Going back to the caravan park (whilst understandably unimaginable to some) sent a powerful message to the child that she had done nothing wrong - and had nothing to be ashamed of. I'm sure this will be key to her moving forward from this. A horrific nightmare realised - what an impressive and strong lady.
Trust, support and protected. This Irish mother did everything correct! This young child will feel protected from the actions of this mother. Sweeping it under the rug! Only leads to the current issues we have in this country. It is always the difference of the parents and how they react in these unthinkable situations. this child has a strong chance of growing up with a stronger survivor mentality thanks to the actions of this mother and father. Rather then feeling they where at fault and sucomming to more abuse later on in life...feeling like their is no way out and ashamed. This child now is aware the adult was at fault and I hope for you all justice is done! Prayers for you all.
I love how bear is just so honest as some viewer would have that exact opinion so I guess it gives both sides. And mum took it like a champ. I'm sure she's asked herself the same questions and no one can judge her more than she's probably judged herself. ❤️
Wow this podcast has hit hard I am a surviour of sexual abuse I was the same age as this child I feel absolutely heartbroken that the system is still failing kids. Well done for all the strength you have. I have a autistic child and i would never ever want what happened to me happened to him. 22 years later from my abuse and I still struggle on a daily basis so we literally have to deal with a life sentence. Thank you for sharing your story Laura xx
Listening to this mum talk about what happened to her daughter and the signs she was displaying is like a mirror reflection of what happened with my daughter. I feel this mum's pain equally and the devastating effect it has on a child with ASD is horrific 💔
I really hope you get the right outcome for your daughter, im a father of 2 girls who are regulars to a caravan site and this has really opened my eyes, your a credit to yourself and your family.
Laura you are amazing! I've just come across this and knowing what happened this week has broken my heart from you all. I want to damage his business for good! Children can't be going there ever again. Standing with you all and you know you can message me anytime ❤
wow this mum knows her stuff. as a send teacher, it is so lovely to hear a mum say "theres nothing nothing wrong, their brains are just wired differently" god bless this family. amazing mum and nothing she has done is wrong. !
Were you not listening? It was the child who wanted to go back. It was the child’s choice. The police had promised that the c*** wouldn’t be there. She would never see him again. The child believed that the olive had taken away the bad man. The caravan park wasn’t her demon the man was. She wanted to be able to go back to her friends . Keeping her away would have felt like punishment to the child. Like because of what she told her parents, she wasn’t allowed to go to her holiday place and not allowed to play with her friends anymore. They went back because they were faithfully promised he would not be there!
Were you not listening? It was the child who wanted to go back. It was the child’s choice. The police had promised that the c*** wouldn’t be there. She would never see him again. The child believed that the olive had taken away the bad man. The caravan park wasn’t her demon the man was. She wanted to be able to go back to her friends . Keeping her away would have felt like punishment to the child. Like because of what she told her parents, she wasn’t allowed to go to her holiday place and not allowed to play with her friends anymore. They went back because they were faithfully promised he would not be there!
Were you not listening? It was the child who wanted to go back. It was the child’s choice. The police had promised that the c*** wouldn’t be there. She would never see him again. The child believed that the olive had taken away the bad man. The caravan park wasn’t her demon the man was. She wanted to be able to go back to her friends . Keeping her away would have felt like punishment to the child. Like because of what she told her parents, she wasn’t allowed to go to her holiday place and not allowed to play with her friends anymore. They went back because they were faithfully promised he would not be there!
@@adelecaruth8159 excellent idea bring the kid to the place were the kid was abused and the parents think there was a cover up. I mean the ground rent is paid for the year might as well make use of it 🙄 Grrrrrrrreat parenting
This poor family. I’m so shocked how little the police have done. How many other children are being failed like that! I pray this family get justice 🙏.
Laura I was born in the same town as you. I feel so much for you and your daughter. I'm 60yrs a survivor and know how your daughter feels and what she will be going through in her future. I've listened to your videos and you are one amazing lady who cares not only for her own children but for everyone else's. You are right, girls hide it better than boys. I know as I have been there. In my younger days it was all brushed under the carpet and we had to get on with life. As time went by life was hell on st tines still is, i am exoeruencing nekt diwns nug time now. Family don't even try to understand because they don't want to believe it but we suffer none the less. Love to you and your family. X
I think if anything can be learnt here it's don't trust anyone and be suspicious of everyone. My own child has adhd and asd and is a similar age there no way she would be going with anyone who isn't a teacher or immediate family. My heart goes out to this wee girl and her family. They have to live with this for the rest of their lives. Surely laws around caravan parks need to be changed!!! People need to be vetted
Im only watching this podcast now as i couldnt bring myself to but so glad i did. @Laura you are one very brave and strong woman and that is were your daughter gets it. Absolute disgrace that you were put through all this and it wasnt handled properly from the start. What i dont understand is how this person is still walking around freely. Pray you get the answers and this boy never sees the light of day again
Laura thank you for sharing your story, this was so brave. I hope your family gets the justice you deserve and what a woman your little girl has to look up too xx
I honestly can’t get my head around this mother. So many missed red flags. Why allow your vulnerable child to be alone so many times with a grown man? Didn’t you think it was strange that a grown man was calling at your caravan for your child? Why was your autistic/ ADHD child off out on her own without being watched/ supervised? A vulnerable 8year old child! Why keep taking her to the caravan when she obviously didn’t want to be there? Why return to the caravan once you knew? Why go back to the site when the owners responded to your claims the way they did? And then after taking her back allow her to then go off out on her own again on that site? Maybe I’m wrong but what the actually fuck?! And yes I’m a mother of 4 , 2 are autistic.
And yeah I would move out of my house if my child’s abuser lived next door. Can’t even watch this till the end because I can’t relate to this woman at all.
@kellysmallman8864 why are you blaming this mother for something a grown man did to child.. disgusting that you are even saying this parent missed red flags you can not say this is her mothers fault !! She tells you she grew up with this person known him for years!! She obviously trusted this person!! Or she would never have let her child go with him … and an understand the options of ppl saying why would they go back there !! She has stated this is her child’s happy place and she wanted to go back and why should she not be there she has is the victim here he should not be there this is a outrage and no one knows how to deal with this unless you have walked in her shoes !!!
How do you no he didn't do it to other kids an there parents didn't get any help an sold there caravans an up an left...so that give him more confident to carry on abusing! She's a stronger woman than me she stood her ground fair play to her 👏 hope her we girls OK ❤
People don’t realise how much protection the actual abusers get “their human rights” my abuser was given Christmas before court and his bail conditions allowed him to go to his friends that lived 4 doors down. No thought for the victims, believe me there is never any justice or protection for the victims.
He is judging! 💯! Talk about unprofessional. Sometimes the mum wasn’t picking up on him being really out of order. People can say they’d do this and do that but no one knows until they’re actually in the middle of the issue. Do better Bear!
Very hard to watch and so brave of that mother to speak out and make awareness. I hope you do get some justice and that in the future our professional agencies that are there to help start doing what their suppose to do as how many more need to be failed by the system.
The full story isn't being spoken about here. Most parents would say there is no way in hell, would i take my children back to a place they was abused at. Sick and twisted.
I honestly cannot believe this has been allowed to go on! It’s been completely disregarded and it’s disgusting that not only was such a monster was allowed to carry on harming children but he was being protected by those around him! Definitely more to those protecting him, I would imagine they’re all in on it! This needs to be out there for people to see.. I’m so sorry this happened to your little girl and you as a family unit.. you’ve been completely let down by the system 😢
Well done Laura for doing what's right for your daughter and also to protect other kids , I don't think for a minute your daughter is only victim of this guy , predators it's in them , hope you get justice for your girl ❤🙏🙏 x
Agree with Laura fully that it shouldn’t be the victim that has to give up on things to accommodate the predators. Disgusting behaviour from the people that were supposed to be there to help that child, people are always told to reach out for help/to report and this shows why people don’t. I hope Laura’s family gets justice
Totally heartbreaking this is. It sounds like it’s a peadophile ring on site. Totally understand why Owen got angry as a father I feel the expect same way!
Exactly what I thought! That owner’s reaction was ALL wrong, definitely suss! I’d check his hard drive!! (Parents could sue him for negligence and damages!) And that cps ‘officer’ needs investigating! ANYONE in the chain of this needs investigating. Just SO suspicious.
Laura you are an amazing mummy, you fought for your daughter and you showed her she did nothing wrong. The guy who had to get up and walk away should be ashamed of himself. Laura will have beat herself up so much and you twist the knife. You will have furthered this ladies pain and you are extremely unprofessional. Presenters are supposed to be impartial.
I'm confused about the witnesses, what did they witness?? Why did the parents have to go to them, did they not come forward when they knew something was going on?
I think Bear was really unreasonable to land responsibility onto the Mother like that, it was very victim blamey to shame her for taking the child back down to try experience normality family again. I agree obviously that saftey of the child is priority. But the Mum was thinking in terms of what her child wanted to do, which was the child wanted to see her friends. It's not Mother's fault that the police didn't hold to their promises of putting safety messures in place. Yes I think it was way soon to take her back there considering the police didn't didn't lift him there and then. It still doesn't mean that police aren't accountable for breaking promises. I just think Bear could've geared that conversation into a more compassionate way.
I have just listened to Laura’s story and I just want to say how brave you are. How your daughter and family have been treated by the supposed authorities is downright disgrace. You have been failed beyond belief. As for the caravan site owners they should be lifted for facilitating peados to continually be present in a place for children. They are just as bad as the offenders. It’s absolutely disgusting behaviour. I really hope Laura’s daughter, her husband and herself get some justice for what has happened. Thank you Laura for raising awareness. You really are an amazing person. ❤❤
The system is completely messed up. People do not communicate in any field together. Learning about this in safe guarding it is disgusting. But unfortunately it is the world we live in
This is a pure sin 😢but the police said same to me. When I found out my ten year old daughter was talking to a man on Snapchat . He was sending inappropriate pictures of himself to her they said they can’t do anything unless the child talks and even online they can’t always do anything because it’s a long process investigating online abuse and the predator could say he left his phone down and someone else sent they pictures !! They wouldn’t even take my daughters phone to look through I went crazy and they eventually did investigate!!!! So she is telling the truth about the system there is so many issues involving this x
The reason they don’t allow anyone to be present while the statement is being made /video. Is so there is no influence from anyone else and so there is no words being put into the child’s mouth!! Xx
That's what's going through my mind also,as no parent or grandparents react that way,they told them to clear off! Not a human being's reaction about a child being abused by a member of staff,they need investigating 😢
As much as I enjoy your podcasts, I think Bear was so out of order when he questioned and reacted the way he did. Very uncomfortable watching Laura be questioned in such a way! No need at all Bear, not good enough to say you’re invested , if you can’t control what you say don’t do a podcast. I truly hope this family get justice and that karma gets the rest of them. Sickening how this child has been failed
He’s gonna continue to do it anyway. You think bringing your daughter back there is not letting him get away with it🙄 he’s probably abused loads of children. Can’t relate to this woman at all. So many red flags missed.
Im i the only one that feels like her as a mother should have opend her eyes ! Y would a man grown man have such an intrest in a little girl the child shouldnt have been aloud to go walks with a man that they know to see come on ! And the fact that she coverd up and didnt want to go should be a big sign id never let my kids go with someone that i knew by themselfs .... i just dont see how u would even do that
That’s a very ignorant and arrogant comment. Laura your so brave for coming forward, I can’t imagine the courage that it took and sheer strength within you! Predictors put themselves in a place to “trust”, built over years, to “prey” on their victims! DONT victim blame! Have manners and respect for other people sharing their story and pain to try and protect other kids! I hope you and your family get justice Laura I really do ❤
Excuse me im just saying she said he knew this man to see! He wasnt a friend so why on earth would you let your child go alone its so careless in my opinion my son also has autisum and he would not tell me if this happend if he was told not to so my point is the wee girl should have not been left with a man they dont even know
@@Paula-xe5jz she has known him for years she obviously if she thought this basturd was a predator she would never have aloud her kid to go.. but this mother isn’t to blame for anythjng that happened here these ppl are very cliver. I’m a mother and I’ve been through my child being groomed but not abused as I found out before that happened.. you have no idea how you feel when your baby has seen or been through this I wanted to die I was numb for Months plz don’t blame this parent because all this podcast is about is for awareness and to let ppl know how she was failed by the authorities etc she is brave for doing this and doesn’t need blamed she is probably killing herself inside thinking this herself.. and it’s not her fault xx
Unfortunately if the child will speak or if they are younger and considered 'competent' to comminicatw WITHOUT a parent in the room they wont do anything. Theyll have the report on record so that if anything happens to another child then they have previous proof aswell. We had this issue when our son was 2. Police could do nothing as our son couldnt talk had asd and wouldnt speak without me there and there was no 'proof of physical trauma'. So he didnt have to leave his job as a childcare worker or anything. Its sickening.
Unfortunately you were not the first and you will not be the last. Look at all the failings. Hopefully the best result will avail and justice will be served (which won't with no capital punishment). Lack of response, finance, training and staff, no government, less hope. Unfortunately they learn little by little through failings and it shouldn't be the case. xx
He was angry and passionate at being a protective person. Raw emotion and it shows he has emotions and I actually agreed + it got her to explain her side
He hates pedophiles it's Emotionally driven and can't understand why parents are so nieve in keeping their kids safe with the basic knowledge of predators and their behaviours and tactics in getting close to their kids.
As Bear said, nobody has walked in ber shoes, and unless you have you cant judge her actions in such a horrific time in their lives. That family has been failed by so many people that shouldnt have failed them at all. Boycot that caravan park give them hell for hiding not one but TWO predators!!! Outrageous and I hope the Mc Neely family get the answers and healing they need and have been wanting for so long. Their daughter is so brave and very lucky to have a mother with her head screwed on and will not only fight her corner but every other child's corner too! Thank you for sharing the nightmare you've all been through.
No he's being respectful letting her speak. No problem asking questions.. It's a podcast, but Bear needs to talk a little less and stop interrupting her.
Honestly feel for this girl as a mother myself my son has shown signs of autism from he was 6 months and only now at age 7 were at the end of getting a diagnosis passed from piller to post
I understand that an extremely difficult and serious subject is being talked about here, but what is the purpose of the very quiet, softly spoken voices that are so difficult to hear when you seem to have decent sound equipment?
Bear hold your head in shame. The way you came for that women was not acceptable and awkward to watch. Please refrain from your own opinions unless you have had experience in something similar, we aren’t to interested in your opinion most of us are here for the guests. Good podcast but do better you’ve came across very passive aggressive in a few podcasts & give your mate a chance to speak.
I can actually see both sides! I get her not wanting to let him win and take away their once happy place however i also see bears side! Me personally i wouldnt ever want to be near the place would set foot in there again but then as she said about if it was neighbour you wouldnt move... well i would move far away. I think it very much depends on the parent as no one is right or wrong just different views x
Child does attend court via video link. The youngest child witness is 3. R v Barker. Baby p sister was raped and was the youngest witness used by the Cps. I am perplexed she would take the child back without injunction / bail conditions etc. She does have course, for financial redress for unlawful eviction. Also has the person been found guilty of RASSO? If no prior, everyone is innocent until proven guilty and we have to adhere to the law.
another child sa my child he was 3 years older and the police said they wont do anything beceause they are kids and the other kids dad said my child is lying and he wasnt he still asks me why that kid made him do what he did, the psni are a joke at times
Going back to the caravan park (whilst understandably unimaginable to some) sent a powerful message to the child that she had done nothing wrong - and had nothing to be ashamed of. I'm sure this will be key to her moving forward from this. A horrific nightmare realised - what an impressive and strong lady.
Trust, support and protected. This Irish mother did everything correct! This young child will feel protected from the actions of this mother. Sweeping it under the rug! Only leads to the current issues we have in this country. It is always the difference of the parents and how they react in these unthinkable situations. this child has a strong chance of growing up with a stronger survivor mentality thanks to the actions of this mother and father. Rather then feeling they where at fault and sucomming to more abuse later on in life...feeling like their is no way out and ashamed. This child now is aware the adult was at fault and I hope for you all justice is done! Prayers for you all.
I love how bear is just so honest as some viewer would have that exact opinion so I guess it gives both sides. And mum took it like a champ. I'm sure she's asked herself the same questions and no one can judge her more than she's probably judged herself. ❤️
I’ve no words for you Laura. I’m just sorry that your little girl and your family have had to go through this and continue to face it :(
Wow this podcast has hit hard I am a surviour of sexual abuse I was the same age as this child I feel absolutely heartbroken that the system is still failing kids. Well done for all the strength you have. I have a autistic child and i would never ever want what happened to me happened to him. 22 years later from my abuse and I still struggle on a daily basis so we literally have to deal with a life sentence. Thank you for sharing your story Laura xx
Listening to this mum talk about what happened to her daughter and the signs she was displaying is like a mirror reflection of what happened with my daughter. I feel this mum's pain equally and the devastating effect it has on a child with ASD is horrific 💔
The child protection officer needs to be held accountable? Surely? Why were they not protecting this child and other children? Completely incompetent
Heartbreaking 😢
Your baby girl is so brave for speaking out ❤ ❤❤
#protectourkids
I really hope you get the right outcome for your daughter, im a father of 2 girls who are regulars to a caravan site and this has really opened my eyes, your a credit to yourself and your family.
Laura you are amazing! I've just come across this and knowing what happened this week has broken my heart from you all. I want to damage his business for good! Children can't be going there ever again. Standing with you all and you know you can message me anytime ❤
wow this mum knows her stuff. as a send teacher, it is so lovely to hear a mum say "theres nothing nothing wrong, their brains are just wired differently" god bless this family. amazing mum and nothing she has done is wrong. !
Wouldn’t in a million years dream of taking the child back. What an absolute nightmare for the child every weekend
Were you not listening? It was the child who wanted to go back. It was the child’s choice. The police had promised that the c*** wouldn’t be there. She would never see him again. The child believed that the olive had taken away the bad man. The caravan park wasn’t her demon the man was. She wanted to be able to go back to her friends . Keeping her away would have felt like punishment to the child. Like because of what she told her parents, she wasn’t allowed to go to her holiday place and not allowed to play with her friends anymore. They went back because they were faithfully promised he would not be there!
Were you not listening? It was the child who wanted to go back. It was the child’s choice. The police had promised that the c*** wouldn’t be there. She would never see him again. The child believed that the olive had taken away the bad man. The caravan park wasn’t her demon the man was. She wanted to be able to go back to her friends . Keeping her away would have felt like punishment to the child. Like because of what she told her parents, she wasn’t allowed to go to her holiday place and not allowed to play with her friends anymore. They went back because they were faithfully promised he would not be there!
Were you not listening? It was the child who wanted to go back. It was the child’s choice. The police had promised that the c*** wouldn’t be there. She would never see him again. The child believed that the olive had taken away the bad man. The caravan park wasn’t her demon the man was. She wanted to be able to go back to her friends . Keeping her away would have felt like punishment to the child. Like because of what she told her parents, she wasn’t allowed to go to her holiday place and not allowed to play with her friends anymore. They went back because they were faithfully promised he would not be there!
@@adelecaruth8159 excellent idea bring the kid to the place were the kid was abused and the parents think there was a cover up. I mean the ground rent is paid for the year might as well make use of it 🙄 Grrrrrrrreat parenting
Jesus your nice aren’t you, you obviously didn’t listen to the whole thing
This poor family. I’m so shocked how little the police have done. How many other children are being failed like that! I pray this family get justice 🙏.
Laura I was born in the same town as you. I feel so much for you and your daughter. I'm 60yrs a survivor and know how your daughter feels and what she will be going through in her future. I've listened to your videos and you are one amazing lady who cares not only for her own children but for everyone else's. You are right, girls hide it better than boys. I know as I have been there. In my younger days it was all brushed under the carpet and we had to get on with life. As time went by life was hell on st tines still is, i am exoeruencing nekt diwns nug time now. Family don't even try to understand because they don't want to believe it but we suffer none the less. Love to you and your family. X
I think if anything can be learnt here it's don't trust anyone and be suspicious of everyone. My own child has adhd and asd and is a similar age there no way she would be going with anyone who isn't a teacher or immediate family. My heart goes out to this wee girl and her family. They have to live with this for the rest of their lives. Surely laws around caravan parks need to be changed!!! People need to be vetted
1000% agree with her! The man on the right was well out of order
Im only watching this podcast now as i couldnt bring myself to but so glad i did. @Laura you are one very brave and strong woman and that is were your daughter gets it. Absolute disgrace that you were put through all this and it wasnt handled properly from the start. What i dont understand is how this person is still walking around freely. Pray you get the answers and this boy never sees the light of day again
Laura your such an inspiration.. u stood your ground.. your a great mum keep fighting brighter days are ahead ❤
Laura thank you for sharing your story, this was so brave. I hope your family gets the justice you deserve and what a woman your little girl has to look up too xx
I honestly can’t get my head around this mother. So many missed red flags. Why allow your vulnerable child to be alone so many times with a grown man? Didn’t you think it was strange that a grown man was calling at your caravan for your child? Why was your autistic/ ADHD child off out on her own without being watched/ supervised? A vulnerable 8year old child! Why keep taking her to the caravan when she obviously didn’t want to be there? Why return to the caravan once you knew? Why go back to the site when the owners responded to your claims the way they did? And then after taking her back allow her to then go off out on her own again on that site? Maybe I’m wrong but what the actually fuck?! And yes I’m a mother of 4 , 2 are autistic.
And yeah I would move out of my house if my child’s abuser lived next door. Can’t even watch this till the end because I can’t relate to this woman at all.
Completely agree with you! I have all these questions aswel...
She has completely frazzled my brain with her thinking
@kellysmallman8864 why are you blaming this mother for something a grown man did to child.. disgusting that you are even saying this parent missed red flags you can not say this is her mothers fault !! She tells you she grew up with this person known him for years!! She obviously trusted this person!! Or she would never have let her child go with him … and an understand the options of ppl saying why would they go back there !! She has stated this is her child’s happy place and she wanted to go back and why should she not be there she has is the victim here he should not be there this is a outrage and no one knows how to deal with this unless you have walked in her shoes !!!
Horrible things happened to the child in that caravan park, how can it be her happy place. I don't understand the mothers logic
How do you no he didn't do it to other kids an there parents didn't get any help an sold there caravans an up an left...so that give him more confident to carry on abusing! She's a stronger woman than me she stood her ground fair play to her 👏 hope her we girls OK ❤
Laura you are so brave. Sending you all the love to you and your family ❤ I hope you get the justice you deserve.
People don’t realise how much protection the actual abusers get “their human rights” my abuser was given Christmas before court and his bail conditions allowed him to go to his friends that lived 4 doors down.
No thought for the victims, believe me there is never any justice or protection for the victims.
Well done Bear i would do the same, Laura you are a very strong person i hope you and your wee girl gets justice ❤
He is judging! 💯! Talk about unprofessional. Sometimes the mum wasn’t picking up on him being really out of order. People can say they’d do this and do that but no one knows until they’re actually in the middle of the issue. Do better Bear!
This was a hard watch, Laura your daughter is so lucky to have the parents she has xx
Absolutely horrific god love that family let down so badly, well done laura for speaking out 👏👏👏
Absolute Terrible no Justice, heartbreaking 💔 💚 luv to Laura, Dee n the wee one xx
A child’s statement is more powerful than any evidence they could gather
Mine my 11 year old brothers where the only reason our abuser got convicted!
Very hard to watch and so brave of that mother to speak out and make awareness. I hope you do get some justice and that in the future our professional agencies that are there to help start doing what their suppose to do as how many more need to be failed by the system.
Welcome Laura, been looking forward to this podcast xx
The full story isn't being spoken about here. Most parents would say there is no way in hell, would i take my children back to a place they was abused at. Sick and twisted.
The DAUGHTER chose to go. Because she missed her friends.
This story broke My heart and I do not know what I would do I more than likely be in jail for murder 😢
I honestly cannot believe this has been allowed to go on! It’s been completely disregarded and it’s disgusting that not only was such a monster was allowed to carry on harming children but he was being protected by those around him! Definitely more to those protecting him, I would imagine they’re all in on it! This needs to be out there for people to see.. I’m so sorry this happened to your little girl and you as a family unit.. you’ve been completely let down by the system 😢
Does anyone have an issue with the sound when watching from a phone? I'm finding the sound very low. Especially when the guy on the right is speaking.
Sound quality is terrible on phones
Yes seems to be certain podcasts I'm listening too, not all. Thanks
I had to put my volume fully up to hear it all properly. Thought it was just my phone
Nope.
Well done Laura for doing what's right for your daughter and also to protect other kids , I don't think for a minute your daughter is only victim of this guy , predators it's in them , hope you get justice for your girl ❤🙏🙏 x
Agree with Laura fully that it shouldn’t be the victim that has to give up on things to accommodate the predators. Disgusting behaviour from the people that were supposed to be there to help that child, people are always told to reach out for help/to report and this shows why people don’t. I hope Laura’s family gets justice
Totally heartbreaking this is. It sounds like it’s a peadophile ring on site. Totally understand why Owen got angry as a father I feel the expect same way!
Exactly what I thought!
That owner’s reaction was ALL wrong, definitely suss!
I’d check his hard drive!!
(Parents could sue him for negligence and damages!)
And that cps ‘officer’ needs investigating!
ANYONE in the chain of this needs investigating.
Just SO suspicious.
Laura you are an amazing mummy, you fought for your daughter and you showed her she did nothing wrong. The guy who had to get up and walk away should be ashamed of himself. Laura will have beat herself up so much and you twist the knife. You will have furthered this ladies pain and you are extremely unprofessional. Presenters are supposed to be impartial.
I hope you get justice ❤️
I'm confused about the witnesses, what did they witness?? Why did the parents have to go to them, did they not come forward when they knew something was going on?
I think Bear was really unreasonable to land responsibility onto the Mother like that, it was very victim blamey to shame her for taking the child back down to try experience normality family again. I agree obviously that saftey of the child is priority. But the Mum was thinking in terms of what her child wanted to do, which was the child wanted to see her friends. It's not Mother's fault that the police didn't hold to their promises of putting safety messures in place. Yes I think it was way soon to take her back there considering the police didn't didn't lift him there and then. It still doesn't mean that police aren't accountable for breaking promises. I just think Bear could've geared that conversation into a more compassionate way.
I have just listened to Laura’s story and I just want to say how brave you are. How your daughter and family have been treated by the supposed authorities is downright disgrace. You have been failed beyond belief. As for the caravan site owners they should be lifted for facilitating peados to continually be present in a place for children. They are just as bad as the offenders. It’s absolutely disgusting behaviour. I really hope Laura’s daughter, her husband and herself get some justice for what has happened. Thank you Laura for raising awareness. You really are an amazing person. ❤❤
They are probably in cahoots....screams pedo ring
The amount of times Bear spoke over this poor woman. Asks a question then speaks over her before she finished replying. So frustrating to listen to.
Absolutely heart breaking 😢but I’m with bear on this id of pulled my caravan off the site and I’d of been up for murder!!
The system is completely messed up. People do not communicate in any field together. Learning about this in safe guarding it is disgusting. But unfortunately it is the world we live in
This is a pure sin 😢but the police said same to me. When I found out my ten year old daughter was talking to a man on Snapchat . He was sending inappropriate pictures of himself to her they said they can’t do anything unless the child talks and even online they can’t always do anything because it’s a long process investigating online abuse and the predator could say he left his phone down and someone else sent they pictures !! They wouldn’t even take my daughters phone to look through I went crazy and they eventually did investigate!!!! So she is telling the truth about the system there is so many issues involving this x
The reason they don’t allow anyone to be present while the statement is being made /video. Is so there is no influence from anyone else and so there is no words being put into the child’s mouth!! Xx
It’s takes three years for a dignosis of autism my daughter is autistic and it’s a long process x
This woman is amazing. Her daughter is so very strong. But 1 thing keeps screaming at me is that maybe the owners are involved more thanks known.
That's what's going through my mind also,as no parent or grandparents react that way,they told them to clear off! Not a human being's reaction about a child being abused by a member of staff,they need investigating 😢
As much as I enjoy your podcasts, I think Bear was so out of order when he questioned and reacted the way he did. Very uncomfortable watching Laura be questioned in such a way! No need at all Bear, not good enough to say you’re invested , if you can’t control what you say don’t do a podcast. I truly hope this family get justice and that karma gets the rest of them. Sickening how this child has been failed
He’s gonna continue to do it anyway. You think bringing your daughter back there is not letting him get away with it🙄 he’s probably abused loads of children. Can’t relate to this woman at all. So many red flags missed.
I absolutely love the show but I find it hard to hear it properly
No wonder survivors don’t want to report it.
Im i the only one that feels like her as a mother should have opend her eyes ! Y would a man grown man have such an intrest in a little girl the child shouldnt have been aloud to go walks with a man that they know to see come on ! And the fact that she coverd up and didnt want to go should be a big sign id never let my kids go with someone that i knew by themselfs .... i just dont see how u would even do that
That’s a very ignorant and arrogant comment. Laura your so brave for coming forward, I can’t imagine the courage that it took and sheer strength within you! Predictors put themselves in a place to “trust”, built over years, to “prey” on their victims! DONT victim blame! Have manners and respect for other people sharing their story and pain to try and protect other kids! I hope you and your family get justice Laura I really do ❤
Excuse me im just saying she said he knew this man to see! He wasnt a friend so why on earth would you let your child go alone its so careless in my opinion my son also has autisum and he would not tell me if this happend if he was told not to so my point is the wee girl should have not been left with a man they dont even know
So many red flags! A grown man with that much interest in a child is not right. Especially a vulnerable child.
@@kellysmallman8864 my point exactly she couldnt of stopped that from happening farrr to trusting and careless
@@Paula-xe5jz she has known him for years she obviously if she thought this basturd was a predator she would never have aloud her kid to go.. but this mother isn’t to blame for anythjng that happened here these ppl are very cliver. I’m a mother and I’ve been through my child being groomed but not abused as I found out before that happened.. you have no idea how you feel when your baby has seen or been through this I wanted to die I was numb for Months plz don’t blame this parent because all this podcast is about is for awareness and to let ppl know how she was failed by the authorities etc she is brave for doing this and doesn’t need blamed she is probably killing herself inside thinking this herself.. and it’s not her fault xx
Unfortunately if the child will speak or if they are younger and considered 'competent' to comminicatw WITHOUT a parent in the room they wont do anything. Theyll have the report on record so that if anything happens to another child then they have previous proof aswell. We had this issue when our son was 2. Police could do nothing as our son couldnt talk had asd and wouldnt speak without me there and there was no 'proof of physical trauma'. So he didnt have to leave his job as a childcare worker or anything. Its sickening.
And the worst thing is, it takes him to strike again to even potentially get caught 😢
Unfortunately you were not the first and you will not be the last. Look at all the failings. Hopefully the best result will avail and justice will be served (which won't with no capital punishment).
Lack of response, finance, training and staff, no government, less hope. Unfortunately they learn little by little through failings and it shouldn't be the case. xx
Hope you find justice I pray 🙏🏾❤️
Dont agree with how bear reacted with his out burst towards this mother
very unprofessional
Totally agree and also not letting her get a word in
He is angry the way she was let down she knows that
He was angry and passionate at being a protective person. Raw emotion and it shows he has emotions and I actually agreed + it got her to explain her side
He hates pedophiles it's Emotionally driven and can't understand why parents are so nieve in keeping their kids safe with the basic knowledge of predators and their behaviours and tactics in getting close to their kids.
Really didn't like how this interview was conducted. This woman probably feels crap enough as it is.
As Bear said, nobody has walked in ber shoes, and unless you have you cant judge her actions in such a horrific time in their lives.
That family has been failed by so many people that shouldnt have failed them at all.
Boycot that caravan park give them hell for hiding not one but TWO predators!!! Outrageous and I hope the Mc Neely family get the answers and healing they need and have been wanting for so long. Their daughter is so brave and very lucky to have a mother with her head screwed on and will not only fight her corner but every other child's corner too! Thank you for sharing the nightmare you've all been through.
Hope you get justice for ur lovely girl... I'd have sold that caravan straight away though, I would have had to.
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Very strange interview, as a father of 3 kids i would be the judy jury and executioner and accept the aftermath
It's a warning for other caravan owners, visitors always watch your children can't trust anyone
Look into that owners browser history right away!
Scully neèds to talk more
No he's being respectful letting her speak. No problem asking questions.. It's a podcast, but Bear needs to talk a little less and stop interrupting her.
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Honestly feel for this girl as a mother myself my son has shown signs of autism from he was 6 months and only now at age 7 were at the end of getting a diagnosis passed from piller to post
It's obviously a peodo ring on the site
This is outrageous! The world is really f.ed up
I understand that an extremely difficult and serious subject is being talked about here, but what is the purpose of the very quiet, softly spoken voices that are so difficult to hear when you seem to have decent sound equipment?
Bear hold your head in shame. The way you came for that women was not acceptable and awkward to watch. Please refrain from your own opinions unless you have had experience in something similar, we aren’t to interested in your opinion most of us are here for the guests. Good podcast but do better you’ve came across very passive aggressive in a few podcasts & give your mate a chance to speak.
I can actually see both sides! I get her not wanting to let him win and take away their once happy place however i also see bears side! Me personally i wouldnt ever want to be near the place would set foot in there again but then as she said about if it was neighbour you wouldnt move... well i would move far away. I think it very much depends on the parent as no one is right or wrong just different views x
Also she was letting other people know
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@evrrytcvvggxy nope the circle keeps circling and the video won't play.
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Child does attend court via video link. The youngest child witness is 3.
R v Barker. Baby p sister was raped and was the youngest witness used by the Cps. I am perplexed she would take the child back without injunction / bail conditions etc.
She does have course, for financial redress for unlawful eviction. Also has the person been found guilty of RASSO?
If no prior, everyone is innocent until proven guilty and we have to adhere to the law.
another child sa my child he was 3 years older and the police said they wont do anything beceause they are kids and the other kids dad said my child is lying and he wasnt he still asks me why that kid made him do what he did, the psni are a joke at times
Who was the abuser? Was it a friend of there’s or someone on the caravan site
Did you even listen to the podcast? Jeez
What’s the name of the caravan site? Needs boycotting
Golden Sands I believe it was said! I'll definitely be boycotting and making as many people as I can aware! Vile human beings
Craig Tara..
Golden Sands Benone
Golden Sands Benone
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Bear is right 💯 why go back there madness🤦🏽♀️
I’m sorry but why did she go back there as a victim myself I never stepped foot in a caravan again in 20 years 😢
This whole thing is giving there’s a pedo ring at play
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Park owner sounds like a nonce himself kicking this family off the site! Why have I only just seen this and it happened not long after Covid wtaf!
Bear is a legend 👏
Can of worms 😢.
Children need protection not peados
Boycott Golden Sands benone
Typical RUC/PSNI
This whole thing is giving there’s a pedo ring at play