This is a blessing. To be able to have these conversations with another person openly. This level of communication is difficult to achieve esp in your 30s
I absolutely agree with Hannan in terms of learning different things from different friends and not everyone has be exactly in the same place in life as you. Cherish the people around you 100!!!!
as a almost 24 year old who never had a real or deep friendship. This topic really depresses me. I just can't seem to connect to people my age or older, I just feel so alien. It's literally destroying me. People are meant to live in a community. I have nothing like it...
I was so excited to see that you made this video!! Just added to my watch later; this will be PERFECT to watch during my next painting session. Can't wait!!
Assalamualiekum girls, thank you for this video. Im in the same boat as the both of you, we've all moved to Dubai and left behind our sisterhoods and friendships. Hearing you both speak, gave me some solace and helped me get through a tough day.
I just finished watching the entire video and this is exactly what my heart needed to hear. You both are so well spoken, MashaAllah. Thank you for this 💗
Amazing video made me emotional because we are all sharing this same experience. I really related to Hanan so much so thanks for sharing! I long for that sisterhood again but I’m also okay with being besties with myself and one homegirl who really has been an amazing support system for me and vice versa. May Allah allow us to befriend people that bring us closer to him ♡
SHUT UP THIS HAS TO BE MY FAVOURITE PODCAST EPISODE EVER GIRL. RELATABLE. COMFY. BEAUTIFUL. SHAHD PLEASE NEVER STOP MAKING THESE IF YOU CAN PLS MAKE A PART 2 ON THIS TOO. MAY ALLAH BLESS YOU GIRLIES IN THIS LIFE AND THE NEXT
This such an inspiring conversation thanks ladies!! I’m currently going through the loneliness stage but also great for me in a way because it is forcing me to get to know myself first and be friends with myself. But most importantly building that relationship with Allah!! So when Allah is ready to spoil me with a friendship I’ll know how to receive it!! Jazakallah Khayran 🤍 May Allah grant us beautiful and meaningful friendships!
This episode was like free therapy for me, it's always comforting to know that you are not the only one experiencing those relationships challenges , may Allah bless u keep this series going ❤️
This is a well needed video ❤❤❤ I feel like I’m going into my loneliness faze and I totally understand everything that was said here so now I’m prepared for everything that’s coming my way
this may or may not help, but for me re-orienting myself and my outlook on my life has been so helpful. i noticed when i leaned into loneliness as an era of my life it set the stage subconsciously for how i viewed a lot of social interactions, and made me feel like things were progressively going downhill. now, i instead focus on myself rather than the lack of socialization with others and call it my "level up" era, where i spend all the new free time i have becoming the best version of myself i can be, so i can be the good friend i want when it's time to make new friends! watching videos like this are so helpful in that process like you said, and i really think coming into these phases with excitement and optimism for what's next is so helpful. when you really get into becoming the best version of yourself it becomes much easier to wait on those friends to come.
Thank you for talking about an important topics and also having safe space to share thoughts. Watching this episode is therapeutic. Please continue these episodes❤️
Honestly have the same difficulty as someone who moved to London as a 23YO after uni, getting married and becoming a new mum. But I’m glad I’m not alone as many have it hard at this age range🥹 may we find the best of friends in eachother Ameen
MashAllah ❤ i relate to both of your stories, and its important to share this, so I really appreciate it Edit: not to be a nerd, but also small typo at around 25min mark
I feel like this is the type of content that I need in this period of my life. Just a deep conversations between two Muslim women, discussing life and religion. Also Shahd, it's a relief to see that you're back alhamdulillah. May Allah swt reward you two for spreading such positivity on this platform, Allahumma Ameen❤❤❤
Loved this video. I relate to this a lot!! As a person who is in her late twenties and moved on to another country. Please make a podcast that would be AMAZING!!😍❤️❤️❤️ May Allah bless both of you with everything you good you wish for and grand you the highest place in Jannah Ameen❤️
The smaller the circle the better. Quality over quantity. Access to me is not for everyone just because they are human. Anybody who is uncomfortable with me being choosy can find someone else to force issues on😅
Ah, I have yet to watch this video, but I just came back to your channel and hoped you were back to posting, and Alhamdulillah you are! I remember watching you all the time in high school and benefitted so much from your content. I've been wearing my Hijab since young, but it got more difficult as I got older. Seeing your videos really reignited my Eemaan and inspired me. I even bought your "Buy Yourself Flowers" hoodie and to this day love it! I would also love to see the "Buy Yourself Flowers" slogan brought back into this channel somehow, it was such a nice reminder, maybe you could do reminders or a specific section for it. May الله سبحانه وتعالى bless you and your new journey sister! بارك الله فيك 🤧💞💞
The end convo: I'm wondering if you want to be celebrated but "never had the opportunity" or you just don't like that kind of thing for yourself? It wasn't clear when you stated it. I'm not a celebration person personally, but I love celebrating other people that are big into or just want that. On my B-day I want to be in reflection mood, eating, going, and doing anything or nothing as I please. If my make plans to go eat on that day then wake up and not feel like it, which has happened, I just don't go and because it's an alone day, I don't have to worry about other people's feelings on the matter. I order all my favorite foods or cook and watch whatever. It my personal Whatever Floats My Boat Day. 😂❤😂
As a videographer I suggest that you give us close ups and different angles in the same video, if you can. Such shots draw the viewers in and keep them locked in as well.
the part where Hannan talked about being in a state where you need to be alone and praying and looking forward to getting what you want (friendships etc.) is really beautifully said. But for me, being alone my entire life... can't help but see that this isolation that is still currently happening just worsend my character and just made me even more weird and bitter. Now of course nobody likes me.. YIKES
Ladies no judgement here . Everything you both said amazing but please move scarves forward no point show your hair . may Allah forgive us and keep us safe.
may Allah SWT bless us with friends that remind us of His love and mercy 🫂🥹🤍
ameen🫶🏽
Ameen Ya Hayyu Ya Qayyum
Ameen to that!!!!
Allahumma Ameen ❤
Allahuma ameen ❤
This is a blessing. To be able to have these conversations with another person openly. This level of communication is difficult to achieve esp in your 30s
I absolutely agree with Hannan in terms of learning different things from different friends and not everyone has be exactly in the same place in life as you. Cherish the people around you 100!!!!
you both are so beautiful and radiate such positive energy
Mashallah the wisdom in this
heyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy how is everyone ??
alhamdulillah can’t complain 💗
This is great sis!! Keep going
Alhamdulilah
great now that I've watched this video
I'm happy to see your content lately
This came on time! I’m 25 and I already started feeling lonely and losing friends
That’s a good thing ! God is cleansing toxic ppl from your life . If u ever feel lonely just pray 🙏🏽
Thank yall for this !! So many gems!! May Allah bless your sisterhood!
as a almost 24 year old who never had a real or deep friendship. This topic really depresses me. I just can't seem to connect to people my age or older, I just feel so alien. It's literally destroying me. People are meant to live in a community. I have nothing like it...
Im in the same boat 😢we can’t make friends we are Autistic/socially awkward
@@livaallolia so true
This was so healing to watch. May Allah swt grant us with friends who love us and remind us of Allah
Loved this episode. As a woman who is also in my late 20’s I relate to this a lot. I felt like i was there with you girls. More of this please ❤️
I was so excited to see that you made this video!! Just added to my watch later; this will be PERFECT to watch during my next painting session. Can't wait!!
Assalamualiekum girls, thank you for this video. Im in the same boat as the both of you, we've all moved to Dubai and left behind our sisterhoods and friendships. Hearing you both speak, gave me some solace and helped me get through a tough day.
Start a podcast pleaseeeeee😭
I just finished watching the entire video and this is exactly what my heart needed to hear. You both are so well spoken, MashaAllah. Thank you for this 💗
I missed these!! You have no idea how much these help me reflect and stay connected with myself
omggg make this a podcast 😍its soo good ! May Allah keep you guys together in this life and in jannatul firdaus !
Amazing video made me emotional because we are all sharing this same experience. I really related to Hanan so much so thanks for sharing! I long for that sisterhood again but I’m also okay with being besties with myself and one homegirl who really has been an amazing support system for me and vice versa. May Allah allow us to befriend people that bring us closer to him ♡
This video was amazing to watch! I love how transparent you two were.
I RAN TO TH-cam!!😭❤️
SHUT UP THIS HAS TO BE MY FAVOURITE PODCAST EPISODE EVER GIRL. RELATABLE. COMFY. BEAUTIFUL. SHAHD PLEASE NEVER STOP MAKING THESE IF YOU CAN PLS MAKE A PART 2 ON THIS TOO. MAY ALLAH BLESS YOU GIRLIES IN THIS LIFE AND THE NEXT
This such an inspiring conversation thanks ladies!! I’m currently going through the loneliness stage but also great for me in a way because it is forcing me to get to know myself first and be friends with myself. But most importantly building that relationship with Allah!! So when Allah is ready to spoil me with a friendship I’ll know how to receive it!! Jazakallah Khayran 🤍 May Allah grant us beautiful and meaningful friendships!
I relate to you Shahd, especially with the hopefulness of being alone. Loved this! ❤️
a sit down I didn't know I needed 💕 thank you
This episode was like free therapy for me, it's always comforting to know that you are not the only one experiencing those relationships challenges , may Allah bless u keep this series going ❤️
This is a well needed video ❤❤❤ I feel like I’m going into my loneliness faze and I totally understand everything that was said here so now I’m prepared for everything that’s coming my way
this may or may not help, but for me re-orienting myself and my outlook on my life has been so helpful. i noticed when i leaned into loneliness as an era of my life it set the stage subconsciously for how i viewed a lot of social interactions, and made me feel like things were progressively going downhill. now, i instead focus on myself rather than the lack of socialization with others and call it my "level up" era, where i spend all the new free time i have becoming the best version of myself i can be, so i can be the good friend i want when it's time to make new friends! watching videos like this are so helpful in that process like you said, and i really think coming into these phases with excitement and optimism for what's next is so helpful. when you really get into becoming the best version of yourself it becomes much easier to wait on those friends to come.
you ladies don’t know how much I needed to hear all of this, my heart is so full rn. May Allah SWT reward you both.
this video is so thoughtful + insightful. I love that it feels so relaxed and comfortable this was beautiful to watch. allahumma barik shahd 🫶🏾
Thank you for talking about an important topics and also having safe space to share thoughts. Watching this episode is therapeutic. Please continue these episodes❤️
This was so needed! May Allah give us friends that remind us of Allah and will speak for us on the day of judgement 🤲🏾
AHHH SHE’S BACKKK
yall get me sooo much this is exactly my mindset. everything u both said was on pointtt 😭❤ i wish yall were MY friends allahuma barik 🫶🏽
I loved this you guys should do this like A LOT 💛 this is the type of women influencers we need ya shahd💛💛💛
SHE’S BACKKKKKK
Love this so much! We need a podcast immediately!!! 💓
Honestly have the same difficulty as someone who moved to London as a 23YO after uni, getting married and becoming a new mum. But I’m glad I’m not alone as many have it hard at this age range🥹 may we find the best of friends in eachother Ameen
So relatable and evolved young ladies, Masha’Allah Tabarak’Allah
This was so comforting to watch. It made me reflect a lot as well. Thank you for this Shahd and Hanan❤ May allah grant you both ease and Aafiya❤❤
shai with shahd is back ❤️❤️❤️💌💌💌💌💌
This was so genuine and wholesome, enjoyed listening❤ please stay real and relatable😘😘
This was wholesome MashaAllah❤
this is wonderful and really helpful and validating to know there are others that think like me
MashAllah ❤ i relate to both of your stories, and its important to share this, so I really appreciate it
Edit: not to be a nerd, but also small typo at around 25min mark
loved this conversation, so precious may الله SWT reward you guys !
I feel like this is the type of content that I need in this period of my life. Just a deep conversations between two Muslim women, discussing life and religion. Also Shahd, it's a relief to see that you're back alhamdulillah. May Allah swt reward you two for spreading such positivity on this platform, Allahumma Ameen❤❤❤
This is the cross-over episode that I didnt know that I needed!❤❤❤
Loved this video. I relate to this a lot!! As a person who is in her late twenties and moved on to another country. Please make a podcast that would be AMAZING!!😍❤️❤️❤️ May Allah bless both of you with everything you good you wish for and grand you the highest place in Jannah Ameen❤️
The smaller the circle the better. Quality over quantity. Access to me is not for everyone just because they are human. Anybody who is uncomfortable with me being choosy can find someone else to force issues on😅
my favs🥰wow the perfect way to start my day❤❤
I have been telling my young adults daughters for years that not every friend you make they will stay forever in your life.
I love you guys so much! May Allah reward you for all your efforts!
The modest dresses are 🔥 ❤MashaAllah ladies so beutiful
May Allah bless you guys this video came out at the right time for me 🥲
Ah, I have yet to watch this video, but I just came back to your channel and hoped you were back to posting, and Alhamdulillah you are! I remember watching you all the time in high school and benefitted so much from your content. I've been wearing my Hijab since young, but it got more difficult as I got older. Seeing your videos really reignited my Eemaan and inspired me. I even bought your "Buy Yourself Flowers" hoodie and to this day love it! I would also love to see the "Buy Yourself Flowers" slogan brought back into this channel somehow, it was such a nice reminder, maybe you could do reminders or a specific section for it. May الله سبحانه وتعالى bless you and your new journey sister!
بارك الله فيك 🤧💞💞
I can see Hanan literally bursting at the seams over your birthday
JazkAllah khirn for the beautiful reminder Hanan❤
The end convo: I'm wondering if you want to be celebrated but "never had the opportunity" or you just don't like that kind of thing for yourself? It wasn't clear when you stated it.
I'm not a celebration person personally, but I love celebrating other people that are big into or just want that. On my B-day I want to be in reflection mood, eating, going, and doing anything or nothing as I please. If my make plans to go eat on that day then wake up and not feel like it, which has happened, I just don't go and because it's an alone day, I don't have to worry about other people's feelings on the matter. I order all my favorite foods or cook and watch whatever. It my personal Whatever Floats My Boat Day.
😂❤😂
AAAAH so excited to watch this
As a videographer I suggest that you give us close ups and different angles in the same video, if you can. Such shots draw the viewers in and keep them locked in as well.
Two favs 🥹
Happy Birthday Shahd!!!!🎉🎉🎉🎉
Talk about what to do if a friendship breaks , how to deal with it
Omg it’s been forever since I couldn’t hold myself back from listening to a conversation that I cherished this much🫶🏻please let there be a part 2
The guest said the friendships she pursues now she knows will benefit her in even when she passes away. How?
love this video
You and hanan are good for eachother 💛
Both are so beautiful ❤ Mashallah
First❤❤❤ missed u baeeee
may Allah grant us good friendships amin
amine
Ameen
My current test thank you for this video may Allah make things easier for you sisters
happy birthday shahd
I relate to this a lot 😅😅 Theresa huge diff btw a low maintenance friend and a bad one you just have to look close! Start a podcast plzzzzz
I love you shahd...may Allah give us our heart desire ..your videos make me think am not weird...
I NEED the cards from the intro
ugh i inspire to be you guys allahumabarik
it was amazing!
may Allah bless your friendship 💗
we are soooooooo back
the part where Hannan talked about being in a state where you need to be alone and praying and looking forward to getting what you want (friendships etc.) is really beautifully said. But for me, being alone my entire life... can't help but see that this isolation that is still currently happening just worsend my character and just made me even more weird and bitter. Now of course nobody likes me.. YIKES
Is that deck available to buy? So beautiful ✨
Pleaseee start a podcast
Missed ur videos 🎉🎉🎉 are you working in dubai now ? Loved this vid
Love your chats more plsssss x
Hey just some suggestions get the camera closer alittle bit and use mics it was a bit hard to listen because of the background noises.
You and Hanan look so beautiful Allahuma Barik.
If you dont mind me asking Shahd, from where is your abaya ? I love the was it looks 🩷
Can you both open a podcast separately or together
omg shahd🥹❤️
Mashllah 😁💝
Shahd I love youuuuuu
Start a podcast on You Tube. I love this!
Ahhhh🥳💞
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Ladies no judgement here . Everything you both said amazing but please move scarves forward no point show your hair . may Allah forgive us and keep us safe.
Are you of East African descent???
Yeah they are ! I think shad is either Eritrean or Ethiopian and Hanan is Somali 🇸🇴 if I’m not mistaken
@@twinkle_yara Hanan is Eritrean! x
shahd is Sudanese
Shahd is Sudanese 🇸🇩
Hanan is Somalian 🇸🇴
Shahd is sudanese and hanan is eritrean!!(:
Really appreciated this video, felt very seen 🫶🏾