Aw thanks :) My voice can be super deep if I want it too, but I can also make it androgynous if that's what I'm feeling. It's perfect for me as a non binary person who prefers to pass as male sometimes.
I'm genderfluid nonbinary questioning and I have gender dysphoria around my chest area, hips, and butt. I plan on getting top surgery but I don't plan on going on T because the cons outweigh the pros from me (the pros being fat redistribution so I'm flatter and less curvy, and maybe a slightly deeper androgynous voice). I just wish my body could be flat and not curvy without having to do anything.
Definitely give yourself time to figure out what you want :) there is no rush unless gender dysphoria is stopping you from living how you want to. There is never an easy way to have things happen, so no matter if it’s t, top surgery, or anything else it will always be a process. The thing that helped me the most with my body shape dysphoria was weight lifting and core workouts because I got broader shoulders and arms and my core became more rectangular. Good luck!
Hey that’s awesome! Great things shall come. The first thing I noticed was increased endurance and strength within a couple weeks. Maybe it was placebo but I was stoked anyway.
@@wolfibird i can feel the increase in strength already i go to the gym usually daily but took a week off & usually coming back after a break like that i have to go down in weight but i found myself the same and using higher weights in some areas ! so that's pretty cool.
I hope when you read this comment you are doing well and feeling happy. I am wondering what your current goal is. After top surgery is there a difference between transgender and non binary? My adult child identifies as non binary and is considering testosterone. I am trying to understand where transgender and non binary differ. My child currently describes feeling 10 % female and 90 % male.
Edit: So sorry this is super long! I hope it helps a little bit. Feel free to ask any other questions you might have. :) Hi! I really appreciate you asking these questions, it shows how much you really care about your child. You are an amazing parent for supporting them for who they are. Everybody has a different end goal in mind, especially for non binary people, but mine is most just to have top surgery and continue taking testosterone but continue to have people in my life use gender neutral language for me. I'm not planning on any other surgeries so my body will continue to be a mix of male and female but mostly masculine. This is what feels best for me and so far has helped incredibly in feeling free in my skin and loving my body. Transgender is a term used to describe anybody who does not identify as the gender they were at birth. It can describe a non binary person, or somebody who just identifies as a man or a woman. But honestly, some people prefer to just use one term over the other. I call myself a trans person as well as a non binary person. Non binary is just more specific in my case. It is also kind of funny that you said your child described themselves as 10% female and 90% male because that is what I told my mother when she could not understand how I felt years ago. Now farther along with my journey, I don't view my gender as a set of percentages of male and female, and more as just my own experience completely outside of what male and female are.
@@wolfibird thank you for your response. Since you replied to my comment I came across the term bigender. Do you have thoughts on the term? Did you socially transition before receiving medical intervention?
@@sueciviero3866 Bigender seems to be a more specific term for a non binary experience. Non binary just means a gender identity which is not the typical male or female. I think a person who identifies as bigender would seem to feel partially male, and partially female. Right now, I identify more along with a genderless experience, which is sometimes called agender. But personally, I just like calling myself non binary, because it is a looser term. And yes, I was socially transitioned for almost two years before doing anything medical. By socially transitioned, I mean out to friends and family as non-binary, and having them use gender neutral language and a new name for me. I also began dressing how I was comfortable, which was with mainly mens clothing, and getting a masculine haircut.
Thank you! I’ve been on 0.15 milliliters per week which is about 33 milligrams, and I do injections. The dose is different for everyone because of many factors.
Sorry for the late reply! That is one of the effects of testosterone therapy for trans folks. It makes your voice deeper, as well as a ton of other effects. You need to get it prescribed by an endocrinologist though.
It's also important to note that you can't pick and choose which effects you have. Everyone's body is effected by HRT differently. So there no way to tell which attributes your body will have a tendency to develop. There are some trans men with deeper voices, others with more effeminate voice for a cis male. One thing that is certain, any voice changes are usually permanent. Please use great care when deciding if you'll take that path.
It is usually the opposite. I had high T levels before, so this was just a boost. And I am young, so it's basically like I am going through male puberty. Normally low dose makes changes take longer. I would recommend looking up other TH-camrs who were on low dose t.
Because I have a condition called gender dysphoria which causes many negative mental health effects when I live as the gender I was at birth. Transitioning lets me live a happy and free life. I feel much better now. I hope this helps clear things up?
tht voice drop tho👀 ur dimple is so cuteeee u look great!
Aw thanks :) My voice can be super deep if I want it too, but I can also make it androgynous if that's what I'm feeling. It's perfect for me as a non binary person who prefers to pass as male sometimes.
I'm genderfluid nonbinary questioning and I have gender dysphoria around my chest area, hips, and butt. I plan on getting top surgery but I don't plan on going on T because the cons outweigh the pros from me (the pros being fat redistribution so I'm flatter and less curvy, and maybe a slightly deeper androgynous voice). I just wish my body could be flat and not curvy without having to do anything.
Definitely give yourself time to figure out what you want :) there is no rush unless gender dysphoria is stopping you from living how you want to. There is never an easy way to have things happen, so no matter if it’s t, top surgery, or anything else it will always be a process. The thing that helped me the most with my body shape dysphoria was weight lifting and core workouts because I got broader shoulders and arms and my core became more rectangular. Good luck!
i'm non binary as well and i just got on .25 of T and i'm on my first week. so excited 💪🏾
Hey that’s awesome! Great things shall come. The first thing I noticed was increased endurance and strength within a couple weeks. Maybe it was placebo but I was stoked anyway.
@@wolfibird i can feel the increase in strength already i go to the gym usually daily but took a week off & usually coming back after a break like that i have to go down in weight but i found myself the same and using higher weights in some areas ! so that's pretty cool.
@@JourneyOfCin Awesome! I love that feeling. T also makes your muscles grow in an awesome masculine way.
I hope when you read this comment you are doing well and feeling happy. I am wondering what your current goal is. After top surgery is there a difference between transgender and non binary? My adult child identifies as non binary and is considering testosterone. I am trying to understand where transgender and non binary differ. My child currently describes feeling 10 % female and 90 % male.
Edit: So sorry this is super long! I hope it helps a little bit. Feel free to ask any other questions you might have. :)
Hi! I really appreciate you asking these questions, it shows how much you really care about your child. You are an amazing parent for supporting them for who they are.
Everybody has a different end goal in mind, especially for non binary people, but mine is most just to have top surgery and continue taking testosterone but continue to have people in my life use gender neutral language for me. I'm not planning on any other surgeries so my body will continue to be a mix of male and female but mostly masculine. This is what feels best for me and so far has helped incredibly in feeling free in my skin and loving my body.
Transgender is a term used to describe anybody who does not identify as the gender they were at birth. It can describe a non binary person, or somebody who just identifies as a man or a woman. But honestly, some people prefer to just use one term over the other. I call myself a trans person as well as a non binary person. Non binary is just more specific in my case.
It is also kind of funny that you said your child described themselves as 10% female and 90% male because that is what I told my mother when she could not understand how I felt years ago. Now farther along with my journey, I don't view my gender as a set of percentages of male and female, and more as just my own experience completely outside of what male and female are.
@@wolfibird thank you for your response. Since you replied to my comment I came across the term bigender. Do you have thoughts on the term? Did you socially transition before receiving medical intervention?
@@sueciviero3866 Bigender seems to be a more specific term for a non binary experience. Non binary just means a gender identity which is not the typical male or female. I think a person who identifies as bigender would seem to feel partially male, and partially female. Right now, I identify more along with a genderless experience, which is sometimes called agender. But personally, I just like calling myself non binary, because it is a looser term.
And yes, I was socially transitioned for almost two years before doing anything medical. By socially transitioned, I mean out to friends and family as non-binary, and having them use gender neutral language and a new name for me. I also began dressing how I was comfortable, which was with mainly mens clothing, and getting a masculine haircut.
@@wolfibird thank you for your thoughtful answer. I look forward to following your channel.
How many mg of test have you been on? Shots or gel? Looking great friend
Thank you! I’ve been on 0.15 milliliters per week which is about 33 milligrams, and I do injections. The dose is different for everyone because of many factors.
Wait can i inject testosterone to get my voice more deeper 👀
Sorry for the late reply! That is one of the effects of testosterone therapy for trans folks. It makes your voice deeper, as well as a ton of other effects. You need to get it prescribed by an endocrinologist though.
It's also important to note that you can't pick and choose which effects you have. Everyone's body is effected by HRT differently. So there no way to tell which attributes your body will have a tendency to develop. There are some trans men with deeper voices, others with more effeminate voice for a cis male. One thing that is certain, any voice changes are usually permanent. Please use great care when deciding if you'll take that path.
For low doses the changes are very strong and powerfully and also fast . If I see trans guys they're get on t it tooks a way mire time
It is usually the opposite. I had high T levels before, so this was just a boost. And I am young, so it's basically like I am going through male puberty. Normally low dose makes changes take longer. I would recommend looking up other TH-camrs who were on low dose t.
bro you look awesome
Thanks! I feel awesome too :)
are you that guy from reddit?
Lol I am on Reddit, but I don't know if I'm "that guy"
Why do you want to change gender
Because I have a condition called gender dysphoria which causes many negative mental health effects when I live as the gender I was at birth. Transitioning lets me live a happy and free life. I feel much better now.
I hope this helps clear things up?
If you are nonbinary, why transition?
@@marcielynn4886 Because of gender dysphoria. It didn’t feel right to have certain sex traits.