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Stop wasting time. Just put in your order and pay for it. If there is one thing western men understand is that everyone has their price. It is a simple exchange of cash and services regardless where you live. LDR is for unintelligent losers.
Actually it's very easy to establish weather or not any girl is worth your time . If she looks at her phone once while you're talking to her she already a lost cause.
I lived in Asia for 17 years guys many of those in Manila, Makati and Quezon City, before BGC was built. Enjoyed Subic Bay and Clark Field in the 70s. When it comes to Filipinas RENT DONT BUY. you don't want to be an ATM for her family and her boyfriend.
Oh yes, I remember being stationed in Subic Bay at the Naval Hospital for 3 years. Also, I remember spending time in Clark Airforce base. I agree rent don't buy !
I LOVE your blunt honesty and "let's keep it real" attitude! Seen many You tube videos on the dangers of dealing with filipinas (I married one here in the US) and you are BY FAR the best at cutting to the chase and disabusing male simps ( I was one) of the games Pinays play. Very few of the women there will be as honest as you are (excluding Filipina Pea). You earned yourself a subscriber!
This could have been a 30 second video saying “in the Philippines you will meet women every time you walk outside. Don’t use online dating. Say hello to 5 different girls, and you will get 5 different new women in your contacts to go out with.” Don’t use online dating, especially if you don’t live there or are not there. It’s so easy and you have so many options you are settling for the mindset of a life of scarcity, rather than a life of abundance.
It's not easy for everyone to come up and get to know each other. I've never had a relationship because I'm afraid to get to know each other even online. 😢
THE BABY NEEDS... AUNT IN HOSPITAL NEEDS... UNCLE SICK NEED$... OTHER AUNT PREGGY NEED$.... THE WHOLE FAMILIA COMING WITH HAND OUT FOR HAND OUT??? POINTLE$$ WASTE OF $$$$
@@Dima-n4d7rthis is why you will fail. The people that are remembered and respected are the ones that aren’t living life scared of people. Take a risk and change your life? What is the worst that can happen? They say they have a boyfriend?? Come on, are you 10 years old?
@@A-xp6mywhat did you do so bad and illegal when you go up and say “hello, what’s your name?” To a girl that she legit screams and calls the police? Are you climbing in her bedroom window at night? Dude, what is wrong with you, genuinely asking cause this is not a normal situation or something that happens.
Guys, stop getting serious with any woman anywhere. She's not yours it's just your turn (even if she's a rental). She has to worship the ground you walk on and find a hundred ways to prove her love and loyalty before you consider the option of getting serious (have a backup plan just in case..). If you find the ONE, it's a blessing.
I actually got around this problem for a short time by just hiring someone cheaply in Manila to do all my messaging on the dating apps and fill my diary with dates with instructions to put 3 women in each of my available time slots (since I know most women who agree to show up won't actually show up) The results were that for each time slot either 0 or 1 women would actually show up (very occasionally 2) and never ... not once ... did all 3 women show. They guy that I hired eventually quit though because he got so frustrated with all the no show filipinas even though he was filipino lol.
Let's be honest. Most guys leave their home country because they're not doing well with the women there. So they'll be mad at the women, call them non-traditional, say they've been tainted by the internet and online dating, and head to the Philippines or Thailand thinking they're going to be in high demand and pull women left and right. If you can't pull quality women in your home country, you won't overseas either. And women in the Philippines and Thailand all have access to the same dating apps, social media sites. They watch the Kardashian's and the same reality TV the women in your home country do. Just keep your expectations low because again if you're not doing well with the women in your home country, it will be a lot of the same overseas. The women in Asia who come from very affluent families and have money typically don't want a foreigner. Good luck boys, it's the same all over the world. Travel for yourself! Travel to see new places, eat new foods, and just grow. Don't travel for the soul intention of meeting women; if you do that, you'll most likely be disappointed.
The best video I have ever listen to ! I am impressed . I even contacted a real estate agent . Was working with her to find a condo in Cebu . She told me she started a job online . Then she told me she could not start the job without a laptop, I can say for sure 93 percent of contacts online are a scam . Just like in the US guys forget online . Just go and meet them like you would a girl in the Us.
Well Irish, this is the first time I have seen your channel. I like your direct and no nonsense approach. And it's a bit humorous too. Thanks. Your channel is appreciated.
Never seen you before. Love your channel. Of course everything you say applies to me only as an afterthought because (1) I already married a Filipina; (2) married 13 years; (3) finally divorced her because she became too hard-headed to control or trust. I don't regret meeting her or marrying her or divorcing her. Each decision was the very best decision I could make at the time. I'm just happy I survived. I'm now old, live alone, but happy with peace of mind and mostly fond memories. I will try to catch your channel again. GOOD LUCK! :)
There is a big difference between dating and finding a good one. It is about 100X easier to date in phillipines than in USA. If you are from rich western country there will be many filipinas that will want to date you. Why because you make about 10X more income that the majority of the local filipinos. All women want men with resources. The difficult part is finding a good one to marry and establish a long term relationship with. Women in phillipines are almost as fucked up in the head as the women in the west.
Now I understand why you're call the smart girl. You just hit the nail right on the head. You are a million times correct,and it takes a smart man to analyze and realize what you are saying is so true, keep up the good work.
Good advice for guys looking for a Filipina here in the Philippines. I didn't have to do that. I found mine 22 years ago in Canada. She was an OFW contract Caregiver and I also worked in health care. Our paths crossed and the rest became history. Now, 22 years later, we are fully retired here in Davao and go back to Canada for holidays.
It's called opportunity cost. It's a logical argument. Be strategic. Filipinas are beautiful and in general are very modest, traditional ladies. But the challenge I had with them (online and in real-life), their education was very low. Even the ones that had graduated from University had very little to non existent world-knowledge. I get it, they don't travel due to very little opportunities. In my time there, I can't recall ever meeting one that would meet the requirements to call her intellectual. Some will ask me if only stayed in the provinces... no, i travelled around and also met a few from Manila and Cebu (the big IT centers). I met several men who had pinoy gf or wives and they always said the same thing: the ladies are good, but they have to be directed to almost everything. Certainly there will be exceptions--but that's what they are, exceptional and rare. IF you found one, hang on to her. If you have high standards for a lady, in PH you either lower them or move on to other countries. Best of luck to everyone out there.
"... she said I love you no sh*t, buy me air conditioned Honda... buy me color TV... buy me electric stove..." As a Marine, I spent time in the PI - Olongapo City - years ago. Most Filipinas were looking for a ticket "across the pond to the land of the big PX." I also witnessed how many of them behaved in the states after they got married to some guy who fell for the "true love." You can take the "bar girl" - euphemism for hooker - out of the bar, but you can't take the bar out of the "bar girl." With that being said, there were also honest Filipinas who were simply looking to improve their lot and they were serious in their relationships. All of the same things - both good and bad - can be said about American women (not that all American men are upstanding trustworthy, loyal, helpful, etc. Eagle Scouts).
😏 LOL similar experience in my home country de Nicaragua, I dont think theres really any way to do it smart tho, like u say they are all playing and hustling, the only way to do it smart is not to have that time constraint and be in country for 6 months to a year or more, but just two weeks i wouldnt waste my time, for two weeks only i would be only looking at freelancers and professionals and pay to play.
Round trip airfare from New York $1,500. 2 weeks hotel @ $100 a night $1,500. Hilton Pattaya for example is $215 a night. So the 6 grand is down to 3. Food budget $30 a day about $450. Down to $2,500 before a single drink or date. Sure you could stay in a flea bag hotel for $20 a night thats $300. Money goes fast on vacation.
Very entertaining and informative, and yes I recognise a lot of what you’re saying, in fact I’ve met a lot of timewasters over the years through not being switched on about the various motives they had which I wasn’t aware of initially. I have over 2000 blocked accounts from internet dating also over the last few years. The odds you talk about seem accurate to me.
This was uniquely presented and well received. Great useful analogy, and also a lot of truth serum. The dating environment is exhausting...I think it's better to approach it with no expectations. That way you take more pressure off yourself. Just focus, indulge and appreciate the experience. Enjoy the ride! Whatever is meant to be, will be. I think everyone should stop accepting seasonal relationshhips as lifetime commitments.
I met mine future wife trough a friend. Never thought I would end up in Asia. I stopped dating Western girls long time ago. Two much hassle for left over women that are never satisfied and have more hidden history than the Tartarian empire!
Let me say I have been watching a lot of videos about the Philippine but I never left a comment maybe a lot of time if I like it, I will give thumbs up but for you, I will because you sound like you were speaking from the heart and I believed everything I heard from you. I just wanted to say thank you for the advice. I will take it to the bank.
$10k for a 2 week Philippines vacation?!? Umm ... no haha. Hotel around $700-800 for a standard hotel, airfare is $800. Food is $200 unless you are dining at fancy restaurants. That is $1800 at most + entertainment expenses and cost of taxis or Grab. I'm in Manila right now and will be spending 3 weeks total in Philippines for far far less than $10,000. But she is right, just get outside and be social and smile and show a nice personality and you will have success. Only problem is weather here in Manila is not good during my stay. Oh well lots of malls in BGC!
You have to be truly retarded to spend that much in Philippines, I have been there multiple times in Airbnb's and never spent more than $500 TOTAL per week
Thanks for all you do Smart Girl. I spent September in Cebu and Bohol. Quickly learned how to use the dating apps without wasting a bunch of time. Met some sweet respectful ladies. Already planning a return trip.
Funny how spot on your numbers were! I kind of geek out on numbers and just re-examined and decided on 14 days in the Philippines today. 100k is about my income, at the moment, too. The cost to visit sounds high, though… and most guys with vacation time are still getting at least some of their pay while gone, so the opportunity cost isn’t that bad as an employee or entrepreneur, but maybe as a purely contract worker. 6k to stay, though… I would think more like 4k including a 2k ticket.. hope I’m not that far off! Probably won’t be visiting any bars, though.. I think that would be a waste all-around. Cebu, then some provinces. Can’t wait!
Hey Cutie. Us white guys love Filipinas but those of us who are "educated" about the Filipino scene have to bail out of potential relationship. I speak from watching a wonderful Filipina of 25 years married to my best buddy. Every time the two of them go back to the Philippines my American buddy has to pay her relatives bribes of $10,000 to $14,000 to fulfill her relatives requests for money. No thanks Cutie - I can do without that.
Have to disagree on that one. If they drink they're generally easier to get into bed. Champagne works magic on women. If they also smoke, have tattoos and lots of rings on their fingers, piercings etc it's a dead cert. We're talking about one night stands here, not a wife or gf.
My advise after 6 years on Leyte. Rent a house or apartment. Go shopping for food, meds, and clothes at used clothing stores. Say nothing about wanting a girlfriend. You will get ask daily if you have a wife. Stay away from bars. Take your time, two weeks here is not long enough. Get ready to hear a lot of lies. Hiring a maid or ya ya will expose you to all her available friends.
just like a car, YOU CAN ALWAYS TRADE UP FOR A NEWER MORE SPORTY MODEL ! i did that for most of my life, mostly got a newer less used up model. if the newer model happens to be friends with the older model and lives right next door, you find out they are both lemons ! back in the early 1990's when i was writing the former soviet union girls, people always claimed that they would leave me once they got to america, my reply was ALWAYS " IF SHE LEAVES, ILL JUST GET ME A NEWER MODEL"!!! i use to NOT CARE if the woman wanted to exit stage left after they really got to know me. MY STEP DAD married the same woman 3 times, she divorced him every time! and she took every thing each and every time!!! he always said that it didnt matter as he was always going to buy newer and better things, than those she took!!!
Pogi Kalbo is here!!! I have had an ex, a Filipina before, from Pampanga, we were engaged, it didn't work out due to a lot, but she's back in the Philippines now I believe. Either way, I been on CF and constantly I am on there getting notifications after notifications daily. There's a 12 hour difference too
Dude, what are you doing on a dating site for women that are 6,000 miles from you! That is crazy! Just fly there. You don’t even need a visa. What an absolute waste of time. I’m assuming you never even met the one “ex” you had. Just a pen pal you sent money to yeah?
@@A-xp6mythis comment here shows you have 100% for sure never been to the Philippines. Even the 70 year old creepy and obese guys that haven’t showered in a week still have 25 year old women by their side. Rather than try to sound intelligent online, why not buy a $500 ticket to the Philippines and change your life. 100’s of guys 🤣 you are absolutely full of it man. Only reason a guy is single in the Philippines is cause he wants to be
When i do go to the Philippines for a wife, I'm going to make sure that she's spiritually inclined ( a heart for God ) that would be certainly worth my time 😊
You are so correct... I needed to travel to the Philippines 3 times each time for was a month each chatted with over 50,000 Filipinas 1 had a live in partner she was hiding another 1 was just running a real-estate scam and had a boyfriend hidden another one was doing things with a guy that lived beside her another 1 had a live in girlfriend partner claiming it was her sister. I have to say I experienced all the games. But there is good Filipinas very few but some i finally found 1 and we married last year and she is definitely not like 98% of the others
It's not as costly as you put it. I paid 1400 cad for a ticket from Toronto to Manila. Not direct flight, but I did not care. Airbnb was 250 cad per week in Makati Manila in a luxury condo with pool on the roof top. Food was not expensive either. You can eat well for much less than in the west. I'm handsome and in top shape. Never had a problem attracting interest even in the west, but in the Philippines it's even more. No need for bars.
Bet. I fit the same description. I am leaving New Orleans in a few weeks, heading to Manila, and staying in Makati. I was curious as to how they felt towards muscular guys? I don't online date or use social media, so I'll be moving around how I usually move state side. I haven't heard much from any of these content creators about built men..it's obvious they like the "dad bods."
I bought a book of island ladies from frank in California, called pacific Island connection. I found a girl went to meet her and married her. Still married and it's been 24 years. Philippine ladies speak English and that's a big help.
Personally, I think it's better to go abroad to relax and unwind, not chase women, and if you happen to meet one then awesome. If not, whatever; you enjoyed a few weeks or months in a place with a better climate and cheaper cost of living than home. Mindset is very important. Women are accessories in a man's life, to make it better than it already is, not some magical cure for depression and loneliness.
When I was stationed in the Philippines, my buddy was dating this Filipina who was pretty jealous and convinced he was cheating on her. I don't actually think he was but honestly don't know for sure. Where we were there were pretty frequent power outages. The two of them were in a bar hanging out. She waited for a power outage and then broke her beer bottle on the counter and slashed him across the chest with it. Don't mess with a Filipina. I was on guard duty that night and so I saw the wounds when he came back to our ship. Pretty serious stuff. I'm sure he has large scars to this day. At least she didn't slash his face.
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Stop wasting time. Just put in your order and pay for it. If there is one thing western men understand is that everyone has their price. It is a simple exchange of cash and services regardless where you live. LDR is for unintelligent losers.
Talk dirty to me Smart Girl and teach me about opportunity cost. Time well spent. It's always good to keep it real and keep your eye on the ball.
I feel educated now 😅.
Most WOMEN aren't worth your time.
Most humans are bored, running away from life rather than growing within it.
@@lui2271 lol
Facts
That's your opinion which many would not agree with
But still, living with a good woman is a thousand times better then being alone. The key is finding the good ones and skip the trash.
Most Filipinas in the Philippines always have a backup plan. You're never the only one. They will switch you out in a heartbeat. Remember that!
That's mostly all women from all countries bro
Actually it's very easy to establish weather or not any girl is worth your time . If she looks at her phone once while you're talking to her she already a lost cause.
Correct but she can look at who is calling her.
@@kepcontube whether *
Exactly! Just get up, turn around and walk away
I lived in Asia for 17 years guys many of those in Manila, Makati and Quezon City, before BGC was built. Enjoyed Subic Bay and Clark Field in the 70s. When it comes to Filipinas RENT DONT BUY. you don't want to be an ATM for her family and her boyfriend.
Oh yes, I remember being stationed in Subic Bay at the Naval Hospital for 3 years. Also, I remember spending time in Clark Airforce base. I agree rent don't buy !
Like everything else substantial in the Philippines! Rent, never buy. Especially tacos.
As an expat in the Philippines, I network and meet high quality women through my Filipino friends and church community. 👍
I LOVE your blunt honesty and "let's keep it real" attitude! Seen many You tube videos on the dangers of dealing with filipinas (I married one here in the US) and you are BY FAR the best at cutting to the chase and disabusing male simps ( I was one) of the games Pinays play. Very few of the women there will be as honest as you are (excluding Filipina Pea). You earned yourself a subscriber!
This could have been a 30 second video saying “in the Philippines you will meet women every time you walk outside. Don’t use online dating. Say hello to 5 different girls, and you will get 5 different new women in your contacts to go out with.”
Don’t use online dating, especially if you don’t live there or are not there. It’s so easy and you have so many options you are settling for the mindset of a life of scarcity, rather than a life of abundance.
It's not easy for everyone to come up and get to know each other. I've never had a relationship because I'm afraid to get to know each other even online. 😢
If she'll start screaming and run away calling police then try it in a bigger city.
THE BABY NEEDS... AUNT IN HOSPITAL NEEDS... UNCLE SICK NEED$... OTHER AUNT PREGGY NEED$.... THE WHOLE FAMILIA COMING WITH HAND OUT FOR HAND OUT??? POINTLE$$ WASTE OF $$$$
@@Dima-n4d7rthis is why you will fail. The people that are remembered and respected are the ones that aren’t living life scared of people. Take a risk and change your life? What is the worst that can happen? They say they have a boyfriend?? Come on, are you 10 years old?
@@A-xp6mywhat did you do so bad and illegal when you go up and say “hello, what’s your name?” To a girl that she legit screams and calls the police? Are you climbing in her bedroom window at night? Dude, what is wrong with you, genuinely asking cause this is not a normal situation or something that happens.
Guys, stop getting serious with any woman anywhere. She's not yours it's just your turn (even if she's a rental). She has to worship the ground you walk on and find a hundred ways to prove her love and loyalty before you consider the option of getting serious (have a backup plan just in case..). If you find the ONE, it's a blessing.
Best advice I have heard on the internet..Thanks for the Honesty
I actually got around this problem for a short time by just hiring someone cheaply in Manila to do all my messaging on the dating apps and fill my diary with dates with instructions to put 3 women in each of my available time slots (since I know most women who agree to show up won't actually show up)
The results were that for each time slot either 0 or 1 women would actually show up (very occasionally 2) and never ... not once ... did all 3 women show.
They guy that I hired eventually quit though because he got so frustrated with all the no show filipinas even though he was filipino lol.
genius 😂
I am an old man now but in my day I went to the wet markets. Most were in plain cloths and no makeup. I never met a woman at a mall.
now they're in the malls with Gucci bags and Lacoste watches.
@@garyzies3486yeah avoid those ones
Ever since you took over the hosting duties for this channel, the advice has been breathtakingly helpful and wayyyyyy better!
Let's be honest. Most guys leave their home country because they're not doing well with the women there. So they'll be mad at the women, call them non-traditional, say they've been tainted by the internet and online dating, and head to the Philippines or Thailand thinking they're going to be in high demand and pull women left and right. If you can't pull quality women in your home country, you won't overseas either. And women in the Philippines and Thailand all have access to the same dating apps, social media sites. They watch the Kardashian's and the same reality TV the women in your home country do. Just keep your expectations low because again if you're not doing well with the women in your home country, it will be a lot of the same overseas. The women in Asia who come from very affluent families and have money typically don't want a foreigner. Good luck boys, it's the same all over the world. Travel for yourself! Travel to see new places, eat new foods, and just grow. Don't travel for the soul intention of meeting women; if you do that, you'll most likely be disappointed.
The best video I have ever listen to ! I am impressed . I even contacted a real estate agent . Was working with her to find a condo in Cebu . She told me she started a job online . Then she told me she could not start the job without a laptop, I can say for sure 93 percent of contacts online are a scam . Just like in the US guys forget online . Just go and meet them like you would a girl in the Us.
You're absolutely right. I found the first year of dating Filipinas they are a complete waste of time.
Well Irish, this is the first time I have seen your channel. I like your direct and no nonsense approach. And it's a bit humorous too. Thanks. Your channel is appreciated.
Never seen you before. Love your channel. Of course everything you say applies to me only as an afterthought because (1) I already married a Filipina; (2) married 13 years; (3) finally divorced her because she became too hard-headed to control or trust. I don't regret meeting her or marrying her or divorcing her. Each decision was the very best decision I could make at the time. I'm just happy I survived. I'm now old, live alone, but happy with peace of mind and mostly fond memories. I will try to catch your channel again. GOOD LUCK! :)
What was the the age gap.... between you and your ex-wife?
I wouldn't want to control my woman and I shouldn't have to but trust yes that is a must. With out trust there is no relationship period
Dating is much harder in the Philippines than vloggers make it out to be.
There is a big difference between dating and finding a good one. It is about 100X easier to date in phillipines than in USA. If you are from rich western country there will be many filipinas that will want to date you. Why because you make about 10X more income that the majority of the local filipinos. All women want men with resources. The difficult part is finding a good one to marry and establish a long term relationship with. Women in phillipines are almost as fucked up in the head as the women in the west.
many vloggers are here to entertain and make money by selling illusions to gullible and lonely men.
It can be hard no matter what country someone is from or in
If you aren’t attractive, you aren’t attractive. Period
@@garyzies3486 I swear some are paid by tourist agencies to lure men into traveling to certain locations
Not a problem, just looking for 2-3 hours tops
😂
I trust you will make every hour count.
Better! Just rent...dont buy.
What I like about Filipinas is that they are smart and know how to fool a stranger.
@unknownsupertramp4897 Yes indeed, they're a conniving and deceitful bunch.
The average IQ in the Philippines is only 81, though, the lowest in East Asia. Their cleverness must be very specific.
it's lot that they are so smart
it's just that men are the emotional easily fooleable sex these days...
They are expert at painting a picture for you or the old GFE but most foreigners fall for it even when you put them on game
Thank you! I knew this, but the reminder is still worthwhile.
Now I understand why you're call the smart girl. You just hit the nail right on the head. You are a million times correct,and it takes a smart man to analyze and realize what you are saying is so true, keep up the good work.
Good advice for guys looking for a Filipina here in the Philippines. I didn't have to do that. I found mine 22 years ago in Canada. She was an OFW contract Caregiver and I also worked in health care. Our paths crossed and the rest became history. Now, 22 years later, we are fully retired here in Davao and go back to Canada for holidays.
Great analysis :)
When i was in the Philippines 8 out of 10 women tried to scam me out of money sorry to say
It's called opportunity cost. It's a logical argument. Be strategic. Filipinas are beautiful and in general are very modest, traditional ladies. But the challenge I had with them (online and in real-life), their education was very low. Even the ones that had graduated from University had very little to non existent world-knowledge.
I get it, they don't travel due to very little opportunities. In my time there, I can't recall ever meeting one that would meet the requirements to call her intellectual. Some will ask me if only stayed in the provinces... no, i travelled around and also met a few from Manila and Cebu (the big IT centers). I met several men who had pinoy gf or wives and they always said the same thing: the ladies are good, but they have to be directed to almost everything. Certainly there will be exceptions--but that's what they are, exceptional and rare. IF you found one, hang on to her.
If you have high standards for a lady, in PH you either lower them or move on to other countries. Best of luck to everyone out there.
I prefer those working girls I love to get straight to the point
Best video Iin awhile.
thank you for your help🙏
I married a Filipino woman, 8 years later I found out she was STILL married to her first husband back home...
Absolutely truth.
Very educational log 👍
Excellent advice, thank you for your honesty 👍
"... she said I love you no sh*t, buy me air conditioned Honda... buy me color TV... buy me electric stove..."
As a Marine, I spent time in the PI - Olongapo City - years ago. Most Filipinas were looking for a ticket "across the pond to the land of the big PX." I also witnessed how many of them behaved in the states after they got married to some guy who fell for the "true love." You can take the "bar girl" - euphemism for hooker - out of the bar, but you can't take the bar out of the "bar girl."
With that being said, there were also honest Filipinas who were simply looking to improve their lot and they were serious in their relationships. All of the same things - both good and bad - can be said about American women (not that all American men are upstanding trustworthy, loyal, helpful, etc. Eagle Scouts).
Excellent comment,l. U said it all in a nutshell Bro! Peace. 👍💪😎
😏 LOL similar experience in my home country de Nicaragua, I dont think theres really any way to do it smart tho, like u say they are all playing and hustling, the only way to do it smart is not to have that time constraint and be in country for 6 months to a year or more, but just two weeks i wouldnt waste my time, for two weeks only i would be only looking at freelancers and professionals and pay to play.
Great advice.
Guess I got lucky, found one liked her, got married, happy ever since.
Very good video, straight talk
IF YOU ARE SPENDING 6000 DOLLARS within 2 fukin weeks in the PH, you need to take yourself to a financial class…
Just go to a bar everynight and score a different one..no farking around..2 weeks is a waiste of time chasing one
Do the math. Round trip plane tickets, hotel, food, drinks, transportation, beach, island hopping, scuba, golf, exploring, dating...
@@SmartGirlPhilippines she said 4000…..PLUS 6000…LISTEN
Or have your top head check… shake it really good till you hear the screws and have the vet check you 🤪🙄🙄🥹
Round trip airfare from New York $1,500. 2 weeks hotel @ $100 a night $1,500. Hilton Pattaya for example is $215 a night. So the 6 grand is down to 3. Food budget $30 a day about $450. Down to $2,500 before a single drink or date. Sure you could stay in a flea bag hotel for $20 a night thats $300. Money goes fast on vacation.
Very entertaining and informative, and yes I recognise a lot of what you’re saying, in fact I’ve met a lot of timewasters over the years through not being switched on about the various motives they had which I wasn’t aware of initially.
I have over 2000 blocked accounts from internet dating also over the last few years. The odds you talk about seem accurate to me.
This was uniquely presented and well received. Great useful analogy, and also a lot of truth serum. The dating environment is exhausting...I think it's better to approach it with no expectations. That way you take more pressure off yourself. Just focus, indulge and appreciate the experience. Enjoy the ride! Whatever is meant to be, will be. I think everyone should stop accepting seasonal relationshhips as lifetime commitments.
I met mine future wife trough a friend. Never thought I would end up in Asia. I stopped dating Western girls long time ago. Two much hassle for left over women that are never satisfied and have more hidden history than the Tartarian empire!
to summarize most people aren't worth your time... no matter where you go...
Let me say I have been watching a lot of videos about the Philippine but I never left a comment maybe a lot of time if I like it, I will give thumbs up but for you, I will because you sound like you were speaking from the heart and I believed everything I heard from you. I just wanted to say thank you for the advice. I will take it to the bank.
I like your style. Funny, entertaining, educational. Going to hit the subscribe and like button :)
Thank you so much for this video and valuable information!
Thanks for the information. What you say is true.
$10k for a 2 week Philippines vacation?!? Umm ... no haha. Hotel around $700-800 for a standard hotel, airfare is $800. Food is $200 unless you are dining at fancy restaurants. That is $1800 at most + entertainment expenses and cost of taxis or Grab. I'm in Manila right now and will be spending 3 weeks total in Philippines for far far less than $10,000. But she is right, just get outside and be social and smile and show a nice personality and you will have success. Only problem is weather here in Manila is not good during my stay. Oh well lots of malls in BGC!
You have to be truly retarded to spend that much in Philippines, I have been there multiple times in Airbnb's and never spent more than $500 TOTAL per week
$10000 should last you three months here
@@rogerwilco4736 He did mention BGC so in that case, it won't last as long.
@@rogerwilco4736 I agree even on 'tourist mode' I cannot see spending more than $200 a day which is $6000 a month plus airfare and hotel = $7800
@@BeeSans444 yes, BGC over rated and over priced
Thanks for all you do Smart Girl. I spent September in Cebu and Bohol. Quickly learned how to use the dating apps without wasting a bunch of time. Met some sweet respectful ladies. Already planning a return trip.
That is awesome! Thank you so much xoxo
You just describe my first 2 wives but they were from USA. My 3rd wife who is Filipina is the best thing that has happen to me.
Funny how spot on your numbers were!
I kind of geek out on numbers and just re-examined and decided on 14 days in the Philippines today. 100k is about my income, at the moment, too. The cost to visit sounds high, though… and most guys with vacation time are still getting at least some of their pay while gone, so the opportunity cost isn’t that bad as an employee or entrepreneur, but maybe as a purely contract worker.
6k to stay, though… I would think more like 4k including a 2k ticket.. hope I’m not that far off!
Probably won’t be visiting any bars, though.. I think that would be a waste all-around.
Cebu, then some provinces. Can’t wait!
I like this chick. Straight up. My kind of people.
Not mine. I don't like women who swear. It isn't cool. It's low-class.
Hi there, I just discovered you and now I'm a subscriber- good work.
Tinder is like 60% LB and 35% prostitutes
That result in only one question. If you would use Tinder, are you a ladyboy or a prostitute yourself :) ?`
LB?
@@JohnGrigg-gz9gm i think I can decipher B in there 😂
how do you know they're hookers?
Greetings. Thanks for being so honest. You are Special. Be blessed.
I fully agree. Love the honesty of her presentation. These are her people but she's warning suckers like me to beware.
I appreciate it. 😊
Hey Cutie. Us white guys love Filipinas but those of us who are "educated" about the Filipino scene have to bail out of potential relationship. I speak from watching a wonderful Filipina of 25 years married to my best buddy. Every time the two of them go back to the Philippines my American buddy has to pay her relatives bribes of $10,000 to $14,000 to fulfill her relatives requests for money. No thanks Cutie - I can do without that.
Thankyou so much. I’m learning
Thank you for the honesty
Good dating advice in general. Same thing with some slight variations wherever you go whether you want a filipina or a girl from somewhere else.
Absolutely speaking my language, your dignity matters, don't throw it away chasing something that doesn't want to be caught.
Never spend time with a woman who drinks....just sayin
Or worse, with a woman who thinks.
Right! You don’t want some woman drinking up all of your whiskey!
yeah, if she doesn't like drinking that's a good sign
women in my family hate drunks but have bad luck getting drunks 😂
Have to disagree on that one. If they drink they're generally easier to get into bed. Champagne works magic on women. If they also smoke, have tattoos and lots of rings on their fingers, piercings etc it's a dead cert. We're talking about one night stands here, not a wife or gf.
Very good presentation 😊
My advise after 6 years on Leyte.
Rent a house or apartment.
Go shopping for food, meds, and clothes at used clothing stores.
Say nothing about wanting a girlfriend.
You will get ask daily if you have a wife.
Stay away from bars.
Take your time, two weeks here is not long enough.
Get ready to hear a lot of lies.
Hiring a maid or ya ya will expose you to all her available friends.
Ha! Instant sub. You're fun!
What a shift in perspective.
I am being very choosey as to what girl I write too
Best advice ever...Online apps dating...Treat it like a "Slot Machine"....And most likely in Vegas...Better odds....Good video...Peace
I always enjoy watching your videos. I get a lot more information from you 😊
just like a car, YOU CAN ALWAYS TRADE UP FOR A NEWER MORE SPORTY MODEL ! i did that for most of my life, mostly got a newer less used up model.
if the newer model happens to be friends with the older model and lives right next door, you find out they are both lemons !
back in the early 1990's when i was writing the former soviet union girls, people always claimed that they would leave me once they got to america, my reply was ALWAYS " IF SHE LEAVES, ILL JUST GET ME A NEWER MODEL"!!!
i use to NOT CARE if the woman wanted to exit stage left after they really got to know me. MY STEP DAD married the same woman 3 times, she divorced him every time! and she took every thing each and every time!!! he always said that it didnt matter as he was always going to buy newer and better things, than those she took!!!
Pogi Kalbo is here!!! I have had an ex, a Filipina before, from Pampanga, we were engaged, it didn't work out due to a lot, but she's back in the Philippines now I believe. Either way, I been on CF and constantly I am on there getting notifications after notifications daily. There's a 12 hour difference too
Dude, what are you doing on a dating site for women that are 6,000 miles from you! That is crazy! Just fly there. You don’t even need a visa. What an absolute waste of time. I’m assuming you never even met the one “ex” you had. Just a pen pal you sent money to yeah?
@@portlandGTR There are hundreds of dudes spending months in the Philippines with no luck. Using app at least does not force you to live there.
@@A-xp6mythis comment here shows you have 100% for sure never been to the Philippines. Even the 70 year old creepy and obese guys that haven’t showered in a week still have 25 year old women by their side. Rather than try to sound intelligent online, why not buy a $500 ticket to the Philippines and change your life. 100’s of guys 🤣 you are absolutely full of it man. Only reason a guy is single in the Philippines is cause he wants to be
When i do go to the Philippines for a wife, I'm going to make sure that she's spiritually inclined ( a heart for God ) that would be certainly worth my time 😊
You are so correct... I needed to travel to the Philippines 3 times each time for was a month each chatted with over 50,000 Filipinas 1 had a live in partner she was hiding another 1 was just running a real-estate scam and had a boyfriend hidden another one was doing things with a guy that lived beside her another 1 had a live in girlfriend partner claiming it was her sister. I have to say I experienced all the games. But there is good Filipinas very few but some i finally found 1 and we married last year and she is definitely not like 98% of the others
I must admit I wasted some years for the wrong Filipinas, time which I won't get back
A lot of good tips here and with the cheat sheet as I'll be in the Philippines less than 2 months from now
It's not as costly as you put it. I paid 1400 cad for a ticket from Toronto to Manila. Not direct flight, but I did not care. Airbnb was 250 cad per week in Makati Manila in a luxury condo with pool on the roof top. Food was not expensive either. You can eat well for much less than in the west. I'm handsome and in top shape. Never had a problem attracting interest even in the west, but in the Philippines it's even more. No need for bars.
Bet. I fit the same description. I am leaving New Orleans in a few weeks, heading to Manila, and staying in Makati. I was curious as to how they felt towards muscular guys? I don't online date or use social media, so I'll be moving around how I usually move state side. I haven't heard much from any of these content creators about built men..it's obvious they like the "dad bods."
I bought a book of island ladies from frank in California, called pacific Island connection. I found a girl went to meet her and married her. Still married and it's been 24 years. Philippine ladies speak English and that's a big help.
Thank you Irish! Great information
Gave this video a like simply because I enjoy how many times she acknowledged f*ckery. Remember, play stupid games, win stupid prizes.
😂 Oh so funny!!!
Personally, I think it's better to go abroad to relax and unwind, not chase women, and if you happen to meet one then awesome. If not, whatever; you enjoyed a few weeks or months in a place with a better climate and cheaper cost of living than home. Mindset is very important. Women are accessories in a man's life, to make it better than it already is, not some magical cure for depression and loneliness.
OK Beta
You really are a ‘smart girl’✔️👍😉
Listen to her she is telling the truth.
Thanks for sharing~
This was funny as consultation. Thank you! 🤣🤣🤣
Right to the point..Great vid
Love the colorful language:)
This advice applies to all women not just filipinas!
Damn Homegirl Spitting That Knowledge and The God Honest Truth 👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾. Keep up the Great Work Homegirl 👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾
Watching you I'm already in Love 😂
Pretty Lady entertaining and honest you look & sound like fun 😊
Simping dries out women like the Sahara
@@mateor7302U go Dude!! Cold blooded!!
New to your channel. You are funny and have a nice way of presenting your message. Happy Trails from Florida
Omg!!!! Where are women like you
I agree with you lady.
I love this video!!!🤣🤣🤣
"Fuckery?!?!" 😅😂 I love it..
I was about to make a comment that’s a strong open solid! 😂
When I was stationed in the Philippines, my buddy was dating this Filipina who was pretty jealous and convinced he was cheating on her. I don't actually think he was but honestly don't know for sure. Where we were there were pretty frequent power outages. The two of them were in a bar hanging out. She waited for a power outage and then broke her beer bottle on the counter and slashed him across the chest with it. Don't mess with a Filipina. I was on guard duty that night and so I saw the wounds when he came back to our ship. Pretty serious stuff. I'm sure he has large scars to this day. At least she didn't slash his face.
WOW I will never forget this.
Awesome Video
Wearing some green would seem appropriate for a girl that is Irish...
Irish you have a great smile how could a foreigner drop you? Every man should be happy to have a smart philipina girl!
Someone wasn't paying attention to the video 🤣
@monkibro what I missed?
@@monkibroThat's cold, Bro!
🤣 funny, love the delivery. Wish I was in the Philippines now, you are the type I want. Anyway you have a new subscriber now
Well explained
i like you, Irish, you are so up to point!
Who wouldn't fall in love with Irish.😇
no way