I almost choked and immediately took off my oversized glasses… I’ll never forget in high school a grown black man walked up to me (never before encountered) and told me I’d end up w a white man… 😭
I have always been able to pull a white man. I feel you’re right. My dating history of Black men has shown me that I need to go where I am wanted 😭 I took a job at a high~end gym. The white men there are not shy…I got options 😅
I wholeheartedly agree. The best treatment, respect, and care I have received have been from white men. Go where you are appreciated and loved, not where your community tells you to be. Black men date outside their culture and race all the time, it shouldn’t be stipulated for Black women to only date Black men
i been to the high end gyms coz they given as extras for my jobs. And met women there. Dated a fitness trainer but the woman I fell in love with. She is a bw I met through a friend and I been happy and loyal and enjoy our time together
He’s on point! I once saw a gorgeous, upscale black woman walking with her tall, muscular, well-dressed white man at Whole Foods, and they looked solid and happy AF. I could tell from her high degree of class and sophistication that the brothas had likely run her through the ringer with their shenanigans 🙄
Its way more wh!te women than men . The biggest impact is self hating and degenerate bl@ck men. I am what 'they' ignorantly call lightskin... even I know it's best that I date out. I love all my sistas and this is the best dating advice I can give them.
Accurate ladies, my husband is Italian and he stared his heart out but was too afraid to ask me out. It was years later by chance encounter again did he find the nervous as could be courage to ask and now it’s 13 years later. That’s some solid advice and very astute.
Bw in the uk started dating wm about 30 yrs ago (so late 1990s). Bm started dating ww in the late 1950s. I didn’t go looking for a wm, but just opened my options to having dinner with other races. I’ve now been married for over 20 yrs. So have fun ladies and make sure you vet, vet, vet!
After my divorce my sons encouraged me to date online. I joined a black dating site with a monthly membership fee. The next day 80% of my requests were from white men on the black dating site.
@@jdiscovered6686😂😂😂😂 I’m sorry for laughing. On a serious note… if you want to date, you should. Just don’t tell your sons about it. They don’t need to be in your grown woman business. Just have fun outside of your house and keep it to yourself.
😂. ❤😂. I grew up on a farm and homeschooled. When finally being let out into the world… let’s just say it was a bit overwhelming with all the white man attention because black guys in my own community would tell me that I am “ too skinny”… white men never told me that. 😂
Anwar, I am a white lady myself (31 yrs old), but I generally like your content and think it's cool, interesting, and helpful. Just wanted to pop in to comment that one of my last big crushes was on a handsome tall red headed guy, but he turned out to be a big player and jerk!! 😅😂And I am just a softy nice girl so he ended up disrespecting me 😐Even though initially I thought the red headedness was cute and seemed like a "soft" feature. So, a warning: not all red headed guys!!! 😅🤣 Also: not all of the issues that you talk about typical black men having is really exclusive to black men anymore. Sadly. So, it's not always as simple as switching race. Sadly, the whole culture of toxic masculinity and disrespecting women has spread so far and wide these days 😩
@@Anatheempress Yup, dated black white and mexican guys and at the end of the day they all had various issues that any man could have. No race was better than the other.
Going to London and Amsterdam next week. Already got my cute Euro outfits ready (tennis shoes with dresses 😅) and planning my museum and cafe outings 😊
@ms.rivera7898 - I had a wonderful time especially in Amsterdam. Met a lot of people in general but nothing romantic. I will definitely visit Amsterdam again for fun. The Dutch men are gorgeous and super tall 😆
I spent 2 months in Europe and wasn't attracted to one person. White is not it for me. There are also different kinds of black men. East Africans are the best in my opinion. Polar opposite of American black men.
I’m a Cali valley girl so true 😂 but I agree black love equals a lot of the times struggle love in my opinion . And who ever said white guys are not checking for us lied (bitter black men ) they just wish that they wasn’t into us. 😂😂😂 but seriously this is conformation because I’m losing interest in black guys honestly.✌🏽
Mostly white and asian guys have talked to me in my lifetime, even when I'm hunting for a black man lol. I don't know about that reserved stuff though. I find them to a lot more straightforward with their intentions. They approach you like you're an equal first rather than just a piece of ass, but maybe I'm just biased. People are individuals at the end of the day though, so that doesn't mean they will treat you better when the relationship actually starts.
A white guy asked me about my school sweatshirt while I was standing in line. We talked for two minutes about my school then the conversation just ended
😂😂😂 this was hilarious, but true. Black folks always look at me like I’m from another planet. I’m American black but I get asked if I’m Habesha. I am divorced from a white man he was an abusive narcissist - which you can find in any race. I learned my lesson and know what to look out for now. I see I have lots of choices now. Maybe not much choice when it comes to black men because most of them in my city in Cali are with other races.
I LITERALLY have a fro. I LITERALLY have a TWA under this. 😅😅😅 He KNOWS it's a wig but he's seen my natural hair WHICH matches when it's grown out. He kept saying he loves my hair big and curly. HE'S A GINGER. Y'ALL. WHAT CAN I SAY? 😅😅😅 IT'S GOING DOWN.
Gingers know the plight of hair discrimination too 🤣. I’m a half ginger (one copy of the gene that causes ginger hair with freckles and green/blue eyes) but I have ginger family members who do get quite a bit of bullying growing up tbh. Luckily in Scotland and Ireland they get far less but then again we have the highest rates of gingers on the planet 🤣🤣🏴🇮🇪
White guys do approach black women though. This white guy who is a recent Irish immigrant chatted me up by asking me to recommend cereal at the grocery store. I'm not into men, he was cute though, good luck to him.
Actual Europeans have different attitudes towards BW because you are exotic to us given we come from a homogenous region of the world. Also when you are Scottish (as I am) or Irish abroad we quickly learn our accents are our not so secret weapon 🤣. 85% of Scottish and Irish people have blue or green eyes too and the highest rates of green eyes and ginger in the world.
They are Caucasians too and their general attractions aren’t any different to WM. I went to an international school abroad with a school full of Arabs from all over the world and others from Arabic countries and the beauty standards were pretty much the same.
We only stare because we get endless hate signals at us 🤣. Also in the U.S. any interracial relationship would be so much work with R’cism from both complexions
@@boxtradums0073I don’t know how many interracial relationships you’ve been in? The ones I have been in have mostly been amazing. My current one is the absolute most beautiful. Strangers will literally come up to us or stop in their car while we are walking and say how beautiful and “ stunning “ we are together. 😂 It’s really bizarre to have strangers do that because I’m kind of shy but it was also very kind of them to go out of their way to give such lovely compliments. My dad never allowed his daughters to date a man but especially not a “hwhite “ man 😂. My kind man I’m with just so happens to be Caucasian and I LOVE telling my dad about it. 😂
@@boxtradums0073 that’s truly a shame. Hopefully one day humans can wake up and realize that the experience we are having is really quite phenomenal and let go and such silly archaic ideas. But I won’t be holding my breath until they do. 😂. Life is too beautiful.
I was in France this summer, and a guy i met on the train kept "running" into us all around town. When i told my friend's partner about it (also a European), he told me that the 2nd time a man runs into you, it's deliberate. Sigh. Connection missed with a Frenchman❤. I guess I'll have to clean my big glasses while tucking a slightly frizzy braid behind my conch piercings (you missed adding any type of cartilage/non lobe piercing)😂
When you said septum piercing I said wait a sec now, then you went into rolled up Jean jacket, big curly wig I felt him because my natural hair is big beautiful and curly yes Ms. ma’am is a whole presentation vibe by herself🥰🥰😍(my hair). 9/10 I’m wearing my curls out. I noticed White me look some have conversations with me but it’s not “ normal” “flirting conversations” now I know
Remember the current societal narratives have WM worried they are ‘fetishising’ you and that WM are entitled so wont come with as much overt confidence.
Meh…only one on that list applies to me. Guess that’s why I’m not pulling any dudes. I’m more “crazy cat lady”…not hipster, cutesy, artsy Taylor Swift crazy cat lady…more like…the real “get off my lawn”, house coat, sandals with socks, plastic on furniture crazy cat lady 😬
I've been in Iowa for 6 years now and I am for "BLACK LOVE" but it's not happening here for me. Now these 🖐 men really be checking for me but I was gunhoe about being with a BM.... I done talked so much crap about interracial dating that I would feel like a hypocrite... 🤦🏽♀️
Don't beat yourself up. Most of us have been there and were holding out for black love, but the numbers don't lie. You don't have to necessarily go white. There are latino, indian, and middle-eastern men out here too. You have the right to change your mind. 😉
@@lejamesbron5880 To be honest I've never been approached by an East African man or really known any so I don't know. There have been West African men that I've encountered but they want a super traditional woman which isn't a bad thing but it's not me.
Im 5'6, shoulder length natural hair, pointy nose, lil lips, big booty. WM flock to me. Especially when i rock a twist out or bangs. What is it with WM and bangs?
If you're from a suburban town where there are only six black families and you're related to most of them, white. 😂 I'm kind of shy and not good at starting random conversations, but "is anyone sitting here?" usually gets a "you are" and starts the conversation. My problem is I can never tell if a guy is interested or just being nice because I have conversations with someone new at least every couple of weeks.
Suburban girlie gag when he saw my folded denim sleeves 🫣I clenched my pearls and tucked my new grow behind my ears 🫠 he didn’t have to call me to the front that way😩🥺😖
i think the numbers of bm and ww marriages have always been actually low and getting even moreso since ww now see they are getting the same type of bm😅😅😅😅😅!
I think the point of this video is for us black women to open up our dating options and end the one sided loyalty to black men because they are not loyal to us. I read a report that Indian men are among the highest earning men in America. Indian men can also give your kids the darker skin aesthetic that you are looking for.
@@gj-d7354 You’re right about that last part, I have always been open to the idea. I've dated out a few times but never took it too seriously but now I am about to for sure.
I almost choked and immediately took off my oversized glasses… I’ll never forget in high school a grown black man walked up to me (never before encountered) and told me I’d end up w a white man… 😭
That wasCREEPY!
@@PoshandpamperedTV yes def had me mad… like tf I’m 17
😂😂😂😂 chucking.
Bruh, I was 8 when my sister told me I will. Like wtf. 🎉😂
@@LDBusiness 😭
I have always been able to pull a white man. I feel you’re right. My dating history of Black men has shown me that I need to go where I am wanted 😭 I took a job at a high~end gym. The white men there are not shy…I got options 😅
I have been saying that I should get a membership at one for this reason. Thanks for the confirmation! lol
I wholeheartedly agree. The best treatment, respect, and care I have received have been from white men. Go where you are appreciated and loved, not where your community tells you to be. Black men date outside their culture and race all the time, it shouldn’t be stipulated for Black women to only date Black men
You made my day! Be safe and have lots of fun!
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i been to the high end gyms coz they given as extras for my jobs. And met women there. Dated a fitness trainer but the woman I fell in love with. She is a bw I met through a friend and I been happy and loyal and enjoy our time together
He’s on point! I once saw a gorgeous, upscale black woman walking with her tall, muscular, well-dressed white man at Whole Foods, and they looked solid and happy AF. I could tell from her high degree of class and sophistication that the brothas had likely run her through the ringer with their shenanigans 🙄
Not “braided with a little bit of new growth and tucked”😂
And “the I’s have it” 😂
that realllllly got me😂😅!
😂
I felt so seen in that moment 😂😭
Me toooo haha
That's what got me !! That and the denim jacket with the sleeves rolled up
No lies told! My boyfriend is over 35, bald, and of Irish and Italian descent😆
All in one 😂
The male:female ratio has such a huge impact and no one talks about it. Glad he brought it up.
Its way more wh!te women than men . The biggest impact is self hating and degenerate bl@ck men. I am what 'they' ignorantly call lightskin... even I know it's best that I date out. I love all my sistas and this is the best dating advice I can give them.
Brown girl, big glasses, natural hair, currently wearing braids... I'M WINNING
Not him describing me lmfao
Me too..spot on
Lmao was he spot on??
Lol, oversized glasses got my attention lol
It’s the way he says WWWWWYTE!
I’m about 5 of the 10😂😂😂
hhhhhhhwhyte (it's how a certain subset of kind of uppity white ppl say white actually lol...he's doing the subliminal training)
Girl as soon as he started the list I was at 3 in a row holleringggg 😂😂😂
Accurate ladies, my husband is Italian and he stared his heart out but was too afraid to ask me out. It was years later by chance encounter again did he find the nervous as could be courage to ask and now it’s 13 years later. That’s some solid advice and very astute.
Also if you wear your natural hair and keep it done really nice. I notice that white guys really appreciate my hair more than black guys.
Word
It’s so cute how they act like I’m some supernatural creature when I wear my natural hair. It’s funny. ❤
If you don't have a big booty 😅
Bw in the uk started dating wm about 30 yrs ago (so late 1990s). Bm started dating ww in the late 1950s. I didn’t go looking for a wm, but just opened my options to having dinner with other races. I’ve now been married for over 20 yrs. So have fun ladies and make sure you vet, vet, vet!
The UK is 77% Wh and only 5% B so it’s not like you’ve had much of a choice 🤣.
@@boxtradums0073😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Not the Hank Hill “Hwwwhite”pronunciation 😂
Lmao 😂😂
“ PEhEGGY ” 😂😂😂
I used to love watching that show.
Do more please. I can never tell when their hitting on me. "He's so nice for buying 10 drinks" 😂
After my divorce my sons encouraged me to date online. I joined a black dating site with a monthly membership fee. The next day 80% of my requests were from white men on the black dating site.
If you don't mind please share the site 🙏
I'm stuck at," my sons encouraged me." ❤
My oldest son said I don't need no one but him and his brothers😔
@@jdiscovered6686😂😂😂😂 I’m sorry for laughing.
On a serious note… if you want to date, you should. Just don’t tell your sons about it. They don’t need to be in your grown woman business. Just have fun outside of your house and keep it to yourself.
As a white man myself I can confirm he’s 100% right 😅
😂. ❤😂. I grew up on a farm and homeschooled. When finally being let out into the world… let’s just say it was a bit overwhelming with all the white man attention because black guys in my own community would tell me that I am “ too skinny”… white men never told me that. 😂
Got me with suburban girl and denim jackets with the sleeves rolled up! 😂😂
I mean how else are they supposed to be worn? I am so confused...
@gamwani me too. Perplexed 🤔
Please do more about dating white men
Yess 😂❤
Yesss pls!!! lol I’ve been waiting impatiently lol
Yesss we white girls need all the help too 😅
@@danicaharley6273 why did your comment make me fall out lmao 😂😂😂😂
You need your own show, Bravo style…”Hwite!” 😂😂😂
Not him calling me out especially about the new growth lol!!!!
Nah because why is this accurate for a lot on BW who are dating or married to WM
I concur.
Keep giving us those invaluable gems/ tips on how to date and then marry ALL different types of men.
We're listening
🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤
Anwar, I am a white lady myself (31 yrs old), but I generally like your content and think it's cool, interesting, and helpful. Just wanted to pop in to comment that one of my last big crushes was on a handsome tall red headed guy, but he turned out to be a big player and jerk!! 😅😂And I am just a softy nice girl so he ended up disrespecting me 😐Even though initially I thought the red headedness was cute and seemed like a "soft" feature. So, a warning: not all red headed guys!!! 😅🤣
Also: not all of the issues that you talk about typical black men having is really exclusive to black men anymore. Sadly. So, it's not always as simple as switching race. Sadly, the whole culture of toxic masculinity and disrespecting women has spread so far and wide these days 😩
You're so right. I hope you find your guy, sis!
I 100% agree, the grass is not greener on the other side. This is why no one should put any race on a pedestal they all have their issues.
@@AnatheempressI agree!
@@Anatheempress Yup, dated black white and mexican guys and at the end of the day they all had various issues that any man could have. No race was better than the other.
I think he's just saying open up your possibilities. ❤
Going to London and Amsterdam next week. Already got my cute Euro outfits ready (tennis shoes with dresses 😅) and planning my museum and cafe outings 😊
Updates!
@ms.rivera7898 - I had a wonderful time especially in Amsterdam. Met a lot of people in general but nothing romantic. I will definitely visit Amsterdam again for fun. The Dutch men are gorgeous and super tall 😆
@@t.f.6297 ooh I need to see for myself! 😉
I spent 2 months in Europe and wasn't attracted to one person. White is not it for me. There are also different kinds of black men. East Africans are the best in my opinion. Polar opposite of American black men.
Oh you’ll get attention in Amsterdam. I always have great conversations with men there and they love engaging with us
I love the way you say “Hwite!” I am definitely moving towards dating them. I’m currently not dating anyone but just getting myself together. 😊
Go have yourself a cracking time with a ‘cr@cker’ 🤣
If you are a suburban girl, an emo girl, an alt girl...white. Lol. Yep. Married to one for 8 years now. 😅
I’m a Cali valley girl so true 😂 but I agree black love equals a lot of the times struggle love in my opinion . And who ever said white guys are not checking for us lied (bitter black men ) they just wish that they wasn’t into us. 😂😂😂 but seriously this is conformation because I’m losing interest in black guys honestly.✌🏽
They hate to see black women and white men together..🙄
Heavy metal girl here! Everytime I go to a concert, some white guy is talking to me. Heading to a Judas Priest concert soon!
Same 😂 except I ignore them all when I go to concerts because I’m there for the music and the MUSICIANS playing it 😍. 😂😂😂
This man knows what he is talking about!!! I agree!
Mostly white and asian guys have talked to me in my lifetime, even when I'm hunting for a black man lol. I don't know about that reserved stuff though. I find them to a lot more straightforward with their intentions. They approach you like you're an equal first rather than just a piece of ass, but maybe I'm just biased. People are individuals at the end of the day though, so that doesn't mean they will treat you better when the relationship actually starts.
A white guy asked me about my school sweatshirt while I was standing in line. We talked for two minutes about my school then the conversation just ended
Giirrrlll 😩
Next time don't let the convo end girl.
I get on better with white men I don’t know why but they also spoil me 😂😂😂
😂😂😂 this was hilarious, but true. Black folks always look at me like I’m from another planet. I’m American black but I get asked if I’m Habesha. I am divorced from a white man he was an abusive narcissist - which you can find in any race. I learned my lesson and know what to look out for now. I see I have lots of choices now. Maybe not much choice when it comes to black men because most of them in my city in Cali are with other races.
I LITERALLY have a fro. I LITERALLY have a TWA under this. 😅😅😅
He KNOWS it's a wig but he's seen my natural hair WHICH matches when it's grown out. He kept saying he loves my hair big and curly. HE'S A GINGER. Y'ALL. WHAT CAN I SAY? 😅😅😅
IT'S GOING DOWN.
Gingers know the plight of hair discrimination too 🤣. I’m a half ginger (one copy of the gene that causes ginger hair with freckles and green/blue eyes) but I have ginger family members who do get quite a bit of bullying growing up tbh. Luckily in Scotland and Ireland they get far less but then again we have the highest rates of gingers on the planet 🤣🤣🏴🇮🇪
Hahaha I AM the archetype🤣big curly wig, rolled out sleeves, big glasses 🤣
Why are most of those archetypes describing me?! 😅
White guys do approach black women though. This white guy who is a recent Irish immigrant chatted me up by asking me to recommend cereal at the grocery store. I'm not into men, he was cute though, good luck to him.
Actual Europeans have different attitudes towards BW because you are exotic to us given we come from a homogenous region of the world.
Also when you are Scottish (as I am) or Irish abroad we quickly learn our accents are our not so secret weapon 🤣. 85% of Scottish and Irish people have blue or green eyes too and the highest rates of green eyes and ginger in the world.
Yeah...I made the mistake of being "ride or die" for Black men/Black love which left me a single mom and still single at 55 yrs old 🤷♀️.
When I wear my hair big, curly, and wild, they always compliment me and the brothas only compliment me when my hair is silk pressed.
The big hair express’s confidence and flair to WM. Also being a bit exotic and a thrill because of it.
Dark skin, big curly wig and rolled up denim jacket here😭😭😂😂😂 My husband is middle eastern
They are Caucasians too and their general attractions aren’t any different to WM. I went to an international school abroad with a school full of Arabs from all over the world and others from Arabic countries and the beauty standards were pretty much the same.
lol I am cracking up, I am currently dating a white guy and so much of this is true.
Was scrolling and came across this……you have me hollering! 😂
Thanks for sharing! 👏🏽❤️
😭😭😭 your archetypes killed me not the denim rolled up sleeves I know a sis who does this
You know what?! Imma try this! Just make sense!
Always go where you are wanted.
I have overside glasses and locs super long and love anime
Italian men love women of color but won’t admit it off the bat. They’re a little reserved at first.
Ironically they are quite R’cist though at least the real ones in Italy are
They always stare….
But okay I’m going to say something next time 😂 this was the sign I needed.
Keep us posted! 😂
We only stare because we get endless hate signals at us 🤣. Also in the U.S. any interracial relationship would be so much work with R’cism from both complexions
@@boxtradums0073I don’t know how many interracial relationships you’ve been in?
The ones I have been in have mostly been amazing. My current one is the absolute most beautiful. Strangers will literally come up to us or stop in their car while we are walking and say how beautiful and “ stunning “ we are together. 😂
It’s really bizarre to have strangers do that because I’m kind of shy but it was also very kind of them to go out of their way to give such lovely compliments.
My dad never allowed his daughters to date a man but especially not a “hwhite “ man 😂.
My kind man I’m with just so happens to be Caucasian and I LOVE telling my dad about it. 😂
@@LeahMoonbeam your experience isn’t universal unfortunately and there is a lot of baggage between WM and BM.
@@boxtradums0073 that’s truly a shame. Hopefully one day humans can wake up and realize that the experience we are having is really quite phenomenal and let go and such silly archaic ideas. But I won’t be holding my breath until they do. 😂. Life is too beautiful.
I love white men who provide, protect me and spoil me.
I was in France this summer, and a guy i met on the train kept "running" into us all around town. When i told my friend's partner about it (also a European), he told me that the 2nd time a man runs into you, it's deliberate. Sigh. Connection missed with a Frenchman❤. I guess I'll have to clean my big glasses while tucking a slightly frizzy braid behind my conch piercings (you missed adding any type of cartilage/non lobe piercing)😂
Why am I 50 and he described me?!? 😂 The way I LAUGHED!!! (and yeah, I date white men too 😂)
Oh, mercy, not identifying new growth! 😂
When you said septum piercing I said wait a sec now, then you went into rolled up Jean jacket, big curly wig I felt him because my natural hair is big beautiful and curly yes Ms. ma’am is a whole presentation vibe by herself🥰🥰😍(my hair). 9/10 I’m wearing my curls out. I noticed White me look some have conversations with me but it’s not “ normal” “flirting conversations” now I know
Remember the current societal narratives have WM worried they are ‘fetishising’ you and that WM are entitled so wont come with as much overt confidence.
I saw a clip from this floating around. Glad I found the full video. It's very interesting!
I am a lupita with a dope 4c short hair style😂. I love me an Italian, chefs kiss.
He literally described me lmaoooo.
"hwite"😂
You are so underrated. I love the advice ❤
We need more!!!
Love your channel ! Do one for Hispanic men
Ok I get it!! I'm crossing over. 😂😂
Omg i love your videos, so entertaining.
If he's an I 😂😂
I sent this to the group chat. The other singletons and I feel hella seen.
Omg so right!
Why am I laughing 🤣
I like your energy ❤
If you are going to give love to Irish people then you cant leave out us Scottish people we are the same people 🤣
I was home free until he said suburban 😂 let me go see wtf Brandon n dem talmbout
Do we have the tea on the other tribes as well?
I love your advice, but I’m not currently dating. But I sent your advice to my cousin who just started back dating again!! Thank you 🙏🏾
Meh…only one on that list applies to me. Guess that’s why I’m not pulling any dudes. I’m more “crazy cat lady”…not hipster, cutesy, artsy Taylor Swift crazy cat lady…more like…the real “get off my lawn”, house coat, sandals with socks, plastic on furniture crazy cat lady 😬
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 oversized glasses whhhhhhhhhhiiiittteee lol
Chile, my man is probably in Ireland or Germany somewhere 🤣
or kenya/somalia lol
You read me DOWNNNNN😂
I love your channel ❤️ 💕 ♥️ 😍
No shade because I'm not saying all. But a lot of Italian men are players
Most Italians are macho and mama's boys dont date them.
I've been in Iowa for 6 years now and I am for "BLACK LOVE" but it's not happening here for me. Now these 🖐 men really be checking for me but I was gunhoe about being with a BM.... I done talked so much crap about interracial dating that I would feel like a hypocrite... 🤦🏽♀️
Don't beat yourself up. Most of us have been there and were holding out for black love, but the numbers don't lie. You don't have to necessarily go white. There are latino, indian, and middle-eastern men out here too. You have the right to change your mind. 😉
@patriciasmith8334 thank you... you know I'm okay with that I'm just like how do I let them know I'm interested.
@@patriciasmith8334 Yall dont rock with East Africans?
@@lejamesbron5880 To be honest I've never been approached by an East African man or really known any so I don't know. There have been West African men that I've encountered but they want a super traditional woman which isn't a bad thing but it's not me.
Damn. I was out on the first two lmfao
Thank you soooo much for your videos!
😆 I love your videos
not me with a septum piercing 🤣
I agree. My personality needs variety and contrast. I haven't been able to find my match in BM.
choose better
Im 5'6, shoulder length natural hair, pointy nose, lil lips, big booty. WM flock to me. Especially when i rock a twist out or bangs. What is it with WM and bangs?
I’m not one of those girls but I still wanna try the other side
I love this 😂❤❤❤
LMAO. I love the oversized glasses comment. 🤓 I'm a Blerd and married interacially (not to a White guy).
Not me having a septum peircing when I met my husband 🤣🤣🤣
Hang on, I roll up my denim jacket sleeves 😂
I died at the skinhead part 😂😂
If you're from a suburban town where there are only six black families and you're related to most of them, white. 😂
I'm kind of shy and not good at starting random conversations, but "is anyone sitting here?" usually gets a "you are" and starts the conversation. My problem is I can never tell if a guy is interested or just being nice because I have conversations with someone new at least every couple of weeks.
Suburban girlie gag when he saw my folded denim sleeves 🫣I clenched my pearls and tucked my new grow behind my ears 🫠 he didn’t have to call me to the front that way😩🥺😖
i think the numbers of bm and ww marriages have always been actually low and getting even moreso since ww now see they are getting the same type of bm😅😅😅😅😅!
His white feet are pointing at you!😂😂
I was waiting for me...hiking loving, straightened bob?! 😂
What about if you wear your natural hair but have a high top? I have the sides and the back cut. what hairstyles should i do?
I really want a chocolate baby tho
That's my same issue, I don't know what I'm gonna do. I want a darkskin daughter so bad, but where are the eligible bachelors
@@sashatoao8421 yes, that's all I imagined growing up but I also want to give my children a good father above all else. We have some thinking to do
I think the point of this video is for us black women to open up our dating options and end the one sided loyalty to black men because they are not loyal to us. I read a report that Indian men are among the highest earning men in America. Indian men can also give your kids the darker skin aesthetic that you are looking for.
@@gj-d7354 You’re right about that last part, I have always been open to the idea. I've dated out a few times but never took it too seriously but now I am about to for sure.
@@user-ql6xb7eq4kthen date an indian guy then
This video is way too funny
😂 this is funny ..everyone thought i only dated white men.. they did not like me😂😢😂
Love Redheads!!!