Big Moves West After Police Told Me To Leave...
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- Join along as we get bad news from the Carlisle Police and the future is now even more of a struggle... Cant stop now though so onto some trucking only to find out the trucks power issue. Rolling west we go. Thanks for watching along.
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I am absolutely speechless. If I were in your shoes Chris, I would cease posting videos until you speak to an attorney for some much-needed legal advice. Do not let your family know what your next move is going to be. You can't handle this alone any longer as a result of the Restraining Orders that your family has filed against you. Protect what is left your dignity and you will prevail in the end. Please be careful from here on out.
I agree 100% !!
Talk to an attorney on Monday. Have them file an order to go get your stuff. Most judges will grant that. Be careful what you say and post on TH-cam because that's evidence they can use against you. Use the legal system to your advantage. Don't hurt yourself in this situation.
Excellent advice.
Let’s get a go fund me for Chris to help with the lawyer fees.
We only know one side of the story... parents usually don't write off their kids for nothing... Chris thinks he has all the answers, but as we all can see he has a lot to learn. A farmer with no farm
Alan that is true, however it wasn’t too long ago that his dad was helping him out somewhat and his sister certainly didn’t seem anti Chris until whatever tipping point occurred. While we may never know it sure seems over the top to do what they did. Hopefully at some point down the road we will get a better idea of what went on.
@@plowboy6636 it started to go bad when Chris stopped working on his dad's tractor...as far as I can tell
Nothing like family, to make a fellow feel loved!!!!
Very surprised that this didn’t happen right away. I would surprised if all your equipment doesn’t get messed with. Get everything out of there asap
I bet more tools will go missing
Yep welder and compressor as well...that quansit will be empty when he comes back to get his stuff..hopefully before he left he took video of everything in there where it was laying so he can go back and show whats missing then go through their shop with the police and take all of his stuff back.
His brother is with him, so let's hope he will get most of the stuff out there.
call the court immediatly the hearing will be within 10days after receiving papers
He will have to make a list and give it to a attorney or they will try to keep everything
Get a lawyer and then hire someone to move your stuff off the farm. Avoid contact and do not do anything that will hurt you later. Stay positive if you can.
wait with moving the stuff after court a judge has to give approval before it can be touched
@@willianvos3521 bro ita his stuff wtf u talking about wait for an approval
@@jamesdukes597 Doesn’t matter.Courts 7-10 times are gonna grant the family or wife what they want. It sucks but at least your not in jail.I had bro in law who had girl living with him. They got in a fight she called police after he ripped phone out of wall. Police made him leave and eventually prosecutor charged him with kidnapping for the phone. He had to leave until he ended up evicting her which took 90 days. Worst part they weren’t married. She lived 90 days free and totally trashed the house and pole barn.Michigan gotta love it.
Chris, we all feel sad & angry after what your father, mother, and sister have done. Thank goodness your brother can assist you. Find a place to stay for now; you have a job & friends everywhere. You will need to retain a lawyer eventually, so you won't have to descend into the family's cesspool. You and Yenko are best buds and will be farming together til the cows come home! 👍
Get a Lawyer Now! Get your stuff and don't look back ever! If you need a place to park things you can use my place, mid Michigan, it would be safe and you won't have to deal with restraining orders. Keep doing the right thing and you will prevail! Good luck Chris! This will work out.
Well good thing is you and your brother are still in good standings. hopefully he can help you get everything out best of luck. Time to lawyer up unfortunately
duffy can also ask andy to help and maybe frank
When a man has nothing to lose, the shit storm that follows will never end well for the other side
Chris, I had a falling out with my parents too. It's been 13 yrs since they pushed me out. I doubt now they even know why. It stings when it happens but you are a great person and a lot of people see your potential. Move on with your life and no longer interact with them. Zero. They will realize after you moved on that they no longer can bad mouth you. Trust me their friends are tired of them too. Good luck man. I'm pulling for you.
Honestly if they went that far and you own one off the milking machines, I’d hire a crew to come in and rip it out.
I am so sorry to hear that Chris I learned a long time ago never to work with family it doesn't work and right now you need to fight fire with fire if they went down that low to get the cops after you for no reason well you go to court and you show the judge everything you have recorded and report everything that they're doing against the law that's all I have to say good luck Chris and I love your videos
Absolutely!!
@@markbrubaker8585 I feel his pain
Get a lawyer to help you. And get a restrain order against your sister and parents. And dis own them,that also means to not attend their funerals. and if you have to go to the funerals, have NOTHING nice to say at the euology, but the TRUTH
When the gas bottle and tools were messed with I kinda thought it would come to this. Thank goodness for your brother.....for as long as that lasts before they force him to comply or get out.
Yeah right ?
@@Dusty47 they will do it because he helped him with some stuff
That’s how it usually goes
Gas bottle and tools that sounds like attempted murder to me do they have an insurance policy on him🙄
First calm down. Don’t have any contact with any one in your family. They could be recording your conversations that includes texting.
Get the best lawyer in the state immediately. When you go to see the attorney be prepared to give him a list of everything they have taken/ stolen or owe you. DO NOT show your temper to anyone stay calm and don’t screw yourself.
Unfortunately I told you this would happen. Now please listen to us.
Yea his brother is staying nutral in it all but will lend a hand moving stuff like he said he would get his pickup and work van and bring them to the house.
That is great advice. Get the best lawyer you can afford. Preferably not from that area.
Hire a lawyer in Pittsfield or Springfield. That way he won’t have a horse in the race.
They can end up in prison or loose the farm over everything you just expanded they are doing
Not in Brandon- world . They are heroes for giving illegals sanctuary- hell the Martha vineyard 50 can stay there maybe
@Richard Homan housing illegals without proper housing will make them lose the farm
Hang in there people just want to try and keep you down any way they can. What they don't realize is they can't keep you down thoughts and prayers are with you
I've got a 53' step deck with beavertail and ramps if you ever need it to get stuff moved. I'm a couple hours north of you, but you're welcome to it. Get a lawyer, grab your stuff and get out. They just made your future easier to decide. Put it behind you and leave.
he cant touch anything without judge approval and police present
I would have your brother load all your tools and anything else he can manage to load. Contact lawyer they have to let you remove your stuff
I watched my uncle go thru this. The best thing for you to do is find a place to store your equipment and tools, find a place to live and get a lawyer.
Sorry to hear your family is that grimy Chris! Hang in there
I'm guessing they noticed the chopper gone and there trying to get your building and other equipment before you get it out and if your not there they can go through the rest of it with out you noing
As much as I hate it for you, people would be surprised by how many farm families are like this. At least you're getting out fairly young instead of in your 50s.
Stay strong. All will be well.
Chris I know you’ll keep us posted on what’s going on but you may have to keep some of it out of your TH-cam for now and till these legal matters are taken care of. Are you strong keep your cool and I hope the best for you. You have a lot of fans and a lot of friends that I want to see you make it.
Good advice 👍🏻
LAWYER UP my friend. The first time I commented I scolded you for the way you're treating your aging father... then after a while I saw how he was treating you and I did something I rarely have to do, I apologized to you. Ever since I've watched in complete unbelief at the abuse your family, particularly your father, have unloaded upon you (with the exception of the ongoing support and help from your brother). You do have Rights and you have to fight for yourself. Do it and don't look back. Turn them in for anything and everything you can think of and don't hold back, they aren't. Remember it's said: Do not avenge yourselves, beloved, but leave room for God’s wrath. For it is written: “Vengeance is Mine; I will repay, says the Lord.” Chris, do what you have to do to protect yourself and property and leave enough space for the Lord to do his work (looks like he'll have his hands full for quite a while).
Please don't give up, you've worked too hard. To have vision and the strength to see through the impossible hardships of modern farming is something special and unique.
Keep your head up and spirits high. You are an inspiration to so many in this time of being rewarded for being lazy, not working with expectations of everyone else paying for their right to be a burden upon those of us who actually work or worked for a living.
"scolded you for the way you're treating your aging father" A person does not automatically deserve respect just because they are old.
I mean if your father is gonna be petty I'd get him for theft. For taking your tools thinking it was his while you where away. On top of the $10,000 he owes you. And if that robot milker is in your name take it with you or make your father make payments to you for it. You are way to nice in this situation.
The whole situation is just so... f**kd up. As a fellow farmer, who is farming with his father, I don't say it's easy, cuz it's not. But this is a whole new level of bs. How can anybody do these with there own son/brother? That's just so weird and so damn sad for me. :/
agree
That’s why I said get trail camera 🎥 in the hoop building to prove that it is going on when push comes to shove PROOF speaks volumes to the police
Also all of Chris’s stuff such as the 7520, the white truck and so on
Keep up the good work. Hanging in there you are the best.
Sorry for what is happening to you Chris.You do not deserve to be treated like this and I hope you are ok and you can get all the help you need to get through this.
So sorry to see this. Keep your head up you're a decent guy. Good luck👌👌
LAWYER.... NOTHING MORE OF THE VIDEO REGARDING TO YOUR FAMILY. hang in there buddy... you will stand up on your own ground from now on so wish you the best of luck in farming somewhere else. you can do it man! lets go duffy!
Best thing i can give you advice wise is take them to court over all this stuff you might win this one with the video proof as well possibly
I feel for you brother, this is hard to watch after all your hard work . Keep you head up .
Your a legend mate your family's screwed without you and now you have you own farm congratulations!!!
Sorry to hear that Chris and it’s sad that they pulled that on you. Your doing an awesome job mate, keep moving forward 🤙🏻
You seem like a great guy. It sucks that bad things happen to good people. Keep being you!
It's a great thing that you have those unpublished videos. I think you should lay this whole situation on the desk of an attorney.
he has to call the court first the first hearing could be tomorrowmorning
You definitely need to take to court for theft and possibly destruction of property because there probably going to do something to everything that you had to leave at the farm. I hope you can get everything
Let them try, because if they damage any thing, Chris has proof of sale the property on the farm is his, they don't.
If the old man is a big shot at Cabot this will not be very good press for their brand- just sayin
If memory serves his old man is president of the board at Cabot...has been for years...this all will not go well for him when they find out he has illegals living in his barn of all places....not even a house with decent living quarters.
You can go to the court and get an order for your property, write a list and proof their yours (if they say its their) for the court and officers..
Your good attitude will guide you to be the person you have been. Your family have not been as people should be. I certainly never saw this coming. They possibly could have anything you left hauled away. I wish you the best Chris. We MUST BE YOUR FAMILY NOW.
Wow what a DK move! Now your going to have to talk to lawyer who won't rip you off and will walk you all the way through court to get all your stuff out and how to sue them ASAP! (((((Don't even think about it just do it right away. The longer you wait the more of your stuff disappears.)))))). Make a list of everything you own or all the papers on equipment and proof of $$$$ owed. Do on to others as they have done to you even family. 👍👍Plus if you can hire a private investigator to watch if any of your stuff leaves the farm.
I hate lawyers but it's time, now that you have the restraining order it should help the case that the farm needs to pay off the robot or get thier own loan so nothing of yours is there. The rest of your stuff don't sweat it the judge will set up a time for u to remove it. And lucky for u there is video proof of what is yours
lets hope the family doesn't destroy or sell his equipment in the meantime
As I watch more videos the more I feel we have more in common. I am so sorry for what you are going through and have gone through. I've been there too!!! You're an extreme caliber of world class sophistication and success of what most parents and siblings can only dream of. Keep moving my brother I never had as I keep watching and immensely learning from you!! 🥇
Sorry to hear this , put your trust in Christ and it will work out. I will be praying for you
You can go to court and request a police escort to get your property.
Chris it's not much but our farm is 20 minutes off of the mass pike Sturbridge exit, you ever need a place to park the equipment for a night it's open for ya.
I'm sorry u are going through this, good thing u have footage , tapes don't lie. I know it's hard, but keep your cool, otherwise they win. Pulling for you. Take care
Hang in the man it really pisses me off what your going threw. Krama though just remember it'll come back around. Dont do anything you'll regret the universe has a way of working these things out. Just keep your head up and keep downing the right thing!!
Krama : What the fuck is that ??
I’m sorry things turned out the way they did buddy. Just surrounded yourself with good people and keep pushing forward.
I've been through something very very similar, keep it moving and don't look back!
They didn't think this through very well, you have such an advantage over them and I'm quite shocked that judge even approved that order, makes me wonder if he/she was aware of the hell you have had to endure because of them. Stay positive, and keep moving forward. 10 years from now this will be just a blip on the radar.
you can see it as a temporary restraining order
Oh and BTW that old Mac is sounding good now that's how they're supposed to sound you can hear that turbo just screaming and that's how I remember all the old Macs we had that big black puff of smoke as you takeoff you knew it was working well lol
Wow, sorry man. You will succeed, you have the drive. Keep strong..
Also, you may have to file a law suit against your dad to get your stuff
he will have to file a lawsuit for his property, the stolen tools and the 10K his dad owed
Sad day when family are jackass my heart goes out to you keep on trucking and farming
Time to move on and concentrate on yourself, from my experience don’t get waste time and money on fighting them, move on and be positive and keep achieving for yourself and you will end up way further ahead.
The judge should never have granted that restraining order it's frivolous
the can request it. it gets served and the first hearing will be after 10days after serving the papers
Hey Cris aka Duffy so sorry for the family drama. Don't feel alone your not the only person going threw the crap as I've been there to I moved and there still finding ways to steel my things. Just keep praying things get better ☺️🙏💗
his last name is duffy
Man that blows. I hope that you can get that overturned. If your father is saying they aint gonna pay you im thinking you might have to take them to court if they wanna do this to you when you are working at leaving. Honestly im kinda hoping they fold up without your contribitions labor and equipment. Best of luck to you with this mess
wow your sister makes three grilled cheese and she is part owner wow. You bust your back on a full days work and then work on the farm try to make it better place. You know that back pain you have thats from the knives stuck in your back
Sorry to hear about this crap.
Family problems are the worst. But I know that you will get through it and find something much better for yourself.
Sorry man, I know it sucks when it's your own family. you just gotta keep on keeping on don't let them drag you to their level. Hope everything works out for you
Keep your head up man!!! We are here for you and please keep moving forward!!! Please move west and grow!!!! GROW!!! Keep your head up man we love you and appreciate all you do here.
well said
Thanks for keeping it real man don't change your audio don't change your camera feel like I'm riding with you
Dang family. What the heck is wrong with people like that? Hang in here. You’ll get this figured out.
Get a lawyer and fight back the law is on your side family or not ! Great content I wear your shirts with pride Chris good luck !
My lord that is absolute B.S.! I wish I could help you out bud! Guys we need to help this man raise money for legal fees!
chris made a gofundme page go 2or 3 weeks back and you can find the link for it
I would file a order to repo the milking robot
Chris my heart goes out to you,all i can say is you have friends nd very good ones from what i have seen keep your head up my prayers go with you .Only wisheing i could do something practical for you .
Get an injunction against them so you can move your gear out, make sure you have receipts for tools etc.... get everything out and move on. The you should have been shifting out anything that you could move before now but they can't prevent you from getting your gear out.
Your parents and sister are some real doozies. I know an attorney isn’t in your budget but when it is, you should make them pay a price. Wishing you the best.
I agree with you John hate to see someone feel like he is backed into a corner with no way out
Fuck man that's all whack. The fact that you're own family put out a restraining order (to "prevent abuse" of all things wtf?) on you just to spite you when they know you're leaving already, is lower than low. Hopefully a judge can take all of your evidence against them and the lack of your father's/family's into account. Considering you have hours and hours of documented video, bound to have something in it all. It's crazy how wild and blind people can get when one person has them "take sides", and all of a sudden the people who are closest to you are acting like your worst enemy and doing things just to make your life hard, I know how it feels. Not to this extent, but people dying tends to have a similar effect on families. All I really have left to say, is get as faaaaar away as possible from them and don't look back. Keep working like you have been and going towards your goals, and stick by the people who have helped you during this. Good luck and may the force be with you lol.
That's a laugh his sister filing for abuse and her abusing everyone in the comments. Chris only has to show that to a judge and he will come to a conclusion who the real abuser is.
@@Bpg5012trick when is his sis abusive in the comments like bruh u reaching go back to bed 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
You are a hard worker. Everything will work out eventually
First up you need a lawyer, make a list of what's yours at their property! I'm sorry they are treating you this way. I wish I could help. Need to arrange a crew to go and get your stuff out and move on. My brother took the trust to court saying theirs more money! Judge asked them what kind of a fishing expedition are they on! Nothing compared with what your family is doing to you. Family can suck that's for sure! Stay positive and fight back! Use the courts to fight back!
Stay calm and lawyer up. You have the evidence you need. Work the problem, don't let it work you.
Hang in there bud it will all work out . Wish I closer to help you out . You sure have helped me out quite a bit. Stay strong
Just what family should do to family My dad farmed with my grandpa for over30 years was always told some day this all be yours. when grandpa passed away grandma told dad yer done and had a auction sale. So for over 30 years of working for next to nothing he got screwed. So i kinda know how you feel. keep your head up and keep pushing forward.
Get your brother to video all your stuff with a time stamp. That way you can show if anything was moved or taken.
All the best Chris we are all behind you
I’m so sorry for what your family is doing to you. Plese be careful on what you say it could be used against you. I know you are frustrated but it will all work out in the end. You have the person allitey to get the job done. Once a farmer all ways a farmer.
It's definitely time to hit back and make sure you get all your stuff.
Make sure you add improvements like the repair hut & everything physical to add up to compensate for your improvements @ get written evaluations of every changes you made
I know it's a long drive south, but I could probably get you set up with something temporary in nc.
Oh and by the way if you're not going to hook up your driveshaft for your rear wheel drive you should turn your tires around Switch the massage that way the tread is the opposite way they won't wear out as fast just a thought for you
Keep a couple of Dry Chem FE's on board, along with a Half-Gallon Pressure sprayer with a couple of Gallons of Water.
If you should have a Hub Fire, quell the flames with the Dry Chem, then spray the hub Outer, between the tandems, and the inner brake lining, (watch for heated broken parts as you scoot under trailer for that last), repeat until fire stops spontaneous combustion; and you can save your trailer /Tractor using this system.
I have saved FOUR Trac-Trailers using this system, one of them my Own along with the Two households and the collectible Mercedes on board my trailer.
Wow I'm so sorry to hear that man I said a prayer for you and your family I really was hoping thing would get better for both of you I read some of the comments All I can give you is that hopefully one day you and your family can sit down and discuss this calmly and come to a decision if it's all of you ❤️ I'm not going to give you negative, just positive for the both of you I know it's hard but if you have faith in something put it in there and let it be don't retaliate and violent words kill with kindness from your heart and soul 🙏
have your friends go in quick and grab your eqipment. Make sure you give them permission to pick up exatly what is yours in a full description.
I'm 55 and its always been told never trust ur family thy will ( f ) you first before a guy that u don't know will
sorry for everything going on hope keep all ur sales and byer reciepts
good luck on everything Duffy
Ask the state for written permission to be there before they go get it done to you
This sucks but as one who’s family has done it to me I know exactly what you are going through
Stand tall stand proud and the truth will set you free
Oh buddy there are scab family members everywhere. Dealing with it right now and for last 5 years. Hopefully your doing the right thing.
Get the judge to rule on the temporary restraining order. Hopefully it won't be the same judge that issued it . The complaints have to show up or it gets dropped automatically.. good luck
Best thing you can do at this point is contact a lawyer. Hopefully your brother will help you get your stuff out of there.
he can touch his equipment after he gets permission from a judge
Your a better person than your family! You will always have problems in your life keep your positive attitude and it will get better!
I would think that if the family that controls the property is going this far you might get a judge to discharge the co-sign on the robot loan considering the equipment has to be on the property you can't access. Might free up some capital to get established
Hope you took keys for everything
Iowa is looking better every day.
What a bad decision that your mother and sister have made wish you the best Chris good thing you have a brother to help you get you stuff out of that place
Never let your parents know what you have gives you leverage to get your stuff out
Your integrity will help you in the end
he can also ask andy
Chris I am sorry to hear about the problems but with certain friends and in your case FAMILY who needs enemy's.
Good luck hope everything works out
I feel for you Hanging in ther
Dang it Chris...I was afraid this day was coming. Looking large in the R model and lowboy...old school truckin 👍