If we are LUCKY we will one day look in the mirror and see an old person! I am 59 and survived kidney cancer in 2022. That changed my perspective on aging... totally. Each day is a gift. Really.
You look fantastic. Last year, my ex girlfriend (we lived together several years) passed away from ovarian cancer. She fought cancer for 3 years. She was 64. I will soon turn 61. I've seen so many friends and acquaintances die recently in their 60's. I've decided I will continue to do the things I enjoy. I run nearly every day. I'm so much slower than I was 20 years ago. But I keep telling myself it beats the alternative. One thing I really notice, time seems to go by so fast! There are days where I'm not doing much and I can't believe it's afternoon already. I thought retirement would be boring but I'm rarely ever bored!
So sorry to hear this. Take care of you and take each day as it comes: if you’re sad, cry it out; if your day’s OK do something risky (this will reset your mind), and go for a walk every day to stop depression being yet another burden. Good luck to you.
In my sixties I was in very bed shape- overweight, high blood pressure,always late, single mother of 3 children in college, working 7 days a week (I am physician). Now retired,73 years old, working 2 days a week. My 72 birthday I celebrated (solo) on the pilgrimage to Santiago de Compostela (CAMINO) 310 mile walk, 26 days, not even one tablet of Tylenol . Plenty of time to think over what all of this is about. Next spring I will go back there to celebrate my 74-th.birthday to feel 25 again!
@@elizabethpulawski2425 your typo made me laugh out loud ‘very bed shape’ and I thought, ‘oh me too, a big square chunk of sponge body, shaped like a bed’ 🤣🤣
@@pamelan8840 I was absolutely safe. You alone, but you never alone if you want to join someone. If you want to do it- DO IT!!! Life changing experience. Read some book ( one is very popular, I don’t remember the author- separate small books about each trail- MUST take one with you), watch some podcasts- very helpful. Go CAMINO!
When I turned 60, I decided to give myself a six month tour of South America. I loved backpacking through several Patagonia parks, hiking to Machu Pichu, sailing throughout the Galapagos Islands, and even spending Christmas on Antarctica! I love to travel and will continue to do so. Life is so short and meant to be experienced.
When I was young, I thought 60 was really old, and life started at 40. When I reached 60, I said, "No! Life starts at 60!" Now that I'm 67, I feel so free and so young! I'm more connected to myself now than I was when I was so much younger!
I agree with you! I am 67 and feel so connected with life. And extremely appreciative of every day. Wrinkles are the last thing I think about. Energy, fitness, love of life drive me…and NO prescriptive drugs 🙂
Love this video. I’ll be 71 in November and I began thinking about all of the “what if’s” when I got in my late 60’s. My husband is in memory care now so I am all alone . My dog is 11. I will never adopt a puppy or kitten again because they would probably outlive me if I did. I see so many women at my husband’s place that have dementia- it scares me. I don’t have kids so would not be able to live with family if I couldn’t care for myself. I am taking really good care of myself so I hope I live into my 80’s (or 90’s) feeling good and am mobile.
Don't let fear overwhelm you. Adopt a puppy or a kitten if that's what you'd like to do. Don't let some abstract fears stop you from doing so. Learn the difference between the things you can control and those you can't. Then let go of any fears attached to those things outside of your control - like whether you will or will not be outlived by a new puppy or kitten. Live in the here-and-now, because that's all we've got. Sending you many blessings for the years ahead. 💚
@@helenaville5939 I think she's right to be thinking of the poor puppy or kitten outliving her and having to grieve for her. That's thoughtful and unselfish. Put the innocent animal's feelings first. Mature and kind.
I often call my aunt who’s 81 and I call my mother who is 74. I can’t imagine the world without them, but I recognize every day with them, and I take time to listen and hear them how precious they are. It really is a miracle to get older. What a gift time is.
my mom died at 77 and my grandma her mom lived until 102. I thought my mom would be here a very long time. One never knows. I could not imagine my life without her either, but yeah, now I am living it and miss her every single day.
My dad was not yet 53 when he passed away, and at the time I thought it was only hard when someone passes away young. But my mom passed away 2 years ago, at the age of 91. I was aware of her age, but I'm having a hard time getting used to life without her.
I just came across you... I'm 67. The thoughts you had when you turned 60, I got last year. At 60 I started a new job so I was busy and excited about it. Thinking about my last years a lot lately. And I also think about things and say to myself "today this is a problem, but you"ll probably even miss these problems in the future." So I guess that these thoughts are universal. If I were to choose one place to visit (I have been abroad but not too much) I would definitely go back to Scotland. One of the most beautiful places on earth. I look forward to watching more of your videos! Just watched the online dating one too!
Love your videos! I currently work in China and previously worked in Saudi Arabia for nine years. While in Saudi Arabia, I was able to visit Egypt three times: Cairo, Luxor and then Aswan. I study architecture so I wanted to be able to take my time exploring the buildings and sites. Travel is easier and less intimidating in the UK (I love it!), but Egypt could be the trip of a lifetime! You could have so much fun reading and watching documentaries and travel videos about ancient Egypt in preparation for your trip (something I did). All those pre-visit activities not only helped me better understand what I was seeing, but also extended the excitement of the trips.
Thanks for sharing. Yep. I can relate. I no longer care what other people think, and I say NO more often. I study what I want and am not focused on my appearance. I have a wild bird sanctuary. I garden, glamp, hike and have a senior dog and cat. My life feels full. I would like to visit Italy and Switzerland. Who knows.. I like the freedom this time in my life has given me.
I’m 60 and have anxiety/PAs. I get the “I’M ALIVE!” mornings. 😁 I have three cats who I love, so much. I’ve had cats since I was in elementary school and these are my last ones. I wouldn’t trade them for world but, when I travel, I worry about them. They are my family. THANK YOU FOR SHARING! ❤
I turned 70 this summer so I can barely recall how turning 60 felt. I'm blessed to have made it to this point without any real health issues and I'm looking pretty good for my age as are you. I have traveled (Italy, France, England, Spain, Caribbean, Mexico and almost half the states in the USA) and I'd like to go to Greece.
You have a very positive and inspirational out look - I am going to be 72 but honestly it is only a number because after 2 years of struggle on retirement at 60 about how to live my retirement - I figured it out completely - No living in the past ( I was a hot shot in the company ) - I realised I had 20 years ahead - I play golf very well - learnt Spanish & Italian ( where I also have super lady friends) - Lived in Chicago - Hong Kong & many other countries & travelled extensively - travel each year to Europe in stay in Italy for 2 months - learning the Violin and cycle every day - Learnt how to cook continental food - Read a lot and stick with Nobel prize winners / Man booker - And had a Pace maker implant - which really made life stronger - Watching Ted Talks and other motivational videos on yourtube greatly helped to narrow the focus -since my son ( 37 years ) stays with me - he teaches me AI which is necessary for the baby boomer generation - Glad I was able to get all this off my chest because when others listen to my life style and when I try to motivate them - they feel bad for themselves & say that they are too old now - In short - We can design a Great Lifestyle and watch your health and Travel to different countries as it enriches your life.
68 YO WM and semi-retired physician here. I think about staying relevant, whether it be socially or professionally. I still want to contribute to the greater good. Having a meaningful life matters more to me than traveling all over, though I would like to do some of that, too. Meaning making in what's left of life matters more than having a fancy car, designer clothes, a fancy house, etc., etc.
I walked away from the rat race on my 60th birthday suddenly after realizing that lots of yesterdays had gone by and wondered about how many healthy tomorrows were left in my life. The past is history, and the future is a mystery; therefore, I try to live in the present content with what I have. 😊🙏❤
Bless your grandmother’s heart - I can see your love for your children and grandchildren especially those of our loved ones who need our special compassion ❤
I lost my mom who was 86 10 years ago when I was 46, this is the worst thing I could ever imagine, and it hurts a lot every day... Love is the most powerful force in the world. But on the other hand I no longer need to worry about dying before her, as I was afraid would happen when I was 26 and was diagnosed with Leukemia. Life is a mix of joy and pain. 😢
@@yz4043You will have a great life. Focus on having your new baby and give your love to him or her. If that’s all you do right now that will be more than enough and very fulfilling. You will find your way and your life will be full.
''Very lost in life''. May I suggest TRUTH. PLEASE read John 17:17 (KJV version) Either the word of the Almighty God is truth, or it is not. ''For MANY are called, but FEW are chosen. Mt.22:14 (KJV) If you are lost, then you can be found! Our Lord Jesus Christ gave his life for us. The ball is in YOUR court. What are you going to do my friend???
You could adopt from a shelter that saves older dogs or just from your regular shelter. There are many lovely older dogs that need homes. We have a rescue group here In San Francisco Bay Area that rescues only senior dogs 6 and older. It's called Muttville. You would be saving the life of a dog that is a little older. This is something I encourage you to consider. Senior dogs for senior people
A great suggestion! I can’t imagine living without a dog. There are so many dogs in shelters needing homes. Giving a senior dog a home is so wonderful❤
I’m 71 in Fl . I feel 50 or younger. Take 0 meds and have 0 pain. No kids no pets. You are an attractive lady. Too bad you so far away. I’m a southern gentleman that would love to meet you. Your videos are your story and I appreciate you sharing.
Do you like her? Go and meet her! American men have no romantic feelings!! Always cold calculations, thinking, planing…… and life is over- money left for distant cousins!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I am so pleased I found you on youtube, your honest, open discussions are refreshing & inspiring! I retired at 66.5 years old, it was a challenge to accept retirement, as many ppl said I looked too young to be a “pensioner” 🥹Initially, turning 60 didn’t faze me, as my health was good however in the last couple of years its been a downhill slide having had 3 ops for arthritis & numerous skin cancers removed, but keeping on top of it with regular check-ups & advances in med science are improving daily. Health is real wealth; I am now living the last chapter of my life & just starting to be happy with acceptance; gratitude & adopting peace, serenity & mindfulness into my outlook on life. I am learning to enjoy my own company along with 6 chihuahuas & cats. I have absolutely no fear of death as I have an understanding that to be out of the body is to be at peace through our Saviour Jesus, to Him & the Father I give all thanks. If I chose a country to visit it would be to The Holy Lands in Israel, where Jesus once walked. I live in Australia. Keep up your great video’s you are an inspiration 🙏
Hi this video made me sad. I AM 61 AND YES WHEN I TURNED 60 I PANICKED OVERNIGHT. 😢 You need to go travel do not be scared it will change your life for the better. The USA is horrible for older people. EUROPE is different there is respect and many thíngs to do. Here we are invisible because there is such a fear of getting old. TH-cam only cares about 20 year olds but We older people need you we need to see we matter and exist out there as well. Do not be sad we are here and we need you.
Hi. not sure where in Europe that would be. In my native country life certainly is NOT good for older people and there is NO respect. I would never go back and live there. Happy to be in a country with many opportunities. and yes, older people can still have careers here in the US, which in Europe is not the case...
and I'm not sure where in Europe you grew up. Maybe it's true that the grass is always greener on the other side. I grew up in the States and after spending a year in my teens in Germany, I always longed to return. But stupidly I waited to my mid thirties to return, but I'm so grateful that I finally did. The only thing I regret is not leaving a decade younger. Social benefits are so much better in Europe than in America and that's reflected in life expectancies, rates of chronic illnesses, mortality, infant mortality. And the amount of leave time in Europe compared with America is stark. Two weeks vacation after you've worked for a company is punitive. Europeans work to live, but Americans live to work. Great for workaholics, not for anyone else. America's politics has grown ever more ugly and reactionary since I left in the early 90s. Its laissez-faire gun control laws have grown so extreme that the biggest factor behind infant mortality is guns. The shopping is great, but the materialistic focus on looking to things and money to provide happiness leaves many feeling empty and their lives pointless. Maybe that's why so many turn to cults and religious extremism to find meaning in their lives. But it also drives the reactionary, politics and ugly divisions in society. And for all it's vaunted multiculturalism, America is a very monocultural conformist place. Where differences in lifestyles and life choices are called out and attract censure and suspicion. As a result I feel much less free in America than I do in Europe.
@@simplelife465 I laughed when you wrote that older people in Europe cannot have careers. That's simply ridiculous. I'm from Ireland and have been living in France for the past forty years, returning regularly to Ireland for holidays. The opening poster is correct. Europe is a much easier place to live for older people. I have siblings living in the US (Pennsylvania and Arizona) and there seems to be a gulf of difference in the ways older people are treated. The quality of life is a lot better here in Europe. Plus, there's less chance of being gunned down or succumbing to a tornado!! 😂 I wish you well.
Just stumbled upon your channel. I appreciate your authenticity and sharing your experiences. I too am 61 and single. I had a solution for your dog dilemma. I am an animal lover and cannot imagine myself without some kind of pet but prefer dogs. I’ve thought of all this while making my trust. I’ve talked to my adult kids (all animal lovers) and they know I want my pets to stay with them until they pass when the time comes. They promised me they’d stay in the family. Now, I was thinking November is adopt a senior pet month. There are plenty of senior dogs who need loving homes. You might have one for 1-5 years. That’s my plan anyways. Senior dogs from here on…,Good luck!
Thank you 4 sharing your experience. You are not " cool" anymore.....but authentic!THAT makes you " cool"!!!❤😊 Wish you all the best. Hello from Austria/Europe❤❤❤❤❤
I just found your channel and I’m really enjoying it! I can relate to just about everything you’re saying, I’m 66 and I think about exactly the same things that you’re talking about. Thanks for putting it out there. I thought I was the only one that was thinking weird thoughts lol😂
Girl, you need to travel abroad! Let’s go! It’s one of the best things you can do with your time, which is being in awe of some wonderful places out there!
I'm a guy and stumbled upon your dating video and loved hearing your thoughts, so watched this one as well - You are delightful, thoughtful and funny! Good job.
You look so young and vibrant. I'm approaching 49 in January and can't wait to enter my 50's. Excited for menopause, more gray hair, financial stability and wisdom 🙌 All phases of life are valid, I appreciate you😊
Gray hair is freedom - silver vixen chapter of my life. Menopause is a horrible stage of a woman's life. The changes in your body feel alien, the decrease of oestrogen gives rise to aches and stiffness. I'm 54 and going through menopause. I'm looking forward to reaching the other side where menopausal symptoms settle down.
I am 63 and I think about the present day now more so than the future. I do my best to live each day to the fullest! Not reckless, but I live each day as though there is no tomorrow. If I'm blessed and fortunate enough to wake up the next morning I repeat the process responsibly again... Thanks for sharing your perspective and thoughts!😊
Another great video! So love your authenticity and humor! I turn 60 in two wks and it's really hitting me hard (similar to your experience). I've always felt rather young and now seeing 60 is making me reflect on my life, mostly HOW DID IT GO BY THIS FAST? Regarding your question about travel, I would not go to Egypt if you're picking one country. I found Cairo dirty, rundown and felt quite dangerous. I would recommend England for its beauty/history and the fact they speak English makes the experience so much better. Also, Italy (Rome, Venice, Amalfi Coast) for the natural beauty. I've heard Switzerland is breathtaking and clean! I can't thank you enough for these videos, just knowing someone shares my similar experiences/worries/realizations about getting 60+ has REALLY helped me, made me less anxious.
I never ever think about what I look like now or how I’ll look in the future. I am just glad to be here and I’ve earned every wrinkle! I love being retired and I wish the days were longer! I do think about my health though, especially as I just watched my husband die a very painful death from cancer. Enjoy your good health.😊
Hi, My name is Diane and I celebrated 71 this July 2024. I had never been abroad either, and wanted to visit Sweden, where my father's roots are from, but ended up going to England, where my 35 yr old niece lives in Chelmsford, Essex. I was nervous about traveling alone, and it was perfect to have family to stay with. We walked 7.1 miles in one day in London alone, and many more in Epping Forest, Windsor, Buckingham Palace, Bath, and many other amazing places. There's a ton of Roman ruins all over England, and some castles and cathedrals were built over them. Anyway, I enjoy and am inspired by your postings, even tho I am now in my 70s!
I just turned 65 and loved hearing your video this morning. I am a Mama of five adult kids and a Mimi to 7! I can certainly relate to everything you talked about!❤️
I always said it’s just a number and it’s all about how you feel until this year when I turned 60. I lost two loved ones the first if the year and then I got shingles which were the worse thing ever to me. I am feeling 60. I never thought I would say that. I have always been active and exercise and walk daily. I still do it but it’s different now. It really makes me sad when I think about it too much. I am a fighter so I keep moving forward and remember to have gratitude on a daily basis! So much more I want to see in life including my 22 year old son and what his life has in store. That keeps me going ! Thanks for sharing! I have 4 cats 😂
Turning 60 in 2 weeks and just found your channel . I resonate with your comment about instantly feeling old . That doesn’t upset me so much but the feelings I’m having are these .. Stop wasting your life .. Stop worrying about things that might never happen … Be happy … Take care of yourself . Don’t waste time . I’m feeling like it’s my time now to do the things I love and to put myself first . So, I think my 60’s are going to be great . Thank you for sharing your thoughts on you tube 🥰
If you want to feel young stop thinking about depressing old people problems. Get out of that house and enjoy life. Think young and you won't feel old. Don't give up. Be cool forever.
Exactly…….the condition of the mind makes the youth or makes on old. Now this woman is brave to do these videos. You have a nice living room and you have pictures on the walls. Well old age we can have some concerns. The long term care question hovers over all aged people. You’ve talked about it do the old age sex video.
Well, you kind of have to because those things will come and you need to plan for them. Otherwise, when they do suddenly happen, it’ll be even worse. We have to face reality and plan for the future to the best of our abilities. I’m not even any close to being old but I already think about the things she’s talking about in the video, as sickness and death will befall on us all at any age. Thinking about them doesn’t mean you’re feeling old, just makes you more prepared.
I just found your video and I can relate. I’m 69 and married, but I think about a lot of those same thoughts. I recently in the last year and a half have let my hair be gray and it’s really turned out to be a beautiful silver. I still wear it the same as my picture. I really don’t care what people think about it. I like it and that’s all that matters.😊
Gosh, you are so pretty, and look like you’re in your 40’s, good for you! I’m 68, and love the freedom of doing whatever the heck I want, it’s a great feeling. God Bless.
I laughed at your open comment 'I'm Alive' .. I know that 67 yr old feeling very well applies to me, isn't it great to keep a sense of humour in spite of life's all. Thank you for this vlog, I can relate better than watching 'young' people decorating homes for Christmas or renovating - too much wasted energy I say. Keep up the good work. I shall continue to smile & watch 😂
Just came across your channel, you are still beautiful, healthy and mobile and in your mind which is a blessing.A lot of people younger than you hv'nt got that. I am 61 mobility issues and can relate to most of what you have addressed. But for me i intend to travel and make the most of the life i hv got at the moment. I am grateful i lived to see 60 my mum died at 58. So inspite of my everyday aches/pains i am going to still get out on own or with friends and just help whoever i can help, love and be kind to everyone and just enjoy until the end.🌺🌺🌺
Thank you for your great video. I am 61 years old retired woman and I can relate totally to all you are saying. I definitely now feel a palpable sense of urgency about ticking off those experiences on my bucket list! I have a heightened awareness of the currency of time and how, like £ and $, I can only spend any given minute, hour or day once - just once! So as my “time balance” diminishes, I am now much more discerning about how I fill my days. Wishing you well with thanks for your great shares.
I'm sure TH-cam is hard. But you seem to be doing great with it! Your channel has been here only about 2 months, you have 6 videos, and you're almost to 2000 subscribers! That's awesome 👍 Be not discouraged!
I am from Sweden ❤, i am soon 59 , my kids are Young adult . Life is truly interesting when you take time to sit down and meditate on it! 😊 greetings from me to you ! ❤
Thank you for sharing your personal journey. I admire your courage. Im felt young capable and excited with life until i reached 70. Then i realized and accepted that im old, what for me was possible a mere 5 years earlier, suddenly became unrealistic. You accept your vulnerability and are grateful for what you have achieved in life...... Btw if you ever get to travel ..... Choose Cape Town, South Africa. Beauty scenery food beaches. wine farms unmatched!!! First world comfort in a natural setting with a rich history...... Enjoy everyday as if it's your last.. 😊.
I just turned 55 and I already feel like time is running out. I am finally on a good path now but I wish I had figured some things out a lot earlier in my life. Like in my thirties. I was too busy wasting time thinking i was going to live forever.
Recently found this new channel. Quite unique. Also watching Sandra Hart. 64 going on 65 too. Aging has been really hitting hard over the past year. Don’t know who’s looking at me in the mirror anymore 😮most of the concerns expressed in this video are on my mind too. Dealing with depression and related issues over past seven years has kept my focus on daily struggles and survival, it’s like the aging factor has suddenly crept up on me and compounded everything. Totally unprepared for this. And so many ghosts, so many people already gone. Subscribed and will continue watching. Essential and quite helpful. Thank you Holly if you’re reading this 🐴❤
I am 67 I retired in May I’m divorced two grown daughters two son-in-law’s 6 grandchildren 1great grandchild I love my single life I have the house the car and do what and where and when I want I was an army wife a long time I help with grandkids and stay busy parents grandparents and brother have passed I am enjoying your channel very much
I’m enjoying your videos. You’re very natural on camera. I turned 70 a year ago and hitting that decade really stopped me in my tracks. I’ve been divorced 21 years. I love my life. Travel is so much fun. I’ve been to Europe several times and I loved Australia and New Zealand. You should plan a trip! You won’t regret it. I also think about decluttering so my kids won’t have a mess. I think twice about buying anything new.
I will be 63 years old in December. My husband of 41 years died very suddenly and unexpectedly three years ago. Both of my grown children have mental health issues, and my son has addiction issues as well. I am estranged from my daughter. They aren’t capable of taking care of anyone else. I have two dogs that are great company. I am really enjoying your outlook on life. I have never been outside the country (except for Canada) either. My sister works for an airline and travels abroad often. Her favorite destination is Amsterdam.
mental health issues? MLK gave a speech about being proud to be maladjusted to a sick society. Erich Fromm and Gabor Mate also have written about capitalism's effect on psychology.
@ My son has bipolar disorder and addiction issues. He is probably going to lose his job because he’s currently experiencing an episode of psychosis. My daughter has been diagnosed with having “traits of” borderline personality disorder. It’s a very difficult life for them. Your comment is flippant.
❤ I just started watching your videos today and I got to say you’re the best 64-year-old woman I’ve ever seen me being 60 And I have to compliment you on your content, I like mature material and so real!😊
You seem like a very kind nice person not trying to impress anyone. Very down to earth. I wish I had a friend like you, a neighbor even. I’m in California & I’ve lived here my whole life and I’m hating it here. Cost of living has exploded & I stupidly took an early retirement & regretting it to say the least. Subbed.
Very cheap to live in West VA. Check out some towns like Morgan Town and Huntington and others… I am in Florida and in a similar situation as you. Mobile Alabama also has some great prices and very nice ones on homes. Good luck to you!
I’m really enjoying your videos. Just found them yesterday. So authentic, intelligent and relaxed. Like chatting with a friend. I’m 63 and definitely agree with the online dating video. With a lot of losses and living on a budget, I find loneliness is my biggest concern at this point. As well as deciding where I want to live. Thank you for your enlightening videos. Also learned a lot from the video about aging men and women. Found it to be encouraging.
I'm a new subscriber and love your content. I'll be 58 next month and I can relate to each point you shared in this video. You look fantastic by the way!
I'm 69 and retired 12 years now. My wife of 38 years retires soon. I don't think about death and dying. I've thought about it and acknowledged it and I have a plan to do all that I can during the next 5 years. Adventure and travel and new experiences have been part of my life for some time, and now that my wife is joining me in retirement, we're going to go full throttle. My strategy? My home is where I will visit. I'm going to live everywhere else.
In two weeks I'll be 76. I am retired enlisted USAF and have seen Asia, Europe, etc. I enjoyed a brief tourist visit in Greece. I like ancient sites. (Delphi was impressive.) - You are quite a nice lady. I have subscribed and enjoyed the two videos of yours that I have just watched. - I am Mark in AZ. Now you know. 8)
Such wonderful questions you ask that we couldn’t fathom 40 years ago, really or even 10. I am 77. Yesterday I was 64. Yes, it goes that fast. I buried my wife of over 50 years three years ago. But I am here to say that it has forced me to reavers and reinvent. Not so bad if you look at it the right way. Yes, it may be the last chapter, but it is also a new chapter. I have all the time and money that I always longed for. Now I just need to find someone who wants to share it with me making headway on that. Boy have things changed out there in the last 55 years. WOW!
I totally relate to this. I’m 62 and I think of all those things you listed. I lost my mother when I was 60 and that really made me start facing my own mortality as she was only 80. You start to think, how long do I have left?? 😢
@Becoming Me: You are very beautiful and have an amazing sense of humor! .. You make me laugh out loud because you are speaking about all the things we all think about now that we have reached this amazing older age. I'm 73 now but I'm happy with my looks. My Mom died this past June at the age of 97. I sure hope that I get to live as long as she did with all my marbles and still continue to dance up a storm!! 🥰. .. You are really funny!! .. Oh what a sweet cat!! .. The black and white one looks like my Georgie!!.. My goodness, your thoughts absolutely mirrors our thoughts! .. However, I have learned not to think too much about things I cannot change or have any control over!! .. I try to just float on like that song!! .. Again, absolutely and unequivocally love your channel!! .. You are awesome young lady! .. Continue to always enjoy your blessed life with your beautiful grandsons and pretty cats!! ❤❤❤
Time is a gift! I find myself very conscious about the fleeting days now that I turned 76 last July! I know nothing promised to us for the future, no one knows what it’ll entail! So I live each day not thinking about the WHAT IFS to scare myself but instead I tried to live the way I possibly can to be joyful and do what I can and count my blessings at days end each evening! Truly Happy to see another daylight when I awake, “Thank you for another day! Thank you my beautiful healthy body to carry me through in this season of my life!” My mantra daily in the morning! 🎉❤
I think about the same things. I feel sad that I will grow old alone. I wonder who will take care of me if I need help when older. I wonder how will I die. I worry that I will die alone
I am the same age! I didn't think about any of this CRAP until my husband died suddenly 3 years ago. Then I was obsessed with time running out to do all sorts of things. My new mantra became, "What's to become of me?" But now that I am finding myself and also feeling pretty good about myself, I am not worrying about things that I cannot control. My sweet mom whom i cared for died a year after my hubby. I remember the day or so before she died she confided in me that she looked in the mirror and did not recognize the woman staring back. She was dismayed. And then she died. But she was 94!
Interesting questions you are posing, for sure. I'm 74 and didn't have that "I'm not immortal" wake up call until I turned 72. Up until then I just felt the same way I've felt forever. I've never experienced tragedies or poor health to bring that awaking sooner. But since 72 I'm comforted that we are in good company. We will all move on to another dimension at some point and if we are lucky, it will be a peaceful transition. There are times now when I think it can't be too soon because of the state of humanity and our neglect to our precious earth. Once we are gone, all of us, this earth can heal and recover from the abuse we inflicted on it for centuries. Why are we here in the first place? Who knows! An interesting experiment gone wrong, it seems, as we don't learn from history or our mistakes. This may seem morbid, but afterall, it's definitely in line with your topic. I enjoy conversations with you! Keep your chin up!
Becoming 60 really changes our way of viewing life, but the spirit never ages, I’ve moved to Egypt alone at 56 to start a new chapter of my life, got a job and rent a house, did new friends, but I continue singing, playing guitar, and recording music videos on Instagram, I’m 60 now but never think about my age to do things that I want, life is present to enjoy the way we want!
Great to hear about your life style - We are all entitled to having a great 60+ life - there is so much we can do because we have plenty of free time - Egypt is exciting & soaked in history - the host of this video is attractive and honest and really glad to read the comments of the many 60+ I visited Egypt - Greece & Italy - the cradle of civilization - And enjoy every moment you have
My comment comes late but here’s my answer. Yes, when I turned 60 things changed dramatically. I’m 68 now & looked great all the way through my 50’s. What happened was my spine. I’d had an emergency cervical surgery when I was 36 & that worked out thankfully. Then degenerative disk disease, spinal stenosis & herniated disks happened in my 60’s. Another cervical surgery 3 years ago & I had a laminectomy with fusion on my lower spine scheduled for a year ago that I cancelled due to fear. I have been fortunate in my life to have traveled pretty extensively. My advice to you is to take those trips as your health is still good & you never know how long you’ll be in good health. Maybe until you’re in your 80’s & beyond but it’s never promised. Australia was one of my favorite places. London is beautiful at Christmastime. If you’re into weird stuff like myself, take the Ripper tour. The guides make it such fun and educational. Of course the islands of the Caribbean are so gorgeous. I’m alone like yourself and I like it that way. I don’t date, haven’t in a long time and I have no plans to start. I’m perfectly happy on my own. So yeah, take a trip. See some of the world. Make some wonderful memories. And by the way, where’d you get your fabulous couch? ~Bonnie
When I turned 60, I kept a birthday card, that had a big "60" on the cover, on my desk for the entire year so I could really absorb turning 60. It worked! I turn 65 this December (29th) too. I think I stopped "caring" as you say sometime in my 50s...hard to say. I have had several deaths in the family this past year including my wife's passing 4 months ago. Since then, I have been making sure all my affairs are in order so my passing is as easy as possible for my kids. My thoughts lately have mostly been getting used to the label of widower.
I am 65 and my husband left me when I was 61 so that is when I really felt old. It didn’t help that he was so much younger -15 years. I think about never getting to the places that I wanted to. I have traveled through the United States and been on some cruises and to Great Britain, but I always wanted to go to France, Germany, Italy, Greece. So many places it would be hard to pick one. So that makes me sad to think I might not get to travel. I got a little kitten a few months ago. It’s the best,I wish I had done it when my husband first left me. My friend said you live longer if you have an animal to take care of so that sold me.
"for 65"?! She looks awesome FULL STOP! there is no "for" anything! 😃 no qualifiers needed. I am so grateful to keep discovering amazing inspiring women that make me look to the future with excitement- we are not counting down to the end of anything, we are counting up toward our grand finale!!
I can feel the love and concern for your grandchildren and that special love! Let this be your motivation to take THE best care of yourself mentally, physically and emotionally ❤️ We are all in this together and trying to figure it out. Love to you and yours! I’m 60 and an empty nester. My children are in the establishing their career mode. I so want grandchildren! Like yesterday! You’re so Blessed ❤ Stay young and think it! Take the best care of you! 😊
So interesting that your channel was presented to me because I’m still a ways away from 60, but I’ve enjoyed listening to you so much! I lost my mom almost 2 years ago and I miss her wisdom and perspective. And I miss her stories! You are so enjoyable! Please keep sharing your life experiences and your thoughts/feelings with us! I’m delighted to know that you also have a Shih Tzu! Our family adopted a one-eyed Shih Tzu rescue dog when my mom fell ill to help bring some joy into our lives and this little dog did not disappoint (I started a channel about our journey with her!). I hope you take a trip abroad! South of France might be nice?! ☕🥖🌅
I am turning 59 and Still working with small kids feeling young ang optimistic in life. The secret of staying young is happiness in everything you do. have fun with good people.
My plan is to keep on taking care of myself until it's time for me to choose my nursing home. I will not allow my children to take care of me. I spend very little time thinking about my death. I consider that a hugh waste of time and is very low vibration. We are here to enjoy life, learn lessons and experience joy. Love and Light to everyone ❤😊
I'm 84, I'm just beginning to think about these things you have mentioned. I'm still mowing my lawn and doing the all the things I've been doing, except my kids have told me not to get up on the roof any more. I do, NOW, notice when people speak to fast. My processing speed has deminished.
I won’t forget 60 as that was when my marriage ended. Seven years have gone by way too fast. Planning a trip to Australia soon, a trip I was going to make in my twenties, but got derailed. Sweden sounds like a good choice. I have ancestry there as well, also Denmark. Hope to make that trip too. It’s all good. I try to do something new every day, because the clock is ticking.
I am so pleased I found your channel that showed up in my algorithms (spelling?) I live very similarly with your same thoughts about life and happy, single at 66; grateful to have great health and to be able to hopefully grow into old age as long as possible to see my beautiful sons and especially my grandchildren grow older and watch them evolve into adults. I thankfully have great genes on mother's side. Her mom lived to be one month shy of 103 and my Mom is in her early 90's and has a fiesty energy like her Mom (my grandmother) did. 😁
When I lost my husband to covid at only 58, that changed a hell of a lot. I'm 60, and not having him here is like I'm living in another world. I have a small channel, I just started doing videos on my ghost towns around my area, etc. It's going to be a journey! I'm healthy as a horse so I'm grateful. I don't want to go slowly, make it quick, then one day I'll see my Chris again. I also have an only son, 26. I'm sure he's why I'm still here. He can't afford to be on his own. I'm planning to never remarry. Oh and ice never been out of the States either, maybe Scotland where my family is from.
Im 62, soon to turn 63...I don't think about death that much. Actually, very rare do I think life is short...I take each day as it comes and I do not over think...Im an in the moment person and there's so much to do...🎼🎵😎
Hello Ms Becoming, first time to your channel. Thank you for being brave enough to share your thoughts and experiences. Well, I'm soon to be 69 and find your conversations and questions interesting. I never thought I'd be in this stage of 'the game'. I'm recently retired and it wasn't till I entered retirement that I gave much thought to my 'later days'. Well, here I am and been pondering most of the questions you've raised. And I think these are all indicators of healthy processing. Stay strong girl and talk again. Blessing to you. bw
Don’t know how I came across your video. I am 64, but I am not focusing on that as its just a number at this point in life. Boy, do I hear ya on cool! I will be interested to follow you. I am alone with my 2 dogs. Lived all over the world and experienced a lot, so it take so much to get me Jazzed. Name is Ron and will follow ya, maybe it will help me. Thanks
If we are LUCKY we will one day look in the mirror and see an old person! I am 59 and survived kidney cancer in 2022. That changed my perspective on aging... totally. Each day is a gift. Really.
I'm 72. I don't think or worry about tomorrow. I live for today. That's all we have. I'm not ruining it with thinking about the what ifs of tomorrows
Exactly..Spot on..
You look fantastic. Last year, my ex girlfriend (we lived together several years) passed away from ovarian cancer. She fought cancer for 3 years. She was 64. I will soon turn 61. I've seen so many friends and acquaintances die recently in their 60's. I've decided I will continue to do the things I enjoy. I run nearly every day. I'm so much slower than I was 20 years ago. But I keep telling myself it beats the alternative. One thing I really notice, time seems to go by so fast! There are days where I'm not doing much and I can't believe it's afternoon already. I thought retirement would be boring but I'm rarely ever bored!
I'm so sorry for your loss. I too have seen many people in their 60s die of cancer. How I wish they would find a cure!
@@BecomingMe64 They have a cure however there is more money in following the narrative of Big Pharma unfortunately... 😢
Sorry for this terrible loss and I hope you will soon get much better.
So sorry to hear this. Take care of you and take each day as it comes: if you’re sad, cry it out; if your day’s OK do something risky (this will reset your mind), and go for a walk every day to stop depression being yet another burden. Good luck to you.
Did your ex bust inside ypu? 😅@BecomingMe64
In my sixties I was in very bed shape- overweight, high blood pressure,always late, single mother of 3 children in college, working 7 days a week (I am physician). Now retired,73 years old, working 2 days a week. My 72 birthday I celebrated (solo) on the pilgrimage to Santiago de Compostela (CAMINO) 310 mile walk, 26 days, not even one tablet of Tylenol . Plenty of time to think over what all of this is about. Next spring I will go back there to celebrate my 74-th.birthday to feel 25 again!
Oh, I want to do that walk, too. Did you meet any other women on your walk? Did you feel safe?
This is wonderful!
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@@elizabethpulawski2425 your typo made me laugh out loud ‘very bed shape’ and I thought, ‘oh me too, a big square chunk of sponge body, shaped like a bed’ 🤣🤣
@@pamelan8840 I was absolutely safe. You alone, but you never alone if you want to join someone. If you want to do it- DO IT!!! Life changing experience. Read some book ( one is very popular, I don’t remember the author- separate small books about each trail- MUST take one with you), watch some podcasts- very helpful. Go CAMINO!
When I turned 60, I decided to give myself a six month tour of South America. I loved backpacking through several Patagonia parks, hiking to Machu Pichu, sailing throughout the Galapagos Islands, and even spending Christmas on Antarctica! I love to travel and will continue to do so. Life is so short and meant to be experienced.
Did you go alone or had company? Tx...Canada
Too true..
When I was young, I thought 60 was really old, and life started at 40. When I reached 60, I said, "No! Life starts at 60!" Now that I'm 67, I feel so free and so young! I'm more connected to myself now than I was when I was so much younger!
I agree with you! I am 67 and feel so connected with life. And extremely appreciative of every day. Wrinkles are the last thing I think about. Energy, fitness, love of life drive me…and NO prescriptive drugs
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@bug3474 Amen to no prescribed medication for maintenance 🙌
Love this video. I’ll be 71 in November and I began thinking about all of the “what if’s” when I got in my late 60’s. My husband is in memory care now so I am all alone . My dog is 11. I will never adopt a puppy or kitten again because they would probably outlive me if I did. I see so many women at my husband’s place that have dementia- it scares me. I don’t have kids so would not be able to live with family if I couldn’t care for myself. I am taking really good care of myself so I hope I live into my 80’s (or 90’s) feeling good and am mobile.
Don't let fear overwhelm you. Adopt a puppy or a kitten if that's what you'd like to do. Don't let some abstract fears stop you from doing so. Learn the difference between the things you can control and those you can't. Then let go of any fears attached to those things outside of your control - like whether you will or will not be outlived by a new puppy or kitten. Live in the here-and-now, because that's all we've got. Sending you many blessings for the years ahead. 💚
@@helenaville5939 I think she's right to be thinking of the poor puppy or kitten outliving her and having to grieve for her. That's thoughtful and unselfish. Put the innocent animal's feelings first. Mature and kind.
I often call my aunt who’s 81 and I call my mother who is 74. I can’t imagine the world without them, but I recognize every day with them, and I take time to listen and hear them how precious they are. It really is a miracle to get older. What a gift time is.
my mom died at 77 and my grandma her mom lived until 102. I thought my mom would be here a very long time. One never knows. I could not imagine my life without her either, but yeah, now I am living it and miss her every single day.
My dad was not yet 53 when he passed away, and at the time I thought it was only hard when someone passes away young. But my mom passed away 2 years ago, at the age of 91. I was aware of her age, but I'm having a hard time getting used to life without her.
@@maya-sn2hk I know the feeling. My mom left too soon, but even if she lived until her 100's I would had grieved just the same.
We should think more often that they wouldn't want to see us sad, if they were alive.
I just came across you... I'm 67. The thoughts you had when you turned 60, I got last year. At 60 I started a new job so I was busy and excited about it. Thinking about my last years a lot lately. And I also think about things and say to myself "today this is a problem, but you"ll probably even miss these problems in the future." So I guess that these thoughts are universal. If I were to choose one place to visit (I have been abroad but not too much) I would definitely go back to Scotland. One of the most beautiful places on earth. I look forward to watching more of your videos! Just watched the online dating one too!
Love your videos! I currently work in China and previously worked in Saudi Arabia for nine years. While in Saudi Arabia, I was able to visit Egypt three times: Cairo, Luxor and then Aswan. I study architecture so I wanted to be able to take my time exploring the buildings and sites. Travel is easier and less intimidating in the UK (I love it!), but Egypt could be the trip of a lifetime! You could have so much fun reading and watching documentaries and travel videos about ancient Egypt in preparation for your trip (something I did). All those pre-visit activities not only helped me better understand what I was seeing, but also extended the excitement of the trips.
I’m 63 and I drive an 18 wheeler. I learned at age 60. Have a great Day.
Thanks for sharing. Yep. I can relate. I no longer care what other people think, and I say NO more often. I study what I want and am not focused on my appearance. I have a wild bird sanctuary. I garden, glamp, hike and have a senior dog and cat. My life feels full. I would like to visit Italy and Switzerland. Who knows.. I like the freedom this time in my life has given me.
Yep....I hike , swim. exercise, garden ...glad to wake up every morning! Would like to get to Okinawa and maybe Alaska in 2025. Thanks for sharing.
We are lucky to be the age we are. Older and wiser!
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I’m 60 and have anxiety/PAs. I get the “I’M ALIVE!” mornings. 😁
I have three cats who I love, so much. I’ve had cats since I was in elementary school and these are my last ones. I wouldn’t trade them for world but, when I travel, I worry about them. They are my family.
THANK YOU FOR SHARING! ❤
Thank you!
I turned 70 this summer so I can barely recall how turning 60 felt. I'm blessed to have made it to this point without any real health issues and I'm looking pretty good for my age as are you. I have traveled (Italy, France, England, Spain, Caribbean, Mexico and almost half the states in the USA) and I'd like to go to Greece.
The Greek islands are great. Try Santorini first perhaps.
You have a very positive and inspirational out look - I am going to be 72 but honestly it is only a number because after 2 years of struggle on retirement at 60 about how to live my retirement - I figured it out completely - No living in the past ( I was a hot shot in the company ) - I realised I had 20 years ahead - I play golf very well - learnt Spanish & Italian ( where I also have super lady friends) - Lived in Chicago - Hong Kong & many other countries & travelled extensively - travel each year to Europe in stay in Italy for 2 months - learning the Violin and cycle every day - Learnt how to cook continental food - Read a lot and stick with Nobel prize winners / Man booker - And had a Pace maker implant - which really made life stronger - Watching Ted Talks and other motivational videos on yourtube greatly helped to narrow the focus -since my son ( 37 years ) stays with me - he teaches me AI which is necessary for the baby boomer generation - Glad I was able to get all this off my chest because when others listen to my life style and when I try to motivate them - they feel bad for themselves & say that they are too old now - In short - We can design a Great Lifestyle and watch your health and Travel to different countries as it enriches your life.
68 YO WM and semi-retired physician here. I think about staying relevant, whether it be socially or professionally. I still want to contribute to the greater good. Having a meaningful life matters more to me than traveling all over, though I would like to do some of that, too. Meaning making in what's left of life matters more than having a fancy car, designer clothes, a fancy house, etc., etc.
I couldn't agree more ! Meaning making....beautiful.
I agree!
Thank you for your honesty. I’m 65 and I can relate to everything you said.
Same.
I walked away from the rat race on my 60th birthday suddenly after realizing that lots of yesterdays had gone by and wondered about how many healthy tomorrows were left in my life. The past is history, and the future is a mystery; therefore, I try to live in the present content with what I have. 😊🙏❤
Well said!! Amen
I like sleeping in
My Mom, Dad and two older siblings are all gone. I’m an orphan now. 😢. I think a lot at 65, about loss and being alone.
I know, it's so hard to deal with all of the loss at our age
@ Thank You, 🙏. Very kind of you to reply to my post. 😀
@@lucyloo7457John 14:18 NKJV - “I will not leave you orphans; I will come to you.
Bless your grandmother’s heart - I can see your love for your children and grandchildren especially those of our loved ones who need our special compassion ❤
I lost my mom who was 86 10 years ago when I was 46, this is the worst thing I could ever imagine, and it hurts a lot every day... Love is the most powerful force in the world. But on the other hand I no longer need to worry about dying before her, as I was afraid would happen when I was 26 and was diagnosed with Leukemia. Life is a mix of joy and pain. 😢
I'm 29 and very lost in life. I really appreciate your perspective and wisdom 😊 thank you!
why are you feeling lost?
@deborahp-q3w idk just went through a really tough breakup and I'm pregnant with his baby lol ugh life
Go to CAMINO!
@@yz4043You will have a great life. Focus on having your new baby and give your love to him or her. If that’s all you do right now that will be more than enough and very fulfilling. You will find your way and your life will be full.
''Very lost in life''.
May I suggest TRUTH. PLEASE read John 17:17 (KJV version)
Either the word of the Almighty God is truth, or it is not.
''For MANY are called, but FEW are chosen. Mt.22:14 (KJV)
If you are lost, then you can be found! Our Lord Jesus Christ gave his life for us.
The ball is in YOUR court. What are you going to do my friend???
You could adopt from a shelter that saves older dogs or just from your regular shelter. There are many lovely older dogs that need homes. We have a rescue group here In San Francisco Bay Area that rescues only senior dogs 6 and older. It's called Muttville. You would be saving the life of a dog that is a little older. This is something I encourage you to consider. Senior dogs for senior people
A great suggestion! I can’t imagine living without a dog. There are so many dogs in shelters needing homes. Giving a senior dog a home is so wonderful❤
So important a point. Sr. Dogs and cats are harder to place. What a gift you give to a Sr pet when you select them!
I’m 71 in Fl . I feel 50 or younger. Take 0 meds and have 0 pain. No kids no pets.
You are an attractive lady. Too bad you so far away. I’m a southern gentleman that would love to meet you.
Your videos are your story and I appreciate you sharing.
Do you like her? Go and meet her! American men have no romantic feelings!! Always cold calculations, thinking, planing…… and life is over- money left for distant cousins!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Have a Ball! ❤
😅😅😅😅 men always trying to get a catch
I am so pleased I found you on youtube, your honest, open discussions are refreshing & inspiring! I retired at 66.5 years old, it was a challenge to accept retirement, as many ppl said I looked too young to be a “pensioner” 🥹Initially, turning 60 didn’t faze me, as my health was good however in the last couple of years its been a downhill slide having had 3 ops for arthritis & numerous skin cancers removed, but keeping on top of it with regular check-ups & advances in med science are improving daily. Health is real wealth; I am now living the last chapter of my life & just starting to be happy with acceptance; gratitude & adopting peace, serenity & mindfulness into my outlook on life. I am learning to enjoy my own company along with 6 chihuahuas & cats. I have absolutely no fear of death as I have an understanding that to be out of the body is to be at peace through our Saviour Jesus, to Him & the Father I give all thanks.
If I chose a country to visit it would be to The Holy Lands in Israel, where Jesus once walked.
I live in Australia.
Keep up your great video’s you are an inspiration 🙏
Hi this video made me sad. I AM 61 AND YES WHEN I TURNED 60 I PANICKED OVERNIGHT. 😢 You need to go travel do not be scared it will change your life for the better. The USA is horrible for older people. EUROPE is different there is respect and many thíngs to do. Here we are invisible because there is such a fear of getting old. TH-cam only cares about 20 year olds but We older people need you we need to see we matter and exist out there as well. Do not be sad we are here and we need you.
Hi. not sure where in Europe that would be. In my native country life certainly is NOT good for older people and there is NO respect. I would never go back and live there. Happy to be in a country with many opportunities. and yes, older people can still have careers here in the US, which in Europe is not the case...
and I'm not sure where in Europe you grew up. Maybe it's true that the grass is always greener on the other side. I grew up in the States and after spending a year in my teens in Germany, I always longed to return. But stupidly I waited to my mid thirties to return, but I'm so grateful that I finally did. The only thing I regret is not leaving a decade younger.
Social benefits are so much better in Europe than in America and that's reflected in life expectancies, rates of chronic illnesses, mortality, infant mortality. And the amount of leave time in Europe compared with America is stark. Two weeks vacation after you've worked for a company is punitive. Europeans work to live, but Americans live to work. Great for workaholics, not for anyone else.
America's politics has grown ever more ugly and reactionary since I left in the early 90s. Its laissez-faire gun control laws have grown so extreme that the biggest factor behind infant mortality is guns.
The shopping is great, but the materialistic focus on looking to things and money to provide happiness leaves many feeling empty and their lives pointless.
Maybe that's why so many turn to cults and religious extremism to find meaning in their lives. But it also drives the reactionary, politics and ugly divisions in society.
And for all it's vaunted multiculturalism, America is a very monocultural conformist place. Where differences in lifestyles and life choices are called out and attract censure and suspicion. As a result I feel much less free in America than I do in Europe.
@@simplelife465 I laughed when you wrote that older people in Europe cannot have careers. That's simply ridiculous. I'm from Ireland and have been living in France for the past forty years, returning regularly to Ireland for holidays. The opening poster is correct. Europe is a much easier place to live for older people. I have siblings living in the US (Pennsylvania and Arizona) and there seems to be a gulf of difference in the ways older people are treated. The quality of life is a lot better here in Europe. Plus, there's less chance of being gunned down or succumbing to a tornado!! 😂 I wish you well.
Just stumbled upon your channel. I appreciate your authenticity and sharing your experiences. I too am 61 and single. I had a solution for your dog dilemma. I am an animal lover and cannot imagine myself without some kind of pet but prefer dogs. I’ve thought of all this while making my trust. I’ve talked to my adult kids (all animal lovers) and they know I want my pets to stay with them until they pass when the time comes. They promised me they’d stay in the family. Now, I was thinking November is adopt a senior pet month. There are plenty of senior dogs who need loving homes. You might have one for 1-5 years. That’s my plan anyways. Senior dogs from here on…,Good luck!
Thank you 4 sharing your experience.
You are not " cool" anymore.....but authentic!THAT makes you " cool"!!!❤😊
Wish you all the best.
Hello from Austria/Europe❤❤❤❤❤
I just found your channel and I’m really enjoying it! I can relate to just about everything you’re saying, I’m 66 and I think about exactly the same things that you’re talking about. Thanks for putting it out there. I thought I was the only one that was thinking weird thoughts lol😂
Girl, you need to travel abroad! Let’s go! It’s one of the best things you can do with your time, which is being in awe of some wonderful places out there!
Gosh girl, don't over think it. You are beautiful! Just live life, have fun, and aim to go out with a bang!
I'm 62 and feel better equipped to enjoy life now than I ever have.
Thank you for reassuring me that my thoughts, are quite normal 😅
I'm a guy and stumbled upon your dating video and loved hearing your thoughts, so watched this one as well - You are delightful, thoughtful and funny! Good job.
You look so young and vibrant. I'm approaching 49 in January and can't wait to enter my 50's. Excited for menopause, more gray hair, financial stability and wisdom 🙌 All phases of life are valid, I appreciate you😊
Gray hair is freedom - silver vixen chapter of my life. Menopause is a horrible stage of a woman's life.
The changes in your body feel alien, the decrease of oestrogen gives rise to aches and stiffness.
I'm 54 and going through menopause. I'm looking forward to reaching the other side where menopausal symptoms settle down.
I am 63 and I think about the present day now more so than the future. I do my best to live each day to the fullest! Not reckless, but I live each day as though there is no tomorrow. If I'm blessed and fortunate enough to wake up the next morning I repeat the process responsibly again... Thanks for sharing your perspective and thoughts!😊
Another great video! So love your authenticity and humor! I turn 60 in two wks and it's really hitting me hard (similar to your experience). I've always felt rather young and now seeing 60 is making me reflect on my life, mostly HOW DID IT GO BY THIS FAST? Regarding your question about travel, I would not go to Egypt if you're picking one country. I found Cairo dirty, rundown and felt quite dangerous. I would recommend England for its beauty/history and the fact they speak English makes the experience so much better. Also, Italy (Rome, Venice, Amalfi Coast) for the natural beauty. I've heard Switzerland is breathtaking and clean! I can't thank you enough for these videos, just knowing someone shares my similar experiences/worries/realizations about getting 60+ has REALLY helped me, made me less anxious.
I never ever think about what I look like now or how I’ll look in the future.
I am just glad to be here and I’ve earned every wrinkle!
I love being retired and I wish the days were longer!
I do think about my health though, especially as I just watched my husband die a very painful death from cancer.
Enjoy your good health.😊
60 didn't hit me that hard, but 65 really did. I guess because at that point there was no denying that I was a senior citizen. I am now 67.
I just turned 60 and, yes, it is affecting my mental wellness. I am overwhelmed! I also have a sense of liberation and inspiration.
Hi, My name is Diane and I celebrated 71 this July 2024. I had never been abroad either, and wanted to visit Sweden, where my father's roots are from, but ended up going to England, where my 35 yr old niece lives in Chelmsford, Essex. I was nervous about traveling alone, and it was perfect to have family to stay with.
We walked 7.1 miles in one day in London alone, and many more in Epping Forest, Windsor, Buckingham Palace, Bath, and many other amazing places. There's a ton of Roman ruins all over England, and some castles and cathedrals were built over them.
Anyway, I enjoy and am inspired by your postings, even tho I am now in my 70s!
I just turned 65 and loved hearing your video this morning. I am a Mama of five adult kids and a Mimi to 7! I can certainly relate to everything you talked about!❤️
I always said it’s just a number and it’s all about how you feel until this year when I turned 60. I lost two loved ones the first if the year and then I got shingles which were the worse thing ever to me. I am feeling 60. I never thought I would say that. I have always been active and exercise and walk daily. I still do it but it’s different now. It really makes me sad when I think about it too much. I am a fighter so I keep moving forward and remember to have gratitude on a daily basis! So much more I want to see in life including my 22 year old son and what his life has in store. That keeps me going ! Thanks for sharing! I have 4 cats 😂
Turning 60 in 2 weeks and just found your channel . I resonate with your comment about instantly feeling old . That doesn’t upset me so much but the feelings I’m having are these .. Stop wasting your life .. Stop worrying about things that might never happen … Be happy … Take care of yourself . Don’t waste time .
I’m feeling like it’s my time now to do the things I love and to put myself first .
So, I think my 60’s are going to be great .
Thank you for sharing your thoughts on you tube 🥰
If you want to feel young stop thinking about depressing old people problems. Get out of that house and enjoy life. Think young and you won't feel old. Don't give up. Be cool forever.
Exactly…….the condition of the mind makes the youth or makes on old.
Now this woman is brave to do these videos. You have a nice living room and you have pictures on the walls.
Well old age we can have some concerns. The long term care question hovers over all aged people.
You’ve talked about it do the old age sex video.
thats pretty good indeed
Well, you kind of have to because those things will come and you need to plan for them. Otherwise, when they do suddenly happen, it’ll be even worse. We have to face reality and plan for the future to the best of our abilities. I’m not even any close to being old but I already think about the things she’s talking about in the video, as sickness and death will befall on us all at any age. Thinking about them doesn’t mean you’re feeling old, just makes you more prepared.
I just found your video and I can relate. I’m 69 and married, but I think about a lot of those same thoughts. I recently in the last year and a half have let my hair be gray and it’s really turned out to be a beautiful silver. I still wear it the same as my picture. I really don’t care what people think about it. I like it and that’s all that matters.😊
Thank you for sharing this. I don't feel so odd now. I just turned 60 and share most of the thoughts and feelings that you expressed.
Gosh, you are so pretty, and look like you’re in your 40’s, good for you! I’m 68, and love the freedom of doing whatever the heck I want, it’s a great feeling. God Bless.
@@itsagoal182 I'm sorry? I think the lady is completely natural. And naturally very attractive. Why do you feel the need to attack?
I laughed at your open comment 'I'm Alive' .. I know that 67 yr old feeling very well applies to me, isn't it great to keep a sense of humour in spite of life's all. Thank you for this vlog, I can relate better than watching 'young' people decorating homes for Christmas or renovating - too much wasted energy I say. Keep up the good work. I shall continue to smile & watch 😂
Just came across your channel, you are still beautiful, healthy and mobile and in your mind which is a blessing.A lot of people younger than you hv'nt got that. I am 61 mobility issues and can relate to most of what you have addressed. But for me i intend to travel and make the most of the life i hv got at the moment. I am grateful i lived to see 60 my mum died at 58. So inspite of my everyday aches/pains i am going to still get out on own or with friends and just help whoever i can help, love and be kind to everyone and just enjoy until the end.🌺🌺🌺
I really enjoy listening to you. Thank you
Thank you for your great video. I am 61 years old retired woman and I can relate totally to all you are saying. I definitely now feel a palpable sense of urgency about ticking off those experiences on my bucket list! I have a heightened awareness of the currency of time and how, like £ and $, I can only spend any given minute, hour or day once - just once! So as my “time balance” diminishes, I am now much more discerning about how I fill my days. Wishing you well with thanks for your great shares.
I have forgot about the 60s cause I am 74 !!)) 😂 I don’t feel old I don’t think about it much. I just keep going forward 😊
I'm sure TH-cam is hard. But you seem to be doing great with it! Your channel has been here only about 2 months, you have 6 videos, and you're almost to 2000 subscribers! That's awesome 👍 Be not discouraged!
Thank you, yes, my channel really took off recently
I am from Sweden ❤, i am soon 59 , my kids are Young adult . Life is truly interesting when you take time to sit down and meditate on it! 😊 greetings from me to you ! ❤
You’re alive AND you’re healthy and happy.
Thank you for sharing your personal journey. I admire your courage. Im felt young capable and excited with life until i reached 70. Then i realized and accepted that im old, what for me was possible a mere 5 years earlier, suddenly became unrealistic. You accept your vulnerability and are grateful for what you have achieved in life......
Btw if you ever get to travel ..... Choose Cape Town, South Africa. Beauty scenery food beaches. wine farms unmatched!!!
First world comfort in a natural setting with a rich history......
Enjoy everyday as if it's your last.. 😊.
I am 62, retired. I am ready to roll now more than ever. Let's go, people!! 🎉
I just turned 55 and I already feel like time is running out. I am finally on a good path now but I wish I had figured some things out a lot earlier in my life. Like in my thirties. I was too busy wasting time thinking i was going to live forever.
Insightful and lovely to see your reflections. You're a gorgeous lady, for what it's worth. A refreshing presence on YT.
Turning 75 was high impact for me.
Love this so happy for all your blessings. It’s great to wake up everyday. May GOD continue to bless you sweetie
Recently found this new channel. Quite unique. Also watching Sandra Hart. 64 going on 65 too. Aging has been really hitting hard over the past year. Don’t know who’s looking at me in the mirror anymore 😮most of the concerns expressed in this video are on my mind too. Dealing with depression and related issues over past seven years has kept my focus on daily struggles and survival, it’s like the aging factor has suddenly crept up on me and compounded everything. Totally unprepared for this. And so many ghosts, so many people already gone. Subscribed and will continue watching. Essential and quite helpful. Thank you Holly if you’re reading this 🐴❤
I am 67 I retired in May I’m divorced two grown daughters two son-in-law’s 6 grandchildren 1great grandchild I love my single life I have the house the car and do what and where and when I want I was an army wife a long time I help with grandkids and stay busy parents grandparents and brother have passed I am enjoying your channel very much
I’m enjoying your videos. You’re very natural on camera. I turned 70 a year ago and hitting that decade really stopped me in my tracks. I’ve been divorced 21 years. I love my life. Travel is so much fun. I’ve been to Europe several times and I loved Australia and New Zealand. You should plan a trip! You won’t regret it. I also think about decluttering so my kids won’t have a mess. I think twice about buying anything new.
I will be 63 years old in December. My husband of 41 years died very suddenly and unexpectedly three years ago. Both of my grown children have mental health issues, and my son has addiction issues as well. I am estranged from my daughter. They aren’t capable of taking care of anyone else. I have two dogs that are great company. I am really enjoying your outlook on life. I have never been outside the country (except for Canada) either. My sister works for an airline and travels abroad often. Her favorite destination is Amsterdam.
mental health issues? MLK gave a speech about being proud to be maladjusted to a sick society. Erich Fromm and Gabor Mate also have written about capitalism's effect on psychology.
@ My son has bipolar disorder and addiction issues. He is probably going to lose his job because he’s currently experiencing an episode of psychosis. My daughter has been diagnosed with having “traits of” borderline personality disorder. It’s a very difficult life for them. Your comment is flippant.
❤ I just started watching your videos today and I got to say you’re the best 64-year-old woman I’ve ever seen me being 60
And I have to compliment you on your content, I like mature material and so real!😊
Alive, extremely beautiful and energetic....
You seem like a very kind nice person not trying to impress anyone. Very down to earth. I wish I had a friend like you, a neighbor even. I’m in California & I’ve lived here my whole life and I’m hating it here. Cost of living has exploded & I stupidly took an early retirement & regretting it to say the least. Subbed.
Very cheap to live in West VA. Check out some towns like Morgan Town and Huntington and others… I am in Florida and in a similar situation as you. Mobile Alabama also has some great prices and very nice ones on homes. Good luck to you!
dont come to south carolina everybody else is here now. causing crisis with our state. i want out now
I’m really enjoying your videos. Just found them yesterday. So authentic, intelligent and relaxed. Like chatting with a friend. I’m 63 and definitely agree with the online dating video. With a lot of losses and living on a budget, I find loneliness is my biggest concern at this point. As well as deciding where I want to live. Thank you for your enlightening videos. Also learned a lot from the video about aging men and women. Found it to be encouraging.
Hi, I am 65 and having the same concerns. You are not alone.
I'm a new subscriber and love your content. I'll be 58 next month and I can relate to each point you shared in this video. You look fantastic by the way!
I'm 69 and retired 12 years now. My wife of 38 years retires soon. I don't think about death and dying. I've thought about it and acknowledged it and I have a plan to do all that I can during the next 5 years. Adventure and travel and new experiences have been part of my life for some time, and now that my wife is joining me in retirement, we're going to go full throttle. My strategy? My home is where I will visit. I'm going to live everywhere else.
That sounds amazing! Best of luck in your travels!
Norway was fantastic! Also went up to Svalbard. What a treat
I watch a TH-cam channel on Svalbard, it looks so interesting!
what an honest open video about aging and the way a lot of older people feel.
In two weeks I'll be 76. I am retired enlisted USAF and have seen Asia, Europe, etc. I enjoyed a brief tourist visit in Greece. I like ancient sites. (Delphi was impressive.) - You are quite a nice lady. I have subscribed and enjoyed the two videos of yours that I have just watched. - I am Mark in AZ. Now you know. 8)
Love hearing your perspective! I am 30
Same! I'm 29
Such wonderful questions you ask that we couldn’t fathom 40 years ago, really or even 10. I am 77. Yesterday I was 64. Yes, it goes that fast. I buried my wife of over 50 years three years ago. But I am here to say that it has forced me to reavers and reinvent. Not so bad if you look at it the right way. Yes, it may be the last chapter, but it is also a new chapter. I have all the time and money that I always longed for. Now I just need to find someone who wants to share it with me making headway on that. Boy have things changed out there in the last 55 years. WOW!
I'm so sorry for your loss. Your attitude is amazing and I wish you all the best in this new chapter.
I totally relate to this. I’m 62 and I think of all those things you listed. I lost my mother when I was 60 and that really made me start facing my own mortality as she was only 80. You start to think, how long do I have left?? 😢
@Becoming Me: You are very beautiful and have an amazing sense of humor! .. You make me laugh out loud because you are speaking about all the things we all think about now that we have reached this amazing older age. I'm 73 now but I'm happy with my looks. My Mom died this past June at the age of 97. I sure hope that I get to live as long as she did with all my marbles and still continue to dance up a storm!! 🥰. .. You are really funny!! .. Oh what a sweet cat!! .. The black and white one looks like my Georgie!!.. My goodness, your thoughts absolutely mirrors our thoughts! .. However, I have learned not to think too much about things I cannot change or have any control over!! .. I try to just float on like that song!! .. Again, absolutely and unequivocally love your channel!! .. You are awesome young lady! .. Continue to always enjoy your blessed life with your beautiful grandsons and pretty cats!! ❤❤❤
Thank you so much!
Time is a gift! I find myself very conscious about the fleeting days now that I turned 76 last July! I know nothing promised to us for the future, no one knows what it’ll entail! So I live each day not thinking about the WHAT IFS to scare myself but instead I tried to live the way I possibly can to be joyful and do what I can and count my blessings at days end each evening! Truly Happy to see another daylight when I awake, “Thank you for another day! Thank you my beautiful healthy body to carry me through in this season of my life!” My mantra daily in the morning! 🎉❤
I think about the same things. I feel sad that I will grow old alone. I wonder who will take care of me if I need help when older. I wonder how will I die. I worry that I will die alone
I am the same age! I didn't think about any of this CRAP until my husband died suddenly 3 years ago. Then I was obsessed with time running out to do all sorts of things. My new mantra became, "What's to become of me?" But now that I am finding myself and also feeling pretty good about myself, I am not worrying about things that I cannot control. My sweet mom whom i cared for died a year after my hubby. I remember the day or so before she died she confided in me that she looked in the mirror and did not recognize the woman staring back. She was dismayed. And then she died. But she was 94!
Interesting questions you are posing, for sure. I'm 74 and didn't have that "I'm not immortal" wake up call until I turned 72. Up until then I just felt the same way I've felt forever. I've never experienced tragedies or poor health to bring that awaking sooner. But since 72 I'm comforted that we are in good company. We will all move on to another dimension at some point and if we are lucky, it will be a peaceful transition. There are times now when I think it can't be too soon because of the state of humanity and our neglect to our precious earth. Once we are gone, all of us, this earth can heal and recover from the abuse we inflicted on it for centuries. Why are we here in the first place? Who knows! An interesting experiment gone wrong, it seems, as we don't learn from history or our mistakes. This may seem morbid, but afterall, it's definitely in line with your topic. I enjoy conversations with you! Keep your chin up!
Becoming 60 really changes our way of viewing life, but the spirit never ages, I’ve moved to Egypt alone at 56 to start a new chapter of my life, got a job and rent a house, did new friends, but I continue singing, playing guitar, and recording music videos on Instagram, I’m 60 now but never think about my age to do things that I want, life is present to enjoy the way we want!
Great to hear about your life style - We are all entitled to having a great 60+ life - there is so much we can do because we have plenty of free time - Egypt is exciting & soaked in history - the host of this video is attractive and honest and really glad to read the comments of the many 60+ I visited Egypt - Greece & Italy - the cradle of civilization - And enjoy every moment you have
You are a delightful person!
Thank you for sharing! 😊
My comment comes late but here’s my answer. Yes, when I turned 60 things changed dramatically. I’m 68 now & looked great all the way through my 50’s. What happened was my spine. I’d had an emergency cervical surgery when I was 36 & that worked out thankfully. Then degenerative disk disease, spinal stenosis & herniated disks happened in my 60’s. Another cervical surgery 3 years ago & I had a laminectomy with fusion on my lower spine scheduled for a year ago that I cancelled due to fear. I have been fortunate in my life to have traveled pretty extensively. My advice to you is to take those trips as your health is still good & you never know how long you’ll be in good health. Maybe until you’re in your 80’s & beyond but it’s never promised. Australia was one of my favorite places. London is beautiful at Christmastime. If you’re into weird stuff like myself, take the Ripper tour. The guides make it such fun and educational. Of course the islands of the Caribbean are so gorgeous. I’m alone like yourself and I like it that way. I don’t date, haven’t in a long time and I have no plans to start. I’m perfectly happy on my own. So yeah, take a trip. See some of the world. Make some wonderful memories. And by the way, where’d you get your fabulous couch? ~Bonnie
Hello from Stockholm, Sweden. Born and raised. 👋🏻
When I turned 60, I kept a birthday card, that had a big "60" on the cover, on my desk for the entire year so I could really absorb turning 60. It worked! I turn 65 this December (29th) too. I think I stopped "caring" as you say sometime in my 50s...hard to say. I have had several deaths in the family this past year including my wife's passing 4 months ago. Since then, I have been making sure all my affairs are in order so my passing is as easy as possible for my kids. My thoughts lately have mostly been getting used to the label of widower.
Thank you for sharing, I'm so sorry for your loss.
I am 65 and my husband left me when I was 61 so that is when I really felt old. It didn’t help that he was so much younger -15 years. I think about never getting to the places that I wanted to. I have traveled through the United States and been on some cruises and to Great Britain, but I always wanted to go to France, Germany, Italy, Greece. So many places it would be hard to pick one. So that makes me sad to think I might not get to travel. I got a little kitten a few months ago. It’s the best,I wish I had done it when my husband first left me. My friend said you live longer if you have an animal to take care of so that sold me.
You have a minimum 20 years left. For 65 you look awesome.
No one has a minimum of 20 years left. You could die tomorrow.
"for 65"?! She looks awesome FULL STOP! there is no "for" anything! 😃 no qualifiers needed. I am so grateful to keep discovering amazing inspiring women that make me look to the future with excitement- we are not counting down to the end of anything, we are counting up toward our grand finale!!
Oh my gosh, I just found your channel and I am so glad I did! 😊
I can feel the love and concern for your grandchildren and that special love! Let this be your motivation to take THE best care of yourself mentally, physically and emotionally ❤️ We are all in this together and trying to figure it out. Love to you and yours! I’m 60 and an empty nester. My children are in the establishing their career mode. I so want grandchildren! Like yesterday! You’re so Blessed ❤ Stay young and think it! Take the best care of you! 😊
64 here - truly inspirational channel - helping me through a tough time.
So interesting that your channel was presented to me because I’m still a ways away from 60, but I’ve enjoyed listening to you so much! I lost my mom almost 2 years ago and I miss her wisdom and perspective. And I miss her stories! You are so enjoyable! Please keep sharing your life experiences and your thoughts/feelings with us! I’m delighted to know that you also have a Shih Tzu! Our family adopted a one-eyed Shih Tzu rescue dog when my mom fell ill to help bring some joy into our lives and this little dog did not disappoint (I started a channel about our journey with her!). I hope you take a trip abroad! South of France might be nice?! ☕🥖🌅
That sound lovely! My Shih Tzu before the one I have now also had one eye. Sadly, eye issues seem to be a trait of the breed
I am
turning 59 and Still working with small kids feeling young ang optimistic in life. The secret of staying young is happiness in everything you do. have fun with good people.
My plan is to keep on taking care of myself until it's time for me to choose my nursing home. I will not allow my children to take care of me. I spend very little time thinking about my death. I consider that a hugh waste of time and is very low vibration. We are here to enjoy life, learn lessons and experience joy. Love and Light to everyone ❤😊
So refreshing. I can relate. Thank you for putting these topics out there.
I'm 84, I'm just beginning to think about these things you have mentioned. I'm still mowing my lawn and doing the all the things I've been doing, except my kids have told me not to get up on the roof any more. I do, NOW, notice when people speak to fast.
My processing speed has deminished.
I won’t forget 60 as that was when my marriage ended. Seven years have gone by way too fast. Planning a trip to Australia soon, a trip I was going to make in my twenties, but got derailed.
Sweden sounds like a good choice. I have ancestry there as well, also Denmark. Hope to make that trip too. It’s all good.
I try to do something new every day, because the clock is ticking.
I really enjoy your videos! This was a great topic
I am so pleased I found your channel that showed up in my algorithms (spelling?) I live very similarly with your same thoughts about life and happy, single at 66; grateful to have great health and to be able to hopefully grow into old age as long as possible to see my beautiful sons and especially my grandchildren grow older and watch them evolve into adults. I thankfully have great genes on mother's side. Her mom lived to be one month shy of 103 and my Mom is in her early 90's and has a fiesty energy like her Mom (my grandmother) did. 😁
When I lost my husband to covid at only 58, that changed a hell of a lot. I'm 60, and not having him here is like I'm living in another world. I have a small channel, I just started doing videos on my ghost towns around my area, etc. It's going to be a journey! I'm healthy as a horse so I'm grateful. I don't want to go slowly, make it quick, then one day I'll see my Chris again. I also have an only son, 26. I'm sure he's why I'm still here. He can't afford to be on his own. I'm planning to never remarry. Oh and ice never been out of the States either, maybe Scotland where my family is from.
Im 62, soon to turn 63...I don't think about death that much. Actually, very rare do I think life is short...I take each day as it comes and I do not over think...Im an in the moment person and there's so much to do...🎼🎵😎
Hello Ms Becoming, first time to your channel. Thank you for being brave enough to share your thoughts and experiences. Well, I'm soon to be 69 and find your conversations and questions interesting. I never thought I'd be in this stage of 'the game'. I'm recently retired and it wasn't till I entered retirement that I gave much thought to my 'later days'. Well, here I am and been pondering most of the questions you've raised. And I think these are all indicators of healthy processing. Stay strong girl and talk again. Blessing to you. bw
Don’t know how I came across your video. I am 64, but I am not focusing on that as its just a number at this point in life. Boy, do I hear ya on cool! I will be interested to follow you. I am alone with my 2 dogs. Lived all over the world and experienced a lot, so it take so much to get me Jazzed. Name is Ron and will follow ya, maybe it will help me. Thanks