They mess with each other. I don’t t ink u understand the cons of being out. Most men can’t handle the the negativity. Some men don’t like men men publicly flirt with them either. So being downlow fits their personality
Facts, the main reason I'm DL is cuz I will be automatically forced to be friends with only the open men, which tend to be fem, I don't relate to feminine men, I only relate to str8 and masculine guys. I got a whole bf and we both masculine on the low
I can be friends with a fem guy. He just has to respect my lifestyle and not try to make it an assignment to make me gay like him. Some out gay men don’t care about people outside of sexual stimulation. they will risk the friendship and flirt and touch on you in public in hopes someone in public will see it and want to hit on them. I prefer someone who isn’t sex crazy, who doesn’t have an agenda to turn a man into the same exact gay like them and doesn’t want to show weakness or flirting in public cos that brings all types of negativity. People will try you if they know your gay even if they know u can beat them up. Married DL men are protected socially by their wives and children. It’s like a shield. DL men with no wife or kids don’t have that.
They mess with each other. I don’t t ink u understand the cons of being out. Most men can’t handle the the negativity. Some men don’t like men men publicly flirt with them either. So being downlow fits their personality
Facts, the main reason I'm DL is cuz I will be automatically forced to be friends with only the open men, which tend to be fem, I don't relate to feminine men, I only relate to str8 and masculine guys. I got a whole bf and we both masculine on the low
The cons of being out are more heavy than the cons of being discreet/DL
You don't have to be friends with anyone that you don't want to be friends with lol.plenty of out gay men are masculine btw.
I can be friends with a fem guy. He just has to respect my lifestyle and not try to make it an assignment to make me gay like him. Some out gay men don’t care about people outside of sexual stimulation. they will risk the friendship and flirt and touch on you in public in hopes someone in public will see it and want to hit on them. I prefer someone who isn’t sex crazy, who doesn’t have an agenda to turn a man into the same exact gay like them and doesn’t want to show weakness or flirting in public cos that brings all types of negativity. People will try you if they know your gay even if they know u can beat them up. Married DL men are protected socially by their wives and children. It’s like a shield. DL men with no wife or kids don’t have that.
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