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  • @webbie1891
    @webbie1891 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5665

    Women complain how they wanna be a man's main focus, but they lose respect when that actually happens.

    • @skinfanjay
      @skinfanjay 5 ปีที่แล้ว +209

      Real talk

    • @McStrokeAvision
      @McStrokeAvision 5 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      chizplayaz facts

    • @scarvello
      @scarvello 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      Facts

    • @bashbash
      @bashbash 4 ปีที่แล้ว +180

      They wanting to be a man's main focus is about them validating their 'prizeness' as a woman

    • @theelifeofdez381
      @theelifeofdez381 4 ปีที่แล้ว +191

      thats the trick lol let them keep dreaming. thats how u keep her

  • @milesrashaad7402
    @milesrashaad7402 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5241

    I am taking my year off now and getting my mental, physical, spiritual, emotional, and financial life together. Mark my words! Thanks Kevin

    • @kenduejones
      @kenduejones 4 ปีที่แล้ว +93

      Facts 🧠💪🏾💰😎 stay on your purpose

    • @implive17
      @implive17 4 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      Good luck brother.

    • @cmearl2009
      @cmearl2009 4 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      Same here

    • @mizpehmisfitmontage3502
      @mizpehmisfitmontage3502 4 ปีที่แล้ว +137

      Me too bro lost my wife in June and I have to reset and get better stronger richer financially stable same goal

    • @marvincash3035
      @marvincash3035 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      Doing this now 👍🏾💯💪🏾 good luck fellas

  • @ivannevarez9174
    @ivannevarez9174 3 ปีที่แล้ว +777

    "When a girl knows you'll righteously leave, she'll righteously stay" - Patrice O'Neal (The G.O.A.T.)
    R.I.P.

    • @vuyisilejuqula4287
      @vuyisilejuqula4287 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      🦾💯

    • @PureWater3950
      @PureWater3950 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Ying & Yang ☯️

    • @dfreeman120
      @dfreeman120 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      100%

    • @MrSodaBelly
      @MrSodaBelly 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      And if she don’t then what

    • @unknownsource4359
      @unknownsource4359 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      nah , not all chicks will stay even if you played your cards right and walked away from her. I have dumped chicks in the past and they never came back.
      Girls have alot of options now a days.

  • @zaydozier
    @zaydozier 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2489

    These women will tear your life apart and keep it moving.

  • @lethalhands3567
    @lethalhands3567 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1176

    “Be the guy she wants to cheat with it’s better 4 u it’s better 4 her it’s better 4 everybody”😂😂

    • @mikeandmars2345
      @mikeandmars2345 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Vianna Janelle what lol

    • @princegel8967
      @princegel8967 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      💯

    • @kingswift782
      @kingswift782 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      4 fo 4

    • @slk1805
      @slk1805 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      🤣

    • @brianjackson3031
      @brianjackson3031 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      I disagree that comes with the possibility of her getting emotionally tied if you hitting it right.If she not the wifey type best leave her alone altogether build yourself up don’t waste your time.

  • @Kenny-Ross
    @Kenny-Ross 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2235

    Dating multiple women is time consuming. I don't know how guys do it. I'd rather use that time to build myself.

    • @trajic8414
      @trajic8414 3 ปีที่แล้ว +375

      And a waste of money

    • @Kenny-Ross
      @Kenny-Ross 3 ปีที่แล้ว +300

      @@trajic8414 Yes and that too! I don't know why men beat their chest because they're dating multiple women. You're being depleted.

    • @igboking11
      @igboking11 3 ปีที่แล้ว +164

      Yeah bro. I’ve been saying for years that dating multiple women is a job of its own.

    • @RJ12347
      @RJ12347 3 ปีที่แล้ว +81

      Better yourself and make yourself more marketable

    • @UniquelyControversial
      @UniquelyControversial 3 ปีที่แล้ว +83

      When you his age ... women calm down at that time

  • @kyree816
    @kyree816 3 ปีที่แล้ว +509

    You don’t have to chase when you know that you’re the catch

    • @gsiggs
      @gsiggs 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Ever since a mentor told me don’t chase the women, let the women chase you. It kind of all clicked for me since then.

    • @mw2132
      @mw2132 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Well not everyone's a catch soooo...

    • @ConcreteCrescent
      @ConcreteCrescent 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@mw2132 So make yourself the catch. You might not be the most naturally good looking person, but you can elevate your appearance with how you dress, groom, work out etc. You might not have the best paying job, but if you study or put your focus in the right direction, you can improve that. You might not have the most exciting lifestyle, but again, you can push yourself out of your comfort zone and start to live a more dynamic lifestyle.
      Not everyone is a catch to begin with, but that's what self-improvement is there to rectify. Saying that some people can't be the catch is just making excuses for being stagnant.

    • @mw2132
      @mw2132 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ConcreteCrescent I'm a 2/10 so even if I 'self improve' I'm still gonna be below average so its not worth it

    • @ConcreteCrescent
      @ConcreteCrescent 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@mw2132 If you haven't even explored your options, how could you possibly know what your potential is? I can't provide specific advice since I don't know you, but your situation is unlikely to be one of utter helplessness.
      I'm certainly not saying everyone can be a 10/10 daydream, but self-improvement is something virtually everyone is capable of. Whether or not you are willing to pursue it is ultimately down to you.

  • @naw011390
    @naw011390 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1141

    Did anyone else think this video was about to go south when security pulled up lmao

    • @patrickmartin2689
      @patrickmartin2689 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Just got to that part while reading your comment...😁😁😁 that part...✌✌✌

    • @norm1815
      @norm1815 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      yup

    • @thecluuchannel4705
      @thecluuchannel4705 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      I thought that too. *knock knock knock "Sir, that'll be $10 to park here"

    • @benila3992
      @benila3992 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      That security rolled up tryin to peep game! 😂💯

    • @anthonydanzy6605
      @anthonydanzy6605 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Man yeah lol. I was like, "OH HERE WE GO!" lol

  • @polymathfitness3332
    @polymathfitness3332 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1642

    Kevin Samuels look like he sing wedding ballads on the weekend wit brian McKnight

  • @adibee88
    @adibee88 3 ปีที่แล้ว +277

    The Power to:
    1. Say "NO".
    2. Walk Away.
    Two STRENGTHS Low-Standard Guys DON'T POSSESS. Kevin kickin'knowledge right here! 😉👍

  • @Clogreen14
    @Clogreen14 2 ปีที่แล้ว +589

    As a young 22 year old, just want to thank Kevin for allowing me to re-hear all what my father said in my youth, and realize that he was speaking logic to me that I didn’t understand as a teen. Going to put my best foot forward and make sure I make the most out of my life 💯

  • @thenewwisenubianpolygyny3158
    @thenewwisenubianpolygyny3158 3 ปีที่แล้ว +234

    S: Shame (Tactics)
    I: Insults
    G: Guilt (Tactics)
    N: Need To Be Right
    A woman is happy to work as a teacher, a cleaner, a babysitter, a nanny, a cook, a cleaner... but not if she's only working for one man even though he is paying her to do it all (and *also helping her do it in most circumstances) and they're her own kids.
    Women in their teens: "Yay feminism"
    Women in their 20's: "I'm a strong, independent woman. I don't need a man"
    Women in their 30's: "Where have all the good men gone?"
    Women in their 40's: Single, lonely and surrounded by 10 cats

  • @mauricejohnson5993
    @mauricejohnson5993 3 ปีที่แล้ว +260

    I'm married and took a year off from going out, spending extra time with my frat brothers, eliminating social drinking or being on social media. It made me think clearer, maximize my time, and I was able to gain stronger mental health, lose 60pds, make 6 figures, and start multiple forms of income. We often focus on things that are actually setting us back. PS if you want to meet a chick that is in shape go to the gym, if you want a woke chick try spoken word or sorority events and if you want a quite/smart chick go to Barnes and Nobile. Its not that hard there are more women than men. Enjoy stay true and stay safe. You will stay successful.

    • @FreeAgent99
      @FreeAgent99 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      100% agree, but how are you gonna get to know the girls at a book store?
      Cold approach worked 10 years ago, not so much today.

    • @bigkeezo
      @bigkeezo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@FreeAgent99 try it anyway don’t be scared

    • @lodbigs8669
      @lodbigs8669 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@FreeAgent99 it still works I always walk up to women and holla if you attractive they gon go

    • @reynaldobaca3403
      @reynaldobaca3403 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      You went to college and all that but you can't spell quiet? Lol

    • @petittall557
      @petittall557 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@reynaldobaca3403 Is that all you remember from everything he said here? You need to be in the mindset of manhood meaning we shouldn't bring each other down. We lift each other up here.

  • @jesuscastaneda9219
    @jesuscastaneda9219 2 ปีที่แล้ว +243

    As a 21 year old, this shit was helpful asf. I just left my 4 year relationship and I should’ve set my standards up high in the beginning and not bring it down for no female. I appreciate you Kevin, you’ll be miss godfather 🦅

    • @82powpow
      @82powpow 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      you too young to focus on a long term relationship. focus on you. take it from a 40 yo man that’s learned the hard way and wishes i’d learned sooner!

    • @xXSuReaLXx
      @xXSuReaLXx 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@82powpow agree. wasted half my life at 27 in relationships that go me nowhere other than down

    • @Goku_Kiyosaki
      @Goku_Kiyosaki 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      be lucky ur 21 and realize this, i wasted 4 1/2 years of my life getting with 1 girl at 19

    • @diredeaths
      @diredeaths 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      same age and am in the same situation! good luck to you bro

    • @axeljairmejoradogarcia8183
      @axeljairmejoradogarcia8183 ปีที่แล้ว

      dont forget keep it up with your mental aswell state bro

  • @selfmade8884
    @selfmade8884 5 ปีที่แล้ว +810

    Good video. Damn, the validation in her words was serious. When a woman knows that she can never slip up or she would lose you is the space I want to occupy. That’s the true essence of being a high value male. This was definitely a thought provoking video.

    • @Sasquatchbones
      @Sasquatchbones 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      He uses manipulation and bribery, he’s a sugar daddy lol and he specializes in being a sugar daddy. He’s great at it, if that’s what you want then by all means this guy will teach you the ways.

    • @supersupera82
      @supersupera82 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      @@Sasquatchbones Agreed. There’s something very dark and manipulative about Kevin’s teachings and practices. There’s nothing genuine or pure about it. It’s all a game. Maintaining a facade the whole time in order to bend women to his will. Notice, Kevin always refrains from using the dreaded “L word” - love. He probably doesn’t even believe it exists. To him, everything is transactional. It gets exhausting. He never quite gets to be himself... but hey, to each his own.

    • @Mark-zg4ky
      @Mark-zg4ky 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      @@supersupera82 because love doesn’t exist how people see it. It’s centred around necessity when it’s long term. Yes, it’s hard to swallow what he’s saying but it’s the truth. If you keep an open mind you will see patterns in your life proving what he teaches

    • @sharondavis2145
      @sharondavis2145 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@Sasquatchbones you best believe that, I can't imagine the pain any woman have to go through being with this man

    • @danielfuentes5428
      @danielfuentes5428 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@supersupera82 yea this is a weird lifestyle. He just gonna end up old and alone 💀 who knows maybe even broke

  • @davidboyden1693
    @davidboyden1693 3 ปีที่แล้ว +130

    "Baby, you can talk all you want, you can hit the sheets or the streets. What I'm saying is, you can go or you can come, can you dig it?" - "Black Dynamite."

  • @deshaundavis6326
    @deshaundavis6326 3 ปีที่แล้ว +276

    Ultimatums come from a woman's nature of wanting to control men. But when you show them your not afraid to walk away, they act correct.

    • @matthewcharles1572
      @matthewcharles1572 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @@fromhopelesstovictorious275 once we hit, we don’t care! 👣👣👣

    • @tadiwadzino8225
      @tadiwadzino8225 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@fromhopelesstovictorious275 you sound goofy. I'm sure you don't like ultimatums either, you just forgot to think before you replied.

    • @purpletruths6673
      @purpletruths6673 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@fromhopelesstovictorious275 don't be delusional

    • @tadiwadzino8225
      @tadiwadzino8225 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@fromhopelesstovictorious275 that's rich. Imagine how well I can communicate my needs without resorting to manipulative tactics like ultimatums. Read the original comment again. Women use that for control. Good luck with that bullshit now

    • @jasonday272
      @jasonday272 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@fromhopelesstovictorious275 women have been misguided on purpose by mothers and friends with underdeveloped minds....but I do understand a woman thinking she has control....I advise for 25 for 30mins

  • @mattmatt7084
    @mattmatt7084 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    The USA government killed this man ..

    • @laupewoh
      @laupewoh 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      yes it was not all the red bull he drank continuously catching up with him… it was the government…. conspiracy theories….

    • @Stahfu
      @Stahfu 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Shh, they don’t like it when you use their Government name like that..👀

  • @yourmajesty4352
    @yourmajesty4352 3 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    This holds so much weight. As soon as they feel they don’t have to “keep up” it’s over

  • @ErikaBzphib
    @ErikaBzphib 5 ปีที่แล้ว +347

    You are so right about being excited; if I'm not excited to see "him" , I am bored and one foot out the door.

    • @johneta7665
      @johneta7665 5 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Being a Better Me that’s cool. That carousel will always be there for you. Just don’t become a bitter old woman. It’s so unbecoming

    • @ErikaBzphib
      @ErikaBzphib 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      John ETA not into faking it John, I know what rock my boat Hun. my Man, can attest to that. Don’t you remain bitter and alone.

    • @ErikaBzphib
      @ErikaBzphib 5 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      RRY PHILL I didn’t say bored; by excitement I mean attracted to his swag, his smile, the way a man makes me feel . Take Kevin for example, I’ve never met him, but based on his conversation, his masculine confidence and the way he dresses, his self-care and mastery of self, I would love to meet him. Stale, lazy and simple men do bore me.

    • @iamwhatiam187
      @iamwhatiam187 4 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      Erika Brown Then all of a sudden when you become accustomed to him you lose interest and the excitement is gone... like one of these commentators said; go skydiving or something, skydiving will always get your blood pumped and super excited no matter how many times you’ve tried it

    •  4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      You gotta man with a comment like that? Y'all must not live together?

  • @LeelosAdventure
    @LeelosAdventure ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Bro, I’m 26. Tbh I’ve listened to this great man nearly everyday since February. This is the best summer of my life I’ve ever had

  • @JuliusMinor
    @JuliusMinor 5 ปีที่แล้ว +551

    That security guard in the background looking like he ain't walked in days...lmao
    But I agree... If she hit me with an "Ultimatum" I'm voting with me feet...
    Good work Bruh!

    • @6688ya
      @6688ya 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      3:17 hahaha😎🍺

    • @Eleven-dk4be
      @Eleven-dk4be 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Oh damn Lol!

    • @SiyandaCarl
      @SiyandaCarl 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Lmao! Immediately when I saw it, I came to the comment section.

    • @waitforit6524
      @waitforit6524 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Bro, the security totally distracted me too.

    • @alexpablo1200
      @alexpablo1200 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yeah he has to check his marks on patrol ..if not he will sleep his tour of duty..checks and balances

  • @BaronOfAnarchy
    @BaronOfAnarchy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +369

    She can fantasize about me all she wants but I'll stick to the women who saw me before I was someone and is still with me while I become someone.

    • @itslucasmaia
      @itslucasmaia 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Absolutely bro

    • @TheManUpPodcast
      @TheManUpPodcast 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Fax

    • @Pharoah2
      @Pharoah2 3 ปีที่แล้ว +63

      Thats the thing these guys dont get. You gotta find a ride or die before you make it, otherwise you’ll just have gold diggers around you at all times.

    • @thisismystone9658
      @thisismystone9658 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Pharoah2 I don't agree with you.. what makes you think that they will be gold diggers?!

    • @Pharoah2
      @Pharoah2 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      @@thisismystone9658 would those girls have looked your way before you had money? I doubt it. Hence gold diggers. If you’re okay with only being appreciated due to your wealth then feel free to marry one of those. But some of us want a little more.

  • @Jaronekv
    @Jaronekv 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    26yrs old and his message hits harder now when you're going thru it & wanting to improve. rip Kevin.

  • @SmoothVisionMedia
    @SmoothVisionMedia 4 ปีที่แล้ว +573

    Kevin lowkey reminds me of Tracy McGrady...

    • @shehateme9955
      @shehateme9955 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      😄 who's the smooth Tracy McGrady lookin cat. Said that long ago wen I came across Kevin.

    • @Zeek314
      @Zeek314 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      SmoothVisionMedia yea he does lol

    • @RoYalWChZ83
      @RoYalWChZ83 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Omg 🤣😭😭

    • @kenduejones
      @kenduejones 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      💯

    • @YAHdiEL
      @YAHdiEL 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      TMac and Shannon Sharpe to me

  • @ericjones3920
    @ericjones3920 2 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    The advice kevin was giving was right on point. Gone wayyyy to soon. But my brother, your meassages will live on through us men. You are well appreciated. R.I.P my Brother.

    • @CB-mh5pk
      @CB-mh5pk 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      ✔️✔️✔️

  • @georgesontag2192
    @georgesontag2192 3 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    Never worry about dating, pressure, relationships, if she likes you. Worry about signing the marriage license - that can destroy you life in one day.

  • @td3141
    @td3141 3 ปีที่แล้ว +96

    Most of my dating life consisted of women who after dating, I would later find out were already in relationships. A lot of women cheat, yet make up all sorts of validations and lies to keep the label of cheater off their backs. I’m married now, and still have women trying to get my attention. The worse part were some of my wife’s social circle. They intently stare, in hopes of trying to make eye contact, or doing things to catch your attention. My wife is not insecure and realizes life is too short to worry about scandalous women even in her own circles.

    • @bigkeezo
      @bigkeezo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Those agents of chaos smh

    • @dmoneydadon94
      @dmoneydadon94 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      💯💯💯

    • @Moonlight-126
      @Moonlight-126 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      As you get wiser...women know other women. When you are fortunate to know women's code you get it....stay blessed. Your wife knows....you have a keeper.

    • @GrapheneOxideIsInCVVax
      @GrapheneOxideIsInCVVax 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Moonlight-126 Can you elaborate please?

    • @christianhenry4173
      @christianhenry4173 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Cute them out of her life and yours. Nope not pending on temptations

  • @lw6323
    @lw6323 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    I was dating this chick and she was calling and texting me 2-3 times a day and as soon as I said I could see a possible future with us she stopped calling and texting immediately. She was keeping her options open. That’s how they are, say they want a good man but as soon as they find it, they lose interest. You are right that you have to keep women guessing. So I’m taking a few months (not a year) to work on myself.

    • @nunkito
      @nunkito ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Never tell a woman your feelings first . Let her bring it up.

  • @beardgangdenzel
    @beardgangdenzel 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    Security definitely wasn't gone catch anyone with that limp 🤦🏿‍♂️

    • @ForGlory1
      @ForGlory1 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lol

    • @mikebrar7800
      @mikebrar7800 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      or by leaving his car door open

    • @Fsojack
      @Fsojack 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Waddling his ass

    • @Insert.namehere
      @Insert.namehere 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      💀💀💀

  • @abroadmentally5127
    @abroadmentally5127 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I dipped and dabbled in KS content for the last 2 years and I finally slowly woke up from the deep sleep of misandrist programming. Now I’m going through his entire catalog to gather all the lessons and take advantage of his experience to take myself and family to the next level.

  • @jaws2003
    @jaws2003 5 ปีที่แล้ว +375

    Had to listen to this twice. This video made me play some things back in my head with other women I've dealt with. It's crazy women say they want a man that well put together but when they get him they're scared to compete. Then when they get with that sub par guy they wish they would have chose the guy well put together. My dad used to say something similar to this.

    • @Kenny-Ross
      @Kenny-Ross 4 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      They're intimidated by men who carry themselves with class and that are put together. The pick of men that a LOT of women choose to be with leaves me dumbfounded.

    • @peewee3030
      @peewee3030 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Exactly

    • @peewee3030
      @peewee3030 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@Kenny-Ross lol, they want someone they can run over, and feel superior too

    • @jambajoby32
      @jambajoby32 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      @@Kenny-Ross they only want you when all of em want you but no one wants you when no one wants you

    • @TaNesha2010
      @TaNesha2010 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Aw those women don’t understand being able to compete is fun, love keeping myself together bc I know I turn heads and I look good for me so it’s good for me and the man ☺️

  • @gjsnsbeisnsjwiowoaksns9197
    @gjsnsbeisnsjwiowoaksns9197 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Don't go with the woman who cheated on her boyfriend because odds are she'd most likely do that to you as well. Think guys think..

  • @geraldpolmateer3255
    @geraldpolmateer3255 3 ปีที่แล้ว +85

    My wife is so precious that she motivates me to be a better man.

    • @geraldpolmateer3255
      @geraldpolmateer3255 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @matt rardin when one is around people of excellence that helps to promote excellence. Mediocre people associate with mediocre people. For about forty years I have read about 2 books each week. My parents owned a dairy farm. Once I left the farm others looked lazy.

    • @sarahb6758
      @sarahb6758 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      It sounds like marriage is sacred to you.♥️ This video is kinda toxic.

    • @jasonbaker7730
      @jasonbaker7730 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@sarahb6758
      This video is aimed for guys under 50 though.
      Gerald is married and older.
      Women from 1950s are way different then modern women.

  • @lilt5948
    @lilt5948 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Kevin’s channel is great for any man looking for self improvement. A lot of abusive women have spoken against him because he puts their games to rest.

  • @wesjoyner5083
    @wesjoyner5083 3 ปีที่แล้ว +76

    U can't make nobody happy if they are not happy with themselves💯

  • @richwilson4655
    @richwilson4655 3 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    I can dig it. I just don't have time for multiple women rn. Id rather work out, get money, pray & stay out the way💯

  • @GregBusby214
    @GregBusby214 4 ปีที่แล้ว +178

    FWIW, one positive benefit of this COVID-19 quarantine for me is that it is allowing me to take my year off to get myself on-point in multiple areas of my life.

  • @ANTHONYTERRELL
    @ANTHONYTERRELL 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    He ain’t never lied👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽! Patrice O Neal said the same thing back in his time!

  • @OscarGeronimo
    @OscarGeronimo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    "Take a year off. Get your body right, mind tight, image together, purpose on point, game on lot, and get back out there.
    Set a standard that is going to make you happy. Go after YOUR happiness, because when you're happy she's happy, because when you're happy you can make her happy; when you're unhappy you can't do anything for any other women you're dating.
    Be the guy she wants to cheat with, it's better for you, better for her, better for everyone."

  • @Doug5614
    @Doug5614 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Shout out to you Kevin. So many important timeless truths here that have served me well. R.I.P. brother.

  • @sufian1977
    @sufian1977 5 ปีที่แล้ว +122

    Real talk Mr. Samuels you some of these women are intimidated when a real G comes into their life. But your in her life to elevate her game.

  • @tonyrichengod9280
    @tonyrichengod9280 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I'm bummed that I only just discovered Kevin after his passing. Man's spitting all kinds of fire! 🔥

  • @Ifixitall
    @Ifixitall 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I’ve done dated multiple woman and the same time. It’s time consuming, stressful and emotionally draining when you start to care for all of them. However if you can maintain and keep consistent the initial feelings of not caring that might work for some people. I rather date one at a time.

  • @hypernel1798
    @hypernel1798 4 ปีที่แล้ว +290

    Nah bro just be a good man and stay single. You're more happy without all that bs and stress

    • @AngelCruz-ko7qq
      @AngelCruz-ko7qq 4 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      Bro I just thought about this women make the shit extremely complicated to be genuine

    • @coreysanders6197
      @coreysanders6197 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Preach

    • @bigstep9276
      @bigstep9276 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      He’s using psychology as confidence to manipulate situations. I’m not trying to hate on his money but he’s using toxic behavior to fight toxic behavior

    • @hypernel1798
      @hypernel1798 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@bigstep9276 low-key this why he's actually doing but that no one wants to admit

    • @icemike5974
      @icemike5974 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Square Bizzness Bro. Fucc he talkin bout

  • @najirban
    @najirban 4 ปีที่แล้ว +97

    Your style game is inspiring. Much appreciated. Also got me into wearing cologne again. I've noticed the shift in women's behavior towards me. Much more receptive to my presence and energy

    • @grindhard4312
      @grindhard4312 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yeah me too. I stopped wearing it for years but I'm about to jump back into it

  • @mark24soal1
    @mark24soal1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +348

    I get it,,,,,but if she's going to cheat? She going to cheat no matter if you got your game up!

    • @antwionbrown5222
      @antwionbrown5222 4 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      Facts

    • @bigkeezo
      @bigkeezo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Gentlemen I found that out the hardc way but ✊🏽

    • @BESTPLACESTOGO333
      @BESTPLACESTOGO333 3 ปีที่แล้ว +61

      But if your game up you can move on and hit the ground running

    • @kdubb11
      @kdubb11 3 ปีที่แล้ว +68

      That's why you NEVER give her your all. You must have that take it or leave it attitude. It's funny, when you don't care they are crazy about you. The second you fall in love and give her all your attention, she starts to resent you.

    • @Twonne1
      @Twonne1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@kdubb11 you are absolutely right.

  • @paulcameron34
    @paulcameron34 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This is so true. If your honest with a woman and can have a normal conversation you win. Don't over think it be yourself the rest will come.

  • @nexxus2853
    @nexxus2853 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    So much truth here brother kev.
    You can't make anyone happy unless you're happy. It all starts with "you" 💪🏿

  • @nyamahdunbar3821
    @nyamahdunbar3821 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Glad he made it clear that it's mutual. Don't get complacent on either side!

  • @Anonymous25491
    @Anonymous25491 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Listen to this man , I wish I had this man in my life 5 years ago , I wouldn’t have knocked mine up and have to get rid of all the bad habits , if a woman has an attitude problem , kick her to the curb , save yourself the headache and stress , you only get one life

  • @RMIDRIS
    @RMIDRIS 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    It's sad that I got to know you when u are gone.Your content is still helping us though.R.I.P KS!

  • @darylnesbitt6083
    @darylnesbitt6083 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    He's going to be well missed he's a good man one love R.I.P 🙏🙏🙏🖤

  • @thestraycat69
    @thestraycat69 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    31 male here 14 year relationship, rebranding myself, he has be extremely useful to the process, I'm grateful the videos exist.

  • @SteveBrooks757
    @SteveBrooks757 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    R.I.P. Godfather. This video helped change my perspective

  • @breunique1468
    @breunique1468 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    im a woman and i use to think Kevin was too harsh on woman then he said one thing i realized im dating the same person just in a different body he woke me up and i realized im the problem in the dating world 😂 Kevin is a awesome dating coach he keeps it real and u dont get that from ppl these days i appreciate u and ur swag is on a whole different level 💯💯😍🤴🏾

    • @jamrockjamrockjamrock3106
      @jamrockjamrockjamrock3106 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Know what else Kevin sent me as will tell you you would never be good enough for the man you want because you just admitted that you've been with several men and no high value man who have options with choose a woman that is ran through

  • @Sneakycastro69
    @Sneakycastro69 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I thought security was gonna tell KS to gtfo the parking lot 😆.

    • @dpd4life
      @dpd4life 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😂😂😂

  • @Mr.Hashira
    @Mr.Hashira 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Aye, Kevin thank you for everything

  • @kanchokomancho1
    @kanchokomancho1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Winning formula: Be a guy who doesn't care much, who is on his own mission, who’s clearly aware of his values, a guy who holds his own frame,...and who has slightly more pronounced psychopathic characteristics than conventional men

  • @anthonyledbetter1513
    @anthonyledbetter1513 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    this just pop up and im married and this is on point definitely reaching my goal im 38 been married for 12 years and this hit the heart I totally and literally agree with every word not a having a dad or male figure in my life I had to learn this on my own

  • @liemokid
    @liemokid 3 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    I'm not a Brad, or Tyrone or even a Julio...but I must have my shit together because I HAVE been the dude they cheated with. Right before I got married, the last 4 women I was sexually active with all had boyfriends or significant others. I didn't approach any of them, they each positioned themselves into my life. One girl moved out of her boyfriend's apartment to come stay with me for a season--literally, she left after the holidays when I got tired of her foolishness.
    Men, just keep your focus on YOU. You are your best weapon, tool and investment--all in one. Never lose focus of that, of yourself. Keep your edge, stay on point and all will come to you. It is physics, basic laws of the universe. Make yourself the center of gravity and all things will revolve around you.

    • @NCardude
      @NCardude 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Mauricio you speak truth, brother. I've had very similar experiences with married women and women with boyfriends. They were the ones who would take initiative with flirting and even propositioning for s*x. I get more attention from them than single women and it's always when I feel genuinely content, secure and confident in myself staying on my game and purpose. The minute I make women the focus the whole dynamic changes very noticeably. 💯

    • @grizzly6633
      @grizzly6633 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      My brother beautiful words, all so true attract never chase.

  • @zaytime4156
    @zaytime4156 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    This my first time really watching one of your videos after they tried to slander you on social media and you actually make a lot of sense, women don’t like you cause you tell the truth and put men up on game.

  • @gwappo4852
    @gwappo4852 3 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    I think Kevin was a PIMP back in the 90’s but he isn’t telling us anything about that past.

  • @pedropeguero84
    @pedropeguero84 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Can’t believe this man has passed away so soon R.I.P King

  • @1CHOZN7
    @1CHOZN7 4 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    You can never be the guy she wants to cheat with. Because they're never satisfied!!! Be yourself and the best you can be at it. And if she don't like it, other females will. Her loss

    • @kuja5809
      @kuja5809 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Absolutely

    • @samueljohnson9915
      @samueljohnson9915 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      You can absolutely be the guy she wants to cheat with

    • @1CHOZN7
      @1CHOZN7 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@samueljohnson9915 Nah cause after you she's going to the next guy

    • @samueljohnson9915
      @samueljohnson9915 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@1CHOZN7 She who wants to go, let her go. Don't make me no nevermind. Just have to take the opportunities

    • @1CHOZN7
      @1CHOZN7 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @@samueljohnson9915 Facts! But taking most opportunities is the problem with us men today. If we would pay most of these unworthy women no attention, then and only then will their heads go back to normal size!

  • @thedavisdimension
    @thedavisdimension 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Been told my standards are to high too many time. That doesn't make any sense. Step Your Game Up!!!

  • @kevindaley5117
    @kevindaley5117 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I love that goal to take a year off and get your life together before seeking validation from others. I love his honesty.

  • @bdfm34
    @bdfm34 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I miss Kevin. He told the truth

  • @kansascitymob5520
    @kansascitymob5520 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thanks Kevin!!! You got my confidence back up!!!! Never had a problem getting women but over the last few years I’ve been slipping with my weight and somewhat appearance!!! Thanks again!!!

  • @ctheshooter9945
    @ctheshooter9945 3 ปีที่แล้ว +142

    Don’t know how I stumbled across this channel but this sounds like some ole pimping 😂😂😂

    • @Az-dc4nu
      @Az-dc4nu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Exactly 💯

  • @saidnasser5172
    @saidnasser5172 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Their is no passion to be found playing small,in settling for a life less than the one you’re capable of having

  • @alphawolf0217
    @alphawolf0217 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I dont follow kevin much but you are most def on point with this one here!💯
    If she see's you as a boyfriend, walk away.

  • @TalkEssence
    @TalkEssence 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Look men are expected and pressured by women and other men to level up mentally spiritually physically emotionally and financially all the time. Why shouldn’t women feel the same pressure in all of those areas? It makes us all better.

    • @getmoney8751
      @getmoney8751 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Because social media destroys that concept and they just wanna be the next IG model and get paid for nothing! There is no more morals these day's "some" women don't understand what classy means anymore. All they want is fast money and attention from multiple people. Everyone is too busy looking down on the next person.

    • @TalkEssence
      @TalkEssence 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@getmoney8751 this is a thing sadly

    • @getmoney8751
      @getmoney8751 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @matt rardin sadly

    • @norbatdepaname
      @norbatdepaname 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Cause nowadays the wealth of a woman is between her legs so why she should improve herself? The gynocentric society allow and encourage women to be worshiped with their body.

    • @TalkEssence
      @TalkEssence 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@norbatdepaname lol I would venture to say that the lusts of men brings a woman to think this as well. Sad though. Very sad for us all.

  • @nodaysoff2005
    @nodaysoff2005 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    If you chase women you lose money, if you chase money you get women

  • @jessemcdaniel7007
    @jessemcdaniel7007 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    I did this for years. Wasn’t worth it. When you finally do get into a relationship idk if it’s karma or what, but all the time you hear things she’d tell you about the other guy or you’ll see her do things and how she moves so that when you get into a relationship your insecurities are crazy

    • @guntersamy
      @guntersamy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Hello You about the other guy? My Man she belongs yo the street. Wall away king.

    • @darkwing451
      @darkwing451 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Her going on about old flames is already a red flag. People who do that are damaged goods, like a used car that has been in a wreck. You drive it for a while, and the check engine light comes on, then you take it to the shop and patch it up to only find something else wrong it down the road. Why you would put yourself through that mess is beyond me, at some point you must've known something was off.

    • @kissmlungu7883
      @kissmlungu7883 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      then don't get into relationships

    • @Jdsofar
      @Jdsofar 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@darkwing451 facts lmao well said

  • @Only-_-1Shotta
    @Only-_-1Shotta 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    RIP .. speaking facts while he’s resting ..

  • @jlawre1
    @jlawre1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Much respect big bro. You’re holding it down

  • @combatxhoop7069
    @combatxhoop7069 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I understand but when you're living with each other how can you apply that shit, there's no mystery left, she knows where I'm at

  • @kirbyaugustine761
    @kirbyaugustine761 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    What she was really saying in codified language was it would be impossible to break your manhood down because you being a “high value” man was real deal Holyfield and wasn’t a facade.
    The entire time while she was enjoying herself with your time and company she was looking for weaknesses and she couldn’t find any. To a greater or lesser degree ALL women do this and that’s why a man pursuing being his best self regardless of the woman he’s with is paramount.

  • @holytrinity2698
    @holytrinity2698 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    bruh u gotta 92 yr old security guard in parkin lot hop out the whip limpin....just wtf is he gone guard 😅

  • @craigmoore6829
    @craigmoore6829 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This one rite here hit differently …

  • @NaturesLifeSuperhero
    @NaturesLifeSuperhero 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm not married and the woman I'm dating greets me with the emotions of someone getting a gift. 100% I feel the same for her

    • @MasteryOrder
      @MasteryOrder 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Great relationships are built on trust, character and reciprocity. If you can make sure that you embody those elements and if the woman in your life does the same you will have a great chance at a lifelong relationship in which both of you will thrive.
      If you enjoy challenging ideas and if mastery and masculinity are subjects of interest to you, I invite you to explore the videos I share on the Mastery Order Channel.
      Challenge yourself with some ideas about manhood, explore your masculine potential to the maximum and become the kind of man you would admire.
      We can only better ourselves together, as men among men, so I invite you to use what I share and, of course, share your own opinions so that others can benefit from them as well.
      Looking forward to your points of view.
      All the best to you!

  • @ChandlerWorthen
    @ChandlerWorthen 5 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    Inspiration. Thanks OG, I always tell people who ask why I dont have a girl... Because im the one they wanna cheat with.
    -☝💙.

  • @johnnymillz3110
    @johnnymillz3110 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    RIP brother appreciate you everyday Kevin.

  • @Thanos0001
    @Thanos0001 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    When I was in my early 20's, I was that guy that girls wanted to cheat with but they didn't want me as a boyfriend. And at the time I couldn't understand why. Now that I'm in my 50's I finally understand.

  • @africangirl189
    @africangirl189 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    It's sad now you are bones in a quiet place alone!!! Life!!

  • @coolwatersmusic
    @coolwatersmusic 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thanks Kevin....I’m 51 and not to old to learn....you gave me some good insight and motivation to better myself!!!

  • @mikef55
    @mikef55 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I had a girl cheat on her long-term boyfriend with me & the devil on my shoulder tells me it's a good feeling 😈

    • @bane8257
      @bane8257 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      same will happen to your future long term gf

  • @raymondchambers486
    @raymondchambers486 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The reality is you can't keep excitement going it will become a norm. Everything new gets old with time. You have to settle down with a woman that knows this or can grasp it conceptually.

  • @thisismystone9658
    @thisismystone9658 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Ultimatums are very important especially because we have to put time issues in perspective. If you walk away then well and good. You were unwilling to be the one or to put in that much needed work and value.

  • @caribbeanbound8357
    @caribbeanbound8357 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Even in my early 20's, girls had told me that they couldn't date me because they are too intimidated.
    They said they could be in a relationship with someone who has their stuff together because they are uncomfortable being the one who would always be messing up.
    In other words, they don't want to put in the work and they are looking for a spineless sucker
    This is what happens when you expect a lot out of yourself and others

  • @Saxology219
    @Saxology219 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Brother PREACH!!!!!! I have been saying this FOREVER! Guys and Females thought I was crazy. 🤦🏽‍♂️ 💯

  • @kham832
    @kham832 5 ปีที่แล้ว +82

    This is a real player player channel... dope

  • @manu85345
    @manu85345 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Not even in the US but Kevin’s wisdom is gold anywhere

  • @kwamexxx773
    @kwamexxx773 5 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    When Im dating multiple women ... Im accused of being too “date friendly “ .... when a woman find out that i have high expectations for myself ; I’m accused of have too high of a standard .... yo man ! WTF

    • @elizabethjones4325
      @elizabethjones4325 5 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      That is a good sign bro. Keep going. It implies those women are not meant for you. Never compromise your 'healthy' values. A wise woman will come your way soon and she will appreciate being in the presence of a man who values himself. Enjoy the journey.

    • @annoymous7052
      @annoymous7052 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Elizabeth Jones wow girls like this acc exist well done 🤝

    • @10RBREEZY
      @10RBREEZY 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Honestly bro, do you. If it's working for you keep it up. People complain whether you are doing good in life or bad.

    • @kwamexxx773
      @kwamexxx773 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@10RBREEZY I do ... I was just saying!

    • @datwavykiddave231
      @datwavykiddave231 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I’m on the same timing brotha. Real woman that deal with us high standard brothers will do anything to satisfy us as long as we keep the pressure on them. We have to remind ourselves that we are worthy too

  • @sunshinepower627
    @sunshinepower627 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Rip Kevin …Truly missed

  • @novacme
    @novacme 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The more she thinks I have options the more she doesn't trust me to be loyal. Double edge sword.

  • @justice528hz3
    @justice528hz3 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Only one or two. They jump for joy.

  • @stevenlanza8443
    @stevenlanza8443 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    We out here playing checkers this man was playing chess ♟

  • @chrisfounga8267
    @chrisfounga8267 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Men need to understand that Kevin here isn't saying that you need to become a cheater to attract women . You need to adopt the psychology of a cheater, player by tweaking, twisting it a bit to fit into the fabrics of who you are without having to change YOU in a grand scheme of things. How do armies across the world keep developing their military might/ power? It's by watching and learning from their enemies' military might advancements to try to keep up/stay one step ahead. Many men complain about women liking assholes, cheaters, players but don't wanna learn the necessary tools these type of men have to attract women because of the perception that these men are lowlives and you're above them on some sort of high morality ground. The "lowlife" is certainly not having blue balls nor is he ever running out of women to date. Is he?