I was a single pastor until I married my wife in 2023. I didn’t have the issues he addressed butI had plenty of mothers, grandmothers, aunts and cousins attempting to fix me up with their relatives. I was able to date my now wife discretely quietly and without church membership interfering. When I did announce our engagement my membership was excited because they knew I had been a disciplined man and pastor.
I find myself wondering if I even wanna marry a woman who was raised in church. Not that she shouldn’t be saved now, I’d prefer it if she is saved now, but raised in church as a child? That’s another conversation.
So my question is did you fornicate... OR did you find the secret to overcome sexual urges???🤔 If you found the secret and yet you don't share the secret throughout the whole body of Christ then you are doing the body a great disservice.... Otherwise we're all going to assume that you were a human and fornicating before you got married 😉
That's why I avoid Black churches like the plague because as a single man you have these folks all. trying to play matchmaker. My private life is that PRIVATE! I choose my own mate. So many matches we thought made in heaven turned out to be disasters.
@@Ma1nguy What's wrong with ppl playing match maker???...read your bible and you'll see its very biblical...its very easy when choosing a spouse to get blinded by things, how they look, how they make you feel, etc.. And ignore clear red flags and signs that person isn't ready for marriage or that person isn't right for you. experience As a man who was single and a minister in church. And now married for 10 years..theres nothing wrong with church brethren trying to match up ppl..you have the final say, but if you're in a good church there will be ppl around you who see alot more than you . I could give you examples of a girl i liked at church ,we started talking and I asked a church mother about her...and the church mother told me plainly NO..don't go their ..shes not for you she's nowhere near being ready for marraige ..she need to learn to control her temper..and other things.. on her words I broke of that relationship..not letting her know anything about what the mother said years later she got marrid to someone else and they ended up getting into a physical altercation and she was throwing plates and breaking things in the house because of her temper...these are things i never saw,because she liked me she never exposed me to that side of herself. if youre wise you will get as much wise ppl involved in the choice of your mate..
He's pretty hostile towards the person who "thought" she was talking to him. Also, if she's got him mistaken, why is he acting like she's in sin? So many questions.
Ikr! Either he had an ig boo/text boo and now it’s jeopardizing his real life gf OR he juggles multiple people from social media and is trying to publicly reject her
He is very hostile, there is a way to address something without offending people, I am involved in ministry and being single individual, I am always approached by those who seek a relationship, and I would kindly decline respectfully, with gentleness, the Bible says do everything in love and harsh words one can bring fire to a city but kind words can calm the hearts and smooth the soul, too many times people allow there position to dictate there character to talk down to others as if there more valuable then those they are leading and teaching, while forgetting the same ground there feet is touch is the same as mines, being human is easy until someone feels they are floating above the rest smh, humility over humiliation
Did you ever consider that this individual threatened to publicly slander him? There things weren't said that suggests the situation reached a level in which it needed to be addressed publicly.
the Bible was written a culture strongly dominated by men. Women often had no say in whom they would marry. If a man showed up at her dad's doorstep with dowry price, he could basically buy her hand in marriage whether she liked him or not. I do agree with the second part of what you wrote. Paul looks at singleness as the more favorable option for ministers. The single person cares only for the things of God.
As well he should as a single black straight man leading God's people. Would you had rather him to make announcement of coming out of the closet like a lot of these so called men of God are doing now? Holiness is still the standard for God's people. I salute the brother and will keep him in prayer.
@@Page57 Matt 11:12 And from the days of John the Baptist until now the kingdom of heaven suffereth violence, and the violent take it👉 by force.👈 God don't have any jellybacks in His army and demons don't tremble to compromisers. They tremble at the name of Jesus.
@@Page57you people love To trash somebody instead of take my the positives or just keeping your comments to yourself 😈😈😈 You think you’re getting brownie points for gossiping You don’t like this statement do you ? Well stop with your own mouth towards others
He is somewhat hostile… definitely a petty zesty response from him. Is it really that hard out there that women are going after him??? He’s not unattractive per se, but very off putting personality At any rate, these pastors have zero grace, zero fruit of the Spirit and zero sense of holiness… and yes Minister Corey, home is your first and most important ministry
💯 Tell the truth!! And yes, it's awfully bad in South Bend. Definitely no place for people of value or of God to live, unless you're already married. 😬
And that’s the conflict. If you get married before he’s called or accepts the call that can create a divide. Happens a lot and happened to me specifically.
He aught not think so highly of himself. His words are very condescending towards his female members, Not a good look for a Pastor/Sheppard or a husband 😢
@ Kassandracmille2474...you may not like the words that pastor said..but he doesn't want women lien on him, saying they are in a relationship and it's not true... If you or anyone think 😏 they going to get married to him, they should leave his church...do you believe men are the only people who have a relationship with someone who no nothing about..there are people who wii join that church and sit back and look at him and say that is my man...just crazy... Women do attend church only to look at the pastor, and then go out and say the pastor is in a relationship with her...some women are sick and hard up
? But being told that so much as asking a question in church is a disgrace wouldn't? Disgrace. That's the word used. That's being told that anytime you want to contribute to a dialogue, at BEST is merely tolerated.
How about leave for a year to focus on the wellbeing of your marriage?? Give that all you can like you gave the people. That was likely part of the problem. She wasn’t first and foremost. That is how it is suppose to be for any Christian marriage, whether the husband is a Pastor or not. God didn’t say husbands love your church as Christ loves the church.
His divorce was over a decade ago and that video is old. The man posting these video clips is clout-chasing. Pastor YPJ had a lot reasons to make the statement that he did. His family has had to drag women to court because of their delusions and level of fanaticism. Context is key.
I urge you to become familiar with his ministry. He’s not arrogant. He’s actually quite humble. He confident and comical, but humble nonetheless. This man gets stalked by desperate women… even to the point of having to have had to take them to court. It’s public info. He has a clean reputation and healthy ministry. Unfortunately, clout-chasers, like the man who did this video, know how popular Pastor YPJ is. They know when people see his face that they’re going to click. He’s a famous pastor. They know it. So, they use crap like this to try to belittle them and get likes.
I watched a documentary years ago about how women throw themselves at pastors single or married and honestly you wouldn’t believe the how crazy the stories and how these women would go to the extreme to get these pastors. I don’t like that he giving personal examples to his congregation but I know it needs to be addressed
I agree!! But do not be fooled by his speech. He is full of himself and has always strutted around like he wanted all that attention he got. Seems like he is performing 'damage control.' BTW, know his family, they know mine, I know the behavior of many of the men in that church (especially the band- South Bend is small!!), saw him for years being a narcissist, I am speaking from experience, not emotion.
You're claiming the Apostle Paul was single but scripture doesn''t tell us that. He was a member of the Sanhedrin Counil and a requirement was that they be married. Whether he left his wife to follow Jesus or his wife died, we're not told. I think we need to be careful not to draw conclusions unless it's clearly stated in scripture.
Paul wasn't a pastor but an evangelist (an apostle). His role wasn't too shepherd a church but to help start churches by preaching, then move on to next town to do the same again
@@brianlloyd7494 1 Corinthians 7:8 ”To the unmarried and the widows I say that it is good for them to remain single, as I am.“ Paul says he's single right here. Not trying to attack just wanted it known that we're not drawing conclusions. Paul said it himself. God bless!
He got Divorced.... He is single by mans law. GOD said to death do us apart. He should have stepped down. Glad I don't have a Pastor over the Church that I attend that has this pastor's ego. Divorced..... Nope.
He’s doing rumor management which is dangerous. He’s creating curiosity with people like me who had no clue or no interest. Preach Jesus, not yourself!
@ Patrickhatcherson3416....are you void of common sense...when a person don't want people calling the church leaving messages and saying they are sent to marrie the pastor.. The pastor must address it in the public..if it doesn't stop 🛑🛑🛑..the pastor have a right to bring legal process...women run to the police 🚨 all the time saying a man is sexually harassing them, it works both ways..some men don't want a man or a woman, harassing them for marriage..and that pastor have no idea who it is...look the women told another person she was sent there to marrie him... Most women go to church just to try and make contact with the pastor..in her head she thinks they like each other... women are mentality sick just like males... Women wii find out were you stay, and watch your house..why do I need to tell a grown man this..can you think 🤔 for your self
He wasn’t doing rumor management. He literally had stalkers. Some fell prey to fake pages that were being ran from overseas and refused to accept that they weren’t going to be his wife. Some joined the church and were telling his family and others that they were going to be the First Lady. This family has had to drag women into court to make them stop. Pastor YPJ is a famous pastor well-accomplished musician. Unfortunately, things like this happen with fanatics. Some won’t stop without legal action because of their fixation. Context is key.
@@hopedesire5936 My picture is literally on my account, genius. You can go to my page and see my name. You can even Google me. You’re making a fool of yourself. This is no burner account. Even a lazy person can figure that out with a few clicks.
You can only divorce if your spouse commits an affair with another person. That is the only way a person can divorce adultery within a marriage only. If you divorce for any other reason, you must remain single, until your spouse passes away and then you can remarry.
Please look at the time stamp on the video regarding his sharing of his divorce, etc. Pastor, YPJ is not a perfect man of God, but neither are those who are ripping this video to shreds. He's an awesome man of God and Prophet of God from what he's displayed in his walk/conduct. He's as humble as they come, and he's sharing his past to help someone else not make the same mistake. Those who are throwing stones are judging him from his past. He's not presently in the situation. I could say so much more, but I don't have the time.
Pastors can't restore themselves. They need timeout to be restored by godly leaders. No one's spiritual enough to be restored after a fall by being the victim and lawyer, judge himself.
He used to preach at the youth conferences at the church I used to attend here in Dayton, Ohio. They called him "YPJ" I didn't even know that he was married then. This is disheartening to hear. Much prayer for all involved. 😕
Does he understand that certain things disqualify Doctors and Lawyers from practicing as well as their are things that can disqualify men from being a Pastor
First red flag is the label SINGLE Pastor. A Pastor MUST be the husband of ONE wife and have children - 1 Timothy 3:2 KJV, Titus 1:5-7 KJV. If your pastor is divorced and on a second marriage, run for your life. - Romans 7:2-4 KJV, 1 Corinthians 7:39 KJV.
Well he doesn't HAVE to be a husband... If he can control his urges then he is very authorized to be a bishop. The emphasis is on him being the husband of ONE wife .. not 2 or 3 etc...
One cannot be a pastor without having home experience. The Bible says that if a man does not know how to run his house, how can he rule God's house? If he is divorced and remarried and his first wife is yet living that disqualifies him. Nobody can be a pastor with two wives and living in adultery.@@tiwanstrong1413
@tiwanstrong1413 Let's be honest! Not that many are able to control their sexual desires! Most of the single pastors are single because they don't have a fear of God.
Question, bruh I've been watching your videos on and off for a few weeks now and it seems to me that your are critical of a whole bunch of pastors, most well deserved. I'm curious as to whom do U think are good pastors since you've taken it upon yourself to judge???
Pastor YPJ is a great pastor & very caring and loving towards his members and he keeps it real with us! As a single woman who sits in this church I felt no way when he addressed that situation because it didn’t apply to me because that’s not what I go for, if someone did feel a way then a hit dog will holler. He spoke a great word that day and you’re just going off of a small clip of him addressing something happening in his church body & deflecting from the word he delivered 😢 We stand behind pastor YPJ ❤️
Ridiculous that he would bring this up as an order of business before the church from the pulpit. Good grief does he not have a full 66 book of the bible to preach from? This message certainly was not at any high level 🤨 Pastor with integrity, is that so? He is abnormally full of himself.
I disagree. He should rebuke ungodly match making in the church. Assert his role as their pastor, not their lover. And no pastor or man should marry the first woman they find just to keep the girls off of him. I disagree with Corey.
You speak as though you know the man. Did you ever consider watching the entire broadcast to see if this was the only thing that he spoke about. I'm sure there was a sermon that was preached.
It is abnormal and an understatement!! I never respected him! My family is from South Bend and I lived there for several years and one of my good friends is his mentee. Oh man, too much to say but trying to be respectful. 🤦🏽♀️
@@misterjones842True but the image and narcissism he pushes out likely caused this reaction he speaks against! Play unGodly games, and get stupid prizes!
It’s not what you say, it’s how you say it! I do know him as he is from my home state as he preached at my current church before. I do enjoy his ministry, but his tone is condescending in what he addressed.
Brethren, God will hold us accountable for each word we speak or write. Think we need to pray for each other and ourselves so that we do not find ourselves in similar situations.
He lends a lot of grace to people, and yes, he's straightforward here and might could have used another tone. However, give him grace. How many of you are perfect in all you say and do. We STRIVE!! Including the presenter of the video. You’ve seen a one-time episode and threw him under the bus.
Listen you TH-cam preachers, the man just said " people were joining the church saying God told them to join...." so he's checking people. Qiut being baby back Christians.
I like his honesty. I would rather for him to be honest. In the day that we are living in people mental illness is real. People can try to hurt you or even kill you. There are some people who can hunt you down. He is a cool pastor.
That's why Paul said one of the qualifications for an overseer. Is you must be the husband of one wife. We talk about that being the reason a woman can not be a pastor. It also applies to single men you can not be single. And be an overseer or in church leadership according to 1 Timothy 3 :2-5. Paul was single but he was not a pastor.
I met him before. (YPJ) He wasn't too nice to me or my toddler son. He treated us very rudely because of where we lived. At the time we stayed across the street from his family's church. I used to go there trying to get a relationship with Jesus and he was always rude and nasty toward me. His parents never were but he was. I remember when I got saved I still was being tormented by demons and could not find deliverance in their Church. Wherever you go make sure they really live for Jesus and not trying to just be seen. People out here are hungry for Jesus not another Motivational speaker. Satan is attacking God's people left and right sending them to hell and it's because they don't know spiritual warfare because we have way too many motivational earth thinking "Christians" and not enough Holy Spirit led ones.
Honestly, this happened to my pastor before he got married AND there are some who still try. I honestly think he’s just tired of it. There are witches in church you know. Ppl Satan sends to tempt single pastors to fall. ALSO, this was a conversation that shouldn’t have been televised. Some stuff should just be in home.
First, I can personally relate in being divorced and having your personal life on public display. Second, I saw no wrong whatsoever in his transparency to his congregation. People will have something to say regardless. Had he not shared or disclosed his experience, he’d be seen as being deceitful, disingenuous, etc. Those will always have something to say but no solutions to the problems. A lot of stones thrown and IMO this was a poor take of the situation. Prayers up to YPJ 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
At the very beginning of the clip, when he said “if you came and joined this church, because you think you’re gonna marry me, then you need to leave.” 👀👀That is so arrogant, narcissistic and prideful and everything wrong. Oh my goodness he’s nauseating I could not even tolerate him talking.🙅🏻♀️🙅🏻♀️🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
However, he might be right, a single man and pastor might be the motivation why a woman would join the ministry in hopes of getting a husband. I'm not a pastor but I know how women throw themselves at you especially when you're single and have no plans to be married. Singleness is a gift for both men and women. marriage is not for everyone
He actually needed to do that. There were women stalking his family. Some joined the church and were trying to get close to his family and other leaders, saying that they were going to be the First Lady. Some have had to be dragged into court to make them stop. Context is key! The clout-chaser posted this because he knew it would drive traffic to his page. He’s going to pay for trying to drag a man of God with a clean rep that serves to the kingdom of God well.
The fact he is prophesying to Jamal Bryant and not correcting him speaks volumes. How is it he can hear “dead people’s prayers lingering”…. But is overlooking the fact this “pastor” believes in growing weed on church grounds. He believes in for adultery and committing adultery and looking at the “new pastors” installed at that church… that is not God that man is hearing from… that is a familiar spirit operating on deceit. 🙏🏾
Incorrect: "I should have stopped and said 'Hey... I'm gonna leave for a year, and I'm gonna get my MIND right". Correct: "I should have stopped and said 'Hey... I'm gonna leave for a year, and I'm gonna get my SOUL right".
I guess a lot of you Forget that GOD is A Forgiving GOD And a GOD of MULTIPLE CHANCES GOD is a SOVEREIGN GOD GOD is a MERCIFUL GOD Who are we to Judge or Speak on a Pastor or Anyone’s Issues We Need to Pray and Ask GOD for Guidance before we Speak upon anyone Yesterday it’s Him Today it’s YOU Who’s going to Pray for Him and Over Him That GOD RESTORES Him I Will FATHER RESTORE HIM 🙏🏾 FATHER RESTORE ME 🙏🏾 FATHER RESTORE US 🙏🏾
His house is in order. He’s been divorced over a decade. Information is missing and more is being used out of context. This clout-chaser posted just enough (including old stuff) just to get clicks and likes. Check out Pastor YPJ for yourself. You’ll see why some like to use him for clickbait.
Our poupose in life is not to be on a forever search for a spouse. For some it may never happen. For others it may last a while and end. Finding a mate in church only indicates that you share the same beliefs. It does not guarantee that the person is actually living a Godly lifestyle. Many hearers but not enough doers. How many Pastors cheat on their wives and have side babies. If you go to church with a selfish motive, the devil will dust off his best trash and send it to you wrapped like a king! If you seek God sincerely, he will give you what He desires for you to have. No rushing him or manipulation will be considered.
Everybody a narcissist.....women couldnt even speak in the bible without permission......women jacked dat up wen they spoke to satan....and therefoe man ruled over woman.....God said that.
A good review. In all situations, use humility, even in warding off some women. Remember, women are huge investors of the church. If you're concerned, show it in your ability to manage your pastoral responsibilities. Ask others to pray for you. You are human, as are your members. Find humility. It's a beautiful thing. Wisdom, knowledge, and humility are awesome combinations.
He is NOT THAT and a bag of chips! 😂 Sit yourself down, nobody is trying to be with you. JESUS please come and deliver your church from egotistical " Pastors". Smh!
You must be running put of things to do in your free time because based on your comments from your profile you're an unbeliever, but you've left 100+ comments on this page.
@@sawyermookie4764 You got me on that one. 2Shay I probably should be studying my craft a lil during downtime at work but talkinShit and learning non work related things passes the time much easier. But you got me on that one Good Brotha.
@lorenzoneal 1996...may i have a few minutes of your time...my first comment was made from your comment...you said, that grandmother and cousin, were trying to get you to date people they knew, this was before you gotten married... But you are right when you said it doesn't matter a person Denomination, i forgot that some pastor's such as you, might was in a church that had stubbility...when a pastor is part of a church that have borad members and the parishioners, are doctors, teacher..ect..it makes a difference..hear me out, in those churches those women are married and some are widows... But when a pastor is on TV..even if he have 60 members..his platform is now at 15,000...with a platform that large..that pastor is exposed to people of all walks of life.. Ñote in his church of 60 people..things are going okay... But once you do TV ministry its like hell breaks loses...now that pastor have 200 women saying that Jesus said he is her husband.. Than he have 500 hundred males saying they had a dream that the pastor is a life partner.. From what i understood from you..that didn't happen to you, and iam glad that it didn't..but see when the time came you got married ❤.. If you were exposed to all of that crazy.. something else could have gotten in your way and messed your life up... have a blessed day in Jesus..from sister andrea of Oklahoma
?He does everything. If you want to watch the videos he made about your flesh and other such teachings then just go back and watch them. I don’t see the point you’re getting at here.
Cory @ 15:35 you said they don’t desire to be single so they should hurry up and get married. Honest question doesn’t the scripture teach if you remarry while your spouse is alive you are an adulterer ?
Under most circumstances, yes. That said, according to the culture, having sex was essentially marriage so legally marrying the third person you’ve had sex with akin to divorcing twice and marrying three times.
Thanks for the comments I really appreciate them. @itsintheword320 if you repent but remain in the marriage isn’t that consider a continuation of sin because doesn’t repent mean to turn away from that sin once again this is not a debate I’m just trying to understand so I’m asking questions
I wonder if this is an excerpt from a bigger message where he was explaining how he handled it.He wrote a post with all of the same scenarios in this videos a year or so ago.
Bro Corey, can you please address how seminaries, including DTS, where I think you attended, are focusing "race relations"? I would love to hear your take on this trend. I know there many churches and popular church leaders that have adopted this trend (ie. Chandler, Platt, Derwin Gray, etc).
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I was a single pastor until I married my wife in 2023. I didn’t have the issues he addressed butI had plenty of mothers, grandmothers, aunts and cousins attempting to fix me up with their relatives. I was able to date my now wife discretely quietly and without church membership interfering. When I did announce our engagement my membership was excited because they knew I had been a disciplined man and pastor.
I find myself wondering if I even wanna marry a woman who was raised in church. Not that she shouldn’t be saved now, I’d prefer it if she is saved now, but raised in church as a child? That’s another conversation.
So my question is did you fornicate... OR did you find the secret to overcome sexual urges???🤔 If you found the secret and yet you don't share the secret throughout the whole body of Christ then you are doing the body a great disservice....
Otherwise we're all going to assume that you were a human and fornicating before you got married 😉
@lorenzoneal1996 then you were an unqualified pastor
That's why I avoid Black churches like the plague because as a single man you have these folks all. trying to play matchmaker. My private life is that PRIVATE! I choose my own mate. So many matches we thought made in heaven turned out to be disasters.
@@Ma1nguy What's wrong with ppl playing match maker???...read your bible and you'll see its very biblical...its very easy when choosing a spouse to get blinded by things, how they look, how they make you feel, etc.. And ignore clear red flags and signs that person isn't ready for marriage or that person isn't right for you.
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As a man who was single and a minister in church. And now married for 10 years..theres nothing wrong with church brethren trying to match up ppl..you have the final say, but if you're in a good church there will be ppl around you who see alot more than you .
I could give you examples of a girl i liked at church ,we started talking and I asked a church mother about her...and the church mother told me plainly NO..don't go their ..shes not for you she's nowhere near being ready for marraige ..she need to learn to control her temper..and other things.. on her words I broke of that relationship..not letting her know anything about what the mother said
years later she got marrid to someone else and they ended up getting into a physical altercation and she was throwing plates and breaking things in the house because of her temper...these are things i never saw,because she liked me she never exposed me to that side of herself.
if youre wise you will get as much wise ppl involved in the choice of your mate..
He is NOT ATTRACTIVE AT ALL!!!!
Man, please! 😅 Otis, Ain't nobody come to see YOU!
This comment reminds me of the Five Heartbeats… “ain’t nobody coming to see you Otis” 🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂
, it's from the movie "The Temptations"🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
There are desperate women in the church looking for a husband and these women don't go to the club but the church
@cassieY69 As soon as I read your comment, my cat Otis walked in 🤣
@@AngelaDavis-yz3xf 😂😂
He's pretty hostile towards the person who "thought" she was talking to him. Also, if she's got him mistaken, why is he acting like she's in sin? So many questions.
Ikr! Either he had an ig boo/text boo and now it’s jeopardizing his real life gf OR he juggles multiple people from social media and is trying to publicly reject her
He is very hostile, there is a way to address something without offending people, I am involved in ministry and being single individual, I am always approached by those who seek a relationship, and I would kindly decline respectfully, with gentleness, the Bible says do everything in love and harsh words one can bring fire to a city but kind words can calm the hearts and smooth the soul, too many times people allow there position to dictate there character to talk down to others as if there more valuable then those they are leading and teaching, while forgetting the same ground there feet is touch is the same as mines, being human is easy until someone feels they are floating above the rest smh, humility over humiliation
Right. She was scammed and now she needs to repent….??
Did you ever consider that this individual threatened to publicly slander him? There things weren't said that suggests the situation reached a level in which it needed to be addressed publicly.
There are people with obsessive behavior towards pastors.
God never tells a woman to go seek a husband. The Bible says a man who seeks a wife finds a good thing. Some of us are given the gift of singleness.
the Bible was written a culture strongly dominated by men. Women often had no say in whom they would marry. If a man showed up at her dad's doorstep with dowry price, he could basically buy her hand in marriage whether she liked him or not. I do agree with the second part of what you wrote. Paul looks at singleness as the more favorable option for ministers. The single person cares only for the things of God.
He holds himself in pretty high esteem!!
As well he should as a single black straight man leading God's people. Would you had rather him to make announcement of coming out of the closet like a lot of these so called men of God are doing now? Holiness is still the standard for God's people. I salute the brother and will keep him in prayer.
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I met him before. He is very cocky.
@@Page57 Matt 11:12 And from the days of John the Baptist until now the kingdom of heaven suffereth violence, and the violent take it👉 by force.👈
God don't have any jellybacks in His army and demons don't tremble to compromisers. They tremble at the name of Jesus.
@@Page57you people love
To trash somebody instead of take my the positives or just keeping your comments to yourself 😈😈😈
You think you’re getting brownie points for gossiping
You don’t like this statement do you ?
Well stop with your own mouth towards others
He is somewhat hostile… definitely a petty zesty response from him.
Is it really that hard out there that women are going after him??? He’s not unattractive per se, but very off putting personality
At any rate, these pastors have zero grace, zero fruit of the Spirit and zero sense of holiness… and yes Minister Corey, home is your first and most important ministry
💯 Tell the truth!! And yes, it's awfully bad in South Bend. Definitely no place for people of value or of God to live, unless you're already married. 😬
I had Never wanted to Marry a Pastor! I am called to serve GOD as His Humble servant!
Same here. I would never want to be married to a Pastor. The responsibility, for me, would be daunting.
And that’s the conflict. If you get married before he’s called or accepts the call that can create a divide. Happens a lot and happened to me specifically.
Ain't nobody checking for him
Exactly.
Women are attracted to men with power and money.
I'm always suspicious of pastors who uses the phrase "religious people" when they are wrong.
Yup..
He aught not think so highly of himself. His words are very condescending towards his female members, Not a good look for a Pastor/Sheppard or a husband 😢
It could be comforting to a codependent woman. That’s the scary truth of how leaders of many stripes sucker in vulnerable members.
Amen
@ Kassandracmille2474...you may not like the words that pastor said..but he doesn't want women lien on him, saying they are in a relationship and it's not true...
If you or anyone think 😏 they going to get married to him, they should leave his church...do you believe men are the only people who have a relationship with someone who no nothing about..there are people who wii join that church and sit back and look at him and say that is my man...just crazy...
Women do attend church only to look at the pastor, and then go out and say the pastor is in a relationship with her...some women are sick and hard up
He's very cocky I met him before.
? But being told that so much as asking a question in church is a disgrace wouldn't? Disgrace. That's the word used. That's being told that anytime you want to contribute to a dialogue, at BEST is merely tolerated.
How about leave for a year to focus on the wellbeing of your marriage??
Give that all you can like you gave the people.
That was likely part of the problem. She wasn’t first and foremost. That is how it is suppose to be for any Christian marriage, whether the husband is a Pastor or not.
God didn’t say husbands love your church as Christ loves the church.
His divorce was over a decade ago and that video is old. The man posting these video clips is clout-chasing. Pastor YPJ had a lot reasons to make the statement that he did. His family has had to drag women to court because of their delusions and level of fanaticism. Context is key.
I wonder if his problem stems more from arrogance rather than from his marital status??
I urge you to become familiar with his ministry. He’s not arrogant. He’s actually quite humble. He confident and comical, but humble nonetheless. This man gets stalked by desperate women… even to the point of having to have had to take them to court. It’s public info. He has a clean reputation and healthy ministry. Unfortunately, clout-chasers, like the man who did this video, know how popular Pastor YPJ is. They know when people see his face that they’re going to click. He’s a famous pastor. They know it. So, they use crap like this to try to belittle them and get likes.
He's not good looking outward, nor inward. Isn't it all about Jesus our Lord ?
I watched a documentary years ago about how women throw themselves at pastors single or married and honestly you wouldn’t believe the how crazy the stories and how these women would go to the extreme to get these pastors. I don’t like that he giving personal examples to his congregation but I know it needs to be addressed
Trying to be the so called "first lady".
I agree, ppl dont want to talk about this. Not only pastors, it happens to men too.
I agree!! But do not be fooled by his speech. He is full of himself and has always strutted around like he wanted all that attention he got. Seems like he is performing 'damage control.'
BTW, know his family, they know mine, I know the behavior of many of the men in that church (especially the band- South Bend is small!!), saw him for years being a narcissist, I am speaking from experience, not emotion.
@@ShaeNik wow 😲😱, shocked!
@@ShaeNik understandable!
I'm so sick of 2024 church snd it's only February.
Same here.
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Paul was single, some are called to be single some choose to be single
He’s not Paul! This Pastor was married at some point completely different.
You're claiming the Apostle Paul was single but scripture doesn''t tell us that. He was a member of the Sanhedrin Counil and a requirement was that they be married. Whether he left his wife to follow Jesus or his wife died, we're not told. I think we need to be careful not to draw conclusions unless it's clearly stated in scripture.
Paul wasn't a pastor but an evangelist (an apostle). His role wasn't too shepherd a church but to help start churches by preaching, then move on to next town to do the same again
@@brianlloyd7494 1 Corinthians 7:8 ”To the unmarried and the widows I say that it is good for them to remain single, as I am.“ Paul says he's single right here. Not trying to attack just wanted it known that we're not drawing conclusions. Paul said it himself. God bless!
He got Divorced.... He is single by mans law. GOD said to death do us apart.
He should have stepped down.
Glad I don't have a Pastor over the Church that I attend that has this pastor's ego. Divorced..... Nope.
Run!!!! Cause he will never be wrong in a relationship.
He’s doing rumor management which is dangerous. He’s creating curiosity with people like me who had no clue or no interest. Preach Jesus, not yourself!
@ Patrickhatcherson3416....are you void of common sense...when a person don't want people calling the church leaving messages and saying they are sent to marrie the pastor..
The pastor must address it in the public..if it doesn't stop 🛑🛑🛑..the pastor have a right to bring legal process...women run to the police 🚨 all the time saying a man is sexually harassing them, it works both ways..some men don't want a man or a woman, harassing them for marriage..and that pastor have no idea who it is...look the women told another person she was sent there to marrie him...
Most women go to church just to try and make contact with the pastor..in her head she thinks they like each other... women are mentality sick just like males...
Women wii find out were you stay, and watch your house..why do I need to tell a grown man this..can you think 🤔 for your self
He wasn’t doing rumor management. He literally had stalkers. Some fell prey to fake pages that were being ran from overseas and refused to accept that they weren’t going to be his wife. Some joined the church and were telling his family and others that they were going to be the First Lady. This family has had to drag women into court to make them stop. Pastor YPJ is a famous pastor well-accomplished musician. Unfortunately, things like this happen with fanatics. Some won’t stop without legal action because of their fixation. Context is key.
@@confidentauthenticmethis must be his burner account, nobody is looking out for you Otis 💀😂😂😂😂
@@hopedesire5936 My picture is literally on my account, genius. You can go to my page and see my name. You can even Google me. You’re making a fool of yourself. This is no burner account. Even a lazy person can figure that out with a few clicks.
You can only divorce if your spouse commits an affair with another person. That is the only way a person can divorce adultery within a marriage only. If you divorce for any other reason, you must remain single, until your spouse passes away and then you can remarry.
He’s not exactly a catch. 😮
By whose standards????????????????????????????
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His ex wife thought he was a catch.
He is not! He is very arrogant, narcissist, and loves the attention he receives. Not very manly or pastoral like!
@@keepingitrealandtruthful.5081Until she didn't! Lol
Please look at the time stamp on the video regarding his sharing of his divorce, etc. Pastor, YPJ is not a perfect man of God, but neither are those who are ripping this video to shreds. He's an awesome man of God and Prophet of God from what he's displayed in his walk/conduct. He's as humble as they come, and he's sharing his past to help someone else not make the same mistake. Those who are throwing stones are judging him from his past. He's not presently in the situation. I could say so much more, but I don't have the time.
I’m trying to understand the hate for him .. I really am shocked - he speaks Gods truth
I totally agree with you!
@@Thedevilisaliar23 Read your bible. He is full of pride, alone. God bless you and him...
O please nobody is trying to get you 😂
😂
they are probably after the bag and the lifestyle the bag brings
He look like ET✌🏾
😂😂😂😂 I’m done
😂😂😂that ET part😂😂
Pastors can't restore themselves. They need timeout to be restored by godly leaders. No one's spiritual enough to be restored after a fall by being the victim and lawyer, judge himself.
Amen!! Say that louder so they can hear it lol. 🗣
He used to preach at the youth conferences at the church I used to attend here in Dayton, Ohio. They called him "YPJ" I didn't even know that he was married then. This is disheartening to hear. Much prayer for all involved. 😕
Was he nice
Does he understand that certain things disqualify Doctors and Lawyers from practicing as well as their are things that can disqualify men from being a Pastor
Amen
The problem is that he looks at pastoring a church as a job and not doing the will of God. That’s the BIG PROBLEM 🙏🏾💜✝️
People will criticize anything in this day and age even a Pastor shutting down any unwanted advances
First red flag is the label SINGLE Pastor. A Pastor MUST be the husband of ONE wife and have children - 1 Timothy 3:2 KJV, Titus 1:5-7 KJV. If your pastor is divorced and on a second marriage, run for your life. - Romans 7:2-4 KJV, 1 Corinthians 7:39 KJV.
Well he doesn't HAVE to be a husband... If he can control his urges then he is very authorized to be a bishop. The emphasis is on him being the husband of ONE wife .. not 2 or 3 etc...
One cannot be a pastor without having home experience. The Bible says that if a man does not know how to run his house, how can he rule God's house? If he is divorced and remarried and his first wife is yet living that disqualifies him. Nobody can be a pastor with two wives and living in adultery.@@tiwanstrong1413
@@tiwanstrong1413Right. The idea was that 1 wife was the standard as opposed to the pastor having multiple wives. Some of these comments are amazing.
I agree!!
@tiwanstrong1413 Let's be honest! Not that many are able to control their sexual desires! Most of the single pastors are single because they don't have a fear of God.
Keep your eyes on the standard JESUS!!!
Question, bruh I've been watching your videos on and off for a few weeks now and it seems to me that your are critical of a whole bunch of pastors, most well deserved. I'm curious as to whom do U think are good pastors since you've taken it upon yourself to judge???
Thank you for staying with the scriptures.
Single men are not supposed to be pastors smh
Pastor YPJ is a great pastor & very caring and loving towards his members and he keeps it real with us! As a single woman who sits in this church I felt no way when he addressed that situation because it didn’t apply to me because that’s not what I go for, if someone did feel a way then a hit dog will holler. He spoke a great word that day and you’re just going off of a small clip of him addressing something happening in his church body & deflecting from the word he delivered 😢 We stand behind pastor YPJ ❤️
🙄🙄 deep sigh...uuhh shouldn't we be some where helping souls get saved for the kingdom as supposed to worrying about some else's life???
Ridiculous that he would bring this up as an order of business before the church from the pulpit. Good grief does he not have a full 66 book of the bible to preach from? This message certainly was not at any high level 🤨 Pastor with integrity, is that so? He is abnormally full of himself.
Absolutely - full of himself. Your church does not need to hear all of this.
I disagree. He should rebuke ungodly match making in the church. Assert his role as their pastor, not their lover. And no pastor or man should marry the first woman they find just to keep the girls off of him. I disagree with Corey.
You speak as though you know the man. Did you ever consider watching the entire broadcast to see if this was the only thing that he spoke about. I'm sure there was a sermon that was preached.
It is abnormal and an understatement!! I never respected him! My family is from South Bend and I lived there for several years and one of my good friends is his mentee. Oh man, too much to say but trying to be respectful. 🤦🏽♀️
@@misterjones842True but the image and narcissism he pushes out likely caused this reaction he speaks against! Play unGodly games, and get stupid prizes!
It’s not what you say, it’s how you say it! I do know him as he is from my home state as he preached at my current church before. I do enjoy his ministry, but his tone is condescending in what he addressed.
Heyyyy
Amen. He need to stop being a pastor. Find something else to do. Motivational speaker.
I bet you don’t run thru the women now, you probably already did.
Motivational Speaker is his job, he moonlights as a pastor.
Brethren, God will hold us accountable for each word we speak or write. Think we need to pray for each other and ourselves so that we do not find ourselves in similar situations.
I like his message, didnt see nothing wrong with it.
What does the Bible say should he not try to reconcile to his wife?
There is no such thing as a single pastor. A bishop must be the husband of one wife.
Aaahhh Divorced Pastor, Hmmm. That's rite Corey, his house is out of order.
I agree with Him Because I been in his Shoes If you never been in that Position it’s Hard for youuuuu to See we’re he is Coming From
He lends a lot of grace to people, and yes, he's straightforward here and might could have used another tone. However, give him grace. How many of you are perfect in all you say and do. We STRIVE!! Including the presenter of the video. You’ve seen a one-time episode and threw him under the bus.
Listen you TH-cam preachers, the man just said " people were joining the church saying God told them to join...." so he's checking people. Qiut being baby back Christians.
I don't attend churches with single pastors or divorced and remarried pastors.....
I like his honesty. I would rather for him to be honest. In the day that we are living in people mental illness is real. People can try to hurt you or even kill you. There are some people who can hunt you down. He is a cool pastor.
I like this pastor 😂😂😂sorry, he keeping it real, and hes trying to be nice. Yes, set the order sir!!!!
I find nothing wrong with what the pastor said....!
I think being bothered about someone else’s message is not worth our time.
That's why Paul said one of the qualifications for an overseer. Is you must be the husband of one wife. We talk about that being the reason a woman can not be a pastor. It also applies to single men you can not be single. And be an overseer or in church leadership according to 1 Timothy 3 :2-5. Paul was single but he was not a pastor.
I met him before. (YPJ) He wasn't too nice to me or my toddler son. He treated us very rudely because of where we lived. At the time we stayed across the street from his family's church. I used to go there trying to get a relationship with Jesus and he was always rude and nasty toward me. His parents never were but he was. I remember when I got saved I still was being tormented by demons and could not find deliverance in their Church. Wherever you go make sure they really live for Jesus and not trying to just be seen. People out here are hungry for Jesus not another Motivational speaker. Satan is attacking God's people left and right sending them to hell and it's because they don't know spiritual warfare because we have way too many motivational earth thinking "Christians" and not enough Holy Spirit led ones.
How long ago was this?
They normally don’t marry from within the congregation
Is that a bad thing.
Honestly, this happened to my pastor before he got married AND there are some who still try. I honestly think he’s just tired of it. There are witches in church you know. Ppl Satan sends to tempt single pastors to fall. ALSO, this was a conversation that shouldn’t have been televised. Some stuff should just be in home.
I agree! Absolutely.
Very wise
First, I can personally relate in being divorced and having your personal life on public display. Second, I saw no wrong whatsoever in his transparency to his congregation. People will have something to say regardless. Had he not shared or disclosed his experience, he’d be seen as being deceitful, disingenuous, etc. Those will always have something to say but no solutions to the problems. A lot of stones thrown and IMO this was a poor take of the situation. Prayers up to YPJ 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
At the very beginning of the clip, when he said “if you came and joined this church, because you think you’re gonna marry me, then you need to leave.” 👀👀That is so arrogant, narcissistic and prideful and everything wrong. Oh my goodness he’s nauseating I could not even tolerate him talking.🙅🏻♀️🙅🏻♀️🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
They should have gotten up and left!! I would have because he was being ungodly. Red flags!!
However, he might be right, a single man and pastor might be the motivation why a woman would join the ministry in hopes of getting a husband. I'm not a pastor but I know how women throw themselves at you especially when you're single and have no plans to be married. Singleness is a gift for both men and women. marriage is not for everyone
He actually needed to do that. There were women stalking his family. Some joined the church and were trying to get close to his family and other leaders, saying that they were going to be the First Lady. Some have had to be dragged into court to make them stop. Context is key! The clout-chaser posted this because he knew it would drive traffic to his page. He’s going to pay for trying to drag a man of God with a clean rep that serves to the kingdom of God well.
A disciple of Bryant and Eddie Long? Say no more.
Bryant would be running through all the women and Eddie liked the boys.😂
Lord have mercy! 💔
Out of order!!! NO LOVE DISPLAYED.
That’s enough. Not only is he “single”, but divorced… no, he can’t pastor me, period!
What if his wife cheated
Yeah, this whole thing stops at him being divorced in a way that Christ did not give “provision” for and is still preaching
So.. he prioritized ministry over family. Sad. Amen Corey. You explain it well.
How is that sad that he prioritized ministry?
The fact he is prophesying to Jamal Bryant and not correcting him speaks volumes. How is it he can hear “dead people’s prayers lingering”…. But is overlooking the fact this “pastor” believes in growing weed on church grounds. He believes in for adultery and committing adultery and looking at the “new pastors” installed at that church… that is not God that man is hearing from… that is a familiar spirit operating on deceit. 🙏🏾
PREACH‼️
He seems very sassy,I pray he removes himself for this place where he finds conflict.The church needs a new head pastor.
He said “wait for it” like it was something amazing and deep he was saying
They use "watch this watch this watch this" too...I'm looking and nothing happens 🤷😅😅wonk wonk wonk wooonnnkk😁
@@PD-fe7dz 😂😂😂
He think he is all that,,
Incorrect: "I should have stopped and said 'Hey... I'm gonna leave for a year, and I'm gonna get my MIND right".
Correct: "I should have stopped and said 'Hey... I'm gonna leave for a year, and I'm gonna get my SOUL right".
I guess a lot of you Forget that GOD is A Forgiving GOD
And a GOD of MULTIPLE CHANCES
GOD is a SOVEREIGN GOD
GOD is a MERCIFUL GOD
Who are we to Judge or Speak on a Pastor or Anyone’s Issues
We Need to Pray and Ask GOD for Guidance before we Speak upon anyone
Yesterday it’s Him
Today it’s YOU
Who’s going to Pray for Him and Over Him That GOD RESTORES Him
I Will
FATHER RESTORE HIM 🙏🏾
FATHER RESTORE ME 🙏🏾
FATHER RESTORE US 🙏🏾
I totally agree with you on your idea of marriage. Thanks for teaching it correctly.
I couldn’t stand being married to a Pastor 😢
They’re not good husbands
Really why
13:52 what was the point here? He delivered a warning to Jamal Bryant as well… why not play that part? 🤨
Sir and I ask this with respect. How can he be a pastor if he doesn’t have his own in Oder? I’m confused
His house is in order. He’s been divorced over a decade. Information is missing and more is being used out of context. This clout-chaser posted just enough (including old stuff) just to get clicks and likes. Check out Pastor YPJ for yourself. You’ll see why some like to use him for clickbait.
These prideful preachers!! 😮
Absolute Arrogance, Sir😢
Every godly woman “ain’t” on the hunt.
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Our poupose in life is not to be on a forever search for a spouse. For some it may never happen. For others it may last a while and end. Finding a mate in church only indicates that you share the same beliefs. It does not guarantee that the person is actually living a Godly lifestyle. Many hearers but not enough doers. How many Pastors cheat on their wives and have side babies. If you go to church with a selfish motive, the devil will dust off his best trash and send it to you wrapped like a king! If you seek God sincerely, he will give you what He desires for you to have. No rushing him or manipulation will be considered.
Amen and amen 🙏🏽 🙌🏽 👏🏽
Thank you for the word .Which Bible software is that you are using kindly?
Why is he talking like he’s angry.
Nobody want that😂
Prophetical…disqualified
Narcissists pastor 🐺🤦🏼♀️
Sooo much narcissism
Everybody a narcissist.....women couldnt even speak in the bible without permission......women jacked dat up wen they spoke to satan....and therefoe man ruled over woman.....God said that.
Negative
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A good review. In all situations, use humility, even in warding off some women. Remember, women are huge investors of the church. If you're concerned, show it in your ability to manage your pastoral responsibilities. Ask others to pray for you. You are human, as are your members. Find humility. It's a beautiful thing. Wisdom, knowledge, and humility are awesome combinations.
He is NOT THAT and a bag of chips! 😂 Sit yourself down, nobody is trying to be with you. JESUS please come and deliver your church from egotistical " Pastors". Smh!
Right! Ain’t nobody checkin for this dude🤦🏽♀️😅…humility is key!
Must be runnin out of material
You must be running put of things to do in your free time because based on your comments from your profile you're an unbeliever, but you've left 100+ comments on this page.
@@sawyermookie4764 You got me on that one. 2Shay I probably should be studying my craft a lil during downtime at work but talkinShit and learning non work related things passes the time much easier. But you got me on that one Good Brotha.
@@oldschool5Touché*
@davesenatus5566 🎯
Someone’s thinking of Club Shay Shay.
True
These people these people! Gal you are calling this out!
@lorenzoneal 1996...may i have a few minutes of your time...my first comment was made from your comment...you said, that grandmother and cousin, were trying to get you to date people they knew, this was before you gotten married...
But you are right when you said it doesn't matter a person Denomination, i forgot that some pastor's such as you, might was in a church that had stubbility...when a pastor is part of a church that have borad members and the parishioners, are doctors, teacher..ect..it makes a difference..hear me out, in those churches those women are married and some are widows...
But when a pastor is on TV..even if he have 60 members..his platform is now at 15,000...with a platform that large..that pastor is exposed to people of all walks of life..
Ñote in his church of 60 people..things are going okay... But once you do TV ministry its like hell breaks loses...now that pastor have 200 women saying that Jesus said he is her husband..
Than he have 500 hundred males saying they had a dream that the pastor is a life partner..
From what i understood from you..that didn't happen to you, and iam glad that it didn't..but see when the time came you got married ❤..
If you were exposed to all of that crazy.. something else could have gotten in your way and messed your life up... have a blessed day in Jesus..from sister andrea of Oklahoma
Bruh-Bruh...stick with teaching the gospel and get up out your flesh.
?He does everything.
If you want to watch the videos he made about your flesh and other such teachings then just go back and watch them. I don’t see the point you’re getting at here.
That's what he should do, and you sound stop saying bruh bruh 🤣 sound like a mo ron
@@repentandfollowjesuschrist6170 My post doesn't speak, so it doesn't have a "sound."
Moron🤡
@@repentandfollowjesuschrist6170 And, you should learn that "moron" is one word.
Moron
@@repentandfollowjesuschrist6170😂😂😂
Well said Cory!❤
Cory @ 15:35 you said they don’t desire to be single so they should hurry up and get married. Honest question doesn’t the scripture teach if you remarry while your spouse is alive you are an adulterer ?
Yes.
Under most circumstances, yes.
That said, according to the culture, having sex was essentially marriage so legally marrying the third person you’ve had sex with akin to divorcing twice and marrying three times.
Matthew 5:32 - But I say to you whoever divorces his wife for any reason EXCEPT SEXUAL IMMORALITY causes her to commit adultery (NKJV).
It sure does....and you can repent for adultery to
Thanks for the comments I really appreciate them. @itsintheword320 if you repent but remain in the marriage isn’t that consider a continuation of sin because doesn’t repent mean to turn away from that sin once again this is not a debate I’m just trying to understand so I’m asking questions
I wonder if this is an excerpt from a bigger message where he was explaining how he handled it.He wrote a post with all of the same scenarios in this videos a year or so ago.
Plenty of churches in Atlanta where the women come looking for a man, this is nothing new to the older folks
I love YPJ God bless him!
Maybe he already has a husband uhhhh I mean 😮
Please stop it !!!!
Im from South Bend and used to attend this church when he was youth pastor..im just gon say his statement is ironic
How come?
All the men at my church is to old😂😂😂
😂😅
Same. A 63 y/o brother in the Lord went to our pastor asking to date me. 😬
@@kelliecordova4463 😬
Maybe it’s the older gentlemen that’s seeking a 200 plus pounder with cheese 🧀.
@@kelliecordova4463You're gorgeous!! I'm sure he was excited lol! 🤭
Bro Corey, can you please address how seminaries, including DTS, where I think you attended, are focusing "race relations"? I would love to hear your take on this trend. I know there many churches and popular church leaders that have adopted this trend (ie. Chandler, Platt, Derwin Gray, etc).
Why are you so hard pressed to pull this man of God down?
He has pink shade glasses. Should I say more?
Might be why he seems hostile to women
That part! Seems very zesty
Wow
Hmm 🤔
You do realize the lighting on the stage impacted how the tint of the glasses appear. The original tint is not pink.
@@tanderson2too time will tell.
Am i wrong from running away from ppl thats in the ministry i