Pastor and Killer | Kari Baker Case Analysis
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- This video answers the question: Can I analyze the case of Kari Baker?
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My analysis: Vanessa the girlfriend decided to come clean when she found out that she wasn't his only girlfriend. Some people are vain enough to believe that the messing around will stop with them. smh.🙄
Nope. A former cop scared the shit out of her. She would have said her momma did it to save her skin. I live in Waco and watching this in real time was unreal.
@@spikesgirl9371 Nope,
The hamburger had her family hostage, she would do anything to stop them being turned into patties
“If they’ll cheat with you, they’ll cheat on you.” - my late Granny
She thought the murders would stop with the wife too. If he’ll kill one, he’ll kill the next one
I don’t think Vanessa was that sociopathic. She was a sketchy person for sure. I was acquainted with her in college. I think her conscience eventually got to her.
Dr. Grande speaks so clearly that the auto captions actually capture the correct words most of the time.
Yeah lol
Nice
Nice for us deaf/hard-of-hearing people, especially since TH-cam got rid of Community Captions in September 2020 because "not enough people were using them"
@@SquadJuiced P long bill 75
He's cool. Very Professional and Objective. He earned my Respect. Thanks, Dr.Grande.😇
An autopsy should be automatic in a case like this. I don't know how many cases where someone dies and it is later found to be homicide.
This was like good ole country boys law enforcement. They really just wanted to believe the little lady couldn't take life anymore because she wanted to be with Kassidy, so she did what she had said she'd do.
They took Matt Bakers word over any of Karis family members who believed he killed her.
An autopsy is automatic in a case like this.
A homicide does not have to be an unlawful killing. Murder is.
@@ruthx3346 For the lay person, the terms murder and homicide are interchangeable. I think most people understand. Just as innocent and not guilty are used interchangeably, so are these two terms. I understand it is may not be technically correct, but unless you have a law degree or work within the court system, these are nuances that really do not mean much.
But thank you so much for showing me the light! I will make sure I use proper legalese from now on and mind my legal terminology!
I agree. I think all deaths that appear as suicide should be investigated like any other death and an autopsy should be performed.
This kind of makes me question the death of the daughter.
Exactly what I thought.
Also my thought
Exactly
That’s what I thought? How come they let her home? Cancer patients especially young ones have to do really well to be released from hospital? Even then regular up to 3 times a week check ups? Makes no sense at all.
This man is so sketchy, how come Vanessa didn’t do something??
She could have stopped this. All deaths outside hospital have an autopsy! My dad had heart disease died at 78 but still had autopsy & my mother was interviewed she was cleared of course, but can’t believe how many die in USA without having autopsy??
Totally! Me too!!
Be interesting to see the numbers for how many "Men of God" have gone to prison for "Thou Shall Not Murder".
I belonged to the Freedom From Religion organization and usually every few months they sent out a small news paper with various info in it. One section that was two pages on each side, in very small type, listed religious leaders, pastors, priests, rabbis, imams, bible study teachers, youth leaders etc. etc. who were arrested or prosecuted for abuse - mental and/or sexual, murder, battery, thievery, embezzlement, rape, and other various law breaking. There were hundreds and the names were different with every issue!! It's quite shocking how many people who claim to be religious are terrible people!
@@garmtpug I try not to be prejudiced against "religious" people because I have known a few who follow the best ideals of Jesus. I also have had Islamic friends and Mormons. Lots os Jews, but non practicing.
I remain suspicious at first when and if it's brought up right away. Quite a few people never mention it. Like most non Christians, I know a lot more about the Bible than most Catholics. Most of my friends have been Ex-Catholics and they want nothing to do with it anymore.
@@robertgiles9124 I am very suspicious of anyone who believes in the supernatural and makes important decisions based on those childish beliefs. Too many "good" religious people sit by and never say anything about the questionable ones. All religions are cults and cults are never a good thing for the individual.
@@angelcitystudio That is very true. When brainwashed from little on, they are easy pickings for unscrupulous individuals and can be easily manipulated.
It’s possible that certain men go into the ministry thinking it’s a great cover for
Manipulating women, embezzling money, or committing other crimes. It’s also possible that a man starts out with the best of intentions but finds it easy to pursue his darker desires. Either way, they’re a stain on the church and need to be called out, not condoned. “Dawson Speaks” is a great YT channel that often covers the unholy men and women in the church.
The girlfriend is as morally bankrupt as he. Not because of engaging in an affair, per se, but because she did nothing knowing he was going to kill his wife.
That gets to me so much. She could have stopped him by telling Kari herself or anyone! But nope, she didn't care about that. Smfh.
Yeah, its so disgusting that they get away with it. I'm pretty sure Chris Watts mistress also is guilty.
I bet she goes to church too.
Right and why the hell wasn't sge charged too jeez she couldn't haven't prevented this!!
Looks like Matt hit on EVERY pretty girl untill he found one broken enough to be manipulated by him. A numbers game with thousands of failures looking for that one with no boundaries- oh and high agreeableness and zero conscientious
TYPEWRITTEN “suicide” or confession note, etc. is ALWAYS SKETCHY- ALWAYS.
Is this true?
@@eadweard. I believe that this is usually suspicious to the police, because it isn't possible to compare the handwriting.
Meaning somebody else could have "written" it. 🤔
They should make it illegal to type suicide notes on a keyboard. 🤔😐😮😆
ALWAYS!! Typing it doesn't help it hurts!
@@skepticusmaximus184 Typewriters should at least come with a suicide note advisory sticker.
Vanessa Bulls was my middle school English teacher! She was really distraught over this. A little before this information came out, every time I would walk by her classroom during lunch, she'd be crying. Her relationship with her fiancé came to an end during the court case, and she lost her teaching job. This story caught everyone off guard, and the students that were close to her, were tore up over it. She was a nonjudgmental and patient teacher from what I remember. I can't comment much about this case, I acknowledge she obviously should've done many things differently. I do feel like if she went to the cops, it would've saved Kari. I think Bulls must've felt this way too. I will say though, before all of this came to light, she was everyone's favorite teacher.
It was very cool to hear you analyze this case!
I'm not excusing her behavior btw, I just wanted to share what I remember because I never thought my favorite TH-camr would make a video about someone I knew!
Whenever I listen to a story like this, I just don’t understand how a man or women with a real belief system can conclude that murder is a better option than divorce
I suppose it wasn't truly a belief system, for Matt, just a cover for his selfish ways.
No matter what belief system some people have, they can rationalize anything away. This guy seemed to do it all the time!
@@angelcitystudio Unfortunately lots of religious men feel that way. In some places more than others.
With or without a "belief system" I can't wrap my head around killing someone because you no longer want to be with them. Just get a divorce ffs. Causing someone's death is only justified if it's in self defense.
yes.. look that the Morphew guy in CO saying why would God do this ..acting likes he's good and then about her affair with her HS classmate saying it makes sense now but that God wouldn't punish her like that for an affair. what a freak!
Kari's murderous husband most likely snuffed the life out of their poor little baby. It seems that people he viewed unfavorably had to go. I am not fond of Vanessa either. She could have saved Kari's life. Was she that desperate for a man that even a wife killer would qualify as good boyfriend material? Yikes.
Right? Who wants a partner like that?
good point!
Sadly, a lot of women are that desperate. I see it everyday in narcissistic abuse support groups.
for real like girl, he’s not even cute 😂plus is this all necessary like get a divorce if it’s such a gd big deal 🤦♀️ religious extremists are some of the most delusional, immature people i stg
If he can kill his wife, he can kill you too.
As soon as I heard Waco I knew this wasn’t going to end well.
The Texan in me is extremely offended by your statement. It's also the Texan in me that knows you're right! 😃 😀 😄 😁 🤣 😂 😃
Waco cannot hold a candle to FLORIDA. I have lived in Los Angeles, CA., Dallas/Fort Worth, TX and Orlando & Ft. Lauderdale FL. and Florida is definitely the most crazy - worst of the three BY FAR. 🙄. More drug addicts, homeless and crazy drivers than anywhere - and remember, that includes Los Angeles as a comparison. 🤗
That's why Central Texans call it "Wacko".
@@kimjohnson8471 it is a stupid statement.
That sounds ridiculous, even if I, as a Norwegian, can’t help but have negative associations when I hear «Waco», due to the horrible tragedy that took so many lives years ago - that doesn’t mean I think things have to end negatively there now. That would be very prejudiced, to put it nicely…
Good God, him heaping praise on himself in the note was the giveaway for me.
🤣😂
They do that a lot! I personally find it so crazy when they do the fake text message thing and the victim all the sudden has such nice things to say about their killer. It’s a dead giveaway but it’s like they can’t help themselves. Fascinating
@@Su_aSponte They're especially funny when the killer texts back and forth and both phones are at the same place! "Honey come home, I need you, I love you, don't do it"!
"No! I know you tried to help me in my dark hours, but I'm doing it this time"!
There's a phone in each hand... Bzzzz... Bzzzz. 😂
@@opieutt9038 bzzz bzzz😆😆😆😆📞
@@mariedupont7158 Ikr, I'm weird I pictured it with sound! 😂😂
What kind of monster tells a grieving mother that's she responsible for her child's death? That's beyond horrible. Hopefully prison is not kind to him.
And a "man of GOD," to boot!!!!🤔
The kind of monster who will also go on to murder the grieving mother.
The kind of monster who kills his daughter.
The killing kind
Just another example of his manipulative and cruel behavior.
Geez, the husband seems like one of those people who lives in their own head and truly believes they can do anything and not get caught because they'll be able to talk their way out of it.
He did believe this until he was finally caught. And he was only caught because Karis family investigated and brought together evidence. And finally someone in power listened to them.
So had they(Karis family) just believed Kari killed herself, Matt would be free to this day, probably living happily with Vanessa and their kids.
In the book it spoke about many instances where he sexually abused girls and women, he always got away with it or a slap on the wrist.
He blamed the kids he worked with for the porn found on his laptop and the powdered drugs Kari came across.
He always got away with everything. And Kari was his number one defender.
2 instances. There were charges to sex hotlines on their phone bill. Matt said his info must have been stolen. Kari stormed into the bank and demanded those charges be reversed as they were fraudulent. The bank did as ordered.
Matt kissed a 14(?) year old girl. Unwanted kiss. When Kari heard that this girl had told what he did, Kari marched over to the girls home and gave the mom a talking down to about her daughter lying about Matt.
The mistress’s testimony blaming Matt was too late for me. Why didn’t she go to the police, she’s guilty. I do struggle with her actions and non-actions. Thank you Dr. Grande for answering my request. When you reach a million subs we want a live vlog. 😂😂
Seriously! That’s what I wondered! Why say it after the fact!
I couldn't stand his Mistress. She was absolutely self centred.
I remember this case it's so sad...her psycho creepy husband almost got away with it.
Imagine going out with a man who tells you he’s going to murder his wife… 😨😬🤢 She should be serving time in jail, she was complicit
she might have even helped them
TRUE !!
Poor Carrie. What an awful man. The mental gymnastics he did to justify his infidelity and crime. Sometimes the most vocal preachy types are the most horrible behind closed doors. Thanks for this video Dr. Grande - and nifty shirt!!!
I saw another case of a pastor who was sexually abusing his teenage eldest daughter and he killed his wife as she had found out and was about to leave him and go to the authorities. He forced the daughter to help him bury his wife's body in the cellar. Later he went on to sexually abuse all the daughters and it went on for years until one of them couldn't take it anymore and reported him....the daughters all knew he had killed their mother.
@@juanitarichards1074 OMG What case is that? Do you remember their name or anything?
@@KenyanBunnie I can't but will find it. I have a taxi waiting so must go
Not sure f this is the right one. I saw a long documentary on the case, He was abusing all his daughters but he made the eldest help him dispose of his wifes body. There was much more to the story than in this brief clip
I posted some news articles on the case but they seem to have been removed/.
He’s guilty and is where he belongs. But Vanessa should’ve gone to the police as soon as Matt told her he was planning to kill his wife.
Makes you wonder if he didn't take care of his daughter with a pillow as well, knowing he could use her death to make Kari guilty for her prayer.
He did for sure. Even Kari herself wondered if she had been the one to go see the baby, would she still be alive.
When the baby's doctor was made aware that she died, she was in shock. Kassidy was making a strong recovery, there was no thought that she was so weak that she'd pass at home. They released her from hospital because she was getting better.
Also. When Matt learned of the exhumation being done on Kari, he spoke to his mistress Vanessa and was worried about them exhuming Kassidy as well.
Both Kari and Kassidy had similar bruising around their mouth and nose area, that most likely came from pushing something on their faces.
Too many little things adding up. That Devil 100% killed Kassidy as well.
@@KenyanBunnie I think you're probably right. The only thing I question is the state of Kassidy's health given that her mother prayed she would die so that her suffering would end. Also, if all the evidence was as convincing as you say, it woud probably be enough to bring him to trial, but this hasn't happened. Either way, you brought up a lot of interesting info. Suprised Dr. Grande didn't raise this issue.
@@drbqqq1433 I wondered about that too. Seems like it would not have taken much effort to smother someone that sick.
@@drbqqq1433 Since the hospital thought the child was improving and could go home, it's quite possible that Matt was slowly poisoning her and then finished the job! He was probably capable of anything when it came to getting people out of his way to a free life!
I have the exact same thought!
Being a Baptist pastor allowed him to brush just about anything aside claiming his god would forgive it or he had some real knowledge about what his god thought. A common tactic with religious leaders who abuse others and/or break the law.
The people around Kari took his side when talking to her because of his religious power position. Also, no autopsy or good investigation of her death was another example of people in the area immediately believing what he said and giving him the benefit of the doubt.
Too often we see this type of thing with religious leaders. They are believed before their victims - no matter whether the victims are children or adults! It's lucky her immediate family decided to hire competent investigators to bring some sort of justice to this terrible case.
And yes, the mistress should bear some of the guilt! No sane person does nothing when another tells them they plan to murder someone and then does it! Where were her morals? In the garbage along with Matt's!
Baptist’s are “saved” and “forgiven.” 🙄
They are legion...Include Catholic priests Bishops and of course the Pope.
authorities read that suicide note and thought "good enough" and that was that. after all, a man of God would not murder his wife
Welcome to the Bible Belt.
no hate but i feel like so many religious people snap like they either get deep into weird like illegal porn or murder their wife or some wild crazy stuff. that abstinence from pleasure lifestyle doesn’t seem to work too well for them 😂😂
What the therapist could have said: 'Take the babies and the clothes on your back'. That is from an old and old Roseanne Cash song Rosie Strike Back.
Can we all agree that getting married after knowing each other for just 3 months is a HUGE red flag?
No.
Agreed
Let me introduce to the military community.
Religious folks...
Religious people are a huge embarrassment.
Excellent analysis as always. I find it strange that they didnt do an autopsy. Here a pharmacist woke up to find his 49yr wife not breathing. An autopsy was mandory, she had a brain enuysum. Thank you Dr Grande.
Deep in the Bible Belt. They don’t want to know if a religious leader commits murder.
@@b.f.2461 Sweep it under the rug. If we don’t someone may check to see what other heinous sh.t we did……..For some people religion is a smoke screen to make you appear good when you are not.
The first suspicious thing was that came to me was the fact that she “killed herself” while being naked. Especially in her room. Which is very odd. Who kills themselves naked unless it’s in the tube? That’s really odd for me. I don’t know what truly caused her death but I don’t think she took her life, and that someone killed him.
Exactly. Whereas, when a woman has been murdered by a man, they are often found naked or partially naked.
Really enjoy your sense of humor Dr., “He should be happy because his prayer has been answer about the truth be know” 😂😂😂
I remember where I saw this one now … glad Grande is giving it a goooo! What a horrible story, so much sadness in life.
@help your cat to drive, oh, wait a minute, this is not Mike from That Chapter, 😀 or did I missed anything? 🙂
I see 'That Chapter' Mike's fans are here..😂
I always watch Mike turdy tree times a day.
Also a fan of Irish Mike.
😃
Dr. Grande, despite the fact that many of his stories involve murder, has been my consistent lullaby provider lately. It's the voice.
It’s the voice and I think dependability
@@Mama_Bear524 and stability.
He has the most calming voice!
Me too! I have to watch the episode again the next day because I fall asleep to his voice.
And the humor for me lol, I get so upset about some cases, his jokes keep it light...💕
I’d recommend staying far away from any pastor whose last name is Baker. After Jim and now Kari - ministers with that Surname seem to be sketchy at best.
I love the shirt, Dr Grande! Very nice!!
I cannot believe Jim Bakker is _still_ on TV. Well, I guess I _can_ believe it. He suckered a lot of people back in the day, yet clearly there's still plenty of people who are lining up, willing to get suckered. The man is a vile human being who should have never been given a TV platform again. And I say this as a Christian! (And Lord, don't _even_ get me started on Kenneth Copeland and Joel Osteen! 😡)
😆🤣Lol!
🤣😂 Lol!
@Liam Quinn exactly
@@LisaBowers PREACH 🙌🏼 No pun intended 😏
Lesson learned doctor.
Do not ignore red flags 🚩.
Thank you Dr. Grande for all precious words and Happy Friday 💙.
The comparison between Baker and Job from the Old Testament is ludicrous, it’s truly amazing how he was able to manipulate so many people. What a sad case..
Wonderful review Dr. Grande, thank you!❤️
Yes!
Easy to manipulate the willing
Dr. Grande has most soothing voice.
"God uses the good ones and the bad ones use God." -- (I believe this was John Wayne in The Shootist)
Love that! 😊Thanks
Ah, but leave it to good old Hollywood to never really get it quite right, lol. The God of the bible uses any man He pleases, "good" or "bad," to accomplish HIS will. Not that any of us is all that good anyway, see Romans 3:10-12 KJV. God "hardened" Pharaohs heart repeatedly (Exodus 14:4 etc. KJV) to his own destruction, even taking his firstborn son, ""I will be honoured upon Pharaoh, and upon all his host that the Egyptians may know that I am the Lord." God favored David, who was a murderer and an adulterer and was truly sorry, yet that child was taken also. He "stirred up the spirit of Cyrus," the king of Persia, around 600 BC (Ezra 1 and 2 Chronicles 36:22-23 KJV) to help rebuild the temple in Jerusalem.
@@cynthiamurphy3669 so are you saying God's will in this case was that he use the husband to kill the wife? Think about it for a second. HIS will apparently was done based on the examples you offered up! Oh glory to GOD in the highest.
Time to maybe rethink if HIS will is something praiseworthy. It would appear in this and many cases, that it is not.
@@InTheSkyGirl I can't imagine why in the world you got that kind of interpretation out of what I said at all - but noting your sarcasm, I can tell you are unfamiliar with the God of the bible and probably could care less, unfortunately. The guy above me quoted a line from a Hollywood movie script (lol) that frankly is just absolutely wrong according to the bible in that nobody can truly "use" God. All I did was give actual bible references for anyone to read for himself/herself to show that you don't use God, He uses an individual as He will, period. Every time I'm able, I use the opportunity to post actual bible references, hoping at least one person in the thread might actually check it out personally. Almost no one reads the bible for himself or herself these days including so-called "Christians." I do realize that most whose god is psychology could probably care less. (I should say also that I enjoy watching westerns and have nothing against John Wayne).
@@cynthiamurphy3669 Pardon? You are the one who brought up God using His power in order to impose His will. So was His will done in this instance or what? Did He work His will through the husband in the murder if the wife as He imposed His will on Pharoh, hardening his heart and whatnot? You gave the example. I don't think you realize what you have defended here. In short, you have offered an all powerful god who imposes His will, to the detriment of whomever. Innocents be damned. Ultimately, His will is done. And believers are a-ok with this apparently.
I am quite familiar with the god of the Bible. I've read the book and am not at all impressed. Indeed, I could NOT care any less for the bible god character nor the myth that was created around him. It is amazing the excuses people still offer up for their gods here in the 21st century.
The gods are creations of man. Not the other way around.
Superbly done Todd -You taking extra articulate patient time to make us realize that taking note of warning signs is important. Thank you for your care to give us these tips
Is that really how you talk dude?
@@lavesh9782 and what would it matter if they did ?
@@karobythell4425 it wouldn't matter, nothing matters
I wish women would pay more attention to red flags when dating to prevent marriages of disaster. We need be confident in ourselves when others might not believe us. Interesting analysis. Matt was a full out perpetrator and Vanessa should have been held accountable. Reminds me of the Paul Bernardo/Karla Homolka case. Thank you Dr. Grande.
I wish women had other women's backs, and if not for the sake of the woman (in this case)--my God--they don't even think of the children.
Same goes for Men in both comments.
Atheistic capitalism creates secular isolated individualism which is why our Hemisphere has collapsed and the dust is beginning to rise.
@@E.C.2 Nonsense, which is what most religions are based on.
@@E.C.2 don't blame this one on "atheistic capitalism" whatever that is. The man who committed the crime was a Christian, and a pastor at that. Own your own. He is a product of his religious environment at best. At worst, his religious beliefs were not able to prevent him from killing his wife. And a premeditated killing at that. Not even one committed in a passionate, angry outburst.
But yeah, atheist capitalism. What does that even mean. Nonsense for sure.
@@InTheSkyGirl Excuse me freak.
I was referring to men and women not having each other's back.
Your excessive projection is unnecessary.
You have convinced me to seek professional advice, aside from the therapist who is supporting me as take the two years to position financially. Btw, that’s a beautiful 🤩 shirt.
Good for you, Hallie!! You are worth it!
I agree with both statements 1. Professional advice 2. It is a great shirt
If I knew where Dr. Grande got that shirt, I would buy one for my husband. It looks nice!
Looks like one you might find at Banana Republic
I think Dr grande provides some really important insight that Kari's fears were written off as irrational when she could have been helped. Thank you Dr grande for sharing your expertise.
matt sounds like a great guy… glad he’s following the word of god
Gotta be a good bull sh*tter to be a preacher.
Right
I'm sure he would love to meet his god right about now.
He killed their daughter too then gaslit Kari to make her think it was all her fault... it was all about control! He was so narcissistic that he was jealous over all the attention little Kassidy was given because of her cancer diagnosis. There is testimony of this somewhere regarding how he was acting when the daughter was hospitalized once & how he put on a show for everyone in public. This is so much like my ex husband who was a narcissist & I strongly believe he wanted a similar fate for me when I was at my sickest with lupus, but my parents never left me alone with him. I really believe it saved my life!
Hello Dr. Grande. I have a question for you: In the movie "Terminator" could you specifically examine the scene where Kyle Reese is getting interviewed by the psychologist?
What are your thoughts the Dr. Silberman and Lt. Traxler characters? Would you say Dr. Silberman is a competent psychologist?
Thank you.
Matt Baker was the last one to see Cassidy and Kari alive and both seemed to die of some sort of suffocation. He then blamed-shifted after both deaths, the former blaming Kari, and the latter blaming Vanessa.
It’s sad that the counselor didn’t follow up with any actions. As a mandated reporter, he or she has a responsibility not to take comments like this lightly. I also feel badly for the counselor. He or she will spend a long time second guessing his/her actions (or non-actions). The whole thing is sad.
As a mandated repwhorter, I think Vanessa should def be on the hook for her role. (Sorry I had to).
Hi Dr Grande, I'm so glad you covered this case.This is so chilling. It saddens me that there are people who walk among us that have so little regard for human life. This awful man married this lovely woman and claimed to love her yet had no qualms in ridding himself of her as soon as he felt no need for her ..( after meeting and having it off with someone else 🙄) it beggars belief that people can be so callous. It makes me glad that I have never been married and don't ever plan to. R.I.P Kari. Kari was beautiful, he was the hideous one, just saying.
Definitely there should have been an autopsy done.
Great analysis Dr Grande!!
Lesson number one: Never get involved with these "Lordy Lordy " types
Religion teaches women from birth to remain a Virginia, get married young, keep getting pregnant, do whatever your husband says, and, if he's a monster you can't divorce him.
That’s right. They will justify ANYTHING.
Chris Watts great found the lord lololol
Great reminder that you shouldn't ignore warning signs. I think a lot of women aren't raised being confident in their own decisions and people may think they're being a good friend insisting you're wrong about your worst fears and all is well. Making people aware like this can, at least, help someone break an abusive relationship and at worst, save them from real harm (yes, I know both are harmful! I'm a bad writer!🤷🏻♀️)
Dr. Grande- that's the "wildest" shirt I've ever seen you wear. I love it! We all adore your personality, so let it shine bright!
And it took a minute for the family(gma aunts and cousin) to convince Karis mother to believe that Matt could have really killed her.
But when she realized that could be the reality, she finally joined the war to get Justice for Kari.
That shirt is very flattering on you, both the color and pattern. 👍
It's always the ones that could have been prevented that upset me the most. So many missed opportunities in this one. Thank you for your analysis Dr Grande! Always a pleasure!💖💖
Dr. Grande, kindly, please give your analysis of the Gretchen Crooks case who was violently murdered by her son, who subsequently tried to defile her body. This case involves video gaming and medication for ADHD. I almost can't believe the level of derangement in this case. I would really like to hear your opinion.
Zaddy! Look at you in that swaged-out shirt!
I wish i had a therapist like Dr Grande
Great shirt, and one of the best channels of it's kind on the tube. Yes this case has similarities in a strange way to the White house farm Murders in the UK.
Framing someone else because of their personality frailties, and the authorities not being diligent with everything at outset, which creates suspicion, on the police.
Jeremy Bamber had the personality disorder, (narcissistic)his sister had schizophrenia which isn’t a personality disorder. Psychiatric illness. But you make a good point that the police were naive to believe the original story from the mass murderer.
I can't help but admire how Dr. Grande's shirt compliments the cactus trio.🌵🌵🌵🌵
I don't really thing this man would have been detoured. He was hell bent on murdering her and had vilified her by saying she was lazy and things like this. He had zero compassion for her. Kari was grieving and no one can blame her that she would not be able to think clearly, especially about her husband being a potential threat to her. This case is sad. Kari suffered the loss of her baby and then was made to feel even worse from the words and treatment of her own husband. That man is truly evil. I can't believe he is still trying to get out of prison, but Texas has it right and he will stay where he belongs: in prison.
According to Vanessa, Matt told her that when he was killing Kari, he told her to go be with Kassidy.
Just how chilling and sick is that. He tortured this poor naive woman to her end.
@@KenyanBunnie I agree. He was a monster.
If they didn't autopsy the wife I wonder if they did one on the daughter. An evil man could kill his daughter as well.
@@michaelwaninger3155 True. But I think the baby had cancer and she died of that.
But he is definitely an evil man. And so was his mistress. She knew she was messing with a married man. Shame on her too.
@@kam0406 You’d be surprised how many people who have cancer die under suspicious circumstances. They almost never get autopsied.
This is one of the most saddest and disturbing cases I've heard you cover!
The thought and care you put into this was incredibly moving! ♡♡
Mr Baker was a substitute teacher at my high school and was substitute teaching for my English teacher the day he was indicted.
Thank you for the daily content. Please would you cover Wayne Couzens and the murder of Sarah.
Please show some love for this beautiful shirt, people!
Dr. Grande, you do a good job analyzing cases.
I am sickened by the people in local churches that claim to be Christian and anything but !!!
Great analysis Dr Grande. I'm so pleased the relatives ,went ahead with the investigation. Now his wife has the justice she deserves. Thank you Dr Grande. Great topic.
Excellent as usual. Loved the burn regarding his prayer being answered.
My favorite Dr Grande shirt so far.
Dang Dr. Grande. That shirt is all kinds of kick ass. Keep up the great work!
Always a pleasure to her your analyses Doc, even when it's about tragedies like these.
I agree.
My opinion is also:
- Pastor's wife (religious woman) would't have let herself to be in underwear, if she commited suicide. Suicide isn't just an act, but a process.
- She wouldn't have prayed for daughter to be in heaven, yet to deserve the place in the heaven with her.
- Suicidide is worst sin than a murder (for those people), after crucifiction, because it is a ,,murder of soul and body".
- She talked to therapist and was concerned for her safety. Maybe he thought she was depressed and imagine things.
- Pastor skipped the lessons... Many of them.
- People didn't listen to her seriously, but biased.
- Police... Not suprising.
Thank you
and Vanessa sounds like a co-suspect
@@am5790 I have forgot about her. Knowning for a crime or see it, and not report it is a crime.
@@thinkingmoment yes, she knew....a cruel creature.
No autopsy? This whole thing is a travesty. Glad they exhumed her and did the toxicology. This is the kind of story that makes your hair stand on end. Poor Kari and Cassidy.
@@sarahalbers5555 Yes, the wife is a victim of circumstances. His position, not considering that her life is in danger, those who could have helped, but we are often biased when it comes to certain subjects.
Hi Dr. Grande,
I'd like to ask what your thoughts are on Carl Hart, the professor from the University of Columbia, who both advocates and personally uses heroin.
Thank you.
If he had cremated her, he probably would have gotten away with it. That said, the mistress should have sent to prison as well.
I’m glad I just found your channel and love it you keep everything so simple and easy to understand without any loud music and over acting like other channels where they try to make a story like a Hollywood movie lol you come straight to the point keep it up doctor you are doing a great job 👏
Just heartbreaking ❤️🩹
Holy smoke! Never heard of this case. It's so sad. Thank you Dr. Grande. Have a great weekend😉 love your shirt today.
This is a terrible 👪 family tragedy.
I pray 🙏 something can be salvaged from all this sadness.
Good video 📹
What happened to the daughters? Please tell us about the children afterwards in these cases, not to the extent of invading their privacy but just saying which relatives or others they went to live with.
"PSYCHO Killer, qu'est-ce que c'est?..." - Talking Heads
Better run-run-run, run-run run away...
I so badly want to comment on the case you're covering, but i just cant control myself to tell you how much i love that shirt! (sorry, i know talking about it is getting old, but i cant help it! Lol) Have a great weekend
Good evening, Dr. Grande. I've seen this Case, several times. Thank You for your analysis! Relieved he was caught! RIP 💔💔💔🙏🙏🙏 Prayers for her Children.
You are a rock star! Your message at the end of this video is spot on and should be used in educating all doctors and MEs (medical examiners) when it comes to ANY death that isn't obviously an accident.
"Many will say to me in that day, Lord, Lord, have we not prophesied in thy name? and in thy name have cast out devils? and in thy name done many wonderful works?
And then will I profess unto them, I never knew you: depart from me, ye that work iniquity."
Yaaaas! Great way to start my day! Thanks, Dr. Grande!
Okay, where I live, we can say, it is Friday evening and start of the weekend. So the new videos I see regularly in the evening. But anyway, have a nice day . 🙂
@@jackychamber534 Yep, time zones are certainly a thing 😂
"a prayer answered"... ya gotta love it.
I honestly love his voice I can watch his videos for hours ❤️
A lot of these people talk themselves into cuffs. Honestly
FLORAL SHIRT ALERT! This is one of Dr Grande's best shirts ever!
Old or new! Love Dr. Grande’s videos!
Matt not only killed Carrie, he killed baby Cassidy too.
Most accurate analysis as always doc! 😉
In The Godfather-Michael tells Kay that ONE TIME ONLY would he allow her to ask him about his business.
Then he lies to her.
Are you saying he should have been a preacher?
What about Moe Green discussing Michael's cheerleaders and Fredo's cocktail waitresses within 2 mins?
Love your channel, really interesting stories ,but what I really enjoy is hearing you giving your opinion of what could've really been going on and why.
I love your shirt!! Great content, too. Thanks, Dr. Grande!
This is an interesting case and cautionary tale. But you look like a king in an early Autumn play! Lovely☀💚🍁 great video as always Doc
Doctor, would you KINDLY look at the case of EDDIE POLIC murder in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania. Thank you.
I'm early! Thank you Dr.Grande for all of the videos you put out. I very much enjoy them, and i hope you have a great day
I really enjoy your content. You explain everything really well. Certainly makes people aware of mental health theories
Hey, Dr. Grande can you analyse the case of burari deaths?. Its very interesting, I would really like to see your perspective on them.
The what now?! I'll have to look that up!
@@ktcooki276 just look up Burari deaths. A family of 11 murdered a old age woman in their family and all commited suicide at a time. A netflix documentary is coming on that.
Vanessa should be in prison and the J.P. should have been held accountable for incompetence.
Hi Dr. Grande. Prison was that abusers outcome for being a total loser. Only a complete idiot would murder their spouse or anyone at all. Your shirt is cool. Thanks for your videos, peace and awesome times to you, Janine Smiley😀🙂🤩😎🙂
@@janinemccartha1811 Why on Earth have you written this as a reply to me?
Excellent analysis as always and a very tragic case full of pain 😑 Thank You Dr. Grande!
Commenting because it helps the algorithm. What a nightmare of a relationship. 😥