Yes but then you'll cave in to your son's reasonable demands. Someone younger than you ordering you around and not following your orders without thinking. Can you fathom what kind of humiliation and loss of control it would have been for them?
it's almost always something stupidly simple that would entirely avoid these issues, and I think that's why this shit with people in my own life makes me so angry. because I'm literally asking for below bare minimum from some people, asking for next to nothing, and not only can they not be bothered, there is always piles of drama being caused over the simplest and dumbest things that don't even need to be an issue. I do not have the energy for interactions with other human beings anymore, it's too exhausting
I love how the siblings also hate their parents and want to leave as soon as possible imagine the moment when the parents realize they pushed away all their kids and are alone
you can always tell, at that exact moment, who just really messed up and who really just never cared. any parent that cares and just made serious mistakes will then do ANYTHING in their power to fix that issue and get back in their kids lives. the ones that never cared will stay gone, playing the victim
It’s kind of sad, but they totally brought it on themselves. Imagine the silence when they’re sitting in that empty house. Do you think they’ll regret everything, or just blame the kids?
i wanted 3 children, pictured it that way since I was a very young girl. wasn't sure if I would have them naturally or adopt (I'm adopted myself), and my dreams always varied on how many boys and how many girls. not that it matters, but I usually pictured 2 girls and a boy. after multiple miscarriages, i had a daughter first, then a son. once my son was a year old, he regressed, making it clear we were on our way to an autism diagnosis. at 5 he is still completely nonverbal and has been diagnosed level 3 autistic with a significant developmental delay. he's the size of a 3 year old, and is at a similar age mentally. I do not know if he will ever be capable of caring for himself without significant help. I will never have a 3rd kid, because the 2 that I have now need me to be healthy and on point physically at all times. caring for her brother is not something that should fall on my daughter, unless she chooses to do it on her own. asking a child to give up their life to care for another that is not their own kid is unacceptable, I did not want 3 kids because I expected them to raise each other, I wanted them so I could watch the miracle that is a new human being coming into the world and choosing who they're going to become. getting to be part of that is a blessing, and if I tried to have a third or adopt another kid it would absolutely take time, energy and attention away from my other kids that they need to succeed in life. so that dream of 3 kids is now 2 kids and a whole bunch of pets that we all care for together, and it's wonderful. I couldn't imagine taking my kids for granted like this family did. maybe because I lost babies at the beginning of my journey, I appreciated what I had more than they did. but these seem like awful people that had no business having that many children
Even if this story is fake, it's quite depressing and scary that some kids actually get abused like OP As people say, children deserve parents but some parents don't deserve children
$10/hr even is pretty low. Forget a professional service, the high school girls around here charge $25/hr for the scheduled time, $50/hr for any part of each hour after the agreed upon time, and they don't prorate. And that's the one child rate, each additional kid is an extra $5/hr. Little bastards make nearly as much as I do, lol. But hey, that's the market response, supply and demand. My advice to parents, make friends with other parents and alternate watching each other's kids, and don't have a whole litter of them. Keep it to like 1 or 2 kids, maximum, lol. Not counting child care, private schooling or unforeseen medical expenses, most financial planners suggest budgeting $15,000 a year for each kid, at an absolute minimum. So I get why OP's parents were stressed... 5 kids, if they were doing what they should have, that requires $75k a year, after taxes, paying the mortgage, utilities, etc. With that many kids, they'd have to be earning about $200k for a modest lifestyle. A 99¢ condom might have been the wiser financial move, lol. No wonder their house is rotting to the ground. While I don't condone anyone kicking people in the balls, in this case he might have done his father a favor, that guy can't afford another kid, ever.
@Arkryal it also says a lot when the other siblings were RELIEVED the baby had died! Parents really had no business popping out yet another baby when they are struggling so much financially. Like you basically said a box of condoms don't cost much lol. And yet will save you so much money in the future. Like putting that money towards a new porch to replace the rotting one that ultimately got an unborn baby killed! I would consider it a small mercy the baby at least won't have to deal with shitty parents, and resentful older siblings who would have to be their babysitters. The parents really are gonna wind up alone, and have no one to blame but themselves. They're definitely heading to The Nursing Home for sure 😅.
Yeah no the father knows good and damn well that miscarriage was his fault he just can’t come to terms with it and it’s easier to blame someone else. denial is a river in egypt.
The fact that the dad thinks he has any power over OP is laughable. You can tell by how OP describes him that he's trying to be 'hard' and 'tough' and intimate his kids like he probable did when they were five. But... news flash: The older a person gets, the less shits they give for your self-imposed 'authority' over them. Keep poking the lion and you're gonna get the claws... or, I guess in this case, get the steel-toe boot in the balls.
This mindset is actually very common. For a lot of controlling parents, the worst day of their life is when they come to realize that they have no power over their adult children. OP's father will not let go of the idea that he's the big man in charge.
He ACTUALLY thinks that OP standing up to him was a ‘farce’. This asshole thought he could force OP to continue babysitting his Siblings, and then got mad when OP stood up for himself…
It is genuinely aggravating. They should contact the police, CPS, and file charges the first time, every time, and go as far as the law allows to absolutely destroy them. Narcissists never respect “being the bigger person”, if anything, it is recognized as the weakness it is and incentivizes worse behavior. They only understand consistent, swift, severe, and brutal consequences.
Family violence is horrible, good thing OP is out of it! My mother kept me away from her parents as a child and I never understood it, but she was beaten half to death as a child by my alcoholic grandfather and at 15 when he tried to hit her again she snapped, broke his nose and cheekbone and told him if he dared to touched her ever again she would kill him. After this, he cried and pissed himself. She moved out when she was 16, my grandfather was afraid of my mother for the rest of his life and only after he died did it come out that he had se***lly ab***d my youngest aunt for years and my mother said that if she had known when he was alive, she would still be in prison and I would never have been born. My grandma, on the other hand, defended her dead husband during a visit, saying she knew everything and she didn't care my mother ripped her a new one, kicked her out instantly and said she never wanted to see her again and that she should burn in hell. I didn't find out about all this until I was over 30 and anyone who knows my mom knows she is the sweetest, most lovely little person on earth and I thought she couldn't hurt anyone.
This is why not everyone woman is cut out to be a mom or a man a father. This pushing people and especially women to have children should stop. Stop this not having children dosent make you less manly.
No one actually believes this sad story, right? “They were enraged about my reddit post” “My dad’s legs quivered at the threat of my steel-toed boots” “I’ve been hitting the gym for a few months and learned fighting” Reads like the classic Redditard post.
@@chrispeterson3362 some people prefer them loose in the urn. Most are inside a bag in the urn. It truly is a matter of personal preference. If you don’t purchase an urn they come in a plastic bag, zip tied and placed into a plastic box. Then the plastic box is placed in a cardboard box….Where I live anyhow.
I have grown up around parents making it sound like having kids is so complicated. And I won’t say that being a parent isn’t hard it is just not in the way many people made it sound like. My husband and I don’t use daycare or baby sitters and we get along just fine. These parents are just idiots.
Im wondering how the parents knew op's address and why didnt they think to threaten mom for stalking? Like id be horrified if they found out my address the first time she visited, how did they know anyway?
Amazing how people just insist on keeping toxic people in their lives it's almost like they enjoy the drama or something. If my family was that toxic I would move to a different city and stop talking to all of them. But I know these are all fake stories but they all have the same theme lol.
Me Damn, this is almost as messy as my family. No mention of trying to unalive any of the kids via neglect though Stop being a fake literary critic for...reasons? I'd actually like to know why if you could help explain it to me. Serious request
@michelleengle207 yes thats true but there are certain things that can subtly indicate if a story is fake or not, such as not enough detail, too much detail, or unrealistic events, etc.
Because it's hard to give up your relationship with your siblings. And often if you want to see your siblings during the holidays and such you have to talk to your terrible parents. The siblings are innocent and have no say in the situation. Often they are vulnerable and victimized too so it's nice to be able to check in on them.
My man literally noped out the back window. I love it. 😂
IKR 😂
OP was like 🏃 💨 ✌️ 🪟
I laughed like a hyena at that
I lolled while working😂
It’s brilliant lol xxxxxx
To think that all of this could’ve been avoided over $30 and a fucking pizza for the kids.
Yes but then you'll cave in to your son's reasonable demands. Someone younger than you ordering you around and not following your orders without thinking. Can you fathom what kind of humiliation and loss of control it would have been for them?
😂😂The horror the horror @@M.W.2
it's almost always something stupidly simple that would entirely avoid these issues, and I think that's why this shit with people in my own life makes me so angry. because I'm literally asking for below bare minimum from some people, asking for next to nothing, and not only can they not be bothered, there is always piles of drama being caused over the simplest and dumbest things that don't even need to be an issue. I do not have the energy for interactions with other human beings anymore, it's too exhausting
@cynthiabosman1134 😭😭😭 oh the hoorrroorr!!😫😫😫
Yeah but then there would be no steel boot vasectomy and porch abortion which were very needed.
I love how the siblings also hate their parents and want to leave as soon as possible imagine the moment when the parents realize they pushed away all their kids and are alone
you can always tell, at that exact moment, who just really messed up and who really just never cared. any parent that cares and just made serious mistakes will then do ANYTHING in their power to fix that issue and get back in their kids lives. the ones that never cared will stay gone, playing the victim
@@LMCorvinusSo so very true.
They'll just blame OP for everything when that happens
Yep they must have seen that’s how they were being raised so that’s how the eldest was also raised..
It’s kind of sad, but they totally brought it on themselves. Imagine the silence when they’re sitting in that empty house. Do you think they’ll regret everything, or just blame the kids?
Those parents don't want another son, They want free labor
🎯🎯🎯
I am the 69th like
Dad should have been scared to threaten OP before trying again
Nobody said he was a smart man.
Those parents should stop having children
i wanted 3 children, pictured it that way since I was a very young girl. wasn't sure if I would have them naturally or adopt (I'm adopted myself), and my dreams always varied on how many boys and how many girls. not that it matters, but I usually pictured 2 girls and a boy. after multiple miscarriages, i had a daughter first, then a son. once my son was a year old, he regressed, making it clear we were on our way to an autism diagnosis. at 5 he is still completely nonverbal and has been diagnosed level 3 autistic with a significant developmental delay. he's the size of a 3 year old, and is at a similar age mentally. I do not know if he will ever be capable of caring for himself without significant help. I will never have a 3rd kid, because the 2 that I have now need me to be healthy and on point physically at all times. caring for her brother is not something that should fall on my daughter, unless she chooses to do it on her own. asking a child to give up their life to care for another that is not their own kid is unacceptable, I did not want 3 kids because I expected them to raise each other, I wanted them so I could watch the miracle that is a new human being coming into the world and choosing who they're going to become. getting to be part of that is a blessing, and if I tried to have a third or adopt another kid it would absolutely take time, energy and attention away from my other kids that they need to succeed in life. so that dream of 3 kids is now 2 kids and a whole bunch of pets that we all care for together, and it's wonderful. I couldn't imagine taking my kids for granted like this family did. maybe because I lost babies at the beginning of my journey, I appreciated what I had more than they did. but these seem like awful people that had no business having that many children
I wonder how many parents only had children because they were told to have children. They never actually wanted any children, and it shows.
Years later these two will either be dead from all the petty anger or left abandoned in a retirement home still wondering why their kids never visit
optimist ? retirement home, who will pay, lazy parents probably have no savings or enough pension ...
@@jyvben1520 shiiiiii ur right
I feel like the only way those kids are paying for a retirement home is if they check the reviews and find the worst one
Like one of the story where the dad of OP just drop dead of the heart attack from anger. 😅
@@EmiStar070 Yep
Yeah, leaving with the turkey leg was indeed a boss level exit.
Can I date OP pls? He sounds like my kind of guy. Way to go, dude!
Eww why? He got his mom pregnant then pushed her off the porch to kill the baby
Wtf
@@MaouVallkur oedipus is that you?
@@MaouVallkur Did you even listen to the story? Where the hell did it say anything like that?
@@BPJD2004 Whoosh.
Abandon your kids with me, even if they are my siblings, will result in me calling the cops and CPS.
I wish him all the best. He deserves good things. Hope he updates sometime.
Even if this story is fake, it's quite depressing and scary that some kids actually get abused like OP
As people say, children deserve parents but some parents don't deserve children
Bro $30 one time payment per sitting gig .. the lowest going rate is $10/hr... I would have said $30/hr
$10/hr even is pretty low. Forget a professional service, the high school girls around here charge $25/hr for the scheduled time, $50/hr for any part of each hour after the agreed upon time, and they don't prorate. And that's the one child rate, each additional kid is an extra $5/hr. Little bastards make nearly as much as I do, lol. But hey, that's the market response, supply and demand.
My advice to parents, make friends with other parents and alternate watching each other's kids, and don't have a whole litter of them. Keep it to like 1 or 2 kids, maximum, lol.
Not counting child care, private schooling or unforeseen medical expenses, most financial planners suggest budgeting $15,000 a year for each kid, at an absolute minimum. So I get why OP's parents were stressed... 5 kids, if they were doing what they should have, that requires $75k a year, after taxes, paying the mortgage, utilities, etc. With that many kids, they'd have to be earning about $200k for a modest lifestyle. A 99¢ condom might have been the wiser financial move, lol. No wonder their house is rotting to the ground. While I don't condone anyone kicking people in the balls, in this case he might have done his father a favor, that guy can't afford another kid, ever.
@Arkryal it also says a lot when the other siblings were RELIEVED the baby had died! Parents really had no business popping out yet another baby when they are struggling so much financially. Like you basically said a box of condoms don't cost much lol.
And yet will save you so much money in the future. Like putting that money towards a new porch to replace the rotting one that ultimately got an unborn baby killed! I would consider it a small mercy the baby at least won't have to deal with shitty parents, and resentful older siblings who would have to be their babysitters.
The parents really are gonna wind up alone, and have no one to blame but themselves. They're definitely heading to The Nursing Home for sure 😅.
The movement when op kicked his father in the ballsack was fucking hilarious 🤣
they urned it
Krillin!!! Too soon!
Ayyyyyyy😂
Nahhh 😭
Ouch 😂
Yeah no the father knows good and damn well that miscarriage was his fault he just can’t come to terms with it and it’s easier to blame someone else. denial is a river in egypt.
I heard this story long ago, but I will always feel bad for OP and those kids. I hope they are doing fine and OP is receiving therapy...
Why do they know where OP lives in the first place
It's an uncanny ability of narcissists to locate their victims
Probably mentioned it to them in passing
Flying monkeys ...entitled trash always have a few at the ready.
Op is so brave and courageous to stand up against such pathetic assholes time and again. I need to do the same.
The fact that the dad thinks he has any power over OP is laughable.
You can tell by how OP describes him that he's trying to be 'hard' and 'tough' and intimate his kids like he probable did when they were five. But... news flash: The older a person gets, the less shits they give for your self-imposed 'authority' over them. Keep poking the lion and you're gonna get the claws... or, I guess in this case, get the steel-toe boot in the balls.
This mindset is actually very common. For a lot of controlling parents, the worst day of their life is when they come to realize that they have no power over their adult children. OP's father will not let go of the idea that he's the big man in charge.
He ACTUALLY thinks that OP standing up to him was a ‘farce’. This asshole thought he could force OP to continue babysitting his Siblings, and then got mad when OP stood up for himself…
Parents force their older kids raise the younger ones, then wonder why they never got any grandbabies.
op should have gotten a restraining order way sooner.
These doormats are so hard to listen to, always the threat of legal charges instead of filing legal charges.
It is genuinely aggravating. They should contact the police, CPS, and file charges the first time, every time, and go as far as the law allows to absolutely destroy them. Narcissists never respect “being the bigger person”, if anything, it is recognized as the weakness it is and incentivizes worse behavior. They only understand consistent, swift, severe, and brutal consequences.
How is OP a doormat? Did you even listen to the whole thing before commenting?
OP has become Carnage (get it because Carnage is Venom's son and stronger than him?)
Love the reference
This is proof some people shouldn't be parents
"see how long you last without us!" Yeah uhhh, thats the goal
Family violence is horrible, good thing OP is out of it! My mother kept me away from her parents as a child and I never understood it, but she was beaten half to death as a child by my alcoholic grandfather and at 15 when he tried to hit her again she snapped, broke his nose and cheekbone and told him if he dared to touched her ever again she would kill him. After this, he cried and pissed himself. She moved out when she was 16, my grandfather was afraid of my mother for the rest of his life and only after he died did it come out that he had se***lly ab***d my youngest aunt for years and my mother said that if she had known when he was alive, she would still be in prison and I would never have been born. My grandma, on the other hand, defended her dead husband during a visit, saying she knew everything and she didn't care my mother ripped her a new one, kicked her out instantly and said she never wanted to see her again and that she should burn in hell. I didn't find out about all this until I was over 30 and anyone who knows my mom knows she is the sweetest, most lovely little person on earth and I thought she couldn't hurt anyone.
I’m glad the fact that OP’s siblings don’t resent him and also openly hate their parents as well
Story 1: Why keep such terrible people in your life after moving out?
This is why not everyone woman is cut out to be a mom or a man a father. This pushing people and especially women to have children should stop. Stop this not having children dosent make you less manly.
Bruh... when i was 12 i was left home alone million times and NOTHING happend, i dont see why should their son babysit TEENAGERS, bruh...
Bro I was 10 when I was alone
@@Dominic_812 yeah, I think parents who force someone to babysit TEENS are eighter overprotective or dumb.
Ops parents are disgusting, I’m surprised CPS wasn’t called as it looks like that family is under a dictatorship.
No one actually believes this sad story, right? “They were enraged about my reddit post” “My dad’s legs quivered at the threat of my steel-toed boots” “I’ve been hitting the gym for a few months and learned fighting” Reads like the classic Redditard post.
What are you talking about? It’s 100% real! Who would lie on the internet?
Yeah have more kids when you can't afford the ones you already have wtf
Human ashes come in a vacuum sealed bag not loose in a jar
As a mortician I can assure you ashes don’t come in a vacuum sealed bag. Most are tied shut with a twist tie or a zip tie.
@@ThatGirlsGraveyard either way who just dumps the ashes in an urn. It's sad the animal remains come sealed but not human
@@chrispeterson3362 some people prefer them loose in the urn. Most are inside a bag in the urn. It truly is a matter of personal preference. If you don’t purchase an urn they come in a plastic bag, zip tied and placed into a plastic box. Then the plastic box is placed in a cardboard box….Where I live anyhow.
I have grown up around parents making it sound like having kids is so complicated. And I won’t say that being a parent isn’t hard it is just not in the way many people made it sound like. My husband and I don’t use daycare or baby sitters and we get along just fine. These parents are just idiots.
Sounds fake af, but I was entertained
Wish I could have seen OP riding off with the turkey leg 😂
Let's face it, they lost 1 of their cash cows the day OP moved out and got pregnant to have another.
Restraining order against them. Cease & desist.
Block all ways they can get to you.
Did Dad beat your mother and throw her down the porch steps?
why would you even talk with them after you move out...like why...
Boss
story seems like a parallel universe where my mom married a much worse guy than my dad
OP isn’t a monster, he’s a monster hunter.
Im wondering how the parents knew op's address and why didnt they think to threaten mom for stalking? Like id be horrified if they found out my address the first time she visited, how did they know anyway?
RIP OP’s “Dad”’s balls💀💀💀💀LMAO
11:43 and 13:34 are comedy gold moments
I adore op
Amazing how people just insist on keeping toxic people in their lives it's almost like they enjoy the drama or something. If my family was that toxic I would move to a different city and stop talking to all of them. But I know these are all fake stories but they all have the same theme lol.
I doubt she was pregnant
reminds me of the uk tv show shameless
The ashes in the urn are in a sealed bag they’re not just in the urn.
Could have taken out of bag dumped in urn
16:18 dead² 💀🤡
God, I wish this story was true.
Me
Damn, this is almost as messy as my family. No mention of trying to unalive any of the kids via neglect though
Stop being a fake literary critic for...reasons? I'd actually like to know why if you could help explain it to me. Serious request
@@catsncrows Go away. Serious request.
@@Kaziglu1 gotcha. Defensive, no help. Shouldn't have expected anything else
@@catsncrows That's right. Shoo.
@@Kaziglu1 a nice sling back heel or suede boot? Okay lol have a good evening. Take care😊
Another fake story if you ask me
Thank you, i was thinking that too, at first it seemed like it could be real but the update kinda confirmed it wasnt to me
It a readit story so you don’t know if it is real or not.
@@michelleengle207 thats pretty much speaks for itself to take this "story" with a grain of salt to begin with
@michelleengle207 yes thats true but there are certain things that can subtly indicate if a story is fake or not, such as not enough detail, too much detail, or unrealistic events, etc.
why would you even talk with them after you move out...like why...
Because it's hard to give up your relationship with your siblings. And often if you want to see your siblings during the holidays and such you have to talk to your terrible parents. The siblings are innocent and have no say in the situation. Often they are vulnerable and victimized too so it's nice to be able to check in on them.