Lessons on Self Confidence from a Teenager | Reece Doppenberg | TEDxYouth@Langley
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- Reece uses his personal experience from his life in early high school to describe his rapid change from being self-conscious and having low self-esteem to becoming a self-confident teenager. He outlines the steps in which he used to make that change and encourages others to learn from his journey. Reece describes his change in demeanour by utilizing five, specific steps: "Find yourself", "Stop caring what others think of you", "Surround yourself with encouragement", "Self-assess your attitude" and "Be humble".
Reece Doppenberg is a engaging, outgoing, ambitious and determined grade 12 student in Langley, British Columbia. He enjoys public speaking, poetry, music and science. Reece is very active within his school, is a multi-instrumentalist and takes part in many leadership roles within the community. After high school, Reece plans to study sciences with hopes of becoming a doctor and eventually joining and contributing to initiatives like Doctors Without Borders.
This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at ted.com/tedx
find yourself
stop caring about what others think of you
surround yourself with positivity
self assess your attitude
be humble
thank you
More people need to hear what this young man is saying!
Facts
Facts
This guy is better than any therapist he knows, i see him as my idol
“Who ever you surround yourself with is who you’ll become”. So much truth in one sentence. This ted talk is fantastic
He is a fantastic speaker, very authentic and genuine.
5 Steps to Self-Confidence
Step 1:"Find Yourself" (2:38)
Step 2: "Don't care what people think of you" (4:42)
Step 3: "Surround yourself with encouragement" (7:55)
Step 4: "Self-Assess your attitude" (8:54)
Step 5: "Be humble" (10:36)
thank u
Thanks wise man
ayo thankss
Thank you 🙏
Thank you my guy
He is such an amazing speaker..
yesssssssssss, you helped me so much. thank you, thank you, thank you!
Brilliantly said Reece, thank you so much for your insight. My 13 year old son and I watched this together and absolutely love the message. It really helps to hear it from a young man who he now looks up to. All the very best for your future :o)
They need to make more videos this and everybody should hear what this young man is saying
i am changing day by day and building new confidence becoz of this guy!
Nice!
He's so cool already... 😭💕💕✨ The way he speaks with a smile , that's amazing despite of his all hardships in the past .... He's one of the most stable teen I have ever seen ✨💕 ... I'll turn 17 soon, and it's really inspiring for me ... I wanna be like him , the confidence he has
Amazing! He´s so young with so much intelligence...Congratulations!!
thank you this really helped me become and stay positive with my surroundings, to myself and to others.
Great great talk . Be true to thyself. Thank you, bless you. All your dreams come true.
teacher made me watch this
Loved this ! Amazing powerful speaker x
THANK YOU SM! I LEGIT NEEDED THAT SM!
He just expressed himself and the beauty of discipline and simplicity to create an self confidence....all he said about self love he missed..!! But hes genius when he said respect to urself and reasses of ur attitudd..tats the coreection and perfection
I'm just gonna keep listenting to this till I get it in my head
Hearty congratulations Reece .A powerful speech delivered with confidence .Parents and caregivers should give our time, space and a good listening ear to our children so that we hear them not only with our ears but with our hearts and souls .Be at their level, be their friends and mentors,. Make them known that they mean a lot to us .The time we spend with our children , in their play and activities is the best investment that we can give. All children are born with some hidden talents It is up to us to dig it out, polish it with love ,care and encouragement and make it shine. Children learn what they live with.
What a positive man! Love this Ted Talk
my teacher is making me watch this
Sammmeeee
Same
SAME LMFAOOO SHE WANTS ME TO WRITE NOTES ABOUT IT
Amazing. Shared with my 14 year told daughter. Thank you.
I try to be like you brother. This is a big lesson for my life. Thank you so much. And God bless you all..
Very encouraging, Great Talk!
Very articulate young man! I'm going to have my teen son watch this. Thank you and God bless you Reece😊
lol my mum made me whatch this, not that bad
@@gaminghazard8057 same lol!
We got this as english homework :)
Anyways this video was awesome.
I couldn't help but say wow wow wow... great talk. keep up your confidence. you are going places
They are amazing points...
Thia has changed my mind to say I am a good person
what he said may seem simple but i can feel his self confidence ，not bad
THANK YOU FOR THISSS
I love this, sending it to teenagers.
my therapist told me to watch this :)
samee
WOW. It's pretty useful for me! Thanks! :)
Great practical applications! Great job 👏🏻
Anyone else here from y’all’s therapist?
Very good speaker. I will play this for my class!
Amazing steps Reece! Keep it up! Sometimes we don´t realize that the obstacle is us and the fear of our insecurities!
Thank you..🤗🤗🤗
Great talk...
No one's going to say about how cute it was when he said hi Mom ☺️☺️
Reece, brilliant talk.
good point and well said..
I love you Hector my sweet loving son. Sending this to you. Mommy loves you, you are powerful, you are my strength.
DANGIT. This 12 minute video had me to write one page on this on documents. I’m not gonna do all of that. Life is pain right now, and my teacher just made it worse
lmao same
Bruh me too. I hate TED talks because when I watch it, that means essay.
Sara Bashir you had to do five bullet points. Wow
Same bro
I loved this speech!
Metoo!
This is great. Thank you.
Awesome
NO IT IS NOT
Wonderful. Want my son to watch this . Past is past we can build our own future . God bless you
My therapist had me watch this vid but I watched it last minute cuz I completely forgot about it
I love this video and greatly appreciate your story! I write curriculum for students across the country, and I wonder if I could use this video for a specific lesson that I'm writing about self-confidence for teens? Please let me know, I think this would spur some really great discussion and a change in mindset towards a positive attitude in life and goals. Thank you in advance, and I look forward to hearing from you!
@@mrawesomesause1 Awesome, thank you!
Reece, I also write curriculum for 6-12th grades. May I use your video as well?
cool!
Love it!
How did a 17-year-old from a dysfunctional family become so wise? Just WOW.
What Jesus can do
a little back handed dont you think
😍😍😍so true.....
Lovely young man
Những ca sĩ khác cho mình cảm giác thư giãn khi nghe! Còn ĐP luôn cho mình bị cuốn theo tinh thần bài hát.
This video is my son's bed night story.
This kid is amazing only he has not spend more time practicing public speaking ❤
I was very inspird
beautiful beautiful
that person "is the idea of self confidence"
me: ah yes the thing i havent had for the past 4 years and i probaly wont ever have again
God! boy you r very smart to know all these by 17, you are already a man.
wow seriously
he's the best
or... woman... but in this case I guess it would be a grown up or one who knows their way in life for their age.
Ugh I don't even know what I mean by that.
sorry guys my teacher bought me here
you are awesome
Sit down, be humble)
wtf why so many dislikes
I know right
I think there's a lot of people out there who don't want to acknowledge the truth that this young and wise man is offering and they feel that his wisdom is not worth anything because he is so young and lacks life experience. It's unfortunate if this is the case as this young man's wisdom and advice is rich in useful information; it resonates with me and I"m a 46-year-old woman. :D
@@gfilip1 that is such a meaningful reply there! It makes me think a lot about myself too. I mean, I'm 15 and all I really love to do is teach people about science, specifically astronomy and electricity the most, which is why I was so passionate as to create a TH-cam channel that does just that. The only thing is, I feel like people wouldn't want to listen to a 15 year old teach this kind of stuff, or they'd say "gosh, what does this kid think he's doing? Teaching? He's too young". :(
Nice
How to tell your therapist you don't hate yourself your just normal and hate you about yourself???
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What questions does he pose
life works worksheet
Idk if i like this or not but i think its a good video
PE teacher made me do this ;-;
Same
8:18 when you perants are the oppiste of that as in making you feel bad about yourself and your friends and your god dam imaginary friends/non bully mind are the ones who make you keep on living (the family before friends is bullcrap we didnt choose to have our perants and siblings in our lives but we did chose our friends tell me wich one makes you more happy cause for me its friends)
Sometimes friends can be more like family to us when our family doesn't know how to meet our needs. It's really tough and I've experienced the same thing. Even if you have limited control of who you're surrounded by, doing your best to surround yourself with positivity can help. You can absolutely attain self-confidence because anyone can! Just one step at a time :)
Thank you! I am doing a class for teens on finding your purpose. May I have your permission to show the video?
Yes! Absolutely
Hey, this is Biblical!
haha true!!
yikes
I'm only who finds this guy handsome 😅
Hi
Out of the mouth of babes.
Amazing points for adults, kids and teenagers. Very inspiring and so true, thank you.
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Who else is watching this from Ms Melfi
Ted talks? What about John talks!
Bad joke sorry
Generally a good speech. But frankly speakers have to pretend they are 100% sure what they are sure what they are talking
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Anyone else had to list the 5 things, anyone got answers so i don't have to watch. :)
foda-se ?
Screw you? Reece is AWESOME
I want to become finest men alive...
How to have the biggest ego and think you are always right 101
Someones not self confident
dude shut up💀 being happy with who you are isn't egotistical
Jealousy
jess m who cares?
Don’t judge him! He might be going through something
i do not care
and no one cares about you