Can relate a little with him. My ex cheated and I went on wrong path neglecting my kid in my personal experience and was doing meth in my personal experience and by my hearts prayer, Jesus showed up, found $10 in a trash can to buy some food and soon found a place to rehab. Been clean off meth since 2006. I send out my prayers out to Sandy. Give Jesus a try, nothing to lose, speak to him from your heart to take any resentment and ask him for any help in what you need and want. Matthew 7:7
Yes I relate. I too was cheated on and my meth addiction started it lasted a long time I'm now clean going on 5yrs. I put God 1st and then understood life 🎉
Many people can relate. Some don’t know how to deal with it because they’re too embarrassed, and turn to drugs or alcohol. Thank you for sharing your story, it shows that Sandy’s not alone, and turning to Jesus really does help. I’m glad you got over that toxic relationship and doing better.
@@julieanntorre1485I’m glad to hear you’re doing much better. Being cheated on can be really painful, especially if kids are involved. I pray God continues to strengthen you.
God sees and feels your pain just have faith and trust in him because he will see you through Sandy 🙏 please don’t take your life think about your kids because they will need you.God will help you just believe in him and have faith 🙏🙏🙏
@ thank you so much for all you do and I love your channel as well 😊 I will pray for Sandy and I know that God will help and heal him through his situation
@@johnny14794 so true. Losing your family is not easy to get over. Some people become stronger and better, while others chose to give up on life. Sad but true.
What a lovely and painful life story I came across. I am a fellow micronesian where he is from, Chuuk FSM. I am an assistant pastor from one of the chuukese church of Jesus Christ here in Hawaii. Only one advice that I would like to give this fellow chuukese (Sandy) and I hope he will accept it take it and treasure it as only possible solution to this life that he has had for 20 very long years of suffering and lonely. Take Jesus seriously. ask Him to show you His ways to get yourself out of this mess. Ask Him to give you strength to get you to the other side of your suffering and misery. I encourage you, Sandy, do this and you will be having a peace of mind and get back to normal. I PROMISE YOU. THANK YOU, May the Lord hears your prayer fast. Rusty Maras
I feel you brother it took me 3 years of alone I was in the blaming game but took me 3 years of talking to my self in the dark a lot talking to GOD telling him my why me why this but I cried for days after I figured it out an when I did I FOUND PEACE THROUGH GOD AN ME FOR 3 years an GOD then took my BROKEN PIECES IN MY LIFE an put me back together again in front of the ones who hurt me an broke me with out even noticing it
Wow, thanks for sharing your story. I pray Sandy finds the same strength in God to get over this. When he does, I’ll be happy to share his success story.
Sandy told me when he goes to sleep, he wishes he doesn’t wake up. I pray he finds the strength to move on, work hard, and contacts his kids - they’re grown already, but he could still help them.
One thing about some of these Chuukese here on Guam is they bring their relatives out from Chuuk & next thing they kick them out & they end up homeless. Some of these homeless dnt knw any English & they dnt have the concept of working & paying bills.
I believe there is truth to what you say. Some people are afraid to say it because it might sound racist. Ignoring the problem will not make it better. I appreciate your courage. I would like to interview you, to speak your mind and facts.
@@groovyp4615 yes, they were both teenagers. He told me he was 18, but then said he could’ve been 19. Not sure if he meant when he moved in with her or when he had his first child. Either way, he was a teenage adult. As long as the parents gave consent, made it legal. Correct me if I’m wrong, but that’s how I understand the law.
Of all your videos, this is one of the heart-felt and lessons to some. Thank you for your encouragement to sandy and viewers.prayers to sandy, I hope he move on.
Sandy is a grown man! He’s been waiting around for Doris? I think after 20 years… she’s not coming back! If he loves his five children like he claims, he should go find work and support them! I don’t know why people feel sorry for him 🤷🏻♀️ and what about the five kids? Mother and father both abandoned them! They should both be embarrassed about that! Sandy, get a job. You work before, you have five kids, they’re waiting for you, just like you’re waiting for Doris!
Holy-Torpedoes! My friend and I sure would love to interview you about politics and people who hold office. You don’t hold anything back. As for Sandy, Doris would break up with her recent BF, and tell him they would work things out, only to find another BF. This went on several times and two babies (not his) later. Thanks for your brutal honesty. Hope to see you soon.
God specializes in broken hearts. Ok! there seems like there’s some depression. He needs to grieve properly, move on and get into therapy. Appealing to Doris will not help, in fact, she wouldn’t love him , she would cause more pain because she doesn’t love him. Sandy needs help understanding proper love. Does he speak about childhood trauma? If so,that may need to be addressed. There seems to be attachment and abandonment issues.
does he work?, is he using illicit drugs, does he have issues with with alcohol? how old is he now he was 18 and she was 15, is that legal in guam? it's aweful but i think he gave up too easily anyone that curled up his/her tail without putting up a fight normally end up like this gentleman pray..pray..pray....Fight!fight!!fight!!🙏🙏🙏
I'll only state what I do know: he's homeless, unemployed, I've seen him drink once, it's legal only if the parents give consent, and he's around his mid 40's. And he definitely needs to move on.
@planetguam8475 indeed a Goddess, however I do not practice witchcraft on others. Very interesting to witness the power of "spells/prayers/intentions". Yet we all have free will:) I am hopeful he will find inspiration.
Sandy what island in Chuuk are u from & whats ur last name??? Its better to go back home & work ur own lands before someone steals it. Tirou & excuse me for my opinion.
I agree, going home is probably what he needs to heal and move on. Staying here brings too much memories, making it very difficult for him to heal. Apologies not needed for your opinion, you kept it respectful. Maybe this is what he needs to hear, thank you.
No, he is Chuukese. Not sure if he’s a citizen, but if I was him, I would’ve left a long time ago. I would go home to family and friends instead of torturing myself here.
Brother you need to move on I been thru that situation but your kids comes first than anything els bro there's a lot girls out there waiting for take my advise
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Can relate a little with him. My ex cheated and I went on wrong path neglecting my kid in my personal experience and was doing meth in my personal experience and by my hearts prayer, Jesus showed up, found $10 in a trash can to buy some food and soon found a place to rehab. Been clean off meth since 2006. I send out my prayers out to Sandy. Give Jesus a try, nothing to lose, speak to him from your heart to take any resentment and ask him for any help in what you need and want. Matthew 7:7
Yes I relate. I too was cheated on and my meth addiction started it lasted a long time I'm now clean going on 5yrs. I put God 1st and then understood life 🎉
Many people can relate. Some don’t know how to deal with it because they’re too embarrassed, and turn to drugs or alcohol. Thank you for sharing your story, it shows that Sandy’s not alone, and turning to Jesus really does help. I’m glad you got over that toxic relationship and doing better.
@@julieanntorre1485I’m glad to hear you’re doing much better. Being cheated on can be really painful, especially if kids are involved. I pray God continues to strengthen you.
So sad for him 💔 Hopefully he'll find 🙏 peace. That's a lot of kids to take care of. Love this channel ❤️
Thank you Linda. I pray too that he finds peace. Walking around lost, in a shell of what he once was, breaks my heart.
God sees and feels your pain just have faith and trust in him because he will see you through Sandy 🙏 please don’t take your life think about your kids because they will need you.God will help you just believe in him and have faith 🙏🙏🙏
Thank you so much for your faith and inspiration, Sandy needs to see and read your comment. I’m going to look for him now and show it to him 🙏🏽❤️❤️❤️
@ thank you so much for all you do and I love your channel as well 😊 I will pray for Sandy and I know that God will help and heal him through his situation
Half way thru the video😢 I pray he finds the love of his life and they live happily ever again work, church,eat rest & repeat
Thank you for your prayers ❤
Video really touched my heart. Those people homeless and hopeless. Many choose to be that way. Thanks for sharing Che'lu. God bless. GIB
@@johnny14794 so true. Losing your family is not easy to get over. Some people become stronger and better, while others chose to give up on life. Sad but true.
Help our homeless they are our brothers and sisters 🙏🙏🙏
Yes, we are all brothers and sisters ❤️
@ 👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽
What a lovely and painful life story I came across. I am a fellow micronesian where he is from, Chuuk FSM. I am an assistant pastor from one of the chuukese church of Jesus Christ here in Hawaii. Only one advice that I would like to give this fellow chuukese (Sandy) and I hope he will accept it take it and treasure it as only possible solution to this life that he has had for 20 very long years of suffering and lonely.
Take Jesus seriously. ask Him to show you His ways to get yourself out of this mess. Ask Him to give you strength to get you to the other side of your suffering and misery. I encourage you, Sandy, do this and you will be having a peace of mind and get back to normal. I PROMISE YOU.
THANK YOU,
May the Lord hears your prayer fast.
Rusty Maras
Amen 🙏🏽 Thank you Pastor Rusty. Always good to hear advice from a man of God.
Damn 20 plus years and still waiting. Ouch!!!
Loyalty too strong from this guy. Hope he moves on.
I totally agree. It’s been too long, he needs to move on.
loyalty but mostly lack of manhood and self-respect
Planet Guam Rulz umbre. Showing support and love from overseas.
Thanks Che’lu. Always good to hear from you all the way from Las Vegas. Much love to all my Che’lu’s in the mainland and overseas🤙🏽
real life and hardships hope sandy gets where he needs to be cheers bud
Yes, I’m hoping for the best
Alii from 680... I enjoy your videos.. Thank you! Whishing him well!🙏
Thank you 🙏🏽
prayers ❤️ 🙏
Thank you, prayers helps 🙏🏽
I feel you brother it took me 3 years of alone I was in the blaming game but took me 3 years of talking to my self in the dark a lot talking to GOD telling him my why me why this but I cried for days after I figured it out an when I did I FOUND PEACE THROUGH GOD AN ME FOR 3 years an GOD then took my BROKEN PIECES IN MY LIFE an put me back together again in front of the ones who hurt me an broke me with out even noticing it
Wow, thanks for sharing your story. I pray Sandy finds the same strength in God to get over this. When he does, I’ll be happy to share his success story.
You have to work hard on moving on with your life. Once a cheater will always be a cheater. You can still support your kids from afar.
Sandy told me when he goes to sleep, he wishes he doesn’t wake up. I pray he finds the strength to move on, work hard, and contacts his kids - they’re grown already, but he could still help them.
Sad I agree, but always remember this is literally only one side of the story.
I agree. Would be really nice to hear from Doris. Thanks for your honest comment.
Where can we find this Doris ?? 😩😩
Good question. Even Sandy don’t know. Sure would like to interview her and get her side of the story.
The only solution is to get close to God, continue to pray for freedom.
yes, he needs to find strength somewhere, because he obviously doesn't have enough.
One thing about some of these Chuukese here on Guam is they bring their relatives out from Chuuk & next thing they kick them out & they end up homeless. Some of these homeless dnt knw any English & they dnt have the concept of working & paying bills.
I believe there is truth to what you say. Some people are afraid to say it because it might sound racist. Ignoring the problem will not make it better. I appreciate your courage. I would like to interview you, to speak your mind and facts.
Doris was 15 and sandy was working security guard 🤔🤔🤔
@@groovyp4615 yes, they were both teenagers. He told me he was 18, but then said he could’ve been 19. Not sure if he meant when he moved in with her or when he had his first child. Either way, he was a teenage adult. As long as the parents gave consent, made it legal. Correct me if I’m wrong, but that’s how I understand the law.
Of all your videos, this is one of the heart-felt and lessons to some. Thank you for your encouragement to sandy and viewers.prayers to sandy, I hope he move on.
@@Mailerumong thank you for your prayers. Yes, I too hope he moves on.
There needs to be a place people can shower on a daily in order to get a job 😢
Yes there is, but he has no ambition, hope, or will to work. He needs to snap out of this depression so he can function normally again.
Sandy is a grown man! He’s been waiting around for Doris? I think after 20 years… she’s not coming back! If he loves his five children like he claims, he should go find work and support them! I don’t know why people feel sorry for him 🤷🏻♀️ and what about the five kids? Mother and father both abandoned them! They should both be embarrassed about that! Sandy, get a job. You work before, you have five kids, they’re waiting for you, just like you’re waiting for Doris!
Holy-Torpedoes! My friend and I sure would love to interview you about politics and people who hold office. You don’t hold anything back.
As for Sandy, Doris would break up with her recent BF, and tell him they would work things out, only to find another BF. This went on several times and two babies (not his) later.
Thanks for your brutal honesty. Hope to see you soon.
God specializes in broken hearts. Ok! there seems like there’s some depression. He needs to grieve properly, move on and get into therapy. Appealing to Doris will not help, in fact, she wouldn’t love him , she would cause more pain because she doesn’t love him. Sandy needs help understanding proper love. Does he speak about childhood trauma? If so,that may need to be addressed. There seems to be attachment and abandonment issues.
When you say Micronesian, what is the difference between that and Chamorro?
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@@staycesedgwick9557I totally agree 💯
What’s Doris last name might know her
does he work?, is he using illicit drugs, does he have issues with with alcohol? how old is he now he was 18 and she was 15, is that legal in guam? it's aweful but i think he gave up too easily anyone that curled up his/her tail without putting up a fight normally end up like this gentleman pray..pray..pray....Fight!fight!!fight!!🙏🙏🙏
I'll only state what I do know: he's homeless, unemployed, I've seen him drink once, it's legal only if the parents give consent, and he's around his mid 40's. And he definitely needs to move on.
Look for a church where the holly spirit is moving and surrender to Jesus then then recieve blessing from the Jesus amen
Good advice. Thank you 🙏🏽
I end up saying a lady was a friend of my parent but they was not i start to do bad plzz kot dont let me be homeless
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He's clearly under a love spell
Yes, it looks like it. Being our Goddess, maybe you could break that spell 🙏🏽
@planetguam8475 indeed a Goddess, however I do not practice witchcraft on others. Very interesting to witness the power of "spells/prayers/intentions". Yet we all have free will:) I am hopeful he will find inspiration.
I will pray for him so he can get to know Jesus and accept Him as his savior. He has to think about his children.
Yes, I agree. Thank you 🙏🏽
Sandy what island in Chuuk are u from & whats ur last name??? Its better to go back home & work ur own lands before someone steals it. Tirou & excuse me for my opinion.
I agree, going home is probably what he needs to heal and move on. Staying here brings too much memories, making it very difficult for him to heal. Apologies not needed for your opinion, you kept it respectful. Maybe this is what he needs to hear, thank you.
Is he Chamorro? is he a US Citizen? If not he should go home.
No, he is Chuukese. Not sure if he’s a citizen, but if I was him, I would’ve left a long time ago. I would go home to family and friends instead of torturing myself here.
5 kids by 20?
@@aplujan81 yes, according to him, she was 15, a baby every year until she reached 20 and started working.
Recipe for poverty.
Sad story. Where is Sandy from anyway? He looks like Chuukese and speaks like Chuukese.
Yes, he is Chuukese. Doris is Chamorro.
He looks a bit tipsy so he’s okay guarantee. He should just swim in the open water and relax da mind.😊
Swimming in the ocean does help to relax the mind, and he's been doing that, but I believe he needs more. Thanks for your advice.
Two sides to a story but sad. 20 years is long but be real. She is not coming back to you.
For him, love is blind. But yes, I agree she’s not coming back. Wish he would open his eyes.
Brother you need to move on I been thru that situation but your kids comes first than anything els bro there's a lot girls out there waiting for take my advise
Good advice, I hope he listens.
Same story accross SE Asia, single mom's looking for a tall foreigner to rescue them.