This has always been my hardest thing to control. I have A-sharp tongue and I like to spue at times. I'm working on controlling that and not reacting. I find that when I pause and take a moment. I catch a lot of people off guard because they expect a quick response and I don't give it. Once we learn to control this we can control everything.😊 Stay strong, you got this in persistence and will power and having faith is crucial. God bless everyone and best of luck to you on this life journey.❤💗🙌✨️😊🙏💛
Mark: If not reacting,is the hardest thing you have ever done. Just observe one thing if you can. If every reaction comes from the mind and at the same time the practice of not reacting is done by the mind, it becomes very hard and after short period of time, the mind practice doesn't work anymore. Noticing occurs between things that happen and the reaction follows. Noticing occurs between the gap where there is no thinking. When there is a gap between action and reaction, then reaction has no power to arise or at least be minimized without trying hard.
@@terefefeyssa877 Read the General Civil Letter that the Pope sent to Obama and All the Public Officials and the American People are not aware!!! One Love❤
A wise man said, ‘Leaning to ignore things is the greatest path to inner peace’. Things can be people and situations. Don’t take on problems that aren’t personally yours. We live in an age of too much media. I’m old enough to remember when the local newspaper was our connection to the outside world. Now there’s cameras everywhere fgs! We get to go on police chases and other harrowing journeys that aren’t ours! I stay in my own lane. Mind my biz. Let you be you and me be me. I don’t take on fears that is the sensationalism of journalism in America. I have no fear of death which frees me to live my life peacefully. And staying in the moment. Bc that’s the real time. The past and future are merely memories and anticipation. Give up the need to be right. That also frees up the mind. Ultimately we personally are responsible for our inner workings, not the world
I'm recovering from a stroke. I woke up this morning wondering how/what I was going to eat, how would I make it through the day. I'm alone. Than I came across this video. Yahshua is my provider. This as every day wil be filled with His Merciful Grace and blessings. HalleluYah!!! 🕊🕊🕊
God bless you! And keep at it. The devil is a liar (you are already healed). And yet the Bible tells us he is a worthy adversary and so we shouldn’t underestimate satan’s ability to deceive us. But the Word ALSO says to stand still and see the salvation of the Lord. We have to learn to stand still. But it can be easier said than done; so my very best to you in your fight.
@@josephsalmonte4995 Thank you for being a sarcastic and a word-police person. What would we do without you kind of people to challenge our inner peace.
I trled it a long time because I am very emotional person. Now I am more the70 years old women. and I got it. Allways stay calm and smile. Its a wonderful life. Pardon for my bad english.
It's not that you're controlling them, but preventing them from controlling you by not giving attachment. Thoughts and emotions will always wonder. 💫 The best way to put it is that the goal is to see a thought and emotion for what it really is. Leaning away from a diluted reality. Maintaining a bird's eye view from your higher self. ✨
Being non reactive was one of my most powerful practices in the past. Many aggressive people would relent and apologize for their incorrect actions. True wisdom is in non descension.
This is true at times. Some times the devil uses people to intentionally disturb your spirit. When you don’t react, it hurts the aggressor more than doing so.
I pray for the wisdom to stop reacting - this is proving my greatest challenge in my awakening - especially when faced with unreasonable/selfish people
This video hit me so profoundly and with such magnitude today that I sat and listened to it MULTIPLE TIMES. Let this video speak to your soul! This was the most important message I received! The Universe knew what I needed today!!!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
This training empties your soul. God’s way to react will fill you with Love and the love of others and God’s love and his energy. This is not the path to your higher self in God’s plan.
Well said silence 🤐 is power, people can’t hurt what they really no nothing about. Smile, look more and walk away. Always smile be playful to see the through reaction of man 👨 Don’t judge, complain, procrastinate!!! React when is the perfect and right time. React and withdraw immediately.
As a bonus the quiet mind will keep narcissistic people away from you as they feed off reactions and emotions. When you react less you notice just how much people react and how emotional we can all can be for no real reason. Still struggle with being silent and not saying anything. It confuses a lot of people and can be awkward at times
3:57 “Do not allow your thoughts to become bigger than you. And no matter what your thoughts say, do not feed them. Remember that your thoughts are not your friends.” This hits home. I tend to solve problems by logical analysis. I’m currently in charge of instructing a new colleague with mental disorders who’s always complaining about almost anything. And my manager is always irritated by the pressures from the top management and he demand me to do almost contradictory tasks about my team. I’ve been thinking about how to deal with them, and I’m really exhausted, to the point that I can’t sleep. Now I realized that “my overthinking” is harmful not only for me but also for my colleague.
Your thoughts aren’t your friend? It’s according to what you are thinking..only time things don’t matter is when you are dead..I can understand silence but this video is very confusing..🔥
If you have a bad boss, consider finding a new job. Learn what you can and then move on. It’s not worth the constant stress. These managers don’t deserve their positions, they don’t know how to treat staff.
@@rosemaryrogers1478 It's the discernment part that is hard for most to understand, you can only understand that when the mind is quiet. good luck with that, it takes practice and perseverance but it's worth it.
As Dr Wayne Dyer once said..."By doing nothing, it is done"...no-thing or rather "know" the "thing"... those who have eyes to see shall see, ears to hear shall hear...here is WISDOM 👑😎💫
Thank you Jesus for guidance,thank you for this wonderful message ,I needed this ,I have been suffering negative energy projections giving me pain and other problems in different aspects of my life,it makes me angry and loose control for the period the energy attack is going on ,trying my best.
I'm not perfect but, I have learned to respond and not react to situations. Being calm helps you see things so clearly, even in moments of turmoil. It's such a powerful skill. It makes you feel alienated though because you realize not everyone does it. When everyone is panicked, you're still, calm. You're thinking through next steps.
Even if the action that is required is to be sad everyday research everyday and possibly discuss problems everyday around the world when you’re from a little town in England. With people who do not care and will aid us towards “judgement” day, my judgement day happened years ago.. look at it 😂 the world is embarrassing and Inshallah we pay £20 for a loaf of bread like zi Germans did allegedly from war and printing unlimited cash
This is one of the channels that gave me the courage to start my TH-cam channel about self development. I know it’s not comparable with others but I’m still proud I started because I’ve been learning so many lessons that I couldn’t have learned without getting started in the 1st place! ❤ To everyone reading this, I sincerely pray for that whatever is causing you pain or stress will pass. May your negative thoughts, excessive worries and doubts disappear, replaced by clarity and understanding. May your life be filled with peace, tranquility and love 🙏
And a good name too, Hub of Wisdom I am not a nike fan but JUST DO IT says it all GOOD FOR YOU, and now the best part, the journey you are on, many people need to begin
This is such a struggle for me! I am a fiery soul and always feel the need to stand up for myself and/or others and I enjoy the feeling of power when I do.
Ego loves to get snacks like one you mention here. Crazy good feeling when some bully gets reality check... But little by little it's possible to starve it down into oblivion and to earn the best power. Power over yourself.
What am I? I am No-Body, No-Mind, No-Thought, No-Emotion, No-Ego,No-Self. Just a non-judgmental observer. One with God consciousness, one with Divine consciousness, one with Universal consciousness, one of Undifferentiated Self, one with pure conscious awareness, one with Atman, one with Brahman, one with the Absolute. Therefore , there is no ‘I’. 🙏❤️Namaste
I have found in these times it really helps to have a Munk state of mind, so much so that I feel more alive and less and less angry every day. like the saying= Don't sweat the small stuff. Plus, being a Psychic Medium has really helped me over the last 20 years to be more grounded and open minded, and to try to be less judgmental about what others around me do. Love and light to all...........\m/
This is literally what i needed to hear. Worry and overthinking have been the bane of my existence lately. The Divine lead me to this video. Thank You!! 💕🎉🙌
Thank you, I needed this. The universe has been sending me messages about letting go of things that no longer serve me for over a year now, and I didn't completely understand the how of the process.
Had an accident yesterday and I was an emotional wreck so I ran to this audio and it picked me up and put everything into perspective it made me very calm I am so grateful for it.
I watched this earlier..... My husband and I were not seeing eye to eye... aka we were argueing. I watched this video and really believed this is the way to deal, it would make things easier. Later I found it a bad way to do things.. On the video he said, "Think or yourself as nothing.,, this is how you become happy". This is so aweful, it's like how cults sound. If you need some way to get through a hard time watch ... Sly Stallone.....Courage, get rid of your problem. I promise it will empower you. Thank goodness I found his short video before I really felt the way this video tries to make you feel
06/02/23 (10:35 AM) I'll start to practice this, and I'll come back a year from now to see how my life has changed because of what I've learned from here.
Great information , anyone who has lived with a narcissist, will have learned how to become reactionless, or maybe thats just me lol , 😊. I couldn't smile or i was upto somit , even when he had been with me 24/7, 7 says a week , i learned to not even flinch when it got tough , it works a treat , no reaction , it had a detrimental effect on my head but i believe everything happens for a reason, the good the bad and the ugly . Now years later , it was a survival skill, and now im glad i can do it , it sure pisses ppl of when u dont react . Then walk away with the biggest smile . Not looking back unless its to see how far you've come in life . Keep lifted and keep Real . Blessings ❤
This is confirmation for me. I've recently had a TIA stroke. I'm really extremely sensitive (do the human mind) struggling within me. Knowing I must not respond, react, and give into the "ego" is reality I'm being exercised in. I'm a place of acceptance with patience. Yes, my thoughts are the culprit of this existence.. Yahshua in me is the key manifesting Elohim's Divine Attributes within me. HalleluYah!!! 😇🕊🕊
Amen! He in your and you in Him. ONE. We are ONE. I also had a stroke. I am learning to absolutely NOT react to anything. I CAN’T. I’m just learning the hard way.. why. God is GOOD.
You are brilliant! You're videos and yourself are really helping me through my awakening, I understand so much now not only about the world but myself, I'm grateful for your wisdom and finding you on my path I look forward to your future guidance.. keep them coming 😄❤
U blessed me with neutrality an the consciousness....an i was expecting people to come at me 3 times harder with their ignorance thank you lord for protecting me with ur Love...and blessing.....there are many ways to get a child to do what u want them to do or hear ur voice thankfully God u are the infinite intelligence that knows many many ways to do it....Thank you for ur Love...others may not know but i see....i try not to cry too much...
Thank you.Those who search will find...I found this calming words."The best way of reacting,is to not react att all".....a simple truth,but will become a truth,when someone speaks the word and you hear it.Again,Thank you.❤
I agree with this in many ways and I see a lot of use for this information, but as an additional thought that I use every now and then and not as a constant state of mind. Life is an experience and thoughts and feelings are part of the experience. The state that so many meditators describe is the default state of the soul such a state that we have outside of human life, the experience of the soul itself, then we might as well let go of existence. Experience is why we are here, the lesson we are meant to experience. Instead of "turning off" the experience, we need to learn to live with it, it's good to restart in between, review ourselves, get back in touch with the self and take new directions, find the direction we want for our life and look at this as the miracle that it is. It is only the ego that is wounded, it is only the broken expectation that causes disappointment, and prejudice against oneself that creates fear. Let's learn from what we deal with to grow and become stronger as a result. I meditate, but on the other hand I let my mind and emotions flow because it is such a challenging experience, to feel the battle within. It is so fun being a living human being, so many different things to do and be, I want to try everything to get the most diverse experience, it gives the deepest understanding and the widest vision. In the end I will move closer to the soul through meditation, when I know that I am close to going back home, home to the world beyond. Well, unless unexpected death sent me there first. Live in harmony and peace, especially with yourself, but don't do it at the expense of the experience, because experience is the meaning of life.
As someone with high sensitivity and reactivity, having to survive in a face moving society is a huge challenge, especially with so much distractions and events that demands our attention
Ultimately, the most significant choice we make at any moment of the day, is between unconscious compulsive reaction and conscious creative response. The Rhythm of Life is a movement and a rest. The optimum (Heaven), is always found somewhere between the extremes of too much and too little (hell). Pleasantness is the Rose found at the Heart of the Optimum. Narrow is the Way, and few there are that find it. Angels = empowering thoughts/perspectives Demons = limiting thoughts/perspectives We are Life at large, experiencing itself as all of us simultaneously. Therefore, we are all It, to an unknowable/inexhaustible extent, as the facets of a Diamond are 'both' distinct from each other 'and' the Diamond itself. Love is the recognition of our shared Being. Be still and silent, and know That which is/That I am = Being aware of being aware. Freedom is a Way of Being. Being aware of being aware is unmodulated by the 5 senses, thus unfettered, which is the resonant inner state frequency closest in alignment with the frequency of the all-inclusive Absolute, where all things are possible (Wisdom and Understanding). What the living fire of conscious attention dwells on today, we dwell in tomorrow. Ask a compelling question as you fall asleep, receive a compelling answer as you wake up.
This is so hard to control because we all carry baggage and we never know what tomorrow will bring. I have anxiety from working hard for my dream career and not seeing any results. So yes, I tend to react with frustration, fear, and sometimes anger. I always try to be the better me but hey, I am not perfect. I keep smiling, that's what I tell myself.
This has to be the most powerful and on point video I’ve seen in awhile . Listening to this 1x a day everyday . I cannot stress anything after watching this video.I feel lighter and happier .
Bill: In a life situation, non reacting does mean to let people step on you. There are situations, you say nothing but without internal resistance. There are situations when you say yes, but checking our internal resistance. There are situations when we say no without resistance or reaction. It is like a flow without resistance like the waterway.
@@terefefeyssa877 The flip-side of letting others walk all over us is that, barring danger of being killed, control clearly belongs to us. My upstairs neighbor has been noisy for some time. In February, he took to waking me up at night, pounding on his floor, shoving furniture around, and even screaming (mostly inarticulate, with the exception of hearing the words, "Get away! Get away! Get away!" On one occasion. At first, this was nearly intolerable, but I bought an inflatable bed, kept the lights on in the bedroom and living room (he had been running in and out of his apartment and it took me a while to catch onto the fact that he was checking to see if I had reacted to his noise by turning on the lights) and used earplugs. The disturbances dropped dramatically at that point. This was because he couldnt tell where I was so that he could make noise wherever I was), and I showed no signs of reacting to him and giving him a payoff to his making noise. Aside from getting an inflatable bed, so I could sleep where I saw fit, I think I could be forgiven by describing the situation as having been brought under control by the mere flipping of a light switch at night. And he has no choice but to turn in on himself. The question is whether he will take things to the next level. We'll see as far as that's concerned.
@Bill Brenne : I deeply understand you . There are people who are totally dsturbed and looking for negative reactions from others to keep them going. They are everywhere. They are the testing ground for us how much we become stable in the midst of chaos. You meet them at the workplace, you meet them at your surroundings, or when you watch TV, you can clearly see how they provoke by feeding negative energy. What you are doing is very wonderful, but always check your inner feelings if there is inner resistance or not. That is our scale all the time.
@@terefefeyssa877 if th err re is inner resistance,there is outer resistance. In the same bein, people think of emotions as internalized feelings when the salient aspects of emotions are external. (emotions are predator-prey relations in human form, and I can prove that).
@Bill Brenne : At any moment, anything happens in the outside world. Good things, bad things, or neural things. The way we meet them matters in our life. We are the ones of our own makings. I am not saying that we should be indifferent to things. Indifferent is the near enemy of equanimity as the far enemy is reacting to things. You have to explore and experiment. Your Experential knowledge is the only factor here. It doesn't matter what I say.
Being able to see my thoughts was a wonderful wonderful thing it help me quit smoking alleviated my depression as well as heightened lucid dreaming all because I actually learned how to see my thoughts instead of being my thoughts it's a world of difference
My favorite thing....no one pays rent in my head, so.....I don't think about them!! If they fight to stay there, I remind them, this is MY HEAD, and I am not getting rent from this...GO! It's a ten-minute process, works for me every day, every time!!!
Learning how to respond & not to react is a healthy goal. It is human nature to have concerns about any situation that we find ourselves in. The point is how we respond to having concerns. Yes, we cannot control the outcome of any situation. If we do feel worry or anxiety this is human. We can use meditation & practice mindfulness, self-witnessing, etc. to lessen our worries, anxieties & reactivity. We can learn to engage with ourselves & others in a balanced way. This takes time & practice for many of us. We also need to each take responsibility for what part of each dynamic we create. To be part of a dynamic & to withdraw when the other person becomes upset can be a passive-aggressive way of dealing with situations & an example of spiritual-emotional bypassing. Developing a deeper understanding of what is going on with us is key. Also, to have tools that will help us cope with our lives.
I always keep calm in very stressful and/or in any urgent situations or accident and/or sad moments. Naturally my mind is empty and my heart goes fast but I stay still and remain with absolute calmness with a clear mind ready for action to help anyone in need and so is myself. This video speaks to me so much as sometimes I forget why I feel this way when others around me don’t. I don’t understand why some people gets frustrated when they see just how calm I am in these kind of situations, but I think it’s the reason they feel this way is they are unpowered by the fact that I can deal better than them and/or they also feel jealous that I keep a smiley or serene expression instead of a stress and anger with no control just like them. But these people, I let them be even if I would like them to leave me alone, because now I remember why I do that: I let life taking care of these frustrated people as I have no time to waste my energy for them. My time is precious and I value my energy, kindness and calmness. My mom always said to me: you are great to handle situations with serene and calmness all while being polite and understanding. Thank you so much for helping me remember why I stay on the ground while others don’t. I stay like calm water, what others see when they look at the calm lake is only their own reflection as they can’t see what’s in the unpredictable water. If they don’t like what they see when looking at the lake: it’s their own problem not mine.
I’m so glad this is something I’m actually getting good at, and it’s because I believe the prerequisite to not be reactive is to genuinely not care. Why care so much anyway? 90% of the things we care about don’t actually deserve our emotional investment and attention. People who care too much are always looking for a reaction. When you don’t give them what they want, they flip out lol.
when bad thoughts comes to me and I realise that they're troubling my mind my peacefulness I learn not to me angry or sad or frastrated or sorry about what's happened I just watch them as they come and I don't resist them I don't fight them or try to change them yes I look at them with no basis and let the sabsid and passaway and thoughts to me are like the clouds in the autumn they come and go but finally I know the sun will rise again and again but yes it need a lot of practicing but it work and those intimidating thoughts even they come again hear and there start to boring and unimportant and the mind become more and more clear and with great awareness of what is really important in life and what is nonsense
Thank you for the, as always, excellent content. This channel is quickly becoming one of my favorites. Your ability to condense the most important aspects of the Eastern spiritual disciplines is appreciated, as is the beautiful and powerful visuals. Namaste!! ✌❤🔥
The secret to non-responsive is that it doesn’t require energy, and you can do it freely all day long. IMO sorrow is the end of depression not the other way around. Why are you in this world but to fall in love and war? You fell simply on transgression, but I fell here to help and have this once in a eternity experience (this is a miracle).
I'd just like thank you for all your help your videos have really helped me understand, ive had/going through a spiritual awakening, there's so many things I'm realising it's overwhelming to understand sometimes, I am awake. This a long journey I'm glad your here ❤
Happy Saturday! May today be a day of peace, joy, and spiritual growth for you. Take some time to connect with your inner self and reflect on the blessings in your life. Remember that every moment is a gift and an opportunity to spread love and kindness to those around you. Embrace the beauty of this day and let your spirit soar!💜🦋
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This has always been my hardest thing to control. I have A-sharp tongue and I like to spue at times. I'm working on controlling that and not reacting. I find that when I pause and take a moment. I catch a lot of people off guard because they expect a quick response and I don't give it. Once we learn to control this we can control everything.😊 Stay strong, you got this in persistence and will power and having faith is crucial. God bless everyone and best of luck to you on this life journey.❤💗🙌✨️😊🙏💛
Your absolutely right 😇
Giiirl im the same very sharp tongue. The problem is i say truths too which is hurtful. Yes very hard to control it!! Im with u
💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾 we got this!!
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Don't try to control your thoughts ..release them. You won't need them to be
Silence is Golden, golden!🎶 Go within and listen to the silence, no judgments
, no chaos, total peace!
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SHUTUP! That's your mind writing. No reaction. ...
ikr, that's my mind too -_-
What if people say you are a fool
@@alicefromwonderland5365what if peace gets lost?
Whatever you recognize,
you energize.
~ Rev. Ike
Love This!
Love this one.
Wow thanks ! On point 💯
Truthfully said!
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I consider myself an expert at not reacting, it’s one of the hardest things I’ve ever done, but it was worth it every single time.
Mark: If not reacting,is the hardest thing you have ever done. Just observe one thing if you can.
If every reaction comes from the mind and at the same time the practice of not reacting is done by the mind, it becomes very hard and after short period of time, the mind practice doesn't work anymore.
Noticing occurs between things that happen and the reaction follows. Noticing occurs between the gap where there is no thinking. When there is a gap between action and reaction, then reaction has no power to arise or at least be minimized without trying hard.
@terefe feyssa Stop trying to get a reaction out of Mark. 😂
I agree.
@@SamJ_1980 now that was funny😂
@@terefefeyssa877 Read the General Civil Letter that the Pope sent to Obama and All the Public Officials and the American People are not aware!!! One Love❤
A wise man said, ‘Leaning to ignore things is the greatest path to inner peace’. Things can be people and situations. Don’t take on problems that aren’t personally yours. We live in an age of too much media. I’m old enough to remember when the local newspaper was our connection to the outside world. Now there’s cameras everywhere fgs! We get to go on police chases and other harrowing journeys that aren’t ours! I stay in my own lane. Mind my biz. Let you be you and me be me. I don’t take on fears that is the sensationalism of journalism in America. I have no fear of death which frees me to live my life peacefully. And staying in the moment. Bc that’s the real time. The past and future are merely memories and anticipation. Give up the need to be right. That also frees up the mind. Ultimately we personally are responsible for our inner workings, not the world
Well said.
Very good advice 👍
I really needed to hear this today which had a very calming effect on me. Thank you.
Great. I would like to attain such peace of mind.
Beautifully said and oh so very true - Thank you. I'm going to frame your comment!😊All the best from the UK!
I'm recovering from a stroke. I woke up this morning wondering how/what I was going to eat, how would I make it through the day. I'm alone. Than I came across this video. Yahshua is my provider. This as every day wil be filled with His Merciful Grace and blessings.
HalleluYah!!!
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Same here I wondered, I really needed a answer.
God bless you! And keep at it. The devil is a liar (you are already healed). And yet the Bible tells us he is a worthy adversary and so we shouldn’t underestimate satan’s ability to deceive us. But the Word ALSO says to stand still and see the salvation of the Lord. We have to learn to stand still. But it can be easier said than done; so my very best to you in your fight.
Bless you Paula
God always provides💫🙌🙏💞
Sending you good thoughts, Paula.
1:51 - ''Do not by into your toughts and do not fight against your feelings'. Simply observe them.'
But DO buy into a dictionary & observe it very closely 🤣
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If you know a good french-english dictionary, let me know.
@@josephsalmonte4995 Thank you for being a sarcastic and a word-police person. What would we do without you kind of people to challenge our inner peace.
Osho
@@josephsalmonte4995 Bro 💀🤣
I trled it a long time because I am very emotional person. Now I am more the70 years old women.
and I got it. Allways stay calm and smile. Its a wonderful life. Pardon for my bad english.
My life has become so peaceful when I started saying and believing in "it is what it is "
That has been my mantra for years. Yes it does help to realize "it is what it is"
Simple, yet effective. Namaste 🙏
I have a T-shirt that says that. A constant reminder that people are gonna do people sht.
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sooo true 10/26/24 amen
Listen to this message 10 to 15 times. It will change your life.
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Putting on loop now ❤
I am calm and relaxed in every situation, my mind is calm
Mine also.
Life is just flowing and when we resist it’s flow, we SUFFER
Be like water 💧 😌 ❤
@@janycebrown4071 be water my friend. -bruce lee
@@yashb.suryawanshi9936 Exactly!
I like that
Calm is a Super Power!!
To be calm means to have well controlled emotions and thoughts. Be perfectly balanced.
True!
It's not that you're controlling them, but preventing them from controlling you by not giving attachment. Thoughts and emotions will always wonder. 💫
The best way to put it is that the goal is to see a thought and emotion for what it really is. Leaning away from a diluted reality. Maintaining a bird's eye view from your higher self. ✨
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Look where that got the ten million that Hitler and his sidkicks killed in 33.Where are the sheep ?
Being non reactive was one of my most powerful practices in the past. Many aggressive people would relent and apologize for their incorrect actions. True wisdom is in non descension.
Cool! Gives me hope.
I like that
This is true at times. Some times the devil uses people to intentionally disturb your spirit. When you don’t react, it hurts the aggressor more than doing so.
When Devil's at work, your not reacting causes distress to you too
I pray for the wisdom to stop reacting - this is proving my greatest challenge in my awakening - especially when faced with unreasonable/selfish people
I'm at war with this also. We will endure
Yes, detachment is so important. Simple concepts but not always easy. Wishing everyone grace, ease and flow. 💖
Thank you
This video hit me so profoundly and with such magnitude today that I sat and listened to it MULTIPLE TIMES. Let this video speak to your soul! This was the most important message I received! The Universe knew what I needed today!!!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Right. Let AI speak to your soul. Even if the words are true, do not react to AI.
@@DoreenBellDotan is it actually AI or is it just a synthetic voice reading what someone wrote?
Me too I listen to this video everytime I get discouraged in life makes me feel better 😊
The one that came out today hit me hard…i bawled…sounded like I could have wrote it my self for my self…
This training empties your soul. God’s way to react will fill you with Love and the love of others and God’s love and his energy. This is not the path to your higher self in God’s plan.
Always remember there is nothing to be done. I love that.
Imagine that? Nothing to be done.😅
Now do your taxes
@@plumpus1634 And take the trash out
..That was just a reaction of the mind lol:))). Use discernement, don't react lol
To be free of emotion, to be free of rage, and the drama that comes with these things-that is bliss.
Very True,. But EASIER SAID,. Than done. Definitely requires much mindfulness and practice. But thank you
The best thing on the whole internet for ages ❤ thank you for that 🙏
It is being witness only.and not reacting.
I'm trying to observe instead of reacting. It really does help.❤🇨🇦
😊I was born that way..being always calm, and realizing that if you dont react contributes to happiness😊
I shut down text & have zero social media. Silence, best weapon we have. Silence, another practice of meditation.
Stillness is everything..that is who we really are..❤
Love this!!!!
Your calmness is your superpower
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Truth 👌
It's very powerful ❤
THANK YOU . ...
I AM THE DIVINE LIGHT SAYS THE ONE .....
Yes, you are. ❤
Well said silence 🤐 is power, people can’t hurt what they really no nothing about. Smile, look more and walk away. Always smile be playful to see the through reaction of man 👨 Don’t judge, complain, procrastinate!!! React when is the perfect and right time. React and withdraw immediately.
As a bonus the quiet mind will keep narcissistic people away from you as they feed off reactions and emotions. When you react less you notice just how much people react and how emotional we can all can be for no real reason. Still struggle with being silent and not saying anything. It confuses a lot of people and can be awkward at times
Wow wow wow incredible wisdom...must be practiced...gratitude ❤❤🎉🎉
3:57 “Do not allow your thoughts to become bigger than you. And no matter what your thoughts say, do not feed them. Remember that your thoughts are not your friends.”
This hits home. I tend to solve problems by logical analysis. I’m currently in charge of instructing a new colleague with mental disorders who’s always complaining about almost anything. And my manager is always irritated by the pressures from the top management and he demand me to do almost contradictory tasks about my team. I’ve been thinking about how to deal with them, and I’m really exhausted, to the point that I can’t sleep. Now I realized that “my overthinking” is harmful not only for me but also for my colleague.
You are going through a tough situation, and it's taking a toll on your mental well-being. I send you some love and hugs ❤
Your thoughts aren’t your friend? It’s according to what you are thinking..only time things don’t matter is when you are dead..I can understand silence but this video is very confusing..🔥
If you have a bad boss, consider finding a new job. Learn what you can and then move on. It’s not worth the constant stress. These managers don’t deserve their positions, they don’t know how to treat staff.
@@rosemaryrogers1478 It's the discernment part that is hard for most to understand, you can only understand that when the mind is quiet. good luck with that, it takes practice and perseverance but it's worth it.
@@veebee3837 It's happening worldwide now, repeat, rinse, repeatand stick deeply within your own peaceful self now more than ever..
As Dr Wayne Dyer once said..."By doing nothing, it is done"...no-thing or rather "know" the "thing"... those who have eyes to see shall see, ears to hear shall hear...here is WISDOM 👑😎💫
That Dyer was a good man.
He was quoting Lao tzu from the tao te ching wich is a fascinating book.
Epic
Thank you Jesus for guidance,thank you for this wonderful message ,I needed this ,I have been suffering negative energy projections giving me pain and other problems in different aspects of my life,it makes me angry and loose control for the period the energy attack is going on ,trying my best.
This is exactly what I need this Monday morning. Thank you.
I'm not perfect but, I have learned to respond and not react to situations. Being calm helps you see things so clearly, even in moments of turmoil. It's such a powerful skill. It makes you feel alienated though because you realize not everyone does it. When everyone is panicked, you're still, calm. You're thinking through next steps.
When criminal forces try to take over the world action is what is required!
And even then, action should be deliberate, calm and strategic, not reacting to each and every enemy provocation.
Even if the action that is required is to be sad everyday research everyday and possibly discuss problems everyday around the world when you’re from a little town in England. With people who do not care and will aid us towards “judgement” day, my judgement day happened years ago.. look at it 😂 the world is embarrassing and Inshallah we pay £20 for a loaf of bread like zi Germans did allegedly from war and printing unlimited cash
Much gratitude for your inspiring message❤️🍃☀️
Thank you, I was so out of it yesterday. I am grateful for your wonderful encouragement!!!
This is one of the channels that gave me the courage to start my TH-cam channel about self development. I know it’s not comparable with others but I’m still proud I started because I’ve been learning so many lessons that I couldn’t have learned without getting started in the 1st place! ❤
To everyone reading this, I sincerely pray for that whatever is causing you pain or stress will pass. May your negative thoughts, excessive worries and doubts disappear, replaced by clarity and understanding. May your life be filled with peace, tranquility and love 🙏
Thank you ❤️🙏🏽 Be blessed ❤️🙏🏽
And a good name too,
Hub of Wisdom
I am not a nike fan
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JUST DO IT
says it all
GOOD FOR YOU, and now the best part,
the journey you are on,
many people need to begin
Best wished, keep on 😊
IAM working on this now❤❤❤not reacting to Negative people and situations❤❤❤
This is such a struggle for me! I am a fiery soul and always feel the need to stand up for myself and/or others and I enjoy the feeling of power when I do.
Same here, but here's the thing: Staying calm is the Real Power and also best for your well-being. Takes me a lot of practice, every time!
@@exaudi33 Great response! Thank you ❤️
Ego loves to get snacks like one you mention here.
Crazy good feeling when some bully gets reality check...
But little by little it's possible to starve it down into oblivion and to earn the best power.
Power over yourself.
this is me no matter the consquences that come with it
you still do, you still fight if you have to but mentally you are not attached to anything, thaths point a guess
Thank you! God bless you!🙏❤️
What am I? I am No-Body, No-Mind, No-Thought, No-Emotion, No-Ego,No-Self. Just a non-judgmental observer. One with God consciousness, one with Divine consciousness, one with Universal consciousness, one of Undifferentiated Self, one with pure conscious awareness, one with Atman, one with Brahman, one with the Absolute. Therefore , there is no ‘I’. 🙏❤️Namaste
Those other powers created by mind do not direct to enlightenment, those leads to wrong paths and just barriers in the correct path
U r just the soul🫂
U are an instrument of GOD!
God bless
@@LaoshiDJ it is called Advaita Vedanta. This is a non dualistic Hindu Philosophy that has been around for over 1400 years . 🙏
So well expressed
I have found in these times it really helps to have a Munk state of mind, so much so that I feel more alive and less and less angry every day. like the saying= Don't sweat the small stuff. Plus, being a Psychic Medium has really helped me over the last 20 years to be more grounded and open minded, and to try to be less judgmental about what others around me do. Love and light to all...........\m/
I loved that show!!!
This is literally what i needed to hear. Worry and overthinking have been the bane of my existence lately. The Divine lead me to this video. Thank You!! 💕🎉🙌
Thank you, I needed this. The universe has been sending me messages about letting go of things that no longer serve me for over a year now, and I didn't completely understand the how of the process.
This is so powerful ❤
This is absolutely brilliant and totally accurate what a brilliant channel. 👍 😊 😇 😊
"Everytime you try and change something it feed your ego and leads to problems" so so true 😌
In my continual pursuit for enlightenment, I have listened to thousands of lectures. This video has been the most profound.
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I agree I listen to it daily
Had an accident yesterday and I was an emotional wreck so I ran to this audio and it picked me up and put everything into perspective it made me very calm I am so grateful for it.
I watched this earlier..... My husband and I were not seeing eye to eye... aka we were argueing. I watched this video and really believed this is the way to deal, it would make things easier. Later I found it a bad way to do things.. On the video he said, "Think or yourself as nothing.,, this is how you become happy". This is so aweful, it's like how cults sound. If you need some way to get through a hard time watch ... Sly Stallone.....Courage, get rid of your problem. I promise it will empower you. Thank goodness I found his short video before I really felt the way this video tries to make you feel
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I'll start to practice this, and I'll come back a year from now to see how my life has changed because of what I've learned from here.
Hello how’s life now
It's like having faith in God and completely trusting in him.
Great information , anyone who has lived with a narcissist, will have learned how to become reactionless, or maybe thats just me lol , 😊. I couldn't smile or i was upto somit , even when he had been with me 24/7, 7 says a week , i learned to not even flinch when it got tough , it works a treat , no reaction , it had a detrimental effect on my head but i believe everything happens for a reason, the good the bad and the ugly . Now years later , it was a survival skill, and now im glad i can do it , it sure pisses ppl of when u dont react . Then walk away with the biggest smile . Not looking back unless its to see how far you've come in life . Keep lifted and keep Real . Blessings ❤
Thank you. I've been practing non reaction for like 4 days and my life has already been better ♥️
I learned this 50 years ago from a book by Norman Vincent Peale called You Can If You Think You Can and the Power of Positive Thinking
Consciousness is a blessing.
Power of not reacting comes when we remain connected with self.
This is confirmation for me. I've recently had a TIA stroke. I'm really extremely sensitive (do the human mind) struggling within me. Knowing I must not respond, react, and give into the "ego" is reality I'm being exercised in. I'm a place of acceptance with patience. Yes, my thoughts are the culprit of this existence..
Yahshua in me is the key manifesting Elohim's Divine Attributes within me.
HalleluYah!!!
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Amen! He in your and you in Him. ONE. We are ONE. I also had a stroke. I am learning to absolutely NOT react to anything. I CAN’T. I’m just learning the hard way.. why. God is GOOD.
Bless whoever posted & made this video. I needed to hear all of this so bad
You are brilliant! You're videos and yourself are really helping me through my awakening, I understand so much now not only about the world but myself, I'm grateful for your wisdom and finding you on my path I look forward to your future guidance.. keep them coming 😄❤
Thank you so much for your kind words! It warms my heart to know that the content is resonating with you. We're all in this journey together.❤️
U blessed me with neutrality an the consciousness....an i was expecting people to come at me 3 times harder with their ignorance thank you lord for protecting me with ur Love...and blessing.....there are many ways to get a child to do what u want them to do or hear ur voice thankfully God u are the infinite intelligence that knows many many ways to do it....Thank you for ur Love...others may not know but i see....i try not to cry too much...
Flow state and peace the essence of consciousness 🎯
“There ain’t no use in tryin to be what you isn’t because you are what you am.” 😇🌸
Thank you for this video. It is very important to me at this moment. I am consciousness, I am peace and I am happy
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Thank you.Those who search will find...I found this calming words."The best way of reacting,is to not react att all".....a simple truth,but will become a truth,when someone speaks the word and you hear it.Again,Thank you.❤
The internet must go on . The show will live forever in space
I agree with this in many ways and I see a lot of use for this information, but as an additional thought that I use every now and then and not as a constant state of mind. Life is an experience and thoughts and feelings are part of the experience. The state that so many meditators describe is the default state of the soul such a state that we have outside of human life, the experience of the soul itself, then we might as well let go of existence. Experience is why we are here, the lesson we are meant to experience. Instead of "turning off" the experience, we need to learn to live with it, it's good to restart in between, review ourselves, get back in touch with the self and take new directions, find the direction we want for our life and look at this as the miracle that it is.
It is only the ego that is wounded, it is only the broken expectation that causes disappointment, and prejudice against oneself that creates fear. Let's learn from what we deal with to grow and become stronger as a result.
I meditate, but on the other hand I let my mind and emotions flow because it is such a challenging experience, to feel the battle within. It is so fun being a living human being, so many different things to do and be, I want to try everything to get the most diverse experience, it gives the deepest understanding and the widest vision. In the end I will move closer to the soul through meditation, when I know that I am close to going back home, home to the world beyond. Well, unless unexpected death sent me there first.
Live in harmony and peace, especially with yourself, but don't do it at the expense of the experience, because experience is the meaning of life.
“Life is just flowing.
When we resist we cause ourselves inner pain.
Release. Be free flowing. Just be.”
Amen 🙏🙏🙏 Thankyou Universe for your support and guidance 🙏🙏🙏❤
In the beginning, God created the heavens and the Earth. The universe did not create you.
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It is ALL ONE!!
This is essence of all spiritual teachings 🙏
It is. 💜
As someone with high sensitivity and reactivity, having to survive in a face moving society is a huge challenge, especially with so much distractions and events that demands our attention
I appreciate this. Any time I feel I am going out of alignment, I return to this video.
Ultimately, the most significant choice we make at any moment of the day, is between unconscious compulsive reaction and conscious creative response.
The Rhythm of Life is a movement and a rest. The optimum (Heaven), is always found somewhere between the extremes of too much and too little (hell).
Pleasantness is the Rose found at the Heart of the Optimum.
Narrow is the Way, and few there are that find it.
Angels = empowering thoughts/perspectives
Demons = limiting thoughts/perspectives
We are Life at large, experiencing itself as all of us simultaneously. Therefore, we are all It, to an unknowable/inexhaustible extent, as the facets of a Diamond are 'both' distinct from each other 'and' the Diamond itself.
Love is the recognition of our shared Being.
Be still and silent, and know That which is/That I am = Being aware of being aware.
Freedom is a Way of Being. Being aware of being aware is unmodulated by the 5 senses, thus unfettered, which is the resonant inner state frequency closest in alignment with the frequency of the all-inclusive Absolute, where all things are possible (Wisdom and Understanding).
What the living fire of conscious attention dwells on today, we dwell in tomorrow.
Ask a compelling question as you fall asleep, receive a compelling answer as you wake up.
Hat's off for your great practical truth
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This is so good that I wish everyone in the world could read this.
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This is so hard to control because we all carry baggage and we never know what tomorrow will bring. I have anxiety from working hard for my dream career and not seeing any results. So yes, I tend to react with frustration, fear, and sometimes anger. I always try to be the better me but hey, I am not perfect. I keep smiling, that's what I tell myself.
This has to be the most powerful and on point video I’ve seen in awhile . Listening to this 1x a day everyday . I cannot stress anything after watching this video.I feel lighter and happier .
Pisses people off to no end. BEST EXAMPLE OF SELF CONTROL BEING THE BEST REVENGE!
I agree. Not reacting throws others back on themselves and forces them to listen to their own words.
Bill: In a life situation, non reacting does mean to let people step on you.
There are situations, you say nothing but without internal resistance. There are situations when you say yes, but checking our internal resistance.
There are situations when we say no without resistance or reaction. It is like a flow without resistance like the waterway.
@@terefefeyssa877 The flip-side of letting others walk all over us is that, barring danger of being killed, control clearly belongs to us. My upstairs neighbor has been noisy for some time. In February, he took to waking me up at night, pounding on his floor, shoving furniture around, and even screaming (mostly inarticulate, with the exception of hearing the words, "Get away! Get away! Get away!" On one occasion. At first, this was nearly intolerable, but I bought an inflatable bed, kept the lights on in the bedroom and living room (he had been running in and out of his apartment and it took me a while to catch onto the fact that he was checking to see if I had reacted to his noise by turning on the lights) and used earplugs. The disturbances dropped dramatically at that point. This was because he couldnt tell where I was so that he could make noise wherever I was), and I showed no signs of reacting to him and giving him a payoff to his making noise. Aside from getting an inflatable bed, so I could sleep where I saw fit, I think I could be forgiven by describing the situation as having been brought under control by the mere flipping of a light switch at night. And he has no choice but to turn in on himself. The question is whether he will take things to the next level. We'll see as far as that's concerned.
@Bill Brenne : I deeply understand you . There are people who are totally dsturbed and looking for negative reactions from others to keep them going. They are everywhere. They are the testing ground for us how much we become stable in the midst of chaos. You meet them at the workplace, you meet them at your surroundings, or when you watch TV, you can clearly see how they provoke by feeding negative energy. What you are doing is very wonderful, but always check your inner feelings if there is inner resistance or not. That is our scale all the time.
@@terefefeyssa877 if th err re is inner resistance,there is outer resistance. In the same bein, people think of emotions as internalized feelings when the salient aspects of emotions are external. (emotions are predator-prey relations in human form, and I can prove that).
@Bill Brenne : At any moment, anything happens in the outside world.
Good things, bad things, or neural things. The way we meet them matters in our life. We are the ones of our own makings. I am not saying that we should be indifferent to things. Indifferent is the near enemy of equanimity as the far enemy is reacting to things. You have to explore and experiment. Your Experential knowledge is the only factor here.
It doesn't matter what I say.
Being able to see my thoughts was a wonderful wonderful thing it help me quit smoking alleviated my depression as well as heightened lucid dreaming all because I actually learned how to see my thoughts instead of being my thoughts it's a world of difference
My favorite thing....no one pays rent in my head, so.....I don't think about them!! If they fight to stay there, I remind them, this is MY HEAD, and I am not getting rent from this...GO! It's a ten-minute process, works for me every day, every time!!!
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I'm use that
Learning how to respond & not to react is a healthy goal. It is human nature to have concerns about any situation that we find ourselves in. The point is how we respond to having concerns. Yes, we cannot control the outcome of any situation. If we do feel worry or anxiety this is human. We can use meditation & practice mindfulness, self-witnessing, etc. to lessen our worries, anxieties & reactivity. We can learn to engage with ourselves & others in a balanced way. This takes time & practice for many of us. We also need to each take responsibility for what part of each dynamic we create. To be part of a dynamic & to withdraw when the other person becomes upset can be a passive-aggressive way of dealing with situations & an example of spiritual-emotional bypassing. Developing a deeper understanding of what is going on with us is key. Also, to have tools that will help us cope with our lives.
Thank you very much. Very powerful wisdom of life!!
Know yourself fully and without hesitation…shmowzow thts a thinker…I’m feeling inspired
I always keep calm in very stressful and/or in any urgent situations or accident and/or sad moments. Naturally my mind is empty and my heart goes fast but I stay still and remain with absolute calmness with a clear mind ready for action to help anyone in need and so is myself. This video speaks to me so much as sometimes I forget why I feel this way when others around me don’t. I don’t understand why some people gets frustrated when they see just how calm I am in these kind of situations, but I think it’s the reason they feel this way is they are unpowered by the fact that I can deal better than them and/or they also feel jealous that I keep a smiley or serene expression instead of a stress and anger with no control just like them. But these people, I let them be even if I would like them to leave me alone, because now I remember why I do that: I let life taking care of these frustrated people as I have no time to waste my energy for them. My time is precious and I value my energy, kindness and calmness. My mom always said to me: you are great to handle situations with serene and calmness all while being polite and understanding. Thank you so much for helping me remember why I stay on the ground while others don’t.
I stay like calm water, what others see when they look at the calm lake is only their own reflection as they can’t see what’s in the unpredictable water. If they don’t like what they see when looking at the lake: it’s their own problem not mine.
Fantastic way of thinking.
It purges the negative from within for me.
Thank you. Much gratitude. 🌺
I’m so glad this is something I’m actually getting good at, and it’s because I believe the prerequisite to not be reactive is to genuinely not care. Why care so much anyway? 90% of the things we care about don’t actually deserve our emotional investment and attention. People who care too much are always looking for a reaction. When you don’t give them what they want, they flip out lol.
The moment you think you getting good is the moment you slip up lol
6:35 When you let go youre NOT going to turn into a vegetable!
Good to know, now i feel relieved. Made my day, thanks!
Thank you for posting this message. I needed to hear this. 😊
Scilence is the ultimate solution. Yes it is🙏🏼
when bad thoughts comes to me and I realise that they're troubling my mind my peacefulness I learn not to me angry or sad or frastrated or sorry about what's happened I just watch them as they come and I don't resist them I don't fight them or try to change them yes I look at them with no basis and let the sabsid and passaway and thoughts to me are like the clouds in the autumn they come and go but finally I know the sun will rise again and again but yes it need a lot of practicing but it work and those intimidating thoughts even they come again hear and there start to boring and unimportant and the mind become more and more clear and with great awareness of what is really important in life and what is nonsense
Thank. you for this wonderful video. It's all true.
Wow so much good info packed into this video. Makes sense! Thankfull🙏💞 Rewatching daily ❤
Thank you for the, as always, excellent content. This channel is quickly becoming one of my favorites. Your ability to condense the most important aspects of the Eastern spiritual disciplines is appreciated, as is the beautiful and powerful visuals.
Namaste!!
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The secret to non-responsive is that it doesn’t require energy, and you can do it freely all day long. IMO sorrow is the end of depression not the other way around. Why are you in this world but to fall in love and war? You fell simply on transgression, but I fell here to help and have this once in a eternity experience (this is a miracle).
I'd just like thank you for all your help your videos have really helped me understand, ive had/going through a spiritual awakening, there's so many things I'm realising it's overwhelming to understand sometimes, I am awake. This a long journey I'm glad your here ❤
Namaste
Happy Saturday! May today be a day of peace, joy, and spiritual growth for you. Take some time to connect with your inner self and reflect on the blessings in your life. Remember that every moment is a gift and an opportunity to spread love and kindness to those around you. Embrace the beauty of this day and let your spirit soar!💜🦋
@@ButterflyAwakening Read the General Civil Letter that the Pope sent to Obama and All the Public Officials and the American People are not aware!!! One Love❤
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Calming bliss
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Blessings to you! ✨
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