I bought a dog for my daughter, 12 years ago. I’m not a dog person, l made a lot of mistakes. Truth is l know she doesn’t like me because of those mistakes. I wish that l had educated myself more on dog ownership. She is reasonably trained. I’m just going to try to do more to fix my mistakes l hope it’s not too late. We do have lots of snuggles and cuddles.
I have inadvertantly hurt (?) my dog apparently. It was via grooming mistakes, and he to give her pills for an infection. That didn't go well. Now, she acts as if I actively torture her. 🤷🏻♀️ I am very positive toward her. Treaties for reinforcement etc. She is such a wonderful girl. I love her beyond words. I've always chosen positive training. I guess I'll have to work on her being comfortable with approaching me. Thank you for giving me some ideas to try.
This may sound stupid,but when I went to see my very shy dogs for the first time and the Lady wanted to see if they would go with me alone on the other end of the leash without her present I sang to them the whole way and I am a horrible singer!!! Choose a light positive song (what shall we do with the drunken sailor/Mamma Mia...anything) it takes the fokus a little away from them and that helps both of you over time they realize what you do is meant to help them ❤️🐶
Hello, i have female dog that would not even eat in my presence i can not even reward her she is just shaking a lot i never hit her or yell at her i don't know what to do, please help me
If it were me, I’d hand feed them only. Get down to their level (sit and look small) keep a distance away that doesn’t make them nervous. Don’t face them front on because eye contact scares them - Start by throwing the food gently behind you (don’t look at them - face your back to them as you gently/slowly throw the food (under hand rather than overhead) in their direction. Over time, they will walk closer to get the food.
Ya its the same with me My lab. 2 months we just bought it recently he use to shake when people r around him n he will not even wana come for food when we r near he use to hide inside our bed if we try to take him out he will bark n make dangerous sounds 😅 i dont know what do i do
Thank you so much for this video. I just did a search because 4 days ago I got a nine week old puppy and I've never had a puppy to train before. And I want to do everything right. So I tell her no in a sharp voice if she choose my hand or my clothes or a pillow. And it just seems today I noticed looking her in the eye if I could read her mind I felt like she was afraid of me. I can't wait to see more of your videos. Thank you for your help.
Just got a puppy for the family about a month ago, the pup loves the wife and kids but for whatever reason will not come near me. He does however play with me and sleep with me. He does not allow me to go near him any other time, no petting, and will not come close enough to take treats. It’s frustrating not in a way of anger or anything but in a way where I’ve tried different things and none of them have helped 😢
Hello, I have a female dog called Luna ( she is a french bulldog ) and she is ALL OF A SUDDEN hiding from us in the bushes in our garden and she won’t come out so it is getting to the point in which we have to carry her out of the bushes……..I’m not sure what to do and I am very worried about her . Do u have any tips on how to make this any better? And this video was very helpful and I think the reason she is doing this is because someone in my family must have stepped on her paw or something like that. Anyways we never ever hit her or yell at her or do abusive behaviour like towards her and I really hope she stops doing this really soon ❤❤❤❤❤😢😢😢
I just adopted a 6 year old rescue dog that absolutely loves my 15 year old daughter, but is completely fearful of me. I assume she’s had bad experiences with men or a man and it breaks my heart that she’s so scared of me. I’m trying to find the balance between giving her her space, and building trust by being hands on with her.
I feel horrible for how I’ve treated my dog. I really regret it but, today I came home and he had tore up a stuffed animal my best friend had given when we were kids. It was something really special to me and I think I just kind of lost it and I screamed at him and then went to my room and shut the door. He had done other things that day; like eating a vole, pushing over my mom’s plant, but I think that was the last straw for me. I don’t want to traumatize or hurt him in any way, but I don’t know what else I can do because he does not care whenever we try to train him or teach him not to do these kinds of things. I don’t want him to lose trust in me or my mom, but I’m worried he already has.
I got 2 puppy chihuahuas from a dog breeder (the dogs are very comfortable with the breeder), they are incredibly afraid of me. I do not scream, yell or even speak loudly. i do not make any fast movements or anything of that sort. No matter how nice and patient i am, they’re afraid. I just want them to be happy and well pls help.
How are you supposed to stop a puppy from doing something wrong if you aren't allowed to correct them with an assertive tone to le them know they are doing something bad?
You redirect them as quickly as possible and reward them for the correct behavior. If possible ignoring them during some behaviors can be powerful too. For example giving them regular chances to pee outside and praise or treat them. If they pee inside you have to take them outside as quickly as possible and give them the chance to go. Connecting single words or phrases and hand gestures is good for commands like go potty and point to the yard. I have watched my girlfriend train countless foster dogs like this and never yell or get physical with the dog. You can move towards many desirable behaviors with positive reinforcement and redirection, as opposed to punishment.
My dog was basically a badger, i do love the dog but grandkids couldn’t be around her, i should have purchased a golden retriever. I was even afraid of her, she has worn me out, I didn’t scream at her, but she saw me across the room losing my shit, it was too much after awhile, I’m just a human….I’m not ignoring her, but I have started to pull away from her….kinda over her. I have spent so much time playing fetch and other games, and still she will growl if i try to put her in my lap, yet it was ok for her to actually bite me? She still does it when she’s tired, will randomly come up and try to chew on me.
me too, she would not back off chewing on us, she still comes up to my husband and start chewing on him, we’ve started just remove access,i will take her calmly and put her in a lie down, but i’ve been the enforcer, so she knows i can enforce
My theory why dogs scared of you is that dogs can see spirit ghost or sense them when people can't people strangely attract ghost unconsciously without knowing it this happen to me it was so weird and scary because that never happened to me not even once one thing I notice from very long distance I make some noises dog make his tail wiggle immediately or dog get excited when dog hears me as soon I get close dog immediately get scared try to attack me or trying to get away while dog close at me I can see dog see something or sense something from me dog weirdly stare at me almost like dog see something and get scared
I have a puppy that didn’t get exposed to a ton of males, so when she went to her new parents, she’s struggled with accepting the father. Recommendations?
Let him be in charge of feeding or going on walks ,and this may sound silly but play some relaxation music (TH-cam has some for dogs)while the male person gives her a chewy treat than just let them be relaxedly in the room to soak in peace and quiet
so i have a family dog i give him the most treats out of the family i walk him the most but he seems to like my other family members more and when ever i am walking he just runs away or whenever im near he hides behind a family member so i gave him more attention and treats and nothing seems to work i never done bad to the dog
Hey I need help My uncle have me a 7 month old dog She's scared of everyone she doesn't eat she doesn't sleep in her cage What should I do? P.s my uncle treated her really good I guess she doesn't think I can do that
I try to be gentle and loving toward my dog. Yet she is hiding my needed shoes and clothes and this is causing stress for both of us. I put out old clothes with my scent. I have a small place. Her stress is showing up as seizures after getting a good medical check. She spends most of the day in her "den", a closet, isolating from me. I thought about closing off her den but do not wish to cause her further issues. I may need Cesar on this one.
My mom has a young female Dalmatian she gets scared to get her leash on and she is always hiding and barely eats 😢 I’m not a dog person so idk how to help any suggestions??
I’m a new dog owner… I started taking my 12 week old puppy outside to potty train and she’s scared to go outside and use a leash. Now she’s afraid of me. What do you recommend?
my new dog (two weeks with us) is just laying down showing me her belly... every time I enter the room she lay down... she does not want to eat when I am around or to walk with me... on other side she sleep next to my leg on her bed while I work (working fomo home)... so I am puzzled 200%
My dog, 9 yrs old just started refusing to come in the house after potty time she just sits and looks at me. We went for a short walk today and she refused to even come in the driveway. When I went to pick her up she was shaking. This is totally out of character
How do I get my dog to go potty outside. We have a set schedule (for months) and keep it pretty open throughout the day as well depending on her food or water intake but no matter what; even leaving her out there for a good couple hours, she’ll still come inside and pee or poop in the bathroom if it’s open or right outside the bathroom door. Placing her in her kennel or taking her right back outside immediately does not work.
I have the same thing going on with my itty bitties. They're shelter dogs who were taken from their previous owners, that's all the history I know. I also have bathroom breaks scheduled throughout the day, I have another dog, we'll be outside for 30-40 minutes at the least but the 2 little ones will come or go in the house and go do their thing in the bathroom it makes me crazy. Help please
If you have a mat or something your dog poops on take the whole thing outside (poop still on ) and see if it can learn to start doing it there next time,it should be a put in a place where the dogs feels safe enough to " let go"
My dog randomly growled at me. Out of my reaction i gave a spank on the bottom (1) only once. Hes 2 im usually able to be all over him but for some reason when i put my hand on him he growled. I never spanked him before that. Hes an american bully now hes super timid and i feel so bad and i want to hug him!
that's not a correction that's just abus!. he didn't learn anything. if you have an American bulldog scared like that then you need to be investigated. hes reacting out of fear and you're too stupid to realize that you are just re enforcing that fear. eventually he will bite you or worse
@@sinfulsaint333 i have to disagree a bit yes hitting a dog ids wrong an no one should do it. but my doberman loves hugs she even comes to me for hugs and shes not scared of anything
My dog been with me since he was a Very young puppy ….never hit …never stepped on nothing just screams when you want to rub him. But my dog wants to sit on me and lick me but I can’t do anything
I used to be a Person that wasn’t in the mind space of owning a dog & was impatient I never hit dog or screamed at it excessively but I don’t squeeze it too hard for too long & recently I’ve been trying to make it up to her & not trying to be an a-hole to her but she just a avoid me ofc I get a little frustrated at that more so at myself then her She is the Family Dog & everyone treats her well but since my past actions she avoids me what can I do to rekindle our relationship
My uncle used to keep dog treats in his pocket to keep the dog following him. He'd pet and give the treat to put the two together. Be sweet, too- my dad ignores our Maltese (a breed bred to need a lot of affection) and she barely hangs out with him if there's another option. It's a relationship and it takes two to tango. And if it's a little dog, you'd be surprised how easily you can scare them- be gentle and don't yell at a little dog. Think of the size difference.
I bought a puppy since I’ve had severe depression and thought it’ll help me out .. since the dog hates me too an extent where it made me feel worse, I had to give it away
I actually got a training collar with a remote for shocking, beeps nothing harmful for my dog actually worked no peeing on the floor and comes when called he’s happy and I’m happy too👍👍
I bought a dog for my daughter, 12 years ago. I’m not a dog person, l made a lot of mistakes. Truth is l know she doesn’t like me because of those mistakes. I wish that l had educated myself more on dog ownership. She is reasonably trained. I’m just going to try to do more to fix my mistakes l hope it’s not too late. We do have lots of snuggles and cuddles.
U beat that dogs ass and now yor daughter hates you 😂
I have inadvertantly hurt (?) my dog apparently. It was via grooming mistakes, and he to give her pills for an infection. That didn't go well. Now, she acts as if I actively torture her. 🤷🏻♀️ I am very positive toward her. Treaties for reinforcement etc. She is such a wonderful girl. I love her beyond words. I've always chosen positive training. I guess I'll have to work on her being comfortable with approaching me. Thank you for giving me some ideas to try.
This may sound stupid,but when I went to see my very shy dogs for the first time and the Lady wanted to see if they would go with me alone on the other end of the leash without her present I sang to them the whole way and I am a horrible singer!!!
Choose a light positive song (what shall we do with the drunken sailor/Mamma Mia...anything) it takes the fokus a little away from them and that helps both of you over time they realize what you do is meant to help them ❤️🐶
Hey same here! I feel terrible about it. I don’t know what to do and I am heartbroken.
Hello, i have female dog that would not even eat in my presence i can not even reward her she is just shaking a lot i never hit her or yell at her i don't know what to do, please help me
Mine too she doesn't want to eat in my presence
If it were me, I’d hand feed them only. Get down to their level (sit and look small) keep a distance away that doesn’t make them nervous. Don’t face them front on because eye contact scares them - Start by throwing the food gently behind you (don’t look at them - face your back to them as you gently/slowly throw the food (under hand rather than overhead) in their direction. Over time, they will walk closer to get the food.
Put the food in front of him and turn your back don't look,dont move much just be there worked with mine over time
Ya its the same with me
My lab. 2 months we just bought it recently he use to shake when people r around him n he will not even wana come for food when we r near he use to hide inside our bed if we try to take him out he will bark n make dangerous sounds 😅 i dont know what do i do
U got a stupid dog just put him in rehab
Thank you for being caring and compassionate and highlighting humane methods of rectifying behaviors. Good video.
Thank you so much for this video. I just did a search because 4 days ago I got a nine week old puppy and I've never had a puppy to train before. And I want to do everything right. So I tell her no in a sharp voice if she choose my hand or my clothes or a pillow. And it just seems today I noticed looking her in the eye if I could read her mind I felt like she was afraid of me. I can't wait to see more of your videos. Thank you for your help.
I've sort of been walking around on eggshells. I've been so nervous about messing her up.
Just got a puppy for the family about a month ago, the pup loves the wife and kids but for whatever reason will not come near me. He does however play with me and sleep with me. He does not allow me to go near him any other time, no petting, and will not come close enough to take treats. It’s frustrating not in a way of anger or anything but in a way where I’ve tried different things and none of them have helped 😢
Great video! Really helpful!! Looking forward to new ones!!
Hello, I have a female dog called Luna ( she is a french bulldog ) and she is ALL OF A SUDDEN hiding from us in the bushes in our garden and she won’t come out so it is getting to the point in which we have to carry her out of the bushes……..I’m not sure what to do and I am very worried about her . Do u have any tips on how to make this any better? And this video was very helpful and I think the reason she is doing this is because someone in my family must have stepped on her paw or something like that. Anyways we never ever hit her or yell at her or do abusive behaviour like towards her and I really hope she stops doing this really soon ❤❤❤❤❤😢😢😢
how’s it going?
I just adopted a 6 year old rescue dog that absolutely loves my 15 year old daughter, but is completely fearful of me. I assume she’s had bad experiences with men or a man and it breaks my heart that she’s so scared of me. I’m trying to find the balance between giving her her space, and building trust by being hands on with her.
I feel horrible for how I’ve treated my dog. I really regret it but, today I came home and he had tore up a stuffed animal my best friend had given when we were kids. It was something really special to me and I think I just kind of lost it and I screamed at him and then went to my room and shut the door. He had done other things that day; like eating a vole, pushing over my mom’s plant, but I think that was the last straw for me. I don’t want to traumatize or hurt him in any way, but I don’t know what else I can do because he does not care whenever we try to train him or teach him not to do these kinds of things. I don’t want him to lose trust in me or my mom, but I’m worried he already has.
I got 2 puppy chihuahuas from a dog breeder (the dogs are very comfortable with the breeder), they are incredibly afraid of me. I do not scream, yell or even speak loudly. i do not make any fast movements or anything of that sort. No matter how nice and patient i am, they’re afraid. I just want them to be happy and well pls help.
I'm curious how this month has treated you I'm day 4 into somilar
How are you supposed to stop a puppy from doing something wrong if you aren't allowed to correct them with an assertive tone to le them know they are doing something bad?
You redirect them as quickly as possible and reward them for the correct behavior. If possible ignoring them during some behaviors can be powerful too. For example giving them regular chances to pee outside and praise or treat them. If they pee inside you have to take them outside as quickly as possible and give them the chance to go. Connecting single words or phrases and hand gestures is good for commands like go potty and point to the yard. I have watched my girlfriend train countless foster dogs like this and never yell or get physical with the dog. You can move towards many desirable behaviors with positive reinforcement and redirection, as opposed to punishment.
My dog was basically a badger, i do love the dog but grandkids couldn’t be around her, i should have purchased a golden retriever. I was even afraid of her, she has worn me out, I didn’t scream at her, but she saw me across the room losing my shit, it was too much after awhile, I’m just a human….I’m not ignoring her, but I have started to pull away from her….kinda over her. I have spent so much time playing fetch and other games, and still she will growl if i try to put her in my lap, yet it was ok for her to actually bite me? She still does it when she’s tired, will randomly come up and try to chew on me.
I yelled at my dog out of frustration and he has not been the same.
me too, she would not back off chewing on us, she still comes up to my husband and start chewing on him, we’ve started just remove access,i will take her calmly and put her in a lie down, but i’ve been the enforcer, so she knows i can enforce
My theory why dogs scared of you is that dogs can see spirit ghost or sense them when people can't people strangely attract ghost unconsciously without knowing it this happen to me it was so weird and scary because that never happened to me not even once one thing I notice from very long distance I make some noises dog make his tail wiggle immediately or dog get excited when dog hears me as soon I get close dog immediately get scared try to attack me or trying to get away while dog close at me I can see dog see something or sense something from me dog weirdly stare at me almost like dog see something and get scared
I have a puppy that didn’t get exposed to a ton of males, so when she went to her new parents, she’s struggled with accepting the father. Recommendations?
Let him be in charge of feeding or going on walks ,and this may sound silly but play some relaxation music (TH-cam has some for dogs)while the male person gives her a chewy treat than just let them be relaxedly in the room to soak in peace and quiet
@@silviamonz2062 Thank you ☺️ I suggested this to them already, so I hope for more suggestions, too. I know it will take time, also, for sure!
so i have a family dog i give him the most treats out of the family i walk him the most but he seems to like my other family members more and when ever i am walking he just runs away or whenever im near he hides behind a family member so i gave him more attention and treats and nothing seems to work i never done bad to the dog
Hey
I need help
My uncle have me a 7 month old dog
She's scared of everyone she doesn't eat she doesn't sleep in her cage
What should I do?
P.s my uncle treated her really good I guess she doesn't think I can do that
@aria🫶🏼 yes she is
She's been with me for about 2 weeks she's still very scared
Cage?
I have a puppy named spud and when evere i pick him up he starts shakeing, pins his ears back and sometimes growls
I try to be gentle and loving toward my dog. Yet she is hiding my needed shoes and clothes and this is causing stress for both of us. I put out old clothes with my scent. I have a small place. Her stress is showing up as seizures after getting a good medical check. She spends most of the day in her "den", a closet, isolating from me. I thought about closing off her den but do not wish to cause her further issues. I may need Cesar on this one.
My mom has a young female Dalmatian she gets scared to get her leash on and she is always hiding and barely eats 😢 I’m not a dog person so idk how to help any suggestions??
I’m a new dog owner… I started taking my 12 week old puppy outside to potty train and she’s scared to go outside and use a leash. Now she’s afraid of me. What do you recommend?
I have a new puppy she was scared of all of us but know she just scared of me for some reason? We just got it but only scared of me
my new dog (two weeks with us) is just laying down showing me her belly... every time I enter the room she lay down... she does not want to eat when I am around or to walk with me... on other side she sleep next to my leg on her bed while I work (working fomo home)... so I am puzzled 200%
She does not fear of my hand, but she have her aeary back every time I look at her... we never punished her for anything.
My dog, 9 yrs old just started refusing to come in the house after potty time she just sits and looks at me. We went for a short walk today and she refused to even come in the driveway. When I went to pick her up she was shaking. This is totally out of character
Do you have smooth floors? Does anyone else live with you or ever watch her there? Has anything about her life changed?
How do I get my dog to go potty outside. We have a set schedule (for months) and keep it pretty open throughout the day as well depending on her food or water intake but no matter what; even leaving her out there for a good couple hours, she’ll still come inside and pee or poop in the bathroom if it’s open or right outside the bathroom door. Placing her in her kennel or taking her right back outside immediately does not work.
We have also given her treats or petting/scratches rewarding her if she would go outside but she mainly prefers the bathroom 🤦🏻♀️
I have the same thing going on with my itty bitties. They're shelter dogs who were taken from their previous owners, that's all the history I know. I also have bathroom breaks scheduled throughout the day, I have another dog, we'll be outside for 30-40 minutes at the least but the 2 little ones will come or go in the house and go do their thing in the bathroom it makes me crazy. Help please
If you have a mat or something your dog poops on take the whole thing outside (poop still on ) and see if it can learn to start doing it there next time,it should be a put in a place where the dogs feels safe enough to " let go"
It's been two weeks and my newly adopted dog is still afraid of me.
Will probably take 3 months or so. Maybe longer. Please be patient.
@@davidwarner6755 she's still afraid but not as afraid as before. everytime I whistle she comes running hehehe
My dog randomly growled at me. Out of my reaction i gave a spank on the bottom (1) only once. Hes 2 im usually able to be all over him but for some reason when i put my hand on him he growled. I never spanked him before that. Hes an american bully now hes super timid and i feel so bad and i want to hug him!
What?! You dont lay a hand on a animal, secoundly never hug a dog thats aggressive behavour to a dog..
that's not a correction that's just abus!. he didn't learn anything. if you have an American bulldog scared like that then you need to be investigated. hes reacting out of fear and you're too stupid to realize that you are just re enforcing that fear. eventually he will bite you or worse
@@sinfulsaint333 i have to disagree a bit yes hitting a dog ids wrong an no one should do it. but my doberman loves hugs she even comes to me for hugs and shes not scared of anything
My dog been with me since he was a Very young puppy ….never hit …never stepped on nothing just screams when you want to rub him. But my dog wants to sit on me and lick me but I can’t do anything
I accidentally scared this new dog now she’s avoiding me, runs away or growls
What on earth kind of shoes is that dude wearing at 2:50 😂
Seriously! WTF...why isn't anyone talking about that!
But how do I do this when my dog still needs to be taken outside? Half the time she won’t even go outside
I used to be a Person that wasn’t in the mind space of owning a dog & was impatient I never hit dog or screamed at it excessively but I don’t squeeze it too hard for too long & recently I’ve been trying to make it up to her & not trying to be an a-hole to her but she just a avoid me ofc I get a little frustrated at that more so at myself then her She is the Family Dog & everyone treats her well but since my past actions she avoids me what can I do to rekindle our relationship
My uncle used to keep dog treats in his pocket to keep the dog following him. He'd pet and give the treat to put the two together. Be sweet, too- my dad ignores our Maltese (a breed bred to need a lot of affection) and she barely hangs out with him if there's another option. It's a relationship and it takes two to tango. And if it's a little dog, you'd be surprised how easily you can scare them- be gentle and don't yell at a little dog. Think of the size difference.
I had my dog for a year now and it is still shivering and every time she sees me she starts shivering
I bought a puppy since I’ve had severe depression and thought it’ll help me out .. since the dog hates me too an extent where it made me feel worse, I had to give it away
I actually got a training collar with a remote for shocking, beeps nothing harmful for my dog actually worked no peeing on the floor and comes when called he’s happy and I’m happy too👍👍