The trick is to rationalize your emotions. If you feel such an emotion, try to understand it. For example, ask questions in your mind: “why am I feeling such an emotion?”, “why should I care?”, if you do this, automatically your rational side will dominate the emotional one, and thus you - in addition to having understood more about this emotion - will be able to tame it.
if you wanna be like ayanokoji, go hit up the gym, and no not lifting. pick a martial art and focus on heavy bag. you ll literally get conditioned to suppress your emotions. let s say you r angry, sad, disappointed or even super happy. once you ll start hitting that heavy bag, all your emotions disappear and the only thing you can think about is how to manage your breathing well, and imagine the heavy bag is your negative self. this changed my life. i now have so much control over my emotion.
I do something similar but instead of not showing any emotion on my face I always smile no matter how I feel, i can think strategically because i can control my emotions easily, I always come of as happy and cheerful in my opinion it works better then not showing now emotions. It also works in your favor in a bit more ways but also not showing emotion can be strategic as said in the video both hold nearly the same aspect and do nearly the same thing but both has its ups and downfalls pros and cons, you have to be able to use it in a way beneficial to you also learning to quickly shift your emotions can help with learning this. Although it is not good to suppress your emotions you just have to use them in the correct way. Quote - Learn to use your emotions to think, not think with your emotions Quote - To master your emotions is not to suppress, It is to process them with diligence and express them with Intelligence.
Years of knowledge distilled into a 10-minute video. I promise you'll see results by practicing the frameworks. Share it with someone you want to help, and let me know which video you'd like me to create next.
if I found this video earlier it would had been very helpful for past me...but i like the fact that i had the same view on emotional control and being emotionless at will.. Very good video bro .
please make more I love these videos they keep me going and I will be ayanokoji one day ive ever started to look like him ive been practicing this for 7 months.
I always found that as long as you try to understand WHY you feel those emotions, you can calm down. For example, sadness. If you feel sad and begin to think about why you feel sad, I personally find myself gradually losing it as im understanding it
I did this in all of middle school (2012-2015) because I was bullied a lot. My parents told me the bullies found satisfaction in me reacting to their bullying so I stopped showing emotion to everything (because I had to commit to it fully). I did it and the bullying stopped till the end of middle school. Though when I entered high school I had a hard time fitting in because I shut myself off from other people thru the entirety of middle school. I didn't know how to react to stuff, strike conversations, or form relationships because I killed off emotions. It wasn't until the last year of high school when I finally decided to step up I'm a normal functioning adult now and def don't recommend suppressing emotions 💀 The amount of trial and error and embarrassment I had to go through just to be normal again wasn't worth it
Had these issues for most of my childhood, I can still find expression hard at times. There is truth in that one should not react purely on emotions, but it's all too easy to make an actual disconnection from them. I used to get stuck like that and it just made me have no reactions to anything. I'd often only feel dread and anxiety, and nothing could provoke anything else. It disconnected me from people and made me feel like I was subhuman or "have a screw loose". Take these videos with a grain of salt, act rationally and honestly but don't blunt your emotions.
Yeah I feel like this is something these videos should point out, supressing and pretending your emotions don't exist isn't the same as having control of them. Quite the opposite tbh
Humans are changing and now bullies just want attention so they pick on those who do not give attention to him/her😑 search for “cry bully”. That type never grows up.
I feel like both are very harmful to us so I think that we should express our whole day's emotions only at a time of the day.... Or otherwise in this world people will make use of you 😶 thank you.
Mine's Kind of same story except my parents told me my bullies were my friends. Yeah, of coarse my friends would punch me, push me down the stairs, starve me, cut me etc AND pretend to me my friends so no one would believe me. then I shut off everyone from my life and became absolutely emotionless now I'm fighting and to regain emotions like happiness anger grief etc.
Great as always, Emo. Thanks for being one of the yt channels that actually enhance someone's life, and making me more and more determined to achieve perfect control of myself.
Insane. Watchin these gives me goosebumps. Mastering your emotions will make you basically invincible. No one can control you and you can see everything. Its perfection of the mind.
I'm grateful after watching this in my feed, this video enough to help me a lot how to control my emotion about what others thinks and says to me. I always feel like im trap on my own emotions, softhearted individual maybe because it was the result of bullying to me or failed relationships that happen when i was in high school and college. Now im graduated recently August and finding a job, I want my kindness to be limited, control my emotions everytime, and don't let emotions overpower my mind. Keep it up bro, i subbed. 🙏💪
This person specifically is inspiration to learn how to be calm from any situations regardless of any life or death situations and helping others who are struggling. That’s how I see it.
and again your i learn a lot from you. last time i watched whiteroom training, i applied and have control over my distractions and thing i have consumed.
Personal Notes: -Emotions are the greatest inhibitor to power -identify your feelings and use it productively rather than give in (Robert Greene once gave an example of Oppenheimer using his narcissistic nature productively) -Meditate daily -when people provoke you see through them and try to analyze and understand them rather than react, understand their motives -Remember the grander goal, don't react and ask yourself if this will contribute to your greater purpose, if not don't indulge -don't make decisions under intense emotions wait and make them under rationality -optimistic nihilism, will this really matter in the bigger picture? -don't take it personally it's all a game after all
I think I already kinda figured this out on my own but I didn't have words for it and this just explained it so well. I will learn form this bc I'm in 2 different though situations at the moment. And I can feel a physical fight coming up but for now this is good 👍
Emotions and logic are very different things, emotions need how and logic need why if you keep looking for why in emotions you will always be in your head ,every person who learned psychology knows "Feel the feelings" is best
Chapters 0:00 INTRO 00:19 Framework Of Royalty 01:01 Stepping Back 02:35 Detachment 03:47 Difficulty 05:12 You don’t do this, You’ll Fail 05:52 Is it possible to Fully Control it? 06:39 Easiest Way 07:07 You Must Avoid 08:09 Past/Future Framework 09:15 The Best Framework
for me if i feel an emotion i will keep questioning my head "why do i even care?" "is it worth to waste my energy at this?" "why should i smile when they dont give me a reason to do so?"
Comunication it is something important to grow mentaly and not jsut physicaly. Comunication with the honestity and humilde is the key. Love the individual as you like yourself. It is iportant first to love yourself, your interior child to pit it in a way. Emotions are to now better each other, if the other thinks other else something that isnt you then, ist just an thought by the other person, just ignore that part cua yoursel with the time is how they will know you better c:
Quando si provano emozioni e c'è un problema tirati indietro, chiediti perché stai provando quell emozione e decidi cosa fare con calma. Non prendertela con i tuoi errori, ma vedili come un modo per migliorarsi perché ogni giorno andrai meglio. Non interessarti degli altri, se ti imbarazzano o danno fastidio, in ogni caso alla fine non importerà più nulla
Meditation is the best. Close your eyes and rid your brain of info collecting. Your eyes & ears are constantly sending info for your brain to calculate. If u want to get your focus you must close your eyes in a quiet place where your brain can think on it's own with no influences from sight or sound. Meditation is basically using the full 5% we use for our daily lives and with that you can control your emotions or get an idea of how to in order for u to start. Meditating is the best place to start in my opinion.
For some reason I was pretty uncomfortable with the fact I was emotionally dethatched for no reason so I'll just try to get them back while not acting like an emotional irrational little kid. Basically control your emotions but maybe not lose them. Life is pretty colorless if you get what you wanted but don't feel any joy in finding it.
Thankfully I am not ayanokoji. He wasn’t controlling his emotions, he lacked them. The easiest way to control your emotions are through Jesus Christ. I made it my soul mission to learn to control my vessel in the year of 2023 because I started doing things that I did not agree with and expressed emotion in ways I did not agree with. I struggled with the idea that there was no way that I could just do this overnight and change how I respond to things that make me angry, sad, or depressed. Luckily, in previous years, I tackled depression successfully with Jesus and so I got a brief idea of how to control everything else. The things that occurred during the process of this change made it feel like magic but magic is not a good way to describe the changes that occurred in my mind. It was seamless no force no pain no confusion just a seamless change in mind. I will inevitably sound silly here, but if you would like to experience true joy, even in times where you are supposed to be suffering, you can only do that through Jesus Christ. It took me having to live in my car to find that out.
There are some people trying to say losing emotions is wrost it is true but it depends on your condition like if you are surrounded by sankes like people you cant show them your true emotions about what you feel because they can make a fun of you if you really wanted to become like him then you have to become powerful like you are being calm then some people who thinks you are doing shit will try make fun of you but you need to have the power to humble you had to minimise your social anxiety by making freind who are kind and can be trusted it will help you to walk alone because you will be not alone ayankouji just not simple.sit and watches his friend circle is farmore than many of his classmates even if he thiks them as pawns but he also making them strong to be more productive dont care about trash people talk to only who are kind hearted love yourself Being ayankouji is not really mean to be isolated its to become your best verison and for improving your life.stay happy because you know what you feel beside of thinking i cant do anymore i cant push my limits just focus on being strong mentally and physical.
Here are my notes: Practice techniques for emotional control: 1. When you have a feeling use it instead of it consuming you , if it's envy about a person then use it to surpass them. 2. Meditate 3. Avoid players (people who play with your emotions) 4. Consider past and future in all situations when possible, dont make a decision when under a strong emotion. 5. Dont take it personally, nothing will matter in the end of your life. If you dont take it personally, No one can hurt you with words.
please do a video about persuation like johan liebelt or any other character that will help us to persuade humans to do or not to do something with all the details , how to talk ,move ,facial expression and important things
Mmm. After years of putting on a tough mask. I realized Emotions aren’t your enemy. You can express emotions while still being reasonable. People become stoic and shut of emotions because they don’t wanna feel the pain of their emotions again. But energy can’t be destroyed only transferred, essential you damned your emotions, and one day your body will break from pressure from nervous breakdown. I don’t believe that strong people are stoned faced killers. You’re hiding from your emotions. The strongest people in my opinion chooses to see the pain of the world, chooses to feel it all, allows themselves to cry whilst doing the right thing. Cry, it’s good for you. The power of the flesh isn’t to become a machine, but to test the power of the soul, not by wearing armour and being invulnerable but to see how far one can go while being fully exposed. Armour is weakness. People need to understand the difference between taking a step back to process emotions and completely shutting off their emotions, one is a healthy adaptation , and the other is a temporary survival coping mechanism meant to keep you safe from a perceived danger such as emotional abuse by a caregiver. Wrongly misunderstanding the two, and being completely emotionless defeats the whole purpose of being human. There’s a reason we’re made from weak flesh, it’s not to be a machine, but to feel things. Look at this character, dead eyes, not a dynamic being. caring so much about reputation , giving into peer pressure and throwing your authenticity away because of how society perceives you is weak character. Make the mistake, feel the emotions, and expressing emotions are the strongest things a human can do in my opinion. Lean into your emotions, truly emotional people are calm and dynamic, the angry people still hasn’t fully explored their emotionality yet. When you fully embraced emotions and understood all facets, none can threaten you, you cannot be provoked, cannot be aggrieved, yet you’re dancing and singing with a lively face. You move by your own chords and not by the set standards of society. The difference between stoicism and the ones who leans into their humanness.
Insane video. I grew up with a "player" in my house. My brother. He is manipulative, charming, cunning and quite calculative. I am a lot like him and I am very grateful for it. He also trained me to not react to people like him.
To anyone reading this, don't EVER try to hold your emotions. It won't be long before you lose all your emotions. Not being able to feal emotions is a curse. In your life, emotions are like seasoning on your food, without it, it tastes completely bland. I have been turned into a living stone. I can't feel anything emotions whatsoever. I just want to feel emotions again
@@TocattaTotentanzMacabre btw no i am not being sarcastic. From emotions, i mean emotions like happiness, laughter, sadness or anger. I don't feel anything nowadays and yes i agree that i purposely searched for this video so I can warn them ''wannabe anime character kids'' to not try this bullshit and how bad it can be
@@hypernova8160 Ahh okay. Well I wish you the best of luck. I cant imagine how it feels to not feel any thing. Life wouldn't have meaning without emotion.
Honestly being emotionless is just total calm you don't feel anything it's very boring but your thinking becomes sharp and also the ability to stay calm is a plus.
@@zigachad7577... It really is a total calm, but this calm also leaves life without a “spice”, as Hypernova said. It's great to have that calm, however, sacrificing everything that makes life more colorful is not the best option, because life is only enchanting (grace - I don't know if I managed to convey what I meant, because I'm just translating from my language to English) when there are identified emotions and feelings. And if life loses this, it starts to become very linear, and... it loses its essence (which makes it intriguing), because without our “touch”, all things are and remain neutral, and, “without life” - That's what neutrality does: it takes nuances and turns them into NOTHING; absolutely nothing. Everything you said makes sense, but for me, it's not worth exchanging "EVERYTHING" for "NOTHING", because, although I really want inner peace, I still want to be able to feel life, and especially, and above all, to feel that I am and am alive.
5:20 I agree with it cause I started to relize things when I was in 5/6 class...now I'm in 8th class and I have have conquered 80% of my emotions...now I don't react how panic as I used to
Thank you sincerly i have been struggling with tgis although i get pressed easily or riled up im working on it but i will most def incorporate these ideas fdom now on.
Dont listen to the self improvment community as they go to far into the extreme power fantasy of being a chad. This Video is good in my opinion, but, dont lose yourself while working towards your goals. Stay human. There is a difference between achiving somthing and achivie it on all cost.
0:00 INTRO 00:19 Framework Of Royalty 01:01 Stepping Back 02:35 Detachment 03:47 Difficulty 05:12 You don’t do this, You’ll Fail 05:52 Is it possible to Fully Control it? 06:39 Easiest Way 07:07 You Must Avoid 08:09 Past/Future Framework 09:15 The Best Framework
Wow! This was me at 20 years old 😂 People found me odd! If you are in this situation or was, dude, you are not weird! Focus in making yourself better! I am so regretting my decision, even if i had already seen the outcome! Emotions got me. 6:11 Influence got me after all! Dismiss this Influence or take notice of this effects that people speak and say around you! Stay calm and reminding yourself that Emotions ir being normal is not the best way to fit in! People dont care about you tbh. Dont have, understand things!
There is a difference between controlling your emotions, and simply not having them. Ayanokoji is a psychopathic character that I hope one day can learn to feel emotions again. Wanting to be like him is not a desire you should NOT have. Being detached in the real world will create problems for you. Loneliness is real, and as much as any person may hate to admit it, you aren’t living if you are truly, and I mean truly, lonely. That is Ayanokoji’s weak point. When you are detached you can make friends but you will never have a real, human connection without sharing real human emotions. Having friends without close friends is a type of loneliness that can drive you mad. You DO NOT want to be like Ayanokoji. Learning to control your emotions is good, but like I said before, Ayanokoji simply does not have them.
ur emotions and behaviour is what makes u who you are changing and restricting that personality means u stops becomming ur selves. Im a person who have been at neutral for years but when i realized iwas not becomming my self i wanted to become how i was before but i cant now since im used to being neutral everyone likes me but i dont like my self cuz i cant react when i want to so be ur self take pride in who ur if some one hates u let them u like ur selvs thats what im not beeing able to now i become one who liked by everyone that i was not but i cant like my self anymore.
Ayanokoji is so much like me, it's uncanny, he is unironically literally me. In fact he is not "like" me he IS me, not only because we share the same personality by both treating people like tools and never considering anyone as a friend, only caring about winning in the end, but we also do the EXACT same actions, not figuratively, but absolutely literally exactly the same actions, i rigged my exams to have lower my scores, because i don't want to stand out, and that's the same thing he did, when ayanokoji said "i've failed to have friends" i said the exact same thing in start of my highschool, i also immediately identified the groups that formed natural in the start of the semester, which is also the same thing he did in episode 1, someone also called the school to expel me, which is the same thing that hapoened to him as well. not only that, but i also have a harem of cute girls, i have a black haired girl that treats me like absolute garbage (but she actually loves me) i also told a blonde girl to spread her legs(she actually loves me so it's okay) i also have a girl with glasses act afraid near me(she actually loves me, she's just too shy too admit it) i was also at the last section of our school, and i also made everyone pass in that class in the last minute, with my genius strategy skills, i also tricked a lot of people to believe that the girl did everything, and i actually didn't do anything to save my class, they were just pawns in my big brain chess game with the school and they all helped to me winning in the end, i had strict parents that forced me to study very hard mathematical equations in a very young age to train me for school, which is also the exact same thing as to ayanokoji's childhood.
Great video, dude. It gave me a similiar feeling when I first read the 48 Laws of Power. Coincidentally, the author of that book is Robert Greene, the same person who said that quote in the video at 6:22
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The trick is to rationalize your emotions. If you feel such an emotion, try to understand it. For example, ask questions in your mind: “why am I feeling such an emotion?”, “why should I care?”, if you do this, automatically your rational side will dominate the emotional one, and thus you - in addition to having understood more about this emotion - will be able to tame it.
Really bruh !
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I figure it takes time though
@@kycsteI still don’t understand this
One quote that I live by is “If they don’t know you personally then don’t take it personally”
After all, it is not about you, it’s about them. Good luck, man.
What if they know me personally?
@@LightYDark Then take it personally
@LightYDark The quote is saying you should never take things and opinions from people because you know yourself the best.
thx bro i can already feel the sigma coming inside of me
The balance between giving out advices and self-befitting is sureal
if you wanna be like ayanokoji, go hit up the gym, and no not lifting. pick a martial art and focus on heavy bag. you ll literally get conditioned to suppress your emotions. let s say you r angry, sad, disappointed or even super happy. once you ll start hitting that heavy bag, all your emotions disappear and the only thing you can think about is how to manage your breathing well, and imagine the heavy bag is your negative self. this changed my life. i now have so much control over my emotion.
I do something similar but instead of not showing any emotion on my face I always smile no matter how I feel, i can think strategically because i can control my emotions easily, I always come of as happy and cheerful in my opinion it works better then not showing now emotions. It also works in your favor in a bit more ways but also not showing emotion can be strategic as said in the video both hold nearly the same aspect and do nearly the same thing but both has its ups and downfalls pros and cons, you have to be able to use it in a way beneficial to you also learning to quickly shift your emotions can help with learning this. Although it is not good to suppress your emotions you just have to use them in the correct way.
Quote - Learn to use your emotions to think, not think with your emotions
Quote - To master your emotions is not to suppress, It is to process them with diligence and express them with Intelligence.
So i can say that you are a two sided person
Look at this yapper bro
@@travisgaming92117:07 this you?
Years of knowledge distilled into a 10-minute video. I promise you'll see results by practicing the frameworks. Share it with someone you want to help, and let me know which video you'd like me to create next.
No google drive note with this 😢
try saying i promise a little less
it gives false hope to some
(i am not trying to be mean btw :)
if I found this video earlier it would had been very helpful for past me...but i like the fact that i had the same view on emotional control and being emotionless at will.. Very good video bro .
please make more I love these videos they keep me going and I will be ayanokoji one day ive ever started to look like him ive been practicing this for 7 months.
Only problem I have is with my laugh any tips to control my laugh and smile
"dont take it personally" is the best think im using it for like 7 months and my mindset is different. Cool video ❤
For me, he is the best content creator in this niche. Hats off for your hard work brother.
After the power analysis, yes.
But Tpa made this scene big and his last Video was a masterpiece
But yeah, Emo analysis is def in the 2nd placeee
But he forgot google drive text
@@Miraculouslylanguagelearningwho’s Tpa
@@AbdulSalam-ll6pn the power analysis
If you're interested in such content, check him out too...
I always found that as long as you try to understand WHY you feel those emotions, you can calm down. For example, sadness.
If you feel sad and begin to think about why you feel sad, I personally find myself gradually losing it as im understanding it
I did this in all of middle school (2012-2015) because I was bullied a lot. My parents told me the bullies found satisfaction in me reacting to their bullying so I stopped showing emotion to everything (because I had to commit to it fully). I did it and the bullying stopped till the end of middle school.
Though when I entered high school I had a hard time fitting in because I shut myself off from other people thru the entirety of middle school. I didn't know how to react to stuff, strike conversations, or form relationships because I killed off emotions. It wasn't until the last year of high school when I finally decided to step up
I'm a normal functioning adult now and def don't recommend suppressing emotions 💀 The amount of trial and error and embarrassment I had to go through just to be normal again wasn't worth it
Had these issues for most of my childhood, I can still find expression hard at times. There is truth in that one should not react purely on emotions, but it's all too easy to make an actual disconnection from them. I used to get stuck like that and it just made me have no reactions to anything. I'd often only feel dread and anxiety, and nothing could provoke anything else. It disconnected me from people and made me feel like I was subhuman or "have a screw loose".
Take these videos with a grain of salt, act rationally and honestly but don't blunt your emotions.
Yeah I feel like this is something these videos should point out, supressing and pretending your emotions don't exist isn't the same as having control of them. Quite the opposite tbh
Humans are changing and now bullies just want attention so they pick on those who do not give attention to him/her😑 search for “cry bully”. That type never grows up.
I feel like both are very harmful to us so I think that we should express our whole day's emotions only at a time of the day.... Or otherwise in this world people will make use of you 😶 thank you.
Mine's Kind of same story except my parents told me my bullies were my friends. Yeah, of coarse my friends would punch me, push me down the stairs, starve me, cut me etc AND pretend to me my friends so no one would believe me. then I shut off everyone from my life and became absolutely emotionless now I'm fighting and to regain emotions like happiness anger grief etc.
Great as always, Emo. Thanks for being one of the yt channels that actually enhance someone's life, and making me more and more determined to achieve perfect control of myself.
chapri lanja
This guy is the real one . Bro Keep up the good work
Yo
This channel is example of
Quality takes time❤
Sir yes sir
Insane. Watchin these gives me goosebumps. Mastering your emotions will make you basically invincible. No one can control you and you can see everything. Its perfection of the mind.
chapri lanja
who tf are you lil bro💀?
Bro thinks he's him. @@alexz8871
@@alexz8871 💀
practicing to be like ayanokoji is crazy
A bunch of 10 year olds thinking he's the coolest guy in existence😂
They need to be fr
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frl. they be watching too much anime 💀
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Bros so ruthless that he dropped Bomb 💣
I'm grateful after watching this in my feed, this video enough to help me a lot how to control my emotion about what others thinks and says to me. I always feel like im trap on my own emotions, softhearted individual maybe because it was the result of bullying to me or failed relationships that happen when i was in high school and college. Now im graduated recently August and finding a job, I want my kindness to be limited, control my emotions everytime, and don't let emotions overpower my mind. Keep it up bro, i subbed. 🙏💪
Never thought I will see lifestyle videos based on anime, but it is spot on and helpful
This person specifically is inspiration to learn how to be calm from any situations regardless of any life or death situations and helping others who are struggling. That’s how I see it.
I’m a middle school student with a little bit of anger issues, and this video gave me some decent advice with self control. Thank you!
"Nothing will metter in the end" - Ayano use it all time
Finally you posted a video! 🙌 Can’t wait for more 😀
and again your i learn a lot from you. last time i watched whiteroom training, i applied and have control over my distractions and thing i have consumed.
this content creator deserves more !
Bro this is insane, this video is deep as fuck, super motivational and well writen and edited, didn't expect this.
I was thinking the same thing
Personal Notes:
-Emotions are the greatest inhibitor to power
-identify your feelings and use it productively rather than give in
(Robert Greene once gave an example of Oppenheimer using his narcissistic nature productively)
-Meditate daily
-when people provoke you see through them and try to analyze and understand them rather than react, understand their motives
-Remember the grander goal, don't react and ask yourself if this will contribute to your greater purpose, if not don't indulge
-don't make decisions under intense emotions wait and make them under rationality
-optimistic nihilism, will this really matter in the bigger picture?
-don't take it personally it's all a game after all
Going strong for november uploads 🦾
In this world winning is everything
only if you make it part of your world
This dudes videos get better each upload🗣️😮💨
I think I already kinda figured this out on my own but I didn't have words for it and this just explained it so well.
I will learn form this bc I'm in 2 different though situations at the moment. And I can feel a physical fight coming up but for now this is good 👍
Emotions and logic are very different things, emotions need how and logic need why if you keep looking for why in emotions you will always be in your head ,every person who learned psychology knows "Feel the feelings" is best
I like your videos even though it's few of them but worth it your videos changed my life quickly just in few weeks
Chapters
0:00 INTRO
00:19 Framework Of Royalty
01:01 Stepping Back
02:35 Detachment
03:47 Difficulty
05:12 You don’t do this, You’ll Fail
05:52 Is it possible to Fully Control it?
06:39 Easiest Way
07:07 You Must Avoid
08:09 Past/Future Framework
09:15 The Best Framework
for me if i feel an emotion i will keep questioning my head "why do i even care?" "is it worth to waste my energy at this?" "why should i smile when they dont give me a reason to do so?"
videos getting better and better!
The best way is to know your self worth and see if it's worth it.
Love those finger snaps in the background.
I was looking for this comment, lol
@@martadmnI'm surprised no one else commented this.
😂😂😂
The real power is *detachment* in the heat of the moment. The rest is training for this moment. The difference is night and day.
Speak your mind and surround yourself with good people. No need to worry about your emotions anymore.
Good morning my day starts with his video
It's not about stop the feeling it's about control the feeling
All this knowledge is already in Srimad Bhagvad Gita . Everyone I this world , must read it .
It's best book ❤
Finally the king is back.
Comunication it is something important to grow mentaly and not jsut physicaly. Comunication with the honestity and humilde is the key. Love the individual as you like yourself. It is iportant first to love yourself, your interior child to pit it in a way. Emotions are to now better each other, if the other thinks other else something that isnt you then, ist just an thought by the other person, just ignore that part cua yoursel with the time is how they will know you better c:
Quando si provano emozioni e c'è un problema tirati indietro, chiediti perché stai provando quell emozione e decidi cosa fare con calma. Non prendertela con i tuoi errori, ma vedili come un modo per migliorarsi perché ogni giorno andrai meglio. Non interessarti degli altri, se ti imbarazzano o danno fastidio, in ogni caso alla fine non importerà più nulla
Such a sigma video. Surely i will be an alpha and always move in silence from now on.. like a wolf.
Just... thanks you so much. This is the video i needed for my life ❤. Just realy it touche me to my heart. Continue like this i love it !
Meditation is the best. Close your eyes and rid your brain of info collecting. Your eyes & ears are constantly sending info for your brain to calculate. If u want to get your focus you must close your eyes in a quiet place where your brain can think on it's own with no influences from sight or sound. Meditation is basically using the full 5% we use for our daily lives and with that you can control your emotions or get an idea of how to in order for u to start. Meditating is the best place to start in my opinion.
“A man who cannot control his emotions will remains as a Slave ”
the last one...
nothing matters **smiles..** )
"All people are tools To me" Nice Video man Keep it up🔥
slide 6
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For some reason I was pretty uncomfortable with the fact I was emotionally dethatched for no reason so I'll just try to get them back while not acting like an emotional irrational little kid. Basically control your emotions but maybe not lose them. Life is pretty colorless if you get what you wanted but don't feel any joy in finding it.
1:40 this is exactly what happened to me so this is really usefull
Nothing stopping me from being that guy!
your virginity
Ngl the music at the start hit me in a soft spot fs
I have achiver controlling my emotions . I no more care about peoples words or negative words.
I like when no one understands me...why should they anyway..thatnks for the video emo❤
Your emotions are like a sense, like sight or smell or touch, just a source of information.
the best way, is to know that you are separate being than your emotions
Thankfully I am not ayanokoji. He wasn’t controlling his emotions, he lacked them. The easiest way to control your emotions are through Jesus Christ. I made it my soul mission to learn to control my vessel in the year of 2023 because I started doing things that I did not agree with and expressed emotion in ways I did not agree with. I struggled with the idea that there was no way that I could just do this overnight and change how I respond to things that make me angry, sad, or depressed.
Luckily, in previous years, I tackled depression successfully with Jesus and so I got a brief idea of how to control everything else. The things that occurred during the process of this change made it feel like magic but magic is not a good way to describe the changes that occurred in my mind. It was seamless no force no pain no confusion just a seamless change in mind. I will inevitably sound silly here, but if you would like to experience true joy, even in times where you are supposed to be suffering, you can only do that through Jesus Christ. It took me having to live in my car to find that out.
Truly grateful for your efforts 🙏
There are some people trying to say losing emotions is wrost it is true but it depends on your condition like if you are surrounded by sankes like people you cant show them your true emotions about what you feel because they can make a fun of you if you really wanted to become like him then you have to become powerful like you are being calm then some people who thinks you are doing shit will try make fun of you but you need to have the power to humble you had to minimise your social anxiety by making freind who are kind and can be trusted it will help you to walk alone because you will be not alone ayankouji just not simple.sit and watches his friend circle is farmore than many of his classmates even if he thiks them as pawns but he also making them strong to be more productive dont care about trash people talk to only who are kind hearted love yourself
Being ayankouji is not really mean to be isolated its to become your best verison and for improving your life.stay happy because you know what you feel beside of thinking i cant do anymore i cant push my limits just focus on being strong mentally and physical.
Kyotaka Ayanokoji, the perfect human.
Here are my notes:
Practice techniques for emotional control:
1. When you have a feeling use it instead of it consuming you , if it's envy about a person then use it to surpass them.
2. Meditate
3. Avoid players (people who play with your emotions)
4. Consider past and future in all situations when possible, dont make a decision when under a strong emotion.
5. Dont take it personally, nothing will matter in the end of your life.
If you dont take it personally, No one can hurt you with words.
oh, Well, I have no words.
This is an amazing video
please do a video about persuation like johan liebelt or any other character that will help us to persuade humans to do or not to do something with all the details , how to talk ,move ,facial expression and important things
One quote,"one who can make you angry ,Can control you"
There is no such thing as perfect
Mmm. After years of putting on a tough mask. I realized Emotions aren’t your enemy. You can express emotions while still being reasonable. People become stoic and shut of emotions because they don’t wanna feel the pain of their emotions again. But energy can’t be destroyed only transferred, essential you damned your emotions, and one day your body will break from pressure from nervous breakdown. I don’t believe that strong people are stoned faced killers. You’re hiding from your emotions. The strongest people in my opinion chooses to see the pain of the world, chooses to feel it all, allows themselves to cry whilst doing the right thing. Cry, it’s good for you. The power of the flesh isn’t to become a machine, but to test the power of the soul, not by wearing armour and being invulnerable but to see how far one can go while being fully exposed. Armour is weakness. People need to understand the difference between taking a step back to process emotions and completely shutting off their emotions, one is a healthy adaptation , and the other is a temporary survival coping mechanism meant to keep you safe from a perceived danger such as emotional abuse by a caregiver. Wrongly misunderstanding the two, and being completely emotionless defeats the whole purpose of being human. There’s a reason we’re made from weak flesh, it’s not to be a machine, but to feel things. Look at this character, dead eyes, not a dynamic being. caring so much about reputation , giving into peer pressure and throwing your authenticity away because of how society perceives you is weak character. Make the mistake, feel the emotions, and expressing emotions are the strongest things a human can do in my opinion. Lean into your emotions, truly emotional people are calm and dynamic, the angry people still hasn’t fully explored their emotionality yet. When you fully embraced emotions and understood all facets, none can threaten you, you cannot be provoked, cannot be aggrieved, yet you’re dancing and singing with a lively face. You move by your own chords and not by the set standards of society. The difference between stoicism and the ones who leans into their humanness.
You wrote important thing, thank for that, also thanks for your experience. I will think about it.
thank you brother, i need to think on this :)
Shut up
Emotion,s cloud judgment just like fear is the mind killer this clip is 5000% correct
Insane video. I grew up with a "player" in my house. My brother. He is manipulative, charming, cunning and quite calculative. I am a lot like him and I am very grateful for it. He also trained me to not react to people like him.
charming? bro i think there may be some underlying issues beside your brother "training" you
@@callumsmith8341 Proves my point.
The yap Is crazy
Sometimes I laugh when I’m in a argument I don’t know why😅
Stepping back seems like a suitable skill for me
I think as a topper the only thing left is to control the emotion
We are in the same page..
I got fired 2 hours ago for punching a 1$ plastic barrier out of anger. This is definitely my stop
To anyone reading this, don't EVER try to hold your emotions. It won't be long before you lose all your emotions. Not being able to feal emotions is a curse. In your life, emotions are like seasoning on your food, without it, it tastes completely bland.
I have been turned into a living stone. I can't feel anything emotions whatsoever. I just want to feel emotions again
Well I'm not sure if you're being Sarcastic but regret is an emotion. You're making it there mate
@@TocattaTotentanzMacabre btw no i am not being sarcastic. From emotions, i mean emotions like happiness, laughter, sadness or anger. I don't feel anything nowadays and yes i agree that i purposely searched for this video so I can warn them ''wannabe anime character kids'' to not try this bullshit and how bad it can be
@@hypernova8160 Ahh okay. Well I wish you the best of luck. I cant imagine how it feels to not feel any thing. Life wouldn't have meaning without emotion.
Honestly being emotionless is just total calm you don't feel anything it's very boring but your thinking becomes sharp and also the ability to stay calm is a plus.
@@zigachad7577... It really is a total calm, but this calm also leaves life without a “spice”, as Hypernova said. It's great to have that calm, however, sacrificing everything that makes life more colorful is not the best option, because life is only enchanting (grace - I don't know if I managed to convey what I meant, because I'm just translating from my language to English) when there are identified emotions and feelings. And if life loses this, it starts to become very linear, and... it loses its essence (which makes it intriguing), because without our “touch”, all things are and remain neutral, and, “without life” - That's what neutrality does: it takes nuances and turns them into NOTHING; absolutely nothing.
Everything you said makes sense, but for me, it's not worth exchanging "EVERYTHING" for "NOTHING", because, although I really want inner peace, I still want to be able to feel life, and especially, and above all, to feel that I am and am alive.
You can't be like him . He was born with this face and this kind of talent
not entirely true, he has talent wich allowed him to survive the white room, wich trained him into a master of emotions
Thanks man, this channel has helped me sm.
this vid made me the true alpha male i am know scary and bad 😈😈😈😈😈😈
It mayd me sigma fr 🗿💦
Im a 67% emotionless but when i watch this %99.99
5:20
I agree with it cause I started to relize things when I was in 5/6 class...now I'm in 8th class and I have have conquered 80% of my emotions...now I don't react how panic as I used to
Thank you sincerly i have been struggling with tgis although i get pressed easily or riled up im working on it but i will most def incorporate these ideas fdom now on.
You''re back
I never thought I'd come upon this video
The amount of "mind controlling" 10 year olds after this video
Dont listen to the self improvment community as they go to far into the extreme power fantasy of being a chad.
This Video is good in my opinion, but, dont lose yourself while working towards your goals. Stay human. There is a difference between achiving somthing and achivie it on all cost.
Yeah, they always talk too much about too much about something that is too difficult to achieve (if it is possible, often it is not)
0:00 INTRO
00:19 Framework Of Royalty
01:01 Stepping Back
02:35 Detachment
03:47 Difficulty
05:12 You don’t do this, You’ll Fail
05:52 Is it possible to Fully Control it?
06:39 Easiest Way
07:07 You Must Avoid
08:09 Past/Future Framework
09:15 The Best Framework
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Wow! This was me at 20 years old 😂
People found me odd!
If you are in this situation or was, dude, you are not weird!
Focus in making yourself better!
I am so regretting my decision, even if i had already seen the outcome!
Emotions got me. 6:11
Influence got me after all!
Dismiss this Influence or take notice of this effects that people speak and say around you!
Stay calm and reminding yourself that Emotions ir being normal is not the best way to fit in!
People dont care about you tbh.
Dont have, understand things!
There is a difference between controlling your emotions, and simply not having them. Ayanokoji is a psychopathic character that I hope one day can learn to feel emotions again. Wanting to be like him is not a desire you should NOT have. Being detached in the real world will create problems for you. Loneliness is real, and as much as any person may hate to admit it, you aren’t living if you are truly, and I mean truly, lonely. That is Ayanokoji’s weak point. When you are detached you can make friends but you will never have a real, human connection without sharing real human emotions. Having friends without close friends is a type of loneliness that can drive you mad. You DO NOT want to be like Ayanokoji. Learning to control your emotions is good, but like I said before, Ayanokoji simply does not have them.
ur emotions and behaviour is what makes u who you are changing and restricting that personality means u stops becomming ur selves. Im a person who have been at neutral for years but when i realized iwas not becomming my self i wanted to become how i was before but i cant now since im used to being neutral everyone likes me but i dont like my self cuz i cant react when i want to so be ur self take pride in who ur if some one hates u let them u like ur selvs thats what im not beeing able to now i become one who liked by everyone that i was not but i cant like my self anymore.
This is amazing work, do one on eminence in shadow
Ayanokoji is so much like me, it's uncanny, he is unironically literally me. In fact he is not "like" me he IS me, not only because we share the same personality by both treating people like tools and never considering anyone as a friend, only caring about winning in the end, but we also do the EXACT same actions, not figuratively, but absolutely literally exactly the same actions, i rigged my exams to have lower my scores, because i don't want to stand out, and that's the same thing he did, when ayanokoji said "i've failed to have friends" i said the exact same thing in start of my highschool, i also immediately identified the groups that formed natural in the start of the semester, which is also the same thing he did in episode 1, someone also called the school to expel me, which is the same thing that hapoened to him as well. not only that, but i also have a harem of cute girls, i have a black haired girl that treats me like absolute garbage (but she actually loves me) i also told a blonde girl to spread her legs(she actually loves me so it's okay) i also have a girl with glasses act afraid near me(she actually loves me, she's just too shy too admit it) i was also at the last section of our school, and i also made everyone pass in that class in the last minute, with my genius strategy skills, i also tricked a lot of people to believe that the girl did everything, and i actually didn't do anything to save my class, they were just pawns in my big brain chess game with the school and they all helped to me winning in the end, i had strict parents that forced me to study very hard mathematical equations in a very young age to train me for school, which is also the exact same thing as to ayanokoji's childhood.
I didn't knew i was like him except the detachment part, Im empathatic as hell
Great video, dude. It gave me a similiar feeling when I first read the 48 Laws of Power. Coincidentally, the author of that book is Robert Greene, the same person who said that quote in the video at 6:22
Calling pleasure a snake felt different 😂👍
The trick to controlling your emotions is to know yourself
This boy is like me, lately i discovered i'm a Sigma person.
still need to control my emotions
Yall mfers actually watching this unironically. Yall need friends fr
real 💀 why would they want to be emotionless when they can laugh w their friends 💀💀(they prob dont have one)