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So true ....it is a hard won lesson ....but ultimately these negative people give themselves away, and you will finally be at peace when you let go of these people.
This is so relevant. I couldn’t understand how my ex husband knew so much about me. I didn’t imagine my own sisters could betray me. I had a similar experience with a neighbour who tried to gaslight me and when I told her I had only discussed what was spread with her, she denied it and stopped speaking to me. I no longer discuss my personal affairs with anyone. These people has nothing but problems and resented the fact that mine were minor in comparison.
I know we don't know eachother lol Just wanted to say its a big deal that you have realized the truth of those situations...means you have already started your path to a better more content whole self.. Its taken 37 years lol to finally start making peace with myself.. but I know that learning and growing is going to be a lifelong process... My main mantra is dont ever let someone tell you that what you are feeling is wrong or tell you that you are going overboard... sending you some positive energies.. Your emotions...your feelings....you are valid...
@@mikeyfrederick1232 thank you for your sharing and understanding. Unless you have experience of these issues you cannot understand. It can happen to anyone. Thank you.
There’s another toxic kind of person: The one who gaslights you. They will say or do something harmful and when you call them out they will look at you full of surprise and (fake but very well play acted) hurt and tell you that - they never did this and never thought that you’d suspect them of doing such a thing - you just misunderstood them because you’re so negative/overly critical - you’re being overly sensitive and interpreted everything wrongly - they were only joking (although they weren’t)
And so me people jump free me one of the above mentioned personalities we need a new name for them … the shapeshifters they make you feel gaslighted too.
I have experience these people and I have at one time followed their behaviors but now in my adult life find my being more aware of those things. Changed my ways. I am a better person for separating myself from them. Thank you for your sharing 😊
thank you so much! I just decided to stop being around someone who has all the behaviour you mentioned. I tried to be a good friend to her, but she lied to me and even used the good advice i gave her against me . i feel ptoud of myself I took this decision.
Suspicious behavior in anyone you must distance yourself quickly. Keep your burdens light and work on your own shortcomings. You cant fix anyone but youself. If you insist on trying all u will be is broke and digusted.Dont allow people to walk on your fears and tears. Talk to God he alone can solve your problems. ❤🙏✍️🙏 your trust is a valuable tool so dont go trusting evil people. Being alone I found is better than wishing you were alone😮❤11/25/23🎉
One thing I remember reading from the 19th-Century philosopher Arthur Schopenhauer is that when you find yourself interacting with (the sorts of people that are mentioned in this video), imagine that you are watching someone rehearsing for the part of an idiot in a play. This can be a tool for mentally deconstructing or disarming the offender, I think. Or, taking a cue from a Star Trek episode, it's just a carbon unit making incoherent noise.
I always been to kind. Like for example an ex friend that I knew over 15 years, was passive aggressive with me. He had a lot of karisma and foolishly, I start to believing in him. One night, he called me that he wanted go out. But my economics wouldn't allow for it. Then he planted a seed that he will be with a another friend at the pub and he will come back to my place. Hours went, I starting calling, texting him where are you? Then after serval attempts, he broke the promise and decide to party with others. So I started distance from him, to look how he would react. He blocked me all the social media later on, because I started to hear him less n less. Then I noticed that he was the toxic person in my life.
I can relate to four of these people. Number One I have gotten rid of altogether. No 2 Is a friend that I am very aware of. Number 7 is always wright and is constantly correcting me. Number 8 Negativity, unfortunately that's my husband but I have had him for 45 year's and he is a keeper in every other way. I do have to remind him about his negativity from time to time.
What do you do with a toxic boss, a narcissist who is very corrupt? I am within a few years of retirement and don't want to lose my 401k and other benefits I've built over time. Making the choice to stay is mine; just trying to cope.
It seems, now, to come to me naturally to avoid these individuals. This is because of hard learning experiences. There are legions of these damaged types around us and no good deed goes unpunished. Navigating with vigilance and causing should be observed.
You are not referring to the truly narcissistic individuals, who believe themselves flawless and have no need for self improvement. Those who, openly professes they've never felt regret, remorse, never strive for self improvement. What category would you put them in? How must they be dealt with? Does stoicism include them in your psychological realm or are they considered mentally ill and stoicism doesn't include those types? You say this ancient philosophy is applicable to all. Who among you has the stoic courage to give an intelligent answer?
I think the narcissist is just the modern name for those that might be a combo of some of these like as a manipulator combined with a the popularity one combined with the non listener one
I realized dat all of my friends are petty morons...so I decided to stay away if possible! I've learned that its better to hang out with few who are respectful and honest and not fakes...I don't need the drama.
I live people i talk two everyone iv been told things over the years and iv never repeated are slaves no one off. I’m no angle but I’m a good person I do no what yu mean doe. I do I no people like this.
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May you all remain with the Creator
So true ....it is a hard won lesson ....but ultimately these negative people give themselves away, and you will finally be at peace when you let go of these people.
This is so relevant. I couldn’t understand how my ex husband knew so much about me. I didn’t imagine my own sisters could betray me. I had a similar experience with a neighbour who tried to gaslight me and when I told her I had only discussed what was spread with her, she denied it and stopped speaking to me. I no longer discuss my personal affairs with anyone. These people has nothing but problems and resented the fact that mine were minor in comparison.
I know we don't know eachother lol
Just wanted to say its a big deal that you have realized the truth of those situations...means you have already started your path to a better more content whole self..
Its taken 37 years lol to finally start making peace with myself.. but I know that learning and growing is going to be a lifelong process...
My main mantra is dont ever let someone tell you that what you are feeling is wrong or tell you that you are going overboard...
sending you some positive energies..
Your emotions...your feelings....you are valid...
@@mikeyfrederick1232 thank you for your sharing and understanding. Unless you have experience of these issues you cannot understand. It can happen to anyone. Thank you.
At this rate there is nobody safe to talk to or be with
Many are call but few are chosen
There’s another toxic kind of person: The one who gaslights you. They will say or do something harmful and when you call them out they will look at you full of surprise and (fake but very well play acted) hurt and tell you that
- they never did this and never thought that you’d suspect them of doing such a thing
- you just misunderstood them because you’re so negative/overly critical
- you’re being overly sensitive and interpreted everything wrongly
- they were only joking (although they weren’t)
And so me people jump free me one of the above mentioned personalities we need a new name for them … the shapeshifters they make you feel gaslighted too.
I have experience these people and I have at one time followed their behaviors but now in my adult life find my being more aware of those things. Changed my ways.
I am a better person for separating myself from them.
Thank you for your sharing 😊
thank you so much! I just decided to stop being around someone who has all the behaviour you mentioned. I tried to be a good friend to her, but she lied to me and even used the good advice i gave her against me . i feel ptoud of myself I took this decision.
I'll keep clapping for others until my time comes ❤❤❤🎉
Suspicious behavior in anyone you must distance yourself quickly. Keep your burdens light and work on your own shortcomings. You cant fix anyone but youself. If you insist on trying all u will be is broke and digusted.Dont allow people to walk on your fears and tears. Talk to God he alone can solve your problems. ❤🙏✍️🙏 your trust is a valuable tool so dont go trusting evil people. Being alone I found is better than wishing you were alone😮❤11/25/23🎉
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One thing I remember reading from the 19th-Century philosopher Arthur Schopenhauer is that when you find yourself interacting with (the sorts of people that are mentioned in this video), imagine that you are watching someone rehearsing for the part of an idiot in a play. This can be a tool for mentally deconstructing or disarming the offender, I think.
Or, taking a cue from a Star Trek episode, it's just a carbon unit making incoherent noise.
I always been to kind. Like for example an ex friend that I knew over 15 years, was passive aggressive with me. He had a lot of karisma and foolishly, I start to believing in him. One night, he called me that he wanted go out. But my economics wouldn't allow for it. Then he planted a seed that he will be with a another friend at the pub and he will come back to my place. Hours went, I starting calling, texting him where are you? Then after serval attempts, he broke the promise and decide to party with others.
So I started distance from him, to look how he would react. He blocked me all the social media later on, because I started to hear him less n less. Then I noticed that he was the toxic person in my life.
I am a new subscriber and I have still learned new stuff from you. I shared a video of yours with my son to give him some insight of your channel.
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I have few friends, but I am friendly, to a point, with more than one person.
I can relate to four of these people. Number One I have gotten rid of altogether. No 2 Is a friend that I am very aware of. Number 7 is always wright and is constantly correcting me.
Number 8 Negativity, unfortunately that's my husband but I have had him for 45 year's and he is a keeper in every other way. I do have to remind him about his negativity from time to time.
What do you do with a toxic boss, a narcissist who is very corrupt? I am within a few years of retirement and don't want to lose my 401k and other benefits I've built over time. Making the choice to stay is mine; just trying to cope.
That shit rubs off on you if your around people that are like these behavior traits . Ive found 9solation to be the only glory of sanity
Thanks!
Too accurate 📍✅💯
i have nobody left to talk to
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Great points
It seems, now, to come to me naturally to avoid these individuals. This is because of hard learning experiences. There are legions of these damaged types around us and no good deed goes unpunished. Navigating with vigilance and causing should be observed.
Yes yes ❤❤❤
You are not referring to the truly narcissistic individuals, who believe themselves flawless and have no need for self improvement. Those who, openly professes they've never felt regret, remorse, never strive for self improvement. What category would you put them in? How must they be dealt with? Does stoicism include them in your psychological realm or are they considered mentally ill and stoicism doesn't include those types? You say this ancient philosophy is applicable to all. Who among you has the stoic courage to give an intelligent answer?
I think the narcissist is just the modern name for those that might be a combo of some of these like as a manipulator combined with a the popularity one combined with the non listener one
These kinds of behavior of a narcissist is the 10th on the list in my opinion.
I realized dat all of my friends are petty morons...so I decided to stay away if possible! I've learned that its better to hang out with few who are respectful and honest and not fakes...I don't need the drama.
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I find some of these warnings a bit twisted and negative.
I live people i talk two everyone iv been told things over the years and iv never repeated are slaves no one off. I’m no angle but I’m a good person I do no what yu mean doe. I do I no people like this.
Every one of these sounds like a narcissist…
Adblocker is removed for me by my son. Still you harass me.
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