉

  • @amaznella
    @amaznella 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wonderful practical explanations . Great video

  • @giovannifurnari8668
    @giovannifurnari8668 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you Aaron.❤🇦🇺🎨🙏💰🧘🏻🧡

  • @kNOwYouAndMe
    @kNOwYouAndMe 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    One way to let go and get in the feel of the desire is to remember that ego isnt designed to be satisfied and to remember that if Ive had the desire a long time it wont feel super extravagant. So if I cant get my emotions "high enough" I tell myself "My desire manifested ages ago thats why I dont feel so excited" and its a game changer. Its just normal to have the car. Would God be ecstatic if he was offered a new car? 😂

  • @HazelGuestOfficial888
    @HazelGuestOfficial888 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    LOVE THIS! Thank you ❤

  • @mayhtoo3576
    @mayhtoo3576 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Embody frequency❤

  • @Still_waters_run_deep43
    @Still_waters_run_deep43 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’m so excited for June 3rd! 😊

  • @mayhtoo3576
    @mayhtoo3576 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    True,Congrats!!💜🌹👍