HOW A WOMAN MAY EMBRACE BEING ALONE by RC Blakes

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    HOW A WOMAN MAY EMBRACE BEING ALONE by RC Blakes
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  • @RCBlakesJr.
    @RCBlakesJr.  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +529

    PLEASE PUSH THIS ONE BY LIKING AND SHARING MY FAMILY.

    • @markesabowers1567
      @markesabowers1567 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      I thank God for you Bishop Blakes and your wife That truly has the shepherds heart . Bishop Blakes you are one of my spiritual father and I'm looking forward to visiting fellowshiping . I have been sharing your platform. 💜

    • @Cherie_Amour60
      @Cherie_Amour60 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Thank You so Much Bishop for taking your Precious time to share with us. You Truly are a Man after God’s own Heart. May God Bless you and Lisa and your Family Abundantly God Bless you Bishop This Message was Amazing I’m going to watch over and Over so it can really help me so it can really Sink in my Brain and get to my Heart. You Definitely let God use you tonight. Love you ❤❤❤❤️🙏🏽✌🏽

    • @RommanysWorld
      @RommanysWorld 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Done ✅ 🤗

    • @LaRochePosayStyist
      @LaRochePosayStyist 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      ❤ Will do

    • @YollyB
      @YollyB 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      God Bless you for sharing this🙏🏽

  • @mitz1919
    @mitz1919 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +775

    ‘Being alone allows u to truly experience relying on God!’👏🏽🙏🏽

    • @eeestabuuuni7790
      @eeestabuuuni7790 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

      I RECEIVE IT!!!🙋🏾‍♀️⛲️🎁🙏🏾🙌🏾

    • @stefblanco3887
      @stefblanco3887 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽💯🙏🏽

    • @sandysimpson4785
      @sandysimpson4785 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Amen!!!❤❤❤🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

    • @highlyfevad
      @highlyfevad 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Amen🙌

    • @maiangellove8949
      @maiangellove8949 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      It gets old at times. But, it’s good to have a best friend, a spiritual being that never waivers. I love the Lord💕

  • @TheAmazinBlazian
    @TheAmazinBlazian 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +461

    When in solitude:
    1. It is an opportunity for self-discovery and personal growth.
    2. You're able to nurture your independence.
    3. You’re able to find the freedom for self-care.
    4. You’re able to cultivate meaningful relationships.
    5. You’re able to pursue divine passions.
    6. You’re able to rediscover your inner strength.
    7. You’re able to embrace your personal freedom.

    • @shaunlucia524
      @shaunlucia524 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      Thank you 💕

    • @stephaniebalentine
      @stephaniebalentine 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      🙏🏽

    • @firstmnm1
      @firstmnm1 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Thank you

    • @sharonboston7649
      @sharonboston7649 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Thank you for taking the time to list the points.❤

    • @tonimsb
      @tonimsb 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Thank you!

  • @kristalc.2809
    @kristalc.2809 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +88

    "When there's too many people and too much noise, I find it difficult to deal with me." As an introvert, I felt that.

  • @clarissahoward1901
    @clarissahoward1901 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +193

    I am grateful for my time alone. I am enjoying my own company. I was married for 31 years, and I have been divorced for 3 years. I didn’t think I could do it. This summer I went to Greece. It allowed me to see life totally different. I am embracing this time until God moves me into a relationship. 😊

    • @mildredweatherless2618
      @mildredweatherless2618 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    • @maguiedossantos2925
      @maguiedossantos2925 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      LOVE THIS FOR YOU SIS🥰🥰👏👏👏👏👏

    • @lynettep7015
      @lynettep7015 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Much joy and peace to you, be blessed in your walk with The Lord.

    • @georgettewilliamsvids9345
      @georgettewilliamsvids9345 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      What did you do to overcome

    • @Areutherehello
      @Areutherehello 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Hope the best for you. I am wondering how you will continue going forward if God does NOT move you into a new relationship.
      I don't mean to be a Debbie Downer, but that could happen. What if you are still alone 5, 10, 15 years from now?

  • @montricec8795
    @montricec8795 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +110

    While alone...write your book, read self improvement books, get in the best shape mentally/emotionally/physically, go see people you haven't seen in a while, take yourself to dinner and to a movie...live your BEST life! If you live your BEST life while you are alone, you will be more inclined to live your BEST life with your mate.

    • @dublingirl1691
      @dublingirl1691 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      💯🎯

    • @sharoneh8929
      @sharoneh8929 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Absolutely 💯

    • @NabanjaChristine
      @NabanjaChristine 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    • @NabanjaChristine
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  • @verojohn8700
    @verojohn8700 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +130

    I ‘M NOT BY MYSELF. I’m TO MYSELF. 👍🏾🙏🏾💜
    Amen!! 🙏🏾💜

    • @janellamurphy5665
      @janellamurphy5665 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      AMEN❤❤❤!!!!!

    • @verojohn8700
      @verojohn8700 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@janellamurphy5665 Amen! 🙏🏾

  • @moyetri2235
    @moyetri2235 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +143

    "Solitude isn't the absence of company but the moment when our soul is free to talk to us & decide what to do with us " amazing🙏

  • @myeshadapisces
    @myeshadapisces 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +69

    I am a 45 year old woman that has been single for 5+ years with a 18 year old son . This was a breath of fresh air to hear. 🙏🏾

  • @Summerdayareahead
    @Summerdayareahead 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +288

    This message is right on time for me. After being in a 19 Year emotional unavailable marriage 4 son’s. I’m currently in the middle of an divorce. Thank you Holy Spirit and Thank you spiritual Father 😢😮

    • @eeestabuuuni7790
      @eeestabuuuni7790 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      YESSS & AMEN... FATHER HAVE YOUR WAY.

    • @tukessahousen4983
      @tukessahousen4983 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      You can do it ! Time for you, new plans, goals , and overall self love ! 🙏❤️

    • @agnesvs9263
      @agnesvs9263 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      I’ll Pray for your family. For peace and restoration😇🙏

    • @kathyjudson6754
      @kathyjudson6754 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@agnesvs9263I am joining you for praying for growth in God and restoration

    • @williamsshelia3778
      @williamsshelia3778 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

      There is life after divorce! When you get in tune with yourself, you will find so much peace, love and self respect that you will ask yourself, Why did I tolerate this unhealthy marriage so long! ❤🙏🏻

  • @rolivhuwasadiki4397
    @rolivhuwasadiki4397 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    "Many women are relying on men to be to them what only God can be"🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @kelz130
    @kelz130 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +43

    “And when she loved herself , she found she was Invincible “❤❤❤

  • @lovinlife1899
    @lovinlife1899 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +124

    My husband of 22 years left me when I was going through breast cancer treatment. A few years later, I married an abusive narcissist who tracked me via gps, strangulated me, drug me down cement stairs when I tried to leave…no man again ever. I’ve been through therapy to heal and understand my part. But, in my mind, I have no other option than to enjoy being alone.

    • @EarthangelRemix
      @EarthangelRemix 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

      It's ok to love you, whom the Creator has made🕊️

    • @Pacifica74
      @Pacifica74 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +53

      That's horrendous. You not only survived breast cancer; you survived men. May God bless you the rest of your days.

    • @sweetcheeks4EVER
      @sweetcheeks4EVER 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

      Sorry you went through all that... hugs

    • @lhu6971
      @lhu6971 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      Aww sooo sorry that happened to you. May the Good Lord bless you. Better things ahead💝😊

    • @0ceanemks472
      @0ceanemks472 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Sorry that happened to you. You went trough traumatizing battle! You are brave

  • @jessicawinder3602
    @jessicawinder3602 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +82

    I love being by myself. It's peaceful. I can pray and reflect on learning about my likes and dislikes, I can see people for who they are clearer, I can meditate and work on being a better version of myself. Thank you RC blakes for your blessed messages🙏

    • @janellamurphy5665
      @janellamurphy5665 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      In total agreement sis🙌🏿💯💯💯💯👋🏾👋🏾💯💯💯

  • @sukithemoon
    @sukithemoon 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

    “It’s not necessarily that I’m BY myself, it’s that I’m TO myself” 🏆🏆🏆

  • @lindarobinson1980
    @lindarobinson1980 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +59

    Great words of wisdom; I am to myself, my season of solitude!! Divorced since 2001, I have learned to focus on me, my immediate family and my dearest friends. I enjoy walking in faith, each and every day!! I am 70 years old and I still have goals and things to do on a daily basis. I love makeup, wigs and different hair styles, smelling good and looking cute! Four years ago I bought my house by myself and I still work part-time. My favorite thing to do is cooking and creating different recipes!! I thank God for showing me the way. Life is good and I no longer fear what's ahead; faith is the way!!!

    • @connievelez5478
      @connievelez5478 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Amen👏👏👏👏

    • @lifeyunique
      @lifeyunique 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Isaiah 54:5 says “For your Maker is your husband, the Lord of hosts is His name; and the Holy One of Israel is your Redeemer, the God of the whole earth He is called.”

    • @sharoneh8929
      @sharoneh8929 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      ​@@lifeyuniqueAmen. God is the best husband. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

    • @cakesinthecity
      @cakesinthecity 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      God bless you!

    • @NancyStinger-ll6wt
      @NancyStinger-ll6wt 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I am also 70 and I love being to and with myself. It is truly the most fulfilling part of my life aside from when I had my son. God has truly blessed me as I stepped out in faith to be in partnership with him .

  • @sacredpaw
    @sacredpaw 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +155

    I'm in solitude, both my parents are passed. No friends or family around, have to deal with a toxic individual daily. When alone with out loving support it's very hard. But I'm trying.
    Thank you so much Pastor Blakes.❤

    • @nettiemarie2556
      @nettiemarie2556 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      Im in the same boat. Hugs, love and prayers 🙏❣️🙏

    • @miag2004
      @miag2004 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

      What helps me is to read the Word every day it is amazing❤❤❤❤ uplifting, insightful, and encouraging even if I don’t fully understand what I’m reading, I feel stronger and more clarity when I read daily… I feel spiritually grounded, and like I am able to gain the spiritual insight that I could not have by my own doing… KJV …. ❤🙏

    • @samanthapharialdaniel
      @samanthapharialdaniel 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Just makes us stronger ..Im trusting on Gods word .
      Greater plans for us instore 💓

    • @sacredpaw
      @sacredpaw 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@nettiemarie2556 🙏❤️

    • @sacredpaw
      @sacredpaw 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@samanthapharialdaniel 🙏❤️

  • @lovingmynaturalhair
    @lovingmynaturalhair 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +81

    I never experienced God’s peace and His will until I accepted the season of solitude He put me in. It has been the best thing I ever experienced! Thank you Lord!

    • @bunnzini
      @bunnzini 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      ❤❤ i understand

    • @hiwathabroaden7783
      @hiwathabroaden7783 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I'm so blessed to know what solitude is. my mind is so clear and focus on my father Jesus Christ my peace is the holy spirit Im so thankful for his divine love .

    • @simplysinqo
      @simplysinqo 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Same here 🥹🫶🏾

  • @esthyanaz3086
    @esthyanaz3086 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +51

    I am now learning a lot while staying in solitude and celibate . I am getting clarity and also learning to love myself and forgive myself of past mistakes ❤

  • @eeestabuuuni7790
    @eeestabuuuni7790 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +98

    I AM LEARNING AND LIVING IN SOLITUDE. PASTOR I FEEL THIS IS WHERE GOD HAS ME IN THIS SEASON. I AM TRULY CONTENT.

  • @scheherazadewherry1410
    @scheherazadewherry1410 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    Being alone has increase my discernment...its allowed me to become focused on me. Thank you Father God for removing me out of the darkness into the Light. Praise the Lord.

  • @ummhabeebah8812
    @ummhabeebah8812 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +53

    The Value of Solitude
    1. It is an opportunity for self discovery and personal growth
    2. You get a chance to nurture your independence
    3. You Find the Freedom for Self Care
    4. Opportunity to Cultivate meaningful relationships
    5. Opportunity to Pursue divine passions
    6. Time to Rediscover your inner strength
    7. Allows you to embrace your personal freedoms…do you boo 😜

  • @Icylyn
    @Icylyn 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +63

    I am living alone physically but not spiritual Jesus is with me this words I embrace very profound words❤🎉

  • @Ressa9
    @Ressa9 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +72

    I’ve been praying about acceptance of being single. I’ve been divorced 2 years and realize I was still struggling with this new reality. It’s been a distraction that’s kept me from my purpose and goals. Even in creating friendships that really weren’t authentic. I’m really going to commit to embracing my season of solitude 🙏🏾❤

    • @kandicedinkins8618
      @kandicedinkins8618 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Our story is the same. I too have been divorced for the last two years and this new journey is filled with ups, downs, and adversaries but I am pushing through and you will too. Embrace this time. For this is our growth time. Keep pouring into you and watch how much you will grow through this. Have a blessed day my sister and know you are not alone ❤🥰

    • @her8923
      @her8923 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      You only need one good friend, test them before opening your door

    • @georgettewilliamsvids9345
      @georgettewilliamsvids9345 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I would love someone in my corner

    • @freewoman
      @freewoman 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      This is my story too. Separated for two years and in the middle of a divorce. Really struggling and get really down sometimes. I thank God for RC Blakesley, he has really helped me in this season.

  • @lindam.7709
    @lindam.7709 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +54

    Let us not confuse being alone with ourselves vs. being “lonely”. I know Bishop will break it down for us . . .

    • @LadiJadi72
      @LadiJadi72 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Cuz you can be lonely in a whole relationship.

  • @justliss1827
    @justliss1827 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    I have LOVED my life since my divorce. I'm enjoying this time with God! He truly takes care of me.❤🙌🏾🙏🏾

  • @rachellsalley1723
    @rachellsalley1723 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +58

    The Holy Spirit sent this message to me thank you Jesus!

  • @FashWelch
    @FashWelch 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +69

    YOU ARE IN MY SEASON PASTOR BLAKES! I am living alone after a break up and I still want to be open and wise to love ordained by God. Thank You!

  • @ngum9953
    @ngum9953 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Last night I was asking God why I always feel like I need someone to make me feel better. Today I opened my phone and saw this 🙏🏾

    • @Eastpointe
      @Eastpointe 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Yes, because you haven’t learned to love and discover yourself In Christ. And I pray you get there because it’s an amazing place in life to be.

  • @walterineellis
    @walterineellis 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    I wish more men of God had this understanding. I've been alone about 7 years now and am mocked and called a lesbian or it's said I have a man living with me. I always let it be known that God, my Father keeps my record. I know that this comes from carnal people and pray for them in Jesus name. Glory to God, I love being to myself. I've learned a lot about me in these 7 years. I even like and love myself whereas I've never felt like this about me. Thank you Jesus!

  • @Breakthrough9
    @Breakthrough9 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    49 and single for 6 years now. Working on self and in solitude. I have let go of everything that does not serve my higher self and man is it a powerful feeling. Be patient and don't let anyone make you feel fear of being alone. I am finding the beauty in being alone and rediscoving what I really need in a partner. ❤

    • @lala5061
      @lala5061 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

      💯

  • @OG_Genesis216
    @OG_Genesis216 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I don't know why but I finally had an epiphany. When 2 people are happily walking in their purpose, it allows them to be everything they need to be to and for each other without even trying. Because they are truly happy!
    I don't know what he said to make me realize it. But I needed that epiphany! You can't make someone be something they aren't within themselves.

  • @betsycampbell6127
    @betsycampbell6127 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +55

    There is nothing wrong with being alone, besides don't you like yourself...

    • @sandiespeaks4236
      @sandiespeaks4236 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      I like what you said 😊

    • @TheWindingRoad1991
      @TheWindingRoad1991 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      💯

    • @busisiwemfusi7914
      @busisiwemfusi7914 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      😂😂😂 I love myself so much sometimes to selfiness of sharing myself. I love that I can face myself and tell myself off if I'm not on the right track 😅

  • @averialfitzpatrick9160
    @averialfitzpatrick9160 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    I been lonely for a while and hate being alone , it's not anout a man.I was a caregiver for my mom and she passed a year and 3 months ago.Pray for me !

    • @msm3668
      @msm3668 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      God is blessing you, right now.

    • @sunnydayz6493
      @sunnydayz6493 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      🙏🏾🙏🏾

    • @averialfitzpatrick9160
      @averialfitzpatrick9160 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you all

    • @973shero9
      @973shero9 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      May God gives you the strenght to go throught this grief.

    • @prettiepagesofficial
      @prettiepagesofficial 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Praying for you sister 🫶🏾

  • @shanellraquel
    @shanellraquel 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +67

    “Your fears are prophetic”
    Pastor Blake’s , that hit me like no other .
    Thank you for sharing this message!
    Thank you for using your platform to promote, encourage and support women’s healthiness !

    • @jussjess2829
      @jussjess2829 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      That one sent me as well whew .

  • @darlindahairston199
    @darlindahairston199 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I am alone but not alone. Every room that I spend time in has a radio on my total Christian, no commercial network. So, my connection with my Heavenly Father is strong. We talk, laugh, cry like a real human is there. You cannot believe the things He has taught me. A never ending relationship.

  • @angelawhite7418
    @angelawhite7418 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    I love being alone.
    It truly has helped me to love myself and become closer to God. I have great friends and family. BUT. I. LOVE. MY. SOLITUDE.❤
    Thank you, Bishop!❤❤❤😊

  • @akpenguin1859
    @akpenguin1859 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I was in the best place in my life physically and spiritually in my early twenties. The man that I met and dated during that time was a narcissist who I spent the next four years trying to escape. This is why I don’t believe “you attract who you are”
    Or “be your best self and you’ll attract that” actually you could attract the opposite and just get taken advantage of and be left with less than you came in with😒

  • @virginiediaw6668
    @virginiediaw6668 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    As I always tell my soon to be ex husband after 32 years of marriage: the key to your happiness is in your hands not mines
    I hardly learned to respect myself take time for me, leave the house for 1 night by myself go to restaurant spa movie by myself
    Go to bed if I feel tired and stop being a slave to the entire household
    I believe A LINCOLN abolished slavery centenaries ago
    Gratitude ❤
    What RC is teaching here is very important we women do so much in silence we suffer so much and willing to do anything hoping someone will love us
    No no its the reverse you get love and respect when you pour into yourself
    Gratitude ❤

    • @lala5061
      @lala5061 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

      That's riiiiight 👏🏽 💯...I felt that in my soul...🙌🏽

  • @lindasmith6668
    @lindasmith6668 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I totally agree with you Pastor. I have been single for many years and been able to study and learn many new things. I am currently singing and learning to successfully play several instruments and to learn a foreign language. I believe the right man will come and I will have much to offer when that happens. I thank God the time God has given me time to develop and grow. Thank God. 😊

  • @ElishaLoweRN
    @ElishaLoweRN 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    You are truly doing God's work on this channel and undoing a great deal of damage done to and by countless women. Thank you.

  • @jussjess2829
    @jussjess2829 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    There is something so authentic about RC. I just love and respect his ministry. This message came right on time.. Amen.! Thank you pastor

  • @eeestabuuuni7790
    @eeestabuuuni7790 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    GOD KNOWS EXACTLY WHAT WE NEED ANS AND WHEN TO GIVE IT. THANK YOU FATHER. YOU ARE AWESOME IN ALL OF YOUR WAYS. I AM ETERNALLY GRATEFUL FOR YOUR LOVE & MERCY.

  • @ayelove1838
    @ayelove1838 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I was just complaining to myself that I can’t seem to find more time alone. I really love, I mean love my solitude. It’s like I find my strength, creativity, peace, power and so much more inside my own self.

  • @dianagentile7636
    @dianagentile7636 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Thank You 🙏🏽
    I have been serving “The Lord” Alone 4 Many years…He has given me Wisdom Strength Knowledge
    Self Sacrifice
    Teachings
    Compassion
    Faith & Healing ❤️‍🩹 Seen &
    Unseen Gifts‼️
    The Lord will Always First ☝🏽
    In My Life‼️
    ALL PRAISE HONOR & GLORY TO THE
    MOST HIGH‼️❤️🔥❤️

  • @eeestabuuuni7790
    @eeestabuuuni7790 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    I. CAN DO ALL THINGS THROUGH CHRIST WHO STRENGTHENS ME🙏🏾🎁⛲️💜🙋🏾‍♀️

  • @MsFitVegan
    @MsFitVegan 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    A healthy mind is always capable of finding the positive instead of the negative in EVERY situation. Preach 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼❤️

  • @Convofloist
    @Convofloist 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I'm not by myself, I'm to myself... Powerful!!!

  • @brittanybutler-lamar6450
    @brittanybutler-lamar6450 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    This must be confirmation from God because I've been feeling like I've been alone and I was depressed. But hearing this has made me thankful that God has called me to this phase in my life!! 🙏🙏🙏

  • @eeestabuuuni7790
    @eeestabuuuni7790 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    I AM COMFORTABLE BEING TO MYSELF 💜⛲️🎁🙏🏾

  • @yolondagoode9656
    @yolondagoode9656 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I hv been alone in a narcissistic abusive relationship 4 almost 20 yrs,now im set free,im in solitude,healing and soaking up the peace.

  • @zonebajones867
    @zonebajones867 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I feel so good alone. It’s a rediscovery of my real self… I do boxing classes, yoga, Pilates… I do the gym. I go out with my daughter. I pursue things I deeply desire to experience. I let go and realized my own error, my choices and self worth.

    • @kilab2243
      @kilab2243 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I love this!

    • @zonebajones867
      @zonebajones867 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@kilab2243yes. Of course I miss make companionship, but it’s not the end be all. In the meanwhile, I enjoy myself, my own company. It hasn’t always been easy, but I broke through my own limited perceptions and choices. I wish everyone health and love.

  • @heavenlee4126
    @heavenlee4126 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I'm going on year 4 of being alone. No dates or anything. I focus on my job, school and family.
    I was in an abusive Marriage. I wished for these moments of loneliness while going through that. The ability and freedom to go and get coffee without checking in. The ability to stop at target without asking for permission.

  • @healthinsuranceagent8921
    @healthinsuranceagent8921 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Those who are listening to you don't have a problem with your "long talking" Pastor...we love and appreciate you and all that God is saying to us through you. This message is confirmation for me that I'm right where I should be as a single and content woman; I just want to be closer and closer to God and to follow his directions for my life. I started listening to you about two years ago. Back then, I was in a relationship that I shouldn't be in but thank God for using you and this platform: that relationship is no longer and I'm just enjoying me and God and the work he's leading me to do. Thank you and Lisa so very much for all that you do...its changing lives for God's glory and for the spiritual health and wealth of those who are applying your teaching...not to mention, the lives that we will positively affect, starting with those nearest to us...we're breaking the cycle of broken families when our children can have Godly examples to emulate. I can go on and on.
    ...much love ❤ 💗 💓 ❤ Blessings on you and yours.

    • @suzannegendron9504
      @suzannegendron9504 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Wow. Very well said my sister. This ministry has impacted me also so very much.

  • @horgline
    @horgline 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I’m a 41, divorce, mom of Two and I am learning to truly enjoy Solitude in Christ. I’m learning so much. It’s extremely peaceful. The moment I truly surrendered to Christ, he finally got me to this place now where he always wanted me to be. He’s preparing me for something great, and Solitude is teaching me to fully Trust him. When you get to experience spending time with God, the Holy Spirit overwhelms you in such a warming, loving, caring way that if he takes it up 1 notch, you will burst. Solitude prepares you for Christ’s Showers of Blessing!!! 🙏🏽🔥

  • @BikiniBanana
    @BikiniBanana 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Just praise the Lord for keeping you away from toxic relationships while He sets you in solitude. See it as a protection and not as an isolation.

  • @dtanner70
    @dtanner70 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    No chips means she still cares about having you around ❤️🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @narvelacook8672
    @narvelacook8672 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Thank you RC, this podcast was so timely. My husband recently left me, being back in this world alone has not been an easy transition, but after listening to you this evening, I'm feeling extremely encouraged and excited about the beginning of a new chapter in my life.

  • @AnaReyes-yg7ry
    @AnaReyes-yg7ry 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    The most spiritual and personal growth I experienced in my 40+ years of life happened during my years of solitude.. This is so true! 😊

  • @ariellemonet9515
    @ariellemonet9515 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Everyone like the video here for the live 🙏🏾so we can help Bishop RC Blake's! ☺️ I am so blessed to have found the father figure I never had 💙 Even if he is only on lives and TH-cam 😂 I'm blessed to have found him. I'm in my 30s but I'm still holding out hope to meet my husband/soulmate ♥️ one day 🤗🙏🏾💪🏾😎

  • @kimberlyhardy7080
    @kimberlyhardy7080 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Blessing everyone. God is intentional and always on time. He gives us just what we need and when we need it family. ❤

  • @eeestabuuuni7790
    @eeestabuuuni7790 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    THIS IS THE MESSAGE MY SOUL TRULY DESIRE. GOD GIVES US THE DESIRE OF OUR HEART 🙏🏾🎁⛲️💜

  • @msm3668
    @msm3668 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Solitude; "It doesn't mean you're BY yourself; it means you're TO yourself." This is GOOD, Bishop, and very relatable.
    I'm also an 'extrovert' by necessity; very active in my church interacting with others in several capacities. However, I am an 'introvert' by nature having chosen to be single for many years until my Boaz found me.
    During the long period I had the pleasure of growing myself, I learned to wait on the Lord, love on and educate myself in becoming the best version of myself, and to be content in whatever state life presents itself to ME.
    My mind is healthy and beautiful. This is who I am...a 'Love Goddess' within my own mind.
    I attracted my Boaz being what became 'The Natural ME' having 'rediscovered my inner strength in my season of solitude.'
    This was so confirming that 'I DID ME' the RIGHT way. 😊 Thanks, Bishop!
    Hahaha! Bishop, I loved: "The cup is empty."

    • @tracyannpatterson8928
      @tracyannpatterson8928 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thanks for sharing your journey.

    • @msm3668
      @msm3668 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@tracyannpatterson8928
      You're so welcome. 😊

  • @newaveride3396
    @newaveride3396 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Pastor. I’ve listened to you for years and never so much as commented on a single video. So here goes:
    I’ve been in my marriage for 21 1/2 years. When I turned 40 I decided to introspect for a year. After the year was over I decided what my calling truly was.
    1. I built community centers which offers free services for children and families.
    2. I created a black chamber of commerce.
    3. I went into the prisons and retrieved young black boys and redirected their lives.
    4. I’ve been recognized by congress and the White House for my achievements.
    The entire time I was in an abusive marriage. 7 years later I decided to leave my marriage and file for divorce. There is no elevation without separation🙏🏽

  • @danii2661
    @danii2661 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    WOW! Hearing about the loss of your church and Lisa's strength in that time was profound! Thank you for sharing. I am sorry for your loss. God always gives back what you have lost!

  • @yiyamarie8249
    @yiyamarie8249 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    LISTEN, I really like Pastor Rc & Lisa Blakes, a-lot of women these days need to hear this. They don’t have this guidance in their life. This is why I’m grateful, When I got hurt. They changed the trajectory of my life & I’m sure a lot of other women can say the same. Grateful for you and your wife ❤️

  • @ivycooper7224
    @ivycooper7224 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I live with my sisters and I’m single but I rather be in solitude because I was in relationships with the wrong men and I chose the wrong men and now I have to truly work on myself 🙏🏾

  • @JayJay-ow3hk
    @JayJay-ow3hk 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Thank you for this Bishop. I've been alone for the past four years now and just loving it. Just re-diiscovering me and finding my Joy.

    • @candacesmith5572
      @candacesmith5572 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Same here 5 yrs and counting. Discovering what it is to truly live and love.

  • @queencrissy5980
    @queencrissy5980 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Praise God I found beauty in my solitude about a year or two ago. I understood alone allowed me to prepare myself for what I really wanted. Ever since those things that I want is attracted to me.

  • @connievelez5478
    @connievelez5478 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Thank you, Bishop
    I have been widowed now five years. I have been really discovering who I am, and I have done that in solitude.
    I really like me and have taken years of trauma off my life. I would never have seen what toil it took on me if I did not set myself aside for just God and I and some great therapists and channels like yours to be able to experience this freedom. I desire even more areas in my life healed. Thank you for this healing ministry. I wish everyone would find your channel.

  • @tonya6947
    @tonya6947 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I'm not necessary by myself, I'm to myself- Solitude.. Best Version of me= Self discovery :) Thank you, @RCBlakesJr.

  • @amyt7378
    @amyt7378 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you so much for this. I’m 45 and feel the lies of the world so much! ♥️♥️ I have to keep relying on Christ 🙏♥️

  • @johnniegriffin8373
    @johnniegriffin8373 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Embracing my season of solitude!! This message blessed my soul..❤ 58:11

  • @eeestabuuuni7790
    @eeestabuuuni7790 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    I'VE RE-DISCOVERED MY STRENGTH IN MY SOLITUDE.💜⛲️🎁🙏🏾

  • @nosiphiwonkowanethu2657
    @nosiphiwonkowanethu2657 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I have been in solitude mode most of the year and I dont know how much more self love and discovery there is. I pray God gives me patience and diligence to gracefully embrace this season as long as it needs.

  • @serethasanders4572
    @serethasanders4572 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This subject is confirmation...😮I'm embracing my solitude time. It's ok and I'm learning me more and feeling closer to myself so I can spend time with God. Being a single senior you continue to grow more wisdom.

  • @lynnlamont8942
    @lynnlamont8942 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I like that . In solitude teaches me to rely on God🙏🏽💯

  • @hiwathabroaden7783
    @hiwathabroaden7783 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I thank God for my solitude my peace and blessings for my life I have learned to grow spiritual growth and focus on my life

  • @cassondrad2280
    @cassondrad2280 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I'm an introvert as well. I can sit indoors by myself for days, I have to force myself to get out and go to the store, try to interact with others. My job, I have to be an extrovert, I have a very taxing job, people pull from you that's probably why I enjoy my solitude.

  • @shannonlivingston8109
    @shannonlivingston8109 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I absolutely cherish my peace and solitude. I’ve been a widow for over 10 years and in this time I have grown emotionally and spiritually. I’ve gotten reacquainted with me, the bright side and the shadow side. I have improved my financial forecast, I work out regularly and I just really genuinely enjoy my own company!!! I am so grateful for this season in my life. I look forward and work toward greater expansion, higher spiritual ascension and deeper connections with The Most High, my Self, people, nature and the Universe all around me during this gift of solitude💖

  • @avisyarbrough5627
    @avisyarbrough5627 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    God bless you and your wife Pastor Blakes. I’ve been bingeing on your lessons and taking notes going on 2 weeks now. Like most I wish I had this kind of teaching growing up and a true father figure to look up to. Blessings ❤

  • @jacquelinejackson5559
    @jacquelinejackson5559 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    This came right on time!! Thank you Father God!!!

  • @spiritualwordstoencouragea7953
    @spiritualwordstoencouragea7953 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Father God, please keep using Pastor Blakes in heavy ways. Advance him even more in all he is called to do. Hide him in the shadow of Your wings along with his wife Lisa, their families, ministries etc.❤

  • @schlindaflynn8854
    @schlindaflynn8854 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I'm 52 years young and never had a earthly father so I thank you very much

  • @ChristinaDenae
    @ChristinaDenae 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    This is the season of “to myself” !!!!!! Yes 🙌🏾 Enjoying it because I’m enjoying me!!! Total contentment thanks be to GOD!!
    ❤A relationship should be tonic not toxic🙌🏾
    ❤Moving away from the fear of being alone and become grateful for being present🙌🏾
    Definitely love this!!!
    This is a golden episode!! So so good and blessed me surely ❤

  • @CPRMoralLeadershipCoaching
    @CPRMoralLeadershipCoaching 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    7 yrs single, now ready to do what says the Most High whether relationship or single ministry

  • @loushaydavis464
    @loushaydavis464 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I am to myself. Learning to keep all my love and loyalty to God. After experiences, being mindful of relationships Friendships etc . Grateful. Staying positive

  • @jent9398
    @jent9398 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you. Amazing preaching. I'm 54 embracing singleness. and blessed.

  • @Childfree_Jerra
    @Childfree_Jerra 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I love this message!! Especially when you said, “I’m not by myself, I’m TO myself.”💯💯💯

  • @Ctyt23
    @Ctyt23 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I’ve been in solitude for two years now & being an introvert I find it peaceful although I am waiting for GOD to deliver my husband.
    I’ve grown so much by blocking everyone out. It’s given me focus and so many ideas for self sustainability since i chose to detach from people.

  • @damiagraham2353
    @damiagraham2353 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I’m not by myself, I am to myself ❤

  • @magneticfavor9500
    @magneticfavor9500 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I truly appreciate this word 🧘🏽‍♀️ I'm not by myself, I'm to myself 🧘🏽‍♀️🙌🏽

  • @violam.robertson610
    @violam.robertson610 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Thank you Lord this message is surely on time . To myself not lonely not singleness but solitude ❤🙏🏾💪🏾

  • @kitaevans8686
    @kitaevans8686 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    You're not by yourself you to yourself love it!🙌

  • @SageD-nv3qq
    @SageD-nv3qq หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you RC Blakes. Moved to a new location by myself. Family left, friends left, no partner. Lots of fears and tears, but Ive re-discovered my strength

  • @madam2phat
    @madam2phat 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I love the moment when you laughed after you said you're ok without any human interaction outside of LiLi. Its like another level of transparency.. that was such a genuine statement straight from the heart❤. The proclamation can NOT be denied🥰🥰
    GOD I dont want a copy of this man because he has already been spoken for. However, I pray you send me one of his stature.
    Laying it down by your feet and walking away because I BELIEVE it is DONE! AMEN.

  • @grateful1010
    @grateful1010 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Solitude in singleness is beautiful ❤️🙏🏽😊 God keep working in, on, through, and all around me!!! 🎉🎉🎉

  • @loisthomas5465
    @loisthomas5465 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Good evening Bishop, First Lady Lisa, and family. A pleasant evening to all of you. ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @kimwilliams3077
    @kimwilliams3077 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Going through a divorce after a 17 year emotionally and narcissistic abusive marriage. I feel like I’ve been alone this whole time; I’ve mastered it. Needing grace to be alone to heal and not cave to the temptation to relieve the loneliness.

  • @toniwilliams9817
    @toniwilliams9817 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I have much more peace when I'm in solitude. People can really drain you.