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I’ve been saying this for some time now. Girls don’t want monogamous relationships anymore. They want a minimum of 3 men. The main guy, the side guy, and the simp. The main guy is for finance help mainly, the side guy is for arousal, the simp is for the emotional support.
They want 1 guy for partnership, the problem is it's usually a guy too high status for them to land. So they compromise by sleeping between different high status guys. This compromise is ofcourse extremely detrimental to both themselves and other men in society but they choose immediate gratification over the greater good
I’ve been the “side guy” for the past 8 years. Great physique, travel, 6 figure career, house, motorcycle, 2-3 dates a week for years and had regulars, etc…not bragging but just explaining that I had a very abundant dating life, and can agree 1000% with what he is saying. I’ve received love letters, married women wanting to get divorced, texts where girls were absolutely in love with me, but I had always kept them at a distance. In past 3 years I’ve been absolutely broken by the one girl I decided to try to commit to. Was always good with her at first…but the more time I invested, 3-4 dates a week, affection, love, long audio messages, getting involved with family things, consideration, support tickling feet and all that sappy shit…the smex went down, attitude went up, her inconsideration was horrible, her obvious seeking attention from other men went up, (with my experience I pick up on every little nuance), and then I’m shamed, degraded, and supposedly have insecurity problems. I would seriously consider what Casey is explaining in this video and take it to heart.
It's like that because you try with this girl. The other ones you didn't care too much about. Which made them want you more. This chick knows she has you so she's like meh
That's crazy, I am saddened to hear that... man.. I am 25 and I have not never been into a relationship but seeing how the dynamics are looking with the moden 'western' women, makes me feel pessimistic and want to double down on myself more :( I will probably stick to also asian women since they seem to be have better traditional values for now...
@@1986xuan it’s good to still stay optimistic and hopeful, plus there’s always a chance of finding someone on the same page. But in a sense ignorance is bliss and you have to keep a woman on her toes. Your value, hobbies, career, social life, and overall lifestyle has to stay improving once you’re in a relationship. Not DRAMATICALLY to the point you put SO much pressure on yourself (one of my flaws), but just enough to maintain and build a life together.
hate to tell ya kiddo... the other guy(s) were the side guy... you were the among the beta that doesn't choose , you were happy to have anything come your way.... it's okay... you have a lot to learn and grow
Zero respect for u, never touch other man's girl. Yesterday u was the side guy while she had a bf, today u are the bf and another guy will be her side guy.
Hello Casey In summary, my interpretation of what you said is that a woman starts to lose respect, and attraction to a man when somehow he invests more than her. And I believe that the solution for a long-term relationship is to have her invest more than you. Ask her favors, give her tasks, and make her work for you. And reward her obviously and show gratitude. Keep this cycle well-oiled and you get respect, love, and arousal continuously
To achieve this you must vet her for a long time. If you get a woman like this you must be solid to keep the wheels turning. It's a daunting task but perhaps can be done
True but now and then provoke some drama and show signs of withdrawal., this seems to spice the relationship, in her way of thinking. It’s important for her to show she’s worth your time.
@@tspice11 not really. Women are extremely submissive and accommodating to men they are attracted to. You can literally ask her for small favors on the first date and she will be more than happy to do them for you if you give off that strong masculine energy.
the solution is not to play a game that is rigged against you from the start. They're programmed to ultimately exchange as little s3x as possible while getting the maximum amount of resources. Trying to get her to invest more than you will only work if your investment potential is extreme. Like you are multi-millionaire.
@@DONLEOGON exactly. Create a good time but definitely give her some moments of anxiety… when women are of unsure of where she stands with you then that makes their pussy wet for some reason
It is so disheartening to hear this while knowing that this is the state of modern relationships. There is always another man flirting with your girlfriend either at work, online, etc trying to sleep with her. I used to think being single was lonely but now I think being single is a blessing in disguise.
Once I hear a guy say he’s a Rich entrepreneur I automatically take everything they say with a grain of salt. I’m a average dude living in a average city and almost everything they preached I don’t experience in my own life. Your location as well as your lifestyle in general is going to determine what you attract. The downside of money, is you’re going to mostly attract leaches. They don’t want you for you, they want you for your money. That’s the difference between a average guy and a rich guy. The average guy doesn’t have anything to attract a leach so it’ll be far less likely a women has ulterior motives.
Disheartening because of the disillusionment - even us players have romantic dreamy hopes. Yet fact is fact. It is sad, but it is what it is. I'm glad I've had my kids already.
Total easy red flag: ask her if she has ever had a side guy. It’s an easy way to find out if she is loyal or not- many time a cheater never loses that itch for the challenge.
I don't agree with the main guy vs side guy perspective. What it actually boils down to is how much respect you demand from your woman. Men typically tend to let their guard down when they enter into an exclusive relationship. The woman will start to test him and he will break his boundaries and standards that he once had. He becomes weaker and weaker to the point where the woman will say or do whatever she wants and the man will just let everything slide. At that point, the woman loses attraction and respect. She is now in charge of the relationship. The most important thing is to always make sure the woman remains submissive and respects you fully as a man. Only then will the relationship remain solid.
nah dawg youre gonna get weaker unconsciusly without you even knowing it if youre in a relationship because you will always go out youre way to keep her happy. little things like cuddling or binge watching movies or paying for her meals will make you weak and waste youre productive time. you think youre demanding respect but youre not if youre doin shit like that. And if you re super hard to where you dont do that stuff and think you demand respect she will find someone who will show her affectionate attention and soft love and do it behind your back. women are never satisfied You guys are so delusional its rediculous. Trust me she will get that guy friend at work who doesnt make her submissive and talk bad about you and complain that youre too demanding. its 2023 not 1980 Open your eyes bruh
@@Lonewolf_diesel That's very incorrect. A woman will only disrespect you if you allow it. Having a woman doesn't make you weak if she follows your lead and you as the man wear the pants. That is ultimately what every woman desires biologically. A man who will stand up for himself and not become her doormat. All she wants is a man who is not afraid to check her when she gets out of pocket.
yea that works back in the day. This is a new time .its too much access for a woman on social media and there brainwashed. Youre not around her all day so what you dont allow she s gonna do behind your back idiot . Why do you think 90 percent of divorces are filed from women because that stuff youre talkin only can last so long before she gets bored or wants more freedom. @@pepepez6335
I truly believe that women have a disdain for men who commit to 1 woman but Admire and desire a man who has many women and won’t commit to any of them even though they all say the total OPPOSITE. 🤷🏽♂️
Partially right, but it's really that the Alphas are the cheaters they tolerate because the potential genetic payoff is big. A Beta cheater won't be tolerated because HIS job, in her eyes, is loyalty, providing and NOT having many options for other women.
As a 46 year old man, who has been hitting the gym consistently for over 20 years and is financially stable. In my 40’s, I have dated and been in relationships with woman from 21 to 50. Everything you say is 100% true. Ive been the main guy and the side guy. Young men listen to this vid and share the truth.
May I ask you? why do you have to date an old fart 50 years old woman . they are worn out, nasty and sagging . I would feel vomiting if even kissing them .
Well said. Ive explained this to people so many times and everyone thinks im crazy. I choose and have chosen to be side guy. Tried relationships and its mind blowing how differently you are treated. They will do just about anything for you when they dont have you and treat you as a doormat when they do. Thats the truth.
@@amandaburleson2035 Lady trust me, if it weren't for what's between women's legs and whats on their fronts 99% of men would be absolutely bored to peices by you. You actually think men like hearing about your poetry readings and gardening?? lawl baffles me how women are this ignorant
Bottom line…… learn to CONTROL your sexual desires or it will control you. Bring lustful will give her ALL the power. A women can only do you on if you can’t control your sexual behavior.
Mr. Zander, I finally found the answer I have been looking for. I have been the side guy for 8 years with a woman. I am 64 and she is 31, The relationship began 8 years ago. She has gone through 2 marriages and she has always had me as the side older man. My attitude toward her had been the attitude of a Sigma male. But it is up until now that I found the answer to the question: of why she has never let me go. It has been hard for me, but I kept to my self my true feelings and acted out exactly as you say: Dont give a dam. Thank you. This video made me cry. I am and live in Nicaragua, and regardless of the different culture, it seems that your teachings are for all races and cultures. Thank you
100 percent true. Women need constant excitement from shiny toys, that are kept from them, and are bored with the steady, and predictable, right by their side.
This is so True, y'all need to LISTEN.. I had a relationship and did everything.. I work and did my part.. You think You there with Her going through Life but in her Mind she is Somewhere Else.... LISTEN to Casey... Sir thank You so Very Much for this Powerful Video....
Sometimes the side guy gets his ass beat or gets shot... just letting my fellow brothers be aware of the circumstances. And she still wins, and the show continues as she plays her game with other players
Who wants to be with such a disgusting cunt who sells out the man that she claims as her special one? Bash her beauty in with a claw hammer and let's see her play her evil game.
totally true. The side guy makes enemies of the blue pilled simps. He can hold a grudge for decades, h8te you and decide to confront you decades later.
it is impossible to respect someone that kisses your ass.....forget EVERYTHING you were taught about chivalrly growing up....holding doors open and big deal on valentines day etc......she will lose respect and grow to resent you.....always let them know you have options and have no problem walking away and she will treat you like gold.......does not matter is she " loves" you as long as she respects you...all about respect
I agree with you my ex wife turned 100% against me even when I was paying all the bills and taking care of her . You will never get back all the commitment you invested in a woman she will cheat and use you eventually
You can still maintain the mystery and frame that the side guy has while in a relationship. I only see my girl 3 days a week and she is always texting / wanted to see me / claims she can never read me. Also, the willingness to show that you can leave her at any point will always catch her respect whether you're the side guy or been in a 10 year marriage.
I have been in this exact situation for 8 years, and Up until now I found the reason why she has been there all this time. Thank you for finding my answer. A tear rolled one of eyes
That’s truth… I’m 62, been practicing these techniques since I divorced at 49. Now I’m as fit as a college athlete, 28” waist, V taper, abs, balanced upper and lower body strength, competed in an American Ninga comp at 55 and did pretty well. Most important, I routinely date women 25-40….. and I’m the one being chased… having a PhD in engineering, and very well sorted financially gives me a lot of confidence. And I NEVER have to approach women. They seek me out
I didn't know i was a side guy with 4 different women until 2 of their partners contacted me and other 2 by friends and social media surveillance.they lied to me they were single and unmarried .but the fact is casey is 100 percent right avout these topic.thesr kind of women will do anything n tell lies snd use manipulation to sleep with you the side guy n treat you best.
So..what we’ve subconsciously always suspected is true: Men and women can’t BE together. We’re never going to have a content, loyal “girlfriend”, or “wife”. The best we can hope to be is the “Jody”, the “back door man”, the cable guy, the fling, the side guy. That’s it. And as SOON as we catch feelings, they DESPISE us. Okay. The evidence is overwhelming.
Sorry Hamilton, we can't with western freedoms that women have. We actually need a more middle east based system when it comes to dating and marriage. For the purpose of being able to raise healthy families again.
Think of it in an ancient perspective, men were required to be out the home most times, and didn’t see the men a whole lot. Nowadays men give a lot of time to women it dries them up
Got damn man, Ive actually been thinking about this lately. I was thinking I can't continue this "F boi" lifestyle forever so i tried to settle down with the last girl and got ghosted for the first time in 6 years. Now this video just reaffirms my thoughts. Well i guess I just gotta stay single forever then...
Side guy here 👋 so I can affirm this. My ex’s usually recycle back for sex time anytime they’re on a “break” from their current bf or when they’re freshly single. I have no problem with the role, it’s there problem not mine. So yeah be single have fun and take advantage of opportunity when it comes. Focus on the things that really matter to you.
@@cdeep4548 lol “only where it matters to have it”. So your integrity ends where female sexual nature begins. It’s not about women caring about integrity smh that’s where you extreme redpillers get it wrong. Integrity is for yourself, a distinguished integrity filled man won’t allow a woman’s sexuality weaken his integrity for some action.
Case in point… if you have been decently looking after yourself, what happens literally every time you run into a ladies’ night troop at the bar? Married or not, once one makes contact, they all want you, and the more you act like you don’t give a shit, the harder they try.
lol, its sad but its pretty accurate, i'd also add that hypergamy is so much more real than so many of the guys out there think , its crazy I've lived it and seen it constantly tread cautiously it can be nasty out there.
Makes my heart ache. I was the main guy for a modern woman. Completely fell in love with. Stopped talking to 4 other girls because liked her so much. Guess who started getting lesser attention, who found about her side guys.
This is 100% correct…the only thing is that some of us have been doing this for 25+ years. It’s not necessarily a “modern woman” characteristic because this business model you’re describing has been working for years far before social media and modern culture. But I absolutely agree on everything that was said here.
I'd rather have a main girlfriend but the only woman are interested in me are the ones who already have someone else. It makes no sense. It's a turn off for me as well. I don't want what someone else is already using
lol my man, start approaching girls first. that simple... you only take who ever appraches you.... women dont respect that... good news you might be kinda hot and got the confidence (: god luck let me know how it goes.
@@amandaburleson2035 I approach girls quite often. The single ones like stringing men along for fun. The ones who are interested majority of time are the ones who already have a boyfriend or even a husband. Single women like screwing with men's heads. I've heard them say this themselves
She already knows you the husband of 14 years, you are familiar, you have rapport, you are comfortable, you are predictable, you are BORING. While her side guy in comparison is delightful, mysterious, new, novel, fun, hotter, smells & taste delicious, does different things in bed, while with him her emotions are triggered into feelings of excitement & possibilities. Marriage is the worst thing a man could do.
💯 this from a divorced dad of one, I hit the gym smashed work become Superdad my ex wife wanted back in after other females wanted me and lover boy dumped her 😂
Ht it in on the head with a hammer. Typically the 'side guy' has far more sex appeal than her boyfriend. Thats the guy she fantasizes about but is afraid to commit to because she knows he has options and will exercise them. Typically he will ignore and be dismissive and that will only make her feel more strongly about him.
I'm gonna share something that popped up in my mind while I was watching your video. Long before knowing your channel, I met a girl and that interaction changed my whole dating perspective due to two main things: broken heart and the moral perspective of what's right and what's wrong. When I met her she was married, but still she was giving me hints so I could see that she was interested in me. We were the same age and her husband was overseas. Long story short, we both knew we were interested in eachother but she was expecting that I would take a step forward and lead the interaction. I didn't know about that, I come from a family where the interaction is very masculine submissive kind of stuff. So the loss taught me a lot of how things work despite what I used to feel it was right or wrong. Questions like: "Why would a woman like her caliber was interested in me?" or "I love her for what if she doesn't?" haunted my mind everyday. I used to be a guy that wanted commitment and wanted to marry a girl and have a family. But nowdays I don't feel like it's worth it, despite that everybody in my family tells me otherwise. Your videos were a God given gift after the loss I went through, still are tho. I used to be a people pleaser (sometimes I still have the tendency to) because I really have no real masculine frame figure in my life, now I'm adapting to the reality leaving some dreams behind. Thank you Casey for what you share with us, keep it up.
I had been broken up with and got told by her she had slept with someone else a week later. I decided to play cold and do it back to her. Bumped into her with different girls in town.. Twice! It drove her crazy and had her chasing me.
This is true. I've been the side guy many times in my life. Something I'm not proud of. I'm 50 now. Only one word of advice I'd give any young man going down this rout is know what you are to her. Never let your hart get involved.
I've actually found the opposite to be true. I have had 4 serious relationships and have dated casually about 20 women. So I'm by no means a playboy or at celebrity status when attracting women, but I feel like my experience is relevant to this discussion. What I've found is that women eventually want a commitment from a man, if you're doing most things right. This usually comes somewhere around the 2-3 month mark. However, If you're "casually" seeing a woman and you're doing everything right she will still leave you, if you refuse to commit to a relationship. If some other guy, that is also doing everything right, comes along and is willing to commit to her, she will drop the side guy. IF she sees you as high value she WILL eventually push for a relationship. The only woman that is going to sleep with a guy on the side and have a boyfriend is most likely a woman with a high body count and no morals.
You're correct, but these women that don't cheat now comprise 5-10% of the female population. It's really ramped up due to social media, dating apps, progressivism, etc.
Like you said, the secret is to take care of business and speak your mind. It leads to more heated discussions in your relationship when you honestly disagree, but you will maintain her respect.
I just discovered your channel and I like it. I have this girl who rejected me back in October 2022. I started hooking up and dating other women and ignore her. She has a boyfriend but even with a boyfriend she flirts with me, she invited me to get food and pay everything, she sent me a friend request on social media. I decline becoming friends because I don't want to end up in the friendzone. How do you avoid being the best friend and become the side guy? Also I love how real you are, no bullsh##it no fancy video.
that friend request was her way to making you her side guy. just a way to keep in touch until date happens, you hang out, have fun and then sex happen. "it just kinda happen" Even if she has bf. Shell make up smth and convicne herself that she did right thing whatever that may be and other girls will support her haha...
Most men need to understand that when you get in a committed relationship the woman will go into her nature right away and that is to shit test and try to emasculate you slowly. It’s not their fault they do it by nature to test if the man they choose is the masculine man they think you are. You job is to think logically and stay focus on you and your goals all while you demand respect from her and everyone around and respect her back. Don’t ever fall into her emotional frame. Women are masters of the emotional world and men are masters of the physical world. Because women aren’t physically strong they use their advantage of emotions to manipulate men. Never fall in her frame. Be aware how they ALL play the game. Learn to say NO this is very important she will act like she is mad an hates you but deep down inside she will fall even more for you because only strong men say no and actually mean it!
I think this is why I have less trouble with women than most guys I know. They want to be a husband and the boyfriend but I dont, I just want to be the guys that shes hooking up with.
It's true. Sleeping with someone wife or girlfriend makes them crazy about you.. right after the break up is still good but if you stick around they will eventually promote you to "guy who should supply something for my time" and switch to chasing someone else asap..
In the early 2010s I was exclusive with 1 woman for 2 years. We fell apart and I had to get my own place and stopped talking to her. Fast forward and she came back after I hit the gym and we just had a physical relationship and I was treated way better because I didn't care about her like that. Then she got married but wanted to keep in touch in case it didn't work out lol
This is so true. Only one place to be as a man, the side guy. Every other position is a loosing proposition. Took me a long time and a lot of being the fool to get a clue about the true nature of women.
@@UniteAndAttack I was married once and she cheated after 7 years (wanted more). I divorced her. 90% of the women I have been involved with or witnessed in relationships cheated. At the work place most of the female employees were either married or living with their boyfriends and hitting on me because I was single, drove a nice sports car and they thought I had money. I refuse to be the other guy and do to those guys what was done to me. She is either totally single or I don't participate. You will basically always be next and someone else is always ready to replace you. The only way a woman will remain loyal is when she runs out of options. Don't be the guy she keeps on the string until her options run out and then your the guy, by then you don't even want her. I concentrate on making money, that's my priority. A woman has to chase me and then I'll decide if I want to jump back into the game.
@@Drumbeat52 Wow, that's really interesting. Do the women not feel any sense of guilt? How do you think society will continue if there's no stable family unit to properly raise children? I understand why you've removed yourself from the whole thing but do you ever feel lonely not chasing some form of female intimacy?
@@UniteAndAttack I never had a woman tell me she was sorry or apologize for cheating. To a woman (I think) they separate sex from love, I don't think a woman can love like a man, only their children. They view us totally different from the way we connect with them. A guy can be loyal out of the bond he feels for a woman, women on the other hand are only loyal out of the current benefit to them. They can switch guys in a heartbeat and not bat an eye. I watched my wife do it and we had a son who was 2 1/2 then and I could not comprehend what I was viewing. Yea, I miss the female attention and the intimacy but could have it if I wanted, just have to wait til I find one that makes the juice worth the squeeze. I am 71 years old and have girls in their 20's hitting on me. I look younger than my age and drive a nice sports car. I know the deal.
I am 57 years old, I have been around with lots of women, this is totally correct information, unfortunately being the side guy and knowing that she wants you gives you swagger and the energy from that rubs off on other girls which makes you more appealing but you hurt people like the boyfriends and the husbands, you just can't win, the choice is yours
I had this happened to me at work. There was this young early 20 year old white petite sexy chick, I was her side guy. We would hang together when her boyfriend was at work, she would even invite me into her apartment while her boyfriend was at work. I am 37 years old. It's sad because as men it seems we can't trust women anymore, either married or in a just a relationship in general. I was taught growing up women were the opposite of what we're seeing today and that's one reason I struggled to get into more relationships then I would have liked to.
Deep in my heart I wish a woman would be loyal to me until eternity but then I wake up and realize I can’t complain for being the current side guy 😂. (Gotta love feminine energy tho ❤)
Being single again in my senior years and had a 20-year relationship and marriage, it doesn't get any different, women continue to be in there feminism mode throughout all the years of their lives.
Casey bro. The last three set of videos out of all the masculinity channels . No one has spoken these truths. Harsh truths but in the truth there is wisdom and truth shall set you free. Understand and check your boxes The last three piece of videos are lifechanging. Give this man an applaus because he dropped some magic jewels and if you dont beleive it you are the chump standing on the outside of the wizard of Oz's curtain. Remember that. Dont be the guy on the wrong side of the curtain.
Very few women are suitable to be committed to and have children with. But they do exist. I have not given up hope entirely. But I assume they're not serious unless they prove differently. I am seeing one now who appears to be a strong candidate for this, but I don't build up my hopes prematurely. And whether it works out or not, the health of the relationship requires me to always be ready to leave. If she takes me for granted, she will lose me. Playing the game on hard mode is the skill of managing this without pressing the detonate button prematurely.
Even as a husband this is indispensable . Keep upgrading and bettering yourself. You craft, your fitness, your attractiveness, your hygiene, your money, your interests and pursuing them, and she will always be wondering what’s next…she will not want to miss out on the next episode of you. The greatest threat to tomorrows win is yesterdays victory. Keep bettering yourselves gents. And of course make sure she’s a good woman as well.
Facts the boyfriend is just there for stability and the cute shit like dates and gifts and new experiences 😂😂, boyfriends are just for stability and survival
It’s basically the psychology of people want what they cannot have. If two people are around each other too much like in a monogamous relationship, they quickly grow tired of each other. Monogamy is extremely overrated. Humans are not wired for monogamy despite what Western culture says.
Best way to keep a women in a LTR is an abundance mentality. If the girl doesn’t meet your standards, you warn her you’ll leave. If she continues to not meet them then you leave. Obviously this only works if you’re attractive and she knows that other women want to get with you.
Took a girl ive been sleeping with the last few weeks. The first time i went out with them in public I regretted it. She started to flirt for attention behind my back the whole time. I pulled her aside the other day and said I don't want to be seen in public with you ever again. At least not in our town. The chick started to get too comfortable and now she's been let known that I'm never going to be her guy in public. Since I've been nailing her the last month so frequently shes lost almost 10kg from the frequent exercise I put her thru. Therefore I know for a fact I dont need to be the guy out in public for her. Ive never bought her things. Shes paid for most of the food between her and I. Therefore I think its only fitting that I can actually put myself into the side guy position. Instead of being locked into the main guy position. We still arent officially commited yet. So adopting these principles I believe I'll have the leverage to turn this situation to my own favour. Since I give her more value in the bedroom opposed to being the guy in the public image.
I've been both. As a side guy you don't spend a dime and get all the ass like clock work. If you don't care to date its a much better position. It's pure passion.
I have been a sideguy since college in the 1990s... Still a side guy in my late 40s.. its definitely the better deal.... you don't deal with her moods or have to pay a cent to see her...i have a disability but i look like keanu reeves...i don't even have a job.... Guys who focus on the career and provider role do their thing and i do mine
Understand this lesson and silently play the long game. Don't ever let on you know the grift and you will always have the upper hand. And most importantly - don't be an emotional pussy about anything related to women. You can be solid, honest, caring and a stone cold motherfucker at the same time- it's the only way that prevents you from being a doormat.
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Casey i want to learn how to make a woman emotionally attached forever
@@jhonstrong8930 i agree with you uncle c should do one video on how to get a women emotionally attached forever.i wanna learn that too
Yes there should be a video about how to get a women emotionally attached
@@imthebest3149 i also want to learn that how can I get any woman emotionally attached forever. Casey should make one video
@@jhonstrong8930 i agree i also wana learn that
I’ve been saying this for some time now. Girls don’t want monogamous relationships anymore. They want a minimum of 3 men. The main guy, the side guy, and the simp. The main guy is for finance help mainly, the side guy is for arousal, the simp is for the emotional support.
cool, be the main guy.... for 5 girls... (; can you handle it?
This is why it's important to become high value so you become indispensable.
They want 1 guy for partnership, the problem is it's usually a guy too high status for them to land. So they compromise by sleeping between different high status guys. This compromise is ofcourse extremely detrimental to both themselves and other men in society but they choose immediate gratification over the greater good
@@Woodwose88 it's going to be someone who has more than you always
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I’ve been the “side guy” for the past 8 years. Great physique, travel, 6 figure career, house, motorcycle, 2-3 dates a week for years and had regulars, etc…not bragging but just explaining that I had a very abundant dating life, and can agree 1000% with what he is saying. I’ve received love letters, married women wanting to get divorced, texts where girls were absolutely in love with me, but I had always kept them at a distance.
In past 3 years I’ve been absolutely broken by the one girl I decided to try to commit to. Was always good with her at first…but the more time I invested, 3-4 dates a week, affection, love, long audio messages, getting involved with family things, consideration, support tickling feet and all that sappy shit…the smex went down, attitude went up, her inconsideration was horrible, her obvious seeking attention from other men went up, (with my experience I pick up on every little nuance), and then I’m shamed, degraded, and supposedly have insecurity problems.
I would seriously consider what Casey is explaining in this video and take it to heart.
It's like that because you try with this girl. The other ones you didn't care too much about. Which made them want you more. This chick knows she has you so she's like meh
That's crazy, I am saddened to hear that... man.. I am 25 and I have not never been into a relationship but seeing how the dynamics are looking with the moden 'western' women, makes me feel pessimistic and want to double down on myself more :( I will probably stick to also asian women since they seem to be have better traditional values for now...
@@1986xuanyou want a wife go get her in another country, you want a woman from here you need to be ruthless
@@1986xuan lol hmm women are women bro. Js
@@1986xuan it’s good to still stay optimistic and hopeful, plus there’s always a chance of finding someone on the same page. But in a sense ignorance is bliss and you have to keep a woman on her toes. Your value, hobbies, career, social life, and overall lifestyle has to stay improving once you’re in a relationship. Not DRAMATICALLY to the point you put SO much pressure on yourself (one of my flaws), but just enough to maintain and build a life together.
From being the side guy that has ended up as the boyfriend a few times I can verify that this is 1000% true
They change when you become the boyfriend.
hate to tell ya kiddo... the other guy(s) were the side guy... you were the among the beta that doesn't choose , you were happy to have anything come your way.... it's okay... you have a lot to learn and grow
You the beta cuck my guy
Same.
Zero respect for u, never touch other man's girl. Yesterday u was the side guy while she had a bf, today u are the bf and another guy will be her side guy.
Hello Casey
In summary, my interpretation of what you said is that a woman starts to lose respect, and attraction to a man when somehow he invests more than her. And I believe that the solution for a long-term relationship is to have her invest more than you. Ask her favors, give her tasks, and make her work for you. And reward her obviously and show gratitude. Keep this cycle well-oiled and you get respect, love, and arousal continuously
To achieve this you must vet her for a long time. If you get a woman like this you must be solid to keep the wheels turning. It's a daunting task but perhaps can be done
True but now and then provoke some drama and show signs of withdrawal., this seems to spice the relationship, in her way of thinking. It’s important for her to show she’s worth your time.
@@tspice11 not really. Women are extremely submissive and accommodating to men they are attracted to. You can literally ask her for small favors on the first date and she will be more than happy to do them for you if you give off that strong masculine energy.
the solution is not to play a game that is rigged against you from the start. They're programmed to ultimately exchange as little s3x as possible while getting the maximum amount of resources. Trying to get her to invest more than you will only work if your investment potential is extreme. Like you are multi-millionaire.
@@DONLEOGON exactly. Create a good time but definitely give her some moments of anxiety… when women are of unsure of where she stands with you then that makes their pussy wet for some reason
It is so disheartening to hear this while knowing that this is the state of modern relationships. There is always another man flirting with your girlfriend either at work, online, etc trying to sleep with her. I used to think being single was lonely but now I think being single is a blessing in disguise.
sadly freind. you are not wrong, either you are a person who breaks womens hearts, or you are the person who gets your hearts broken, choose....
being in a monagamous relationship is probably the loneliest choice, tbh
Red pilled.
Once I hear a guy say he’s a Rich entrepreneur I automatically take everything they say with a grain of salt. I’m a average dude living in a average city and almost everything they preached I don’t experience in my own life. Your location as well as your lifestyle in general is going to determine what you attract. The downside of money, is you’re going to mostly attract leaches. They don’t want you for you, they want you for your money. That’s the difference between a average guy and a rich guy. The average guy doesn’t have anything to attract a leach so it’ll be far less likely a women has ulterior motives.
Disheartening because of the disillusionment - even us players have romantic dreamy hopes. Yet fact is fact. It is sad, but it is what it is. I'm glad I've had my kids already.
Yep, once you’re no longer a challenge, she looks for challenges elsewhere. And it’s not just modern women, this has always been the case!
Total easy red flag: ask her if she has ever had a side guy. It’s an easy way to find out if she is loyal or not- many time a cheater never loses that itch for the challenge.
@@cryptomaniacs7265 If she thinks you're commitment potential she will just lie. You only get the truth if you're another side guy
The side guy does get the best sexual experience from a woman…….100% true!!!!
but he gets many
I don't agree with the main guy vs side guy perspective. What it actually boils down to is how much respect you demand from your woman. Men typically tend to let their guard down when they enter into an exclusive relationship. The woman will start to test him and he will break his boundaries and standards that he once had. He becomes weaker and weaker to the point where the woman will say or do whatever she wants and the man will just let everything slide. At that point, the woman loses attraction and respect. She is now in charge of the relationship. The most important thing is to always make sure the woman remains submissive and respects you fully as a man. Only then will the relationship remain solid.
nah dawg youre gonna get weaker unconsciusly without you even knowing it if youre in a relationship because you will always go out youre way to keep her happy. little things like cuddling or binge watching movies or paying for her meals will make you weak and waste youre productive time. you think youre demanding respect but youre not if youre doin shit like that. And if you re super hard to where you dont do that stuff and think you demand respect she will find someone who will show her affectionate attention and soft love and do it behind your back. women are never satisfied You guys are so delusional its rediculous. Trust me she will get that guy friend at work who doesnt make her submissive and talk bad about you and complain that youre too demanding. its 2023 not 1980 Open your eyes bruh
Fax
@@Lonewolf_diesel That's very incorrect. A woman will only disrespect you if you allow it. Having a woman doesn't make you weak if she follows your lead and you as the man wear the pants. That is ultimately what every woman desires biologically. A man who will stand up for himself and not become her doormat. All she wants is a man who is not afraid to check her when she gets out of pocket.
You have to vet & get a high quality/value woman with morals and establish boundaries immediately!
yea that works back in the day. This is a new time .its too much access for a woman on social media and there brainwashed. Youre not around her all day so what you dont allow she s gonna do behind your back idiot . Why do you think 90 percent of divorces are filed from women because that stuff youre talkin only can last so long before she gets bored or wants more freedom. @@pepepez6335
I truly believe that women have a disdain for men who commit to 1 woman but Admire and desire a man who has many women and won’t commit to any of them even though they all say the total OPPOSITE. 🤷🏽♂️
Absolutely
Partially right, but it's really that the Alphas are the cheaters they tolerate because the potential genetic payoff is big. A Beta cheater won't be tolerated because HIS job, in her eyes, is loyalty, providing and NOT having many options for other women.
Agreed. It's a shitshow but this is just the reality. Imagine trying to build a successful family with women that embody this 🤦🏾
@@chrispeeples6961 Maybe try building a family with a godly woman? lol
@@sgballz1 Somehow, i feel a little less worse about my recent breakup.
First time I committed to a woman.
The shit-show I had to see.
As a 46 year old man, who has been hitting the gym consistently for over 20 years and is financially stable. In my 40’s, I have dated and been in relationships with woman from 21 to 50. Everything you say is 100% true.
Ive been the main guy and the side guy. Young men listen to this vid and share the truth.
😂... The side guy. That's hilarious, but it makes sense. Gosh women are strange
I’m 46 and had similar experiences
May I ask you? why do you have to date an old fart 50 years old woman . they are worn out, nasty and sagging . I would feel vomiting if even kissing them .
@@austinroberts6229they're eve L
Well said. Ive explained this to people so many times and everyone thinks im crazy. I choose and have chosen to be side guy. Tried relationships and its mind blowing how differently you are treated. They will do just about anything for you when they dont have you and treat you as a doormat when they do. Thats the truth.
True
ehhh, my man. its because you still dont have it all.... they get to actually know you and guess what, they lose interest.
@@amandaburleson2035 missed the point of the post by a mile lol
@@amandaburleson2035 Lady trust me, if it weren't for what's between women's legs and whats on their fronts 99% of men would be absolutely bored to peices by you. You actually think men like hearing about your poetry readings and gardening?? lawl baffles me how women are this ignorant
Bottom line…… learn to CONTROL your sexual desires or it will control you. Bring lustful will give her ALL the power. A women can only do you on if you can’t control your sexual behavior.
Mr. Zander, I finally found the answer I have been looking for. I have been the side guy for 8 years with a woman. I am 64 and she is 31, The relationship began 8 years ago. She has gone through 2 marriages and she has always had me as the side older man. My attitude toward her had been the attitude of a Sigma male. But it is up until now that I found the answer to the question: of why she has never let me go. It has been hard for me, but I kept to my self my true feelings and acted out exactly as you say: Dont give a dam. Thank you. This video made me cry. I am and live in Nicaragua, and regardless of the different culture, it seems that your teachings are for all races and cultures. Thank you
100 percent true. Women need constant excitement from shiny toys, that are kept from them, and are bored with the steady, and predictable, right by their side.
This is so True, y'all need to LISTEN.. I had a relationship and did everything.. I work and did my part.. You think You there with Her going through Life but in her Mind she is Somewhere Else.... LISTEN to Casey... Sir thank You so Very Much for this Powerful Video....
Sometimes the side guy gets his ass beat or gets shot... just letting my fellow brothers be aware of the circumstances. And she still wins, and the show continues as she plays her game with other players
Who wants to be with such a disgusting cunt who sells out the man that she claims as her special one? Bash her beauty in with a claw hammer and let's see her play her evil game.
totally true. The side guy makes enemies of the blue pilled simps. He can hold a grudge for decades, h8te you and decide to confront you decades later.
Facts.
it is impossible to respect someone that kisses your ass.....forget EVERYTHING you were taught about chivalrly growing up....holding doors open and big deal on valentines day etc......she will lose respect and grow to resent you.....always let them know you have options and have no problem walking away and she will treat you like gold.......does not matter is she " loves" you as long as she respects you...all about respect
Good shit! I apply the one foot in, one foot out mentality with all of these thots out here
This is 100% correct, you literally get her best moments and the main guy gets all the headaches.
I agree with you my ex wife turned 100% against me even when I was paying all the bills and taking care of her . You will never get back all the commitment you invested in a woman she will cheat and use you eventually
You can still maintain the mystery and frame that the side guy has while in a relationship. I only see my girl 3 days a week and she is always texting / wanted to see me / claims she can never read me. Also, the willingness to show that you can leave her at any point will always catch her respect whether you're the side guy or been in a 10 year marriage.
lmao how ugly is she... shoew me her picture... you wont
Playing mind and power games is to tiresome. Good for you to keep up with this crap, she is really worthy to you.
How do you have the energy to keep it up? I can do it maybe for a few months at most tbh.
3 days a week is too much. you're the main guy.
Only see her once a week, more then enough
I have been in this exact situation for 8 years, and Up until now I found the reason why she has been there all this time. Thank you for finding my answer. A tear rolled one of eyes
That’s truth… I’m 62, been practicing these techniques since I divorced at 49. Now I’m as fit as a college athlete, 28” waist, V taper, abs, balanced upper and lower body strength, competed in an American Ninga comp at 55 and did pretty well. Most important, I routinely date women 25-40….. and I’m the one being chased… having a PhD in engineering, and very well sorted financially gives me a lot of confidence. And I NEVER have to approach women. They seek me out
You're an inspiration, good on you 👍🏽. I'm 40 and in better shape than ever before. Financially stable, own house etc. I hope to be like you at 62!
I’m 74 and you are wiser than I. You are 100% correct on you analysis. It took me years to learn your “tesis”.
I'm dead. Hes right
@@mohitadlakha982 My condolences. 🤪
I am this guy’s grandfather and he’s right, you are wiser than him.
Jesus here
All of you are right
@@parshuram8031😂😅
Dude you are exactly right. I've been training powerlifting bodybuilding for 35 years. I'm 51 and still killing it with the chics 💯
I've been on both sides of this and can absolutely agree that women try harder for the side guy than the main guy.
It’s not selfish it’s self preservation! Don’t see the world how you want to see it…see it for what it really is!
and that my friend is what we call red pill.
I didn't know i was a side guy with 4 different women until 2 of their partners contacted me and other 2 by friends and social media surveillance.they lied to me they were single and unmarried .but the fact is casey is 100 percent right avout these topic.thesr kind of women will do anything n tell lies snd use manipulation to sleep with you the side guy n treat you best.
So..what we’ve subconsciously always suspected is true: Men and women can’t BE together. We’re never going to have a content, loyal “girlfriend”, or “wife”. The best we can hope to be is the “Jody”, the “back door man”, the cable guy, the fling, the side guy. That’s it. And as SOON as we catch feelings, they DESPISE us.
Okay. The evidence is overwhelming.
Sorry Hamilton, we can't with western freedoms that women have. We actually need a more middle east based system when it comes to dating and marriage. For the purpose of being able to raise healthy families again.
@dragorn that is the consequences for rejecting christ
Think of it in an ancient perspective, men were required to be out the home most times, and didn’t see the men a whole lot.
Nowadays men give a lot of time to women it dries them up
I can’t disagree 💯happened to me and i can testify all this is true!!!
The side guys tend to win these bitches hearts lol
This is completely true, it continues to baffle me why high status guys get married and commit to women. That's what lower status men need to do
Men do dumb things when they're in love
I've been the side guy. The treatment I got from her was something amazing compared to when I was her boyfriend.
Got damn man, Ive actually been thinking about this lately. I was thinking I can't continue this "F boi" lifestyle forever so i tried to settle down with the last girl and got ghosted for the first time in 6 years. Now this video just reaffirms my thoughts.
Well i guess I just gotta stay single forever then...
the good ones are sadly mythically rare
@solzenstein they don't exist and If they do its all a disguised to get what they want
Bachelor life untill your 50 then settle down haha
I'm a side man to a married woman in her 60s
Side guy here 👋 so I can affirm this. My ex’s usually recycle back for sex time anytime they’re on a “break” from their current bf or when they’re freshly single. I have no problem with the role, it’s there problem not mine.
So yeah be single have fun and take advantage of opportunity when it comes. Focus on the things that really matter to you.
Sounds like sex matters to you more then integrity
@@MichaelCorleone365 Woman don’t care about your integrity. I do have integrity but only in areas where it matters to have it.
@@cdeep4548 lol “only where it matters to have it”. So your integrity ends where female sexual nature begins. It’s not about women caring about integrity smh that’s where you extreme redpillers get it wrong. Integrity is for yourself, a distinguished integrity filled man won’t allow a woman’s sexuality weaken his integrity for some action.
@@cdeep4548why you say woman don’t care
@@Big_talks. Because of experience. I have slept with girls who’s boyfriends are actually stand up dudes.
This guy speaks the truth. I wish I would have heard this when I was 18.
You probably wouldn't have listened at 18. I don't think I would have.
Case in point… if you have been decently looking after yourself, what happens literally every time you run into a ladies’ night troop at the bar? Married or not, once one makes contact, they all want you, and the more you act like you don’t give a shit, the harder they try.
This explains to me why I
keep getting girls with boyfriends glancing at me constantly at the gym.
Yes the typical unhappy gym couples. They act way different when they come alone!
@@derekmarks8969 yup. This chick the other day came without her bf and she was suddenly in my vicinity.
lol, its sad but its pretty accurate, i'd also add that hypergamy is so much more real than so many of the guys out there think , its crazy I've lived it and seen it constantly tread cautiously it can be nasty out there.
Makes my heart ache. I was the main guy for a modern woman. Completely fell in love with.
Stopped talking to 4 other girls because liked her so much.
Guess who started getting lesser attention, who found about her side guys.
This is 100% correct…the only thing is that some of us have been doing this for 25+ years. It’s not necessarily a “modern woman” characteristic because this business model you’re describing has been working for years far before social media and modern culture. But I absolutely agree on everything that was said here.
I'd rather have a main girlfriend but the only woman are interested in me are the ones who already have someone else. It makes no sense. It's a turn off for me as well. I don't want what someone else is already using
lol my man, start approaching girls first. that simple... you only take who ever appraches you.... women dont respect that... good news you might be kinda hot and got the confidence (: god luck let me know how it goes.
@@amandaburleson2035 I approach girls quite often. The single ones like stringing men along for fun. The ones who are interested majority of time are the ones who already have a boyfriend or even a husband. Single women like screwing with men's heads. I've heard them say this themselves
You obviously haven't been dating many gen z girls. 😂
She already knows you the husband of 14 years, you are familiar, you have rapport, you are comfortable, you are predictable, you are BORING. While her side guy in comparison is delightful, mysterious, new, novel, fun, hotter, smells & taste delicious, does different things in bed, while with him her emotions are triggered into feelings of excitement & possibilities. Marriage is the worst thing a man could do.
💯 this from a divorced dad of one, I hit the gym smashed work become Superdad my ex wife wanted back in after other females wanted me and lover boy dumped her 😂
@@carlmarch9591 LOL - Living well is the best revenge. 3 years after my 1st wife cheated & I did like you did & the ex was jealous of my life.
@@georgevue8175 good to hear mate keep pushing on 💪
Scientifically proven in the book "The Red Queen"
Yup, and the side guy doesn’t poop, doesn’t snore, 100% of the time with him is a good time. How can the husband even compete?
"The competition is always getting more stiff" pun intended
Ht it in on the head with a hammer. Typically the 'side guy' has far more sex appeal than her boyfriend. Thats the guy she fantasizes about but is afraid to commit to because she knows he has options and will exercise them. Typically he will ignore and be dismissive and that will only make her feel more strongly about him.
I'm gonna share something that popped up in my mind while I was watching your video.
Long before knowing your channel, I met a girl and that interaction changed my whole dating perspective due to two main things: broken heart and the moral perspective of what's right and what's wrong.
When I met her she was married, but still she was giving me hints so I could see that she was interested in me. We were the same age and her husband was overseas. Long story short, we both knew we were interested in eachother but she was expecting that I would take a step forward and lead the interaction. I didn't know about that, I come from a family where the interaction is very masculine submissive kind of stuff. So the loss taught me a lot of how things work despite what I used to feel it was right or wrong. Questions like: "Why would a woman like her caliber was interested in me?" or "I love her for what if she doesn't?" haunted my mind everyday. I used to be a guy that wanted commitment and wanted to marry a girl and have a family. But nowdays I don't feel like it's worth it, despite that everybody in my family tells me otherwise. Your videos were a God given gift after the loss I went through, still are tho. I used to be a people pleaser (sometimes I still have the tendency to) because I really have no real masculine frame figure in my life, now I'm adapting to the reality leaving some dreams behind. Thank you Casey for what you share with us, keep it up.
Issa wake up call
I respect you because you say only the truth. Men need to be aware of that the tables are turned
The side-guy gets her excited! That's the diff.
A girl I knew had a 3 year old relationship but was cheating with a side guy for months cause the s3x was so good.. Truly sad
so what? its just s3x.... i bet she is still with him, not the side guy
@@amandaburleson2035 She is of course!!She needs the protection and the safe sure choice
@@heartbroken8105 good for her. women are smart/
@@amandaburleson2035 are you out of your mind? Do you think it's just sex and not a broken heart? Do you get happiness out of men's plight?
@@heartbroken8105 You should have blackmailed her. I don't see anything wrong with that since she's technically stealing resources from a guy
I had an affair with a “taken” woman a few weeks ago.
What this man is saying is 100% true.
Listen to this man. Being the side guy is 1000x better than being the main guy. You'll get all the benefits with very few of the downsides.
if you are the side guy, pretend that you commit BUT DONT, JUST KEEP PLAYING HER!!!!
How do we “pretend to commit”? And…to whom are we to “pretend to commit” TO?
@@alexanderhamilton8585 usually the girl will ask you"would yoy commit to me, would you be my bf?" just say YES no hesitation.
Side guy here, 100% correct
“The competition is stiff”. That’s a good one.
Never be side guy to any girl who has boyfriend. It is not moral. Respect another men. 🙏
It is all fun and games being the side guy until the jealous husband/boyfriend comes looking for you with a shotgun.
@@Josh-fp2qn Even worse is when he finds you and you find out out he goes both ways .
I had been broken up with and got told by her she had slept with someone else a week later. I decided to play cold and do it back to her. Bumped into her with different girls in town.. Twice! It drove her crazy and had her chasing me.
This is true. I've been the side guy many times in my life. Something I'm not proud of. I'm 50 now. Only one word of advice I'd give any young man going down this rout is know what you are to her. Never let your hart get involved.
I've actually found the opposite to be true. I have had 4 serious relationships and have dated casually about 20 women. So I'm by no means a playboy or at celebrity status when attracting women, but I feel like my experience is relevant to this discussion. What I've found is that women eventually want a commitment from a man, if you're doing most things right. This usually comes somewhere around the 2-3 month mark. However, If you're "casually" seeing a woman and you're doing everything right she will still leave you, if you refuse to commit to a relationship. If some other guy, that is also doing everything right, comes along and is willing to commit to her, she will drop the side guy. IF she sees you as high value she WILL eventually push for a relationship. The only woman that is going to sleep with a guy on the side and have a boyfriend is most likely a woman with a high body count and no morals.
most women have no morals. Moral is masculine trait. you are wrong on everything you said
You're correct, but these women that don't cheat now comprise 5-10% of the female population. It's really ramped up due to social media, dating apps, progressivism, etc.
Like you said, the secret is to take care of business and speak your mind. It leads to more heated discussions in your relationship when you honestly disagree, but you will maintain her respect.
I see what you are saying and i agree totally. But it also means there is no woman with wife materials anymore. The civilization is doomed.
I just discovered your channel and I like it. I have this girl who rejected me back in October 2022. I started hooking up and dating other women and ignore her. She has a boyfriend but even with a boyfriend she flirts with me, she invited me to get food and pay everything, she sent me a friend request on social media. I decline becoming friends because I don't want to end up in the friendzone. How do you avoid being the best friend and become the side guy?
Also I love how real you are, no bullsh##it no fancy video.
that friend request was her way to making you her side guy. just a way to keep in touch until date happens, you hang out, have fun and then sex happen. "it just kinda happen"
Even if she has bf. Shell make up smth and convicne herself that she did right thing whatever that may be and other girls will support her haha...
Most men need to understand that when you get in a committed relationship the woman will go into her nature right away and that is to shit test and try to emasculate you slowly. It’s not their fault they do it by nature to test if the man they choose is the masculine man they think you are. You job is to think logically and stay focus on you and your goals all while you demand respect from her and everyone around and respect her back. Don’t ever fall into her emotional frame. Women are masters of the emotional world and men are masters of the physical world. Because women aren’t physically strong they use their advantage of emotions to manipulate men. Never fall in her frame. Be aware how they ALL play the game. Learn to say NO this is very important she will act like she is mad an hates you but deep down inside she will fall even more for you because only strong men say no and actually mean it!
I think this is why I have less trouble with women than most guys I know. They want to be a husband and the boyfriend but I dont, I just want to be the guys that shes hooking up with.
Absolute king. the best position of all.
100% correct. You don't run after a bus once you've caught it.
I think the greatest part of this video is your outfit. Truly appropriate.
Thank you for giving us the raw truth. Respect Sir !!!
It's true. Sleeping with someone wife or girlfriend makes them crazy about you.. right after the break up is still good but if you stick around they will eventually promote you to "guy who should supply something for my time" and switch to chasing someone else asap..
In the early 2010s I was exclusive with 1 woman for 2 years. We fell apart and I had to get my own place and stopped talking to her. Fast forward and she came back after I hit the gym and we just had a physical relationship and I was treated way better because I didn't care about her like that. Then she got married but wanted to keep in touch in case it didn't work out lol
This is so true. Only one place to be as a man, the side guy. Every other position is a loosing proposition. Took me a long time and a lot of being the fool to get a clue about the true nature of women.
Can you share more? I'm curious what your story is
@@UniteAndAttack I was married once and she cheated after 7 years (wanted more). I divorced her. 90% of the women I have been involved with or witnessed in relationships cheated. At the work place most of the female employees were either married or living with their boyfriends and hitting on me because I was single, drove a nice sports car and they thought I had money. I refuse to be the other guy and do to those guys what was done to me. She is either totally single or I don't participate. You will basically always be next and someone else is always ready to replace you. The only way a woman will remain loyal is when she runs out of options. Don't be the guy she keeps on the string until her options run out and then your the guy, by then you don't even want her. I concentrate on making money, that's my priority. A woman has to chase me and then I'll decide if I want to jump back into the game.
@@Drumbeat52 Wow, that's really interesting. Do the women not feel any sense of guilt? How do you think society will continue if there's no stable family unit to properly raise children? I understand why you've removed yourself from the whole thing but do you ever feel lonely not chasing some form of female intimacy?
@@UniteAndAttack I never had a woman tell me she was sorry or apologize for cheating. To a woman (I think) they separate sex from love, I don't think a woman can love like a man, only their children. They view us totally different from the way we connect with them. A guy can be loyal out of the bond he feels for a woman, women on the other hand are only loyal out of the current benefit to them. They can switch guys in a heartbeat and not bat an eye. I watched my wife do it and we had a son who was 2 1/2 then and I could not comprehend what I was viewing. Yea, I miss the female attention and the intimacy but could have it if I wanted, just have to wait til I find one that makes the juice worth the squeeze. I am 71 years old and have girls in their 20's hitting on me. I look younger than my age and drive a nice sports car. I know the deal.
I am 57 years old, I have been around with lots of women, this is totally correct information, unfortunately being the side guy and knowing that she wants you gives you swagger and the energy from that rubs off on other girls which makes you more appealing but you hurt people like the boyfriends and the husbands, you just can't win, the choice is yours
All of this was facts, and you will understand what he’s talking about when you do these things
Uncle C is absolutely correct 💯
Always respect yourself and others. Never be or consider being the side dude.
I had this happened to me at work. There was this young early 20 year old white petite sexy chick, I was her side guy. We would hang together when her boyfriend was at work, she would even invite me into her apartment while her boyfriend was at work. I am 37 years old. It's sad because as men it seems we can't trust women anymore, either married or in a just a relationship in general. I was taught growing up women were the opposite of what we're seeing today and that's one reason I struggled to get into more relationships then I would have liked to.
Deep in my heart I wish a woman would be loyal to me until eternity but then I wake up and realize I can’t complain for being the current side guy 😂. (Gotta love feminine energy tho ❤)
Being single again in my senior years and had a 20-year relationship and marriage, it doesn't get any different, women continue to be in there feminism mode throughout all the years of their lives.
forge what others think about this video, because you are 100 % right. This is the way women think and act
Its about understanding what women want and playing into that (if that's what you want).
My father always told me to get an educated woman, with morals, and respect. I get his point now.
Morals are masculine trait only men can have . women don't have morals
Casey bro. The last three set of videos out of all the masculinity channels . No one has spoken these truths. Harsh truths but in the truth there is wisdom and truth shall set you free. Understand and check your boxes
The last three piece of videos are lifechanging. Give this man an applaus because he dropped some magic jewels and if you dont beleive it you are the chump standing on the outside of the wizard of Oz's curtain. Remember that. Dont be the guy on the wrong side of the curtain.
Very few women are suitable to be committed to and have children with. But they do exist. I have not given up hope entirely. But I assume they're not serious unless they prove differently. I am seeing one now who appears to be a strong candidate for this, but I don't build up my hopes prematurely. And whether it works out or not, the health of the relationship requires me to always be ready to leave. If she takes me for granted, she will lose me. Playing the game on hard mode is the skill of managing this without pressing the detonate button prematurely.
Even as a husband this is indispensable . Keep upgrading and bettering yourself. You craft, your fitness, your attractiveness, your hygiene, your money, your interests and pursuing them, and she will always be wondering what’s next…she will not want to miss out on the next episode of you.
The greatest threat to tomorrows win is yesterdays victory. Keep bettering yourselves gents. And of course make sure she’s a good woman as well.
I have always played the Simp even before the word was popular. 😂
The Bill Cosby robe is cracking me up. 🤣
Facts the boyfriend is just there for stability and the cute shit like dates and gifts and new experiences 😂😂, boyfriends are just for stability and survival
And the side guy is actually the main guy. He gets all the benefits for way less
One of your best videos. Thank you.
It’s basically the psychology of people want what they cannot have. If two people are around each other too much like in a monogamous relationship, they quickly grow tired of each other. Monogamy is extremely overrated. Humans are not wired for monogamy despite what Western culture says.
Best way to keep a women in a LTR is an abundance mentality. If the girl doesn’t meet your standards, you warn her you’ll leave. If she continues to not meet them then you leave.
Obviously this only works if you’re attractive and she knows that other women want to get with you.
Took a girl ive been sleeping with the last few weeks. The first time i went out with them in public I regretted it.
She started to flirt for attention behind my back the whole time.
I pulled her aside the other day and said I don't want to be seen in public with you ever again. At least not in our town.
The chick started to get too comfortable and now she's been let known that I'm never going to be her guy in public.
Since I've been nailing her the last month so frequently shes lost almost 10kg from the frequent exercise I put her thru. Therefore I know for a fact I dont need to be the guy out in public for her. Ive never bought her things. Shes paid for most of the food between her and I. Therefore I think its only fitting that I can actually put myself into the side guy position. Instead of being locked into the main guy position. We still arent officially commited yet. So adopting these principles I believe I'll have the leverage to turn this situation to my own favour. Since I give her more value in the bedroom opposed to being the guy in the public image.
I've been both. As a side guy you don't spend a dime and get all the ass like clock work. If you don't care to date its a much better position. It's pure passion.
You're a superstar, thank you for sharing this experience Tyrone
I have been a sideguy since college in the 1990s... Still a side guy in my late 40s.. its definitely the better deal.... you don't deal with her moods or have to pay a cent to see her...i have a disability but i look like keanu reeves...i don't even have a job....
Guys who focus on the career and provider role do their thing and i do mine
This was a banger for sure!!💯
Understand this lesson and silently play the long game. Don't ever let on you know the grift and you will always have the upper hand. And most importantly - don't be an emotional pussy about anything related to women. You can be solid, honest, caring and a stone cold motherfucker at the same time- it's the only way that prevents you from being a doormat.
I cant imagine wasting time dating a couple dozen women... obviously he's put in work, but who wants to be dating 2 or 3 times a week or weekend??
COMMITMENT LOWERS DESIRE
You are speaking the truth and nothing but the truth!
This is 💯 % true and that's the exactly reason men are killing each other
It's a good deal but be careful😂😢
Warner discretion: being a side guy might also catch you a side-bullet if not side-guy bacteria
Your take on this " RIGHT ON " the mark...
💯....fathers teach your sons this game, I never got it.