I Got Married At 17, Living With In- Laws, Arranged or Love Marriage? HONEST Q & A | Zeinah Nur

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  • @banandababa
    @banandababa 5 ปีที่แล้ว +842

    You are extremely mature for your age. I would never ever ever have guessed you were 24. I thought you were 29! Not that you look old, just mature personality

    • @ghurabaa114xx
      @ghurabaa114xx 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      same! I thought she was older than me for sure, same reason

    • @ZeinahNur
      @ZeinahNur  5 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Aw, thank you! X

    • @sidrahkhan9197
      @sidrahkhan9197 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Sameee! You seem to really have your life together. Always assumed you were 28/29 because you seem lile such a calm mum lol. I've just had my first baby at 29 and I don't know what I am doing lol.

    • @yasminfarah9140
      @yasminfarah9140 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Maays Alhamdulilah we somali girls get mature quickly Alhamdulilah it’s a gift from Allah the almighty

    • @coveredinfabric
      @coveredinfabric 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sidrah Khan my child’s almost 4 and I still don’t know either 😂

  • @heatherbrown3812
    @heatherbrown3812 4 ปีที่แล้ว +206

    I met my husband when I was 18 we married when I was 20. We have been happily married for now 30 years. Love knows love.

    • @nellycious1692
      @nellycious1692 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Heather Brown wowwww! I love young marriages. I hope my daughter follows this footsteps. A lot of people they are learning about themselves....issues is there are thirty something year olds who are still learning about themselves and still getting it wrong all the time. I wish I had good people who advised me earlier...but God's time is the best.

    • @rukhsarnasirr
      @rukhsarnasirr 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Alhamdullilah live happy forever

    • @RosemaryTurner2002
      @RosemaryTurner2002 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      nnenna uzoho
      Why would you be so desperate for your daughter to get married at a young age? You don’t need to get married to live a happy life. Marriage is *EXPENSIVE* too, you want her to be in massive debt and get depressed because of it? Shouldn’t you as a parent be helping her to find her talent/learn new skills and encouraging her to pursue higher education that will open doors?
      I’m turning 18 in May; I can’t imagine myself getting married at all let alone at this young age.
      And whether those ‘thirty something year olds’ get married or not, it’s non of your business. Why are you so critical? Self love and finding your purpose in life is way more important than conforming to society’s expectations and norms of getting married, this is particularly aimed at the Muslim community. They hate the idea of dating and see it ‘sinful’ even when ones is practicing abstinence, but expect young Muslims to jump into marriage with a literal stranger and have kids...

    • @manisyaya3199
      @manisyaya3199 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@RosemaryTurner2002 By your response I can clearly see you still aren't mature enough. Maybe that's why you can't imagine getting married rn. Not every teen thinks like you and there is nothing wrong with young marriages. Getting married doesn't mean your life has stopped lol. I wouldn't say rush it but if a young couple love each other and have the resources...why not? Also yes I'm a young muslim female. Marriage isn't supposed to be forced also dating isn't sinful. It depends on how tho. Like the western idea of dating boyfriend girlfriend is wrong because intimacy before marriage isnt allowed. We see this in Christianity as well. For me personally it didn't work that way and i am no longer with my fiance lol. I do feel less of a Muslim sometimes and I don't tell many Muslims for the fear of them judging me. But tbh its btw me and God. But in general I feel like folks act like young marriages destroys lives...it really doesn't. Just depends if the two getting married are mature enough and have the resources to do it.

    • @virginierougeot1684
      @virginierougeot1684 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@RosemaryTurner2002 I support your opinion. I too will turn 18 in may and I am not at all concern with marriage. My parents always taught me to be independent, have a good job before deciding whether or not we want to get married. If some people don't think their child can do things without having the support of a husband or fiance then that's their problem.

  • @afosylla3624
    @afosylla3624 4 ปีที่แล้ว +194

    I’m 17 and married and I have one baby boy and no it wasn’t a arranged marriage we didn’t want to do anything Haram so we just got married and I’m very happy❤️❤️

    • @madlenox
      @madlenox 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      At that age it is better to find strength to stop your desires than to get married to do things..

    • @marwalababidi7958
      @marwalababidi7958 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      mashaAllah ❤️❤️❤️

    • @afosylla3624
      @afosylla3624 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Marwa Lababidi ❤️❤️

    • @carljones7466
      @carljones7466 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Happy as a Muslim wife that's a new one

    • @afosylla3624
      @afosylla3624 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Carl Jones yes we both are young he is 19 and am 17 so we understand each

  • @laylamise1147
    @laylamise1147 5 ปีที่แล้ว +909

    We need a story time on how you got married

    • @meriem1282
      @meriem1282 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Layla Mise yep

    • @ZeinahNur
      @ZeinahNur  5 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      Layla Mise I’ll add it on my list.💕

    • @lipsylife1.
      @lipsylife1. 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      defo i would luv to know

    • @muslimkween4663
      @muslimkween4663 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Layla Mise yessss ❤️

    • @unknwnRG
      @unknwnRG 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      yess

  • @user-bv7ow5md9k
    @user-bv7ow5md9k 4 ปีที่แล้ว +408

    17 is way too young for me personally. I’m 20 and I’m still learning things about myself and growing as a person. I want to be happy being by myself before I depend on someone for happiness and fulfilment. Maybe in a few years 💕

    • @nirvananaidoo8780
      @nirvananaidoo8780 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      It's like crazy unthinkable to me. I was a completely different person. I'm 37 now.

    • @sumi4684
      @sumi4684 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      everyone's at a different stage i'm 21 and ready as ill ever be and so glad i made the decision to, while others arent ready even at 27, im still learning things about myself but you NEVER stop learning things about yourself its basically something you've gotta just "do" ygm because you'll never be ready if you keep putting it off.
      but then again its probably the hasstle of trying to find someone and getting to know someone and talking to them ect... many people hate that stage of it all

    • @user-bv7ow5md9k
      @user-bv7ow5md9k 4 ปีที่แล้ว +53

      Sumi there’s a difference between getting married at 17 and getting married in your mid/late 20’s. 17 is incredibly young. You’re still developing so much at 17. I strongly agree, you do keep learning things about yourself throughout your whole life, but 17 is a fragile age to consider something as big as marriage. But everyone is different I guess

    • @queenluula2294
      @queenluula2294 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      We somlis marry At young age I'm 19, Have one baby boy he's almost 2 married at 16😂 sorry my broken english

    • @scoobydoo4394
      @scoobydoo4394 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      m 17 is not too Young for everyone there is girls that like to get married at that age, and they are mature

  • @AS-ie3lf
    @AS-ie3lf 4 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    Btw, arranged marriages are literally just your parents recommending someone for you because usually they know you best and want the best for you... if you’re not feeling the person, then you don’t have to go for them (if you do.. that’s usually forced which is completely wrong in Islam).

    • @AS-ie3lf
      @AS-ie3lf 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Francesca Buonanno I understand it’s hard to believe as society is forever evolving but yes, there are definitely still some people who prefer to consider their parents’ input when it comes to marriage😊

    • @AS-ie3lf
      @AS-ie3lf 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      It’s similar to blind dates- which are based on friends (or whoever) arranging a date for a friend who they deem a perfect match of whom their friend has never met before- if it works, then it works; if not, it’s not the end of the world. This is literally the concept of an arranged marriage, expect its usually your parent/s who arrange it. But obviously with this set up, you still have the opportunity to know whether they’re right for you and you get a say in all of this - I hope that gives you better understanding😊

    • @subham99vlog
      @subham99vlog 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@AS-ie3lf dating means u r meeting for a friendship then to relationship ...
      Whereas arranged datings r meant for marriage which is not gud I think!!

  • @ayeshaqureshi1699
    @ayeshaqureshi1699 4 ปีที่แล้ว +818

    okay, but why do you look like muslim Meghan Markle though? :)

  • @oummie4640
    @oummie4640 4 ปีที่แล้ว +91

    I also got married when i was 17 alhamdulilaah. My husband was 20 at the time. I had my first child when i was 18. I'm turning 29 this year and still happily married to my husband with 4 beautifull children. Love that i'm a young mom. No regrets at all. But honestly, it is not for everyone.

    •  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      not enough for muslims get four more.alamudilla.good job.

    • @ayaanmaxamud1371
      @ayaanmaxamud1371 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Masha allah sister may Allah protect them. I got married 17 too now i turned 28 last month and 4 kids too masha allah 🤗

    • @munzalinmamun3213
      @munzalinmamun3213 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sister from which country are you? Your origin? I also want to marry young!

    • @mangooiikiiijnjmm4475
      @mangooiikiiijnjmm4475 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Third world country asshole

    • @alhamdulillhforislam458
      @alhamdulillhforislam458 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@mangooiikiiijnjmm4475
      Unlike your people that only know temporary relationships and doesn’t value marriages. You are Jealous of other people lives non of your business.

  • @foziamahmoodali6491
    @foziamahmoodali6491 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I'm 30 and I got married at 27. I genuinely wish I had got married at 17, my dad had given me the option then and I said no because I didn't want to disappoint my mum who wanted me to focus on my education. Education is definitely important but I feel, with the right partner and support, marriage doesn't impede it.

    • @MotorStorm66
      @MotorStorm66 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Birth control is all that seems necessary to prevent marriage impeding education

  • @jadarogers4892
    @jadarogers4892 4 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    i'm turning 17 in a few months and i can't imagine getting married. props to you girl because that scares me but everyone is different

  • @beyzaadam1428
    @beyzaadam1428 4 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    17 yes young age but u can't be rude when there is many people who is being together under age 17. They do everything what marry couples do including living together for some of them. So if two people really love each other and feel theirselves enough for marriage its okay. Let people choose their way.

  • @xxClumsy
    @xxClumsy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    i lived with my in laws for a year before getting married. we moved out when we got married. and i really enjoy living just with my husband

  • @marenb2178
    @marenb2178 5 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Honestly I think as long as your mentally stable and getting good enough income you can get married at anytime, getting married after all only brings blessings to a muslims life

  • @sarax9178
    @sarax9178 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Same I do not want to live with my in-laws even if it was for a month.
    When I get married, I want it to be just me and my husband.
    I want my own private space and home

  • @CarpeDiem-vc3gq
    @CarpeDiem-vc3gq 5 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    And the quality of your new camera. Come throughhhhh 👏👏👏👏

    • @ZeinahNur
      @ZeinahNur  5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Carpe Diem so glad you like it!! I love it💕💕

    • @aishap1880
      @aishap1880 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      What camera is it hun

    • @ZeinahNur
      @ZeinahNur  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@aishap1880 Cannon 80D xx

  • @TheBlushingGiraffe
    @TheBlushingGiraffe 5 ปีที่แล้ว +119

    OMG ma’sha’Allah!!!! I really thought you were 28-29 just based on how much you have your life together/ how mature you are! Wow you go girl 😂

  • @lowkey0973
    @lowkey0973 5 ปีที่แล้ว +346

    please do a story time on how you told your parents you wanted to get married x

    • @ZeinahNur
      @ZeinahNur  5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Mona I will do😘💕

    • @suadah7873
      @suadah7873 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yesssss

    • @nimosaid2497
      @nimosaid2497 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Mashallah Mashallah Mashallah

  • @mashedpotatoes9175
    @mashedpotatoes9175 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I got married at 17 too!!! Honestly people think it’s bad I think it’s really good because you get the practically grow up with them and share so many memories I’m happily married with 2 kids at 19 with no regrets 😀

  • @mrsTraveller64
    @mrsTraveller64 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I travelled the world from when I was 18-27! After that I settled down. I wouldn't change my life for anything,I am so happy of my time that I spent travelling in other countries,working there whatever job I got,meeting people from all over the world. But someone else gets happy from beeing married,and doesn't have the need to travel,so it is really up to everyone to find out what makes him/her happy. Now I'm in my fiftys,living as a single woman because that's what makes ME happy,I became so independent while travelling alone that I realized I'm happiest by my self,without to have to share my life with another adult,no compromises,just doing whatever makes ME happy! Marriage is not for everyone,there ARE other options!

  • @randombaddie1767
    @randombaddie1767 5 ปีที่แล้ว +104

    Indian and Pakistani food is almost identical but majority of Indian cuisine is more vegetarian based because of their Hindu faith and in Pakistani cuisine it's alot more about the meat and chicken because majority are Muslims. X

    • @inaugas4900
      @inaugas4900 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I love pakistani food i used to live in pakistan for 6years

    • @Rubarb84
      @Rubarb84 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Because they were one country like, less than 100 years ago.

    • @salsue9494
      @salsue9494 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Honestly, it's not even similar. It is the same cuisine. People often forget that both the countries have the same history.

    • @pragawa
      @pragawa 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Well said, Umar.
      Greetings from India.

    • @cinderella9997
      @cinderella9997 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Rubarb84 wow 😮 💯years together

  • @mrjamila88
    @mrjamila88 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    We can’t judge her and her life. As long as she happy and she gave her consent. People are different at different stages of life. Maybe she had tons of support from her family and husband. As long as she happy and safe and healthy that’s all that matters.

    • @SnodasMiniatures
      @SnodasMiniatures 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Muslin women have no consent to give. They have no rights.

    • @ayeshaebrahim4873
      @ayeshaebrahim4873 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm muslim. I'm female. I gave consent. Hell I suggested marriage and made the move. Don't blame cultural practices on religion please

  • @ayahfarhan9413
    @ayahfarhan9413 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    4:19 “quality is better than quantity” yesss facts 💯👏🏽👏🏽

  • @najmabegum153
    @najmabegum153 5 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    From this ive learned youre a strong minded person convincing your parents to let you marry young and moving out of in laws so soon most men are so adamant you have to stay as long as possible but wouldnt able to cope 1 month with the wives family. Women need to be more like you and fight for what they want.

    • @MsKingusbaby1
      @MsKingusbaby1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      I agree with you, and it is actually unislamic to treat the wife as a slave , she does not even have to listen to in laws as they are not her parents.Nouman Ali Khan did a great speech about this.

    • @banandababa
      @banandababa 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      I agree with you but it isn’t really Somali culture to live with in laws. It’s an Asian thing

    • @ghurabaa114xx
      @ghurabaa114xx 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      yup, not islamic at all, esp if the inlaws place is crawling with non-mehram Bils! Then it's the exact opposite- very unislamic as we know from the hadeeth of the Prophet SAW that bil is death!
      No idea why men these days are like this, if ur mature enough to marry her u should be mature enough to offer her her own place mate

    • @sayxxx4932
      @sayxxx4932 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Maays ikr its not a somali tradition to live with ur in-laws only asians do that

    • @MsKingusbaby1
      @MsKingusbaby1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I did not say it is somali tradition, I see this in most muslim and non muslim traditional cultures arab, asian, europian..the girl must oblige and cook clean like a slave and if she speaks up Mil says she is causing conflict..and yes when there is Bil- it is especially wrong as you cant cover all times. In these cultures when woman marries she basically becomes part of another family and has to follow rules..

  • @yasminfarah9140
    @yasminfarah9140 5 ปีที่แล้ว +117

    I got married at 17 too Alhamdulilah, in 2013, I have 3 beautiful girls Alhamdulilah and most people just tell me that I had babies so young and that I haven’t had the time to think about kids and make plans for the future but that’s nonsense in my belief because Allah subxanahu watacalaa had already written your qadar and everything will happen how Allah wills. I got married so of course kids are blessings if Allah gives you.

    • @ghurabaa114xx
      @ghurabaa114xx 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      aw mA

    • @simallreh7606
      @simallreh7606 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I left my marriage late and have 3 lil ones I don't think nothing ever gets planned mine certainly didn't I thought I'd aruck to the two but alhundulillah blessed with three. better to have them when your younger than later atleast look at this way you will get to see them have it grandkids. all the best x

    • @lalamaghrebia8704
      @lalamaghrebia8704 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yasmin Farah Ma sha Allah love when i read this about Married at 17 Because i also did it

    • @lianora3185
      @lianora3185 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      getting married during your teenage years and having kids young is nothing to be proud of, id rather spend my 20s doing what i want whenever i want and then get married and have children when i’m mentally and financially ready. You guys are so fucked in the head

    • @HI-rx5jn
      @HI-rx5jn 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@lianora3185 chill out. Who said your way is right and their way is wrong?! Each to their own. What suits one individual does not mean it will suit another.

  • @fatmaoudh6355
    @fatmaoudh6355 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Ooh my that's gud,how many Kenyans are here🤗🤗🤗

  • @bilqeessonday9830
    @bilqeessonday9830 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    I was 17 when I got married and 19 when I had my first child boy

  • @kurdishgurl11
    @kurdishgurl11 5 ปีที่แล้ว +122

    I never knew I was older than you! I’m 25 lol ♥️ I’m the baby of the family too:)

    • @kurdishgurl11
      @kurdishgurl11 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Also got my license at 19 lol

    • @ZeinahNur
      @ZeinahNur  5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Age is just a number 😂

    • @UmmMaryam
      @UmmMaryam 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yassssss plssssss

  • @alvinaaa_
    @alvinaaa_ 5 ปีที่แล้ว +80

    do a story time on how u got married and how u told ur parents x

  • @daaniashaikh2514
    @daaniashaikh2514 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I got married at 19 and that’s early too. I had my first child at 21 n second at 23 n my younger daughter is 2 months old MashAllah. I had a love marriage too. I totally agree to all the things u said in this video loved it!!!

  • @chrisbruch9552
    @chrisbruch9552 4 ปีที่แล้ว +109

    You should educate your husband to help you with house chores :)

    • @chandreyeejackson5
      @chandreyeejackson5 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So true

    • @Yasin_2312
      @Yasin_2312 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      aperegina In Islam Women are equalled to Men so be quiet

    • @HJ-hy2py
      @HJ-hy2py 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@blueorchid5971 And where in that ayah did it say that house chores are for women? 🤨

    • @justanotherpoet125
      @justanotherpoet125 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yasin I. But it does not seem so in Muslim countries though 😕

    • @toobad9295
      @toobad9295 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      nikhila in those “muslim” countries you see the opposite because that’s culture not Islam, Islam tells you to be each others help and partners not each others servants :)

  • @thehungrypotato
    @thehungrypotato 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    okay so this was on my recommended page and i clicked into it cuz i have some free time in between my classes and gosh you are so soft and so gentle and really so nice to talk to. how come i didnt come across this channel earlier oml im already in loveeeeeee

  • @bobbyruksana1869
    @bobbyruksana1869 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I completely agree with you Zeinah! Quality over quantity when it comes to children.

  • @MrDzanaaa
    @MrDzanaaa 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I respect your privacy, but I was waiting for more personal video for a long time! Thank you, love!

  • @kween7866
    @kween7866 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’m glad she kept it real about the in laws and stuff. Found my fav new TH-camr:)

  • @marwachebbi426
    @marwachebbi426 5 ปีที่แล้ว +116

    Married at 17 wooowza MashAllah tabarak Allah 💖💖

  • @shirinsultana6963
    @shirinsultana6963 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Omg I got married at 17 too but that was because my dad wanted me to get married! I'm 19 now and 8 months pregnant already, so weird for this generation 😂

    • @mangooiikiiijnjmm4475
      @mangooiikiiijnjmm4475 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      R u from a third world country

    • @shirinsultana6963
      @shirinsultana6963 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Nationality? Yes. But I've been born and living in an arab country all my life. It isn't anything to do with 3rd world country and all just my family found a nice guy and va-va-voom 😂😂

    • @riri3b__4900
      @riri3b__4900 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Mashallah, I could never imagine myself getting married at 17 because I don't know how to handle responsibilities😅 maybe in the next 5 years.

    • @shirinsultana6963
      @shirinsultana6963 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@riri3b__4900 Thanks and in shaa Allah, Allah will help you ❤

    • @rawnaktabassum622
      @rawnaktabassum622 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      MA i am turning 16 in a month and even tho I really wanna get married young I won't get married before 25 ,that's a huge responsibility.Anyways ,as your dad made u get married,how old was ur husband when u got married and did u eventually fall in love and are happy?

  • @boussalemrachid664
    @boussalemrachid664 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    and I want you to talk about how you were raised and how if it helped you to build your perssonality and your charactere

  • @uy3780
    @uy3780 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow! I love that you wanted to be your own boss women!!! Im currently working on my business from home as well! Its truly a blessing

  • @mehraban3894
    @mehraban3894 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I also got married at 17 and it’s love marriage ! Got married few months ago . And I also live with my in-laws

  • @tamaramirriammatandala901
    @tamaramirriammatandala901 5 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    you have a beautiful smile.God bless you and your family. .I love your videos

    • @ZeinahNur
      @ZeinahNur  5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Tamara Mirriam Matandala aww thank you my love 😘😘

  • @10beautyqueen1
    @10beautyqueen1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Loved the music in the background, lovely relaxing touch and great video. ❤️

  • @zahraenn
    @zahraenn 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wow I'm so surprised you're just 24! You definitely don't look any older but just because you're married and you seem so mature mA

  • @jamilahadam9717
    @jamilahadam9717 5 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    I love you zeinah. Ur my favourite TH-camr. Ur just soo pure and honest. Mashallah❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @ZeinahNur
      @ZeinahNur  5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Jamilah Adam aww love you too hun& thank you for your constant support 😘💕

  • @esmemummy5945
    @esmemummy5945 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Story on how you got married please! Love your vlogs ❤️

  • @mahdiyyahnoor3400
    @mahdiyyahnoor3400 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    We need a story time on how your parents reacted to your marriage!❤️

  • @luulmukhtar116
    @luulmukhtar116 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Yes can you please tell us a story about how you told your parents that you wanted to get married and a part 2 of a Q&A

  • @tah5863
    @tah5863 5 ปีที่แล้ว +349

    Your ethnicity isn’t kenyan 👍🏽👍🏽 your ethnicity is somali, you were just born in kenya 😂😂😂😂

    • @clubofthoughts4397
      @clubofthoughts4397 5 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      T ALH yeah I was confused, maybe she meant nationality

    • @ibadoibadoyussfomar298
      @ibadoibadoyussfomar298 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      She was born in kenya and raised but her nationality is somalia or her own country is somalia

    • @ibadoibadoyussfomar298
      @ibadoibadoyussfomar298 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Sorry am not sure whether shey raised in kenya or not but she was born in kenya and she is somali girl

    • @tah5863
      @tah5863 5 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      @@ibadoibadoyussfomar298 she is somali, fully, she was just born in kenya - her nationality is kenyan

    • @ibadoibadoyussfomar298
      @ibadoibadoyussfomar298 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@tah5863 yes thnks

  • @halimab4702
    @halimab4702 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Plz do a part 2 and more marriage resulted videos etc loved this video got to know you way more I love your videos and btw your teeth!!! Y wasn't I surprised when you said that you were in dental practice lol

  • @aroosanazir3654
    @aroosanazir3654 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    24 with 2 kids. You are amazing! Super mum!

  • @Tommy-xy7bg
    @Tommy-xy7bg 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Do a video on how you take care of your teeth. Is that weird to ask? Whatever, your teeth are realyyyy nice.

  • @sabiabegum5248
    @sabiabegum5248 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Loved this vid of yours! You should do part 2 it’s soo fun !❤️

  • @fabihaparvin4997
    @fabihaparvin4997 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Currently watching this. Next time can u also add your husband Xo

  • @DestinieLo
    @DestinieLo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Salam sis! I am a Muslim revert and I just found your channel! Watching your video i feel like I haven’t accomplished anything in life at all haha married at 17, 2 kids, travel, and college? wow MashAllah ❤️

  • @حوريةالارض-د8ط
    @حوريةالارض-د8ط 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My sister married when she was 15 and she is finished her college with higher degree.

  • @essahiqbal381
    @essahiqbal381 5 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    Also how did yu meet your husband x

  • @jameelahhakim2066
    @jameelahhakim2066 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Love this video but please reduce the background music just a little bit. Not hating or anything!

  • @Ruuzbeauti
    @Ruuzbeauti 5 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Camera quality on point masha allah

    • @ZeinahNur
      @ZeinahNur  5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Ruuz Ahmed yaaaas! Am loving this new camera, can’t wait to share more videos 😘💕

  • @megcanada1369
    @megcanada1369 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    My english friend got married at 16, now she is 27 with 5 kids MashAllah.

  • @zuuuahmed3173
    @zuuuahmed3173 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    And your origin is Somalia waaaaw Big love abaaayo 😘😘😘😘

  • @psali76
    @psali76 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    NEW SUBSCRIBER!!!! can’t believe I didn’t find your channel earlier

  • @manouranoor7924
    @manouranoor7924 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Remember that marriage is written for you in your book. It is qadr so only Allah swt knows when we get married Xx

  • @thalblankson4002
    @thalblankson4002 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Wow you do look 24 -26. I knew you where around this age. You are very mature. Like me I am 20 everyone says you are very different and mature.

  • @CarpeDiem-vc3gq
    @CarpeDiem-vc3gq 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    girllllll. You must see my comments on every videos but I’m glad I’ve got my notifications on for your videos. Looking beautiful as ever MashaAllah and keep up with the great content ❤️💕💕💕

  • @Bella13710
    @Bella13710 5 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Please do a draw my life. I know the trend was years ago but pleez

    • @sbegum29
      @sbegum29 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      **Stark** yes would love to see that

  • @sharmarkeqassim5816
    @sharmarkeqassim5816 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    2:55 proves you are 100% somali that is why most of Somalis are entrepreneurs. Coz they don't like to be told do this, do that

  • @ainrafeeq1321
    @ainrafeeq1321 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I really hope to see people say that Malaysia is the best place to travel😍 Thank you for visiting Malaysia. I hope you will come again soon and I hope I can meet you❤️

  • @meriem1282
    @meriem1282 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    U need to the story time please of getting marrying and do some like how u teach ur kids good manners and I just love your videos

  • @aliyahrose9345
    @aliyahrose9345 5 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Storytime how u told ur parents u wanted to get married !

  • @khushal648
    @khushal648 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Just found your channel and am obssesed with it lool please sis dont remove ur scarf u look beautiful like this. May allah protect u and ur family 💙💙 lots of lov

  • @nirvananaidoo8780
    @nirvananaidoo8780 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Mom of 2 at 24 OMGGG!!!!!
    At 24 I got my first well paying job and was still studying my Masters part time.

    • @Sofritho
      @Sofritho 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nirvana Naidoo you must be from somewhere different to be shocked by this, it’s particularly normal for married women tbh. I know women who have 5 before 23 but they aren’t married typically. I’m due w my second before my 24th but that’s because I got pregnant back to back.

    • @nirvananaidoo8780
      @nirvananaidoo8780 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Sofritho Yikes sounds terrible all round. I'm from South Africa. All of my friends were still studying or starting to work or travelling or discovering themselves at that age. Where I'm from the only ppl who have so many kids that early are either poor or uneducated.

  • @diyateli1671
    @diyateli1671 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Kenya!! This is my first video from your channel that I watched and I'm from kenya too

  • @sno3736
    @sno3736 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Love your videos sis also yesssss please do a story time about how you told your parents you wanted to get married!! Also Is your mum Somali too?

    • @SuperMama21
      @SuperMama21 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Her mom is Barawa Somali

  • @zakiahabdulkarim8403
    @zakiahabdulkarim8403 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Assalamualaikum .
    I am from Malaysia & I m proud to hear u talk so positively about my country. Thank you very much.
    I love watching your videos esp your cooking recipes. It is somewhat similar to what I cook too.
    I cook a lot of Asian cooking not just Malaysian.
    And I do prep my chicken, meat, fish, prawns & squids when I come bck fr Tesco.
    Keep those videos coming. Good work!

  • @user-zm3no5xb6t
    @user-zm3no5xb6t 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I thought she was 30+. She’s so mature for 24, both the way she speaks and the way she looks

  • @som1
    @som1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    makes sense why your teeth are so amazing allahuma baarik. im obsessed too BUT never went down the dental route lol

  • @hannah_sumayyah7867
    @hannah_sumayyah7867 5 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Your so beautiful mashallah 😍 you don’t even look like a mother of 2 so stunning I got married at 16 and i had my first child boy at 19 and at 22 had my girl now turning 23 and having my 3rd child I can totally relate to you not wanting to live with in laws I have nothing against it but it’s just not for me Iam so glad my in laws are not in this country and sadly no longer on this earth I only met my mother in law as way before I got married my father in law passed I have always lived on my own from the age of 16 and love it my own space please do a part 2 loved getting to know you more your life and my life is pretty much the same would love to know how your parents reacted to you wanted to get married young mine were a bit like are you sure it’s what you want your so young they just wanted to make sure I was making the right decision as i have older siblings who are still not married and I’m the baby in the family but alhamdulillah my parents were pretty cool as they don’t believe in all that arranged marriage stuff I thank allah each and everyday for the parents I have as not many people get that opportunity to choose there life partner what background does your hubby come from is he Somali like you or a different ethnicity and if different can you please state what background he is and how are your parents with your hubbys parents do they get on Iam Pakistani so is hubby but my family on my dads side all come from different backgrounds Somali bangali white and Pakistani a mixed combination

    • @ZeinahNur
      @ZeinahNur  5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Mariyah N oh wow, we’re so similar and I loved reading a bit about you😘💕

    • @afruzakhatun3471
      @afruzakhatun3471 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Wow lovely MashaAllah may Allah swt bless your family. I read all of that; which felt like in one breath lol and then had to skim and check whether there was any full stops 😂

    • @yasminfarah9140
      @yasminfarah9140 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Mariyah N her husband is somali

    • @SD-yf9hw
      @SD-yf9hw 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Mariyah N kids at 19 😶

    • @SD-yf9hw
      @SD-yf9hw 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Mariyah N kids at 19 😶

  • @oneclearmission
    @oneclearmission 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    No problem getting married at 17, you good girl happy for you may Allah bless you an your family. May Allah be pleased with your affairs. Mostly I love about you no one sees you hair am sure only your hubby,that's the identity Muslim need to keep. Salute you

  • @7861hotcakes
    @7861hotcakes 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Your very lucky mashallah u got a very loving caring and understanding husband if u have a good life partner your life is sorted
    Yes wud love a video on marriage story plz

  • @FATIMA-re2in
    @FATIMA-re2in 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    hey! im interested in dental hygiene too, and i know it didnt work out for you but could you tell me what a levels you did/grades to get into a uni:)

  • @farxiyodahir8460
    @farxiyodahir8460 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I can't believe I'm watching this turning 17 in two days

  • @RA-rl6jc
    @RA-rl6jc 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Loved this video! ❤️ Deffo need more videos like this one please 😀😘❤️

  • @chadinhadin9850
    @chadinhadin9850 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanx for taking ur time out to let us guys know more about u ☺️we love ur vids ❤️❤️

  • @NS14333
    @NS14333 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Loved this video would love to see a part 2 one question I have is if your dad is somali does that mean your mum is Kenyan cos you said you was born there sorry just curious. lol

    • @SuperMama21
      @SuperMama21 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Her mom is barawa

  • @afruzakhatun3471
    @afruzakhatun3471 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Really enjoyed that :) nice and short and to the point. Lots of TH-camrs do these videos but long out some of the answers lol

  • @indiaxlovee
    @indiaxlovee 4 ปีที่แล้ว +117

    17 is so young, before you even know yourself

    • @scoobydoo4394
      @scoobydoo4394 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      jagir not for everyone

    • @aminahabdullah4972
      @aminahabdullah4972 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      I didn't know marriage stops people from learning about themselves and developing and maturing..? Your spouse can be a beautiful partner in all of the paths we choose to take in life. 😊

    • @mcflurry2029
      @mcflurry2029 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Aminah Abdullah its not easy for everyone dear

    • @mariyehgmaramawi6540
      @mariyehgmaramawi6540 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      How can i give you a hundred thumbs ups? You'r definitely Right!

    • @doubledutchclutch
      @doubledutchclutch 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      mcflurry 20 I don’t think Aminah was implying it was for everyone. jagir was the one who made an over-reaching assumption about Zeinah’s self-awareness and fitness for marriage due to her age.

  • @kayinaata6834
    @kayinaata6834 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    OMG WOULD LOVEEEEEE A VIDEO ON YOUR JOURNEY TO GETTING MARRIED INC PARENTS RESPONSES

  • @khadijakin5755
    @khadijakin5755 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Am also Somali but born and raised in Kenya n I live in Belgium now

  • @Skatejock21
    @Skatejock21 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Working in dentistry myself, I think you should have kept it part time. The wage is important until you have a solid ground financially as your on boss. Since that will take longer

  • @bts7army4lifelistenboi50
    @bts7army4lifelistenboi50 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Sameeee here I got married at 17
    My wedding was 2017/February/3
    My 2 years wedding anniversary is sooo sooooon

  • @fabihaparvin4997
    @fabihaparvin4997 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Omg I’m learning so much about you now and I’ve been watching you for about 2 years now 😅💕

  • @hafsahkhan4624
    @hafsahkhan4624 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    depends what part of pakistan you are from but 80% is not the same lahore food has more comparison too indian food but not places like balochistan baltistan khyber pukhtunkhuwa Azad Kashmir peshwar kalash people etc

  • @soniahussain1223
    @soniahussain1223 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    What did you study in college and university? I love you and videos and may Allah bless your family 😘

  • @mhfazaana
    @mhfazaana 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Im a year younger than you and I feel like your way mature (maybe bcse you're a mum ) but just well done to you and love your videos. Btw you should visit Sri Lanka ! Its stunning it can be relaxing or an adventurous (Safari) holiday (which ever you prefer)

  • @muzzammilriyazuljannah.inf2730
    @muzzammilriyazuljannah.inf2730 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi I m Natasha Assalamu alaikum. I also got married at 17. Now I am 29 and it's 11 years of marriage.

  • @maryamzaynah3034
    @maryamzaynah3034 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    You defoooooo have to do another video about your whole experience of getting married at 17 and the hassle w your parents and how u met ur partner

  • @munzie.x
    @munzie.x 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Omg! Salaam! I'm new here! ❤️ And I love you so much already! 😂💕 Alsooo I want a story time about your parents and how they agreed and all that. 😂💕💕 I'm loving you and your videos so far.😍❤️❤️❤️

  • @naffyoutube614
    @naffyoutube614 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was very interesting. Just subscribed, surely do a story time vid!

  • @fahtimam1309
    @fahtimam1309 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Aww really like this sit and chat style of video x

  • @bintehafiz7679
    @bintehafiz7679 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yess please do a video on how did you convince your parents?.. Want to know this🙆.. And loved this video💙

  • @najstarr197
    @najstarr197 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    You look bengali I'm shocked so your barawani? Shout out from london too