I'm not gay, nor am I transgender so I cannot empathize with your plight. I am though, so admirable of your bravery. I'm 72 years old and the most important thing I've learned in all my years is that this is all you are going to get...this one life. So make it count. Make it a happy life and do everything you can to make others happy too. Good on you young man!
I love this comment. So many people have this idea that older generations are more prejudice, especially against trans people. It's so good to see someone so supportive of this community. Thank you
Does anyone here remember Kai when he was 10 saying that he wanted to be a model and a break dancer and now he wants to be a tattoo artist and an Ambulance Driver?
I started T at 30, 5 years ago. I come from a predominantly Muslim country and my existence isnt legal. I went through an entire lifetime of confusion and guilt before deciding to live my life the way I want to. I feel so happy when I see kids being accepted for who they are, by their families and the legal system. Much love to these kids. Obviously my country has a long way to go, but we'll keep fighting for our right to be happy.
@Eliza Doolittle No, I'm not from Iran lol. I'm from Malaysia. We're lucky, we only get imprisonment and caning here. The country was more progressive in the late 70s and early 80s, when the govt funded surgery for trans women and allowed a change in ID gender markers. We've regressed somewhat since then thanks to Wahabbism.
I can relate. I'm not trans but I'm lesbian and would get killed in my home country. It got worse since the 90s because of Wahabism too. Luckily, I live in the West, but I'll still lose my family if they find out about my sexuality. Muslim countries and communities have a long long way to go.
@@Whimswirl I'm sorry to hear that you've got to hide who you are from your family. all my love and support to you and others in a similar situation. Stay safe. Stay strong!
I'm always so happy to see young trans boys able to get on blockers! I wish I had that chance when I was 9. We older trans guys must support the young, so they won't ever have to suffer the dysphoria we have about our bodies! Love to all the little brothers! ❤️
JhuhMola what are you saying is a joke? It’s amazing the chance that young trans people have now. Blockers are reversible if they realise they’re actually not trans and happy as the gender that matches their sex, it doesn’t cause any issues and if stopped they will continue on with their biological puberty.
I'm a cis lesbian so im always trying to educate myself, if a trans boy was on blockers and then started testosterone, if they came off testosterone at some point i.e when they were 30 or something, would their breast tissue grow as it normally would have done?
JhuhMola Don’t mock others for telling their stories. Not everyone has perfect,👑fairytale lives like yours aye? Some of us have to find our own Happy Endings🌈
@Thoran EH yes, some changes are irreversible such as bottom growth and deepening of the voice but the female hormones would make female changes happen to the body if testosterone is stopped. Fat will redistribute back to female places and breast growth would happen, unless they had a double mastectomy. Similar to how a trans woman would experience breast growth on oestrogen
Thoran EH I heard from somebody ftm that what would end up happening is they would then go through a natural menopause..but so I don’t think breast tissue would begin growing.
My parents don't accept me as ftm trans, I'm 18 so they can't stop me from transitioning it's just hard to be around negativity and hearing my birthname all the time
I hear you on that. My mom wasnt accepting at all for years. I am now 21 and she is finally starting to come around. I totally understand that it is hard and disheartening when a parent rejects you and the idea of you being trans but also take into consideration of their feelings. Still do what you want to make yourself happy. Always do what will make you happy. But be open to their feelings as well because we can never know how they truly feel on the subject. It took my mom a long time to finally come around to the idea and it was worth the wait. Good luck to you and I hope your journey on t goes well 😊
I've been out for 3 years and medically transitioning for just under a year and i've gotten nowhere with my parents. I turned 18 last week and when i was 15 they said that if it's what i still wanted then they'd accept me, i haven't brought the conversation up yet but i'm placing my bets on their answer being "wait till you're 21"
Hearing the boys talk about having top surgery, getting a beard, and growing thick hair on their legs is so sweet and innocent. They are so incredible and these stories need to be heard.
Raquel Andrade Souza Massa Guimarães Absolutely! I just love the enthusiasm these boys have for becoming their true selves. The world needs more of their honest desire to be whoever they are, no matter how many people are against them.
Abby Howell Yup! As an old gay man who’s seen too many of his trans friends go through societal judgment, prejudice, and bigotry just to feel comfortable in their own skin...’cause as hard as it was to be born into a body that was attracted to the same gender, being born into a body that doesn’t match your soul is infinitely more difficult...which is why the trans community will always have my support, as well as my loving lesbians, my bisexual buddies, and my quirky queers! 😍❤️😍❤️🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈 So yes, these stories all warmed my heart. It’s awesome seeing that the trans community is getting more and more accepted. I was born and raised in one of the most racially diverse places on earth...so I grew up in the only American state where everyone is a minority, even Caucasians. The result of that is more acceptance and kindness to other minorities like the 🏳️🌈 community. Lotsa ❤️ & aloha to y’all from Honolulu! 😘😘❤️❤️🌈🌈☀️☀️🤙🏽🤙🏽
He: came out at 9 years old and in his 14 years he is trans for 5 years now Me: realized I'm trans at my 14 years and planning to come out just in summer 2021 I'm fine I'm good lol :) Ok, update: I DID IT!! I came out to my family the 1st of May and present as a cis guy at school for 8 months now. School people (teachers, administratiors) were really accepting, but my family - not as much. It's still not as bad as it could be tho...
It’s hard, I’m struggling really bad with this delaying everything too. Been waiting for so long already and not even had a first appointment yet.. you aren’t alone
I came out to my parents when I was 11, my parents didn't take me seriously. I am now 13 and my parents still don't take me seriously, and they still got me to go to a girl school. The fact that I now have online school is heaven for me, as I no longer have to wear a dress and made to be girly for a whole day.
yo heres some advice from a 16 year old trans man, i came out at 12, i start hormones at 15. In fact my one year on t is this month. Give everybody time, including yourself. You know who you are, and what you want, no one else can decide that for you. Stay strong lil man you'll be alright.
@@sebastianflachbart6966 i mean, I knew when I was 6, cause my parents were taking me to interview at a girl school, and I was asking why a girl school and not the boy school next door. Idk, I knew I was a boy for as long as I remember. Also, congrats!
Alex So I think what he’s saying by give yourself time, is that in time, you will start t. Maybe not at 13 or 15, but in time when you can, you will start your transition.
LeiLani M I mean, all I want is my parents to understand, and if they can’t take me seriously now, I will have to suffer another 4 years until I get out of high school
Alex So it’s extremely unfortunate that they don’t, & I wish they did. If you were my baby we’d take you to a therapist asap to try & get you what you need, but not everyone is open minded unfortunately love. Maybe they will come around over time. Have you showed them any educational trans videos? I think Kalvin G has some that’s aimed towards parents of trans & transgenders themselves, that might help. I know chase Ross has videos like that, but (him &) his views are a little weird. I wish nothing but the best for you & your future. Stick in there because 4 years is nothing, then you can do what you’d like for yourself & live the rest of your life for *you*
I came out as gay when I was 18 years old and it was the scariest thing I've ever done in my life. This guy came out as trans at NINE YEARS OLD. Dude... You have bravery beyond comparison. So much admiration for you. You are an inspiration. You are the future. I can't wait to follow your journey. Be bold, be loud and be proud!
Kai, you are so brave. Holy shit. I'm a 21 years old woman (ugh, even hate writing woman) and I still haven't taken any actions. I have always known I wanted to be a boy, always. Today I told someone for the first time in 21 years, that I want to be a guy. Baby steps. Good luck to everyone out there.
Leon Beale I’m a trans guy. it is obviously not normal to want to change your gender.. being transgender is technically a medical condition and it’s very hard for parents to understand. the first time i came out a few years ago, my mum was very unsupportive and shocked but then i gave her some time and explained to her what trans was and sent her videos about what it’s about, then she slowly started to become supportive and understand me. she then sent me to a gender therapist and i got diagnosed with gender dysphoria and ill be starting testosterone soon. Even if i was a parent and found out my child was transgender i’d be heartbroken. It’s hard for the parents too.
TalkToTheBody no no..i didn’t mean heartbroken in that way. i’d be heartbroken that my child is suffering from dysphoria i didn’t mean it in a bad way.. i will always love my child no matter what. and i am 18
I’m a heterosexual woman but believe EVERY entire person on this planet should be treated equal no matter your skin colour, religion or sexuality. I find trans people’s stories intriguing and their strength is something to admire. 😊
@@Apetitegirly I get that it is annoying for you if people are confusing things, but your comment is not exactly encouraging someone to educate themselves further.
OP, you may mean “cis” woman in this case. ❤️🙏 Cisgender = identifying as the gender you were born as. Heterosexual, bisexual, asexual, homosexual are all sexualities and have nothing to do with gender.
I'll be honest, I don't understand it but i can accept it. I watch these incase my own child feels the same one day. This mom did a fantastic job, what a great little boy!
@@nw1131 thankyou! Theres no way my child will ever feel like they dont belong in my house and are not loved. They will always know that I accept them and love them whoever or whatever they are. That's how it should be for everyone. I cant believe that theres so many children in a dangerous situation at home all because they're a little different. Differences will be celebrated in my home. I'm a type 1 diabetic and evry year my mom throws me a diagnosis day party because shes amazing like that even now.
The museum reminds of the Women's Museum in Aarhus, Denmark which had a great exhibition about transgender identity and gender in general ♥ The museum curator in the video was so nice :)
I started crying during this, my family would hate for me to come out. What they don’t know is that my anxiety would reduce to atoms if I could transition.
It’s interesting what the answers are when trans are asked “what are you looking forward to the most?” You can see the excitement, anticipation for change. Wish everyone happiness!
I'm so proud of people who are able to know who they are and have the confidence to say that at such a young age I'm 17 and I'm only out to a few people in my life. fun times...
Oof i know how you feel, im out to most people in my life, but i still have pockets of my life where people dont know. Atleast im on a waiting list to get onto testosterone, but coronavirus is stalling my start :(
lucky guy. i didnt come out until i was 13 and ive only been out for around a year so i probably wont get on T for another 4 years. The process is so long ):
I can't believe there's a trans museum. I genuinely shed a tear (or three) when the video got to that part. Definitely gonna have to visit once quarantine is over
I had my first appointment at my cities gender clinic two days ago (online of course) and was told I would be able to start T in 3-4 months and I can't wait
@@SeaTeaSnow Mate it took me over a year to get the appointment in the first place, I still have to go through all the psychological evaluation and talk to multiple professionals, not to mention I have already been going to therapy for half a year.
I came out as trans a few weeks ago, I’ve come out to my main family and my friends, I want to get a haircut, but can’t because the coronavirus has shut down all the barbers 🙃
RD yeah, it sucks, I’ve been told by friends to cut it myself and, knowing me, having the risk of fucking it up, or cutting shoulder length and my parents do the rest, haha
@@bigladdamien7774 just make sure to pick something simple, I shaved the sides and kept the top, buzz cuts are the last resort though make sure you at least have that to fall back on
I should be coming out at school in the next few months! I can't wait! But I've been pushed around by counsellors and therapists and my GP (on the NHS) for two years and I still haven't been referred for gender therapy - I could've been on hormone blockers soon, but instead I'm stuck without being able to get to the children's service with the length of the waiting list now. I have to wait 2 years until I'm 18 now, which really sucks, unless I can get funding to go private. I think this is also an important story to share because my dysphoria gets worse by the day and a 2 year waiting list is insane. I hope I don't become another trans suicide statistic, but unfortunately that's what happens when the services we need to save our lives are underfunded.
Oml he is so lucky! I am like him, I've known since I was about 7, came out at 11 and my parents exact words to me were "we will support you, but we don't believe you're trans..." Their support isn't even anything super helpful, they will only call me my preferred name and pronouns (that's good, I know)... They think getting me a binder/puberty blockers/testosterone will just hurt me and negativity encourage me to continue my "body mutilation" He is so lucky to have such supportive parents, family, and friends!!
Hearing him talk about trans people being spoken about in an assembly made me both happy and sad at the same time. Happy, because people are being educated. Sad, because I wasn't, and many others weren't either. Despite the 'liberal agenda' that I always hear about corrupting the youth and whatnot, I only found out about trans men recently through youtube videos such as this one. At 25 years old, I finally found out that trans men existed. I finally had words put to the thoughts and feelings that I tried to suppress my whole life (thanks, conservative christian upbringing). I know, if I had attended an assembly like that during school, it would have clicked for me just like it does now. I'm a trans man. I always have been, even before I knew that was a possibility. A+ on getting the representation out there. It can save a lot of lives, and drastically improve many others as well.
I am a cisgender femal (who might be bi) but it really destroys me when ppl are transphobic Earlier today my “friend” told me they were adding a trans flag on emojis She put a 😑 face and it broke my heart I put “I’m so happy 😁😁😁😁” and that was the end of our convo Don’t let these things keep you down
I am MTF trans and I wish I had this kind of support when I was Kai age.......but it gives me hope that we are going in the right direction...it is about supporting people, and just accepting the fact we are different but just people and I hope one day all the bigots or at least most of them will get it.... hope everything works out young man rgds Stella x..ps your Mum is ace...but you know that already
i recently came out to my mum fully as trans this year, just before my 16th birthday. i wish my mum was as accepting as yours, this video brings tears to my eyes, and im really happy for you guys. i didnt even know what LGTBQ+ was until i was 12, so i didnt have the opportunity to tell my parents sooner.
These boys and men are so incredible and brave. I cried when they started talking about the friend who committed su*c*de, because it's so difficult for so many young trans people. So many homophobes say stuff like "wait til you're an adult and decide then", but a lot of trans people... don't make it to 18. They take their own lives before it's socially acceptable for them to transition, and that makes me feel so many things. I wish this world were a better place. Anyway, I'm proud of all these guys for being who they are :]
I have gender dysphoria, I have never wanted to be a woman, but I don't feel comfortable been a woman, but I also don't want to become a man, it's confusing but, my family are supporting me and helping me through it and I'm glad that Kai is happy.
I’m so happy for him I couldn’t even talk to anyone when I was younger I just started my hormone therapy this year on my 23 sometimes I feel sad that I didn’t started earlier
I went so emotional looking at this video. Those young guys are wonderfull and his mother also. Where is this museum? Can you remember me when is your trans pride? Thanks
Aww, I'm so happy you got the chance to do this! I myself came out a year ago but sadly my parents weren't accepting so I'll have to go through puberty, hoping to do something about it when I move out (in 3 years...)
im 14 and i really want to go on hormone blockers because i feel so depressed with everything about me and i dont like that i have long hair. I really want to be a boy and i hate myself
Christina Barajas Love yourself. You are unique and special. If you don’t like your hair, just cut it. You don’t have to become someone else to find self love. Love who you are now, or you still won’t love who you become no matter what you do.
Hope this guy realizes how blessed he is. I and my family knew I was trans when I was that young but was still forced to continue to live as a female until the age of 18 because I grew up poor in the conservative south.
I have apparently been living under a rock for a while as I had no idea about Chrissi. I hope she's in a better place, and I send my best wishes to all her friends and family.
@@MyGenderation No worries. I haven't been to trans pride for a while, and that's where I tend to get all my news tbh. Was gonna come this year, but that has been ruined! I just hope camp is still on this year... I'm sure I'll see you soon. :] (You'll know who it is if you click on my channel bit, but I don't use my real name on this user.)
I transitioned 15 years ago and it breaks my heart that I didn't get the chance to take puberty blockers. I'm so glad things have changed because people won't have to spend their childhood in the wrong body and they may not need so much corrective surgery
I’ve been on t for about 7 months now and it’s the most amazing thing I’ve done. I wish I had the opportunity to start on t sooner. I would have avoided so much pain if I’d had that opportunity. So it’s amazing to see young guys given the chance to live their true lives 💕
I wish I had this opportunity when I was his age. I didn’t come out as trans until I was 33. I’m so pleased this is an option for these young guys and girls to go on blockers to help them get to where they need to be.
Damn i cant imagine going on blockers just to have top surgery. I would've just dealt with the period and saved up for top surgery instead of spending money on blockers.
@@jack1859 in the UK we, thankfully and very luckily, don't have to pay for blockers or surgery, so we are able to get whatever treatment is necessary. Like personally, because the process tales so long, i was 15 before i could get blockers, but i still chose to get them because A) they stop my p*riods, and B) even though my chest is already probably mostly developed, blockers stop it from getting any worse until i can have surgery, so they are definitely the right choice for me. I cant wait til i can start T in 2-3 months
thank you!! I was actually recently wondering if there was any update on Kai, because I remember the first few videos of him! really nice to watch his growth.
Hey. I'm ftm, 13, closeted to my transphobic, activist dad; have no allowance. I'm a poor man and I was wondering how I could possibly get an income after this quarantine comes to an end to support my (slow) transition without being somehow suspicious because I'm young. (I live in Northwest America, have no access to blockers, most likely have bad paranoia and possibly something else; but my dad thinks I'm the perfect child so he won't bother taking me to a psychiatrist or gender therapist so i also need help on that.)
I can’t imagine how you must be feeling. Stay strong, it’s gonna get better and I hope that one day your dad will understand how you feel and see things from your perspective. I wish you the best bro
cool guy are you blind? You’re only saying they’re girls because you know their past. If you met them on the street you’d 100% call them boys. Why go out of your way?
this is good to see and I hope these boys are doing well right now. I transitioned when I was quite young as well. I started t when I was 14, almost 15 (unfortunately I never went on hormone blockers). I’m 16 now. But god, I’m so thankful to have been able to halt my biological puberty when I could. If I hadn’t been able to transition, or I hadn’t had the support of my friends and family, I don’t know where I’d be today. It’s sad to see the UK pass so many anti-trans legislation. I feel as though UK officials see trans people as almost a far away entity and idea; not as human beings with thoughts, feelings and emotions. Having the support of family and healthcare systems is literally saving the lives of trans people, and it sure as hell saved my life. Again, best of wishes to these kids.
I’m trans and I’m pansexual so I understand a lot of this I haven’t started t yet but I think I am this summer so yeah I’m 14 turning 15 this year so yeah also my brother is also trans and he has already had top surgery and he’s been on t for 3-4 years now
Massive respect to him for doing what he's done, it's gotta be hard for anybody but to be that young and feel so at ease with it all (as difficult enough as it is being a teen) is inspiring man.
I'm not sure how I missed this when you first posted it. Great film. I can really empathise with him when he spoke about worrying about coming out. I felt the same, on the day I locked my front door and walked to my parents, that evening might have been the last time they spoke to me. Thankfully like Kai I was accepted for who I really was on the inside. I look forward to more of Kai's story.
I'm a bisexual cis male adult who came out as bi when I was 14 - in 1973. Fortunately, I lived in West Los Angeles, a pretty liberal area, so it wasn't much of a problem, but by doing what Kai did - coming out - it took away something bullies and assholes love to tease others about - their sexual and/or gender identity. Kai, you are nothing short of awesome, as I do your mother and sister. They're the type of parents and siblings WE ALL should have - understanding, accepting, supportive, empathetic, loving and wise. You, others like you and videos like this one (which was VERY well made - kudos!) move culture forward and make the world a better place. Hats off to MyGenderation (good name, very clever.) You have a new subscriber. :D Trans people, please KNOW that there are MILLIONS of people out there who are not trans themselves but who are totally on your side and who love and support you. And if there's anyone out there who's having a hard time and needs someone to talk to you can reach me on Discord - DavidStardust#3398. My husband, who I've been with for almost 35 years, is also a great guy to talk to. (And yeah, I'm obviously a big Bowie fan.)
I'm so sad because I'm 19 now and I came out when I was 14. This is all I've wanted for so long and I'm too scared for change. I'm hoping to start the process this year! I'm scared.
@@kylewilliams4414 I'm just a nervous person who thinks too much. I definitely love being a boy. I legally changed my name 3 years ago and I still haven't gotten my new birth certificate. Procrastination and nervousness is just the way I am it seems d:
He is not lucky. Blockers do irreversible damage to the body and the trans lobby lie to trans kids and their parents that blockers do no harm. They do. Blockers are extremely harmful and so are cross sex hormones. It is your family that is understanding not Kai's, your family realises the immense damage that blockers and hormones can do to a growing child and that is why they do not support this. If you still want transition at18 then you can, but to do it before then is very, very damaging so please please research what blockers and t do to the body. Their effects are irreversible and they can really damage you. You might also get to 18 and change your mind.
As a trans pre-teen (ftm) seeing Kai is an inspration to tell me to keep going even tho it seems tough just like Jazz they're like older trans siblings giving incouragement.
ahh i remember watching videos like this when i was younger (10 maybe 11?), when i was too scared to even mention wanting to take testosterone to my mom, but now im 15 and starting testosterone in less than 4 months :)
I knew since I was young , but I’ve never been out of the closet about anything because my parents would disown me. It’s really horrible having to go through female puberty and I’m 17 now and still only out to my best friend.
I'm not gay, nor am I transgender so I cannot empathize with your plight. I am though, so admirable of your bravery. I'm 72 years old and the most important thing I've learned in all my years is that this is all you are going to get...this one life. So make it count. Make it a happy life and do everything you can to make others happy too. Good on you young man!
I love this comment. So many people have this idea that older generations are more prejudice, especially against trans people. It's so good to see someone so supportive of this community. Thank you
Man, it's great to see a comment like this one.
I wish everyone thought like this
Mr Shadden, that may well be the most touching and significant comment that I've ever read on a TH-cam video. You sir, are a good man.
I have the upmost respect for you
Does anyone here remember Kai when he was 10 saying that he wanted to be a model and a break dancer and now he wants to be a tattoo artist and an Ambulance Driver?
I started T at 30, 5 years ago. I come from a predominantly Muslim country and my existence isnt legal. I went through an entire lifetime of confusion and guilt before deciding to live my life the way I want to. I feel so happy when I see kids being accepted for who they are, by their families and the legal system. Much love to these kids. Obviously my country has a long way to go, but we'll keep fighting for our right to be happy.
Kyle Williams they won’t be killed for goodness sakes! Heck, Iran even PAYS for all transgender operations.(you can just google it yourself)
@Eliza Doolittle No, I'm not from Iran lol. I'm from Malaysia. We're lucky, we only get imprisonment and caning here. The country was more progressive in the late 70s and early 80s, when the govt funded surgery for trans women and allowed a change in ID gender markers. We've regressed somewhat since then thanks to Wahabbism.
I can relate. I'm not trans but I'm lesbian and would get killed in my home country. It got worse since the 90s because of Wahabism too. Luckily, I live in the West, but I'll still lose my family if they find out about my sexuality.
Muslim countries and communities have a long long way to go.
@@Whimswirl I'm sorry to hear that you've got to hide who you are from your family. all my love and support to you and others in a similar situation. Stay safe. Stay strong!
No human being should be illegal.
I'm always so happy to see young trans boys able to get on blockers! I wish I had that chance when I was 9. We older trans guys must support the young, so they won't ever have to suffer the dysphoria we have about our bodies! Love to all the little brothers! ❤️
JhuhMola what are you saying is a joke? It’s amazing the chance that young trans people have now. Blockers are reversible if they realise they’re actually not trans and happy as the gender that matches their sex, it doesn’t cause any issues and if stopped they will continue on with their biological puberty.
I'm a cis lesbian so im always trying to educate myself, if a trans boy was on blockers and then started testosterone, if they came off testosterone at some point i.e when they were 30 or something, would their breast tissue grow as it normally would have done?
JhuhMola Don’t mock others for telling their stories. Not everyone has perfect,👑fairytale lives like yours aye? Some of us have to find our own Happy Endings🌈
@Thoran EH yes, some changes are irreversible such as bottom growth and deepening of the voice but the female hormones would make female changes happen to the body if testosterone is stopped. Fat will redistribute back to female places and breast growth would happen, unless they had a double mastectomy. Similar to how a trans woman would experience breast growth on oestrogen
Thoran EH I heard from somebody ftm that what would end up happening is they would then go through a natural menopause..but so I don’t think breast tissue would begin growing.
My parents don't accept me as ftm trans, I'm 18 so they can't stop me from transitioning it's just hard to be around negativity and hearing my birthname all the time
Chelsea Smith I hope things get better for you and you find people who will support you
I hear you on that. My mom wasnt accepting at all for years. I am now 21 and she is finally starting to come around. I totally understand that it is hard and disheartening when a parent rejects you and the idea of you being trans but also take into consideration of their feelings. Still do what you want to make yourself happy. Always do what will make you happy. But be open to their feelings as well because we can never know how they truly feel on the subject. It took my mom a long time to finally come around to the idea and it was worth the wait. Good luck to you and I hope your journey on t goes well 😊
I've been out for 3 years and medically transitioning for just under a year and i've gotten nowhere with my parents. I turned 18 last week and when i was 15 they said that if it's what i still wanted then they'd accept me, i haven't brought the conversation up yet but i'm placing my bets on their answer being "wait till you're 21"
@@Pocketsand99 thankyou so much 😊
You might want to change your name on your TH-cam account
Are you guys going to continue filming his journey? Would love to see him in another few years or another 5! I hope he is doing well
@@MyGenderation yesss! This is gonna be fun ! I love these videos, seeing him happy makes me happy too💓
@@MyGenderation thats great!!! I look forward to seeing the next video
Hearing the boys talk about having top surgery, getting a beard, and growing thick hair on their legs is so sweet and innocent. They are so incredible and these stories need to be heard.
Raquel Andrade Souza Massa Guimarães Absolutely! I just love the enthusiasm these boys have for becoming their true selves. The world needs more of their honest desire to be whoever they are, no matter how many people are against them.
but just you should know that girls don't have to shave their leg hair..
Hair on HIS legs you mean
Abby Howell Yup! As an old gay man who’s seen too many of his trans friends go through societal judgment, prejudice, and bigotry just to feel comfortable in their own skin...’cause as hard as it was to be born into a body that was attracted to the same gender, being born into a body that doesn’t match your soul is infinitely more difficult...which is why the trans community will always have my support, as well as my loving lesbians, my bisexual buddies, and my quirky queers! 😍❤️😍❤️🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈
So yes, these stories all warmed my heart. It’s awesome seeing that the trans community is getting more and more accepted. I was born and raised in one of the most racially diverse places on earth...so I grew up in the only American state where everyone is a minority, even Caucasians. The result of that is more acceptance and kindness to other minorities like the 🏳️🌈 community.
Lotsa ❤️ & aloha to y’all from Honolulu! 😘😘❤️❤️🌈🌈☀️☀️🤙🏽🤙🏽
@@CocoKatze The person was talking about multiple boys so the correct terminology is "their"
I thought he was already on t man
me too
@@sararickmore1195 ohhh
He: came out at 9 years old and in his 14 years he is trans for 5 years now
Me: realized I'm trans at my 14 years and planning to come out just in summer 2021
I'm fine I'm good lol :)
Ok, update: I DID IT!! I came out to my family the 1st of May and present as a cis guy at school for 8 months now. School people (teachers, administratiors) were really accepting, but my family - not as much. It's still not as bad as it could be tho...
Is it not safe to come out earlier?
goodluck, mate!
Same here!
I'm just figuring stuff out at 14 xD good luck w coming out
lol same but I wanna come out this summmer
I should go on hormone blockers in a bit over a year, when I’m 15 almost 16, and now it’s getting delayed because of corona...
Thanks:D
hey, that's shitty but it'll all work out in the end. good luck
this is exactly what has happened to me :/
Banden Cool I’m so sorry that’s so annoying and disappointing
It’s hard, I’m struggling really bad with this delaying everything too. Been waiting for so long already and not even had a first appointment yet.. you aren’t alone
Upcoming generations (genderations?) have such a beautiful understanding of gender already, it makes me so hopeful 💕
I came out to my parents when I was 11, my parents didn't take me seriously. I am now 13 and my parents still don't take me seriously, and they still got me to go to a girl school. The fact that I now have online school is heaven for me, as I no longer have to wear a dress and made to be girly for a whole day.
yo heres some advice from a 16 year old trans man, i came out at 12, i start hormones at 15. In fact my one year on t is this month. Give everybody time, including yourself. You know who you are, and what you want, no one else can decide that for you. Stay strong lil man you'll be alright.
@@sebastianflachbart6966 i mean, I knew when I was 6, cause my parents were taking me to interview at a girl school, and I was asking why a girl school and not the boy school next door. Idk, I knew I was a boy for as long as I remember. Also, congrats!
Alex So I think what he’s saying by give yourself time, is that in time, you will start t. Maybe not at 13 or 15, but in time when you can, you will start your transition.
LeiLani M I mean, all I want is my parents to understand, and if they can’t take me seriously now, I will have to suffer another 4 years until I get out of high school
Alex So it’s extremely unfortunate that they don’t, & I wish they did. If you were my baby we’d take you to a therapist asap to try & get you what you need, but not everyone is open minded unfortunately love. Maybe they will come around over time. Have you showed them any educational trans videos? I think Kalvin G has some that’s aimed towards parents of trans & transgenders themselves, that might help. I know chase Ross has videos like that, but (him &) his views are a little weird. I wish nothing but the best for you & your future. Stick in there because 4 years is nothing, then you can do what you’d like for yourself & live the rest of your life for *you*
I came out as gay when I was 18 years old and it was the scariest thing I've ever done in my life. This guy came out as trans at NINE YEARS OLD. Dude... You have bravery beyond comparison. So much admiration for you. You are an inspiration. You are the future. I can't wait to follow your journey. Be bold, be loud and be proud!
Kai, you are so brave. Holy shit. I'm a 21 years old woman (ugh, even hate writing woman) and I still haven't taken any actions. I have always known I wanted to be a boy, always. Today I told someone for the first time in 21 years, that I want to be a guy. Baby steps. Good luck to everyone out there.
You can call yourself a guy, because you are one! If you believe that you are a guy, than you never were a woman.
Why do you want to be a guy?
You’re doing great, it’s never too late to transition and I wish you the best with your journey!
Its nice to see parents support their transgender child, not like my parents...
Same..
Same.. I feel you
Good luck
Leon Beale
I’m a trans guy. it is obviously not normal to want to change your gender.. being transgender is technically a medical condition and it’s very hard for parents to understand. the first time i came out a few years ago, my mum was very unsupportive and shocked but then i gave her some time and explained to her what trans was and sent her videos about what it’s about, then she slowly started to become supportive and understand me. she then sent me to a gender therapist and i got diagnosed with gender dysphoria and ill be starting testosterone soon. Even if i was a parent and found out my child was transgender i’d be heartbroken. It’s hard for the parents too.
TalkToTheBody no no..i didn’t mean heartbroken in that way. i’d be heartbroken that my child is suffering from dysphoria i didn’t mean it in a bad way.. i will always love my child no matter what. and i am 18
This is so wonderful, Fox. You are quite literally documenting trans history in the making. ❤️ Keep doing your incredible work.
I'm so sorry about Chrissie, rest in peace. 😔
I’m a heterosexual woman but believe EVERY entire person on this planet should be treated equal no matter your skin colour, religion or sexuality. I find trans people’s stories intriguing and their strength is something to admire. 😊
ok but you're annoying asf sexuality and gender identity isn't the same thing
@@Apetitegirly I get that it is annoying for you if people are confusing things, but your comment is not exactly encouraging someone to educate themselves further.
OP, you may mean “cis” woman in this case. ❤️🙏 Cisgender = identifying as the gender you were born as. Heterosexual, bisexual, asexual, homosexual are all sexualities and have nothing to do with gender.
transgender is not a sexuality
@@soothouse780 she never said It was
I'll be honest, I don't understand it but i can accept it. I watch these incase my own child feels the same one day. This mom did a fantastic job, what a great little boy!
@@nw1131 thankyou! Theres no way my child will ever feel like they dont belong in my house and are not loved. They will always know that I accept them and love them whoever or whatever they are. That's how it should be for everyone. I cant believe that theres so many children in a dangerous situation at home all because they're a little different. Differences will be celebrated in my home. I'm a type 1 diabetic and evry year my mom throws me a diagnosis day party because shes amazing like that even now.
The museum reminds of the Women's Museum in Aarhus, Denmark which had a great exhibition about transgender identity and gender in general ♥
The museum curator in the video was so nice :)
Other museum to go to
I once was in Aarhus but I only saw the outdoor historical museum xD
Greetings from Germany
That’s crazy Tayler is all grown up! Should definitely do a video about him. It’s crazy what happens in 5years. He’s so handsome.
Tayler?
Tayler? Do you mean Kai? Or Alex?
I started crying during this, my family would hate for me to come out.
What they don’t know is that my anxiety would reduce to atoms if I could transition.
The update on him is great! I can't wait for him to start T!
It’s interesting what the answers are when trans are asked “what are you looking forward to the most?” You can see the excitement, anticipation for change. Wish everyone happiness!
I'm so proud of people who are able to know who they are and have the confidence to say that at such a young age
I'm 17 and I'm only out to a few people in my life. fun times...
Oof i know how you feel, im out to most people in my life, but i still have pockets of my life where people dont know. Atleast im on a waiting list to get onto testosterone, but coronavirus is stalling my start :(
ya-boi-miles We are proud of you too. It takes courage to show people who you really are. Even or especially if only a few people know.
@@regentanz7364 💙💙💙
ya-boi-miles 💙💙💙😊
Same here
This is so great to see! I'm a 40 year old transman and our histories are so important. Thank you.
lucky guy. i didnt come out until i was 13 and ive only been out for around a year so i probably wont get on T for another 4 years. The process is so long ):
I can't believe there's a trans museum. I genuinely shed a tear (or three) when the video got to that part. Definitely gonna have to visit once quarantine is over
I'm 13 and trans:) my family isn't super accepting so I probably won't get on hormones until I'm older, but yeah
Alexander Kirwin same
Alexander kirwin you will get there bruv
Ashton Alexander hey i’m trans too
I had my first appointment at my cities gender clinic two days ago (online of course) and was told I would be able to start T in 3-4 months and I can't wait
@@SeaTeaSnow Mate it took me over a year to get the appointment in the first place, I still have to go through all the psychological evaluation and talk to multiple professionals, not to mention I have already been going to therapy for half a year.
I came out as trans a few weeks ago, I’ve come out to my main family and my friends, I want to get a haircut, but can’t because the coronavirus has shut down all the barbers 🙃
I came out right before the outbreak, I relate to the haircut struggle I had to do mine myself, good luck to you dude
RD yeah, it sucks, I’ve been told by friends to cut it myself and, knowing me, having the risk of fucking it up, or cutting shoulder length and my parents do the rest, haha
@@bigladdamien7774 just make sure to pick something simple, I shaved the sides and kept the top, buzz cuts are the last resort though make sure you at least have that to fall back on
RD thanks for the help, I hope I can cut it soon :)
@@bigladdamien7774 you're welcome bro I'm sure it's gonna look amazing
I’m 22. Been on T for almost six months now. 🤘🏼🤘🏼
I should be coming out at school in the next few months! I can't wait! But I've been pushed around by counsellors and therapists and my GP (on the NHS) for two years and I still haven't been referred for gender therapy - I could've been on hormone blockers soon, but instead I'm stuck without being able to get to the children's service with the length of the waiting list now. I have to wait 2 years until I'm 18 now, which really sucks, unless I can get funding to go private. I think this is also an important story to share because my dysphoria gets worse by the day and a 2 year waiting list is insane. I hope I don't become another trans suicide statistic, but unfortunately that's what happens when the services we need to save our lives are underfunded.
I'm Trans ftm. I'm proud to be me. I'm toby, I'm a boy and nobody will change me
I'm ftm too...
@@yukisazuki8391 👊
Draven what
FTm = PussyGirl. Toby is your fake name. you are born with a pussy girl. she/her
Us trans boys named Kai must flock together... and we will rule the world.
O.o
Let’s check in with these kids when they are mid-20’s.
There are actually many older trans people speaking about their experiences online, if you are interested
i just saw kai and immediately clicked on the vid bc THAT'S MY NAME
Ur Personal Dumbass bro me too
Man, you're so lucky that you got hormone blockers at age 14. I'm on same age as well.
Btw you did good Kai.
Oml he is so lucky! I am like him, I've known since I was about 7, came out at 11 and my parents exact words to me were "we will support you, but we don't believe you're trans..." Their support isn't even anything super helpful, they will only call me my preferred name and pronouns (that's good, I know)... They think getting me a binder/puberty blockers/testosterone will just hurt me and negativity encourage me to continue my "body mutilation" He is so lucky to have such supportive parents, family, and friends!!
Hearing him talk about trans people being spoken about in an assembly made me both happy and sad at the same time. Happy, because people are being educated. Sad, because I wasn't, and many others weren't either. Despite the 'liberal agenda' that I always hear about corrupting the youth and whatnot, I only found out about trans men recently through youtube videos such as this one. At 25 years old, I finally found out that trans men existed. I finally had words put to the thoughts and feelings that I tried to suppress my whole life (thanks, conservative christian upbringing). I know, if I had attended an assembly like that during school, it would have clicked for me just like it does now. I'm a trans man. I always have been, even before I knew that was a possibility. A+ on getting the representation out there. It can save a lot of lives, and drastically improve many others as well.
I am a cisgender femal (who might be bi) but it really destroys me when ppl are transphobic
Earlier today my “friend” told me they were adding a trans flag on emojis
She put a 😑 face and it broke my heart
I put “I’m so happy 😁😁😁😁” and that was the end of our convo
Don’t let these things keep you down
I'm surprised that there's not a lot of transphobics comments, usually there's a lot, good to see so much support ❤️
ayyy Kai!! (was in my tutor group at school w me) crazy that this just came up on my recommended
He seems like a proper gentleman. I wish him so much luck with the rest of his transition.
he's so mature for a 14 year old, I didn't even know trans existed until I was like 15! respect to him and his story though, and his supportive family
I am MTF trans and I wish I had this kind of support when I was Kai age.......but it gives me hope that we are going in the right direction...it is about supporting people, and just accepting the fact we are different but just people and I hope one day all the bigots or at least most of them will get it.... hope everything works out young man rgds Stella x..ps your Mum is ace...but you know that already
i recently came out to my mum fully as trans this year, just before my 16th birthday. i wish my mum was as accepting as yours, this video brings tears to my eyes, and im really happy for you guys.
i didnt even know what LGTBQ+ was until i was 12, so i didnt have the opportunity to tell my parents sooner.
These boys and men are so incredible and brave. I cried when they started talking about the friend who committed su*c*de, because it's so difficult for so many young trans people. So many homophobes say stuff like "wait til you're an adult and decide then", but a lot of trans people... don't make it to 18. They take their own lives before it's socially acceptable for them to transition, and that makes me feel so many things. I wish this world were a better place.
Anyway, I'm proud of all these guys for being who they are :]
Lol there is Cavetown playing in the museum
I have gender dysphoria, I have never wanted to be a woman, but I don't feel comfortable been a woman, but I also don't want to become a man, it's confusing but, my family are supporting me and helping me through it and I'm glad that Kai is happy.
Sending all my love and support to all transgender people... You are beautiful and lovely ❤️❤️❤️
Damn I’m jealous! Came out in my freshman year of high school! 3yrs ago and I’m still waiting for T wtf?! But u know, you go Kai! Lucky boy!
I’m so happy for him I couldn’t even talk to anyone when I was younger I just started my hormone therapy this year on my 23 sometimes I feel sad that I didn’t started earlier
I went so emotional looking at this video. Those young guys are wonderfull and his mother also. Where is this museum?
Can you remember me when is your trans pride? Thanks
Aww, I'm so happy you got the chance to do this! I myself came out a year ago but sadly my parents weren't accepting so I'll have to go through puberty, hoping to do something about it when I move out (in 3 years...)
im 14 and i really want to go on hormone blockers because i feel so depressed with everything about me and i dont like that i have long hair. I really want to be a boy and i hate myself
Christina Barajas Love yourself. You are unique and special. If you don’t like your hair, just cut it. You don’t have to become someone else to find self love. Love who you are now, or you still won’t love who you become no matter what you do.
Don’t hate yourself. I was in your position but trust me, it gets better. It’s gonna be ok 🏳️🌈
Hope this guy realizes how blessed he is. I and my family knew I was trans when I was that young but was still forced to continue to live as a female until the age of 18 because I grew up poor in the conservative south.
Good on you young fellas 👌🏿💪🏿 You've got a big brother here in America.
I have apparently been living under a rock for a while as I had no idea about Chrissi. I hope she's in a better place, and I send my best wishes to all her friends and family.
@@MyGenderation No worries. I haven't been to trans pride for a while, and that's where I tend to get all my news tbh. Was gonna come this year, but that has been ruined! I just hope camp is still on this year...
I'm sure I'll see you soon. :] (You'll know who it is if you click on my channel bit, but I don't use my real name on this user.)
Emo Gay --I love ur username
@@connermason7874 Thanks! It's actually an old nickname from like 2005. Haha.
I transitioned 15 years ago and it breaks my heart that I didn't get the chance to take puberty blockers. I'm so glad things have changed because people won't have to spend their childhood in the wrong body and they may not need so much corrective surgery
Amazing to see these young gentlemen being themselves and happy. Does make for the Trans future a bright one
I’ve been on t for about 7 months now and it’s the most amazing thing I’ve done. I wish I had the opportunity to start on t sooner. I would have avoided so much pain if I’d had that opportunity. So it’s amazing to see young guys given the chance to live their true lives 💕
I wish I had this opportunity when I was his age. I didn’t come out as trans until I was 33. I’m so pleased this is an option for these young guys and girls to go on blockers to help them get to where they need to be.
this makes me feel better ngl
I came out when I was 12, hormone blockers at 13, hormones at 16 and top surgery at 18. I’m a very lucky guy, to have had my supports and resources.
Damn i cant imagine going on blockers just to have top surgery. I would've just dealt with the period and saved up for top surgery instead of spending money on blockers.
@@jack1859 in the UK we, thankfully and very luckily, don't have to pay for blockers or surgery, so we are able to get whatever treatment is necessary. Like personally, because the process tales so long, i was 15 before i could get blockers, but i still chose to get them because A) they stop my p*riods, and B) even though my chest is already probably mostly developed, blockers stop it from getting any worse until i can have surgery, so they are definitely the right choice for me. I cant wait til i can start T in 2-3 months
Haha I first thought they made a Video about me ,because the title describes me too😄😂. Love the Video 👍🏼😉
thank you!! I was actually recently wondering if there was any update on Kai, because I remember the first few videos of him! really nice to watch his growth.
Aww I love Kai
Hey. I'm ftm, 13, closeted to my transphobic, activist dad; have no allowance. I'm a poor man and I was wondering how I could possibly get an income after this quarantine comes to an end to support my (slow) transition without being somehow suspicious because I'm young.
(I live in Northwest America, have no access to blockers, most likely have bad paranoia and possibly something else; but my dad thinks I'm the perfect child so he won't bother taking me to a psychiatrist or gender therapist so i also need help on that.)
I can’t imagine how you must be feeling. Stay strong, it’s gonna get better and I hope that one day your dad will understand how you feel and see things from your perspective. I wish you the best bro
@@Iaptopcharger thank you, man
How can you guys come out?! Im already 14, yet i was so afraid to come out but he is only 9 when he come out! Im fooking proud of ya brother!
What a wonderful brave and confident young man, a great face for the future of trans folks, well done My Generation for this wonderful followup.
My Genderation thank you so much for highlighting such inspiring heroes and the future of our world is them 💛
cool guy
are you blind? You’re only saying they’re girls because you know their past. If you met them on the street you’d 100% call them boys. Why go out of your way?
amazing!! waiting for the rest of the captions, thank u so much for ur documentation
this is good to see and I hope these boys are doing well right now.
I transitioned when I was quite young as well. I started t when I was 14, almost 15 (unfortunately I never went on hormone blockers). I’m 16 now. But god, I’m so thankful to have been able to halt my biological puberty when I could. If I hadn’t been able to transition, or I hadn’t had the support of my friends and family, I don’t know where I’d be today.
It’s sad to see the UK pass so many anti-trans legislation. I feel as though UK officials see trans people as almost a far away entity and idea; not as human beings with thoughts, feelings and emotions. Having the support of family and healthcare systems is literally saving the lives of trans people, and it sure as hell saved my life.
Again, best of wishes to these kids.
What total chads, I hope Kai and his friend are doing well
I’m trans and I’m pansexual so I understand a lot of this I haven’t started t yet but I think I am this summer so yeah I’m 14 turning 15 this year so yeah also my brother is also trans and he has already had top surgery and he’s been on t for 3-4 years now
So phie thank you for standing up for me when you don’t even know me it means a lot
@@lifeofadamm.2293 Yeah no Problem :) It doesn't matter if I know you or not, that is never okay. I'm glad I helped :D
So phie thanks
Massive respect to him for doing what he's done, it's gotta be hard for anybody but to be that young and feel so at ease with it all (as difficult enough as it is being a teen) is inspiring man.
alright so i’m bi and prefer girls but who’s gonna tell me why he’s the cutest guy i’ve seen in like 3 months
I'm not sure how I missed this when you first posted it. Great film. I can really empathise with him when he spoke about worrying about coming out. I felt the same, on the day I locked my front door and walked to my parents, that evening might have been the last time they spoke to me. Thankfully like Kai I was accepted for who I really was on the inside.
I look forward to more of Kai's story.
I'm a bisexual cis male adult who came out as bi when I was 14 - in 1973. Fortunately, I lived in West Los Angeles, a pretty liberal area, so it wasn't much of a problem, but by doing what Kai did - coming out - it took away something bullies and assholes love to tease others about - their sexual and/or gender identity. Kai, you are nothing short of awesome, as I do your mother and sister. They're the type of parents and siblings WE ALL should have - understanding, accepting, supportive, empathetic, loving and wise. You, others like you and videos like this one (which was VERY well made - kudos!) move culture forward and make the world a better place. Hats off to MyGenderation (good name, very clever.) You have a new subscriber. :D
Trans people, please KNOW that there are MILLIONS of people out there who are not trans themselves but who are totally on your side and who love and support you. And if there's anyone out there who's having a hard time and needs someone to talk to you can reach me on Discord - DavidStardust#3398. My husband, who I've been with for almost 35 years, is also a great guy to talk to. (And yeah, I'm obviously a big Bowie fan.)
I'm so sad because I'm 19 now and I came out when I was 14. This is all I've wanted for so long and I'm too scared for change. I'm hoping to start the process this year! I'm scared.
@@kylewilliams4414 I'm just a nervous person who thinks too much. I definitely love being a boy. I legally changed my name 3 years ago and I still haven't gotten my new birth certificate. Procrastination and nervousness is just the way I am it seems d:
When he starts T its OVER for everyone
hes gonna be one handsome lad
I have been waiting for an update from Kai for so long finally
My family is still convinced it’s a phase and it’s been 17 years
GUYS WE ARE IN A FUCKING MUSEUM!!!!!!!!! THERE IS A TRANS MUSEUM!!!!!!!!
Lovely documentary hope the boys have an amazing life ahead of them.
I’m 9 months on T and I’m glad I decided to come out
So lucky he gets to get blockers and has a really understanding family.
He is not lucky. Blockers do irreversible damage to the body and the trans lobby lie to trans kids and their parents that blockers do no harm. They do. Blockers are extremely harmful and so are cross sex hormones. It is your family that is understanding not Kai's, your family realises the immense damage that blockers and hormones can do to a growing child and that is why they do not support this. If you still want transition at18 then you can, but to do it before then is very, very damaging so please please research what blockers and t do to the body. Their effects are irreversible and they can really damage you. You might also get to 18 and change your mind.
As a trans pre-teen (ftm) seeing Kai is an inspration to tell me to keep going even tho it seems tough just like Jazz they're like older trans siblings giving incouragement.
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I really liked the museum manager--he was so helpful and encouraging to these young guys!!
Such a beautiful and meaningful video. Thank you for making and posting this.
Such a well spoken young man so proud of him
ahh i remember watching videos like this when i was younger (10 maybe 11?), when i was too scared to even mention wanting to take testosterone to my mom, but now im 15 and starting testosterone in less than 4 months :)
Omg I’ve been waiting for this so long ya ya
I might try to come out OFFICIALLY when I turn 14 this month.
so? anything happen? I'm free to talk if you need to talk to anybody
Both boys are very lucky to have each other and lucky their school supports them
Wait? Did no one else think he was already on t, it looks like it
My mom keeps telling me to do blockers first, but I'm 16 already and there's nothing that the blockers are gonna do at this point lol
Thank you for sharing your story Kay. You make me feel seen. 😊💙
He needs to “ think quick “ about something that will effect them forever. This is weird. 😢
The mother said, I always knew from the beginning that you were going to turn out to be a boy and I’m so proud of you for who you become. ??
@@Sammy_the_nanaikr this is so stupid. media is such a strong tool that is filled up with misinformation
I wish my life had been that way
I wish I had his courage at 9. Would've saved myself from a lot of depression and self hate
I knew since I was young , but I’ve never been out of the closet about anything because my parents would disown me. It’s really horrible having to go through female puberty and I’m 17 now and still only out to my best friend.