10 Best Things To Talk About On A First Date

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  • @MistahUnknown
    @MistahUnknown 3 ปีที่แล้ว +682

    Ask about where she's from.
    Ask about where she grew up.
    Ask about he favorite movie/tv show.
    Ask about what she is passionate about.
    Ask about her favorite places to go/travel.
    Ask about what she would do if she were to hit the Powerball jackpot (leads to many follow-up questions)
    Ask her what is on her bucket list. (It's a cheat code topic to keep the convo going)
    Do not talk about:
    -Your ex
    -Money
    -Politics
    -religion

    • @Spider2083
      @Spider2083 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Definitely not politics 🙄

    • @justkay233
      @justkay233 2 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      but what if you're both religious lol

    • @Spider2083
      @Spider2083 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @@justkay233 Don’t do it lol

    • @carlathompson9308
      @carlathompson9308 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Or how you haven't had sex in years . A guy actually did whine about that on our first date:/

    • @audendelft1115
      @audendelft1115 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I already putted in the notes 📝🤣

  • @glenndixon6761
    @glenndixon6761 3 ปีที่แล้ว +246

    You are never too old to date. Reading, exercise, faith, travel, learn something new. Never sit down and retire. Salute!

  • @pauljaikaran9790
    @pauljaikaran9790 3 ปีที่แล้ว +92

    A decent way to talk about " Ex" ...." Great girl but didn't workout "...now that's a Man with good standards. Another great video brother Jeff....Salute!!!

  • @thetherapeuticcoacht.7260
    @thetherapeuticcoacht.7260 3 ปีที่แล้ว +211

    This!!!
    I once was on a date and he talked about himself the whole time... he asked me one question but turned the conversation back to him. He wanted another date but I declined and respectfully told him why. I’m a good conversationalist but not showing interest in me is a major turn off. Another great video sir! Thank you!
    I may start sending my dates to your page! Lol

    • @lilithdemonia74
      @lilithdemonia74 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Ya heard!! I'm already sending guys I know to this page. Jeff is a natural.

    • @TheStyleOG
      @TheStyleOG  3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      appreciate the feedback! and the sharing

    • @johnlombardo7816
      @johnlombardo7816 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thanks for the input.. I mean hopefully most men don't do this.. haha but I can imagine sometimes we'd get on a roll about something and talk too long. I get that.. definitely something I will be self aware of on my first date!! ❤️

    • @thetherapeuticcoacht.7260
      @thetherapeuticcoacht.7260 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@johnlombardo7816 yes there is a difference in nervous chatter or just being comfortable sharing but to not show interest in the woman you’re spending time with by at least by asking a little about her- will narrow chances on getting a 2nd date. I believe in you John! You can make it a wonderful 1st date!😊

    • @johnlombardo7816
      @johnlombardo7816 ปีที่แล้ว

      @thetherapeuticcoacht.7260 thank you! I have been texting with her too on and off and it's going better than I could have imagined so far.. I know I'll do fine as well, just very nervous since it's my first date in 15 years ! Appreciate your guidance!

  • @rageraptor7127
    @rageraptor7127 2 ปีที่แล้ว +130

    Remember when you meet her you need to establish that connection
    1: give her a proper hug and greeting (establishes physical connection and makes it less awkward going forward)
    2: when eating or talking look her in the eyes and sit next to her. Not across from her. (Sets the tone of proximity between you two and makes it easier to make a move)
    3: gather info. Don’t spill it. Answer only what you need to and just let her talk. Then end the date slightly after or before the most climatic part. Don’t let it linger. Keep her wanting more of you. But also make sure the date is planned. Ahead of time and that hints were dropped before hand on what you were going to be doing on said date. I date with no direction isn’t a date. It’s a greeting. As a man your in charge of guiding the conversation because women typically have no game. But they sure as hell expect you to have it.

    • @johnlombardo7816
      @johnlombardo7816 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks!

    • @Mb_Drei
      @Mb_Drei ปีที่แล้ว

      Seems like we have a fellow Matthew Hussey fan here!

    • @johnlombardo7816
      @johnlombardo7816 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Mb_Drei who's that?

    • @nwokpororowland4216
      @nwokpororowland4216 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wow. You should start your youtube page too, very insightful

    • @rageraptor7127
      @rageraptor7127 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@nwokpororowland4216 I wish I could I’m outta time now a days I’m super busy now lol

  • @jaye3537
    @jaye3537 3 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    Style OG, I would just like to take this time to let you know that you are a great epitome of a "man" in a time when the line between what is manly and what is not is often blurred. Great job my brother, keep representing!

    • @TheStyleOG
      @TheStyleOG  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I appreciate that!

  • @smatlanta1
    @smatlanta1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    Awesome real-world help. I like how you went into detail about WHY each idea works (or doesn't work) rather than just superficially give some tired list. I heard so many people lately "teach" NOT to ask cliche questions like "where are you from", movies, hit the lottery, etc. So thank you for explaining WHY these topics are always great.

    • @TheStyleOG
      @TheStyleOG  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      You got it Steve!

    • @BighomieKSB
      @BighomieKSB 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TheStyleOG my guy thanks. I thought I had all the answers and game but you sharping my sword on this one

    • @ThomasKennedy-h9b
      @ThomasKennedy-h9b ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks….good stuff

  • @ac5875
    @ac5875 3 ปีที่แล้ว +138

    I'll probably never go on another first date ever again but gotta watch the video and give a thumbs up 👍👌👏

    • @TheStyleOG
      @TheStyleOG  3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      My man!

    • @OSoloJr
      @OSoloJr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      But you can

    • @devo3333
      @devo3333 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Beta comment delete this bro

    • @shaggyterrell8460
      @shaggyterrell8460 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      @@devo3333 You have no idea the hardships another man has gone through sir, you should try and boost your fellow men up, which is why your comment is the real beta comment.

    • @Halo-lg7rq
      @Halo-lg7rq 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@devo3333 nah like marriage, never on a first date cuz he is in a relationship

  • @mrsincere7
    @mrsincere7 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Also, I hate interviews and asking questions, just to get someone to reciprocate conversation. It seems too much like interrogating someone. Especially when you have someone who doesnt reciprocate in kind. I would want a person who is interested in me, to express interest on their own. Not because I prompted them to talk by asking them questions.
    Sometimes people get individuals that will answer questions being asked, but when it's their turn to initiate getting to know about the other person, they are mute/nonproactive. So the person who is the initiator, has to manage both sides of the conversation. Like volunteering to tell the mute/non proactive person about themselves, and answering the same questions that they just asked the mute/non proactive person.
    That is a common reality. In my case it happened with some women I was trying to get to know. Another variation of this problem is, dealing with certain women that are only good conversationalists when they are talking about themselves. A lot of comedians have joked about this when it comes to some women. And as long as the man is showing interest, the woman actually believes she is having a two way conversation. She actually thinks the guy is a great conversationalist, and easy to talk to. LOL

  • @oldirtjay
    @oldirtjay 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    So, I can’t tell her I speak fluent Klingon on the first date ?😂 seriously , I feel you on this one. My wife and I had a great first date and we just talked about what we did in our spare time.... salute✊🏽

    • @TheStyleOG
      @TheStyleOG  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for sharing!!

    • @heyjoejp
      @heyjoejp 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Klingon😂😂😂😂

  • @danielengel4593
    @danielengel4593 3 ปีที่แล้ว +78

    First Date in 2 hours, last time I literally wrecked my nerves till it hurts, and it was a disaster, watched so many videos, my brain was fucked up. This time I just watched this one videos of yours, lets hope I've learned something from the last date and your input. It all sounded very nice and I hope some of your input will pop into my mind while we sit there and learn to know each other :) Thank you!

    • @hellihello2333
      @hellihello2333 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      How did it go?

    • @walistambo7323
      @walistambo7323 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      bro prolly had a stroke and died

    • @MistahUnknown
      @MistahUnknown 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Daniel Engel
      How did it go?

    • @danielengel4593
      @danielengel4593 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@MistahUnknown It was a nice time, but there was not another date.

    • @jeffreycicero6685
      @jeffreycicero6685 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Why no second date, I wanna know, was it dead spots in the convo or did you choke on some words or what..I'm going on a first date in over 22 years, help me out here....please

  • @KakistocracySurvivor
    @KakistocracySurvivor 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Good points as always OG. Other points are to be truthful, don't build a character who you are not and don't commit to anything other than another date. Women remember all promises made , no matter how small. Be consistent.

  • @HARDBODYRONNIE
    @HARDBODYRONNIE 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I’m a well seasoned brotha and I have great success with women so this guy’s tips and advice aren’t really needed on my end but I’m SO GLAD that his page exist. Between Kevin Samuels, Fresh and Fit and bums whose whole purpose is to teach young men how to be fake alpha jerks to women. This brotha is trying to help decent guys find and successfully date decent women. It’s better for society that young men watch this page instead of the others.

  • @briangrant8644
    @briangrant8644 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Great video! My oldest brother told me when was a teenager. "Be a good listener! Women love a good listener" No other thing I don't bring up on a 1st date is Sex! If she does fine but don't You do it.

  • @Mr.MallyMall
    @Mr.MallyMall 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    This just might be my favorite video of yours. This video gets an A+ for sure. Great job on this one.

  • @ilovej0e
    @ilovej0e 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I really like these conversation topics! They seem like a good way to get t know someone without making the first date seem like an interrogation. Although, I don’t currently have the answers to all of the questions this video gives me some easy questions to think about in case someone asks. Thank you!

  • @alfacentauri3686
    @alfacentauri3686 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Practice dating so you get comfortable before you do some real dating. You can even practice on some male college. Just to get to know him deeper. These are actually great advices for growing any deeper relationships.

  • @Chris-hz3bt
    @Chris-hz3bt 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Good video Jeff!! My first dates especially living in Southern California is always a hike. You're not breaking the bank plus you can find out if she is in shape.

    • @TheStyleOG
      @TheStyleOG  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Good call!

    • @luckyjinxer
      @luckyjinxer 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      That might be a little uncomfortable if it's a first date... going in the woods with a stranger is like the start to a horror movie. But maybe a walk in the park?

    • @Chris-hz3bt
      @Chris-hz3bt 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@luckyjinxer here in Cali in the day time there are hundreds of people hiking especially on popular trails.

    • @luckyjinxer
      @luckyjinxer 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Chris-hz3bt that's a point, I'm east coast, lol.

    • @Chris-hz3bt
      @Chris-hz3bt 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@luckyjinxer hahaha yes the way you said woods i was thinking east coast! First thing i thought was Pennsylvania and The Poconos!!

  • @murkcash
    @murkcash 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Great video. Two killers to never talk about on first dates are money 💰 and sex. Those are just no no because it is a most likely a turn off for men asking about his money and a turn off for women asking her about sex.

  • @rianaandriamaharo4359
    @rianaandriamaharo4359 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I failed my last first date 5 months ago … I will date another girl in a few hours, hope this one will work out thanks to your video!

    • @MistahUnknown
      @MistahUnknown 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Riana Andriamaharo
      How did that recent first date go?

    • @rachealracheal7999
      @rachealracheal7999 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      thanks for your good content.. would u start up one realitic dating site coz the ones that we know are not real..

  • @paulv1973
    @paulv1973 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Ugh I failed big time on my first date with a girl a couple of weeks ago. It was my first date in 20 years so i was completely nervous, did most of the talking, and told her all about myself. She asked if i wanted to go hang out with her friends afterwards at least. I am surprised she agreed to a second date.

    • @Heidelmann
      @Heidelmann ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Did you overcome the accidental overshare? How's it going after the 2nd date?

    • @carlosT3000
      @carlosT3000 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      How was the second date?

    • @JosephFarrier-c8q
      @JosephFarrier-c8q 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Lol😅 chill bra

  • @pierregeorge9050
    @pierregeorge9050 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Hello Jeff, I see you rocking that pocket square. Nice. I needed this info 25 yrs ago. But for me the most important we’re things not to talk about. Ex’s religion and politics, money. My go to are music, sports and movies. Salute to the family.

    • @TheStyleOG
      @TheStyleOG  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I like it Pierre!

  • @abubakrsalim9622
    @abubakrsalim9622 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Great topic and content you really knocked this one out the park OG

    • @TheStyleOG
      @TheStyleOG  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Appreciate that!

  • @hump1953
    @hump1953 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I really liked this video! Thank you..!

  • @roberthenderson9363
    @roberthenderson9363 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    First date 101 right here. Good stuff Bro!

  • @StarlightSGs
    @StarlightSGs 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I appreciate you and your work OG. You probably don't get it often but I would like to give you your flowers 💐 while you can still smell them.

    • @TheStyleOG
      @TheStyleOG  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I appreciate that!

  • @awthentik3310
    @awthentik3310 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I love the collars on your shirts. They’re so crispy and symmetrical. What brand are your shirts?

    • @TheStyleOG
      @TheStyleOG  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      made to measure Apposta

  • @spencerhulcy727
    @spencerhulcy727 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Anyone else watching this a couple hour before the first date they've had in years? 😅

    • @danielolutayo
      @danielolutayo หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hours before first date ever😅😅

    • @smudgethecat3965
      @smudgethecat3965 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Just over 24 hours 😂

  • @mujtabamurtazazada9587
    @mujtabamurtazazada9587 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Obviously before we ask someone out, we know them a little. It’s better to talk about things she is interested, find mutual passions and get the conversation going this way we could enjoy our time together, have fun and have a good time 🤷🏻.

    • @liquidsleepgames3661
      @liquidsleepgames3661 ปีที่แล้ว

      Not always. I did a spur of a moment do you wanna go out this evening (she did a I guess I'm gonna go home and be alone again. Comment) she said yes. We are going out again this Friday.

  • @AceeSoul
    @AceeSoul 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Good stuff bro. And thank you for turning me on to the Chelsea boots, just ordered a pair

  • @butlermj76
    @butlermj76 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Great video as always. I just put my son on to this channel. I'm 45 and still learn things from your vids. Keep it up bro!

  • @mde8682
    @mde8682 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    First dates I just make fun of myself and go back and forth with questions and the jokes alone will tell you If the person is comfortable with you and just go from there.

    • @TheStyleOG
      @TheStyleOG  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      appreciate the input Marquis!

    • @felipea1844
      @felipea1844 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I think self-deprecating humor is a valuable technique. It doesn't come natural to me. Hopefully I will emprove with age. 🙂✝️🇺🇸

    • @nikkis21
      @nikkis21 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Bingo!!! You got it.

    • @rhepungus3657
      @rhepungus3657 ปีที่แล้ว

      I like to watch stand up comedy before you get myself in a playful mood. That carries into the conversation. Plus I go in with the thought that I really don't care the outcome. I'm going to have fun. If they want to tag along, Great. If not, they probably never will, so it's best to not see them again anyway...

  • @donpucky2815
    @donpucky2815 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Interesting first date topics indeed. Hobbies could be one too. Thanks O.G.!

  • @kenoe21
    @kenoe21 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great topic and ideas. Keep up with the greats videos.

  • @m_jay5
    @m_jay5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I'm going the old school approach so I don't waste my time, I want to know if I'm making it to a 2nd date immediately. Difficult topics like children, politics, religion, money, etc. come to mind just saying. I'm in my 30s now and casual dating is not an option for me!

  • @rickybushy
    @rickybushy 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Listened to this on way to a date and it went amazing she digs me and I her. Liked and subscribed 🙌

  • @tineshiabobbitt62
    @tineshiabobbitt62 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great video Jeff I love a guy that can make me laugh as well as have a great conversation. I agree coffee dates are great!

  • @_thomas1031
    @_thomas1031 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Enjoying these practical advice vids, Mate👏👏👏

    • @TheStyleOG
      @TheStyleOG  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Glad you like them!

  • @RivalHades-mk1xl
    @RivalHades-mk1xl ปีที่แล้ว

    going on my first date on sunday. Excited!

  • @earlvsmichael
    @earlvsmichael ปีที่แล้ว

    Timing on this for me is impeccable as I’m heading on a first in less than an hour. Thank you for sharing 🙏🏿

  • @dr.garynelson4687
    @dr.garynelson4687 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great info as always, OG. SALUTE!

  • @thegroove2000
    @thegroove2000 3 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    You got a keeper if she watches the style OG. SALUTE.

    • @louiscyfer6944
      @louiscyfer6944 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      not at all. she'll know all your tricks and tactics. if she watches style og, you have to cut her loose

    • @Snowboarding2020
      @Snowboarding2020 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Nah, that's a double agent.

    • @nikkis21
      @nikkis21 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@louiscyfer6944 🤣🤣 I watch occasionally. No tricks. Im aware understand my values and desires.

    • @louiscyfer6944
      @louiscyfer6944 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@nikkis21 i am talking about the guys' tricks.

  • @meme-zv7kw
    @meme-zv7kw 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for posting this video appreciate you bro

  • @rvtvtherippermanvaleriushow
    @rvtvtherippermanvaleriushow 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I learned new things today. Thanks Style O.G. Salute!

    • @TheStyleOG
      @TheStyleOG  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Glad to hear it!

  • @Texas_Made91
    @Texas_Made91 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    OG you are far better than Kevein Samuel and Verb. It’s obvious those men are hurting inside, but I appreciate your authenticity.

  • @cliftonsledge962
    @cliftonsledge962 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Nice blazer it’s looks good on you O.G. Great advice and salute 👍🏾

    • @TheStyleOG
      @TheStyleOG  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Appreciate that!

  • @tomcaldwell5750
    @tomcaldwell5750 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks, Jeff. Very helpful. I will take action.

  • @richardsiefert9220
    @richardsiefert9220 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Excellent topic & video, O.G., I do have one question, your shirt collars always look perfect. How do I get that perfect collar look?
    Respectfully,
    Richard

  • @bjbrown54321
    @bjbrown54321 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    O.G this is a really good video with great advice. Much appreciated my man.. Keep em coming!!

    • @TheStyleOG
      @TheStyleOG  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks! Will do!

  • @stevenwells5069
    @stevenwells5069 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    That nostalgic look in your eyes, talking about your ex! 😂😂😂😂😂 Jeff you have the BEST content/advice!

    • @TheStyleOG
      @TheStyleOG  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks so much!!

    • @nikkis21
      @nikkis21 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Don’t do it. Lol

  • @yoniboboshov500
    @yoniboboshov500 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I went on a date with a girl and after when I asked her out for a second date (we both mentioned how we had a great time in the first date) she told me that “I didn’t sweep her off her feet” and subsequently called it off. I was just trying to get to know her

  • @stevenschembri1288
    @stevenschembri1288 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Brilliant video! Excellent tips.

    • @TheStyleOG
      @TheStyleOG  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Glad you enjoyed it!

  • @bryanedwardpope3979
    @bryanedwardpope3979 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great ideas! Thanks.

    • @TheStyleOG
      @TheStyleOG  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      You are so welcome!

  • @A.R.DaVision
    @A.R.DaVision 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm glad I found you man. I gotta date tn kinda nervous lol but you kinda helped alot wit what I should or shouldn't do man. I hope it goes great. I hope i can memorize the topics you made and make them flow naturally

  • @delesha3983
    @delesha3983 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great topic, O.G.!!!! And fellas, stop trying to lock a woman down on the first date!! :-) I don't care if you think she's the one.... it's a process, baby!!!

  • @jeancarbone209
    @jeancarbone209 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Good, simple, straightforward advice.

  • @laurajones1211
    @laurajones1211 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Enjoyed and learned some things! Liked the man planning the date and taking the lead. Also, like the questions which open up conversation to learn about each other! Set a positive stage to move forward🙂
    Thanks so much!!!

    • @TheStyleOG
      @TheStyleOG  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Glad you enjoyed it!

  • @nikkis21
    @nikkis21 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    All that’s great but make me laugh and make me smile... real real simple.

    • @TheStyleOG
      @TheStyleOG  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      appreciate the input Nikki!

  • @jamescompton5977
    @jamescompton5977 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You put me up on game with tailoring denim jeans. Thank you my brother!!

    • @TheStyleOG
      @TheStyleOG  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Any time!

    • @jamescompton5977
      @jamescompton5977 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm new to your channel. I must say I enjoy your wardrobe selections as well as the shoes once again thank you for putting the tip out there about tailoring denim jeans

    • @jamescompton5977
      @jamescompton5977 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I lost so much that I thought I had to throw out my 40 30 Jean's. Then u came along lol

  • @essentialistlifestyle2048
    @essentialistlifestyle2048 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Jeff as always you are a pure genius 🙌🏻 I really love the trailer I was in downtown Philadelphia In J.Crew talking about you Purchased a lot of stuff there because of you also. I am a subscriber for life

    • @TheStyleOG
      @TheStyleOG  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      That is awesome!

  • @willoman50
    @willoman50 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Absolutely bring up marriage on a first date. It's important to not waist each others time. Excellent topic video.

    • @butlermj76
      @butlermj76 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Um... Idk bruh. I'm not an expert but that might depend on the woman. Yall are both still single on the first date and she might have options at the moment. Implying that you are trying to lock her down before knowing her could actually scare her off. I'm with OG on this one. Just get to know her on the first date. Having a good time is never a waste of time.

    • @wayneisname4544
      @wayneisname4544 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@butlermj76 I think he was being sarcastic but I can't tell 😂

  • @ernestcarter7073
    @ernestcarter7073 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great video Jeff! Great advice on the things not to talk about on the first day! Those are Buzz killer. Keep it up good work bro!

  • @donalddavenport7136
    @donalddavenport7136 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    what's up Jeff how are you doing.just wanted to let you know that you are a beast in this game and you speak the truth.keep up the great advise and as always SALUTE

    • @TheStyleOG
      @TheStyleOG  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Salute Donald!

  • @isabellegiorgis2975
    @isabellegiorgis2975 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Excellent advices!!!! You are amazing!!!!

  • @life-is-here
    @life-is-here ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This video is great for anyone who's nervous about first dates - it provides helpful tips on what to talk about to make the date enjoyable and productive.

  • @jayfrankcastle9203
    @jayfrankcastle9203 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Much to catch up, but always great content O.G....SALUTE!

  • @caenterprisellc6922
    @caenterprisellc6922 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    The point I made a million times!!!! This is why it's important to meet in-person.

  • @TreyD_zzy
    @TreyD_zzy 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey big fan, I listen to you all the time. And use a lot of the things you talk about. I noticed that you said no concerts or amusement parks, it’s funny because I was just having this conversation with a few women about 2 days ago. And they were telling me that, I’m not sure if this falls into the same category as concerts and amusement parks but they were saying that they’d like or think a good first date would be bowling or something fun along those lines. They said that they would rather do something fun and they would like the competitiveness of the date. Like I said, I love what you do, it’s helped me a lot and I appreciate you brother!

  • @macs.gone.fishin
    @macs.gone.fishin 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for the tips! This was exactly the video I was looking for!

  • @stevengerrard6711
    @stevengerrard6711 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Awesome tips brother
    Continue the great work 👍

  • @elizabethrandles6999
    @elizabethrandles6999 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Hi Jeff, great content! I am back on the dating scene. It been a long time since I have been on a date, so this was valuable information for me. I am going to add what is your favorite sports and what is your favorite football team, because I grew up on football. 🤣 Also, since I am a veteran, I am going to add what was your best assignment and what was your worst assignment if the gentlemen is a veteran, also. Again, I love your channel, I am learning so much as a seasoned women. I am try to get my young sons to follow you because they need to hear this stuff from a older man. Keep up the excellent work!!!!

    • @shivanshshrimal9535
      @shivanshshrimal9535 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      How did your date went?

    • @elizabethrandles6999
      @elizabethrandles6999 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@shivanshshrimal9535 I haven’t started dating, yet. I am going to a single retreat this weekend, just to get my self confidence back🤣🤣🤣👋

    • @shivanshshrimal9535
      @shivanshshrimal9535 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@elizabethrandles6999 Haha...I can totally relate. Until you're confident enough you can't go and meet someone. Hope your self retreat gives positive outcomes ✌

  • @Victorfeshley
    @Victorfeshley 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Salute O.G!

  • @vm53506
    @vm53506 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your videos are the stuff of legend.... Cheers!!!

  • @Manlikebenj
    @Manlikebenj 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    OG out here singlehandedly saving 2021

    • @TheStyleOG
      @TheStyleOG  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Kind words indeed

  • @dearickslife1257
    @dearickslife1257 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Dope this really help

  • @newhire4915
    @newhire4915 ปีที่แล้ว

    OG one thing i would add that seems so simple that it may even be a little silly, but ask her what her favorite color is ! Ill never forget me and my brother were joking around one day and i told him the next beautiful girl i see ima approach her and ask her "whats her favorite color" shortly after, i was talking with a girl i was pursuing and asked her to hang out, ill never forget she looked me in my eyes and said, you don't even know what my favorite color is and it clicked .. something so simple can be meaningful!

  • @billybungwhole7871
    @billybungwhole7871 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I talk about my gastrointestinal issues as we peruse the menu at dinner.

  • @crisco6583
    @crisco6583 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I hit the "like" button and then watch Jeff's videos. Haven't been wrong yet.

  • @BQ900
    @BQ900 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Just wanted to see what the men were told. Excellent video to be advising my sons as a widow, I have to advise them. ❤ Good job!

    • @TheStyleOG
      @TheStyleOG  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Glad you enjoyed it!

  • @Keiphton27
    @Keiphton27 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks Style OG….I owe you one. First date in 20 years man and the nerves are working a bit. This helped calm me down….good looking out!

    • @TheStyleOG
      @TheStyleOG  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nice!

    • @Keiphton27
      @Keiphton27 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TheStyleOG Crushed it thanks to the help of great informers like yourself sir.....I'll be spreading the good word that this is advice central. Thanks again and have a Happy Holidays....Cheers!

  • @morrismontgomery2386
    @morrismontgomery2386 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great job OG, wish I knew this way back when. My Son will definitely be getting this video. SALUTE!!!

  • @gir489returns2
    @gir489returns2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You look like my 5th grade PE teacher who I always used to ask for advice and so I clicked the video. Was not disappointed. Thanks Mr. Jackson’s doppelgänger. 😊

  • @aj4377
    @aj4377 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Great video. Often times in the Red Pill spaces they emphasize so much on money, looks, and status. However, they forget that a good personality and good conversation is needed to compliment that stuff

  • @WarHero373
    @WarHero373 ปีที่แล้ว

    Awesome video boss! Salute

  • @eastcoastnews9529
    @eastcoastnews9529 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ty for your service MR old G . But mannnn u not old ✊🏻much love and respect 🙏🏻

    • @TheStyleOG
      @TheStyleOG  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I appreciate that!

    • @butlermj76
      @butlermj76 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Pretty sure the O in O.G. stands for Original, not Old

  • @TrojanMars1
    @TrojanMars1 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    What a GREAT video, my G! Major Salute!

    • @TheStyleOG
      @TheStyleOG  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Appreciate that!

  • @janzvolsky6178
    @janzvolsky6178 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    So far the best advice I've heard.

  • @darvellwilson386
    @darvellwilson386 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ive learned to listen to her answers to your questions. She will say things in her answers that will help you ask further questions. That will keep her talking more then you.

  • @russellhowardjr.9894
    @russellhowardjr.9894 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great ideas. I like to ask about what their passions are. I find that women who are passionate about something…anything is a turn on for me.

  • @clesser87
    @clesser87 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great video Jeff you are the MAN Salute!!!

    • @TheStyleOG
      @TheStyleOG  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I appreciate that Chris!

  • @shawnwilliams2381
    @shawnwilliams2381 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Something my pop never taught me. SALUTE!!!😎

  • @kareemroberts3698
    @kareemroberts3698 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Nice input OG. I can try this one .... one problem with this and if you can help.... how can you break out of the shell when you are so use to being quiet all your life...... this is one of the main problem of mines...... not able to start a conversation ? Please help

    • @TheStyleOG
      @TheStyleOG  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      being armed with some conversation starters that are related to topics that you are well versed in allows you to have a comfort level..

  • @blaed011
    @blaed011 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love that jacket! How did you fold that pocket square? Make a video on that...

  • @CultureCrossed64
    @CultureCrossed64 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good tips!

    • @TheStyleOG
      @TheStyleOG  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Glad you think so!

  • @mackclemons9145
    @mackclemons9145 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Always good OG! Always

  • @jmorgan0829
    @jmorgan0829 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great Advice bro !❤

  • @glenngray6859
    @glenngray6859 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    What’s up my bro Og. Dr. Og in the house, great tips for the single guy. Salute my friend

    • @TheStyleOG
      @TheStyleOG  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Salute my friend!

  • @TonyTony-tk4qf
    @TonyTony-tk4qf 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Excellent advice, salute

  • @timoates501
    @timoates501 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Big salute OG!

  • @donalddavenport7136
    @donalddavenport7136 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Whats up jeff Donald from Cincinnati.jusr got me a notebook you gonna have me with someone soon.thanks for the great advice and as always Salute