How To Transcend Relationship Attachment? | Non Duality

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  • @spiritualrenaissance
    @spiritualrenaissance  ปีที่แล้ว +5

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  • @Elsie144k
    @Elsie144k ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I did experience that type of heartbreak once. Now I know I need to experience it a few more times to transmute that karma (or let it burn off or whatever). Feels much better than trying to avoid it out of fear. It was so intense and caused yet another dark night of the soul. Even though I knew I had to let go I just couldn’t. Lesson after lesson it seems life is teaching me the same things : “let go” “you are enough “ “love yourself”

  • @wolfhall3302
    @wolfhall3302 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I'm finally at a point in my life that I don't need a relationship I've felt heartbreak and it hurt me, but I heart her, and that's all that matters. Now I love that I went through it. And I completely love myself for going through it and getting through it. AMOR FATI!

  • @Dawnofcreation
    @Dawnofcreation ปีที่แล้ว +13

    For sure!! Came out of a relationship that was a brutal experience in the heart chakra. I literally died in the hospital of a "broken heart" a couple years ago and came back into another reality. Have learned my lesson to avoid attachment to outward objects going forward.

    • @spiritualrenaissance
      @spiritualrenaissance  ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Yes,, the breaking of the heart makes it stronger in a good way. One can still be equally vulnerable, but just less attached to outcomes and change. It happens automatically via these hard knocks.

  • @icesea11
    @icesea11 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Met a girl, it was a strike of lightning... We spent 5 days and 5 nights together. She decided that it is too much to bare for her .. I burned for 10 years straight . Almost sounds ridiculous. But that's what it was .. the next ones got a bit easier. This one is the easiest.. guess the residue starts to be burnt off... Keep your head up guys, and thanks Yash, your an anchor🙏

  • @sanekabc
    @sanekabc ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You are by far one of the best teachers of the unteachable out there. (Don't let that stroke your ego. Oh, go ahead, let it stroke your ego. he he)

    • @spiritualrenaissance
      @spiritualrenaissance  ปีที่แล้ว

      ..:) thanks. I feel its because im not trying to be a teacher at all-- that some “teaching” can come through.

  • @AmandaNicolexo
    @AmandaNicolexo ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Amazing video. I have experienced this deep feeling of love with one person. We had a very compassionate separation but it’s clear we both needed to focus on our lives. I felt like I’ve been in a perpetual state of longing for him, desiring him. Because this kind of love is so rare and I don’t love just anybody. It wasn’t until recently I have found peace. Within the attachment we can find our shadow. What we are running away from. What we feel like we ‘need’ from this person is exactly what we need to find in ourselves. Within the feelings of attachment I felt as if I needed to control the situation- even if it was just on a mental level. And that’s what was disrupting my peace, until I let it go. I let go of the control to the Higher Power of my understanding. It doesn’t mean that I don’t still love this person, I love them very much and it would feel amazing to be connected to them again- but now I feel grateful for this opportunity to practice healing the deepest parts of my soul that ache for love, connection and validation. Wow! Imagine that, upon separating I now have a beautiful opportunity to heal my heart and grow and elevate my energy to a higher frequency. And if this person and I connect again, they will be seeing an even stronger and more evolved person. So instead of seeing it as this person is the only one who holds the key to a happiness that we can’t access, we can see it as this person just unlocked the door and now we can to explore a new reality, a new experience and untouched parts of ourselves.
    Throughout this whole experience, I have learned so much about myself. I made some big changes in my life and have decided to pursue my dream career as a love and relationship mentor. I’m young, 22- but I have always felt like an old soul and can connect with people on such deep and intimate levels. I definitely don’t have all the answers, but I was spiritually led down this path and I’m following it. I’m excited to start my career and feel so passionate about what I’m doing. I feel like an onion and layers of be are being peeled away little by little. Because of the pain I felt from this separation, I am forced to look within and i’m facing myself little by slow. I’m excited for this next chapter and transcending to a new reality➡️☄️🌎🪷🌙💧⭐️
    It’s not about forgetting- it’s about releasing and looking within

    • @spiritualrenaissance
      @spiritualrenaissance  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Nice! It sounds similar to my experience that I had at your age. Very good that you automatically used it to further the deepening of your relationship with the divine.. This is the real purpose of relationships...
      PS: I also liked Brazil...:) that was my first overseas country I experienced. The romantic energy is super thick there.:)

    • @AmandaNicolexo
      @AmandaNicolexo ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@spiritualrenaissance Thank you so much, I appreciate that. And oh my goodness YES! I love Brazil, such a beautiful country with beautiful people. Lots of love and warmth there, which is what attracts me to the country so much.

    • @AmandaNicolexo
      @AmandaNicolexo ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@spiritualrenaissance I sent you an email by the way, I would love to hear your thoughts if you happen to have some time~

    • @spiritualrenaissance
      @spiritualrenaissance  ปีที่แล้ว

      i know. me also.

  • @petertesta1186
    @petertesta1186 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Once again, dude, right on the money! The wisdom and experience that you let come through you is amazing! You are such a clean vessel that what you give expression to is so pure, it needs no interpretation. The truth speaks for itself. Thank you, AGAIN! ❤️ You really helped with what I'm in the middle of right now.

    • @nicfromearth
      @nicfromearth ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I’m right there with you brother

  • @fedrn
    @fedrn ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I take a little pride in the fact that i (feel i) understand most of what you are talking about in all your videos. Then i take that pride and let it go 🎉

  • @TheAbundanceVibration
    @TheAbundanceVibration ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks so much Yash. I’m still working hard on transcending this. I want to be 100% okay by myself, but it’s really really really hard because I grew up with loving parents all around giving love and you get use to it for years then adulthood is different.

  • @flyingcompanion
    @flyingcompanion ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Ah thank you for another great topic Yash! Relationship is a big one for most of us. Its like velcro. I think I mentioned i recently got out of a 4 and a half year relationship. It didn't hit me at first but then the ego made up a story and fears and attachments came up.
    Fear of being alone, fear of not being loved, attachment to the things my ex used to do for me. And then memories when I visit places we used to visit. Amid of that, I am sometimes able to step back and see the fears and attachments for what they are, and sometimes it got me by the balls. haha.
    Lots of guilts and blames and also love and surrendering to the experience. Its a mix bag.
    And then theres a story of how if I get them back, it would fill the void. But then when I was in that relationship, I wanted to get out of it. It felt suffocating and I felt like we were both stuck and not being our best selves and living to our full potentials.
    The mind definitely has endless ways to make us suffer. When you in it, you suffer being in a relationship and when you are finally out of it, your mind wants it back because now it has all these fears, attachments, and insecurities.
    It's annoying. While I could see through it crystal clear, it still goes on and it still sucks!
    Why do we run from the void when its our true nature? The mind can't stand it.

    • @spiritualrenaissance
      @spiritualrenaissance  ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yes this is called living and experiencing life to the fullest! This is what gives us true wisdom and the true ability to understand others and give them some service. Its unavoidable. The consciousness wants to taste this intense duality. Its divinely ordained. and so there's nothing wrong. Everything is right!

    • @flyingcompanion
      @flyingcompanion ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@spiritualrenaissance yah I am definitely picking up a sense of peace amid this chaos when I give myself to it. Even when the upsetting memories and story is going on and part of me is upset, there is a sense that everything is perfect the way it is. It's only the mind that pushes away the sinking feeling but I am reminded it's just energy expressing itself. Sure it's not the pleasant uplifting energies, but i think this is the doorway to not pushing unpleasant feelings and chasing pleasant feelings. Its the path to getting less hooked. Even when it doesnt FEEL right, everything is right! Thank you Yash! Your wisdom is a blessing!

    • @spiritualrenaissance
      @spiritualrenaissance  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes, I say this also to people..:)
      “. Even when it doesnt FEEL right, everything is right! “

  • @tapedpopsicle
    @tapedpopsicle ปีที่แล้ว +1

    New camera? Looking crisp my dude 😎

  • @awakedimension5955
    @awakedimension5955 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My man, i resonate extremly with your videos, specialy this one..
    im in this „broken“ State now since the middle of November..
    I feeling so much Pain and other emotions..
    everything what you say.. your my perfect mirror 🙏🏼
    Thx, Dominik

    • @spiritualrenaissance
      @spiritualrenaissance  ปีที่แล้ว

      Good!.
      It usually will take longer than just a month for this process to be processed. Its ok. That process will be finished in time. And you will be at another level. Thats the best party. Its all good.

  • @Lucida1818
    @Lucida1818 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yes thanks this is confirming where I’m at. I have also woken up to the fact I can’t blame anyone or anything.
    That’s why I am watching this video 😅

  • @alsdean
    @alsdean ปีที่แล้ว

    My man I just had the nicest "enlightenment" through your video 👌

  • @DevinKeptGoing
    @DevinKeptGoing 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Can you make video on navigating through family who wants to guilt you for wanting space from them

  • @ImJustAnOnion
    @ImJustAnOnion 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love you french fry ❤

  • @jonmustang
    @jonmustang 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Something that has been tempting is temporary overcoming of pain. Like, I do think it's possible, I've had pain transform into bliss through awareness... but man, tough program to overcome. The human survival mechanism reboots really fast ;)

  • @couldliveonyoutube1841
    @couldliveonyoutube1841 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love that you told her you’d do this again. It’s very loving and vulnerable. Thank you. I resonate with your videos

  • @Mussterd
    @Mussterd ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Yash. Experiencing this right now. We broke up about 6 months ago and we had a super deep connection. Before the breakup I was at the most peace and feeling so close with myself higher self than I ever had. I was like "Pffff if we break up I'll be chillin". Fast forward and damn this game is some intense shit brotha. Was sobbing my eyes out in my car last night. It's funny because it goes in waves. For the last 2 months I've been so much better and now BOOM all of a sudden I'm experiencing all these intense emotions again. I understand now why people would say it could take a year till ur ready again.

    • @spiritualrenaissance
      @spiritualrenaissance  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      yes, it can be compared to detoxing from a drug, as well.

  • @DrummerJay74
    @DrummerJay74 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Third time is a charm for me. Each one hurt very bad in its own way. I feel no need or desire to go through it again. I get too attached and that is the lesson I’m taking away. Why go down that road again for some momentary pleasure? I’ll stay single and learn what I need to learn that way. It will all be learned in the end.

    • @spiritualrenaissance
      @spiritualrenaissance  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      yes 3 and a half times was a charm 4 me..:)

    • @spiritualrenaissance
      @spiritualrenaissance  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      but I enjoyed it and there was pain (duality). Its just not my destiny to have the stereotypical live together type partnership. Its not a volitional choice though that im making.

    • @DrummerJay74
      @DrummerJay74 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@spiritualrenaissance Deep down I knew I should get out of the last one but I tried to stick around for her and her son. Long story. Point is that I knew I was not where I needed to be. I was sort of hiding in ignorance. Thanks for your reply.

  • @corinaperezplaza6114
    @corinaperezplaza6114 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you 🙏💛
    I really needed to hear this, I appreciate it. God bless you my friend 🙏🌟

  • @tobik.2849
    @tobik.2849 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you 🙏🏽 you're my new favorite channel on TH-cam. Such clear and genuine messages 🙏🏽🧡

  • @dianeclayton4936
    @dianeclayton4936 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love this! Thank you! 😊

  • @straighttalkinggirl7622
    @straighttalkinggirl7622 ปีที่แล้ว

    So needed your spiritual wisdom today, thank you.

  • @DobermanVIII
    @DobermanVIII ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What can i say is this that, a lot of relationships with another human being are just preparation for being with your ultimate lover, is better when you get charm from another person and you are more free, because when you surrendered and self realized, i resonate with version that you will be with you lover in happy relationship, i think real love is like boomerang always back, i just see „twin flames” in union because they overcame what they need to overcame to be together without drama and that shit.

  • @christinaleilupo8343
    @christinaleilupo8343 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It’s only me and life… but it’s about the rot course to attachment

  • @yuliamilostivaya
    @yuliamilostivaya ปีที่แล้ว

    “and get in a relationship”))😅
    Love your videos, thank u ❤

  • @Will2Wisdom
    @Will2Wisdom ปีที่แล้ว

    Really good

  • @kailashkerthick2048
    @kailashkerthick2048 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    💯% true. Non dual people cannot relate to this kind of love failure experiences. They always say nothing exist, pain does not exist, you are everything ,blah blah blah.....

    • @julietteSoul
      @julietteSoul ปีที่แล้ว +2

      If you are in a body you are dual, they are just pushing the feelings down .

    • @spiritualrenaissance
      @spiritualrenaissance  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      yes its a subtle unconscious suppression many times.

  • @Loftanese
    @Loftanese ปีที่แล้ว

    sooo powerful Yash it honestly feels like blessing to have felt this level of love with someone so deep this early in my life! there’s times we’d just look each other in the eyes for extended periods of time almost felt like sex but only with our eyes man something about it was blissful basically being indescribable!! It deff hurt when this ended but gave me so much inner fire to keep transcending, working on my inner self to meet more parts of me I’ve never introduced myself to and just like you said I’d do it again 100% ❤

  • @gmm2910
    @gmm2910 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you 🙏🏼

  • @jiggersotoole7823
    @jiggersotoole7823 ปีที่แล้ว

    Solid gold, bro 👌

  • @julietteSoul
    @julietteSoul ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Romantic relationships have all fizzled out. Done , really dont care anymore. I have had my fill. I was going through much worse with a sibling the past three yrs. I told Source if you take her, take me. No romance ever came close to that. 🙏🏻

  • @MindMoulder
    @MindMoulder ปีที่แล้ว +1

    In my last relationship , i had to learn self-love , that i can't help anyone else at the expense of myself.
    Thanks for just being you , i like your perspective i find myself nodding and smiling/laughing all the time ✌ Especially that one when you told about the robber and the 'holy' person 😂 what was it like 'Bless you my child' or something 😂

    • @spiritualrenaissance
      @spiritualrenaissance  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      lol...:). Good, Im glad you are feeling it...

    • @MindMoulder
      @MindMoulder ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@spiritualrenaissance Haha 😆 For sure !

  • @anamnesiser
    @anamnesiser ปีที่แล้ว +1

    And Mary Magdalene what an experience for her and knowing it was coming, pheeew that was one intense ride she went on.
    They both must have come back to be a peaceful pair in the millennial kingdom or something after burning that karma. Then checked out before this little season!

    • @spiritualrenaissance
      @spiritualrenaissance  ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes, there are some episodes and experiences that human beings have that are beyond words, beyond intense, for sure...

  • @MattyLiam333
    @MattyLiam333 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Perfectly timed. I have a chick who I can't scare off with non dual talk to save my life! Hahaha. Mostly I just want to be left alone so I can focus on my practices and my daily apparent life responsibilities. This is tough because I don't want anyone to feel rejected. Maybe I have a question here. Not sure. Let me finish the video and see if you answer it. Haha! Hari Ohm brother.

    • @spiritualrenaissance
      @spiritualrenaissance  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      if u cant scare them off with non dual talk then it must be serious..:) You can just talk with her soberly without any of the habitual sexual and flirtatious play and then it will be clear if something “real” is there to connect with.

    • @MattyLiam333
      @MattyLiam333 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@spiritualrenaissance Hahaha, true that my friend. I thought for sure that would do it. Sometimes I don't even realize that I am flirting. Bad habit I got into when I used to be a singer of a pretty popular regional cover band. I am definitely trying to get away from that part of my life now, so that is great advice. I will try that. Thank you so much.

  • @christinaleilupo8343
    @christinaleilupo8343 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hi !! I AM in contact with enormous loneliness! I see it’s from my childhood.. it’s so clear… I can become the situation and it have been the ground problem in my life…. I can see that now. It’s time to trans send it!!! Know more strategy’s… is it only to bee with it? This is my ground separation!!! I am close to see something important!!! What to do?

    • @spiritualrenaissance
      @spiritualrenaissance  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Just let it keep unfolding. The divine started this realization and it will see it through. It is an unfolding process though. It almost always is on this plane of existence ...

  • @jgarciajr82
    @jgarciajr82 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️

  • @g76moore
    @g76moore 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    3x

  • @NathanielPlainson
    @NathanielPlainson 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What do I do when cupid shoots me and EVERYONE thats around me?

    • @spiritualrenaissance
      @spiritualrenaissance  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      🙂
      fight for her like all the male dogs do in the animal kingdom...:)

  • @Uni369.
    @Uni369. ปีที่แล้ว

    Like that lol who waking up??

  • @AS-tz1kx
    @AS-tz1kx ปีที่แล้ว

    Does this apply to being cheated on by a narcissist? I think the universe guided me to this video for a reason, b/c I'm trying my best to let go, and forgive but it's not easy b/c he would continue to cheat without me knowing yet he didn't think to let me go, and spare my feelings - he continued to lie. I had to investigate and confirm my suspicions myself.
    I spoke to the other woman and let her know what was going on, she decided to give him a 2nd chance, when she was the other woman and not me. They're planning on getting engaged now. I left silently and he did not even bother to apologize. Maybe I feel entitled.
    So here I am with a broken heart and he tortured me emotionally as well as mentally for the past 7 years and he gets what? an engagement?
    My body is literally going through torture, I feel sick to my stomach, have chest tightness, feel pain in my stomach and chest, can't eat, am nauseous, and gagging. My intuition tells me he will have to answer to the divine for mistreating me.
    I pray to heal quickly, thank you for your wisdom in this video.🙏

    • @spiritualrenaissance
      @spiritualrenaissance  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      A few things:
      -You will be able to smell this kind of trouble/energy in the future from a guy, now since you have had such intimate experience with it already. And you cant help but grow from such a powerful emotional stirring and ego busting experience.
      - His current marriage will also fail 100%. if His character is the way that u described it, then Its just a matter of time. Be grateful that you arent in a contract with him (marriage) and have kids, etc. That would be even more messy. Be grateful that God spared you of that ended it for you.
      - Be the bigger one here and actually pray that he finds peace because based on the way u described him that would be a suffering state (even if he doesnt feel it or know it). This will help burn any ego that remains in you and its deep desire to want to blame the other be the one who is right. Its not about right here. Its about using the situation to crush any ego that is left and to increase our humility because in this surrendered state of humility then we will find a love inside that no other human being or partner could ever provide. A love that is pure and without the negative side of duality.

    • @AS-tz1kx
      @AS-tz1kx ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​@@spiritualrenaissance Thank you, I am grateful to you for your guidance and wisdom. 🙏
      I am definitely grateful to God for revealing the truth.