@@PianoByT2023 I think the word they were looking for is "cartilage." Even then, they'd still be incorrect because the earlobe doesn't have cartilage in it. I don't know what the right answer is, but it's not flexible bone.
She’s a professional piercer, she knows how to do it correctly and take it slow, I don’t think she has them anymore though. She’s actually pretty amazing.
@@MS-ti6fy trans women are not "curious about being women" , their brain structure is actually female, and being biologically "male" causes them an intense amount of discomfort and emotional pain, therefore they transition into women to feel happier. i suggest you go and research about what its like to be transgender instead of making incorrect assumptions
ABAB what makes you think that they don’t feel that way? your not trans so how is it fair for you to say they aren’t female because I’m trans and I’ve always felt like a girl I wasn’t curious i new what I was idk what your gender is but try to imagine being the opposite sex you would most likely hate it and if a trans girl doesn’t have a female brain then why do I get excited when putting on makeup? or doing my nails? talking about boys with my best friend or going shopping with my bestie why am I so submissive? try to answer that. no normal man would ever get excited about things like that. Since you seem to know how the brain works please explain why I have these feelings
@ABAB Actually there are countless studies that validate transgender and nonbinary identities. That being said however, we don't need science to validate trans/nb experiences, as an individual's identity is a truth fundamentally higher than science - it is a lived experience that just simply exists. Science does not explain all social phenomena because social phenomena is just fundamentally out of its reach
Unfortunatly that's exactly what a lot of self-declared transfolks will tell you: they *identify* as a woman, in other words they chose and weren't born. I identify as a nerd, do I go around ordering acceptance and demanding extra rights based on that? Not so much.
@Old Man Jenkins - Yes, that's a very important point that you make. I'll bet that 95% of women wouldn't appreciate a man using the women's bathroom in a public place. If I owned an establishment with two bathrooms, I would never ever convert them into gender neutral. I have to respect the wishes of the vast majority of people and also do whatever I can to protect my patrons from possible harm from assault.
the lady in blue is so well-spoken and composed and just admirable all around like, her obvious beauty aside, just looks like a really good human being
@@d.j.wellington I don't think you know what respect is. You should NEVER speak about people like that. Whether they hear it or not. You disgusting excuse for a human being. Your parents should have taught you manners.
@@b00t6 this isn't a qna The whole point is that these are bad and invasive questions that you wouldn't ask anyone else and you are not entitled an answer to these dumb questions
@@ottovonbismarck7715 you shouldn't be thinking about what people you don't even know do in bed It's none of your business And I guarantee you don't know what most 'normal' people do in bed either
@@shrek7964 uh not really. i've seen a lot of trans men and women online that look as though they were born the way they are now. also although that can be true for trans women since estrogen doesn;t change their voice as much, trans men usually have voices like any other men
@Hernandez10052 Tends to be asians that are the best at looking like the opposite gender, most white or black people you tend to be able to tell instantly.
I'm not sure. To see cis acceptance as the 'point' of transitioning, rather than feeling at peace personally and having the power to define yourself, seems like a recipe for prejudice and low self worth. People who don't transition medically, or can't afford to, are then put in real danger as well as being made to feel lesser because cis people are able to define who and what they are. Especially for people who are still questioning and unsure, discomfort with how people police your gender expression must be confusing enough without people pressuring you to have surgery because they are uncomfortable and obsessed with whether your your genitals fit their expectations of being 'fully' one gender. You probably didn't mean this in your comment, but it was just something that I wanted to mention.
I remember in kindergarten whenever someone mentioned boy toy/girl toy somehow the teacher will hear and say “there’s no such thing as boy and girl toys. And it was amazing
Girlcakes the teacher is right. We should teach kids from a young age that they can play with any toy they want. And the people who market barbies to girls or gi Joe's to boys are part of the problem since society thinks girls and boys should only be allowed to play with certain toys.
@Melanie H wow, what a hateful lil brat you are. You know, karma will meet you one day. It's never too late to be kind and accepting what other peple are or feel like they are. It's just standard education, since you have no right to decide for them.
Peach Mania Beyonce is a guy thus, Boy-once. ..she/he got caught wearing a fake baby bump...it folded in half during an interview...look it up. Angelina Jolie is a guy as well who wore fake baby moon bumps during her "pregnancies" and later came out saying it was IVF. So, it's not bad Grammer you're just not woke to these things. Pretty simply put actually. Your welcome
Rakeisha nope plenty of 40 plus having kids when they're real women. Maybe you should actually check out the transvestigations on you boy Boy-once and watch the video of his pregnant self with a fake baby moon bump that folds in half during his interview. If you REALLY BELIEVE Beyonce is a chick ..... you've been brain washed with the rest of the sheep. Do your due diligence bro
@American Fuel TV Why? Why did you even watch this video? Are you so petty as to try to ruin someone else's happiness? What did any of these people do to affect your life other than to live theirs the best way they can? I don't understand people like you, so hateful and closeminded.
Aero transsexuality has been around for centuries, so it was 100% a “concept” (your words) in the 1940’s & WAY before that. You should probably do some research before thinking this is in anyway new. It’s not YOUR place to tell ANYONE who or WHAT they are, let alone what’s going on in their brain. People that want to go through the full transition have to be psychologically tested multiple times & over a pretty long time period. It’s not like someone can say “I want to be XYZ” and just walk in & have the procedure(s). Again, doing research or a simple google search would prevent you from making such ignorant comments. Can someone change their biological sex 100%, absolutely not. And the brain isn’t even the issue with that, it’s the sexual organs. Anyone that wants to become a woman will still never have a uterus & be able to carry or birth a baby. Anyone that wants to become a man will never make sperm & be able to naturally impregnate a woman. However, there are MANY biological people that are born with the correct organs & still cannot procreate, but that doesn’t make them any less a man or woman.
person: when did you find out? me: well, obama just waltzed into my room singing “i’ll make a man out of you” then hit me in the head with his magical trans wand and i woke up dysphoric
When people ask me when I decided to be bisexual I tell them it was the eve of my 15th birthday and my fairyqueermother bopped me on the head with her magic wand and I decided I was bi.
yeah, you wouldn’t just waltz up to anyone and ask “what’s in your pants?????” so I don’t see why you would do it to a trans person. unless there’s something that should not be in anyone’s pants like a squirrel or something.
Hazza Nezza short for cisgender, a term that describes someone who identifies with the gender they were born as (eg if you were physically born as female, and still identify as such).
Honestly, she's the only transsexual I've seen that I couldn't tell the difference. Others have subtle hints that give away, but well done to her surgeon
That is bullsh*t, there may like 5 people that would ever just grab your gentails. They just want to make being trans look harder than it actually is. P.S. I know it is difficult but, how many people would actually do this to anyone, like alone a trans person.
@@soubifan700 It's typical for someone to say that I am ignorant for feeling a certain way, even though you have not shown anything to prove that this sort of thing happens all that often. I am not trying to say that that has never happened I just think that they are conflated it into a larger problem than it most likely is.
@@KimWilsonTV idk why people do that. But I have had my ass grabbed in public by someone I never met, all my friends have also experienced that. It mostly happens in public transport. I'm glad it's never happened to you tho hope you can keep believing it never happens.
or the bonus round of "is ur new name similar to ur dead name?" - the amount of times transphobes have just called me the feminine version of my name in an attempt to deadname me is legitimately hilarious
Correct me if I'm wrong, but I find some of these questions relate to phrasing. By phrasing a question successfully, I think the reactions would see a more positive response. As frustrating as it certainly is for the trans community, a lot of people learn directly through asking over-asked, often insulting questions. Better phrasing could look like... 1. When did you know you were trans/when did you decide to live openly as trans? 2. Are you interested in transitional surgeries? If so, are you comfortable disclosing which ones? 3. Do you feel safer using any specific gendered bathroom? 4. Does sex present any challenges for a trans individual or for your partner(s)? 5. I'm not sure of the differences between a trans individual and someone who engages in drag? 6. Would you have been happier keeping your sexuality but having the gender you identify with? 7. .... >Nope. Use your head. 8. ... >Can they feel your personal areas? 9. ... >Congratulations detective, they can tell you're without manners. 10. Stated within the video: what is your preferred pronoun? 11. >They didn't 'convert' from anchovies to jalapenos on a pizza. Golden rule: if it's a general question such as 4/5/7/8/9/11, or a question you would likely not ask anyone else (LGBTQ+ or otherwise) it's probably safe to say that it probably won't be taken kindly. Google is your friend in asking very personal or general questions and only takes a few minutes to get a summary (or, up to years reading from countless individuals) Trans people are just as smart as you or I and they have spent a lot of time considering every aspect of themselves and endured a lot of trials to be where they are today. Assume they have already thought long and hard about their identity and know far more about it than your questions would ever highlight. Treat them as you would wish to be treated as they are: human.
Honestly, all of these questions still seem rude and invasive. I don't think there is any polite way to ask someone about their genitals. It's nobody's business. If the person likes and trusts you, they will disclose this information. if they don't it's because you don't need to know.
Sure, thwy are worded in a more polite fashion. However, not anyone can ask them, you know? Why would I tell you about my surgeries? Will you tell me about your genitalia? Of course, if It's someone close, It's a different story.
SoundArtist I know, I'm a pretty liberal person but the ear lobe thing gets me. I've seen what lobes look like with the jewelry out and it disturbs me a bit - long flaps of ear skin.
SoundArtist I don't have a 'problem' with it - in a free society if that's what someone wants to do that's up to them. But I find it pretty gross to look it.
The earlobe thing is another attention getting behavior, it turns them on to shock people. I do think it's a bit rich to actually go and maim yourself tho, but I do feel that stretching earlobes is nothing compared to getting your genitals surgically removed. The religious nuts all just say it's a sexual deviancy but I think there's a lot more to it than that.
Flamingo Fan what they do is slowly over a lot of time start wearing bigger and bigger earrings to stretch out their ears so to her it feels natural 🙂(also this is random but flamingo is god)
@@rainbowgirl3807 I'm a gay trans guy: I was assigned female at birth, but I'm a trans guy, and I'm attracted to guys (I'm gay), therefore, I had to come out as trans, for me to come out as gay, otherwise, I would be straight cis woman (which just isn't the case).
"When did you decide to be trans?" "Well, you see, I really like 'Make a Man Out of You' as a kid and, little does anyone know, that song has magical properties, and now I'm trans :/"
@ABAB lmao imagine believing that being trans is a choice. if i had a choice id choose to be cis. also why do you need to comment this video if youre transphobic?
Munroe Bergdorf (the gorgeous gal in the black sheer top) was the first person to take me out when I did my study abroad in London, because she told me she knew what it was like to move somewhere new and feel a bit like an outcast. She has a heart of pure gold, and I LOVE that she's part of this conversation. She's brilliant.
Rustin Low They're all so damn gorgeous! The girl with the blue top WOW! the blond girl with the black girl looks like cindy crawford a little, no? You mean the one with the piggy tails? it's always a priviledge to know someone who has struggled so profusely and kept their real self in there. Always. The best kind of people worked through the mud and came out stronger, with real feelings, kinder...
@@HansBjorgman you have to be a real creep to waltz into the comment section of a video about something you clearly disagree with and intentionally be an uneducated buffoon...
savage or nothing "couldn't tell?!" So your basically saying she did a good job covering up her sex rather than calling her pretty. I G N O R A N C E I N T E N S I F I E S . . .
@@Daniela-vk6vp actually, HE passes very well. HE has attractive features which makes it difficult to tell HE is a Male. HE cannot change the fact that HE is male.
@@corneliusbartholemew6725 Bro even Ben Shaprio got destroyed in a debate over the use of pronouns. You dont wanna make yourself look like a fool like he did.
"I can tell that you used to be a man/woman" Meanwhile I'm like I can't tell they're trans even if they say it to my face. They just look like normal people to me, beautiful people to be add.
I was complaining to my friend about gender dysphoria and she just looked at me and it went like this: Her: “... why don’t you just stop it?” Me: “stop what?” Her: “... being... a trans?” We aren’t friends anymore.
thedesk Stating biological fact is not transphobic, but is often (and somewhat ironically) used as an argument against transgender people. You'd be surprised to find out how many biologists support the idea of a gender identity. In fact, I knew a trans person who IS a biologist. Alas, I am somehow unsurprised that you're completely unable to tell the difference between unbiased fact and "fact-based" transphobia.
if youre trans, you are valid dont let others dictate whether you're valid or not, your pain and struggle to find who you are Is valid. Because you are valid
@@HorizonPlaysYT I don't get the real name thing. That makes the least sense of any question because people of all genders, sexual orientations, etc. prefer to go by a name that isn't their legal name. So why would it be any different for a trans person?
Conor Toms Cis is basically someone who identifies as what their sex is. I was born with female parts and my gender is female. If you were born with male parts and your gender is male you are also cisgender. I’m pretty sure that’s how it works.
As a transgender male I have no issue with people asking me questions just be respectful about it. Like it's not hard. Just don't say any slurs and be nice and I'll help.
Lol fr, like i am first of all not trans and am somewhat more conservative than most lgbtq+ people (i am pretty openly bi lol) but like i still agree, a lot of things are just plain rude 😹 i believe you have the RIGHT to say whatever you want... But just because you have the right to do something, doesn't mean that you should do it 😹
Sex: Your genitals and chromosomes at birth, unrelated to gender (male, female, intersex) Gender: How you identify (male, female, agender, etc...) Gender Expression: How you express yourself in a gendered way, but not what your gender is (masculine, feminine, androgynous) Sexual orientation: What gender or lack thereof you are attracted to (hetero, homo, bi, pan, etc...)
pastelcataclysm Gender expression is where the confusion occurs. The reason is a man could dress up as a woman and decide to walk into the woman's bathroom. If he identifies his gender as a woman even though he hold male sexual organs then that would be perfectly fine to do. I can imagine many people being very angry about that.
L.M I guess, but honestly trans people are the only ones being harassed in bathrooms. Schools that have allowed trans youth to use the locker room/bathroom of their choice have reported no problems whatsoever. I guess people are just ignorant
pastelcataclysm That's interesting because I read somewhere about this law in california. The problem with that law is that it singles transgendered individuals so that their difference is highlighted in schools. In an ideal world you'd like them to just use any bathroom they want without there being a law, but since there is a law that allows them, then their difference is explicitly highlighted to other students. Also it doesn't allow those that identify themselves as male to walk into the female bathroom. As a student, you'll notice these different rules that you have with other students and I don't think it'll be inclusive. Also there are individuals that say that they are gender fluid so depending on what they feel on that day, they could find themselves walking into the girls bathroom on tuesday and the guy's one on wednesday. Then you have asexuals whom will feel that it's not fair that they have to choose between two distinct genders. The list just goes on and on.
pastelcataclysm But then that would give even more reason for a man to walk into a woman's bathroom to take a dump. Women's bathrooms are cleaner so if a guy wanted to take a dump in a bathroom, he'll use the woman's one. Also what if he just wants to use the mirror, he can use any bathroom that he wishes. Look the only option is really for transgendered people to get on with it. The world is overwhelmingly made up of two main genders and that will never change. It's sad but I really don't know what else can be done about it. The world is always going to satisfy the majority and apparently majority rule.
One of the main conservative narratives is that boys and girls at young ages start playing with different gendered toys as sign that gender identity is strict and unchangeable. Why are they then so opposed to the idea that a child showing signs of gender non-conformity as a toddler could have some kind of sex condition?
"I woke up one day in 2008 and thought, 'oh this will be a laugh,'" is still the single best thing I have ever heard.
Played as I read it and this is why I believe in magic
Haha yeah I loved that 😂
What have you got down there?☺️👩⚕️
yass
Suck it
-are you a drag queen?
-well nobody's paying me
nina bn love the profiler of bil x ❤️
The girl in the blue hoodie is iconic
@@antmfan231995 yasssss 👌
Clearly a queen as they slayed that question like the enemy of the kingdom.
HOW ARE THOSE EARS STILL IN TACT
@@crybabywaffles5838 please tell me your kidding?? 😂 a "flexible bone"
@@PianoByT2023 I think the word they were looking for is "cartilage." Even then, they'd still be incorrect because the earlobe doesn't have cartilage in it. I don't know what the right answer is, but it's not flexible bone.
that thing is trans-species
She’s a professional piercer, she knows how to do it correctly and take it slow, I don’t think she has them anymore though. She’s actually pretty amazing.
I thought the earlobes (not the ear itself, that's cartilage) were a tendon, muscle or fat.
just a reminder: there's a difference in being curious about something and overstepping boundaries
Exactly! Like you can be curious about being a woman but that doesnt mean you actually are one.
@@MS-ti6fy trans women are not "curious about being women" , their brain structure is actually female, and being biologically "male" causes them an intense amount of discomfort and emotional pain, therefore they transition into women to feel happier. i suggest you go and research about what its like to be transgender instead of making incorrect assumptions
ABAB what makes you think that they don’t feel that way? your not trans so how is it fair for you to say they aren’t female because I’m trans and I’ve always felt like a girl I wasn’t curious i new what I was idk what your gender is but try to imagine being the opposite sex you would most likely hate it and if a trans girl doesn’t have a female brain then why do I get excited when putting on makeup? or doing my nails? talking about boys with my best friend or going shopping with my bestie why am I so submissive? try to answer that. no normal man would ever get excited about things like that. Since you seem to know how the brain works please explain why I have these feelings
@ABAB Actually there are countless studies that validate transgender and nonbinary identities. That being said however, we don't need science to validate trans/nb experiences, as an individual's identity is a truth fundamentally higher than science - it is a lived experience that just simply exists. Science does not explain all social phenomena because social phenomena is just fundamentally out of its reach
@@casey5114 thats actually not how it works so...
"Things not to say to a trans person"
I asked someone if they had a child would they be...trans-parent
Is it bad that I laughed?
is it bad that I'm trans and I'm gonna use this?
@@elijahmichael8593 nope my friend uses it all the time its kinda funny sometimes
@@elijahmichael8593 me too lol
That is good though!!
"which bathroom do you use?"
"the clean one"
Best of😂😂
It's definitely not the women's ...
Tina Wei So, neither?
She doesn't use public bathrooms then
Nothings Impostleble and why exactly?
"Have you had the surgery?"
"Yes." *transforms into a pterodactyl*
Honestly this made me laugh, thank you good sir for making me laugh.
@@Monkey-081hs it is truly an honor.
"when did you decide you were trans"
Yeah I think I drank too much dysphoria juice
@Ivan the flying squirrel not really a troll comment, mostly just my amazing humor and sarcasm
Honestly, same
Dude, I HATE that Damn Dysphoria Juice.
Unfortunatly that's exactly what a lot of self-declared transfolks will tell you: they *identify* as a woman, in other words they chose and weren't born.
I identify as a nerd, do I go around ordering acceptance and demanding extra rights based on that? Not so much.
These things confuse me too
'I woke up one day in 2008 and thought this would be a laugh' 🤣🤣
Can't stop laughing 🤣🤣🤣
PewYoureDead ‘cept being transgender is not a mental illness
@@Turt3752 Oh Yes it is
PewYoureDead Source?
PewYoureDead I’m a lesbian, I have mental problems, being a lesbian is not one of them :).
"What bathroom do u use?"
"The clean one."
I died
I died laughing
We don't even need gender neutral bathroom tbh.
That's me tbh
@Old Man Jenkins - Yes, that's a very important point that you make. I'll bet that 95% of women wouldn't appreciate a man using the women's bathroom in a public place. If I owned an establishment with two bathrooms, I would never ever convert them into gender neutral. I have to respect the wishes of the vast majority of people and also do whatever I can to protect my patrons from possible harm from assault.
Doodle Dog lmfaoooo😂
“What do you do in bed”
“I sleep”
*Okay I love her now*
Ur mom gay
It is a boy
gta glitch no it’s a girl
Pyromike Her*
She is a woman, bigoty bob
the lady in blue is so well-spoken and composed and just admirable all around like, her obvious beauty aside, just looks like a really good human being
@@d.j.wellington lady*
@@d.j.wellington how about just ne respectful
@@d.j.wellington I don't think you know what respect is. You should NEVER speak about people like that. Whether they hear it or not. You disgusting excuse for a human being. Your parents should have taught you manners.
@@d.j.wellington You know that your not being respectful right?
@@Ellipoilly Sorry but the truth had to be spoken. Repent and trust in Jesus.
"I mean like, what do YOU do in bed??"
"Sleep."
Avoiding the questions is what you do I a QnA
@@b00t6 this isn't a qna
The whole point is that these are bad and invasive questions that you wouldn't ask anyone else and you are not entitled an answer to these dumb questions
@@Yetaxa that's because we know what normal people who haven't chosen to change gender do in bed
@@ottovonbismarck7715 you shouldn't be thinking about what people you don't even know do in bed
It's none of your business
And I guarantee you don't know what most 'normal' people do in bed either
@@Yetaxa most normal people have sex the right way. Not to sure how trans have sex or what they do, who does what etc
"i couldnt tell you were trans"
*THATS THE WHOLE POINT*
Zoura well I mean u can kinda tell if someone’s trans by their voice or like one masculine or feminine feature like the nose or face structure
@@shrek7964 uh not really. i've seen a lot of trans men and women online that look as though they were born the way they are now. also although that can be true for trans women since estrogen doesn;t change their voice as much, trans men usually have voices like any other men
@Hernandez10052 Tends to be asians that are the best at looking like the opposite gender, most white or black people you tend to be able to tell instantly.
I'm not sure. To see cis acceptance as the 'point' of transitioning, rather than feeling at peace personally and having the power to define yourself, seems like a recipe for prejudice and low self worth. People who don't transition medically, or can't afford to, are then put in real danger as well as being made to feel lesser because cis people are able to define who and what they are. Especially for people who are still questioning and unsure, discomfort with how people police your gender expression must be confusing enough without people pressuring you to have surgery because they are uncomfortable and obsessed with whether your your genitals fit their expectations of being 'fully' one gender.
You probably didn't mean this in your comment, but it was just something that I wanted to mention.
@@shrek7964 Im trans and people dont believe i was a female once so my siblings need to confirm it lmao so idk i wouldnt say u can always detect it
I remember in kindergarten whenever someone mentioned boy toy/girl toy somehow the teacher will hear and say “there’s no such thing as boy and girl toys. And it was amazing
gircakes yeah ik but imagine trying to explain that to a bunch of 3 yr olds
@@gircakes You don't need to be told that, tho. Isn't it obvious?
@@bread8936... Clearly it doesn't need explaining because you said the kids knew what boy/girl toys are 🤣
No such thing as boy toy or girl toy unless it's something else
Girlcakes the teacher is right. We should teach kids from a young age that they can play with any toy they want. And the people who market barbies to girls or gi Joe's to boys are part of the problem since society thinks girls and boys should only be allowed to play with certain toys.
the woman with the blue jumpsuit got her british sarcasm on point 😭🤣
@Melanie H OH MY GOD SHE is a GIRL because she's TRANSGENDER.
@Melanie H wow, what a hateful lil brat you are. You know, karma will meet you one day. It's never too late to be kind and accepting what other peple are or feel like they are. It's just standard education, since you have no right to decide for them.
@Melanie H yeah you can change your gender, you even mentioned one of the steps: surgery.
@@d.o.m7321 no
moonlight sonata lmaooo
Okay why is nobody talking about the woman in the blue sweatshirt?! I love her so much. So much sass.
Paris is a man.
@@standup2982 *Wo
@@WolfeWrangle no
@@standup2982 Welp, that's your (thoroughly misguided) opinion.
endmisogyny now misogyny includes trans women. Better change your name. Or maybe you can change your emotion-driven opinion for fact-based ones.
"What do you do in bed?" "Eat ice cream and sleep!"
@@jaelo7496 that was awful Grammer and I didn't understand it but ok
Peach Mania Beyonce is a guy thus, Boy-once. ..she/he got caught wearing a fake baby bump...it folded in half during an interview...look it up. Angelina Jolie is a guy as well who wore fake baby moon bumps during her "pregnancies" and later came out saying it was IVF. So, it's not bad Grammer you're just not woke to these things. Pretty simply put actually. Your welcome
Jae Lo Beyoncé ain’t trans she waited too long to have kids so she had complications. Women’s fertility drops once they’re past 35
Rakeisha nope plenty of 40 plus having kids when they're real women. Maybe you should actually check out the transvestigations on you boy Boy-once and watch the video of his pregnant self with a fake baby moon bump that folds in half during his interview. If you REALLY BELIEVE Beyonce is a chick ..... you've been brain washed with the rest of the sheep. Do your due diligence bro
Jae Lo I didn’t say that women can’t have kids over 40 I said that the fertility rate drops 😂😂😂 read what I’m tryna say plz
Lol, “When are you getting the surgery?”
“Do _you_ have $5,000? I’ll do it right now.”
Rude Person: “I can tell you used to be a man”
Girl in Blue: “No, you can’t”
LOVE HER
@American Fuel TV Why? Why did you even watch this video? Are you so petty as to try to ruin someone else's happiness? What did any of these people do to affect your life other than to live theirs the best way they can? I don't understand people like you, so hateful and closeminded.
So I'm a trans woman but I was born with outward physically female characteristics. How do you explain that?
Katie you’re a man not a woman
Aero transsexuality has been around for centuries, so it was 100% a “concept” (your words) in the 1940’s & WAY before that. You should probably do some research before thinking this is in anyway new.
It’s not YOUR place to tell ANYONE who or WHAT they are, let alone what’s going on in their brain. People that want to go through the full transition have to be psychologically tested multiple times & over a pretty long time period. It’s not like someone can say “I want to be XYZ” and just walk in & have the procedure(s).
Again, doing research or a simple google search would prevent you from making such ignorant comments.
Can someone change their biological sex 100%, absolutely not. And the brain isn’t even the issue with that, it’s the sexual organs. Anyone that wants to become a woman will still never have a uterus & be able to carry or birth a baby. Anyone that wants to become a man will never make sperm & be able to naturally impregnate a woman. However, there are MANY biological people that are born with the correct organs & still cannot procreate, but that doesn’t make them any less a man or woman.
Jenna Frazier Sir you’re triggered eh
person: when did you find out?
me: well, obama just waltzed into my room singing “i’ll make a man out of you” then hit me in the head with his magical trans wand and i woke up dysphoric
Leezy Doodles lol I love this comment
Edit: just realized, Sonia pfp Sonia pfp Sonia pfp
When people ask me when I decided to be bisexual I tell them it was the eve of my 15th birthday and my fairyqueermother bopped me on the head with her magic wand and I decided I was bi.
Honestly, same
i-
How is that an impolite question? Sounds like you're a bit of a prick if that's your answer to a perfectly reasonable question.
"Well i think i just woke up one day in 2008 and thought _"oh this'll be a laugh""_ god we stan her lmao.
When using quotations inside a quote, use ' instead of " :)
Hey i saw you somewhere else
@@hammy6968 fairly likely
@@jjju3 Lol
she seems so great
Great litmus test for questions appropriate for trans people:
Would it be appropriate to ask a cis person the same question?
yeah, you wouldn’t just waltz up to anyone and ask “what’s in your pants?????” so I don’t see why you would do it to a trans person. unless there’s something that should not be in anyone’s pants like a squirrel or something.
Wtf is cis
Hazza Nezza short for cisgender, a term that describes someone who identifies with the gender they were born as (eg if you were physically born as female, and still identify as such).
@@heidicollyer5199 ah right thanks, my friend tried explaining it to me and did a shit job but you made it clear cheers
Hazza Nezza no problem :)
GAGES HURT I CANT IMAGINE GETTING ONES THAT BIG
LIKE RESPECT TO HER FOR HAVING THAT PAIN TOLERANCE
It actually hurts less as they get bigger. Ask anyone with stretched ears, the hardest part is getting them started.
It's a dude dressed up as a woman.
Frederick Wertella listen gramps go back to the newspaper or maybe learn to be respectful
Bonsai Gecko oh my god I love you. That was the best comeback omg
@@bonsaigecko9153 IM LAUGHING
Okay why is no one talking about the girl with the purple hair in the blue sweatshirt?? My HEART!
Trueeee
ohh i thought her hair was black! shes awesome
ayyyyeeee
Paris Lees! She's absolutely stunning.
Shes fukin adorble
Those ears are bigger than my chance of having a future
S A M E
T H O
Her ears are bigger than her future
Carter Meister *my
Magic895 AJ "its"
I don't know if this is mean, but her earrings are bigger than my chance of actually have a life. So ya I agree with you. Me too.
“I can tell that you used to be a man”
Girl at 6:33: “No you can’t”
I’m living😂
Me too
Well she's right 😂😂😂
I really can't and I'm quite impressed tbh...
Get 360 noscoped just like your mom 🇺🇲
Honestly, she's the only transsexual I've seen that I couldn't tell the difference. Others have subtle hints that give away, but well done to her surgeon
“Are you a drag queen?”
“Well I’m not getting paid”
"well I woke up one day in 2008 and thought this would be a laugh"
I'm death 😂
I’m death too
D e a t h I n t e n s i f i e s
Hello death.
@@fandomfeels-ye3fo hello feels
Stolen comment booooooo
Wow. The fact that people grab their private areas... that's heart breaking. Like really, come on. That's so wrong.
That is bullsh*t, there may like 5 people that would ever just grab your gentails. They just want to make being trans look harder than it actually is.
P.S. I know it is difficult but, how many people would actually do this to anyone, like alone a trans person.
@@hollyhoskey3593 I can literally feel the ignorance and lack of knowledge from your comment. 😔
@@soubifan700 It's typical for someone to say that I am ignorant for feeling a certain way, even though you have not shown anything to prove that this sort of thing happens all that often. I am not trying to say that that has never happened I just think that they are conflated it into a larger problem than it most likely is.
As if people do that...ridiculous! No one does that! That is a lie! Who would actually do something like that?
@@KimWilsonTV idk why people do that. But I have had my ass grabbed in public by someone I never met, all my friends have also experienced that. It mostly happens in public transport. I'm glad it's never happened to you tho hope you can keep believing it never happens.
Another question I always get asked is “what’s your dead name?”
Like...none of your business? Tf lmao
or the bonus round of "is ur new name similar to ur dead name?" - the amount of times transphobes have just called me the feminine version of my name in an attempt to deadname me is legitimately hilarious
My dead name is destined to curse the earth and bring upon the end times if it is ushered in voice
It hurts when someone hits you with the “whats your real name”
Yes, and the thing is a lot of people say 'real name' and it's just so rude.
"How do you have sex"
"Fabulously"
Her answer is just 👌💯
...except that's not very witty, that's dodging the question.
Joe Schmoe they shouldn’t be asking her that inappropriate question in the first place
But they're not the same. If they were, we wouldn't have asked them in the first place.
Joe Schmoe you don’t have the license to ask people those hideous questions you’re ignorant is what you are it’s disgusting how ignorant you are
Axel Venti him not a her
I'm pretty sure home girl gets asked about her damn ears alot more than any of this shit
hollyccam probably😂😂
hollyccam why cant people make videos without getting made fun of.nobody knows how to stop😥👿
SomeEdgyZombieCat a she
😭😂😂😂😂
G Perez
a freak show
"which bathroom do you use?" The clean one. HANDS DOWN BEST ANSWER
Ashley Hosmer off topic but HANDS DOWN BEST PROFILE PIC
Sorry I may or may not listen to a lot of twenty one pilots 😂
|-/
Ashley Hosmer |-/
Ashley Hosmer or as a comeback "the one your not in"
|-/
The woman with the blue hoodie should be a comedian 😂😂😂😂
Yeah she a jokester thinking he a woman
@@memyself8484 lmao!!! *pees in your mouth* 😍😍
@@fartinfpooping8801 wtf
@@fartinfpooping8801 LMFAO-
@@fartinfpooping8801 LMFAO-
Correct me if I'm wrong, but I find some of these questions relate to phrasing. By phrasing a question successfully, I think the reactions would see a more positive response. As frustrating as it certainly is for the trans community, a lot of people learn directly through asking over-asked, often insulting questions.
Better phrasing could look like...
1. When did you know you were trans/when did you decide to live openly as trans?
2. Are you interested in transitional surgeries? If so, are you comfortable disclosing which ones?
3. Do you feel safer using any specific gendered bathroom?
4. Does sex present any challenges for a trans individual or for your partner(s)?
5. I'm not sure of the differences between a trans individual and someone who engages in drag?
6. Would you have been happier keeping your sexuality but having the gender you identify with?
7. .... >Nope. Use your head.
8. ... >Can they feel your personal areas?
9. ... >Congratulations detective, they can tell you're without manners.
10. Stated within the video: what is your preferred pronoun?
11. >They didn't 'convert' from anchovies to jalapenos on a pizza.
Golden rule: if it's a general question such as 4/5/7/8/9/11, or a question you would likely not ask anyone else (LGBTQ+ or otherwise) it's probably safe to say that it probably won't be taken kindly. Google is your friend in asking very personal or general questions and only takes a few minutes to get a summary (or, up to years reading from countless individuals) Trans people are just as smart as you or I and they have spent a lot of time considering every aspect of themselves and endured a lot of trials to be where they are today. Assume they have already thought long and hard about their identity and know far more about it than your questions would ever highlight. Treat them as you would wish to be treated as they are: human.
Zack Young see in these videos they use short phrases that people say to them and there mostly rude comments that they turn to questions.
This comment is my new holy book
Honestly, all of these questions still seem rude and invasive. I don't think there is any polite way to ask someone about their genitals. It's nobody's business. If the person likes and trusts you, they will disclose this information. if they don't it's because you don't need to know.
Tis true, I'm not sure it really is appropriate to really bother asking unless you're already close. Not something people need to know.
Sure, thwy are worded in a more polite fashion. However, not anyone can ask them, you know? Why would I tell you about my surgeries? Will you tell me about your genitalia? Of course, if It's someone close, It's a different story.
I aspire to be as smooth and stunning as that lady in the blue hoodie.
It’s on my bucket list.
Are u sure it's a lady
@@tylerhardin5072 Yes. Have a nice day
@@tylerhardin5072 she's*
I think I triggerd some people
I don't know if it's good or bad that most people on here seem to have more of a problem with ear stretching than trans people.
SoundArtist I was watching and I those ear lobes, Jesus so stretched. I think she pulls it off though.
SoundArtist I know, I'm a pretty liberal person but the ear lobe thing gets me. I've seen what lobes look like with the jewelry out and it disturbs me a bit - long flaps of ear skin.
SoundArtist I don't have a 'problem' with it - in a free society if that's what someone wants to do that's up to them. But I find it pretty gross to look it.
The earlobe thing is another attention getting behavior, it turns them on to shock people. I do think it's a bit rich to actually go and maim yourself tho, but I do feel that stretching earlobes is nothing compared to getting your genitals surgically removed. The religious nuts all just say it's a sexual deviancy but I think there's a lot more to it than that.
You'd never leave the house!
CAN WE JUST TALK ABOUT HOW COOL THE GIRL WITH THE GIANT EARINGS EYES ARE OML THEY LOOK SO COOL!!
Kokoro Nakamura YESSSS
Kokoro Nakamura IKR ME TOO
It looks painful but hot
Flamingo Fan what they do is slowly over a lot of time start wearing bigger and bigger earrings to stretch out their ears so to her it feels natural 🙂(also this is random but flamingo is god)
thischannelnamesucks_gachalife yesssssss
"What toilet do you use?"
"The clean one."
That was my favorite, I literally spit out my drink on that one.
yes
The aBSOLUTE best
Kris Nice. This is perversion! now their in our church. That's not a church.
That's the best comeback I've ever heard 😂😂👌
“Which bathroom do you use”
“The clean one”
M E
Local Number 206 yeah, no, not you.
S A M E
Local Number 206 copying spooky kylie?
tayietu g who?
If they be using a bathroom I use, I be running home to do my needs.
“Which bathroom do you use?”
“The clean one.”
I am dead😂😂😂
Alicia very true though
ikr! that killed me lol XD
Your face lol 😀😂😆
Alicia 😂😂😂
Good.
0:24 I wouldn't even notice you being transgender but all my questions would go towards your ears.
ikr lol
She got them repaired shortly after this video
Well yeah, u read in my mind...for all the length of the video I was wondering how did she not realize maybe those were a lil too big for her ears🤣
Her ears are less stretched out now I follow her on Instagram
@@lltcacul750 supp, I'm right here to mind other ppl's business. What's her ig?
"which bathroom do you use?"
"the clean one"
THE BEST THING you can anwser at this moment
"are you sure you aren't just gay"
"Oh I wish, wouldn't it be fabulous to just be gay"
Me too lmao
I am gay thank you very much. I first had to come out as trans to come out as gay... *roll eyes*
@@Unknown-ov2kz what do you mean
@@rainbowgirl3807 I'm a gay trans guy: I was assigned female at birth, but I'm a trans guy, and I'm attracted to guys (I'm gay), therefore, I had to come out as trans, for me to come out as gay, otherwise, I would be straight cis woman (which just isn't the case).
Gay trans people watching this video be like 👋😌
"Do it again and I'll break them in my hand" 😂
I think I'm in love with her...
Wow the girl in the blue hoodie is beautiful
I couldn’t tell that she once was a boy. She’s gorgeous
@@Joesmith-sc9wz she*
Oh, Joe, you stupid, stupid person
Her name is Paris Lees, she is a journalist for the Guardian
Even better ;)
me two years ago watching this: this is very good! good for them!
me now: how obsessed i was with this video should’ve been a sign
Forgot one
‘What is your REAL name?’
ジャガイモグリフィン i'm glad *someone* said it
HARD LEFT SKKKRRRTTTT
Ughhgcftudvjtchkiwack
AUGHHHHHHHHH
ASKSJSJISHAKJWIWISFH NOT THAT ONE
Comments:
1% The girl in the blue sweater is beautiful
1% the girl with the long black hair is so beautiful
98% HER EARS ARE SOO BIG!!!!
Zafira his*
@@benjewitt9629 they were both men
They are men
@@benjewitt9629 *her
That's transelephant
I'm not worried about them being trans... I'm worried about that girls ears. They are going to rip. 😯😧
The Apple Seeds if they re streched properly and right, then no.
finndoesithisway they can still rip, if they accidentally get caught and she can’t get them out then they rip, anything could happen
She closed them up already.
@@jennynguyen9068 how!?
@@kittycatgirl1139 Most likely surgery.
"When did you decide to be trans?"
"Well, you see, I really like 'Make a Man Out of You' as a kid and, little does anyone know, that song has magical properties, and now I'm trans :/"
😂😂
@ABAB lmao imagine believing that being trans is a choice. if i had a choice id choose to be cis. also why do you need to comment this video if youre transphobic?
@@volfslair "Cis" is a made up by people who hate themselfs why cant you say normal people?
@@SlaveMerchant because trans people are normal too
@@volfslair there not
Munroe Bergdorf (the gorgeous gal in the black sheer top) was the first person to take me out when I did my study abroad in London, because she told me she knew what it was like to move somewhere new and feel a bit like an outcast. She has a heart of pure gold, and I LOVE that she's part of this conversation. She's brilliant.
Yay! :)
Rustin Low They're all so damn gorgeous! The girl with the blue top WOW! the blond girl with the black girl looks like cindy crawford a little, no? You mean the one with the piggy tails? it's always a priviledge to know someone who has struggled so profusely and kept their real self in there. Always. The best kind of people worked through the mud and came out stronger, with real feelings, kinder...
What has happened to America....LOOK AT THEM
Daniel yos They r british indeed. U can tell from the accent
Dora S Why does looks need to be a standard of how quality a person is
You have to be a real creep to ask someone about their surgical history
You have to be a real creep to tell someone you're a woman when you're actually a man in disguise.
Hans Bjorgman really?!
@@HansBjorgman yeah. That's how trans men feel when they have to hide who they are.
@@HansBjorgman you have to be a real creep to waltz into the comment section of a video about something you clearly disagree with and intentionally be an uneducated buffoon...
Hans Bjorgman yup 👌
Whoever that guy is with the black T-shirt and black/aqua hair...damn he is hot!
Marsha Q I saw him and was like FUCK ME UP MY DUDE GODDAMN
Marsha Q she*
Max sewell What?
Max sewell *he
Die Milch she
The girl with the black and blue hair though- she’s so pretty!
Agreed, she is totally gorgeous ❤️
You mean the man
@@SlaveMerchant she is NOT a man
@@idontreallyknowlol7223 he is
@@SlaveMerchant SHE’S a lovely and beautiful WOMAN
"Are you a drag queen?"
"*looks up* well I'm not getting paid. ._."
I couldn't stop laughing 😂😂💜
"which bathroom do you use?" "the clean one" nice
Edit WOW thanks for all the likes
PRGME7 which*
mE
PRGME7 - which*
Nicky Pedatella transphobic.
Nicky Notorious why are you even watching this?
I couldn't even tell the woman in the blue sweatshirt was even trans
savage or nothing "couldn't tell?!" So your basically saying she did a good job covering up her sex rather than calling her pretty. I G N O R A N C E I N T E N S I F I E S . . .
isn’t passing part of the goal of any sane trans person transitioning? just saying 💀🗿
@@Daniela-vk6vp actually, HE passes very well. HE has attractive features which makes it difficult to tell HE is a Male. HE cannot change the fact that HE is male.
@@corneliusbartholemew6725 Bro even Ben Shaprio got destroyed in a debate over the use of pronouns. You dont wanna make yourself look like a fool like he did.
@zonescat 'If you don't have dysphoria you're NOT trans.
"I can tell that you used to be a man/woman"
Meanwhile I'm like I can't tell they're trans even if they say it to my face. They just look like normal people to me, beautiful people to be add.
You can’t be serious… 🤣
I was complaining to my friend about gender dysphoria and she just looked at me and it went like this:
Her: “... why don’t you just stop it?”
Me: “stop what?”
Her: “... being... a trans?”
We aren’t friends anymore.
ThatboyJayden what how
HOW DO PEOPLE NOT UNDERSTAND THAT YOU CANT CONTOL HOW YOU ARE BORN
Some people are very ignorant. Good job for stepping away from that friendship.
oh god you also could have explained it to her. Some people just don't understand it. Nothing wrong with telling them the truth
Lol. I call bull shit.
ThatboyJayden Omg I get it 100%
It's so annoying when people say that, especially if they're trusted ones...
I love how soft-spoken the girl in the blue is. She's precious.
@@_blank-_ I understand, you're just at a loss for words at her beauty. I get it 😉
You mean the man in the blue?
it is a "he" and he's very pretty
Alison EvaMari he’s just mad he can’t pull a girl that beautiful
I don't think they can fly better than that.
I hear people saying “ you pass so well” and I’m like THATS THE WHOLE POINT
I mean- yeah- but I'd cry
isnt that a compliment?
Sad.
@@breloom8448 not to most trans people
@@felix-hm9jn why. Not so many pass well
The only question I would consider asking these people is “why are you all so attractive?” cause it’s just not fair.
Surprisingly, I'm not seeing many transphobic comments, and instead, most of the comments are about ear stretching, so I guess that's a win.
Maybe, shock horror, someone is deleting them?
The transphobic comments get fewer upvotes so you have to search for longer to find them...
A win indeed for big ears
That's because they delete them.
thedesk Stating biological fact is not transphobic, but is often (and somewhat ironically) used as an argument against transgender people. You'd be surprised to find out how many biologists support the idea of a gender identity. In fact, I knew a trans person who IS a biologist. Alas, I am somehow unsurprised that you're completely unable to tell the difference between unbiased fact and "fact-based" transphobia.
"Which toilet do you use?"
Us in Greece confused cause we completely ignoring the gender and just going in the free one
My response: I use the UNISEX TOILETS! (God, I’m so lucky to have them in my school. ❣).
Haha 😂😂
My response: I just pee in a bucket
lucky!!!
Is it a shared restroom or a single person bathroom?
One could get lost in those ears
oH wOw this comment needs WAY more likes
oH wOw it’s a damn plate in there
"Things not to say to people with big earrings"
Clicked on the video for the ears
Yeah, those are hard to look at..
if youre trans, you are valid
dont let others dictate whether you're valid or not, your pain and struggle to find who you are Is valid. Because you are valid
Yass! ❤
Another meaningless platitude to farm updoots and gather oh so precious virtue points
@@l4zrh4wk i mean, if you think that, thats awesome! you do you, man!
Yeah, but your opinion isn't valid.
@@Skrillful thts great! im very proud of you! keep doin what youre doin! love ya!
What do I do in bed?
Mostly sleep, occasionally belching loudly, and waking up the dog
lmaooo
Sleep.
I think my least favorite questions are " can I see your pre transition photos? " or " but what's your real name?"
I get the what's your real name daily, as well as are you sure it's not a phase?
@@HorizonPlaysYT I don't get the real name thing. That makes the least sense of any question because people of all genders, sexual orientations, etc. prefer to go by a name that isn't their legal name. So why would it be any different for a trans person?
Triggered over people asking your real name?! LMAOO NOW THIS IS JUST SADDD
@@andrewaguayo115*sighs*
Honestly. If you can’t say it to a Cis person, don’t say it to a Trans.
It’s that simple.
Yep
right
True
The fucks a CIS person
Conor Toms Cis is basically someone who identifies as what their sex is. I was born with female parts and my gender is female. If you were born with male parts and your gender is male you are also cisgender. I’m pretty sure that’s how it works.
"Which bathroom do you use?"
"The clean one"
THAT LADY IS MY SPIRIT ANIMAL
Man*
@@SlaveMerchant the exit is right there, no one wants you here :D
@@shinkikomori7386 ok weeb, it's still a man.
@@Hypie582 and you're still a transphobe.
@@umhi6197 let me correct myself, I meant to say feel not think.
That girl with then blue sweater is adorable
Little One yesss
She is gorgeous would never had thought she was ever in a man's body if I was not told. She is stunning
Yessss she is so cute skddkddldmmkdd
dude*
@@Sir_Catnip why don't you just shut up seriously
"Oh, I fink I just woke up one day in 2008 and thought, oh this would be a loff." Gosh, love you brits. so sassy.
"a loff"
What does loff mean😂
+CS L they said "laugh"
I was wondering where my car tires went.
😂😂😂
BOI
There are two manhole covers missing in my neighborhood.
Lmaooo 😭
Lmao
“Which toilet do you use?”
The disabled one *rolls off in wheelchair*
ABAB yep
Those damn ears got me shook
KidKrayzy_playz yea I’m really shooken
KidKrayzy_playz porn
I follow her on Insta
KidKrayzy_playz lol same
I mean I respect people whatever they wear But Those look very painful
Which bathroom do you use? "The clean one." lmaooo
The gal with the blue jumper seems soo nice😻😻
@Johannes she is a human being just like you
@Johannes hmmmm she breaths she has feelings she is a human hmmm i think shes a sweet humans girl not an it!
Tay and jayynation Roberts no, he’s an animal
Who Is she?
@Ella Windstorm no your disgusting
2:11 the girl with dark hair omg she's so breathtakingly beautiful. My gay little heart is singing
She's wearing coffee cup plates in her ears im dead
lmaooooooo
*He’s
What is up Mane *It's
that thing was the most disgusting off all the monsters i have ever seen
@@Maxawsomeness_1995 just like your profile pic?
“How do you have sex?”
“Fabulously.”
@sacr3d g6om9try rude
"When did you decide to be transgender?"
"When did you decide to be a human being?"
SAVAGE
“Are you sure you’re not just gay”
Me, a trans lesbian: Actually yes, I am gay.
@south park nerd ngl *she/her
@@lilykirby6927 for you
@south park nerd ngl no for op
Neme lmao 😆 I’m trans man lol
@no, my name is tyler again, ok call him what you want i'll do the same
I mean no hate or disrespect to anyone, but that lady's ears make me physically uncomfortable, it just looks painful, I don't know why
I know right? I'm literally hiding from them in the comments...
It’s just gonna *snap*
It's a very slow and gradual stretching process to get them to a size that large. It shouldn't hurt. If it does, the person did something wrong.
Queen of Toast i consider it art. I dont think you’re hating but she is expressing herself. I get uncomfortable by that stuff to
anna banana Still though, it looks like they could break at any moment
Dude, Once someone asked me if they could call me "it" and I almost punted them outta the Stratosphere.
Sadly I'm weak and I have to back down from then 😟
Punched*
@@Mystic189 You don't know what a punt is?
You sure it wasn't buffalo Bill? "It puts the lotion on it's skin or else it gets the hose again."
@@Mystic189 punted*
As a transgender male I have no issue with people asking me questions just be respectful about it. Like it's not hard. Just don't say any slurs and be nice and I'll help.
THOSE EAR GAUGES WOW
THOSE EARS ARE STRETCHED FARTHER THAN THE AMOUNT OF TIME I PUT OFF MY HOMEWORK
billie-ache eyelash oml
Me
Well that impossible for me
I thought this was a Buzzfeed video for a sec.
then it started to become interesting and you realized it isn't.
+Nitasha Johnson lmao 😂
so did i
Same
Same though!
*when you're not even trans but you still get triggered*
Lol fr, like i am first of all not trans and am somewhat more conservative than most lgbtq+ people (i am pretty openly bi lol) but like i still agree, a lot of things are just plain rude 😹 i believe you have the RIGHT to say whatever you want... But just because you have the right to do something, doesn't mean that you should do it 😹
One of my closest friends is trans and he always rants to me about this kind of stuff so I'm on the same page 😂
Already have one
Lol I’m pan and not trans but I still argue about this with my mum
Winnie Careless sorry i live in reality and not some fantasy so I don’t know what you mean by pan. I use pans to fry though.
Why is nobody talking about her earings? It must have taken so much work to build up to that size. That's dedication.
His*
we all thought this was buzzfeed
Alexadorbs 1 nah just you
Yes
Just you mate buzzfeed is cancer
Alexadorbs fuck buzzfeed
Nope
Sex: Your genitals and chromosomes at birth, unrelated to gender (male, female, intersex)
Gender: How you identify (male, female, agender, etc...)
Gender Expression: How you express yourself in a gendered way, but not what your gender is (masculine, feminine, androgynous)
Sexual orientation: What gender or lack thereof you are attracted to (hetero, homo, bi, pan, etc...)
pastelcataclysm Gender expression is where the confusion occurs. The reason is a man could dress up as a woman and decide to walk into the woman's bathroom. If he identifies his gender as a woman even though he hold male sexual organs then that would be perfectly fine to do. I can imagine many people being very angry about that.
L.M I guess, but honestly trans people are the only ones being harassed in bathrooms. Schools that have allowed trans youth to use the locker room/bathroom of their choice have reported no problems whatsoever. I guess people are just ignorant
pastelcataclysm That's interesting because I read somewhere about this law in california. The problem with that law is that it singles transgendered individuals so that their difference is highlighted in schools. In an ideal world you'd like them to just use any bathroom they want without there being a law, but since there is a law that allows them, then their difference is explicitly highlighted to other students. Also it doesn't allow those that identify themselves as male to walk into the female bathroom. As a student, you'll notice these different rules that you have with other students and I don't think it'll be inclusive.
Also there are individuals that say that they are gender fluid so depending on what they feel on that day, they could find themselves walking into the girls bathroom on tuesday and the guy's one on wednesday. Then you have asexuals whom will feel that it's not fair that they have to choose between two distinct genders. The list just goes on and on.
L.M It would be so much easier if bathrooms were just labelled urinals and no urinals.
pastelcataclysm But then that would give even more reason for a man to walk into a woman's bathroom to take a dump. Women's bathrooms are cleaner so if a guy wanted to take a dump in a bathroom, he'll use the woman's one. Also what if he just wants to use the mirror, he can use any bathroom that he wishes.
Look the only option is really for transgendered people to get on with it. The world is overwhelmingly made up of two main genders and that will never change. It's sad but I really don't know what else can be done about it. The world is always going to satisfy the majority and apparently majority rule.
your seriously gonna tell me at the young age of like 2 to 3 years old, you will know your exact gender
One of the main conservative narratives is that boys and girls at young ages start playing with different gendered toys as sign that gender identity is strict and unchangeable.
Why are they then so opposed to the idea that a child showing signs of gender non-conformity as a toddler could have some kind of sex condition?
@@Star-Bubbles123 a sex condition would happen at birth not when they were a toddler.
@@80sgaybaby12 Said sex condition only shows symptoms when they are toddlers.
@@Star-Bubbles123 After being a paediatric nurse for over 25 years I would have to disagree with you
And I’d have to say that one black girl with the long black hair is Utterly gorgeous
Khalila Russell IKR SHES SO FREAKING PRETTY ANDBFBS
Khalila Russell guy
Echoxulan girl
Echoxulan I'm pretty sure they identify as a female. Just a guess.
Khalila Russell did you mean the guy
The girls in the white top and black top sitting together slay my life
Janina [*Nina*] They're hot as hell too
Janina [*Nina*] I know, I wish I could look that good, and be confident like that. Like hook a girl up.
Guys**
The guy with the blue hair is so attractive to me
Gabby the girl*
RFTS Spike there is nothing wrong with any of these people
The only THING that is wrong here is YOU
Y'all there is a guy with blue hair and a girl with blue hair. Maybe she meant the guy with tattoos????
Suga a.k.a Agust D omg I didn't mention a girl with blue hair I said a girl with a blue jacket plz read next time
SofiaMonique Uuuuum but you never talked about the girl with the blue jacket? Idk what you mean
I like the girl in the blue. She graciously answers the questions, instead of getting overly sassy and judgy.
The woman with the long black hair is stunning
Munroe Bergdof I believe is her name
Yeah she's beautiful. I mean I wouldn't date her cause I'm a minor and stuff but yeah
C. Michael bruh
@C. Michael guess I'm gay then
@C. Michael *sharp inhale* r/whoosh (also there are sins other than sodomy, sinner.)
I could see those two transgender girls (The blonde and the black haired girls) as best friends for some reason.
Adorably Evil same 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
I could see them having like a TH-cam talk show or something haha xD
Adorably Evil they look ugly AF damn ew
same they vibed well i need this ??
Adorably Evil yeah they're adorable together haha need to like do a vid together or something