How to 10X Your Chances of Meeting Eligible Men While Offline Dating

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  • How to 10X Your Chances of Meeting Eligible Men While Offline Dating #datingadviceforblackwomen #blackgirldating #blackwomendatingtips #singleblackfemale #singleblackwoman #blackfemininity #femininityforblackwomen #bbwdating #bbwdatingproblems #fairygodbrother

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  • @Vi_lovely
    @Vi_lovely 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +102

    Men go after what they want. If they don’t come up to me then that’s on them lol

  • @t.f.6297
    @t.f.6297 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +109

    Lawd the fingers and thumbs tea though 😮😅

    • @patricerenee1717
      @patricerenee1717 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Yes a short thumb means they lol bit lol bc remember they holding that thang with they thumb too 😆. I knew this since HS

    • @cassiopee26
      @cassiopee26 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I always heard the theory to go from the tip fo the middle finger to the tip of the thumb, but never that one though lol! I'll take all the help I need lmao

  • @avibecallednellez
    @avibecallednellez 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +229

    As a woman, why did I check the length from my thumb to my wrist bone 💀

    • @lilladie88
      @lilladie88 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      ok... so it was not just me! lolol

    • @shelisegr8love
      @shelisegr8love 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I don’t even know what that means? 😂

    • @9darshana
      @9darshana หลายเดือนก่อน +25

      Right, cause according to his logic....I'm packing 😂😂😂

    • @MichelleIsProsperous
      @MichelleIsProsperous หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Same lol I was wondering how much girth I would have 😂😂😂😂💀💀💀

    • @whizcleaningpros4218
      @whizcleaningpros4218 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Girl me too🤦🏽‍♀️🤣

  • @alexdex9439
    @alexdex9439 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +88

    Haha love the pokemon analogy

    • @Joirychelle
      @Joirychelle 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Me too! 😂😂😂

  • @haileyt857
    @haileyt857 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +27

    That thumb to wrist thing is a sham! I was cheated out on that four times already 😭😂

  • @karenmassey8354
    @karenmassey8354 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +85

    I don’t agree. Guys have no problem speaking when they want something from you. Now all of the sudden they’re too shy to say hi? Nah, this advice doesn’t resonate with me. I guess it would work if the woman doesn’t mind an effeminate guy wherein she has to initiate all aspects of the relationship. I’ll pass on that though.

    • @757Princess
      @757Princess 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

      I think it depends on the setting. I’ve only been approached in the club and no other social setting. Not at the museum social night, farmers market, gym or community events 😅

    • @DiamondsRexpensive
      @DiamondsRexpensive 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Yes, I pass too.

    • @DiamondsRexpensive
      @DiamondsRexpensive 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      ​@@757PrincessI don't get approached while at the the mall, cafe, or at a fancy music concert. But guess what? I will never ever approach a man just because no one is approaching me. I know I have the looks, and the charm. But starting will make you look cheap.

    • @karenmassey8354
      @karenmassey8354 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@757Princess Guys have no problem saying something to me when they want to rush me off of equipment at the gym or if they want to have a random discussion about the Pilates or yoga class we were just in. I don’t buy this whole men are too shy to speak thing. This is just another way for them to get women to do even more of the work for them. Also, life experience has taught me that if a man is very interested he will approach a woman. Them not approaching is just a switch in their “hunting” strategy.

    • @karenmassey8354
      @karenmassey8354 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +38

      Guys have no problem saying something to me when they want to rush me off of equipment at the gym or if they want to have a random discussion about the Pilates or yoga class we were just in. I don’t buy this whole guys are too shy to speak thing. This is just another way for them to get wmn to do even more of the work for them. Also, life experience has taught me that if a guy is very interested he will approach a wmn. Them not approaching is just a switch in their “hunting” strategy and is a form of weaponized incompetence.

  • @Machenziethemodel
    @Machenziethemodel 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +70

    I’m outside and I see males but not men lol. Online dating is horrible. You can get an hook up or two.

    • @lisamari941
      @lisamari941 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Girl, the hookups ain’t even good/worth it! Men are failing at everything, they are so not worth the time or energy!

  • @ninawestlake5005
    @ninawestlake5005 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +35

    And..most men are also out here listening to the same info we do to get ahead on game to keep fooling you. So...practice discernment and trust your gut. It's the same with criminals watching the news and being up to date with the police their strategy etc to find them.

    • @ElmoBiotech
      @ElmoBiotech 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      And the searches for thumb stretchers begin…

  • @KevonnieElaine
    @KevonnieElaine 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +55

    Wait a minute 😭?!? The fingers?!

  • @Emmm-ii6tx
    @Emmm-ii6tx 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

    They aren’t shy, they have a girlfriend or wife 😒

  • @DionneMcCray-u7j
    @DionneMcCray-u7j 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    Great now I’m walking around looking at men’s hands and fingers!

  • @FreeQueen-md7zm
    @FreeQueen-md7zm 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +43

    🤔...☝🏾vs...💍 finger... 🧐... 🤔tip👍🏾...to wristbone, 🧐mmm hmmm...curved...🧐mmm hmmm...🙀🫢😂😂😂 Wow, learn something new every day, lol

  • @artlover625
    @artlover625 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    I’m outside listening to this while I walk around. The way I just laughed at, “girl if that thumb is curved..” No lies told and everyone on the street must think I’m nuts. Appreciate you fairy godbrother.

  • @suindoe8141
    @suindoe8141 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    No lie, your tips had me cracking up 😂

  • @olgabushak2942
    @olgabushak2942 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    This was hilarious 😂

  • @jetradaniels9528
    @jetradaniels9528 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Hands are a definite tell!!

  • @Inesnes1
    @Inesnes1 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    ❤❤😂Thanks for these tips 😂❤❤

  • @ceyciemateo9411
    @ceyciemateo9411 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    I don’t care I’m not approaching no men

    • @Olz937
      @Olz937 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Yes, it sets the tone for a weird dynamic. Matthew Hussey was talking about hiw his wife approached him. I'm sure she feels a sharp pain in her chest when she thinks about it. It's humiliating for a woman.

    • @ceyciemateo9411
      @ceyciemateo9411 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@Olz937
      & I bet she chased him for the marriage too

    • @Olz937
      @Olz937 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      @ceyciemateo9411 yep, she was on his podcasts as well. Like, sister girl don't you have your own life? These men want worshippers not partners.

    • @Emmm-ii6tx
      @Emmm-ii6tx 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I agree when I see him look at her he deff isn’t oozing love and affection .. he seems like whatever about her …

  • @Crystal_Lite_TM
    @Crystal_Lite_TM 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

    I loved this video!!! Could you please elaborate the thumb to wrist bone ratio plz! I need visuals 😅

    • @jerrisanders2
      @jerrisanders2 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

      3:46

    • @jerrisanders2
      @jerrisanders2 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

      3:46 ❤ 3:46 3:46 3:46 3:46 3:46 3:46 3:46 3:46

    • @jerrisanders2
      @jerrisanders2 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

      3:46

    • @jerrisanders2
      @jerrisanders2 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

      3:46 3:46 3:46 3:46

  • @mchris4708
    @mchris4708 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I love his voice.

  • @gtrprincess1
    @gtrprincess1 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Brilliant

  • @patriciasamo3364
    @patriciasamo3364 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Thank you for the advice. Have been going to the gym looking cute and thinking I will be approached.

    • @Emmm-ii6tx
      @Emmm-ii6tx 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      Good luck girl I have been approached by three men in the gym and asked out….. 2 I ended up finding out had a gf and the other was married….its rough out there

    • @patriciasamo3364
      @patriciasamo3364 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@Emmm-ii6tx Thanks for the heads up!

  • @Sunshineandrainbows234
    @Sunshineandrainbows234 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Thank you
    But also what kind of body language signals can you show these men you are interested
    Open body language, smile, play with hair?

  • @Michelle-cn9zp
    @Michelle-cn9zp 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    You’re my new best friend in my head.

  • @care4me7
    @care4me7 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I'm going to pay attention to those things

  • @LadyKLoves1222
    @LadyKLoves1222 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Imma be looking at these mens hands😅 Its the ones we're actually interested in that dont initiate...Went out the other night and was bombarded with stares, men approached me without hesitation and some barely asked my name before they had their phones out to get my number. It was a little overwhelming after being in the house for so long. I got a lot of "you look familiar". What does that mean? Aint no way I was familiar cuz I go to work, the farmers market, the woods and home.

  • @gracefulgardenia7713
    @gracefulgardenia7713 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Flash them the million dollar smile because you are genuinely in love with your self and your life and happy to see him and that should be sufficient. If you are not genuinely in love with yourself and your life you are not ready to date.

  • @Joirychelle
    @Joirychelle 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I could not stop laughing, love your verbiage 😅😅😅😅

  • @Real.Flowers.
    @Real.Flowers. 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Omg, yes, this helped so much! Thank you! I’m going to give your tips a go and hopefully find someone soon.

  • @MyDuckSaysFucc
    @MyDuckSaysFucc 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    According to this I am both gay and packing 😂 dam I never noticed before

  • @YoGirlWhitneySol
    @YoGirlWhitneySol 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Not the thumb!! I like to search for the package as well

  • @lynnlee4079
    @lynnlee4079 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you for helping us.

  • @Peem_pom
    @Peem_pom หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Pokemon 😂

  • @arshiya2017
    @arshiya2017 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    What is packing?

  • @shirleywebber8843
    @shirleywebber8843 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    👀 😂 all Facts 💯🫡🙏🏾

  • @DiamondsRexpensive
    @DiamondsRexpensive 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You have better takes than this one boo. We are not gonna make things easy for them 😕

  • @PettyLabelle532
    @PettyLabelle532 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    What if his index finger is longer than his ring finger on the right hand but not the left 😩😩😩

    • @NaiSays
      @NaiSays 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      He bi then 😂😂😂😂

    • @allysemay415
      @allysemay415 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@NaiSays😂😂😂 that’s what I was thinking!

    • @abcdefghijk8925
      @abcdefghijk8925 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Dang girl! Consult a math genius!

  • @ExoticalT369
    @ExoticalT369 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    😂♥️

  • @Healerslightnlove
    @Healerslightnlove 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Fingers??!! Ok I took note

  • @mssyee6764
    @mssyee6764 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Big hands and feet!!! That’s a big man!

  • @amyv.
    @amyv. 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Tell me if the length and size of the nose theory is true?

  • @shareeminor9125
    @shareeminor9125 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Gotta memorize the finger length.... The curved thumb is on point

  • @aclark446
    @aclark446 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Since when is it hard to find males. They're everywhere. They don't leave you alone. They constantly ask you out, and you constantly have to reject them. Give me some real advice, like how to get rid of them.

    • @whosthatgirlitstiff1861
      @whosthatgirlitstiff1861 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      Lol maybe for you but the rest of us are practically invisible out here. I worked as a store vendor-a predominantly male job- for 7 years and only got approached once. And only once while out in public during that same time period. Other than that, the only other attention i got from men were managers berating me and random guys staring at me or sneaking a peek at my boobs. So yeah, we need help badly😂

    • @KaylaL830
      @KaylaL830 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      😂🤣😂🤣😂

  • @oweber2160
    @oweber2160 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Idk about the hands and feet. I have seen some lies out here 😂

  • @tplouis
    @tplouis 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    😢😂😂😂

  • @craven_angel3105
    @craven_angel3105 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow. Is it really that easy? Statistically speaking.

  • @Peem_pom
    @Peem_pom หลายเดือนก่อน

    But what's wrong with feminised men. I love them

    • @SensualBrunette
      @SensualBrunette หลายเดือนก่อน

      @Peem_ pom the females the one that asks the male to get married instead of the other way around like it’s supposed to be when he’s feminine.

    • @maryamkim1281
      @maryamkim1281 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Personally, for me, there's a lot.
      I have my female family and friends so I am exposed to femininity a good bit. Being heterosexual myself, though, I personally prefer a nice dose of masculinity in a male romantic partner.

  • @n0love
    @n0love 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    Not good advice but the best entertainment of the day. 😂 Thanks for the laugh.

  • @Roni-Ron
    @Roni-Ron 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Do you recommend dating guys at work

    • @LLove-fi9xp
      @LLove-fi9xp 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

      No lol

    • @imo.124
      @imo.124 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      Noooooo don't do it

    • @imo.124
      @imo.124 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

      I don't date men at work or the gym because I need my peace and to keep my job if things don't go well lol

    • @cozysox
      @cozysox 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

      "Don't lay your meat where you make your bread." Heard that in a Spike Lee movie.

    • @gracie5870
      @gracie5870 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      Don't shit where you eat. 😅