My Dog Is Scared of Me and 10 Things to Do About It
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I bought a dog for my daughter, 12 years ago. I’m not a dog person, l made a lot of mistakes. Truth is l know she doesn’t like me because of those mistakes. I wish that l had educated myself more on dog ownership. She is reasonably trained. I’m just going to try to do more to fix my mistakes l hope it’s not too late. We do have lots of snuggles and cuddles.
Great video! Really helpful!! Looking forward to new ones!!
I yelled at my dog out of frustration and he has not been the same.
me too, she would not back off chewing on us, she still comes up to my husband and start chewing on him, we’ve started just remove access,i will take her calmly and put her in a lie down, but i’ve been the enforcer, so she knows i can enforce
I have inadvertantly hurt (?) my dog apparently. It was via grooming mistakes, and he to give her pills for an infection. That didn't go well. Now, she acts as if I actively torture her. 🤷🏻♀️ I am very positive toward her. Treaties for reinforcement etc. She is such a wonderful girl. I love her beyond words. I've always chosen positive training. I guess I'll have to work on her being comfortable with approaching me. Thank you for giving me some ideas to try.
This may sound stupid,but when I went to see my very shy dogs for the first time and the Lady wanted to see if they would go with me alone on the other end of the leash without her present I sang to them the whole way and I am a horrible singer!!!
Choose a light positive song (what shall we do with the drunken sailor/Mamma Mia...anything) it takes the fokus a little away from them and that helps both of you over time they realize what you do is meant to help them ❤️🐶
Hey same here! I feel terrible about it. I don’t know what to do and I am heartbroken.
Just got a puppy for the family about a month ago, the pup loves the wife and kids but for whatever reason will not come near me. He does however play with me and sleep with me. He does not allow me to go near him any other time, no petting, and will not come close enough to take treats. It’s frustrating not in a way of anger or anything but in a way where I’ve tried different things and none of them have helped 😢
Thank you so much for this video. I just did a search because 4 days ago I got a nine week old puppy and I've never had a puppy to train before. And I want to do everything right. So I tell her no in a sharp voice if she choose my hand or my clothes or a pillow. And it just seems today I noticed looking her in the eye if I could read her mind I felt like she was afraid of me. I can't wait to see more of your videos. Thank you for your help.
I've sort of been walking around on eggshells. I've been so nervous about messing her up.
Hello, i have female dog that would not even eat in my presence i can not even reward her she is just shaking a lot i never hit her or yell at her i don't know what to do, please help me
Mine too she doesn't want to eat in my presence
If it were me, I’d hand feed them only. Get down to their level (sit and look small) keep a distance away that doesn’t make them nervous. Don’t face them front on because eye contact scares them - Start by throwing the food gently behind you (don’t look at them - face your back to them as you gently/slowly throw the food (under hand rather than overhead) in their direction. Over time, they will walk closer to get the food.
Put the food in front of him and turn your back don't look,dont move much just be there worked with mine over time
Ya its the same with me
My lab. 2 months we just bought it recently he use to shake when people r around him n he will not even wana come for food when we r near he use to hide inside our bed if we try to take him out he will bark n make dangerous sounds 😅 i dont know what do i do
U got a stupid dog just put him in rehab
so i have a family dog i give him the most treats out of the family i walk him the most but he seems to like my other family members more and when ever i am walking he just runs away or whenever im near he hides behind a family member so i gave him more attention and treats and nothing seems to work i never done bad to the dog
I’m a new dog owner… I started taking my 12 week old puppy outside to potty train and she’s scared to go outside and use a leash. Now she’s afraid of me. What do you recommend?
I try to be gentle and loving toward my dog. Yet she is hiding my needed shoes and clothes and this is causing stress for both of us. I put out old clothes with my scent. I have a small place. Her stress is showing up as seizures after getting a good medical check. She spends most of the day in her "den", a closet, isolating from me. I thought about closing off her den but do not wish to cause her further issues. I may need Cesar on this one.
Hello, I have a female dog called Luna ( she is a french bulldog ) and she is ALL OF A SUDDEN hiding from us in the bushes in our garden and she won’t come out so it is getting to the point in which we have to carry her out of the bushes……..I’m not sure what to do and I am very worried about her . Do u have any tips on how to make this any better? And this video was very helpful and I think the reason she is doing this is because someone in my family must have stepped on her paw or something like that. Anyways we never ever hit her or yell at her or do abusive behaviour like towards her and I really hope she stops doing this really soon ❤❤❤❤❤😢😢😢
how’s it going?
How are you supposed to stop a puppy from doing something wrong if you aren't allowed to correct them with an assertive tone to le them know they are doing something bad?
You redirect them as quickly as possible and reward them for the correct behavior. If possible ignoring them during some behaviors can be powerful too. For example giving them regular chances to pee outside and praise or treat them. If they pee inside you have to take them outside as quickly as possible and give them the chance to go. Connecting single words or phrases and hand gestures is good for commands like go potty and point to the yard. I have watched my girlfriend train countless foster dogs like this and never yell or get physical with the dog. You can move towards many desirable behaviors with positive reinforcement and redirection, as opposed to punishment.
My dog was basically a badger, i do love the dog but grandkids couldn’t be around her, i should have purchased a golden retriever. I was even afraid of her, she has worn me out, I didn’t scream at her, but she saw me across the room losing my shit, it was too much after awhile, I’m just a human….I’m not ignoring her, but I have started to pull away from her….kinda over her. I have spent so much time playing fetch and other games, and still she will growl if i try to put her in my lap, yet it was ok for her to actually bite me? She still does it when she’s tired, will randomly come up and try to chew on me.
I got 2 puppy chihuahuas from a dog breeder (the dogs are very comfortable with the breeder), they are incredibly afraid of me. I do not scream, yell or even speak loudly. i do not make any fast movements or anything of that sort. No matter how nice and patient i am, they’re afraid. I just want them to be happy and well pls help.
I'm curious how this month has treated you I'm day 4 into somilar
But how do I do this when my dog still needs to be taken outside? Half the time she won’t even go outside
My dog recently got a small red rash sore on her belly between her baxk legs. Ive had her 2 years and everything has been fine.
I bought an antimicrobial spray and as i sprayed it and tried to rub it on her belly and she freaked out srarted running round my bedroom to avoid me. At firsf i thought it was funny she has never had a reason to fear me. I very quickly stopped as i realised she was beiinv genuinely scared.
Three weeks later i was brushing my cat who loves it and my dog was sat next to mr so j brushed my dog who freaked out and ran. When she sat back down i stroked her held her collar and brushed her 10 times. I let go of the collar and she ran. I dont unddstand the brush didnt even have any bristles just little rubber strands.
So then j try to do our usual biscuit belly rubs and snuggles for bedtime.. and she wont come anywhere near me. Im devastated and dont understand...
I rescued a basset hound during some really cold weather. I can tell he has been abused because he has very submissive behavior. For three weeks in a row he didn't pee in the house and everything was great. Then all of a sudden he started doing it every. single. day. I tried putting him in a crate with just enough space to turn around and he will piss and lay in it. Sometimes I will let him out in the morning and he has only peed a little. I will open the outside door and the door to his crate, which is right by the door, and instead of taking one step outside to go pee where he goes every other time during the day, he goes right on the floor. It's so extremely frustrating. When I open the door to his crate I walk away so he isn't scared, but he still does his stupid submissive stuff. He squats down right in front of the open door and pees everywhere. I didn't want to take him to the pound, but that's where he's going if it doesn't stop very soon. I've been cleaning up piss for weeks now. It's so ridiculous.
You should take him to the pound, thanks for rescuing him, but by your demeanor you don't sound like you want to keep him. That plus the fact you've been having thoughts of taking them to the pound is indicative towards my idea that you won't do the best you can training this behavior out of them. Meanwhile someone at the pound would probably be able to do it.
@@RussiaDaily I was obviously very frustrated with the situation. Thanks for the helpful tips you gave. I took the pad out of his crate and cleaned up his pee every single morning for around 6 weeks until he finally stopped. Now he's a wonderful dog. Maybe keep your mouth shut next time unless you have some useful advice.
i have two pups. received them when they were 7 week olds. a boy and girl. the boy from the start had no fear at all. they are now over 3 months old, and she still shows fear. trying to touch her is like chasing a chicken. if i do catch her she will wiggle like crazy to get away from me. you can actually see the "i dont trust you" look in her eyes. she will come close to me on her own but if i try and control her by touching or picking her up, no way.
It's the same for me, I have a boy dog, he always follow me when I'm not looking but if I look at him and try to pet him he'll run so fast, I don't know what to do 🤷🏻♂️
@@jasrieljarabe4592 i was thinking she may have been the runt or she was dropped by the person i got her from. maybe even they stepped on her tail on accident or something. it is frustrating. she has no problem until i reach my hand out to pick her up. she wouldnt even allow me to pet past her ears. she is getting a little better but still runs when i go to pick her up. the funny thing is, she is the dominant one . she bullies the male all the time but shows the most fear.
My dog been with me since he was a Very young puppy ….never hit …never stepped on nothing just screams when you want to rub him. But my dog wants to sit on me and lick me but I can’t do anything
I have a puppy that didn’t get exposed to a ton of males, so when she went to her new parents, she’s struggled with accepting the father. Recommendations?
Let him be in charge of feeding or going on walks ,and this may sound silly but play some relaxation music (TH-cam has some for dogs)while the male person gives her a chewy treat than just let them be relaxedly in the room to soak in peace and quiet
@@silviamonz2062 Thank you ☺️ I suggested this to them already, so I hope for more suggestions, too. I know it will take time, also, for sure!
I accidentally scared this new dog now she’s avoiding me, runs away or growls
I had my dog for a year now and it is still shivering and every time she sees me she starts shivering
My dog, 9 yrs old just started refusing to come in the house after potty time she just sits and looks at me. We went for a short walk today and she refused to even come in the driveway. When I went to pick her up she was shaking. This is totally out of character
Do you have smooth floors? Does anyone else live with you or ever watch her there? Has anything about her life changed?
Hey
I need help
My uncle have me a 7 month old dog
She's scared of everyone she doesn't eat she doesn't sleep in her cage
What should I do?
P.s my uncle treated her really good I guess she doesn't think I can do that
@aria🫶🏼 yes she is
She's been with me for about 2 weeks she's still very scared
Cage?
stop putting her in a cage for starters......let her sleep in your bed
What on earth kind of shoes is that dude wearing at 2:50 😂
Seriously! WTF...why isn't anyone talking about that!
I actually got a training collar with a remote for shocking, beeps nothing harmful for my dog actually worked no peeing on the floor and comes when called he’s happy and I’m happy too👍👍
I used to be a Person that wasn’t in the mind space of owning a dog & was impatient I never hit dog or screamed at it excessively but I don’t squeeze it too hard for too long & recently I’ve been trying to make it up to her & not trying to be an a-hole to her but she just a avoid me ofc I get a little frustrated at that more so at myself then her She is the Family Dog & everyone treats her well but since my past actions she avoids me what can I do to rekindle our relationship
My uncle used to keep dog treats in his pocket to keep the dog following him. He'd pet and give the treat to put the two together. Be sweet, too- my dad ignores our Maltese (a breed bred to need a lot of affection) and she barely hangs out with him if there's another option. It's a relationship and it takes two to tango. And if it's a little dog, you'd be surprised how easily you can scare them- be gentle and don't yell at a little dog. Think of the size difference.
my new dog (two weeks with us) is just laying down showing me her belly... every time I enter the room she lay down... she does not want to eat when I am around or to walk with me... on other side she sleep next to my leg on her bed while I work (working fomo home)... so I am puzzled 200%
She does not fear of my hand, but she have her aeary back every time I look at her... we never punished her for anything.
I bought a puppy since I’ve had severe depression and thought it’ll help me out .. since the dog hates me too an extent where it made me feel worse, I had to give it away
My dog randomly growled at me. Out of my reaction i gave a spank on the bottom (1) only once. Hes 2 im usually able to be all over him but for some reason when i put my hand on him he growled. I never spanked him before that. Hes an american bully now hes super timid and i feel so bad and i want to hug him!
What?! You dont lay a hand on a animal, secoundly never hug a dog thats aggressive behavour to a dog..
that's not a correction that's just abus!. he didn't learn anything. if you have an American bulldog scared like that then you need to be investigated. hes reacting out of fear and you're too stupid to realize that you are just re enforcing that fear. eventually he will bite you or worse
@@sinfulsaint333 i have to disagree a bit yes hitting a dog ids wrong an no one should do it. but my doberman loves hugs she even comes to me for hugs and shes not scared of anything
How do I get my dog to go potty outside. We have a set schedule (for months) and keep it pretty open throughout the day as well depending on her food or water intake but no matter what; even leaving her out there for a good couple hours, she’ll still come inside and pee or poop in the bathroom if it’s open or right outside the bathroom door. Placing her in her kennel or taking her right back outside immediately does not work.
We have also given her treats or petting/scratches rewarding her if she would go outside but she mainly prefers the bathroom 🤦🏻♀️
I have the same thing going on with my itty bitties. They're shelter dogs who were taken from their previous owners, that's all the history I know. I also have bathroom breaks scheduled throughout the day, I have another dog, we'll be outside for 30-40 minutes at the least but the 2 little ones will come or go in the house and go do their thing in the bathroom it makes me crazy. Help please
If you have a mat or something your dog poops on take the whole thing outside (poop still on ) and see if it can learn to start doing it there next time,it should be a put in a place where the dogs feels safe enough to " let go"
It's been two weeks and my newly adopted dog is still afraid of me.
Will probably take 3 months or so. Maybe longer. Please be patient.