Zatoon Khan I think it’s sweet getting married young if you’re ready. Some people are mature at that age. Plus it’s more beautiful when you see a young mother
Yes your right about not telling anyone your problems... when I got married my husband said anything that happens between us we will sort it out ourselves. Alhumdolillah I've been married for 13years and not a single day have I discussed anything with my family members.
Getting married is a really serious thing, getting married to the wrong person is really dangerous, the pain is really serious, many people has made this dangerous decision and they have suffered the pain really bad, getting married to the wrong person is like offering yourself and life to be seriously damaged.
Yassss! You hit the nail on the head! Absolutely, above all, find someone who supports your mental, spiritual and physical wellbeing. Us women work so hard to be there for others that we cannot forget to put on our own "oxygen masks" in order to be the healthiest we can be. I commend you for learning this lesson early in life😊It took me well into my 30s to start "getting" this
Love your marriage advice! Love you sister. I can relate to your advice as I got married when I was 17 too and now I’m 20. Still studying in college too and have a daughter. It’s gets too much sometimes but Alhmdulliah!
Alhamdulillah you didn't uphold alot of responsibilities towards your husband. In our Pakistani culture most husbands expect alot from thier wives in terms of cooking and cleaning etc. Its very difficult working fulltime after marriage and coming home tired with the expectation to cook often and uphold conversations all the time whilst living with in laws. I don't mean to sound harsh to anyone, but I would not recommend to live with inlaws. It's better to keep privacy of personal issues in a home where no one can hear your confidential conversations. It will also give you the reminder to focus solely on the marriage and can be healthier for future children to live separate without a mother feeling judged upon her parenting skills. I think the main thing is you have to make sure you are happy and your mental health is in the right state. If you are being abused in any form or tried to solve something major which is not resolving it is best to speak to your family in that circumstance before it gets too late. There are so many things I can say the list is endless because there is so much to be learned.
Yeah, our generation doesn't tend to tolerate bs whereas back then it was more submissive. I had this conversation with my grandma and she bought into perspective that while it doesn't seem ideal to live with in laws, you gain lots of skills and know how to deal with different situations. You don't have to live long term, but yeah you always have a choice. One issue is that women tend to drive men away from their family, that's just a generalization and doesn't apply to everyone - you always get the good and bad..
My husband is Pakistani as well but he is not like that 😍 he is so understandable and he cook and clean as well❤️ I was able to study for 4 years and he was so helpful and supportive❤️
I agree with many of the points mentioned here but disagree on some points. I think one of the most important things to look for in a spouse is their relationship with Allah. A husband who supports you regardless of whether its opposing our religion isn't one to seek. I'm not saying this is what the sister is suggesting but didn't feel it was stressed enough. Surely we should seek a husband who will encourage us to become better servants of Allah. But sadly we are falling into this mentality that's spreading across all societies that we should be supported according to how we feel. Or we feel we need to fight this stereotype that non Muslims have of Muslim women. It doesn't matter if its right or wrong according to Islam. Secondly in Islam women are ordered to serve their husbands. Husbands have an important role such that their is a hadith 'Abū Hurayrah (raḍī Allāhu ʿʿʿanhu) reported that the Prophet (ṣallallāhu ʿalayhi wa-sallam) said, If I were to command anyone to prostrate to anyone, I would have commanded woman to prostrate to her husband' . Tirmidhī, Ḥasan Ṣaḥīḥ But the man also has a lot of responsibility and accountability as a result. He must also serve the family. And he will be answerable for his family in the hereafter. Seek the one who cares about your hereafter as he/ she is the one who truly loves you.
Mashallah, it's lovely to hear such positive thoughts on married life as recently I feel everyone is complaining about their spouses. May Allah protect your marriage and may He grant and make us all understanding and loving spouses with happy, healthy marriages ♥️
I remember you from university, I think we were in the same tutor group. I never got to see you a lot but I think you were genuinely a nice person. I love your videos. I feel like I can resonate with a lot of things that you talk about.
I think sharing housework equally is a good thing when both husband and wife works, but what about when the woman is a housewife, isn't it her job keeping house clean and cooking dinner if husband provides for her and works all day? I think this is where all asian and arab "women's place in kitchen" mentality comes from. Obviously I dont agree when inlaws push themselves in or use wife as slave and make her cook for everyone..but when hubby is out wife at home I think it is equally shared if wife does the jobs of the house.
Good for her that things worked out But I definitely wouldn’t encourage getting married so young as at 17 you are still developing as a person and you still need to learn and grow and develop as a person before you can dedicate yourself to a marriage truly
Nadira Farhan everyone is different people lead a different path. I know a lot of 16-20 yr olds that are maturer than women that are in their twenties. Yh guess it’s the qadr of Allah.
Sabrina Samples Yes everyone is different and I agree with that point. But my belief system is that we need to encourage the young generation of women from our culture and religion that the only goal shouldn’t be to marry. I want my daughter to experience life be that through education or work , live life for herself for a while and enjoy exploring life and becoming a better person , Because once you have children a decent mother puts her Childrens needs first. I do not know this lady who runs this you tube channel so if she is happy at her age to childcare and do chores then as I said good for her. Personally I would like my daughter at age doing more then chores etc There is a time and place for every stage of life and I think to lead a fulfilled life you need to experience every facet as much as you can. I married young my self so I am speaking from my view point. And not to cause offence but I do find it difficult to understand when someone at 17 says they knew ‘ he or she was the one’ At that age what exactly are you basing you judgement on ? At the age you have hardly and life experience to make that judgement, even legally in this county at 17 you are not even considered a adult. But I respect that fact that we all hold different opinions, I was just expressing mine.
I dont think i knew who I was at 17. I was a lost soul lol. So i dont think everyone knows who they are, that was a big generalisation and for me marrying before I had any idea about what I wanted in life any relationship would have failed...
I would have prefured it if u answered all the question that u read out, it's a Q&A so the whole point is to answer and finish the question n not link below, I watch ur videos wen I'm free n dnt always have time to watch them all as I have 3 kids, it's jst inconvenient
I noticed this too in the beginning, it weren't so much previously answered questions. But saying there will be another video. Just don't read it out at all...
Noreen Yasin I do understand, it’s not at all about the views. Imagine answering something so many times in separate videos, and then answering it again in each Q&A video. It gets repetitive for me. Hope you understand💗
The video alone is 20+ min, if she would answer every question, it probably would be way longer. It makes sense to then split the questions in categories and answer in separate videos. Be patient y’all, she’s not a machine and she will deliver those videos when she’s ready.
Mashallah you are so right abt your mental health... you're very lucky to have such a supportive and understanding husband! May Allah bless your marriage, stay happy always ❤😍
Its great that your hubby is so supportive, but isn't it islamically prohibited to go for holiday alone? I know we live in west and not everyone keeps everything in the religion ,I'm just wandering, but would like a discussion with watchers about it.
@@Asskarri123 That is what I thought, but in the same time what if woman needs to see her family in another country and husband needs to work cant buy a ticket way and back x2? That is my situation.But I think travelling on a girlz holiday where you will be without any family is very western style .
Could you do a skin-care routine video? 😍 If you already uploaded one, I would be thankful if you could put the link down below. 🙈 Greetings from Germany
New subscriber here!! Only recently discovered your channel & obsessed!! Binge watched soo many vids. I feel like i can really relate to you as I also married young..i was 17 and I am 26 now with 2 kids alhamdulillah been married 9 years💜x
Loved this video, you made some really good points, I see a younger me in you. I'm 30 and got married at 17 too and from what you said our thoughts seem quite similar. Love and duas always 💓 XX
a lot of the questions could have been answered rather than saying "i'll cover in another vid" or "i'll link the answer below". I understand you want to get more views on other videos but it's a little annoying that we have to jump from place to place just because we want to get to know you. It would have been more personal if you just answered/ re-answered quickly rather than sending us on a chase. I hope this isn't taken in a negative way, I do think your a great role model!
Scarlett O'Shara I do understand, it’s not at all about the views. Imagine answering something so many times in separate videos, and then answering it again in each Q&A video. It gets repetitive for me. Hope you understand💗
Diary of a Roguish Muslimah wow! Thank you for sharing your story. Can I ask, why did you end up getting divorce at 18? That’s only 2 years of marriage.
@@takemypainaway9517 unfortunately things just didn't work out, we were facing too many misunderstandings ect and I just couldn't handle it anymore and being the age that I was didn't help in my favor as well..
Hey sis... are you going to do a video on feeding baby liyana, because I’m soon to be starting on solids for my lil one inshallah could do with some tips xx love ur vids x 😘
First time the first one🥰 i really look at your videos and get inspired expecially the cleaning ones i always get to cleaning after watching your videos. Good work❤️❤️ . Mashaa Allah keep it up😍
Don't knock ppl who went uni down just cuz u didnt go to university at the end of the day if u n a person who went uni worked same job guess whos getting promoted? Not u obviously.
marwa al Get your facts straight, I did go to Uni. Nobody’s hating on people that went to uni. I’d be hating on myself then. It’s not for everyone. Fact. Again, get your facts straight before typing nonsense. 😊
@@ZeinahNur so what's wrong with working a job thats nt related to the course u did at university ? Don't u realise we r still suffering from an economic crisis? Majority of ppl struggle to find jobs full stop. Facts. Lol.
Salam Alikum please can you upload a video on how you were able to convince your parents on getting married young... Cuz in that situation... Jazakhumullah khair
I do not enjoy your content as much any more because of the ads. Is it really necessary to have a advert every 2.5mins. 8 ads in a 21mins vid 🤔 unsubscribe.
Sunshine E ummm hello this is TH-cam she’s a TH-camr ad’s means her channel is growing and this is a job...also she’s working hard putting these videos up. Bout “unsubscribe” like your making a dent 😂
So if the guy doesn't cook and the woman feels it's not her responsibility. What then lol. The reason I'm asking is I know someone who thinks she shouldn't do anything house related. But keeps quiet when her mother in law cooks and cleans up after her. And btw it's not like they're loaded to afford a maid. Eeek!
I don't know but in this day and age I feel like there are some women who use islam in their favour to do near to nothing, a man has to provide all the essentials and islamically a woman doesn't have to lift a finger. I think if a man and woman have love and respect for one another they should understand within their capabilities who should take what responsibilities that fit within their lifestyle, because every couples lifestyle is different.
@@12tahminas I agree with the second half of your comment but I also disagree with the first point. Hopefully you don't mind me offering my opinion because I assume this wasn't in response to me but the original comment. I think it's actually the opposite. I find especially being South Asian that men use Islam and culture to justify not doing anything to help with the children, chores, cooking because they work even when the mother is also working. I think it's a little unfair to say women are trying to get away with not doing anything when men have been doing that for years. Hope you don't see this as a negative response but rather just a different perspective? :)
Kamilah Ahmed to be honest , both men and women use and abuse their rights in islam & cherry pick things that suit their nafs thats 1. 2, it really comes down to the person , ive heard of many girls who have struggles like their man not being helpful enough or asking her to work and contribute the list goes on. both men and women in todays time are lazy and too opinionated to lift a finger. Men would be working and use that to just abuse his wife , women would act like their daddies little princess who cant grow a pair and do what shes got to do. Im heavily pregnant i have 5 weeks till birth & i have an 11 month old , if it wasnt for my husband id be suicidal alhamdulilah he knows how to help snd not expect his the one begging me to put shit down and not do housework if im tired or in pain. it all depends on the person, im my mothers daughter but she had it very different, having to raise me and my brother on her own because my dad worked so hard never being their to help or even be there for our important events.. so when she heard of me being pregnant so soon after my daughter she was terrified as shes so scard from her own experience of raising two youngsters alone. Ive seen both sides of the situation where a man abused and where a woman abused its both bad..
T S I agree. I mean if both husband and wife are working then both should help out with chores. If the man's working and paying the bills whilst the woman's at home it would be nice of the woman took care of the house. I speak for myself first. If I was in a position where my husband was working and I'm at home then I would clean and do some chores. Reciprocate.
I got married when i was 17 my older son is 25 now I'm 48 young mum still
Zatoon Khan I think it’s sweet getting married young if you’re ready. Some people are mature at that age. Plus it’s more beautiful when you see a young mother
My mum turned 50 this year and I'm the eldest (33)
Same as my mom she got married at 16 had her first child at 17 and now he is 23 and she is 40
That’s sweet, my mom turned 49 and I am 29. She had me young.
Yes your right about not telling anyone your problems... when I got married my husband said anything that happens between us we will sort it out ourselves. Alhumdolillah I've been married for 13years and not a single day have I discussed anything with my family members.
Getting married is a really serious thing, getting married to the wrong person is really dangerous, the pain is really serious, many people has made this dangerous decision and they have suffered the pain really bad, getting married to the wrong person is like offering yourself and life to be seriously damaged.
I’m 17 right now and I can’t imagine getting married right now. Maybe in 2-4 years would be perfect but everyone’s different
Yassss! You hit the nail on the head! Absolutely, above all, find someone who supports your mental, spiritual and physical wellbeing. Us women work so hard to be there for others that we cannot forget to put on our own "oxygen masks" in order to be the healthiest we can be. I commend you for learning this lesson early in life😊It took me well into my 30s to start "getting" this
I got married when I was 17 year old look now my son he is now 14 year old boy I have 4 children now I am 33 year old I am happy with my marriage
Love your marriage advice!
Love you sister. I can relate to your advice as I got married when I was 17 too and now I’m 20. Still studying in college too and have a daughter. It’s gets too much sometimes but Alhmdulliah!
May Allah help you and give your righteous surroundings and children🙏
This is random, you look so much like Meghan Markle
She doesssss
This is actually now I am realizing it
She looks better than Megan Markle
Absolutely much more prettier than Megan M.
I think she looks like Adrianne Bailon from Cheetah girls.
Alhamdulillah you didn't uphold alot of responsibilities towards your husband. In our Pakistani culture most husbands expect alot from thier wives in terms of cooking and cleaning etc. Its very difficult working fulltime after marriage and coming home tired with the expectation to cook often and uphold conversations all the time whilst living with in laws. I don't mean to sound harsh to anyone, but I would not recommend to live with inlaws. It's better to keep privacy of personal issues in a home where no one can hear your confidential conversations. It will also give you the reminder to focus solely on the marriage and can be healthier for future children to live separate without a mother feeling judged upon her parenting skills. I think the main thing is you have to make sure you are happy and your mental health is in the right state. If you are being abused in any form or tried to solve something major which is not resolving it is best to speak to your family in that circumstance before it gets too late. There are so many things I can say the list is endless because there is so much to be learned.
So sad for the women especially id the men never cooks and cleans and makes the women do it and don't help like some men do.
Yeah, our generation doesn't tend to tolerate bs whereas back then it was more submissive. I had this conversation with my grandma and she bought into perspective that while it doesn't seem ideal to live with in laws, you gain lots of skills and know how to deal with different situations. You don't have to live long term, but yeah you always have a choice. One issue is that women tend to drive men away from their family, that's just a generalization and doesn't apply to everyone - you always get the good and bad..
Insha i love my mother inlaw id be dying to live with her , lmao if it was her only yes.
Er exactly, you can't just write 'living with your in laws' off. People need to start seeing the good in people and the benefits that comes with it.
My husband is Pakistani as well but he is not like that 😍 he is so understandable and he cook and clean as well❤️ I was able to study for 4 years and he was so helpful and supportive❤️
I agree with many of the points mentioned here but disagree on some points. I think one of the most important things to look for in a spouse is their relationship with Allah. A husband who supports you regardless of whether its opposing our religion isn't one to seek. I'm not saying this is what the sister is suggesting but didn't feel it was stressed enough.
Surely we should seek a husband who will encourage us to become better servants of Allah. But sadly we are falling into this mentality that's spreading across all societies that we should be supported according to how we feel. Or we feel we need to fight this stereotype that non Muslims have of Muslim women. It doesn't matter if its right or wrong according to Islam.
Secondly in Islam women are ordered to serve their husbands. Husbands have an important role such that their is a hadith
'Abū Hurayrah (raḍī Allāhu ʿʿʿanhu) reported that the Prophet (ṣallallāhu ʿalayhi wa-sallam) said, If I were to command anyone to prostrate to anyone, I would have commanded woman to prostrate to her husband' .
Tirmidhī, Ḥasan Ṣaḥīḥ
But the man also has a lot of responsibility and accountability as a result. He must also serve the family. And he will be answerable for his family in the hereafter. Seek the one who cares about your hereafter as he/ she is the one who truly loves you.
lol
Mashallah, it's lovely to hear such positive thoughts on married life as recently I feel everyone is complaining about their spouses. May Allah protect your marriage and may He grant and make us all understanding and loving spouses with happy, healthy marriages ♥️
This has aged badly
I remember you from university, I think we were in the same tutor group. I never got to see you a lot but I think you were genuinely a nice person. I love your videos. I feel like I can resonate with a lot of things that you talk about.
Your advice at around 7:00 minutes! Absolutely agree 💯.
Anam Shah ikr...wish somebody told me this b4
Spot on with the marriage advice about not talking to people about it👏👏👏
Brit Desi I’m not married but I know that is the best advice you can get!!!
Thats what saves my marriage from divorce i married at 16 n im 30 now with 6 kids
I think sharing housework equally is a good thing when both husband and wife works, but what about when the woman is a housewife, isn't it her job keeping house clean and cooking dinner if husband provides for her and works all day? I think this is where all asian and arab "women's place in kitchen" mentality comes from. Obviously I dont agree when inlaws push themselves in or use wife as slave and make her cook for everyone..but when hubby is out wife at home I think it is equally shared if wife does the jobs of the house.
Good for her that things worked out
But I definitely wouldn’t encourage getting married so young as at 17 you are still developing as a person and you still need to learn and grow and develop as a person before you can dedicate yourself to a marriage truly
Nadira Farhan everyone is different people lead a different path. I know a lot of 16-20 yr olds that are maturer than women that are in their twenties. Yh guess it’s the qadr of Allah.
Sabrina Samples
Yes everyone is different and I agree with that point.
But my belief system is that we need to encourage the young generation of women from our culture and religion that the only goal shouldn’t be to marry.
I want my daughter to experience life be that through education or work , live life for herself for a while and enjoy exploring life and becoming a better person ,
Because once you have children a decent mother puts her Childrens needs first.
I do not know this lady who runs this you tube channel so if she is happy at her age to childcare and do chores then as I said good for her.
Personally I would like my daughter at age doing more then chores etc
There is a time and place for every stage of life and I think to lead a fulfilled life you need to experience every facet as much as you can.
I married young my self so I am speaking from my view point.
And not to cause offence but I do find it difficult to understand when someone at 17 says they knew ‘ he or she was the one’
At that age what exactly are you basing you judgement on ? At the age you have hardly and life experience to make that judgement, even legally in this county at 17 you are not even considered a adult.
But I respect that fact that we all hold different opinions, I was just expressing mine.
I dont think i knew who I was at 17. I was a lost soul lol. So i dont think everyone knows who they are, that was a big generalisation and for me marrying before I had any idea about what I wanted in life any relationship would have failed...
Your skin is glowing! And I love these types of videos bc your life experience is valuable knowledge. Keep up the good work. 💕💕💕
I would have prefured it if u answered all the question that u read out, it's a Q&A so the whole point is to answer and finish the question n not link below, I watch ur videos wen I'm free n dnt always have time to watch them all as I have 3 kids, it's jst inconvenient
Noreen Yasin she’s trying to get more views
I noticed this too in the beginning, it weren't so much previously answered questions. But saying there will be another video. Just don't read it out at all...
I see your point but please appreciate that she takes time to make these videos, and it is her source of income.
Noreen Yasin I do understand, it’s not at all about the views. Imagine answering something so many times in separate videos, and then answering it again in each Q&A video. It gets repetitive for me. Hope you understand💗
The video alone is 20+ min, if she would answer every question, it probably would be way longer. It makes sense to then split the questions in categories and answer in separate videos. Be patient y’all, she’s not a machine and she will deliver those videos when she’s ready.
Yes advice for newly weds !!
aliyah rose I’ll be filming one for sure then!💕💕
yes please make an advice video for newlyweds!
I got married at 22, I am now 24 ❤️
Mashallah you are so right abt your mental health... you're very lucky to have such a supportive and understanding husband! May Allah bless your marriage, stay happy always ❤😍
Yes she is lucky with good husband not every one blessed with at least normal husband and life.
Completely agree about university. Left for the same reason as I didn’t need a degree in what I wanted to do! Your practical MashAllah
Its great that your hubby is so supportive, but isn't it islamically prohibited to go for holiday alone? I know we live in west and not everyone keeps everything in the religion ,I'm just wandering, but would like a discussion with watchers about it.
Yes it is. Women can't travel abroad without a mahram.
@@Asskarri123 That is what I thought, but in the same time what if woman needs to see her family in another country and husband needs to work cant buy a ticket way and back x2? That is my situation.But I think travelling on a girlz holiday where you will be without any family is very western style .
I can listen to her all day long ❤ such an inspiration ❤ may Allah protect your family ❤❤❤👏
Could you do a skin-care routine video? 😍
If you already uploaded one, I would be thankful if you could put the link down below. 🙈
Greetings from Germany
NEVER EVER LIVE WITH IN-LAWS OR HAVE TO MUCH CONTACT WITH THEM. ITS THE BIGGEST CAUSE ID DIVORCE WHEN PROBLEMS START WITH IN-LAWS.
Ofcuz, I made it to the end
You have no idea, how much I enjoy your videos.❤
New subscriber here!! Only recently discovered your channel & obsessed!! Binge watched soo many vids. I feel like i can really relate to you as I also married young..i was 17 and I am 26 now with 2 kids alhamdulillah been married 9 years💜x
Loved this video, you made some really good points, I see a younger me in you. I'm 30 and got married at 17 too and from what you said our thoughts seem quite similar. Love and duas always 💓 XX
I loooove your channel!! :)
Everybody have a blessed day :)
Masha Allah its amazing that you understand each other, I myself get married at 19 and it didn't stop me from doing anything.
I got married at 16 alhumdulila it has its difficulties bt I'm making it now I'm 19 with a 2 year old and another on the way.
Backward third world country cow
Every time you answer a juicy question you always say you’re gonna make another video on it just expanddd 😒😂😂
Muslimah Khathun she’s a busy MOM have u seen in her videos how busy she is ?? 🤬
Alsalamu Alakuim Allah bless and protect you all Ameen. Love you dear. 😘😘
Great video 😊 please do a video about somali culture and the positives and negatives about it as I'm getting to know someone somali. Jazakallah
a lot of the questions could have been answered rather than saying "i'll cover in another vid" or "i'll link the answer below". I understand you want to get more views on other videos but it's a little annoying that we have to jump from place to place just because we want to get to know you. It would have been more personal if you just answered/ re-answered quickly rather than sending us on a chase. I hope this isn't taken in a negative way, I do think your a great role model!
Scarlett O'Shara I do understand, it’s not at all about the views. Imagine answering something so many times in separate videos, and then answering it again in each Q&A video. It gets repetitive for me. Hope you understand💗
I got married at 16, divorced at 18 and left school in the 10th grade 😅🙈
Haha, I hope you’re happy anyway.😘
@@ZeinahNur Alhumdullilah I am 😄.
I remarried when I was 20, I'm 23 now and have two little baby boys.
Allahs plans are the best of plans❤️.
Diary of a Roguish Muslimah wow! Thank you for sharing your story. Can I ask, why did you end up getting divorce at 18? That’s only 2 years of marriage.
@@takemypainaway9517 unfortunately things just didn't work out, we were facing too many misunderstandings ect and I just couldn't handle it anymore and being the age that I was didn't help in my favor as well..
Diary of a Roguish Muslimah sis I’m going through the same thing now. Is there any way we can contact each other please? To talk? Email?
Hey sis... are you going to do a video on feeding baby liyana, because I’m soon to be starting on solids for my lil one inshallah could do with some tips xx love ur vids x 😘
I fell in lov with this Q&A indeed thanks for the advise my dear watched really late but iam enjoying wat iam watching
Great suggestions! Very true and honest advice!
Advice for newly weds video plz
Masha’Allah looking gorgeous as always abaayo ❤️ loved the video
First time the first one🥰 i really look at your videos and get inspired expecially the cleaning ones i always get to cleaning after watching your videos. Good work❤️❤️ . Mashaa Allah keep it up😍
Sayrah Adams aww, that’s so kind of you to say. Thank you!😘💕
I got married at 14 and was not my choice and I never quite nofing .
Don't knock ppl who went uni down just cuz u didnt go to university at the end of the day if u n a person who went uni worked same job guess whos getting promoted? Not u obviously.
marwa al Get your facts straight, I did go to Uni. Nobody’s hating on people that went to uni. I’d be hating on myself then. It’s not for everyone. Fact. Again, get your facts straight before typing nonsense. 😊
@@ZeinahNur so what's wrong with working a job thats nt related to the course u did at university ? Don't u realise we r still suffering from an economic crisis? Majority of ppl struggle to find jobs full stop. Facts. Lol.
marwa al you just misunderstood everything she said lol but ok sis go off
❤please make the Advice to Newly weds video !!xx
Thank you for the badge of honor. I loved this video just like I loved every video of yours
Love the video especially the advice on newly weds. That's what i tell everyone who asks me for an advice on marriage.
Please make a whole video dedicated to answering questions regarding marriage. By the way, the blue hijab suits you much love💕
I have recently started to watch you and love your videos! how did you get your make up to look dewy?
Advice to newly weds please 👍🏼
It was easy and enjoyable to watch you till the end as you were engaging and thought provoking.... 😉
Mashallah such a lovely person. Thoroughly enjoy your vlog. Was very informative.🤗
Omg yaaaas, can't wait for this! I love you so much Mashallah Allahuma Barik 💗💗
LazyInfantry yaaass, hope you enjoy it hun💕💕
Your so gorgeous😍❤️
You got married young. In the pakistani culture a lot of women get married young. I have pakistani and Indian and all but one are not married.
Is her husband pakistani@MsAfricanbeauty100
Why so many ads. Makes it really hard to watch
Maybe related to the country that you’re watching from bc I didn’t have any
You skin is glowing what do you use and do?
Salam Alikum please can you upload a video on how you were able to convince your parents on getting married young... Cuz in that situation... Jazakhumullah khair
Please do a video on advice to newly weds.
Ur skin looks absolutely amazing mashallah!
Love the Advice it’s so true ❤️❤️❤️
I do not enjoy your content as much any more because of the ads. Is it really necessary to have a advert every 2.5mins. 8 ads in a 21mins vid 🤔 unsubscribe.
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So if the guy doesn't cook and the woman feels it's not her responsibility. What then lol. The reason I'm asking is I know someone who thinks she shouldn't do anything house related. But keeps quiet when her mother in law cooks and cleans up after her. And btw it's not like they're loaded to afford a maid. Eeek!
Well then a compromise has to happen between husband and wife. Not just the wife. It shouldn't be blamed or put on her
I don't know but in this day and age I feel like there are some women who use islam in their favour to do near to nothing, a man has to provide all the essentials and islamically a woman doesn't have to lift a finger. I think if a man and woman have love and respect for one another they should understand within their capabilities who should take what responsibilities that fit within their lifestyle, because every couples lifestyle is different.
@@12tahminas I agree with the second half of your comment but I also disagree with the first point. Hopefully you don't mind me offering my opinion because I assume this wasn't in response to me but the original comment. I think it's actually the opposite. I find especially being South Asian that men use Islam and culture to justify not doing anything to help with the children, chores, cooking because they work even when the mother is also working. I think it's a little unfair to say women are trying to get away with not doing anything when men have been doing that for years. Hope you don't see this as a negative response but rather just a different perspective? :)
Kamilah Ahmed to be honest , both men and women use and abuse their rights in islam & cherry pick things that suit their nafs thats 1. 2, it really comes down to the person , ive heard of many girls who have struggles like their man not being helpful enough or asking her to work and contribute the list goes on.
both men and women in todays time are lazy and too opinionated to lift a finger. Men would be working and use that to just abuse his wife , women would act like their daddies little princess who cant grow a pair and do what shes got to do.
Im heavily pregnant i have 5 weeks till birth & i have an 11 month old , if it wasnt for my husband id be suicidal alhamdulilah he knows how to help snd not expect his the one begging me to put shit down and not do housework if im tired or in pain.
it all depends on the person, im my mothers daughter but she had it very different, having to raise me and my brother on her own because my dad worked so hard never being their to help or even be there for our important events..
so when she heard of me being pregnant so soon after my daughter she was terrified as shes so scard from her own experience of raising two youngsters alone.
Ive seen both sides of the situation where a man abused and where a woman abused its both bad..
T S I agree. I mean if both husband and wife are working then both should help out with chores. If the man's working and paying the bills whilst the woman's at home it would be nice of the woman took care of the house. I speak for myself first. If I was in a position where my husband was working and I'm at home then I would clean and do some chores. Reciprocate.
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