I had a miscarriage last Saturday at 13 weeks, baby had stopped growing at 11.5 weeks. Everything had looked fine in the 7 and 11 week scans, but there was no heartbeat at my 13 week scan. We also got our NIPT test results the Friday before we found out that the pregnancy had ended which were all clear. We just don't know why this happened and I feel like it must be me. We want to try again as soon as possible but I just feel convinced there's something wrong with me and I'm not going to be able to sustain a pregnancy. I hear about so many people who get pregnant immediately and have healthy pregnancies after miscarriage, but some who struggle to conceive or have repeat miscarriages and I just feel like I'm going to be in that second category. Feel so nervous to go through this again.
This video is so emotionally validating. My husband and I just lost our miracle at 5 weeks and 3 days. We conceived naturally after a cancelled second IUI, getting COVID, and being told we had a 5% chance of conceiving without reproductive technology (IUI or IFV). Our fertility clinic and my husband/myself decided to resume treatment after my loss. Picking up my medication tonight and hoping to do an IUI in about 10 days.
I really empathize with the emotional rollercoaster of getting pregnant, then miscarrying. But I am so happy for you and your rainbow baby, and I agree that gratitude for a new perspective is the way to go. Thank you for giving me hope.
Thank you for the inspiration♥️ just getting through my first pregnancy being a missed miscarriage at 11 weeks no heart beat- baby stopped growing at 9 weeks. I'm now waiting to miscarry naturally. I definitely will feel like you mentioned about our next pregnancy tests having it not be a solid excitement yet knowing what happened last time. We cant wait to get pregnant again it will be our first baby when that happens. Thanks for your videos. 💕
@@DH34films1 Oh my goodness thank you for asking, fast forward to now I’m now holding my 7 week old healthy baby boy, but it wasn’t without a lot trouble including a 2nd miscarriage same time frame as first one, the loss of an ovary from a cyst and heart ache over the worry. I learned a lot about improving egg quality in the 3 months prior to ovulation , when we lower oxidative stress and improve things like fish oils and read the book “It starts w the egg “ I believe it helped . Is all good on your end?
Thank you so much for sharing your story. Like you I have been searching for videos of people who I can relate to while going through such a difficult time. I just recently had a miscarriage and am still trying to see the light at the end of the tunnel. Your video gave me some peace and hope ❤️ thank you for that.
This. Everything you said is what I’m feeling but I started crying when you said you were thankful for your miscarriage. I needed that perspective. Thank you ❤
Thank you for sharing your journey. It is not easy to come out and pour your heart out to others after experiencing a miscarriage. Your story is very inspiring. Blessings.
Thank you for being brave to post this. I felt like you were reading my mind. I am in my second pregnancy now after having a miscarriage the first time.
Thank you so much for this video 🥰 i felt myself in you, im going through this now, had a misscarriage last month and pregnant now the month after im in week 6 and super scared 🥺
It breaks my heart that I will NEVER have a happy joyful pregnancy again. It is so unfair. What have we done to deserve this? I'm not even sure I want to try again when all it is just pain and anxiety. HOW do people try again? Like...is it some delusional attitude?
I feel like I’m in such a similar situation right now! I had a missed miscarriage 7w1d, knew at the 8w ultrasound something was off because the baby was measuring at 6w. I am now pregnant with our rainbow baby only at 5w…the 8w ultrasound feels so far away and I feel SO anxious about it. My husband and I are very excited and having the opposite experience of wanting to tell family already because it’s positive news since most of them knew about the miscarriage. My mom also guessed this time around I was pregnant at only like 4w3d - mothers intuition! Thinking of anyone else experiencing this right now. It’s not easy to just go about your day having a pregnancy after miscarriage. I make sure there are continuing signs I’m still pregnant like the wipes test too.
How are you holding? I have an ultrasound in a week, feels like in forever. It's such a different experience than the first time I saw a positive test. I don't even want to tell anybody
@@mayb8614 still waiting for an ultrasound myself that’s next Thursday which I agree feels like forever 😩 my midwife suggested taking hCG levels for bloodwork to help put my mind at ease beforehand but reminded me it doesn’t help with much other than ensuring the hCG is rising.
@@Alwaysadventuringg fingers crossed, I hope everything will be fine 🤞btw, when I start thinking about it too much, I do puzzles. Someone recommended it somewhere, I don't even like puzzles, but it kinda helps
my spotting was old blood (brown) for 5 days, on the 6th began reddish, at the 7th my body expelled the sac and embryo. So for me by this point of experience, any spotting is scary.
I'm 42, I got married in February and got pregnant in April, and before I knew I was pregnant, I went to a doctor and she told me you have very bad infections, I told her I didn't get my period and she said that cleaning the vagina does not affect pregnancy , on 9 July I did a pregnancy test it was positive , on the 17 May my husband touch me ( Foreplay )second day i bleed and I went to many doctors doesn’t know the cause of the bleeding? After 7 weeks the baby died in fifth week, and I had to do in miscarriages in June 2 I took cytotec to Opening of the cervix .the bleeding stopped on the 11 ,I went to the doctor on Sunday 12 June and he said everything all right you will have your ovulation next week but In17 June to the 29 I got my period very heavy . I had very bad experience with a lot of stressed 😩 pain 😢and anger 😡 I was expecting after I got pregnant a child I hold her or him between my arms and I feel this amazing love I had missed for years to be a mother
I came across your video and i do have three beautiful kids was trying for a fourth one.. Where i took pregnancy test it was positive.. Then waited to see the doctor they said it was too early to tell i waited again they found two sack but no yolk sack or pol i did having a miscarriage it was very hard plus i was on the Depo shot i hope i get a Rainbow baby 🙏🙏🙏
4 weeks pregnant with my rainbow baby ❤ please pray for a healthy pregnancy ❤
Me too. I'll be praying for you ❤
I’ll be praying for you, I had a miscarriage a month ago I was 6 weeks, it is so heartbreaking 💔
praying for you
I had a miscarriage last Saturday at 13 weeks, baby had stopped growing at 11.5 weeks. Everything had looked fine in the 7 and 11 week scans, but there was no heartbeat at my 13 week scan. We also got our NIPT test results the Friday before we found out that the pregnancy had ended which were all clear. We just don't know why this happened and I feel like it must be me. We want to try again as soon as possible but I just feel convinced there's something wrong with me and I'm not going to be able to sustain a pregnancy. I hear about so many people who get pregnant immediately and have healthy pregnancies after miscarriage, but some who struggle to conceive or have repeat miscarriages and I just feel like I'm going to be in that second category. Feel so nervous to go through this again.
This video is so emotionally validating. My husband and I just lost our miracle at 5 weeks and 3 days. We conceived naturally after a cancelled second IUI, getting COVID, and being told we had a 5% chance of conceiving without reproductive technology (IUI or IFV). Our fertility clinic and my husband/myself decided to resume treatment after my loss. Picking up my medication tonight and hoping to do an IUI in about 10 days.
I really empathize with the emotional rollercoaster of getting pregnant, then miscarrying. But I am so happy for you and your rainbow baby, and I agree that gratitude for a new perspective is the way to go. Thank you for giving me hope.
Thank you for the inspiration♥️ just getting through my first pregnancy being a missed miscarriage at 11 weeks no heart beat- baby stopped growing at 9 weeks. I'm now waiting to miscarry naturally. I definitely will feel like you mentioned about our next pregnancy tests having it not be a solid excitement yet knowing what happened last time. We cant wait to get pregnant again it will be our first baby when that happens. Thanks for your videos. 💕
I’m so so sorry for your loss ❤️ your firstborn will be so lucky to have you as a mama
Did you ever have any luck?
@@DH34films1 Oh my goodness thank you for asking, fast forward to now I’m now holding my 7 week old healthy baby boy, but it wasn’t without a lot trouble including a 2nd miscarriage same time frame as first one, the loss of an ovary from a cyst and heart ache over the worry. I learned a lot about improving egg quality in the 3 months prior to ovulation , when we lower oxidative stress and improve things like fish oils and read the book “It starts w the egg “ I believe it helped . Is all good on your end?
Thank you so much for sharing your story. Like you I have been searching for videos of people who I can relate to while going through such a difficult time. I just recently had a miscarriage and am still trying to see the light at the end of the tunnel. Your video gave me some peace and hope ❤️ thank you for that.
Thank you for sharing your story! I also had a miscarriage at 10 weeks, and it is comforting to hear from you.
This. Everything you said is what I’m feeling but I started crying when you said you were thankful for your miscarriage. I needed that perspective. Thank you ❤
Thank you for sharing your journey. It is not easy to come out and pour your heart out to others after experiencing a miscarriage. Your story is very inspiring. Blessings.
I'm on my 6th pregnancy (no live births yet). This is a great summary of what it's like. Thank you for sharing your story.
Thank you for being brave to post this. I felt like you were reading my mind. I am in my second pregnancy now after having a miscarriage the first time.
Thank you so much for this video 🥰 i felt myself in you, im going through this now, had a misscarriage last month and pregnant now the month after im in week 6 and super scared 🥺
It breaks my heart that I will NEVER have a happy joyful pregnancy again. It is so unfair. What have we done to deserve this? I'm not even sure I want to try again when all it is just pain and anxiety. HOW do people try again? Like...is it some delusional attitude?
No it is a very normal feeling just lost my baby this week at 13 weeks
I feel like I’m in such a similar situation right now! I had a missed miscarriage 7w1d, knew at the 8w ultrasound something was off because the baby was measuring at 6w. I am now pregnant with our rainbow baby only at 5w…the 8w ultrasound feels so far away and I feel SO anxious about it. My husband and I are very excited and having the opposite experience of wanting to tell family already because it’s positive news since most of them knew about the miscarriage. My mom also guessed this time around I was pregnant at only like 4w3d - mothers intuition! Thinking of anyone else experiencing this right now. It’s not easy to just go about your day having a pregnancy after miscarriage. I make sure there are continuing signs I’m still pregnant like the wipes test too.
How are you holding?
I have an ultrasound in a week, feels like in forever.
It's such a different experience than the first time I saw a positive test. I don't even want to tell anybody
@@mayb8614 still waiting for an ultrasound myself that’s next Thursday which I agree feels like forever 😩 my midwife suggested taking hCG levels for bloodwork to help put my mind at ease beforehand but reminded me it doesn’t help with much other than ensuring the hCG is rising.
@@Alwaysadventuringg fingers crossed, I hope everything will be fine 🤞btw, when I start thinking about it too much, I do puzzles. Someone recommended it somewhere, I don't even like puzzles, but it kinda helps
@@Alwaysadventuringg good luck tomorrow :)
@@mayb8614 thank you so much! All went so so well! Lots of tears of joy 🥰 measuring exactly where we should be and a strong little heart beat 🥹
Going through my 2nd miscarriage in a year
my spotting was old blood (brown) for 5 days, on the 6th began reddish, at the 7th my body expelled the sac and embryo. So for me by this point of experience, any spotting is scary.
I'm 42, I got married in February and got pregnant in April, and before I knew I was pregnant, I went to a doctor and she told me you have very bad infections, I told her I didn't get my period and she said that cleaning the vagina does not affect pregnancy , on 9 July I did a pregnancy test it was positive , on the 17 May my husband touch me ( Foreplay )second day i bleed and I went to many doctors doesn’t know the cause of the bleeding? After 7 weeks the baby died in fifth week, and I had to do in miscarriages in June 2 I took cytotec to Opening of the cervix .the bleeding stopped on the 11 ,I went to the doctor on Sunday 12 June and he said everything all right you will have your ovulation next week but In17 June to the 29 I got my period very heavy .
I had very bad experience with a lot of stressed 😩 pain 😢and anger 😡 I was expecting after I got pregnant a child I hold her or him between my arms and I feel this amazing love I had missed for years to be a mother
I needed this so much ❤
Thank you for making this video 💔
I came across your video and i do have three beautiful kids was trying for a fourth one.. Where i took pregnancy test it was positive.. Then waited to see the doctor they said it was too early to tell i waited again they found two sack but no yolk sack or pol i did having a miscarriage it was very hard plus i was on the Depo shot i hope i get a Rainbow baby 🙏🙏🙏
Thank you for this video! I needed it 💛
Thank you for sharing your experience. X
This is how I feel
Thank you for sharing ❤
Thank you for sharing! 🙏🏾
So happy for you ❤❤
We did the same deleted all pregancy apps.
It very hard, I had a miscarriage this year April. It very hard😢😢😢😢
@@nontobekogumede4447I had a miscarriage three days before. Sending all prayers and love to you. You are not alone
Did you consult with a Christian Counselor specifically?
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How's your pregnancy now