Exactly. My ex was rough around the edges. But he helped me grow as a person. He ultimately brought me into being a more natural adventurous person. A body person. He was smart, interesting. We clicked. It didn't last forever. But I relied on his ability to negotiate the circumstances where we found ourselves.
He did, and the thing is: what he's saying is really just common sense but most wimp men don't get that a woman has NO ROOM to be feminine if she has to "get it out the mud herself" and had to do it alone. What else can she do- go under? She has to survive . This Chris GQ Perry is sharper than any marriage therapist. He's brilliant.
At least he understands how and why majority of the women today adapted and transformed into what is called masculine,Its called survival. If the man can’t be the king of his castle then the queen has no other choice. Smart man!
Good point sometimes Queens are leaders too you can't be feminine in the hood because men yank women into cars around here. One minutes there calling us 304s for dressing like women and the next minute we're too masculine just because our job requires women to wear pants to work. They really need to stop harassing women there's no consequence for them anymore.. sometimes they leech off there mothers in her old age too.
You’re seriously the first man I’ve seen talking about these issues with even a shred of empathy towards women. In fact, it seems like you genuinely love women and not hate them. The vitriol, contempt, and judgement towards women in these spaces on the internet these days is nothing short of exhausting. Thank you for being kind and understanding ❤
He's spitting facts even if he said it in an automated voice without emotion. His statements are factual bc males will accuse him of being a "simp" or a "pu***** bc of what he is saying like he's being biased towards women.
I felt my heart cry with relief and grief hearing these words. I feel so exhausted being forced to act in my masculine energy on the regular - it feels perverse.
Oh, it is perverse. And it does become on the regular. But only a woman in the same life will get you. I have women married for 40 years to decent men telling me I'm not looking in the right places, I'm not showing interest. I'm exhausted waiting for the next inflated car insurance bill, robbing from Peter to pay Paul. I have to watch how much I spend at the Dollar Tree. Seriously. I monitor my aluminum foil, trying not to waste tissues (I tear them in half.) I don't use the paid laundry unless I have a full load. I monitor my meals. Don't splurge except maybe a dessert item occasionally. And I have some fool in my face being crazy. I'm exhausted. I have to fight for every single thing I have, and no man is sitting me down. I got zero after divorce because my (wealthy) husband had every angle nailed down and had friends he literally paid to make sure I got not one penny. My mantra is: I don't explain myself to anyone who doesn't pay my bills.". So many men think I am single so I live on nothing. These men think you should be gorgeous, loving, young, serve them AND bring home the money. How can any feminine energy be there, we're tired and angry. They need to STEP UP.
That is so true. You just described me to the core. I’ve been through way too much and always have no one to lean on. I’d rather alone than be alone with someone else. Absolutely not.
Feel you on this one day they are tie everything the next they are a stranger it’s hard to let go of the feelings you hold for them. I know I’ve been there. Even if you have the support of your family you do get lonely going home alone to an empty house 😢 but once you heal you just get on with it.
Good sir I’ve been listening and hearing your words…. From the bottom of my heart thank you for taking the time to learn, love, respect, and enjoy what a woman is. Thank you
As a 51 year old, single, independent woman, who’s been a professional over the road truck driver for 23 years and spent two decades, nurturing a marriage only to watch the love fade away. I would like to confirm to you that you nailed it. Nailed it! I am independent, I do not need a man, but it is one of my greatest hopes that one day I find a man that I not only love, but that I trust and respect enough to hand over the reins and defer to his wisdom. Knowing that if he ever makes a selfish decision, it’s because doing what’s best for for me is what’s best for him, for us. I could relax I could be more carefree. I would much rather have that, instead of my pride, and my ego and my bragging rights about how I whipped my man into shape. And because I didn’t dominate him, I am still insanely sexually attracted. And there you have it, essentially you described me to a T!! Wise words from such a young man. Keep speaking the truth, I’ve got a few truths I wouldn’t mind putting out there myself. I wish you excellent health.
Laura ❤ my dearest one, I know this one ❤❤ Being myself there ❤❤❤ Wishing you to stay yourself, sweetestheart ❤ Right and self-aware ❤ That man who is essentially a man will find you very soon ❤❤
Beautifully said… I have well over a decade on you and I knew in my twenties that unless I found a truly spiritually hearted man, I would be alone; many failed attempts at relationships. And the last one I help out hope for … 😢 I learned my greatest lesson from this last connection. Do NOT play small because someone else is afraid or chooses not to grow. See it earlier, catch the red flags and move on before you allow anyone near your heart❤ I still have Hope.
I cried at the let down by people she loved part, unfortunately not many men understand how a woman’s heart works. I have been told my hormones are bad and that I’m masculine but I am screaming on the inside for someone to love me and understand me💔
@@superme6493why you find it necessary to speak cruel, or ugly words to a woman you don’t even personally know, and have no idea of her true story…is beyond me. Men like you are the exact reason why women have shut down, and closed off, towards even attempting to openly trust a man in today’s society. I think you need to check your motives, as to why you find it ok to be this way- especially to a total stranger. Good luck.
All your messages come so in time. I really thought I am one of the rare ones feeling like this. But it seems to be everywhere these days. Thank you so much for all the support that you give to the women these days. Big hugs.
Your calm voice just adds to it thank you you expressed my feelings exactly I rejoiced while listening you persuaded me not to lose hope on all the soft men
😮Can't EvenBelieve THAT a Guy like this, with his mind, humbled ego, and $taunch Divine Intelligence Even Exists, Ever❗#BewilderinglyPhenom #BeautyfullandBlessed
Nailed it. Sharp. That is exactly how i feel. Even though i Love my feminine Soul to the core, experience thaught me the hard way> to survive in your own you need to toughen Up & be prepared for the worst & unexpected. .so far, it seems necessary in Order to survive in your own, in a Tank full of shallow sharks & selfobservedtigers, pretending to be Kittens.
What you are doing is so outstanding. I appreciate absolute truth. So powerful. Coming from up above no doubt. You are breaking so much barriers. So beautiful and Humble.
I absolutely love your videos!! Thank for being one of the few men left who want to treat women the right way…it’s a different time and a different world no one has time to deal with heartbreak after heartbreak I would rather be alone… ❤
Thank you so much Chris, I really appreciate how loving and respectful you are of women and our experiences when discussing these matters and you’re 💯💯💯 right
AMEN! Listen every woman is feminine it just depends on whom will bring that out of her. Now we do things ourselves because a majority of the time we have no choice but it’s true that energy is always there it’s why when we’re around children we’re so loving so caring passionate sensitive etc.. they bring it out of us the right man will i truly believe that … I said what I said
Would you be interested in a man who on weekends wore dresses and high heels and acted feminine because you didn’t bring his masculinity out of him Of course you would not
Most women have had to wear the "dress and the pants" in a relationship. She's been showed time & again that most men cannot be trusted or depended on for nothing. She's had to take on a masculine role in order to survive.
Add it's not safe being around males. Males as demonstrated in the comments display a dismissal and apathy of a woman's perspective but women are expected to want and endure a relationship with a person that constantly dehumanizes them.
@@christinephilcox3872 these men are lying to women and y'all don't even realize the bs. They just cater to y'all to get more women. Derrick Jaxson's wife said he cheated on her with over 100 women and I believe all women so I guess it's true
Oh lawd this 100% true. I have had guys say I'm too tough at times. I honestly don't mean to be but you've helped me understand myself today. I was only able to verbally " I don't trust you" to a man but really I acted out how I truly felt about the present and passed hurt with my actions aka masculinity. Ty so much for verbalizing what I was not able to say..ty
This man knows nothing! This guy is a female sympathizer who overlooks her b s. What are you talking about??? I will tell you something else....this guy here YOU....WILL NEVER CHOOSE!
This guy is a grifter, along the lines of Derrick Jaxson. The advice will only perpetuate current terrible behavior in most modern women. This falls under “conditional femininity,” that does not work. If you act like a dude, most men will always see you this way. Don’t fall for this behavior, be a woman.
You really are so 'right on' about so much concerning women! Where did you get so much wisdom at such a young age that other men haven't any idea about?
This is the truth!I’ve been in relationships where i have been In masculine energy and very few where I operated in my feminine energy. I absolutely love to operate in my feminine energy in relationships. We were created to be in the feminine ❤.
Thank you so much for understanding this and saying it out loud. So many modern-day men don’t understand this. In my previous relationship, I was expected to fulfill more of the masculine role from bigger things to smaller things, while at the same time, simulate the energy and joy of a woman who gets to live full-time in a traditionally feminine role… without getting drained. It was exhausting. It’s been over a year since it ended, and I’m still trying to heal 😔
I started crying when I heard this man damn it's such a perfect explanation of my current situation thank God for connecting me through this lovely msg thank u sir for posting this❤❤
I have listen to a few sessions from this guy and WOW He needs to educate the rest of the world His Mama and Papa would be so proud Got an older brother Pure just so pure So proud of him and don’t even know him but he knows life love and women ❤
My old man, bless his soul, is the reason I stay independent regardless if I have a partner or not. I don't rely on my partner to bring something to the table, I can fix my own cars, do building work to keeping my home clean. I was taught I have to want my man and I want him for his kindness, his silliness, his comforting, his intelligence and more. Not need him because he has something to bring to the table and to make me feel "safe". I think more woman need to realise expanding their skills and knowledge is more important than anything else.
You're absolutely right. People develop super egos as a defense mechanism for the pain that they've suffered. Unfortunately it becomes a personality overlay that they don't generally get away from. Kudos to you
I had femenine energy till 27 years old, after that I decided to change my personality, style and being... when I was young I was the dumb naive, innocent girl, introverted and delicate... and people abused me, bullied me, beated me, raped me... I resolved to became narcissistic, insensitive, bitter and independent
There you have it, men. That fellow member of the brotherhood who dropped that quick agreement, join's wholeheartedly with Chris in calling you out. Excellent!
THIS IS A GENTLE MAN WHO KNOWS HOW TO TREAT WOMEN AND HOW WOMEN FEELS WOW.I THOUGHT THEY ARE DEAD BUT THERE IS STILL HOPE FOR MANHOOD.MANS OUT THERE!!!LEARN FROM THIS MAN!!!
As a Licensed Master Social Worker, you are absolutely correct sir! You have wisdom beyond your years. ❤ Many ladies out here need to hear what you have to say.
You are an important part of my life I need you daily to remind me to not settle and that there are men like you out there and to keep searching with an open heart.
Because this is about 99.99% of all Black women that's why. And people hate us for it...the angry Black woman stereotype exists because no one cares to see us
You actually brought tears to my eyes, very accurate on everything you have said!! But I am independent and I am just making a peaceful life for myself❤❤❤
Ladies, drop a 💯 and #share if you agree!
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Does that mean "she" is emotionally unavailable?
❤👍👍
100!!!
Exactly. My ex was rough around the edges. But he helped me grow as a person. He ultimately brought me into being a more natural adventurous person. A body person. He was smart, interesting. We clicked. It didn't last forever. But I relied on his ability to negotiate the circumstances where we found ourselves.
This man made me cry with the truth he said it better than any preacher
Same.
I have never heard this stated so clearly before..
ThIs guy must be a woman In dIsguIse Because How can he know these thIngs about us
😢 this is me 😭😭😭😭
He did, and the thing is: what he's saying is really just common sense but most wimp men don't get that a woman has NO ROOM to be feminine if she has to "get it out the mud herself" and had to do it alone. What else can she do- go under? She has to survive . This Chris GQ Perry is sharper than any marriage therapist. He's brilliant.
At least he understands how and why majority of the women today adapted and transformed into what is called masculine,Its called survival. If the man can’t be the king of his castle then the queen has no other choice. Smart man!
Well said.
Good point sometimes Queens are leaders too you can't be feminine in the hood because men yank women into cars around here. One minutes there calling us 304s for dressing like women and the next minute we're too masculine just because our job requires women to wear pants to work. They really need to stop harassing women there's no consequence for them anymore.. sometimes they leech off there mothers in her old age too.
Men do not care ain’t no man dealing with all that masculine energy might as well get you a soft feminine boy
You’re seriously the first man I’ve seen talking about these issues with even a shred of empathy towards women. In fact, it seems like you genuinely love women and not hate them. The vitriol, contempt, and judgement towards women in these spaces on the internet these days is nothing short of exhausting. Thank you for being kind and understanding ❤
Yep
He's spitting facts even if he said it in an automated voice without emotion. His statements are factual bc males will accuse him of being a "simp" or a "pu***** bc of what he is saying like he's being biased towards women.
It IS exhausting. Unfair. Cruel
Man you're real man!+ Where's your degree from? You're a genius
You described my Mommy exactly. She survived domestic violence and she never feels safe anymore.
THIS BROTHER IS PHENOMENAL ❤ MAY THE LORD BLESS YOU YOUR WIFE AND YOUR PARENTS WHAT A WONDERFUL GROWN MAN.....
I felt my heart cry with relief and grief hearing these words. I feel so exhausted being forced to act in my masculine energy on the regular - it feels perverse.
I've been living just like that since I got divorced 8 years ago.
Men come and go.. I'm exhausted from giving my time, trust and love.
Oh, it is perverse. And it does become on the regular. But only a woman in the same life will get you. I have women married for 40 years to decent men telling me I'm not looking in the right places, I'm not showing interest. I'm exhausted waiting for the next inflated car insurance bill, robbing from Peter to pay Paul. I have to watch how much I spend at the Dollar Tree. Seriously. I monitor my aluminum foil, trying not to waste tissues (I tear them in half.) I don't use the paid laundry unless I have a full load. I monitor my meals. Don't splurge except maybe a dessert item occasionally. And I have some fool in my face being crazy. I'm exhausted. I have to fight for every single thing I have, and no man is sitting me down. I got zero after divorce because my (wealthy) husband had every angle nailed down and had friends he literally paid to make sure I got not one penny. My mantra is: I don't explain myself to anyone who doesn't pay my bills.". So many men think I am single so I live on nothing. These men think you should be gorgeous, loving, young, serve them AND bring home the money. How can any feminine energy be there, we're tired and angry. They need to STEP UP.
❤
You make a person want to cry. It's like , finally someone understands us❤
😢 true
Yes he’s right 😢
That is so true. You just described me to the core. I’ve been through way too much and always have no one to lean on. I’d rather alone than be alone with someone else. Absolutely not.
Feel you on this one day they are tie everything the next they are a stranger it’s hard to let go of the feelings you hold for them. I know I’ve been there. Even if you have the support of your family you do get lonely going home alone to an empty house 😢 but once you heal you just get on with it.
So much truth here so much truth! He brings tears to my eyes! Praise God!♥️♥️♥️
Good sir I’ve been listening and hearing your words…. From the bottom of my heart thank you for taking the time to learn, love, respect, and enjoy what a woman is. Thank you
As a 51 year old, single, independent woman, who’s been a professional over the road truck driver for 23 years and spent two decades, nurturing a marriage only to watch the love fade away. I would like to confirm to you that you nailed it. Nailed it! I am independent, I do not need a man, but it is one of my greatest hopes that one day I find a man that I not only love, but that I trust and respect enough to hand over the reins and defer to his wisdom. Knowing that if he ever makes a selfish decision, it’s because doing what’s best for for me is what’s best for him, for us. I could relax I could be more carefree. I would much rather have that, instead of my pride, and my ego and my bragging rights about how I whipped my man into shape. And because I didn’t dominate him, I am still insanely sexually attracted. And there you have it, essentially you described me to a T!! Wise words from such a young man. Keep speaking the truth, I’ve got a few truths I wouldn’t mind putting out there myself. I wish you excellent health.
Wow sister what must I do to be a independent medical courier I have a truck[ Ford explorer truck
Laura ❤ my dearest one, I know this one ❤❤ Being myself there ❤❤❤
Wishing you to stay yourself, sweetestheart ❤
Right and self-aware ❤
That man who is essentially a man will find you very soon ❤❤
❤ exactly my sentiments too
Beautifully said… I have well over a decade on you and I knew in my twenties that unless I found a truly spiritually hearted man, I would be alone; many failed attempts at relationships. And the last one I help out hope for … 😢
I learned my greatest lesson from this last connection.
Do NOT play small because someone else is afraid or chooses not to grow. See it earlier, catch the red flags and move on before you allow anyone near your heart❤
I still have Hope.
I've watched a lot of your videos and I'm Shocked how much you understand. No matter what woman you get with they will be truly lucky to have you.
You are so right sir, defense mechanism as a single mom, no one takes time to understand
Facts
where the daddy at tho? 😆
being a single mom doesn't just happen
Jose P, My ex husband doesn't want his son, my ex husband hit me when we separated, we are divorced
@@youareloved8274you let him
Hit it raw , you didn’t have second thoughts now you a single mom
Absolutely 💯 no one is ever there for me but I'm always there for everyone
I cried when I heard this. 😢❤❤❤ God Bless You!!!
Me too 😢❤ So true
I cried at the let down by people she loved part, unfortunately not many men understand how a woman’s heart works. I have been told my hormones are bad and that I’m masculine but I am screaming on the inside for someone to love me and understand me💔
gabii cervantes you should cry about all the people you let down
@@superme6493 I’m sure you are a very nice person shows in your comment how much you understand woman congratulations you prove my point
@@superme6493why you find it necessary to speak cruel, or ugly words to a woman you don’t even personally know, and have no idea of her true story…is beyond me. Men like you are the exact reason why women have shut down, and closed off, towards even attempting to openly trust a man in today’s society. I think you need to check your motives, as to why you find it ok to be this way- especially to a total stranger. Good luck.
Glad I'm not the only one brought to tears by his words...
Daaaaaammmmm... you're SOOOOOO right your so aware and raised right..what u said I exactly CORRECT 💯💯 💯.
He said it All, no lies. 💯
All your messages come so in time. I really thought I am one of the rare ones feeling like this. But it seems to be everywhere these days. Thank you so much for all the support that you give to the women these days. Big hugs.
Your calm voice just adds to it thank you you expressed my feelings exactly I rejoiced while listening you persuaded me not to lose hope on all the soft men
💯💯💯 that's exactly what's going on, smh. You're 1 in a million. Can't even believe you said it. Thank you
😮Can't EvenBelieve THAT a Guy like this, with his mind, humbled ego, and $taunch Divine Intelligence Even Exists, Ever❗#BewilderinglyPhenom #BeautyfullandBlessed
🎉❤️👍🏽🥰⬆️ He's Wonderful With Extreme Brilliance ❣️💯
Nailed it. Sharp. That is exactly how i feel. Even though i Love my feminine Soul to the core, experience thaught me the hard way> to survive in your own you need to toughen Up & be prepared for the worst & unexpected. .so far, it seems necessary in Order to survive in your own, in a Tank full of shallow sharks & selfobservedtigers, pretending to be Kittens.
What you are doing is so outstanding. I appreciate absolute truth. So powerful. Coming from up above no doubt. You are breaking so much barriers. So beautiful and Humble.
I absolutely love your videos!! Thank for being one of the few men left who want to treat women the right way…it’s a different time and a different world no one has time to deal with heartbreak after heartbreak I would rather be alone… ❤
You just gave me goosebumps you are so knowledgeable you have to be a man of God
Thank you so much Chris, I really appreciate how loving and respectful you are of women and our experiences when discussing these matters and you’re 💯💯💯 right
AMEN! Listen every woman is feminine it just depends on whom will bring that out of her. Now we do things ourselves because a majority of the time we have no choice but it’s true that energy is always there it’s why when we’re around children we’re so loving so caring passionate sensitive etc.. they bring it out of us the right man will i truly believe that … I said what I said
Would you be interested in a man who on weekends wore dresses and high heels and acted feminine because you didn’t bring his masculinity out of him
Of course you would not
Exactly 💯
@@woodswalker2919So why does he have to dress like a woman? Just to be emotional and understanding.😂
@@memoment431 you don’t even get the point
@woodswalker2919 Yes, I do, however, brainwashed types like you 2919, don't like it when other individuals don't agree.
This is so very, very true. Thank you for spreading this message. Men need to hear this.
Amen brother preach it. U talkin directly to me. Wat I'm n and going through is wat u saying. God gonna heal me 4rom all my aches n painz.
This man knows truth!! Keep sharing brother! ❤
Oh man you speak in my behalf the real thing yes that's true 😩😭
Most women have had to wear the "dress and the pants" in a relationship. She's been showed time & again that most men cannot be trusted or depended on for nothing. She's had to take on a masculine role in order to survive.
No woman ever has to wear the pants because she can still wear her dress, be feminine and handle her business.
roses 4me or time and time again you are not able to choose the right men, time and time again ,how many dudes have you been with by now lol
@@heirtothethrone000I wear trousers because I want to, not interested in other's and how they view it.
I wear a skirt because sometimes I almost pee my pants. This is an "older feminine woman" problem. 🤣
Add it's not safe being around males. Males as demonstrated in the comments display a dismissal and apathy of a woman's perspective but women are expected to want and endure a relationship with a person that constantly dehumanizes them.
I am sending you the deepest most heartfelt gratitude that I have felt for such a long time! Thank you to a true masculine!
My,my,my.....Well, spoken.😇🙏🧚🙂🌼💯
but wrong
@@A1Bokeh “The way of a fool is right in his own eyes: but he that hearkeneth unto counsel is wise.” Proverbs 12:15
This is actually very healing for me. I love how eloquent he said this. It’s so true. Women will test you a million times before she trusts you.
I wish we could clone you. Every word you speak is insightful and accurate. ❤❤❤
he does have a clone derrick jackson
Love him, toooo!!@ 😊
@@christinephilcox3872 lol ya the guy who was cheating on his wife. Smart
@@christinephilcox3872 these men are lying to women and y'all don't even realize the bs. They just cater to y'all to get more women. Derrick Jaxson's wife said he cheated on her with over 100 women and I believe all women so I guess it's true
May Allah guide you to great islam
Listening to a man speak so succinctly to how women actually are is absolutely profound!! ❤❤
Oh lawd this 100% true. I have had guys say I'm too tough at times. I honestly don't mean to be but you've helped me understand myself today. I was only able to verbally " I don't trust you" to a man but really I acted out how I truly felt about the present and passed hurt with my actions aka masculinity. Ty so much for verbalizing what I was not able to say..ty
This guy has seen the light, God bless you young man. God want him to enlighten us women. Wanda
A man who knows what he's talking about
He was the type of male who did that too to other women.
This man knows nothing! This guy is a female sympathizer who overlooks her b s. What are you talking about??? I will tell you something else....this guy here YOU....WILL NEVER CHOOSE!
Facts❤
@@ektasharma3520well it seems he learned a lot in the process
This guy is a grifter, along the lines of Derrick Jaxson. The advice will only perpetuate current terrible behavior in most modern women. This falls under “conditional femininity,” that does not work. If you act like a dude, most men will always see you this way. Don’t fall for this behavior, be a woman.
You really are so 'right on' about so much concerning women! Where did you get so much wisdom at such a young age that other men haven't any idea about?
Amen… finally someone that understands why a woman lk me stays in her masculine energy. Maybe one day I’ll find the man to let my guard down💜
This is the truth!I’ve been in relationships where i have been In masculine energy and very few where I operated in my feminine energy. I absolutely love to operate in my feminine energy in relationships. We were created to be in the feminine ❤.
You are such a wize young man. I'm proud you are putting out the truths you drop. Keep it up. People are listening ❤
Exactly. You are so wright. Amen. Thank God for you brother.
Absolutely preach brother that's the absolute truth 💯
This guy really gets women, I swear everything I hear him say 🙌
❤❤❤ his words hit so hard. God Bless him.
Thank you so much for understanding this and saying it out loud.
So many modern-day men don’t understand this.
In my previous relationship, I was expected to fulfill more of the masculine role from bigger things to smaller things, while at the same time, simulate the energy and joy of a woman who gets to live full-time in a traditionally feminine role… without getting drained.
It was exhausting. It’s been over a year since it ended, and I’m still trying to heal 😔
Cant be more correct
I started crying when I heard this man damn it's such a perfect explanation of my current situation thank God for connecting me through this lovely msg thank u sir for posting this❤❤
The lord has a light glowing on this young man. If only all men of all ages listens to him. Relationships will be secure❤. Keep thriving!
Thank you Chris for echoing my thoughts so rightly. Taking on both energy is simply protective mechanism or defence mode.
Stay blessed 🙏
You have wisdom that is way beyond your years. You must be speaking from the spirit. Thank you for sharing these insights!
I have listen to a few sessions from this guy and WOW
He needs to educate the rest of the world
His Mama and Papa would be so proud
Got an older brother
Pure just so pure
So proud of him and don’t even know him but he knows life love and women ❤
Amen a true gentleman
I have NEVER heard this before. Astounded. You nailed it! You are insightful young man. Thank you!
Thank you for saying this
And....there it is.
Finally said acurately and so plainly, nk one can confuse what he means.
This IS the truth.
Thank You Mr. Chris.😊😊😊❤
So true
Jesus is that man for me now.
Healing my soul now that I'm older
💯 brother
I've had to be my own protector.
I've never had a man stand up for me.
My old man, bless his soul, is the reason I stay independent regardless if I have a partner or not. I don't rely on my partner to bring something to the table, I can fix my own cars, do building work to keeping my home clean. I was taught I have to want my man and I want him for his kindness, his silliness, his comforting, his intelligence and more. Not need him because he has something to bring to the table and to make me feel "safe". I think more woman need to realise expanding their skills and knowledge is more important than anything else.
Wisdom
This instantly brought tears to my eyes.. without any warning before.. i was judt fine n just hearing these words brought that reaction out of me.
Again right on point. Wiseman.❤
Chris, you must’ve had an amazing mother or grandmother to share such wisdom. Or your divine feminine side is speaking to us. Thank you 🙏❤️🙏
You're absolutely right. People develop super egos as a defense mechanism for the pain that they've suffered. Unfortunately it becomes a personality overlay that they don't generally get away from. Kudos to you
I have watched this guy tonight for the first time what he's saying is so on point I love him!!!
The fact that you take the time to actually understand what women want is a breath of fresh air. I’m tired of all these toxic men.
Needed to see this today. Always look at the other side of the coin before choosing your next move..
Bless you for yr kind words my blessed black brotha
I can't help but wonder where he gained all of his wisdom.
And I hope he knows just how many people's lives he's touching by sharing what he does.
I'm moved by someone explaining me so well.
konversationswithkim don't use this to have a shiti attitude
So true. I do this all of the time to protect myself. I"m always trudging through the mud... this made me sob like a child.
I had femenine energy till 27 years old, after that I decided to change my personality, style and being... when I was young I was the dumb naive, innocent girl, introverted and delicate... and people abused me, bullied me, beated me, raped me... I resolved to became narcissistic, insensitive, bitter and independent
Absolutely true!
I have not ever yet met a man who has made me feel safe nor has offered to provide for me.
As a man I agree with him 100 percent.
There you have it, men. That fellow member of the brotherhood who dropped that quick agreement, join's wholeheartedly with Chris in calling you out.
Excellent!
THIS YOUNG MAN TEACH AND PREACH HE DEFINITELY KNOWS HE IS VERY ENLIGHTENING
THIS IS A GENTLE MAN WHO KNOWS HOW TO TREAT WOMEN AND HOW WOMEN FEELS WOW.I THOUGHT THEY ARE DEAD BUT THERE IS STILL HOPE FOR MANHOOD.MANS OUT THERE!!!LEARN FROM THIS MAN!!!
As a Licensed Master Social Worker, you are absolutely correct sir! You have wisdom beyond your years. ❤
Many ladies out here need to hear what you have to say.
Now that is so 100% percent true!
Every word spoken is accurate.. thank you for understanding and spreading the word♥️🙏🏻
Speak it!! Wish more men could comprehend this!!
This king just dont know how many hearts he reached. Thank you for understanding 🙏 May you prosper with a Queen who truly honors you 🌺🌷🌈🌻
We need more men like u
You are an important part of my life I need you daily to remind me to not settle and that there are men like you out there and to keep searching with an open heart.
Yeeeeeessss bro 🎉 with the wisdom you’re spouting you will have a blessed, happy and long marriage with the right woman🎉
After the first 2 line I immediately started to cry... I felt this in my soul..
Flowers to you , for knowing the inside of
women. Many thanks.sign a black woman
she had her time period naw choices she decided on
WHY ADD COLORS LADY OMG 🤬
Because this is about 99.99% of all Black women that's why. And people hate us for it...the angry Black woman stereotype exists because no one cares to see us
Flowers to a man😂😂😂
You actually brought tears to my eyes, very accurate on everything you have said!! But I am independent and I am just making a peaceful life for myself❤❤❤
how does this young man know all of this ?! crazy, bc he's always correct
Love this guy ! He’s so smart and speaks the truth. No buzz words and word salad of the day.
Again he speaks the truth!!!
crazy how ppl fall for pandering
Speak the truth Sir! Yes, I am tough but truthfully, I want to be soft/sweet to my man. God bless both men and women out there searching!
You just spoke to my soul and described my whole life. 😢
Thank you Chris, you said it like it should be told. Hoping men will come across this truth that is being told. Keep bringing it! ❤
Wow!!!! Yes I AM, THAT I AM!
I am I am I am ❤
FACTS CHRIS!! WASTED TIME IS WORSE THEN WASTED MONEY..❤
REAL TALK. FACTS.
You are so wise...Thank you for understanding and stating ithings so clearly. God bless you and all your loved ones❤