I work in rescue and there is such a bad wrap on breeders in our community. I have seen awful rescues and awful breeders. But there are wonderful breeders and rescues out there who love their dogs just as much as their counterparts.
I've done this with my scared dog. Just walking, walking, walking, hours a day at all the most difficult areas eventually. Starting with just people, then like supermarket carts, a lot of people, crowds, other animals, different grounds or bedding like tarmac, concrete, grass, hay, strew, plates, gravel,sand, tiles, wooden floors, grates, bridges, stairs, steel stairs. Building sights, helicopter areas, planes (we have them close here), shooting range ...All kids of weather, temperature, lights sounds. She was with me everywhere. Biking, walking, riding, scooter, walker, and she has had her own stroller so that she can draw back for a while, resting, sleeping a bit and so that we could also carry food, clothes, towel for all kind of situations. The reward was from a dog that I got as a three year old menace every other dog wanted to kill to a completely loyal, happy buddy that walked off leash in all situations with a perfect behavior for all situations. As long as she could come with me she was willing to push any of her boundaries to succeed in enjoying it. She ended up becoming 15 years and 9 months even though people thought she would be euthanized for being so horrible. It is almost never impossible to change a dogs behavior.
My dog was undersocialized when I got him, and I found a local trainer that offered pack walks. Dogs did not interact but walked near other dogs and people. Worked great for him.
I have a 6-month old Irish Wolfhound. I wish I had more intuition for when to push and when it’s time to retreat. He’s so sweet and so strong. He was sick, hospitalized and crated for many days; now is more fearful than ever. Fingers-crossed I can guide him through this early period.
The male owner did a really good job of not letting the fearful puppy use him as a crutch. Sometimes it is really, really hard to coach owners to do that - he did great!
Thank you for these videos. I’ve been looking to train my new shelter dog who is a rescue. He is a gentle Saint Bernard who is not aggressive just fearful after being abandoned twice and not socialized. You can tell he has good temperament, he is not aggressive and without training just wants to be obedient and please you. Once we get his fear gone I feel he will be a great companion.
Great video. I have an extremely fearful rescue dog. He is afraid of life. We have been working with him for the last 5 months. He can now walk well on a leash with cars passing and not flinch. He is no longer afraid of the wind blowing or the rain. He still is afraid of most people. Especially men. We do push the limits at times and socialize him with the neighborhood dogs. It’s nice to know that what I’m doing is okay. I was worried.
Oh l am exactly in the same situation also with a rescued dog, it's also her first time ever in the city and l live in a flat in a second floor. Please could you let me know what worked out well for you?
Great video because it doesn’t show a perfect ending, and demonstrates the patience needed, and the persistence. I’m looking forward to seeing another video with this dog in it to see the transition that these methods will result
It took 9 years to build confidence in my now 14 year old. He'd had no socialization when I got him at 15 weeks. He's now 14 years old and rock solid confident. Let him come out of his shell - and yes I pushed his limits all the time. But first I taught him he could always turn to me. Grateful to see the beautiful confident dog that was inside finally emerge. Awesome video Joel!
@@wandersonmeireles6499 First I built a strong relationship so he knew he could always trust that I would keep him safe. Then I took him everywhere off leash. If something was scary he could move away on his own and I would assure him he did the right thing. I let him find his way in the world. I would never let anyone or any animal give him a hard time. Nice people were kind to him and he learned to trust them. Then one day at the park - at age 9 - he ran up to a woman he had met before. I'll never forget it. It made my heart sing. Another time he climbed up onto the lap of a friend (he's 65 lbs). I was in awe. Now he's 15 and confident with everyone.
You are so positive and spot on with your advise. I have 6 mo pup and your videos are great. “Have fun with your dog, don’t sweat the little stuff.” Thank you
Thanks for all the you tube videos Joel! They are so valuable to me. I have a 3 and 1/2 year old high drive black shepherd pup. He is doing amazing! We group walk with my other three dogs every day and he walks beautifully. I don't have to hold the leash during our walks. I have a 15 foot leash dragging on him for safety. I've been working with him this way since he came home. I brought him to Home Depot yesterday and he was greeted by people and kids, sliding doors, noisy forklifts, all sorts of stuff. He was very curious and showed no fear of anything. We did sit-stays in the aisles while folks walked by. I had hot dog with me to help with distractions and to reward. Just want to say thanks for the good training videos. I watch them every day.
Thank you, Joel! Another great, informative video. Will definitely be using the tips you mentioned for our fearful one. *Please* give an update on this puppy during and/or after her board and train!
Appreciate what you do & putting it out here. This is how I train & I get very excited when I come across others still doing the same thing. These "positive" trainers out there are exhausting the dog world both mentally & FINANCIALLY. months & months of "training" that should only take a matter of day to weeks absolute tops!!!! Just crazy
So true about pushing dogs' limits and being patient. We adopted a shelter dog who was around 4,5 years at the time (spent most of her life in the shelter) and she didn't leave the house for days at first. Everyone told us we had to be slow and let her take her time, except a trainer who showed us how to push her a little bit. We ended up pulling her out the house door with the leash (jerking it, showing her the direction she had to go in) and it worked wonders. We're obviously still working on many fears with her, as is normal, but pushing her boundaries has worked really well.
I really like your videos ! First let me say thank you for all of the hard work you & your team do to help our little 4 legged friends ! I just recently began a journey with a 10 mth old, mixed breed that I was fostering, ( now adopted) , who is also terrified of everything ! Him & his 2 siblings were dropped off in the mountains before they were 6 mths old, found, penned up & left to starve. By the time they reached the shelter they were imaciated and covered in mange. So then add 4 mths of shelter life on top of his already rough beginning ; that makes for one sketchy, broken little dog. Lucky for him my last dog, Sasha, who I had for 14 yrs had a very similar story. Tipper has only been with me for a few weeks and we have, for sure, had some rough times ! The great thing is he is SUPER smart !! When on the lead he has already learned to stop, turn, and pretty much has heel down !! 😀 This morning we conquered a bridge that a walkway is made out of wire you can see through !🥳🥳 I am so proud of him but we have a very long way to go....maybe months we'll see ! Thanks again for all of your hard work, it's much appreciated !! 😁
This is one of the most helpful videos I’ve seen training wise. Thank you, my cane corso gonna be amazing, she’s very scared of cars at the moment and a little bit much for other dogs little in there face and exited and doesn’t read other dogs very well but she’s learning she’s only 2 months so I have a lot of patience with her but push her if everything’s safe and it’s just a bit of nerves because she’s doing things for the 1st time still. I’ve had her sit next to the road on the furthest part of the path away from the road sat there and tried to make her realise that she’s safe then she was way more confident on that walk. Each time she goes out she kind of gives the same reaction, to start with she’s terrified then I play with her in the front garden doing a bit of obedience with treats and then she walks fine but whenever a car drives past she completely stops or she tries running the opposite direction
This is an extraordinary video. Every day I learn a lot from you and experts like you about the behavior movements of the members of my pack. Again thank you so much you are a great human been !
Me and my wife are getting an Aussie in November. She thinks I’ve been watching your videos because she’s under the impression I think our dog is going to be out of control or something. I really just enjoy your confidence and want to emulate that when it comes time to be the leader for the pupper. Thanks so much!
I wish I lived in San Diego.....my dog would be at your facility. Since I don't, Thanks a million for sharing these videos, you're truly saving lives and relationships.
I have a 9 month old pitsky pup and he's very scared of new surroundings and have been working with him taking him on walks and having him experience the different world than he's used to and it's a long process so far but getting there and lots of good information in this video to help out
The willpower of the owners here is amazing! I would've caved and picked up my dog but seeing what happens when they didn't is actually better for the dog. This was a great eye opening video.
I am blessed with a 8 month old Border Aussie Healer mix I am observing with her that the 2nd or third exposure to the scary thing the fear reaction is gone. Learning that different environments get different reactions. Love your video. Thank You.
Treating fear patterns: desensitization, socialization, when to push boundaries, counter-conditioning, patience (esp young dogs) Basis of fear patterns: genetics, early life, fear periods, '"you got what you got"
I agree with pushing the boundaries. In the end, the dog will be happier and can move forward in life and not be stuck in a fearful state. Patience will only get you so far 👏👏👏
For anyone reading this: I know that dog training can be difficult sometimes, but you're doing great. Keep up the good work, and your dog (and your own sanity) will thank you for it! ❤️💕
Sooo informative, especially your point about pushing the boundaries. I've definitely come to notice people coddle their dogs more than they coddle their human children, which is insane to me. Can't wait to see more of this puppy's progress, especially when she's in the board & train! I hope you will film more videos with her!
You're exactly right. I'm surprised the dog even ate treats because 95% of fearful dogs will not take them, and obviously the counter conditioning didn't accomplish anything. My prescription for this dog would be... forget the patience. NO picking the dog up. NO affection. Push the boundaries even at the risk of overwhelming it and make the dog deal with it on her own. Apart from that... LOTS and LOTS of structure.
Board and Trains Do Absolutely NOTHING to Teach the Owners!!! I Despise that Model when dogs already have owners!!! It’s the “ Owners” that Are the ones who NEED to learn!!!!! Dogs don’t take long to rehabilitate either! If worst comes if there’s a dog that needs a bit of rehabilitation before bringing the owner in, do One Week of Rehab Only and Theeen bring on the Owners!!!! It’s the PEOPLE who need to Learn!!!! I have such a Huge Issue with those “ Board and Train” facilities!!!! How does that Help Anyone? And HOW is it even Supposed to Help the Dog either when the Owners are Usualy the ones that have “ created” the situations to begin with, and they are gonna go right back to the same ole lifestyle as before.. so HOW is that supposed to Help ????!!? 😫😫😫
I have my friend's 4 yr old Blue Heeler that has been with me for a month. Your videos on leash walking have been amazingly helpful. I realize that she is not well socialized. She's getting better with people but still not great when meeting other dogs. Yesterday, she was meeting 2 smaller dogs that live on my street - very friendly but in retrospect too energetic for Sadie at this time - and she ended up lashing out. I'll keep working on introducing her to other dogs and look for a trainer or opportunites locally to help further her socialization. Thank you so much for the information that you are sharing!!
I have a 9-year old ridgeback/labrador mix that got bitten, first by her own mom when she was only a few weeks old (mom also killed one of her puppies), and then again twice by grown up dogs when she was still under 6 months old. She is still fearful of other dogs, no matter the size, and keeps them at a distance. Dispite all that, she also has three very close doggy friends and it took a long time to get her comfortable enough around them to play. The first time she did a play bow towards her (now) best friend Hector (3-year old Labrador/husky) last year, I cried! Took her a little over two years to get there. Patience and persistance are key in my eyes. Do not give up on socializing your dog, just because it's fearful. It's absolutely worth it in the end. And since I'm only seeing this video now, 4 months later - Merry Christmas, everyone!
My 5 month old puppy does great in her training besides people, she is so fearful of people approaching her it’s fine at a distance but approaching her or coming too close she gets very fearful. Hopefully this helps her!
Thank you so much for this. I just rescued an 8 month old lab/pit mix who was severely abused by a female. He came from a prison dog training program and obedience wise, he is smart as a whip but definitely need to work on his socialization with people. He takes well to treat but I needed more options in case it doesn’t always work. Thank you so much for this
Great video. Thank you Joel. We adopted a fearful dog from a shelter almost 18mnths ago. She is now 3,5 yrs old. She was found around 6mths old in the streets, stayed in the shelter till 2yrs old where we found her. At first she was peeing herself when I was getting ready for a walk, pulling like hell, shaking from fear like a fish out of the water. She was afraid of humans mostly men and city noises. She had diahroia the first 2,5 months. It was just her fear, nothing wrong pathological. The 1st trainer advised us to avoid fearful situations and meetings. We decided against this method and we seeked help from another trainer . Now after 7mths she can enjoy long walks with 20! Well trained dogs (like Prince) and their owners. We made her confront her fears. I will continue with method of training, along with a lot of patience and love. Thanks Joel for Yr videos and advices. BR, Elly Athens / Greece
As someone with ADHD, I can attest you got what you got is so true. Having shitty life experiences since early age, I wished someone would have just given me a break. I'm sorry I was chatty but that's how I expressed joy & enthusiasm. Then to be told your wrong for it - sucks. In my case, genetic. But true it's not 100% known. I wished someone would have just let me experience life. I honestly feel that's why I connect to animals over humans. Lack of trust. Lack of true leadership. Patience & understanding. Thanks Joel for another good one.
@Andrea Matthews I can relate. I was diagnosed with ADHD in my 40's and lived my whole life being criticized for being me. So much damage that still affects me. I've gotten much better at ignoring the criticism and just surrounding myself with people who accept me as I am. I don't have time or energy for the negativity. Makes my life much better and easier. Hang in there. People with ADHD have so much to add to the world that others do not.
@@shirleyens7707 Hi Shirley! Wow, that must have felt like a brick building falling off your shoulders! To finally have an answer - a reason... I'm lucky enough to have been diagnosed early in life (thanks overactive/bouncing of walls/not sitting still symptoms). But you are correct. Ignoring the criticism is the only way to go. You have to be you & that you; is way more authentic & real then if you weren't a neurodivergent. I've been fortunate enough to connect with a pretty awesome ADHD community on Twitter (I know, Twitter of all places 🤷♀️) but there's so many great folks there, that I feel most myself there. Thank you, thank you for your kind words. Hit me up on Twitter if you're interested AnDiHD. So glad you messaged today!
Thankyou for all your videos I had a fearful reactive kelpie on leash thanks to your training methods he is improving incredibly . He is so smart but most of the problem was coming from me not being relaxed enough and being confident so Thankyou
Thank You!!!! Your methods and suggestions saved this adoption! We just adopted a 7 month old Aussie mix. We really didn't need or even desperately want a 2nd dog, but strongly felt our 2 year old Sarplaninak/Anatolian mix "Sahra" needed a buddy! Based on the profile from the rescue group, "Archie" seemed like a perfect compliment for our dog and likely a good addition to our "family". He had been taken to the groomer on the day of the adoption -- this was apparently NOT a positive experience for our new little man, as he was cowed and visibly shaking when we picked him up. The rest of the evening he displayed major fear -- even as far as threatening to bite! All of this (per the rescue group) was previously never witnessed behavior. On the ride home (about an hour) I held his 60# in my lap (now that was fun for me! -- NOT!) I wanted him to get my scent in a non-threatening way. By the time we got home, at least the severe shaking stopped. Our dog Sahra was so happy to greet her new "little brother" and welcomed him in a friendly but controlled way. Even so, a terrified Archie just about ripped her throat out! We tried working with them for about an hour, and things just seemed to get worse. So I put Archie in a secure place for the night and we settled in front of the computer to watch some of your videos. Armed with some principles and tips, I worked with him 1:1 then next morning for about an hour. When I went to put him away again, he indicated an interest in meeting Sahra again... So.... cautiously (again, adapting your strategies to our environment) I re-introduced them. It went famously! And they've only gotten more comfortable and friendly with each other since. Today ended Archie's 2nd full day with us, and we could not be more pleased by the transformation we've seen. Archie is happy to see us when we go outside. He has overcome his fear of coming inside and has now twice crossed that threshhold on his own. He and Sahra play almost non-stop. She is sharing her toys with him and they peacefully swap out supper dishes in the evening! Wow. What a transformation from that 1st night! Again -- thank you for sharing so much of your experience with us. It made a huge difference in the lives of these two new best friends!
One of the worst memories I have is being a kid until 6 years old and being afraid of my grandpa. He was a very strict military guy having fought in ww2, but I so much wish I wasn't like that back then because in reality he was a loving man. He died when I was 7 and I never got to know him too well. I believe Im braver and less afraid now, and I hope I would make him proud today.
I liked that I could watch the dog almost the entire time. I also liked seeing the main points itemized on screen. And, as always, I liked seeing what is accomplished in a session as opposed to seeing one brief encounter that has apparently magical effects. Thanks.
My wife and I have just taken in a rehome Bocker (Beagle/Cocker Spaniel cross), she's 4 years old and gradually getting over her anxiety. Thanks for the video.
A very helpful video. We just adopted a 10 month old chihuahua, not from a shelter but from a home with poor training was terrified the first day with us. He still is not house trained at 10 months so when I started the potty routine, he would just sit in the yard, frozen in place. Even though I would take all of his #2 outside for him to smell, he would still shut down. I decided at some point to turn my back to him and within 30 seconds he started sniffing around. His routines have been improving that trick which tells me he still doesn't trust me yet. This is our first home-to-home rescue.
This is the Best information I have found on getting a fearful dog thru to the other side! My Male GS came from an excellent line his big brother is amazing. I had Bruno in puppy class then outdoor obedience and agility class. At 5 months old on our routine walk an extremely noisy garbage truck barreled around the corner and terrified him. Completely changed my dog. He’s now 2 and on his second medication for noise phobia. The fear is still intense. He can feel the vibration of metal hitting pavement blocks away. Lots of hiding and totally uninterested in treats or toys, It’s rough. I continue to work with him so he can have a good life. Thank you for an awesome step by step helping hand!
I think that might have happened to my dog also! I got her when she was a puppy but she has always been afraid of garbage trucks and we couldn't figure out why. Does anything help?
Another helpful video, thx!! And a big «merci beaucoup» you for all the great stuff you teach us every day..!! Btw great hoodie! I love your videos and what you stand for so much that I would order the same right now and proudly wear it here in Geneva 😎 (just checked on your website, no Bdt items for sale yet, I’ll wait lol)
I'm 100% sure my dog has went through multiple fear periods yet. I only learned about them with her. But shes on and off scared of things.. now at 9 months shes been freaking about everything.. even just random noises. So it's really good for me to know this is a big one. I've been reassuring her and I push her by making her sit and deal with things and give treats if I cant avoid it but I'm hoping we get through it soon.. luckily my pup isn't scared of dogs or people as she was socialized alot as a very young pup. But now it's just new, unexpected things that get her running back to the porch. On the upside, she knows home and always runs there.
I took on a timid fearful dog a few months bk…she’s scared of my hubby from day 1…he’s never harmed her. Everyday is like ground hog day we do positive reinforcement we feel we are doing good then the next day it’s back to the start again 😮💨 She’s 2. Thanks for the information. She’s really living her best life now we will have a normal dog one day…she’s experiencing many things now.
Super helpful, thank you. I adopted a 5 month old rescue dog that had never been outside. He was so frightened of the world. 6 months on and he’s improving a lot and will walk outside near cars and people but socialisation with other dogs or visitors to the apartment are still a problem. Great video, very encouraging
I've always loved dogs, and have trained my two female Kelpie/Cattledogs very well. It took years to figure all of this out on my own and even though they don't need additional training or behavior to be corrected, I watch all your videos! They're so insightful and very helpful to the world. I know a lot of friends who struggle with their dog's behavior and don't understand how to assess and assert what is needed in each situation. You really inspire me, Beckman. You're helping people who likely feel helpless or lost.
I've found I mirror your style, and my dogs are relaxed and happy knowing I will lead. My mother, brother, sister, and three good friends all have dogs that they can't control. I am certain its because they ask the dog to behave a way instead of TELL them. They don't correct, don't interrupt behavior or staring. Their dogs run the show, and it's a mtressful mess for everyone.
Patience!! Cannot stress that enough. Joel, I began a foster project with a one year old pup. She came to me physically and mentally wounded. Prior to getting her, I watched your videos and prepared myself for the challenge. The concepts intertwine as she makes progress. Each day and moment come with successes and new obstacles. Patience has been my greatest tool. Thank you. Puppy paw hugs🦮
I would add to redirect that fear or nervous energy, especially for a working breed dog like this one. Playing fetch or hide and seek or any of other number of games could really open up this pup and build confidence. And do it all alone with people and around the other dogs, with the other dogs, perhaps. Positive associations, doing the treats while also desensitizing, for example.
My Kelpie is “weird” with ppl. Fine at the dog park, if someone reaches to pat him he used to jump or shy away from them. Now - not as much but will still do it occasionally. I’m the home he is really fear aggressive - his threshold is so low, rushes, lunges, barks, growls it’s nuts unless he’s leashed and corrected. Just doesn’t get when it’s ok. Never ever had a dog like this before.I’ve seen your clips of this. It’s helped me to understand him & what work I need to do to try fixing this dog.
That is so true. I did counter conditioning to get my 3 month cane corso to get use to the robot vacuum. Long story short, I eventually i put treats on the robot while it cleaned and he couldn’t resist. Now robot vac comes on he doesn’t care! 😎
I think when the pup cross the water, she can go out without asistance of the lady and the congratulations were not necesary. They could just stand up in front of her like a reference and a stimulus. I think that little things make the huge advantages in this kind of cases. Best wishes for everyone !
Thank you so much for this video! It's exactly what I needed to watch. Our 5 month old puppy growls and shies away from anyone outside of our family that tries to talk to her or reach out to her. I realize it's fear based. We've never had a dog that isn't friendly toward people, so we've been at a loss as to what to do. I'll be looking forward to watching this young pup as she progresses.
Check out the Dobe and Rat Terrier video of Victoria Stillwell. The people just wanted to have a party without having to put the dogs out of sight. Suzanne Clothier's Automatic Check In will help as well. Good things happen when people are around. Save the steak or high level treats for good strangers. I will tell my less confident Dobe no bark, just watch if I'm not sure about someone. That way he has a job and is less likely to react when I pass the person on a walk. Basically, you have to take charge and be an advocate for your dog. Step between the dog and whatever they are afraid of - like I got this, you're good. No need to react. He/she is a friend if that's the case.
Great video, so many of us are confused on how to help our dogs overcome their fears. Would love to get some update videos on this pup during the board and train to see how she’s overcoming.
I’d like to see a video of that dog without the owners present. I’ve found that the dogs do better without the owners around when I have a insecure dog staying with me.
Great examples. Our dog is a bit fearful of people, including us when we want her to come to us, she cowers and sometimes hides behind a chair. She loves other dogs and cannot wait to meet with them. We hope she eventually gets over her fear of us. She is 10 mos. Old
"Breeders can be very odd people, they're almost always odd people, but they know their dogs." I laughed so hard because it's really true.
I know right 🤣
This is the comment I came here for lmao
Yep im a breed er golden retriever puppies . I prefer pets to most people .
I work in rescue and there is such a bad wrap on breeders in our community. I have seen awful rescues and awful breeders. But there are wonderful breeders and rescues out there who love their dogs just as much as their counterparts.
We are all a bit odd lol. But yes, we definitely know our dog's !!!
I've done this with my scared dog. Just walking, walking, walking, hours a day at all the most difficult areas eventually. Starting with just people, then like supermarket carts, a lot of people, crowds, other animals, different grounds or bedding like tarmac, concrete, grass, hay, strew, plates, gravel,sand, tiles, wooden floors, grates, bridges, stairs, steel stairs. Building sights, helicopter areas, planes (we have them close here), shooting range ...All kids of weather, temperature, lights sounds. She was with me everywhere. Biking, walking, riding, scooter, walker, and she has had her own stroller so that she can draw back for a while, resting, sleeping a bit and so that we could also carry food, clothes, towel for all kind of situations. The reward was from a dog that I got as a three year old menace every other dog wanted to kill to a completely loyal, happy buddy that walked off leash in all situations with a perfect behavior for all situations. As long as she could come with me she was willing to push any of her boundaries to succeed in enjoying it. She ended up becoming 15 years and 9 months even though people thought she would be euthanized for being so horrible. It is almost never impossible to change a dogs behavior.
My dog was undersocialized when I got him, and I found a local trainer that offered pack walks. Dogs did not interact but walked near other dogs and people. Worked great for him.
Same situation
I have a 6-month old Irish Wolfhound. I wish I had more intuition for when to push and when it’s time to retreat. He’s so sweet and so strong. He was sick, hospitalized and crated for many days; now is more fearful than ever. Fingers-crossed I can guide him through this early period.
The male owner did a really good job of not letting the fearful puppy use him as a crutch. Sometimes it is really, really hard to coach owners to do that - he did great!
Honestly as someone who works with dogs these videos are amazing for owners who are curious about their dogs.
Thank you for these videos. I’ve been looking to train my new shelter dog who is a rescue. He is a gentle Saint Bernard who is not aggressive just fearful after being abandoned twice and not socialized. You can tell he has good temperament, he is not aggressive and without training just wants to be obedient and please you. Once we get his fear gone I feel he will be a great companion.
Great video. I have an extremely fearful rescue dog. He is afraid of life. We have been working with him for the last 5 months. He can now walk well on a leash with cars passing and not flinch. He is no longer afraid of the wind blowing or the rain. He still is afraid of most people. Especially men. We do push the limits at times and socialize him with the neighborhood dogs. It’s nice to know that what I’m doing is okay. I was worried.
Oh l am exactly in the same situation also with a rescued dog, it's also her first time ever in the city and l live in a flat in a second floor. Please could you let me know what worked out well for you?
Great video because it doesn’t show a perfect ending, and demonstrates the patience needed, and the persistence. I’m looking forward to seeing another video with this dog in it to see the transition that these methods will result
It took 9 years to build confidence in my now 14 year old. He'd had no socialization when I got him at 15 weeks. He's now 14 years old and rock solid confident. Let him come out of his shell - and yes I pushed his limits all the time. But first I taught him he could always turn to me. Grateful to see the beautiful confident dog that was inside finally emerge. Awesome video Joel!
How you did it?
@@wandersonmeireles6499 First I built a strong relationship so he knew he could always trust that I would keep him safe. Then I took him everywhere off leash. If something was scary he could move away on his own and I would assure him he did the right thing. I let him find his way in the world.
I would never let anyone or any animal give him a hard time. Nice people were kind to him and he learned to trust them.
Then one day at the park - at age 9 - he ran up to a woman he had met before. I'll never forget it. It made my heart sing. Another time he climbed up onto the lap of a friend (he's 65 lbs). I was in awe. Now he's 15 and confident with everyone.
@@JenniferBealeunleashpr beautiful! Thanks for you answer
@@JenniferBealeunleashpr this is so beautiful and gives me hope!
@@Catherinetingey :)
Wow, these are the kind of cases that give trainers the experience they need to be well rounded.
There you are! Happy Tuesday!
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@@andihd8768 Hi Andrea! Always nice to see you here in the comments😊
@@KingsMom831 ditto love!
Prince has such a bad ass look and yet seems to be the sweetest dog ever, love it, great job raising him !
dobs can be such sweethearts
You are so positive and spot on with your advise. I have 6 mo pup and your videos are great. “Have fun with your dog, don’t sweat the little stuff.” Thank you
You are awesome Joel! Thank you so much for this amazing video🐾❤️🐾🙏
Thanks for all the you tube videos Joel! They are so valuable to me. I have a 3 and 1/2 year old high drive black shepherd pup. He is doing amazing! We group walk with my other three dogs every day and he walks beautifully. I don't have to hold the leash during our walks. I have a 15 foot leash dragging on him for safety. I've been working with him this way since he came home. I brought him to Home Depot yesterday and he was greeted by people and kids, sliding doors, noisy forklifts, all sorts of stuff. He was very curious and showed no fear of anything. We did sit-stays in the aisles while folks walked by. I had hot dog with me to help with distractions and to reward. Just want to say thanks for the good training videos. I watch them every day.
Love your work! So refreshing to see a trainer who talkes common sense... thank you and keep it up! :)
Ha I love Prince at the end was absolutely loving the attention 😂😂. Such a ham!!!
Excellent video! Going through this with my 4 mo old poodle. Patience is the key!
Thank you, Joel! Another great, informative video. Will definitely be using the tips you mentioned for our fearful one. *Please* give an update on this puppy during and/or after her board and train!
Thanks for the tools to help people manage their pups.
Love the content as always, thank you for doing what you do!
Appreciate what you do & putting it out here. This is how I train & I get very excited when I come across others still doing the same thing. These "positive" trainers out there are exhausting the dog world both mentally & FINANCIALLY. months & months of "training" that should only take a matter of day to weeks absolute tops!!!! Just crazy
Im super excited to see how my Aussie matures. Kinda nervous some days, hope all the hard work pays off.
So true about pushing dogs' limits and being patient. We adopted a shelter dog who was around 4,5 years at the time (spent most of her life in the shelter) and she didn't leave the house for days at first. Everyone told us we had to be slow and let her take her time, except a trainer who showed us how to push her a little bit. We ended up pulling her out the house door with the leash (jerking it, showing her the direction she had to go in) and it worked wonders. We're obviously still working on many fears with her, as is normal, but pushing her boundaries has worked really well.
I really like your videos ! First let me say thank you for all of the hard work you & your team do to help our little 4 legged friends !
I just recently began a journey with a 10 mth old, mixed breed that I was fostering, ( now adopted) , who is also terrified of everything ! Him & his 2 siblings were dropped off in the mountains before they were 6 mths old, found, penned up & left to starve. By the time they reached the shelter they were imaciated and covered in mange. So then add 4 mths of shelter life on top of his already rough beginning ; that makes for one sketchy, broken little dog.
Lucky for him my last dog, Sasha, who I had for 14 yrs had a very similar story. Tipper has only been with me for a few weeks and we have, for sure, had some rough times ! The great thing is he is SUPER smart !! When on the lead he has already learned to stop, turn, and pretty much has heel down !! 😀 This morning we conquered a bridge that a walkway is made out of wire you can see through !🥳🥳 I am so proud of him but we have a very long way to go....maybe months we'll see ! Thanks again for all of your hard work, it's much appreciated !! 😁
This is one of the most helpful videos I’ve seen training wise. Thank you, my cane corso gonna be amazing, she’s very scared of cars at the moment and a little bit much for other dogs little in there face and exited and doesn’t read other dogs very well but she’s learning she’s only 2 months so I have a lot of patience with her but push her if everything’s safe and it’s just a bit of nerves because she’s doing things for the 1st time still. I’ve had her sit next to the road on the furthest part of the path away from the road sat there and tried to make her realise that she’s safe then she was way more confident on that walk. Each time she goes out she kind of gives the same reaction, to start with she’s terrified then I play with her in the front garden doing a bit of obedience with treats and then she walks fine but whenever a car drives past she completely stops or she tries running the opposite direction
This is an extraordinary video. Every day I learn a lot from you and experts like you about the behavior movements of the members of my pack. Again thank you so much you are a great human been !
Me and my wife are getting an Aussie in November. She thinks I’ve been watching your videos because she’s under the impression I think our dog is going to be out of control or something. I really just enjoy your confidence and want to emulate that when it comes time to be the leader for the pupper. Thanks so much!
I have no dogs nor plan to get anything but I watch these all the time
Prince seems so sweet. Thanks for the refresher.
I wish I lived in San Diego.....my dog would be at your facility. Since I don't, Thanks a million for sharing these videos, you're truly saving lives and relationships.
I have a 9 month old pitsky pup and he's very scared of new surroundings and have been working with him taking him on walks and having him experience the different world than he's used to and it's a long process so far but getting there and lots of good information in this video to help out
The willpower of the owners here is amazing! I would've caved and picked up my dog but seeing what happens when they didn't is actually better for the dog. This was a great eye opening video.
So much of this channel carries over to humans.
Big reason why I like it.
Thank you for explaining something that is very complicated.
Awesome to see the progress in just a short while, thank you for sharing. Also thank you for including transcripts 💜
I am blessed with a 8 month old Border Aussie Healer mix I am observing with her that the 2nd or third exposure to the scary thing the fear reaction is gone. Learning that different environments get different reactions. Love your video. Thank You.
Treating fear patterns: desensitization, socialization, when to push boundaries, counter-conditioning, patience (esp young dogs)
Basis of fear patterns: genetics, early life, fear periods, '"you got what you got"
Nice.👏 Thanks for putting that down. That’s something I would do to help everyone remember.
I agree with pushing the boundaries. In the end, the dog will be happier and can move forward in life and not be stuck in a fearful state. Patience will only get you so far 👏👏👏
You are amazing. This is the best advice delivered consisely and in steps in the whole internet. You deserve more views!
For anyone reading this: I know that dog training can be difficult sometimes, but you're doing great. Keep up the good work, and your dog (and your own sanity) will thank you for it! ❤️💕
Thanks for all of the dog help!
Sooo informative, especially your point about pushing the boundaries. I've definitely come to notice people coddle their dogs more than they coddle their human children, which is insane to me. Can't wait to see more of this puppy's progress, especially when she's in the board & train! I hope you will film more videos with her!
Helicopter parent! For pets too
You're exactly right. I'm surprised the dog even ate treats because 95% of fearful dogs will not take them, and obviously the counter conditioning didn't accomplish anything. My prescription for this dog would be... forget the patience. NO picking the dog up. NO affection. Push the boundaries even at the risk of overwhelming it and make the dog deal with it on her own. Apart from that... LOTS and LOTS of structure.
Board and Trains Do Absolutely NOTHING to Teach the Owners!!! I Despise that Model when dogs already have owners!!! It’s the “ Owners” that Are the ones who NEED to learn!!!!! Dogs don’t take long to rehabilitate either! If worst comes if there’s a dog that needs a bit of rehabilitation before bringing the owner in, do One Week of Rehab Only and Theeen bring on the Owners!!!! It’s the PEOPLE who need to Learn!!!! I have such a Huge Issue with those “ Board and Train” facilities!!!! How does that Help Anyone? And HOW is it even Supposed to Help the Dog either when the Owners are Usualy the ones that have “ created” the situations to begin with, and they are gonna go right back to the same ole lifestyle as before.. so HOW is that supposed to Help ????!!? 😫😫😫
Thank you for this advice. It's very helpful!
I have my friend's 4 yr old Blue Heeler that has been with me for a month. Your videos on leash walking have been amazingly helpful. I realize that she is not well socialized. She's getting better with people but still not great when meeting other dogs. Yesterday, she was meeting 2 smaller dogs that live on my street - very friendly but in retrospect too energetic for Sadie at this time - and she ended up lashing out. I'll keep working on introducing her to other dogs and look for a trainer or opportunites locally to help further her socialization. Thank you so much for the information that you are sharing!!
i have a 1 year old miniature aussiedoodle, and she is THE EXACT SAME! thank you so much for this video!!! helped so much 🥰
I have a 9-year old ridgeback/labrador mix that got bitten, first by her own mom when she was only a few weeks old (mom also killed one of her puppies), and then again twice by grown up dogs when she was still under 6 months old. She is still fearful of other dogs, no matter the size, and keeps them at a distance. Dispite all that, she also has three very close doggy friends and it took a long time to get her comfortable enough around them to play. The first time she did a play bow towards her (now) best friend Hector (3-year old Labrador/husky) last year, I cried! Took her a little over two years to get there. Patience and persistance are key in my eyes. Do not give up on socializing your dog, just because it's fearful. It's absolutely worth it in the end.
And since I'm only seeing this video now, 4 months later - Merry Christmas, everyone!
My 5 month old puppy does great in her training besides people, she is so fearful of people approaching her it’s fine at a distance but approaching her or coming too close she gets very fearful. Hopefully this helps her!
Thank you so much for this. I just rescued an 8 month old lab/pit mix who was severely abused by a female. He came from a prison dog training program and obedience wise, he is smart as a whip but definitely need to work on his socialization with people. He takes well to treat but I needed more options in case it doesn’t always work. Thank you so much for this
Thank you have given me hope, I was doing what you shouldn't and coddling her. She will not leave my side. Will start with you 5 keys. TODAY!
Thank you for the video - "Desensitisation and patience is the key and of course pushing the boundayry!"
Always great watching!
Great video. Thank you Joel.
We adopted a fearful dog from a shelter almost 18mnths ago. She is now 3,5 yrs old. She was found around 6mths old in the streets, stayed in the shelter till 2yrs old where we found her. At first she was peeing herself when I was getting ready for a walk, pulling like hell, shaking from fear like a fish out of the water. She was afraid of humans mostly men and city noises. She had diahroia the first 2,5 months. It was just her fear, nothing wrong pathological.
The 1st trainer advised us to avoid fearful situations and meetings. We decided against this method and we seeked help from another trainer . Now after 7mths she can enjoy long walks with 20! Well trained dogs (like Prince) and their owners.
We made her confront her fears.
I will continue with method of training, along with a lot of patience and love.
Thanks Joel for Yr videos and advices.
BR,
Elly
Athens / Greece
As someone with ADHD, I can attest you got what you got is so true. Having shitty life experiences since early age, I wished someone would have just given me a break. I'm sorry I was chatty but that's how I expressed joy & enthusiasm. Then to be told your wrong for it - sucks. In my case, genetic. But true it's not 100% known. I wished someone would have just let me experience life. I honestly feel that's why I connect to animals over humans. Lack of trust. Lack of true leadership. Patience & understanding. Thanks Joel for another good one.
@Andrea Matthews I can relate. I was diagnosed with ADHD in my 40's and lived my whole life being criticized for being me. So much damage that still affects me.
I've gotten much better at ignoring the criticism and just surrounding myself with people who accept me as I am. I don't have time or energy for the negativity. Makes my life much better and easier.
Hang in there. People with ADHD have so much to add to the world that others do not.
@@shirleyens7707 Hi Shirley! Wow, that must have felt like a brick building falling off your shoulders! To finally have an answer - a reason...
I'm lucky enough to have been diagnosed early in life (thanks overactive/bouncing of walls/not sitting still symptoms). But you are correct. Ignoring the criticism is the only way to go. You have to be you & that you; is way more authentic & real then if you weren't a neurodivergent. I've been fortunate enough to connect with a pretty awesome ADHD community on Twitter (I know, Twitter of all places 🤷♀️) but there's so many great folks there, that I feel most myself there.
Thank you, thank you for your kind words. Hit me up on Twitter if you're interested AnDiHD. So glad you messaged today!
Thankyou for all your videos I had a fearful reactive kelpie on leash thanks to your training methods he is improving incredibly . He is so smart but most of the problem was coming from me not being relaxed enough and being confident so Thankyou
You got what you got….words to really live by! If I had the money I would fly out to CA and bring my dog to you. Wish you lived in NYC
Great work. We've got a fearful dog in our family. I will put this lesson to good use.
This video is so helpful! I'm almost in tears, my lil puppy all of a sudden is super distant and seems scared of me, but this was helpful. Thank you!
Thank You!!!! Your methods and suggestions saved this adoption!
We just adopted a 7 month old Aussie mix. We really didn't need or even desperately want a 2nd dog, but strongly felt our 2 year old Sarplaninak/Anatolian mix "Sahra" needed a buddy! Based on the profile from the rescue group, "Archie" seemed like a perfect compliment for our dog and likely a good addition to our "family". He had been taken to the groomer on the day of the adoption -- this was apparently NOT a positive experience for our new little man, as he was cowed and visibly shaking when we picked him up. The rest of the evening he displayed major fear -- even as far as threatening to bite! All of this (per the rescue group) was previously never witnessed behavior.
On the ride home (about an hour) I held his 60# in my lap (now that was fun for me! -- NOT!) I wanted him to get my scent in a non-threatening way. By the time we got home, at least the severe shaking stopped. Our dog Sahra was so happy to greet her new "little brother" and welcomed him in a friendly but controlled way. Even so, a terrified Archie just about ripped her throat out! We tried working with them for about an hour, and things just seemed to get worse. So I put Archie in a secure place for the night and we settled in front of the computer to watch some of your videos.
Armed with some principles and tips, I worked with him 1:1 then next morning for about an hour. When I went to put him away again, he indicated an interest in meeting Sahra again... So.... cautiously (again, adapting your strategies to our environment) I re-introduced them. It went famously! And they've only gotten more comfortable and friendly with each other since. Today ended Archie's 2nd full day with us, and we could not be more pleased by the transformation we've seen. Archie is happy to see us when we go outside. He has overcome his fear of coming inside and has now twice crossed that threshhold on his own. He and Sahra play almost non-stop. She is sharing her toys with him and they peacefully swap out supper dishes in the evening! Wow. What a transformation from that 1st night!
Again -- thank you for sharing so much of your experience with us. It made a huge difference in the lives of these two new best friends!
One of the worst memories I have is being a kid until 6 years old and being afraid of my grandpa. He was a very strict military guy having fought in ww2, but I so much wish I wasn't like that back then because in reality he was a loving man. He died when I was 7 and I never got to know him too well. I believe Im braver and less afraid now, and I hope I would make him proud today.
I really like your approach to training thank you
I liked that I could watch the dog almost the entire time. I also liked seeing the main points itemized on screen. And, as always, I liked seeing what is accomplished in a session as opposed to seeing one brief encounter that has apparently magical effects. Thanks.
My wife and I have just taken in a rehome Bocker (Beagle/Cocker Spaniel cross), she's 4 years old and gradually getting over her anxiety. Thanks for the video.
A really nice video. Patience, so important!
A very helpful video. We just adopted a 10 month old chihuahua, not from a shelter but from a home with poor training was terrified the first day with us. He still is not house trained at 10 months so when I started the potty routine, he would just sit in the yard, frozen in place. Even though I would take all of his #2 outside for him to smell, he would still shut down. I decided at some point to turn my back to him and within 30 seconds he started sniffing around. His routines have been improving that trick which tells me he still doesn't trust me yet. This is our first home-to-home rescue.
Great advice! Love the younger puppy videos Joel!
I'd love to see this dog later on, once he's calmer:)
Thank you for this video.
so nice to see this little cutie again! Watching out of order )
Great video. Thank you for your insight. I will use it on my frenchies ❤❤
I have a 9 month old German shorthair and she’s fearful of people. This is a very helpful video
I would love to see a follow up on this puppy when the parents pick her up
These beautiful dog's love to work on our farms 🇦🇺
This is the Best information I have found on getting a fearful dog thru to the other side!
My Male GS came from an excellent line his big brother is amazing.
I had Bruno in puppy class then outdoor obedience and agility class.
At 5 months old on our routine walk an extremely noisy garbage truck barreled around the corner and terrified him.
Completely changed my dog.
He’s now 2 and on his second medication for noise phobia.
The fear is still intense. He can feel the vibration of metal hitting pavement blocks away. Lots of hiding and totally uninterested in treats or toys, It’s rough.
I continue to work with him so he can have a good life.
Thank you for an awesome step by step helping hand!
I think that might have happened to my dog also! I got her when she was a puppy but she has always been afraid of garbage trucks and we couldn't figure out why. Does anything help?
Another helpful video, thx!! And a big «merci beaucoup» you for all the great stuff you teach us every day..!!
Btw great hoodie! I love your videos and what you stand for so much that I would order the same right now and proudly wear it here in Geneva 😎 (just checked on your website, no Bdt items for sale yet, I’ll wait lol)
I'm 100% sure my dog has went through multiple fear periods yet. I only learned about them with her.
But shes on and off scared of things.. now at 9 months shes been freaking about everything.. even just random noises. So it's really good for me to know this is a big one. I've been reassuring her and I push her by making her sit and deal with things and give treats if I cant avoid it but I'm hoping we get through it soon.. luckily my pup isn't scared of dogs or people as she was socialized alot as a very young pup. But now it's just new, unexpected things that get her running back to the porch. On the upside, she knows home and always runs there.
What a great video! So informative 👏
I took on a timid fearful dog a few months bk…she’s scared of my hubby from day 1…he’s never harmed her.
Everyday is like ground hog day we do positive reinforcement we feel we are doing good then the next day it’s back to the start again 😮💨
She’s 2.
Thanks for the information.
She’s really living her best life now we will have a normal dog one day…she’s experiencing many things now.
This one good footage sir
Thanks
Thank you great information.
Thanks gave me some hope
Very well spoken. Same view I was having
seems really powerful stuff, thanks for this vid..my dog is just like this
Super helpful, thank you.
I adopted a 5 month old rescue dog that had never been outside. He was so frightened of the world. 6 months on and he’s improving a lot and will walk outside near cars and people but socialisation with other dogs or visitors to the apartment are still a problem.
Great video, very encouraging
I'm going through the same thing right now! How are things going with you and your dog?I hope he's feeling more comfortable and confident!
Some progress from a year ago but not a lot. In fact this week he is trying to hide when it is time to go out
@@Kendall0809 Aww okay. Do you think your dog would benefit from medication? Sometimes I wonder if that's the next step I will need to take
I've always loved dogs, and have trained my two female Kelpie/Cattledogs very well. It took years to figure all of this out on my own and even though they don't need additional training or behavior to be corrected, I watch all your videos! They're so insightful and very helpful to the world. I know a lot of friends who struggle with their dog's behavior and don't understand how to assess and assert what is needed in each situation. You really inspire me, Beckman. You're helping people who likely feel helpless or lost.
I've found I mirror your style, and my dogs are relaxed and happy knowing I will lead. My mother, brother, sister, and three good friends all have dogs that they can't control. I am certain its because they ask the dog to behave a way instead of TELL them. They don't correct, don't interrupt behavior or staring. Their dogs run the show, and it's a mtressful mess for everyone.
thank you! this was really helpful
Yes! I have an adult Airedale 3 times her size. I got him from a no kill shelter. So fearful.
Patience!! Cannot stress that enough.
Joel, I began a foster project with a one year old pup. She came to me physically and mentally wounded. Prior to getting her, I watched your videos and prepared myself for the challenge.
The concepts intertwine as she makes progress. Each day and moment come with successes and new obstacles. Patience has been my greatest tool.
Thank you. Puppy paw hugs🦮
I would add to redirect that fear or nervous energy, especially for a working breed dog like this one. Playing fetch or hide and seek or any of other number of games could really open up this pup and build confidence. And do it all alone with people and around the other dogs, with the other dogs, perhaps. Positive associations, doing the treats while also desensitizing, for example.
Love this videos
I’m really big into desensitization and pushing just enough to get them through the fear!! It’s so important!!
Thank you this video is helpful
My Kelpie is “weird” with ppl. Fine at the dog park, if someone reaches to pat him he used to jump or shy away from them. Now - not as much but will still do it occasionally.
I’m the home he is really fear aggressive - his threshold is so low, rushes, lunges, barks, growls it’s nuts unless he’s leashed and corrected. Just doesn’t get when it’s ok. Never ever had a dog like this before.I’ve seen your clips of this. It’s helped me to understand him & what work I need to do to try fixing this dog.
Very useful video, thank you very much!
That is so true. I did counter conditioning to get my 3 month cane corso to get use to the robot vacuum. Long story short, I eventually i put treats on the robot while it cleaned and he couldn’t resist. Now robot vac comes on he doesn’t care! 😎
I think when the pup cross the water, she can go out without asistance of the lady and the congratulations were not necesary. They could just stand up in front of her like a reference and a stimulus. I think that little things make the huge advantages in this kind of cases. Best wishes for everyone !
White Swiss Shepherds are like this from 9 months to 14months you are spot on! 🇦🇺🐾🐾🐾
Thank you so much for this video! It's exactly what I needed to watch. Our 5 month old puppy growls and shies away from anyone outside of our family that tries to talk to her or reach out to her. I realize it's fear based. We've never had a dog that isn't friendly toward people, so we've been at a loss as to what to do. I'll be looking forward to watching this young pup as she progresses.
Check out the Dobe and Rat Terrier video of Victoria Stillwell. The people just wanted to have a party without having to put the dogs out of sight. Suzanne Clothier's Automatic Check In will help as well. Good things happen when people are around. Save the steak or high level treats for good strangers. I will tell my less confident Dobe no bark, just watch if I'm not sure about someone. That way he has a job and is less likely to react when I pass the person on a walk. Basically, you have to take charge and be an advocate for your dog. Step between the dog and whatever they are afraid of - like I got this, you're good. No need to react. He/she is a friend if that's the case.
My dog is the same way and is 1 year old now and still the same. Despite hiring two trainers and tons of effort on my part. How is your dog now?
Great video, so many of us are confused on how to help our dogs overcome their fears. Would love to get some update videos on this pup during the board and train to see how she’s overcoming.
I’d like to see a video of that dog without the owners present.
I’ve found that the dogs do better without the owners around when I have a insecure dog staying with me.
Im a dog trainer in Idaho and I fully agree with everything you have said, I do the exact same things! Great work! 👍
Great examples. Our dog is a bit fearful of people, including us when we want her to come to us, she cowers and sometimes hides behind a chair. She loves other dogs and cannot wait to meet with them. We hope she eventually gets over her fear of us. She is 10 mos. Old