It’s a little bit sad that she had to wait so long. She had a history of a stroke came in with dizziness and then had to sit in the waiting room. She really should’ve been taken back sooner and then had a little bit of a fast track through the stroke team Right away upon coming to the emergency staff.
I agree with this. It was also weird how Adam had to wait so long, even though they were so concerned with the blood supply to his foot getting cut off.@@jeannerountree952
To Adam’s mum, I totally agree with what you said on video. You can’t get to them fast enough. You can’t make it better. All you can do is be there when you can get to them.❤
What a beautiful couple Tony and Lina are! ❤ Absolutely loving and respectful. They just bounce off each other.. xxx. I could watch and listen to them for hours.
@@johncspine2787 No, she was judgemental and blatantly rude with her nasty comments. Diane, Adam's mum, handled it much more gracefully with a touch of humor to help correct her son's behavior. If you treat your child like a bad person, they will grow up thinking they are and you'll push them away.
As Adam is transfered to the ER bed, the team was reaching out and touching his hands. Offering human comfort when most needed. Rosa's mother isn't just a pill, she's the whole pharmacy! What a pain! And I say this as a 60 yr old woman. One day Jo is going to wonder why Rosa never calls or comes by any more. Tony gets it. He knows what love is.
when tony says that "what you feel rn is immaterial" just made me tear up so bad. I've cried on the phone or in front of my mom when she was admitted to a hospital and i realise now that maybe i just got her more worried when i should have given her support
I love Dr Neal, I love him! He was a Dr at the surgical center wasn’t he…he worked with several other Drs there. He is so good to people! I wish we had Drs like him at my hospital/Drs office.
Miserable lady isn’t she; Rosa’s Mum, saying she smells like an old pub and following that up with stating she smells like the floor of an old pub. How nasty. She told her daughter earlier that she could smell the alcohol must she Keep going on & on? The girl is 18. Of course she’ll be going out with friends. No need to be horrid to her . Maybe be grateful that she only has a fractured wrist & scraped hand and love on her rather than being so cross. Be happy you are together and your daughter is well. She seems a sweet normal young lady. She will make mistakes. Didn’t we all?
The elderly couple were just lovely❤ I particularly loved his words. His interviews are so full of wisdom and love and truth. What a great thing for a 14 Yr old to watch. There are some of the most important lessons any one could hope to learn. Truly inspirational. (Props to the editing team... 👍)
Once Rosa is out of the house, she will probably distance herself from her mother. Mom is the sort that will be a passive aggressive aggressive gas lighting cow to her daughter forever if Rosa lets her.
Deserves to be. Rosa is a spoiled brat who went out, got drunk, fell off her bike, is at A and E for a little boo boo on her hand and at 18 is already a narcissistic loser. Mom should just kick her out, not drive her to the emergency room.
I would love to sit down and have a few pints with Tony. Old sailors like him have SO many great stories to tell. My ex partner’s dad used to be a sailor and I would listen to him talk for hours. Let the memories live on…
Adam’s Mum is right. The toughest time of being a parent is when your child is old enough to be out & about on his own. You never stop worrying about them no matter how old they get. They are always our “babies.”
I feel bad for Rosa because clearly she’s just being a young adult and going out with her friends and doing very normal things like everyone does at that age and her mom is a nightmare about it, acting like she’s going out and working in the red light district and shooting up heroin or something! It’s awful and then she has the audacity to ask Rosa why she didn’t call her when her bike was broken on her way home- uh hello it’s because you would have freaked out and given her hell all the way home! Not a great way to build a strong trusting relationship with your child honestly! I hope she sees how much she’s pushing her daughter away before it’s too late.
Can't agree. Rosa was drunk and riding a bike at night in the city, alone. Seriously stupid move, and her mum is right to be angry. She's not handling it too well, but her anger comes from worry. She's also right that Rosa could have been raped, which is what happens to so many women alone who get drunk in a place like London. Also, we don't know their history. Rosa might have been a very difficult teenager, and her mum might just be fed up to the back teeth.
Agreed, very bad parenting. Not the time or place to remonstrate a child, when the girl is in pain/shock and scared and already worried what punishment is coming tomorrow. The mother never gives a kind word to her child, the closest she comes to any nurturing is fanning the girl but then she quickly complains about the effort. Instead she makes it all about her, using her child to soothe her own anxiety in the situation by baiting her with questions that forces the girl to accept responsibility for the mother's emotions. That's narcissistic af. The mother's fears are irrelevant in the moment; all that matters currently is restoring the child's health and a big part of that is mental health. What the girl really needs to hear is that everything is going to be okay, she is safe and loved, and they can talk about what happened later after they're both relaxed, fed, washed, and comfortable. Then the mother should give the child the opportunity to tell her story after which she can ask her daughter what the daughter thinks of her own behavior and how she thinks it might've impacted those who love her. Let the kid learn her way to the truth, don't passive aggressively needle her in an effing hospital room while she's bleeding--and that creepy little baby doll voice she uses? Sooo manipulative, like throwing knives with velvet gloves on. This poor kid's gonna need therapy, big time.
@@aquachonk that was one of the most thorough and well presented analyses of that type of situation with the behavior/emotional dynamic between the parent (mother in this case) and the child. I couldn’t agree more!!!!!!!! Also, I love that such an eloquently stated but very understandable and well organized comment came from the account of “aquachonk” lolololol 💕🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@aquachonkwhen would be the right time. This could have been a very bad outcome. She lives with her mom and needs to be respectful. If she doesn’t want to she needs to move out. All you people want to coddle the young kids. You don’t expect them to take responsibility for their actions. This isn’t the same world it used to be to be. If you act recklessly there needs to be consequences so they can learn and grow.
Ok…they had me good…thought we had lost Lisa…was expecting the birth and death dates to come up…and there she was sitting at the table…they had me so good. Happy for them both. As for the mother and daughter - let’s not judge.
Happy to judge with full force--that mother has all the earmarks of a covert narcissist and the kid is an accomplished codependent. People who have been to war recognize fellow veterans.
Rosa's mother seems like the type who orders food in a restaurant and starts complaining after 12 minutes and 3 seconds why her main dish takes so long and then starts leaving reviews with 14 accounts that the waiters and waitresses are lazy, the cooks are bad and the restaurant manager shoots heroin in the bathroom.
it was terrible watching Lina further deteriorate right before our eyes while the doctor seems like she is about to send her home. I was screaming at the screen!
I’m so sorry…I know what you’re going through! I was 24 when my parents died. Mom from peritonitis in December and dad having open heart surgery in February.😢😢❤
Lost my dad when i was 13 and had to watch my mother nearly dying, she only survived because i was in hospital and she was next to me when her heart stopped beating. It is really painful to loose parents this early. Sending you a hug if you want. R.I.P to both of your parents ❤
As a mother of four children from 13-22 I would never tell my child they smell like the floor of a pub or say some of the things she said. Also, they knew they were being filmed and that it would be aired, and the mother felt it was appropriate to talk to her daughter that way in public. I worry about what is said behind closed doors.
I am a mother and when something like that happens you go into crisis mode and when the crisis is over and you can breathe again you get angry at the stupidity and yes I get it that they're kids and they're going to do stupid things .@@ajpthequeen
Rosa’s mother is literally my mom. Of course I don’t talk to my mom anymore for this exact reason bc she degrades me just like Rosas mom in the most vulnerable state.
@@abd4175 she’s gotten ALOT better recently but the trust is still not 100% there. I think the no contact really opened her eyes. She’s been more supportive of things going on in my life instead of questioning it or wanting it her way. I rely on my boyfriends mom if I am in a more vulnerable state because she is more chill and isn’t judgemental haha
These shows are mild compared to what really comes in to the emergency sometimes. People in horrific crashes with body parts missing, huge gashes...ugh I've seen it all
I don't understand how I can see that couple. So, so in love. Soul mates. It really made me happy. I found mine 6 months after my divorce. Still love my ex. He got remarried to a brat yet so beautiful. My partner and I have been together for 10 years on last June 25th. He is a primary caregiver to me. He jokingly teases me about being with him for his money or slave labour!. 😂 We never argue. We quip over each other and apologies and laughing. Life is a prescious thing. Don't worry about being annoying and fun. In a relationship is hard to maintain our love? No. Unconditional every step of the way! ❤😊
Mom’s being sooo critical at the time of the incident is ridiculous. Why can’t the offer comfort and a bit of understanding? Later, they can talk about whats and whys-- when both have had a bit of time to think.
I was 29 when I lost my dad and brother, they left me all alone with my mother and sister. I was very angry at my brother for leaving me… Poor kid, her mom is a jerk
Rose's Mom sounds like one of those soft spoken nightmare Karen's. Says the most hateful things in the softest voice. Sounds like the sister has isolated herself and closed herself off probably because of how scared she is of her mom. Feels so bad.
I can't imagine why Rosa would want to leave the home and drink. Geez, her mother is unreasonable and Rosa will never make a good decision in her eyes.
17:47 I WISH I WAS A GARDENER IN THE UK. To pluck that Rose. The word Rosa, in Spanish, means Rose or the color pink. She is a very pretty young lady with beautiful eyes.
Rosas mum is really passive aggressive towards her. Shes constantly going after her, using every situation to express her disappointment. Get over it, mam.
Rosa should absolutely leave her mom from how abusive she is now. Imagine home life from public behavior alone. Not all parents deserve having children.
The hardest job in the world is being a mum. Dad's don't worry as much as mum's when our babies starts do things away from us. My son is 34 and I still worry about him
I can see that none of you who are giving Rosa's mom grief are parents. You dont know the worry if your child is safe, if your daughter is being drugged and raped. If your son is going to be home or arrested for drunk driving, or injured in an accident. What did you expect to see the mom to say?
I find that both parents in this episode, both the boy and girls, pick the wrong time for criticizing and haranguing their children. Get off their backs. If they were critical would they be pulling this crap? Shut up and support them. They’re scared, especially the young man.
@@cindyhalpern3187 that's not caring. That's shaming your daughter in public, instead of taking a deep breath, backing off, and first of all getting her back to health, take time to calm down, THEN, after you both have had rest address the issue and talk. A&E is not the place for that.
My mom is very similar to Rosa's. I chose to become estranged and haven't regretted the decision for even a second since! One day she'll wonder why Rosa won't call her or visit and will only have herself to blame. "My sister's nailed it, talking less and knowing what to say." Sweetness, that is not a healthy parent-child relationship, that is a sign of abuse. Get out and don't look back.
You can tell the young women that’s mother kept talking so angry to her it’s a common occurrence the way she reacted. She is 18 and not 12 the mom needs to back off some.
That mother is despicable. I wouldn't blame the daughter if she left home by now. Poor girl. She has a narcissistic mother...what an insult saying she smells like a pub floor. And the worst thing is that the daughter is brainwashed into thinking her mum is always right. 😢
She didn’t disrespect her at all. Her mom is being out of line and chastising her for simply going out and doing things that young adults her age do. She did nothing wrong and her mom was a nightmare.
Considering how her mom was speaking to her, I think she was very respectful and held her tongue. As a mom, you have to show discipline, but you don't have to be such a jerk, especially while Rosa was in pain. Sit down and talk with her later and you can be firm, but not hateful.
she's not a child to be disciplined. her days of mothering her daughter in that way ended on rosa's 18th birthday. She is now an adult so her mother no longer gets a say in her daughter's affairs. @@Grianan66
Rosa showed more respect than her mom deserved. If that’s the worst thing Rosa has done, then mom should be thankful and not treat her so coldly, especially when injured.
Sometimes I think children who come of age forget that a mother’s love and worry doesn’t cease when they turn 18. We can keep them safe by not allowing them to do things when they are young, but suddenly they are 18 and doing things that could seriously harm them, and we have no say in it. We can’t tell them no. But we are worried and frightened by their behavior. The fact that we can’t keep them safe anymore, and they are more than willing to put themselves in harms way, makes us absolutely crazy with fear. We aren’t trying to be controlling or evil parents. But it is quite difficult to take that huge step backwards and let go of the grip we have on them that we use to keep them safe. Be forgiving with your parents and give them the time they need to come to terms with this. And know, for most parents, this is born out of the utmost love. There is usually nothing that a parent loves more than they love their children. Even when that child is 60 years old!!!
I love how Tony is this big, gruff looking guy but he clearly has a heart of gold and a deep love for his wife.
It’s a little bit sad that she had to wait so long. She had a history of a stroke came in with dizziness and then had to sit in the waiting room. She really should’ve been taken back sooner and then had a little bit of a fast track through the stroke team Right away upon coming to the emergency staff.
I agree with this. It was also weird how Adam had to wait so long, even though they were so concerned with the blood supply to his foot getting cut off.@@jeannerountree952
I lost it when he talked about hoping she goes first so he knows she's safe
Tony and Lina are a prime example of couple goals. Bless them.
They really are. What a beautiful couple; I found their relationship deeply touching.
Dr. Lucy has one brown eye and one green eye! So cool!❤ I liked Tony & Lina too. Very sweet!❤
To Adam’s mum, I totally agree with what you said on video. You can’t get to them fast enough. You can’t make it better. All you can do is be there when you can get to them.❤
Tony and Lisa are precious. Love, prayers, and good wishes. Perfect quote, "She seems to be getting more beautiful as she gets older."
@42:39 "You hope that she goes first, so you know she's safe"
Such deeply touching words.
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Tony and Lena are so sweet ! I wish them well !
She's more beautiful as she gets older >> That's so wonderful to hear 💖💘. God bless Tony and Lena 😇 I'm Maltese too! 😉🙂
Tony and Lina!
I feel fortunate to have not been in the drinking crowd when I was a young adult. We all had a blast even so. 😊
Tony and Lina have a wonderful connection, what a wonderful couple. I hope they have many more trips.
What a beautiful couple Tony and Lina are! ❤
Absolutely loving and respectful. They just bounce off each other.. xxx. I could watch and listen to them for hours.
Rosa's mom is a piece of work
? Spoiled 18 year old, gets drunk, falls off her bike. Future loser..oh wait, current loser. Yet her mom goes with her to ER.
The more you nag, the more the kid rebels. And let's not forget Rosa is an adult not a 12 year old.
@@johncspine2787 No, she was judgemental and blatantly rude with her nasty comments. Diane, Adam's mum, handled it much more gracefully with a touch of humor to help correct her son's behavior. If you treat your child like a bad person, they will grow up thinking they are and you'll push them away.
As Adam is transfered to the ER bed, the team was reaching out and touching his hands. Offering human comfort when most needed.
Rosa's mother isn't just a pill, she's the whole pharmacy! What a pain! And I say this as a 60 yr old woman. One day Jo is going to wonder why Rosa never calls or comes by any more.
Tony gets it. He knows what love is.
She’s very forgiving of her mum though.
So was I, when I was eighteen. For me it took to become a mother myself to realize how mean I had been treated. @@jjjones1960
when tony says that "what you feel rn is immaterial" just made me tear up so bad. I've cried on the phone or in front of my mom when she was admitted to a hospital and i realise now that maybe i just got her more worried when i should have given her support
Oh tears tears that older couple broke me thank God she is ok❤❤❤
I love Dr Neal, I love him! He was a Dr at the surgical center wasn’t he…he worked with several other Drs there. He is so good to people! I wish we had Drs like him at my hospital/Drs office.
Rosa’s mom is super critical. She needs to take a chill pill!!
Indeed, as a retired nurse, I love this program.
As a chronic pain disabled person, I too love this program..
Tony and Lina are precious. Everyone wants what they have. Yet seldom get it.
Miserable lady isn’t she; Rosa’s Mum, saying she smells like an old pub and following that up with stating she smells like the floor of an old pub. How nasty. She told her daughter earlier that she could smell the alcohol must she Keep going on & on? The girl is 18. Of course she’ll be going out with friends. No need to be horrid to her . Maybe be grateful that she only has a fractured wrist & scraped hand and love on her rather than being so cross. Be happy you are together and your daughter is well. She seems a sweet normal young lady. She will make mistakes. Didn’t we all?
They seem to get along fine so must just be the way they deal with each other.
The elderly couple were just lovely❤ I particularly loved his words. His interviews are so full of wisdom and love and truth.
What a great thing for a 14 Yr old to watch. There are some of the most important lessons any one could hope to learn.
Truly inspirational.
(Props to the editing team... 👍)
What a sarcastic women, so much for supporting her daughter
Once Rosa is out of the house, she will probably distance herself from her mother. Mom is the sort that will be a passive aggressive aggressive gas lighting cow to her daughter forever if Rosa lets her.
Deserves to be. Rosa is a spoiled brat who went out, got drunk, fell off her bike, is at A and E for a little boo boo on her hand and at 18 is already a narcissistic loser. Mom should just kick her out, not drive her to the emergency room.
I would love to sit down and have a few pints with Tony. Old sailors like him have SO many great stories to tell. My ex partner’s dad used to be a sailor and I would listen to him talk for hours. Let the memories live on…
Tony could start a blog. At the very least he should be filmed. Anyone out there able to help?
A mother’s love. There is nothing better or more dear.
Thank you for posting these, I am always looking forward to the next episode upload, Awesome job
45:11 omg I love this lady so much!! I love them both, I love their love! I hope they’re still keeping on ❤
Lena and Tony are absolutely adorable ❤❤❤
Adam’s Mum is right. The toughest time of being a parent is when your child is old enough to be out & about on his own. You never stop worrying about them no matter how old they get. They are always our “babies.”
Love this Dr. It is nice to see the other side of men.
Lena and Tony are adorable!!
This episode touched me. I’m having major back surgery next month and my two kids more or less don’t want to be bothered. My heart hurts💔
So sorry. I hope your surgery goes well and you have a speedy recovery
I'm so sorry! I pray it goes well and they find their hearts.
I'm so sorry for that. Hopefully, they'll come around. Good luck with your operation.
I feel bad for Rosa because clearly she’s just being a young adult and going out with her friends and doing very normal things like everyone does at that age and her mom is a nightmare about it, acting like she’s going out and working in the red light district and shooting up heroin or something! It’s awful and then she has the audacity to ask Rosa why she didn’t call her when her bike was broken on her way home- uh hello it’s because you would have freaked out and given her hell all the way home! Not a great way to build a strong trusting relationship with your child honestly! I hope she sees how much she’s pushing her daughter away before it’s too late.
Can't agree. Rosa was drunk and riding a bike at night in the city, alone. Seriously stupid move, and her mum is right to be angry. She's not handling it too well, but her anger comes from worry. She's also right that Rosa could have been raped, which is what happens to so many women alone who get drunk in a place like London. Also, we don't know their history. Rosa might have been a very difficult teenager, and her mum might just be fed up to the back teeth.
Agreed, very bad parenting. Not the time or place to remonstrate a child, when the girl is in pain/shock and scared and already worried what punishment is coming tomorrow. The mother never gives a kind word to her child, the closest she comes to any nurturing is fanning the girl but then she quickly complains about the effort. Instead she makes it all about her, using her child to soothe her own anxiety in the situation by baiting her with questions that forces the girl to accept responsibility for the mother's emotions. That's narcissistic af. The mother's fears are irrelevant in the moment; all that matters currently is restoring the child's health and a big part of that is mental health. What the girl really needs to hear is that everything is going to be okay, she is safe and loved, and they can talk about what happened later after they're both relaxed, fed, washed, and comfortable. Then the mother should give the child the opportunity to tell her story after which she can ask her daughter what the daughter thinks of her own behavior and how she thinks it might've impacted those who love her. Let the kid learn her way to the truth, don't passive aggressively needle her in an effing hospital room while she's bleeding--and that creepy little baby doll voice she uses? Sooo manipulative, like throwing knives with velvet gloves on. This poor kid's gonna need therapy, big time.
@@aquachonk that was one of the most thorough and well presented analyses of that type of situation with the behavior/emotional dynamic between the parent (mother in this case) and the child. I couldn’t agree more!!!!!!!! Also, I love that such an eloquently stated but very understandable and well organized comment came from the account of “aquachonk” lolololol 💕🤣🤣🤣🤣
They young girl can move out. When you live with your parents, they are on control, it's thier house
@@aquachonkwhen would be the right time. This could have been a very bad outcome. She lives with her mom and needs to be respectful. If she doesn’t want to she needs to move out. All you people want to coddle the young kids. You don’t expect them to take responsibility for their actions. This isn’t the same world it used to be to be. If you act recklessly there needs to be consequences so they can learn and grow.
I just love this show!❤
Ok…they had me good…thought we had lost Lisa…was expecting the birth and death dates to come up…and there she was sitting at the table…they had me so good. Happy for them both. As for the mother and daughter - let’s not judge.
Happy to judge with full force--that mother has all the earmarks of a covert narcissist and the kid is an accomplished codependent. People who have been to war recognize fellow veterans.
Rosa's mother seems like the type who orders food in a restaurant and starts complaining after 12 minutes and 3 seconds why her main dish takes so long and then starts leaving reviews with 14 accounts that the waiters and waitresses are lazy, the cooks are bad and the restaurant manager shoots heroin in the bathroom.
She's a narcissist and I pray that Rosa moves out just as soon as she can.
EXACTLY!!😂
Hahaha och my goodness 😂😂
I laughed so hard to myself😂😂
Did we just witness a Karen in the wild?
I was 11 when dad died of tb and 33 mom died of emphasema.miss them terribly
My sister had a stroke and recovered but a year later she had another big one and never regained consciousness she died 5 days later. She was 75
Love These Videos. Such Kindness. ❤ Love the girls eyes too one lite color one brown. So Neat ❤
Very compassionate dr
Did that Dr. have 1 brown eye and 1 hazel eye or was that just the lighting. It looks really awesome.
Yes!! I saw it too! She’s a badass!
I came to the comments to ask the same question! Really cool looking!
I had a teacher in high school with one brown eye and one blue eye. Strangely beautiful.
it was terrible watching Lina further deteriorate right before our eyes while the doctor seems like she is about to send her home. I was screaming at the screen!
It’s hard being a parent. Easier being a grandparent
You go Lina!! God bless
Lina and Tony has won the love lottery.
Lena and Tony really made me miss my parents. I was 22 when dad died. I was 28 when mom died. Both died from lung cancer.
I ´m sorry for you! I hope, they are in heaven and can support you with their love and prayers!
Healing energies sent to you. I am so sorry.
I’m so sorry…I know what you’re going through! I was 24 when my parents died. Mom from peritonitis in December and dad having open heart surgery in February.😢😢❤
I felt the same. They love my parents showed toward one another, I'm still searching for that.
Lost my dad when i was 13 and had to watch my mother nearly dying, she only survived because i was in hospital and she was next to me when her heart stopped beating.
It is really painful to loose parents this early. Sending you a hug if you want. R.I.P to both of your parents ❤
42:19 My heart goes out to Tony! 😢.
Thanks for posting
I love hospital videos.
I hope to have a love like that older couple ❤
In sweden we say: small kids, small concerns, larger kids, larger concerns
That young girl's mother was a bit of an azzhat. There was absolutely no reason for her to say hateful things to her daughter.
I can relate to being angry, but at that time was not the time to nag at her!
You don't have kids, do you?
@@Grace1957-so having kids means that the mother is entitled to say hateful and abusive things to them??? Please tell me you’re not a parent!!!
As a mother of four children from 13-22 I would never tell my child they smell like the floor of a pub or say some of the things she said. Also, they knew they were being filmed and that it would be aired, and the mother felt it was appropriate to talk to her daughter that way in public. I worry about what is said behind closed doors.
I am a mother and when something like that happens you go into crisis mode and when the crisis is over and you can breathe again you get angry at the stupidity and yes I get it that they're kids and they're going to do stupid things .@@ajpthequeen
Rosa’s mother is literally my mom. Of course I don’t talk to my mom anymore for this exact reason bc she degrades me just like Rosas mom in the most vulnerable state.
Sorry to hear that, at least you recognised it and got away.
@@abd4175 she’s gotten ALOT better recently but the trust is still not 100% there. I think the no contact really opened her eyes. She’s been more supportive of things going on in my life instead of questioning it or wanting it her way. I rely on my boyfriends mom if I am in a more vulnerable state because she is more chill and isn’t judgemental haha
These shows are mild compared to what really comes in to the emergency sometimes. People in horrific crashes with body parts missing, huge gashes...ugh I've seen it all
Lina feel better & Tony peace be with you both.
I don't understand how I can see that couple. So, so in love. Soul mates. It really made me happy. I found mine 6 months after my divorce. Still love my ex. He got remarried to a brat yet so beautiful. My partner and I have been together for 10 years on last June 25th. He is a primary caregiver to me. He jokingly teases me about being with him for his money or slave labour!. 😂 We never argue. We quip over each other and apologies and laughing. Life is a prescious thing. Don't worry about being annoying and fun. In a relationship is hard to maintain our love? No. Unconditional every step of the way! ❤😊
Mom’s being sooo critical at the time of the incident is ridiculous. Why can’t the offer comfort and a bit of understanding? Later, they can talk about whats and whys-- when both have had a bit of time to think.
Exactly. The mom is making the whole thing about herself and her emotional needs. Covert narcissist.
Something in mums past may have helped cause her behavior...we don't know. It isn't our place to judge her.
Tony and Lena true love
Let's say it all together now: It's oookayyy to cry and show emotion in the A&E.
It's actually very okay in most scenarios but let's start small 😂
The older couple❤
Lina and Tony what a beautiful couple ❤
When you drive a donorcycle (as ER personnel call them), it's just a matter of time before you crash. Motorcyclists, PLEASE be careful.
What a beautiful and sweet young girl Rosa is. Just hoping she’ll get a handle on her alcohol intake and it won’t become a problem.
I was 29 when I lost my dad and brother, they left me all alone with my mother and sister. I was very angry at my brother for leaving me…
Poor kid, her mom is a jerk
It's so hard not knowing what is going on but the most important thing is that God is watching over him God bless his mother
Ir sickens me when parents say i told you so instead of it was an accident. They are at the most venerable times of their lives HAVE A
CARE!!!
Oh, let’s face it man the woman’s always the boss ❤😂
32:18 Less communication, now there is quality advice!
Tony and Lina a wonderful couple
Poor. Adam! Back off Mom! Let him learn life his own way and watch your words with him.
Nah, they seem fine. I raised two boys and we poked at each other often. He could have Rosa's mom - she was downright hateful at times.
Why don’t you back off. Mom and son have a dynamic you obviously don’t understand.
Rose's Mom sounds like one of those soft spoken nightmare Karen's. Says the most hateful things in the softest voice. Sounds like the sister has isolated herself and closed herself off probably because of how scared she is of her mom. Feels so bad.
Her daughter got hurt in a drunken accident!
She has every right to be upset!
no she doesn't! it's legal to drink here at 18, you know. you're clearly an american, absolutely bloody awful, you are!@@cindyhalpern3187
I can't imagine why Rosa would want to leave the home and drink. Geez, her mother is unreasonable and Rosa will never make a good decision in her eyes.
That girl's mum must be so annoying for the poor kid. She never stopped going on at her.
17:47 I WISH I WAS A GARDENER IN THE UK. To pluck that Rose. The word Rosa, in Spanish, means Rose or the color pink. She is a very pretty young lady with beautiful eyes.
creep
You are such a creep.
“You could have ended up raped”?! I hope to god that never happens to the poor girl, cause clearly by the tone of mum’s voice, it would be her fault.
This is like I love you, but = right now I really don’t like you ❤
Rosas mum is really passive aggressive towards her. Shes constantly going after her, using every situation to express her disappointment. Get over it, mam.
Rosa should absolutely leave her mom from how abusive she is now. Imagine home life from public behavior alone.
Not all parents deserve having children.
The hardest job in the world is being a mum. Dad's don't worry as much as mum's when our babies starts do things away from us. My son is 34 and I still worry about him
I can see that none of you who are giving Rosa's mom grief are parents. You dont know the worry if your child is safe, if your daughter is being drugged and raped. If your son is going to be home or arrested for drunk driving, or injured in an accident. What did you expect to see the mom to say?
Where is the compassion ?
I wonder whether the film makers are happy with the standard of the sub-titles.
The cc are automatically generated based on the soundtrack. They are not formal cc. This is a free documentary!
The automatic subtitles definitely do not understand British English well 🤣
I find that both parents in this episode, both the boy and girls, pick the wrong time for criticizing and haranguing their children. Get off their backs. If they were critical would they be pulling this crap? Shut up and support them. They’re scared, especially the young man.
Wow. Why did her mom even go to er if she was going to be a rude hag the whole time??
Her daughter got drunk and got hurt. Her mother is upset. Why shouldn't she be?
Would you be delighted?
Maybe you don't care. Her mother does.
@@cindyhalpern3187 caring and harping on the subject, making snide and condescending remarks is another
@@cindyhalpern3187 that's not caring. That's shaming your daughter in public, instead of taking a deep breath, backing off, and first of all getting her back to health, take time to calm down, THEN, after you both have had rest address the issue and talk. A&E is not the place for that.
Narc behaviour
My mom is very similar to Rosa's. I chose to become estranged and haven't regretted the decision for even a second since! One day she'll wonder why Rosa won't call her or visit and will only have herself to blame. "My sister's nailed it, talking less and knowing what to say." Sweetness, that is not a healthy parent-child relationship, that is a sign of abuse. Get out and don't look back.
You can tell the young women that’s mother kept talking so angry to her it’s a common occurrence the way she reacted. She is 18 and not 12 the mom needs to back off some.
Wow! Negative controlling Mom. Could a nurse or Dr tell old Negative Nancy to go to the waiting room if she can’t say something positive??😮
Yeah mom needs to lay off the daughter she is growing up. She was 18 why does mom have to be there unless she isn't the age of adult but think she is.
That mother is despicable. I wouldn't blame the daughter if she left home by now. Poor girl. She has a narcissistic mother...what an insult saying she smells like a pub floor. And the worst thing is that the daughter is brainwashed into thinking her mum is always right. 😢
Rosa: "You smell like the floor of an old pub." Terrible remark. In A&E was the time for snarky remarks.
Rosa, don’t disrespect your mother!
She didn’t disrespect her at all. Her mom is being out of line and chastising her for simply going out and doing things that young adults her age do. She did nothing wrong and her mom was a nightmare.
Considering how her mom was speaking to her, I think she was very respectful and held her tongue. As a mom, you have to show discipline, but you don't have to be such a jerk, especially while Rosa was in pain. Sit down and talk with her later and you can be firm, but not hateful.
she's not a child to be disciplined. her days of mothering her daughter in that way ended on rosa's 18th birthday. She is now an adult so her mother no longer gets a say in her daughter's affairs. @@Grianan66
Rosa showed more respect than her mom deserved. If that’s the worst thing Rosa has done, then mom should be thankful and not treat her so coldly, especially when injured.
Sometimes I think children who come of age forget that a mother’s love and worry doesn’t cease when they turn 18. We can keep them safe by not allowing them to do things when they are young, but suddenly they are 18 and doing things that could seriously harm them, and we have no say in it. We can’t tell them no. But we are worried and frightened by their behavior. The fact that we can’t keep them safe anymore, and they are more than willing to put themselves in harms way, makes us absolutely crazy with fear. We aren’t trying to be controlling or evil parents. But it is quite difficult to take that huge step backwards and let go of the grip we have on them that we use to keep them safe. Be forgiving with your parents and give them the time they need to come to terms with this. And know, for most parents, this is born out of the utmost love. There is usually nothing that a parent loves more than they love their children. Even when that child is 60 years old!!!
What a terrible "mother" that lady is. Nothing but snide and awful comments to her daughter.
Typical covert narc mother behaviour