My assessment on this: She always wanted to use him for her music career pursuits but pretends to want a serious relationship to hide the shame of quid pro quo. Very manipulative.
@@khulekaninyuswa721 there are actually screenshots that are trending between her and Nota where she says she will agree to sleeping with Nota if he helps her music career...so basically she led him on
@@Miss_Sir2 broadcasters are there to break news and push boundaries, playing it safe won't work in her field. She had every evidence to poke in Nota's phone but she chose to clown and waste our data. I just wish Nota can give a strong interviewer lady a seat down, because a man podcastor won't be palatable for feminist and woke soldiers
Nota needs book smart combined with street smart, he is an extra-ordinary kid who gets misunderstood most of the time by those that listen to already deciphered messages
Wena Promise, you didn't trust Nota to read for himself, and yet you fail to read everything on those chats! Why????? Immediately that shows you came already having taken a side! Nooooo you're unfair
Promise this is painful to watch. Go and do some homework, brush up your skills, read a book or two, better yet if intellectuals come to show, you’re allowed to excuse yourself and allow a guest presenter to do justice to the story.
Agreed, we may as well have just had Nota telling us his side of the story on his own because this was terrible. She didn't even take time to prepare for this interview.
LA ku rojwene, the lady got pissed coz Nota got the kitty but didn't wanna commit or make her dreams come true. He smashed and ghosted so she evoked the rape card. Nota should've seen the red flags when she said her heart it tied to her kitty. Ubhayizile, didn't withdraw tactically
Promise... you need to do better. This is a serious case and yet you are giggling and invading Nota's DMs with another female who has nothing to do with this case. Nota's life and reputation is on the line. This interview needs a more seasoned interviewer to do a deep dive and unpacking.
For A smart guy like Nota he made a dumb move sleeping with an emotionally & mentally unstable woman … once you hear a woman speaking about trauma.. as a gent run !! .. because when it comes to sexual assault cases , a womans cry is heard the most whether she’s telling the truth or not… and the fact that even when a woman fabricates sexual harassment there is no consequence for it .. its totally not worth risking your life
Yes but he is indicting himself by stating that he was aware of her being selective Now the girl can win the case because when she said no she may have agreed but then realized she doesn’t want
I think you hit the nail on the head. A woman can show you flames my bruh. You'll find yourself in a situation you never imagined you'd ever find yourself. The first time I had to deal with the police for a domestic issue was because of a woman. I don't judge Nota, I also don't make the best judgements at times and then you find yourself in a world of trouble. I'm not perfect but I don't like someone who brings other dramas into my life.
Bathong Promise, you’re fighting to read the conversations but then you proceed to skip parts and say ‘blah blah blah’??? What was the need for you to read??? 😅
But remember, not every single detail in those texts will be relevant. Some things are just extra info which would make the podcast unnecessarily long. They only have so much time per episode. It makes sense to skip over those parts if they don't add extra context. For example, she won't need to read out greetings or salutations and stuff like that.
Promise you lack empathy. When Nota was narrating his divorce you just to smiled, be awkward & carried on and didn't say you are sorry or offer any words of comfort or encouragement .Yes, remain professional but remember that you are interviewing a human being. You lack emotional intelligence, you just fumble through the interview. Scrolling through and viewing another person's dm and asking him, that was so unapropriate! Please invest in your craft and learn more about conducting a professional interview.
Wee if u know nota and u watch nota interviews he is like this. And start a podcast do all those thing u have maintioned. U should not watch the the interview if u felt that way be kind
@@queenmadonsela3079 True, sensitive topics are not for her, most times her comments are cringe worthy and she says everything she thinks. Reasoning capacity proves limited most times, she lacks depth.
No, it's not a matter of emotional intelligence. You expected her to vilify Nota and find something incriminating, meaning she did not do what would feed the narrative of women.
If you are a guy and being falsely accused you need to talk as much as you can. Remember what happened to Tall_Ass_MO? Keeping quiet is for perpetrators
Nota why did you give this interview to Promise?? She treated this like a trending topic, she didn't want to get to the truth. The texts on your phone needed to be analyzed. She didn't care to get to the bottom of this.
Honestly, it's a time issue. She only has one hour - take a look at her other interviews; they're also rushed. They must be finished within the hour. The studio is running a tight ship. She needs to extend her time so we can get to the bottom of things 🤞
@@ephraimmotho887 My other problem with her. This is a sensitive matter. You are interviewing an accused rapist. They are relaying the sexual encounter "I sucked her breast" n Promise is laughing. Why?? If Nota wants to laugh n make jokes about his experience thats okay, he's a guest sharing his truth, dealing with it the way he wants to but for an interviewer to be making silly remarks regarding sexual activity like what did she think they're gonna discuss? She also doesn't seem to understand grown ups can casually have sex without being in relationship/loving each other. She's a married woman with kids n she doesn't know what Plan B is? When she read the texts which were circulating all over social media, she wanted to skip them because in her mind everyone has already heard them. I know she didn't study journalism but you don't need to be a journalist to know how dumb that is. Has SABC news ever not shared a story just because NCA shared it first?It also shows she didn't care about getting to the truth, she just wanted the scoop. She couldn't even fake sympathy for both Nota and Itumeleng.
Precious,a man can even sleep nohlanya,as long as ivuliwe nje,akadingi nokuthi aze amthande umuntu. Lokhu kusho ukuthi indoda iyalala nomuntu engamthandi .
22:41 TMI yayx Nota is right. I never understood this until my husband made me aware of it. As a woman, it is very important to set boundaries. And in this case, there were no boundaries, especially considering the fact that Nota was supposed to be her 'manager'.
So true even the last one about his marriage he took over. With Nota you need to be highly intelligent and knowledgeable in terms of psychology. Itu also couldn’t handle Nota hence Nota played her unawares
I feel so bad for Itumeleng, she is going to be the next Lady Zama, she did say on the WhatsApp messages that people listen to Nota, and her story don't support her 😢
This host is exactly a great example of SAn women, they stumble on the truth when confronted with facts. He owned her on this pod and made her as a host look dumb because she clearly came in having picked a gender side than being neutral.
NOTA is dominant by nature though.He can talk yooh. If watch his previous podcasts here on TH-cam on Music, politics and his marriage he always runs the show acting smart.
@@Vernac2EnglishConfessions you clearly don't watch or listen to understand Nota, it's no doubt that he can articulate himself. My point here is, he answered every question fittingly as he was asked, and ended up schooling the host. Anyone can overtalk people and still not make sense, Nota clearly has been to court and knows how to articulate himself for follow up questions. And that's my point
Stop consuming redpill content. Promise cant publicly say nota didn't grape itu wena. She has a platform to uphold. The only thing she do is stay unbiased which she is.
@@nompumelolo you don't know where and when to apply the term red pill, you hear people talk about it and then wanna apply it to seem well researched. Nothing about my statement was red pill utterance. All I pointed out was in the beginning of the pod, she tried to question proof she was shown and eventually gave in as she saw Nota is being falsely accused and Nota had all the answers to her questions. Point is, women will drive a narrative of a man always guilty even confronted with facts. Nothing red pill about that.
Eish eish. I'm really mad at her for this. Not Nota, please. It's not a secret that he's vile and emotionally abusive. He says all the bad things about women. He literally bashed Berrita. But Itu had the NERVE to even kiss him????????? Now , she's depressed again. Hayi guys not Nota. He's not a nice person at all!!
It also looks like she liked him more than he liked her. I could be wrong. He didn't seem responsive to a lot of her texts unless it was different when they met up or spoke on phone? She is also a woman, I guess she didn't know how to talk to him and see whether he was interested. I haven't finished the interview yet.
@@ckngivdtb37910 They didn't like each other. She was using him to futher her career n Nota just wanted sex/hanging out. At first Nota told her from the start but to get to the cookie he played her game. Her game was to flirt while seeking professional advice, while wanting a relationship yet being in a relationship with Tebogo. She thrives in this chaos. It allowed her to be a victim even though she's initiating sexual advances. Why Nota decided to fall for this is beyond me.
@ckngivdtb37910 she didn't like him. At all. Go read the conversations. At first, She even told him she makes her uncomfortable when he touches her wanting to kiss, even when she spoke about the boundaries. He then invited her to hang. So she thought he will continue to just "kiss" then a hit song will come out , she will run. Problem is that She just wanted fame , to make it in the music industry which Nota promised. So, she thought playing along was a good thing. Unfortunately, Nota moved too fast. ITUMELENG doesn't know that Nota is a Nobody In the industry now. He fell off. Yes, he knows people but he won't help.
@@anythinggoes3439 Was about to like your comment except for 1 thing. Where in the texts did Nota promise her she'll make it in the music industry? All he did was agree to mentor n provide good advice on what to do to advance her career. Nota even told her there is no magic that'll make her a star, it's hard work, dedication, takent n a bit of luck. They both used each other yes but Nota never lied about what he's gonna do for her career.
@@ckngivdtb37910 They didn't like each other, they used each other different reasons only Nota was forthcoming about the nature of their relationship while Itumeleng pretended so she can play victim and initiate sexual advances all at once.
I actually think the interviewer did a great job. You will never find this kind of interview/ engagement in traditional media. We are so used to interviewers who push narratives down our throuts that we don't want to think for ourselves. She pushed Nota and she was not just being pushed over. Thank you for a great and fair engagement.
This is why MacG will always be way ahead of all these podcasters. This has been One of the most frustrating interviews to watch. Both of them were horrible. The host still need to Polish her craft.
Men should just stop trying to have sex when a woman is either unsure or says no to sex. On the other hand, I have learnt that visiting a guy's house, kissing him often leads to sex (consensual or not). As women we feel guilty and regret afterwards especially if the sex was unprotected. A man can choose to commit or run afterwards and you have to find a way to emotionally accept that. Itumeng should just do damage control like taking plan B (which she has taken), protect herself for any possible infection and just move on for the sake of her peace. You can tell she is regretting everything , she was hoping to win something out of the situationship either marriage or music career boost and she lost all. She should just count her losses and keep moving. Now its all messed because Nota now wants to make an example out her with the extortion charges😭
@@Thatsong-fr9nq l do. If a woman says we are not going to sex at any point in your discussions to meet or when you meet, be careful, don’t insist. Wait to hear a clear approval from her before penetrating otherwise you will have a problem later.
Thank you very much Promise fir giving Nota the platform to tell his side of the story. Now please bring the lady in question to tell her side of the story.
this lady is trying so hard to find fault with Nota and its so embarrassing. This is very sad and disappointing, she's literally reading messages and trying so hard to find anything to blame Nota on yoooh ay
You want promise to choose a side. Promise literally said she doesn't know what happened in their bedroom so she obviously cant defend itu nor nota. That's why promise said, "ne le bua monate what went wrong?". She can't say she believes either one of them
I know this is your podcast and you’re doing things your way. However as a listener and also invested in this story, it would’ve been nice if Nota had to relay the events as he remembers referencing the WhatsApp conversations rather than rereading them. @27:00 I see Promise wanted to handle the interview differently however Nota seems to be more dominant in redirecting it his way.
She's too scared of women accusing her of giving a rape accused a platform. In that case, she should have avoided the interview altogether. Now she's severely restricting the guest.
Imagine, 😮😅 Promise had picked a side and hence she was now saying there's no time, theres no such in Podcasting, she was supposed to use the time to pay attention to the facts tabled Yohhhhh 😂
Promise, you really need to sort out the time issue. One hour is not enough for your podcast. You never seem to get the issues ventilated within 60 mins.
Nota is a big man for giving her his phone and letting her invade his privacy, clearly Nota has nothing to hide and big ups to Sis Precious for her emotional intelligence
No DNA just RSA... Mr Baloyi is still giving back to the community by availing himself to podcasts like this. This sweet lady now has an opportunity to grow. If you want to do a podcast, you better be well aware of the country's trends. Thanks Nota for being a true epitome of the concept of the Love Child!
Plus I believe there were phone calls that adds to the WhatsApp conversations, the gentleman is smart and is trying to play the story in his favor. I can’t wait for her to tell her side is the story and we will all be shocked to find that she’s being pained RED.
loved this interview shem. I hope another podcast has itumeleng so we can see. This is the year of couples and situationships exposing each other FOR FREE. To us bao rata ditaba 💃🏾💃🏾
Yoooh! Conducting an actual live interview on such allegations is crazy!! I know we all want to make content but this is cringe and giving desperate for a story - yikes!!
Honestly this girl was looking for a quick way up the ladder. Fact is certain girls, sleep with men for connections/ jobs, money etc. She's so desperate really, she has to understand, nothing in life comes easy. She is the one who has to be arrested.
That's the problem right there "you wanted this to work in her favor " if he didn't have the evidence you were going to believe everything she says without question
I just hope she won’t delete herself. Because it sounds like she’s too emotional and not really secure in herself. Like I get bipolar vibes. I hope she won’t go to the extreme.
I was thinking that, too But after listening to WhatsApp messages and voice notes, I think it's a good thing that he is speaking out Initially, I thought Nota ripped her clothes off and forced herself on her Little did I know it was a different kind of “Rape” Based on what I hear, the girl feels used And I think the majority of females have gone through that, but the question is Is being used equal to rape? If that was the case 95% of man will be in prison
@@anythinggoes3439 What were you going to do if it was you being accused of rape and the chats have a grey area? Itu opened a case He is a public figure, the man is also looking out for his reputation as a public figure
@lovelyheart800 he's doing this because he knows he's guilty. He promises these ladies fame that he cannot give only to do this. There's no reputation he's trying to save. Otherwise he wouldn't be lying to them just to get sex. He raped. She said No! The shared chats show that. Ofcourse she wants fame too, but she said No to sex. Which is rape!
Nothing premature here...if they attack you my friend, you're well within your rights to defend yourself.. Im not saying she did this, but if women can weaponlse they're vulnerability,then defend yourself if you have built up influence and platform
The only guy who rises up to Nota's frequency of intellect is Pen. Whatching those 2 is like witnessing live on stage thw great Ludwig Van Beethoven's 9th Symphony. So much the better if you are also inclined that way and you are fascinated and appreciate the public display of the dance of the intellect. Anything short of that is midiocre for Nota.
@Kccung yes. She wanted help with music. So Nota started to be all touchy. She played along to get that music up. But then unfortunately, Nota moved too fast. I don't think she had any interest. Just Desperation to be a music superstar. There's no sane girl who can fall for Nota currently. They just just want what he's offering. He's getting the attention because he's lying to them.
@@anythinggoes3439 Hey yes sounds like desperation and predators know I just feel she offered herself if those text are true it’s going to be a hard case for her shame very sad to get there .Not to be mean Nota has said he doesn’t like fat girls , she is a beautiful girls , I believe there was some leading on from both sides. Crying Grape is on Social Media is so wrong 😑 in my opinion she should have stuck to needing help for her music career.
@Sbongakonke02 what if HE invited her/ tricked her to the bedroom ?.....Nota is a very intelligent man, the same man who harassed his EX when she left him.....CONNIVING is what comes to mind!!
You can say that all you want but that's not how men view it, women should learn to set boundaries, learn formality and professionalism. What's it with telling men that you are pmsing and all?!
Nota saw that Promise wasn't going to be a great interviewer for his narrative and took it to himself.Which work for him as he gave more details than having to have answered question asked to him. Sprinkle Sprinkle😊
This is an open shut case because these chats indicate that she was very suggestive in this situation, making it very probable that she would be the one who would intiate anything that would have happened even off whatsapp, in my view there is no case here, though the text about her saying "no repeatedly" before the sex might be reason for a trial
The girl is lying and it is embarrassing 🙈. As a girl I wouldn’t put myself in a situation like this cause wow. Also I think nota is too articulate or intelligent for the hosts, she’s unable to really unpack the things as they are.
I would fight back if I felt like I’m innocent….he is doing it his own way whether he s right or wrong🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔how did her story get started bro the media that the very same Nota is using🤔🤔🤔🤔
Nota if you’re reading this, please go to ENGINEER YOUR LIFE, lay your story there, he will take this seriously. Promise thinks it’s a joke neh? What is blah blah blah? What do you mean these chats are edited INSIDE WhatsApp? Treating him like a spouse and giggling? Nah man, you really disappointed with this interview.
Ayikhona!...The interviewer is biased! She doesn't wanna believe Nota! She's disappointed that she didn't get anything to accuse Nota for, even after reading messages. Her interview is already skewed. She plays dumb and ignorant! So sad!
To the danda head saying Nota is too much for the host. A truly intelligent person knows when to speak and when to listen. In an interview, it's about a balanced exchange of ideas, not a one-sided monologue. It's about collaboration, not domination. Intelligence isn’t about talking the most, it’s about listening thoughtfully and contributing meaningfully.
My assessment on this: She always wanted to use him for her music career pursuits but pretends to want a serious relationship to hide the shame of quid pro quo. Very manipulative.
There's no way you serious...
@@khulekaninyuswa721 noooo..theres noway u serious !!
@@khulekaninyuswa721 there are actually screenshots that are trending between her and Nota where she says she will agree to sleeping with Nota if he helps her music career...so basically she led him on
@@nyayomaholoseni7515Either you genuinely don't know how to read or just enjoy lying
@@nyayomaholoseni7515eix😂😂😂haiii
This interview needed a mature interviewer
This lady isn't doing justice to the authority, she plays a lot 🚮
She is trying to play it "safe" .. which is not really not working
@@Miss_Sir2 broadcasters are there to break news and push boundaries, playing it safe won't work in her field. She had every evidence to poke in Nota's phone but she chose to clown and waste our data. I just wish Nota can give a strong interviewer lady a seat down, because a man podcastor won't be palatable for feminist and woke soldiers
eish... facts. Nota is just dominating the talk.
@@sihlemabuyakhulu1439like he dominated that girl.
She failed dismally shem,
Imagine saying you don’t want Nota to skip then you proceed to read “blah blah blah” girl r you serious?!!
I'm so frustrated.
I was so shocked
@Fifi my point exactly! “Blah blah”What does she take her viewers for? Shame she ran to secure an interview with Nota but forgot to prepare🚮
Ke boregile gore!!! Ay 😢
Unyanyisa kabi loSisi
Nah this woman she didn't deserve this interview 🤦🏿♂️🤦🏿♂️🤦🏿♂️🤦🏿♂️
🤞🏾
Bra! I'm so mad!
By deserving this interview what do you mean isn't this her platform?
Yhoo bafwethu🤔 ..i thought im the only one with those sentiments
If a man can do 15years for r@p3 - if found guilty, fake accusers should also get an equal sentence. No one will ever play with such again
@@TheBlaccJew let me just say Happy Birthday my friend. There's still more to come. 🎉 🎉 🎉 🎉 🎉 🎉 🎉 🎉 🎉 🎉 🎉 🎉 🎉 🎉 🎉 🎉 🎉 🎉
Nota is giving his side of the story before y'all judge him. NOW: bring the girl to the very same podcast and let's give her a platform.
Interview on a podcast with an open criminal case?? She’s smarter than that😅 or at least I hope she is.
IQ level of Nota is too high for the host..Talking to Nota you must be book Smart
Nota needs book smart combined with street smart, he is an extra-ordinary kid who gets misunderstood most of the time by those that listen to already deciphered messages
@@Abisai9383dog ive been saying this about Nota, mjita is smart, very smart and his often misunderstood
Khuzeka... 😅
He was supposed to be smart enough to see the girl was setting an entrapment
perhaps not high enough to detect mentally and emotionally unstable humans
Nota is teaching her how to interview 😂
No he is not teaching her he is rather leading her on for his own narrative to come out in this interview the way he wants it...!
@@1015mytube LOL coping hard, but go off ' believe all women ' voestek
Wena Promise, you didn't trust Nota to read for himself, and yet you fail to read everything on those chats! Why????? Immediately that shows you came already having taken a side! Nooooo you're unfair
She didn't take sides per se but she doesn't want to be cancelled now she she's messing up the viewing experience.
@@mamajmas2508 she was terrible
Uyadika loSis. Sendimbonile
Yeeees! According to her, Nota is condemned BEFORE interview! She doesn't believe Nota! She already taken a side! Wow!
Very unfair. Notas interview on Gogo Skhotheni is spot on
Promise this is painful to watch. Go and do some homework, brush up your skills, read a book or two, better yet if intellectuals come to show, you’re allowed to excuse yourself and allow a guest presenter to do justice to the story.
Agreed, we may as well have just had Nota telling us his side of the story on his own because this was terrible. She didn't even take time to prepare for this interview.
That’s what she does with all interviews
I am frustrated😭😭😭
LA ku rojwene, the lady got pissed coz Nota got the kitty but didn't wanna commit or make her dreams come true. He smashed and ghosted so she evoked the rape card. Nota should've seen the red flags when she said her heart it tied to her kitty. Ubhayizile, didn't withdraw tactically
Promise... you need to do better. This is a serious case and yet you are giggling and invading Nota's DMs with another female who has nothing to do with this case.
Nota's life and reputation is on the line. This interview needs a more seasoned interviewer to do a deep dive and unpacking.
O rata taba tša batho her problem. Most of her interviews are more for than her then the viewers.
EXACTLY! Why did she even mention the other woman in Nota's phone who has got nothing to do with the case? Really?🤷♂✨
Like Owamie!! This interview is not for this girl
Nota, hai Sol and Mac G would have done a better interview, this lady 😢😢😢
Like how? Mac g was gonna lough the whole time😂
@@hopemoloko7069 akere Sol is also there mos.......
@@RefiloeSibilol both of them they going to lough which podcast or interview did they do without joking?
@@hopemoloko7069😂😂
@@hopemoloko7069 🤣🤣🤣🤣 no lies detect but this was annoying to watch would rather watch Mac G saying '" you lie " and " neh" than "blah blah blah "
For A smart guy like Nota he made a dumb move sleeping with an emotionally & mentally unstable woman … once you hear a woman speaking about trauma.. as a gent run !! .. because when it comes to sexual assault cases , a womans cry is heard the most whether she’s telling the truth or not… and the fact that even when a woman fabricates sexual harassment there is no consequence for it .. its totally not worth risking your life
Bro you can see those ladies in the face. If you saw 1 you saw all
FACT
Facts, this happens alot to gents its juts that Nota is famous
Yes but he is indicting himself by stating that he was aware of her being selective
Now the girl can win the case because when she said no she may have agreed but then realized she doesn’t want
I think you hit the nail on the head. A woman can show you flames my bruh. You'll find yourself in a situation you never imagined you'd ever find yourself. The first time I had to deal with the police for a domestic issue was because of a woman. I don't judge Nota, I also don't make the best judgements at times and then you find yourself in a world of trouble. I'm not perfect but I don't like someone who brings other dramas into my life.
When he said "being married keeps you away from such things" 🥺🥺
I felt that
I was touched.
And he is telling the truth... man dont understand that the right women has a way of pulling you towards the right direction.. barita was a good women
@@thulwanathabata3889 1 woman. WOMEN.
1 man. 2 MEN. 🤘
Ungalwi ke
@@SibusisoHlophe-dp5lq but you get my point.. thank you
This dude is going to represent himself in court😅👐
He has already been awarded a protection order against Itumeleng for harassment
I WAS THINKING THE SAME THING😃
Bathong Promise, you’re fighting to read the conversations but then you proceed to skip parts and say ‘blah blah blah’??? What was the need for you to read??? 😅
I was wondering the same thing. "You talk you talk you talk..."
Honestly why take the phone from Nota if she is not going to read the whole thing .The text messages between the two parties are crucial🤷🏼♀️
yoh its really fustrating ... she said she doesnt want Nota to skip parts in the messages,yet yena she does.
But remember, not every single detail in those texts will be relevant. Some things are just extra info which would make the podcast unnecessarily long. They only have so much time per episode. It makes sense to skip over those parts if they don't add extra context.
For example, she won't need to read out greetings or salutations and stuff like that.
😂😂
Promise you lack empathy. When Nota was narrating his divorce you just to smiled, be awkward & carried on and didn't say you are sorry or offer any words of comfort or encouragement .Yes, remain professional but remember that you are interviewing a human being. You lack emotional intelligence, you just fumble through the interview. Scrolling through and viewing another person's dm and asking him, that was so unapropriate! Please invest in your craft and learn more about conducting a professional interview.
Wee if u know nota and u watch nota interviews he is like this. And start a podcast do all those thing u have maintioned. U should not watch the the interview if u felt that way be kind
Nota tooking the lead on the interview lead to him giving more details.
Nota was reading perfectly and you took over so you can say bla bla bla? His reputation is on the line for heaven’s sake!!!
She's stupid
Nota is a public figure so he understands that the battle is not won in court but in the eyes of the people
Promise is cold. This is not her calling shem. She lacks emotional intellince
It’s so cringe actually 😂
@@queenmadonsela3079 True, sensitive topics are not for her, most times her comments are cringe worthy and she says everything she thinks. Reasoning capacity proves limited most times, she lacks depth.
No, it's not a matter of emotional intelligence. You expected her to vilify Nota and find something incriminating, meaning she did not do what would feed the narrative of women.
bruh
Yoh I feel sorry for promise 😂
Nota is a victim of modern day bitter women. Case closed.
Exactly
amen
Ok judge
True joda
@@Jokademiks a whole Nota?? You rate him high 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣.
I believe Nota didn't force himself. He may be whatever but not this.
Then you don't know Nota.
Nota is that you?😳
I am with you on that one. I am so glad he kept the whatsapp conversations, they prove that there is no case there.
@@anythinggoes3439 wena uyamazi yini?
@@terencedhlamini7682 yes
If you are a guy and being falsely accused you need to talk as much as you can. Remember what happened to Tall_Ass_MO? Keeping quiet is for perpetrators
Yep even if you prove your innocence they don't care
@@Mosciple Thats the scary part
Nota is too intelligent for the host or, she has allowed him to own the conversation, she is now being hosted by Nota...🙌🏾
Because she’s so slow
@@simphiwed.1706😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂Now she is being hosted by Nota on her own show 😂🌚
@@TiegoMoeng eeehh not me seeing another Tiego in the comments 😹😹😹😹😹
Nota has aways been a big talker, he over powers all his hosts😢
they cooking the host in the comments yerrr, they even asking for her education history 😂😂
Nota why did you give this interview to Promise?? She treated this like a trending topic, she didn't want to get to the truth. The texts on your phone needed to be analyzed. She didn't care to get to the bottom of this.
I agree, she didn't ask the right questions also, it is just premature at this point
Honestly, it's a time issue. She only has one hour - take a look at her other interviews; they're also rushed. They must be finished within the hour. The studio is running a tight ship. She needs to extend her time so we can get to the bottom of things 🤞
The fact that she posted this on a Monday and not the normal Wednesday. It’s giving 😢
@@ephraimmotho887 My other problem with her. This is a sensitive matter. You are interviewing an accused rapist. They are relaying the sexual encounter "I sucked her breast" n Promise is laughing. Why?? If Nota wants to laugh n make jokes about his experience thats okay, he's a guest sharing his truth, dealing with it the way he wants to but for an interviewer to be making silly remarks regarding sexual activity like what did she think they're gonna discuss? She also doesn't seem to understand grown ups can casually have sex without being in relationship/loving each other. She's a married woman with kids n she doesn't know what Plan B is? When she read the texts which were circulating all over social media, she wanted to skip them because in her mind everyone has already heard them. I know she didn't study journalism but you don't need to be a journalist to know how dumb that is. Has SABC news ever not shared a story just because NCA shared it first?It also shows she didn't care about getting to the truth, she just wanted the scoop. She couldn't even fake sympathy for both Nota and Itumeleng.
Precious,a man can even sleep nohlanya,as long as ivuliwe nje,akadingi nokuthi aze amthande umuntu. Lokhu kusho ukuthi indoda iyalala nomuntu engamthandi .
22:41
TMI yayx
Nota is right. I never understood this until my husband made me aware of it. As a woman, it is very important to set boundaries. And in this case, there were no boundaries, especially considering the fact that Nota was supposed to be her 'manager'.
Yikes*
She was flirting 😢why" she says I'm bathing "eish Itu messed-up not knowing Nota is too intelligent
lol the girl threw herself at Nota period . And the way she changes her voice when talking to him . She crossed the boundaries here
Dealing with " Nota"..you have to be super intelligent..Nota just took over the entire show, who is the guest here??
speaking over people = intelligence? 😅
Ja Nota is very smart
So true even the last one about his marriage he took over. With Nota you need to be highly intelligent and knowledgeable in terms of psychology. Itu also couldn’t handle Nota hence Nota played her unawares
What intelligence here? He just talk too much...how old is he? 15?
@@thobekiledlamini he is intelligent
I feel so bad for Itumeleng, she is going to be the next Lady Zama, she did say on the WhatsApp messages that people listen to Nota, and her story don't support her 😢
She lied, rest.
The proof is out there she gave her kuku away willingly let us speak the truth
B@@ketie_ were you there together with them?
😂😂People listen to what makes sense, so does the law.
I can’t believe im here because of DJ Sbu’s shout out. This girl is so dom 😭😭😂😂😂😂
Promise needs to wear a name badge... Last time, someone was referring to her as 'Prom' and today Nota keeps referring to her as 'Precious' 😭
I thought Prom was cute 😅
@@ckngivdtb37910 😂 think so too... Prom Prom❤❤
😂😂😂
Not a name badge😂😂😂😂
😂😂
NOTA telling his ex wife he still loves her sounded so sweet.. because of some of his personality funny things, we forget he is a human being. 😢
It's so unlike to be so sweet😊
Or he is just a nacarisst. Saying what she needs to hear to control the narrative and hold on to the relationship. Since, he did not want to divorce.
Do you believe that? Berita told you that guy is crazy and manaipulative
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Dating someone like Nota could be difficult though, he justifies himself a lot and is quite overpowering! He uses his intellect as weapon!
@@tshilidzinegota8917 I think that's why he loved strictly HER. She was his intellectual equivalent or his whisperer🤷🏽♀️
Nota treating the interview like examination in chief 😅
😂😂
The interviewer is doing everything possible not to side with Nota, so she doesn't get backlash from women.
Yet she’s still getting backlash, poor Promise 🥹
This host is exactly a great example of SAn women, they stumble on the truth when confronted with facts. He owned her on this pod and made her as a host look dumb because she clearly came in having picked a gender side than being neutral.
NOTA is dominant by nature though.He can talk yooh. If watch his previous podcasts here on TH-cam on Music, politics and his marriage he always runs the show acting smart.
@@Vernac2EnglishConfessions you clearly don't watch or listen to understand Nota, it's no doubt that he can articulate himself. My point here is, he answered every question fittingly as he was asked, and ended up schooling the host. Anyone can overtalk people and still not make sense, Nota clearly has been to court and knows how to articulate himself for follow up questions. And that's my point
Stop consuming redpill content. Promise cant publicly say nota didn't grape itu wena. She has a platform to uphold. The only thing she do is stay unbiased which she is.
@@nompumelolo you don't know where and when to apply the term red pill, you hear people talk about it and then wanna apply it to seem well researched. Nothing about my statement was red pill utterance. All I pointed out was in the beginning of the pod, she tried to question proof she was shown and eventually gave in as she saw Nota is being falsely accused and Nota had all the answers to her questions. Point is, women will drive a narrative of a man always guilty even confronted with facts. Nothing red pill about that.
@@nompumeloloRed pill? Dont embarass yourself here. You dont know what Redpill means
How did she think this was going to play out thou?! Itumeleng I am embarrassed for you girl!
Most of us are scared of saying anything bozothi we must be cancelled😭😭😭😭
Eish eish. I'm really mad at her for this. Not Nota, please. It's not a secret that he's vile and emotionally abusive. He says all the bad things about women. He literally bashed Berrita. But Itu had the NERVE to even kiss him????????? Now , she's depressed again.
Hayi guys not Nota. He's not a nice person at all!!
Because she thought she had the upper hand. These girlies always cry Grape and SA once things don't go to their way
@@its_itu_m2754 you first have to be relevant to be cancelled
@@anythinggoes3439you’re being Pathetic. Shame on you
COMPETITION IS TIGHT BTW MBORO, ENIGMA and NOTA ....ziyakhalaaa I'm dizzy oredy😂😂😂
It's all just one big ENIGMA! 🤣🤣🤣 ( I think I'm going to hell for laughing 😭)
@@ephraimmotho887 🤣🤣🤣🤣 LMAO hell is calling your name
😂😂😂😂😂they should let us rest mahnn
@@dikeledimmola3971 😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣
😅 Not my Goat in the same sentence as Mbhoro and Enigma.. 🙅🏿♂️
Why insist on reading if you won't read everything
And just rush through the texts yoooo
It also looks like she liked him more than he liked her. I could be wrong. He didn't seem responsive to a lot of her texts unless it was different when they met up or spoke on phone? She is also a woman, I guess she didn't know how to talk to him and see whether he was interested. I haven't finished the interview yet.
@@ckngivdtb37910 They didn't like each other. She was using him to futher her career n Nota just wanted sex/hanging out. At first Nota told her from the start but to get to the cookie he played her game. Her game was to flirt while seeking professional advice, while wanting a relationship yet being in a relationship with Tebogo. She thrives in this chaos. It allowed her to be a victim even though she's initiating sexual advances. Why Nota decided to fall for this is beyond me.
True, he seemed to view her as immature, emotionally unhinged, needy on top of not being over his ex wife
@ckngivdtb37910 she didn't like him. At all. Go read the conversations. At first, She even told him she makes her uncomfortable when he touches her wanting to kiss, even when she spoke about the boundaries. He then invited her to hang. So she thought he will continue to just "kiss" then a hit song will come out , she will run. Problem is that She just wanted fame , to make it in the music industry which Nota promised. So, she thought playing along was a good thing. Unfortunately, Nota moved too fast.
ITUMELENG doesn't know that Nota is a Nobody In the industry now. He fell off. Yes, he knows people but he won't help.
@@anythinggoes3439 Was about to like your comment except for 1 thing. Where in the texts did Nota promise her she'll make it in the music industry? All he did was agree to mentor n provide good advice on what to do to advance her career. Nota even told her there is no magic that'll make her a star, it's hard work, dedication, takent n a bit of luck. They both used each other yes but Nota never lied about what he's gonna do for her career.
@@ckngivdtb37910 They didn't like each other, they used each other different reasons only Nota was forthcoming about the nature of their relationship while Itumeleng pretended so she can play victim and initiate sexual advances all at once.
Itu did herself dirty by manipulating him
You mean by blackmailing him?
@refiloe.b yes.
She wanted Nota to elevate her music career
At least she got the fame she wanted, we all know her now and some will listen to her music... What if this was her plan from the beginning..🤔
I actually think the interviewer did a great job. You will never find this kind of interview/ engagement in traditional media. We are so used to interviewers who push narratives down our throuts that we don't want to think for ourselves. She pushed Nota and she was not just being pushed over. Thank you for a great and fair engagement.
I honestly agre..she alliwed us to make up our own mind
She was Keen 😂😂😂
I think she was hoping to change him and get him in a relationship
This is why MacG will always be way ahead of all these podcasters. This has been One of the most frustrating interviews to watch. Both of them were horrible.
The host still need to Polish her craft.
Have you guys watched Owamie as well? She asks almost all relevant questions.
You are doing well, Promise.Yes , there is always room for improvement. Look at how far you have come.I am proud of you♥.
Men should just stop trying to have sex when a woman is either unsure or says no to sex. On the other hand, I have learnt that visiting a guy's house, kissing him often leads to sex (consensual or not). As women we feel guilty and regret afterwards especially if the sex was unprotected. A man can choose to commit or run afterwards and you have to find a way to emotionally accept that. Itumeng should just do damage control like taking plan B (which she has taken), protect herself for any possible infection and just move on for the sake of her peace. You can tell she is regretting everything , she was hoping to win something out of the situationship either marriage or music career boost and she lost all. She should just count her losses and keep moving. Now its all messed because Nota now wants to make an example out her with the extortion charges😭
When the woman is unsure? What do you mean. Do you tell your man/woman that you are sure
@@Thatsong-fr9nq l do. If a woman says we are not going to sex at any point in your discussions to meet or when you meet, be careful, don’t insist. Wait to hear a clear approval from her before penetrating otherwise you will have a problem later.
Best way. She must agree by text. Even if you have to text her while you guys are in the same room
@@phillipkleopas7230 you are a smart guy. Keep it up.
@phillipkleopas7230 But consent can be revoked.
Thank you very much Promise fir giving Nota the platform to tell his side of the story. Now please bring the lady in question to tell her side of the story.
He is really hurting, he really loves his ex wife, still loves her😢
You don’t treat someone you love like he treated that woman
Nota was interviewing himself a majority of the interview
this lady is trying so hard to find fault with Nota and its so embarrassing. This is very sad and disappointing, she's literally reading messages and trying so hard to find anything to blame Nota on yoooh ay
But he is at fault. He raped
Promise my darling YOU FAILED. You took his phone and did the exact thing YOU accused him of
As a mother to a boy i don't want him to meet a lady like Itu
Guys are being framed for things they didn't do because a lady didn't get what she want.
Promise has already picked a side, Nota is just wasting his precious time.
Her interviewing skills lack decorum
You want promise to choose a side. Promise literally said she doesn't know what happened in their bedroom so she obviously cant defend itu nor nota. That's why promise said, "ne le bua monate what went wrong?". She can't say she believes either one of them
@@nompumelolo you replied because you just felt the need to.
She was biased, how's that not clear@nompumelolo
Hai Nota is trully one of a kind, kanjalo nje hommies already talkn about dis ish net sooo😂
He has to because if he stays silent he will end up like Tall.S.Mo
She stopped Nota from reading and said you going to skip stuff. She starts reading and skipped a lot. Liked how Nota made her feel stupid.
Casual hangouts is equivalent to ubhebha 😅
When you agree to be kissed... You are kinda setting yourself up for that
We've been saying to those who have male besties....🤣🤣🤣
Yessss
I know this is your podcast and you’re doing things your way. However as a listener and also invested in this story, it would’ve been nice if Nota had to relay the events as he remembers referencing the WhatsApp conversations rather than rereading them.
@27:00 I see Promise wanted to handle the interview differently however Nota seems to be more dominant in redirecting it his way.
She's too scared of women accusing her of giving a rape accused a platform. In that case, she should have avoided the interview altogether. Now she's severely restricting the guest.
This promise girl wasn't ready for this type of interview, maybe lungelo would've done much better
And this is how nota is, if u check all his interview
@@nhlakadlamini7181yazi uqinisile, Lungelo would have done a better job lana.
Who on earth hlena can flirt with des guy after embarrassing berita publicly
Akere we are like that? Mhmmm. We always think that they will be different with us.
someone took the phrase another man’s trash is another man’s gold way too serious
banana lerata dilo😮
Please ask again. Eish ITUMELENG really messed up. Her Desperation messed things up.
Awuu my thoughts exactly!!! Kanjani? Ay nathi guys
Someone who is desperate to get their music off the ground...someone willing to sleep her way to the top...someone who thinks they use Nota...
I don't understand this Nota guy but I don't believe this girl's story....Sorry ...
Let me unsubscribe cause what do u mean “we don’t have time” when Nota has to speak his truth
Imagine, 😮😅 Promise had picked a side and hence she was now saying there's no time, theres no such in Podcasting, she was supposed to use the time to pay attention to the facts tabled Yohhhhh 😂
Waste of an interview
Promise failed dismally 😒🚮
Promise, you really need to sort out the time issue. One hour is not enough for your podcast. You never seem to get the issues ventilated within 60 mins.
I swear! She better start paying for 2 hour slots cause in most cases, a lot of things are left hanging due to “time”
Nota is a big man for giving her his phone and letting her invade his privacy, clearly Nota has nothing to hide and big ups to Sis Precious for her emotional intelligence
Sis Precious 😂😂😂😂ok!
Promise how can you keep saying ur running out of time yet you're the one who called him....make part 2 like in any other podcasts bro
Vulnrable punani with dreams dangerous combo, Nota should have been more careful with these types and be more careful of what he says now.
😒Ag man, Nota's situation is sad.
Im sad because i judge him so much.. at some point i felt like he didn't even deserve berita.. but now i can tell he realy loved her
not nota using his failed marriage as an excuse. This guy is too smart, he knew what this girl wanted. she wanted an exchange.
No DNA just RSA... Mr Baloyi is still giving back to the community by availing himself to podcasts like this.
This sweet lady now has an opportunity to grow. If you want to do a podcast, you better be well aware of the country's trends.
Thanks Nota for being a true epitome of the concept of the Love Child!
Plus I believe there were phone calls that adds to the WhatsApp conversations, the gentleman is smart and is trying to play the story in his favor.
I can’t wait for her to tell her side is the story and we will all be shocked to find that she’s being pained RED.
loved this interview shem. I hope another podcast has itumeleng so we can see.
This is the year of couples and situationships exposing each other FOR FREE.
To us bao rata ditaba 💃🏾💃🏾
Yoooh! Conducting an actual live interview on such allegations is crazy!! I know we all want to make content but this is cringe and giving desperate for a story - yikes!!
I’m disgusted,especially from a woman🤮
Useless Itumeleng, had Nota not have the conversations he should be in jail
Lies have short legs, is always advisable to keep records to be one step ahead
No this girl is problematic!😢😮 she had all this figured out, shame Nota.
Since the 59 cent issue moghel has been on a mission 😂😂
Haii it looks like she wanted to be the new Berita in Nota's life
@dikeledimmola3971 She's mad tshhinni
Sila📍 from Owami's, madam speaker...following till we get the truth of the matter
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Honestly this girl was looking for a quick way up the ladder. Fact is certain girls, sleep with men for connections/ jobs, money etc. She's so desperate really, she has to understand, nothing in life comes easy. She is the one who has to be arrested.
That lady wanted to frame Nota. Case closed, Nota is too intelligent for such things.💯
My kitty cat and heart are connected 😢😢😢hayi Itumeleng Sisi i wanted this to work in ger favour so bad until that point 😢
That's the problem right there "you wanted this to work in her favor " if he didn't have the evidence you were going to believe everything she says without question
I just hope she won’t delete herself. Because it sounds like she’s too emotional and not really secure in herself. Like I get bipolar vibes. I hope she won’t go to the extreme.
Lol mara Nota this is not "To Hell and Back" mos, awukho right shame 🤞🤣
I'm thinking the same thing 😂
@@kgothatso_20 Nota ain't loyal, he belongs here 👉🗑️🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂 the brother has been to hell and back chaaaiii women 🤣
I totally agree @@senzelokuhlenkabini6004
I dont think it was wise to attend any podcast so soon its just my opinion
I was thinking that, too
But after listening to WhatsApp messages and voice notes, I think it's a good thing that he is speaking out
Initially, I thought Nota ripped her clothes off and forced herself on her
Little did I know it was a different kind of
“Rape”
Based on what I hear, the girl feels used
And I think the majority of females have gone through that, but the question is
Is being used equal to rape?
If that was the case 95% of man will be in prison
The same person who paid influencers to leak text messages??? Don't you see he wants people to attack Itu??? He's on a mission.
@@anythinggoes3439
What were you going to do if it was you being accused of rape and the chats have a grey area?
Itu opened a case
He is a public figure, the man is also looking out for his reputation as a public figure
@lovelyheart800 he's doing this because he knows he's guilty. He promises these ladies fame that he cannot give only to do this. There's no reputation he's trying to save. Otherwise he wouldn't be lying to them just to get sex. He raped. She said No! The shared chats show that. Ofcourse she wants fame too, but she said No to sex. Which is rape!
Nothing premature here...if they attack you my friend, you're well within your rights to defend yourself.. Im not saying she did this, but if women can weaponlse they're vulnerability,then defend yourself if you have built up influence and platform
I love it when NOTA calls Promise Precious 😂😂😂😂😂😂
I’m so sorry… She didn’t correct me!
@@lavidaNOTA In the grand scheme of everything it was immaterial. You're going through a lot bro, for years. You're due for something good!
She acts like a Precious anyway. 😂 @@lavidaNOTA
Nota is very clever ✊🏽✊🏽she took off her brazier 😹😹😹nota 😹😹open a case Brother for false accusation 🤧🤧🤧
So this promise girl took away Nota's phone to just disrespect the viewers like that??? What is bluh bluh bluh??
😅this lady is an air head. Nota was doing a better job reading those texts. Nota was literally interviewing herself
Bringing the kids to Nota's place? Aii ladies😖
"Precious" skipping voice notes even Nota is angry which is highly VALID!
Irresponsible…
@TheeMsutu i know! Just repeat what Nota was saying!
The only guy who rises up to Nota's frequency of intellect is Pen. Whatching those 2 is like witnessing live on stage thw great Ludwig Van Beethoven's 9th Symphony. So much the better if you are also inclined that way and you are fascinated and appreciate the public display of the dance of the intellect.
Anything short of that is midiocre for Nota.
Promise bring the lady to give her side.
Them NOTA shoes🤣🤔
😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Ke size mayibabo 😭😭😭
@@menniekumalo3276😂😂😂😂
Mlagalaga😂😂😂size.
Lol at the beginning of the episode that was all I saw, We seriously need to focus 🤣
Sounds like she was playing him , she wanted to hook him and be girlfriend to help with the music career 😢I want hear her side also though.
@Kccung yes. She wanted help with music. So Nota started to be all touchy. She played along to get that music up. But then unfortunately, Nota moved too fast. I don't think she had any interest. Just Desperation to be a music superstar. There's no sane girl who can fall for Nota currently. They just just want what he's offering. He's getting the attention because he's lying to them.
@@anythinggoes3439 Hey yes sounds like desperation and predators know I just feel she offered herself if those text are true it’s going to be a hard case for her shame very sad to get there .Not to be mean Nota has said he doesn’t like fat girls , she is a beautiful girls , I believe there was some leading on from both sides. Crying Grape is on Social Media is so wrong 😑 in my opinion she should have stuck to needing help for her music career.
Disclaimer, just because someone is casual with you does not mean they want to have sex with you.
But business talks in the bedroom? Women's kodwa 😂
True....
@Sbongakonke02 what if HE invited her/ tricked her to the bedroom ?.....Nota is a very intelligent man, the same man who harassed his EX when she left him.....CONNIVING is what comes to mind!!
@@Sbongakonke02what if he tricked her into the bedroom. This is the same guy who harassed his EX when she left.....CONNIVING!!!!
You can say that all you want but that's not how men view it, women should learn to set boundaries, learn formality and professionalism. What's it with telling men that you are pmsing and all?!
Nota saw that Promise wasn't going to be a great interviewer for his narrative and took it to himself.Which work for him as he gave more details than having to have answered question asked to him. Sprinkle Sprinkle😊
This is an open shut case because these chats indicate that she was very suggestive in this situation, making it very probable that she would be the one who would intiate anything that would have happened even off whatsapp, in my view there is no case here, though the text about her saying "no repeatedly" before the sex might be reason for a trial
The girl is lying and it is embarrassing 🙈. As a girl I wouldn’t put myself in a situation like this cause wow. Also I think nota is too articulate or intelligent for the hosts, she’s unable to really unpack the things as they are.
Nota you are funny bro, get a reality show once 😂
😂 agreed! He doesn't force it. His fun to listen yoo😂
@@xewanimakhubela9880 and he is intelligent
Hebann 😮 a podcast on this already...isn't this a bit premature 🧐???
There is nothing premature or mature, there are women raped in South Africa daily, Itumeleng is a fool we saw communication
Definitely, and seeing that she pressed charges, it's really not a good idea.
It is... It will end in tears
They are quick to get exclusives. Just coz his on a national tour talking about this, does not make him innocent 🙄🙄🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️
I would fight back if I felt like I’m innocent….he is doing it his own way whether he s right or wrong🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔how did her story get started bro the media that the very same Nota is using🤔🤔🤔🤔
Nota if you’re reading this, please go to ENGINEER YOUR LIFE, lay your story there, he will take this seriously.
Promise thinks it’s a joke neh? What is blah blah blah?
What do you mean these chats are edited INSIDE WhatsApp? Treating him like a spouse and giggling?
Nah man, you really disappointed with this interview.
@@Yeye__ 😅😅😅
Ayikhona!...The interviewer is biased! She doesn't wanna believe Nota! She's disappointed that she didn't get anything to accuse Nota for, even after reading messages. Her interview is already skewed. She plays dumb and ignorant! So sad!
To the danda head saying Nota is too much for the host. A truly intelligent person knows when to speak and when to listen. In an interview, it's about a balanced exchange of ideas, not a one-sided monologue. It's about collaboration, not domination. Intelligence isn’t about talking the most, it’s about listening thoughtfully and contributing meaningfully.
🙌🏾🙌🏾Indeed
Fully agree ...Nota had to tell his story ..she had to listen
Yo this Guy knows his story, he doesn’t even need lawyers to represent him he can represent himself. Kushubile sana😊
Mina, I caught him in a few lies.....kodwa ke!....even intelligent people need lawyers.