Something I’m ashamed to admit: I’ve been avoiding this video for a while, because of my own insecurities and because in my mind, Harmony is a conventionally attractive/model-like girl who actually looks beautiful without makeup..and I just dismissed the video before watching it because I thought like, “how could anyone who looks like that understand hating your face..she’s like a model” I’m glad I gave the video a chance. Still working on my envy/comparison issues, it’s a daily struggle. I’m realizing It’s important to remember that everyone struggles with this, even people you wouldn’t think. You don’t see yourself as others do. Inner work is the basis for loving your exterior. thank you for making this Harmony!
Funny...I felt the same way. Thought I was the only one 🤭 But like you say, no one sees the same you do. Some people may like your face better without makeup, while others may not. It's a bit like with art. If you paint a picture, and it didn't come out exactly like you imagined it in your head, you would propably talk bad about it an emphasise the "flaws"....but everyone else sees a perfect and well done painting. They don't know what it was "supposed" to look like. I TRY to think this way about my face. Because let's be honest, there are good and bad days, even WITH makeup. ❤😊
Your “no foundation” make up tutorials legitimately changed my life. I realized I didn’t have to do a full face of make up every-time I wanted to wear eyeshadow. It sounds so silly but it’s true!
I have been doing this for years :p my skin used to be pretty bad and i changed my diet and started taking care of myself and now everyone is asking me what i do with my skin :) Edit; almost nothing. Wash with water & microfiber cloth every night, put beef tallow on my face every three days 🤣
My mother says absolutely horrible things to me about my face on a regular basis, and it's always a constant inner battle with myself to learn to love myself despite the insults. She went hard on me yesterday when she visited, so this video feels like serendipity for me.
I am so sorry 💛 it is so awful when it comes from a family member ☹️ my father and uncle used to bully me because of my face too. how my nose is too big, my face shape is too round, how my freckles look like fly shit and once my dad said that my face look so disfigured when I cry that he is just too disgusted to look at me. it really got to me. really badly. I honestly believed I looked like a monster. everytime I looked at a fly I would feel ashamed about my "shitty" face. I think what really helped me was to realize that I don't agree with them. I don't think I am ugly and the only real reason why it ever crossed my head was because other people told me so. if it was really just me and my opinion...I find my face cute. I didn't wanted to let other people decide whether I can love myself or not. I realized that I would never ever tell anyone that they look ugly! like how could someone do such thing? especially to their family member especially to a child? I wanted to protect myself from those comments by covering myself with love towards myself. I hope you feel better about yourself soon too! based on your profil pic you are sooo pretty by the way 😍
Blessings and healing your way, nobody deserves that from her momma. It does terrible things to us, but I'm so happy for you that you are aware that what she is doing is wrong and seeking beautiful sources like Harmony Nice to heal your energy. You're beautiful, take care
Im so sorry you have to hear that from your mother ;-; it must be hard to think that you look nice in such situatuons, but please know that 'looking good' is something that comes from within us, and its not something others get to decide. There is no such thing as the 'most beautiful face', bc everyone is so beautiful within( i know that sounds SO cheesy lmaoo im sorry). Also pls remember that i think youre pretty. 💖🌺
you are so so so beautiful regardless of what anyone says. your mother is likely projecting her insecurities onto you and trying to bring you down to make you feel better, which is so wrong but it isn't your fault at all and its not about your appearance. you need to try setting some boundaries with your mum, in the ned of the day im guessing youre both grown women. you ant allow people around you that are treating you this way, so tell her to clean up her act or start distancing yourself i think.
My biggest thing was I stopped apologizing to people when I wasn't wearing makeup. Things like, "hey guys sorry I look like a mess." I didn't even realize how much I apologized for just having a bare face.
Yes this!!! Constantly apologizing for my makeup less face because I’m so used to being told I look sick or tired when I’m not wearing any. Got used to apologizing for my natural appearance !
When I stopped wearing makeup, shaving and wearing a bra, I felt so 🌛f r e e🌜 and people noticed how comfortable with myself that I became. I switched to all natural/organic skin/hair/hygeine products and now I have an external glow too 💕
Almost all my insecurities about my chest disappeared when I stopped wearing a bra, as counter-intuitive as it may seem! About shaving and freedom: my thought process is that if I can't be outside without being shaved, it means I'm not really free, or not as free as I could be (or as men are). Since my aim in life is to have a free soul, I try to shave as less as possible until I feel comfortable with my natural body. It's a journey :)
When you said: "I think my sister is the most beautiful person in the world" and she said:" But we are both so very alike, if you think im so beautiful, how can you not be?". That made me feel so sad, I cried, I'm still crying, because that was so beautiful and deep and sad. You are gorgeous Harmony for being you!
I once watched this video: th-cam.com/video/x8BMBE165vU/w-d-xo.html about filler spreading with time (it might look like it disolved after a few years, but it is also spreading) „Victorian Cosmetic Institute“ is a chanel I enjoyed on the topic of fillers. :)
You will look beautiful no matter what you decide, but if I'm being honest, I think people look better before procedures almost every single time! I'm sure you're lovely. Maybe wait a bit longer to feel comfortable with your wonderful little face before giving some stranger your $$$
I had the opposite journey. I spent my whole life with a bare face, because I was afraid. I had a fear that people would look at or notice me if I tried to wear makeup so I never learned. It was a big deal just to wear a lipstick on occasions. Then a few years ago around 27 I gained courage from watching beauty TH-camrs to try it out. Now if there’s a special occasion I feel very meditative taking the time to apply and hype up for the event.
That’s exactly how I am! I’m 19 and so nervous to even learn how to do makeup because people would probably look at me weird since I’ve never worn any before.. I really want to learn how do hopefully I get enough courage to learn and be able to wear some whenever by my bday in 2021
Me too! I like to wear some on special occasions to look extra glam :) but i personally usually only go out with blush, lipstick because my lips are pale and sometimes some mascara or brow gel and i really feel beautiful. Frizzy hair and all there's just something nice about being used to your bare face, you realize your own beauty :). I hope everyone feel beautiful in their own skin
same, I am 19 , and ive never really applied makeup my whole life, cause I thought everyone would judge me and even I would judge myself 'as a wannabe pretty whos always gonna remain ugly no matter what she does'. I really wish to change this mentality and start applying makeup
It's weird how so many naturally beautiful women are insecure about their appearence. she talks about accepting her face as if there is something repulsive in it, but to me it looks so beautiful and cool. It's so sad how brainwashed we all are :( and the amount of inner work on self love it's needed to get out of it a little bit
The TV and Movies magickly convinced everyone that they had to look alike with certain god-goddess-like proportions, like Athena & Diana! If people really like you, they should appreciate your face.
I feel like no one ever talks about self esteem when it comes to soecifically your face. Im pretty much fine with everything neck down (obviously there's good days and bad days), but i HATE my face. my nose, ears, smile. its most of my insecurities and its so hard to get over
I think lockdown helped many people get over the "having to wear" makeup routine. As well, more and more people and celebrities were posting images of themselves without makeup, in lockdown in their homes. Let's hope that continues, to alleviate the pressure to look a certain way all the time. :)
Yes!! I agree! I’ve never gone so long without wearing makeup and became so used to my natural face. It really helped me cut down on makeup and just use it for special occasions or for fun
i cant really relate to this in terms of makeup because ive never really worn any but this is exactly how i feel about shaving my body hair. i used to feel so disgusted and embarrassed by my body when i didnt shave but then i just stopped shaving one day and got used to how my body looked naturally without me having to change anything about it and now i actually really like the way my hairy legs look :))))
@@hannahtaylor6235 I too have really dark and long leg hair, both on my calves and my thighs. I never got past that point of accepting it. I don't like or love it, I don't hate it either, but I really wish I had more confidence and self-esteem to wear shorts and just... not shave. Thankfully winter is around the corner so who knows, maybe I'm just gonna stop shaving for good. But comments like yours really help me get closer to loving my body hair. So thanks for posting it. c:
I find myself hating my face most after a binge of Instagram and TikTok. I can’t stop myself from comparing myself to all the beautiful girls. It doesn’t even help when people say “oh that’s social media that’s fake” like maybe but sometimes not. There are just beautiful people who can take a video of their face without hating themselves and I just wish I was one of them.
take a video and get 10k+ likes for literally just l o o k i n g at the camera. it sucks, and makes me feel terrible as well. i hope you’ve healed at least a little since this comment
I'm 31 years old, and I only stopped wearing make-up about a year ago. I was a complete slave to the feeling of having to be "made-up" just to pop to the grocer's, to pick up my kids from school... and I decided that I didn't want to do it any more. I also stopped straightening my hair, and I'm so much happier with it. Women are held to such a ridiculous standard of beauty; it's such bullshit.
You are absolutely right. Its no wonder we feel like this when the makeup industry is worth hundreds of billions of dollars... this artificial beauty image is always being pushed onto us from every angle. I threw out all my makeup in 2014 and have never felt better about my life
@@ashleysalazar2012 Its hard to love ourselves when we compare our features to the standard "look" that society calls beauty. Believe it or not, true beauty is inherent in everyone, because its the unique features we have that no one else will have.
I realized being comfortable without makeup when you’ve worn heavy makeup for a long time is a matter of legit wearing no makeup for days or weeks consistently and looking at your face as it is. Sooner than you think, you’ll begin to become more familiar with your own natural face. The key for me is wearing makeup as little as I can, it’s hard to hate your natural face when it’s been two weeks since you’ve seen makeup on it. The more often makeup is worn the more your mind is trained to focus on the insecurities when we see our faces as they truly are, when we’d never look twice at these features had we never felt the need to cover it in the first place
I wish... I hardly ever wear makeup and I just HATE my face. Seems like I still have a long journey ahead of me eventho it is like that for over 10 years already....
meatysheep educate yourself on mental health and building genuine self confidence as much as you possibly can, don’t ever stop putting effort into these issues until you reach it, you can do it, you are beautiful, and your worth is much deeper than skin. The skin on your face , the bones within your face, and body, are what give you this incredible experience of life, they support the brain that keeps you breathing and thinking, the love and connection you give and receive to/from your loved ones and family, we,YOU, are worth so much more than your face. But I guarantee you, your face is lovely, I don’t need to know what you look like to know this ✨
This!!! Haven’t worn makeup at all bc of quarantine and did my makeup the other day and I feel like I look so strange with makeup now because I’m so used to my face without it
I was always bullied because of my nose and fat face. It took a while for me to accept myself. I use to beg my family to get me plastic surgery for my nose and round face. I was also really small as a kid so my body wasn’t growing at the same rate as my face. But now that I’m older i realize that all I need to do is accept myself to be happy. I was seeking the approval from people that didn’t matter, so I let them control my life and decide if I was worthy. What really matters is what you decide for yourself. You decide if you are worthy.
PSA: NEVER ask a woman if she is sick or if she's been crying because she isn't wearing makeup. I've had women do this SO many times to me and it really has made me feel like shit about my face. And then on the other side, I've had women make fun of me for wearing makeup every say, saying "ugh, who is she tying to impress" etc.,, yet the only reason I used to do that was to feel halfway decent about myself and avoid all the negative comments about my bare face. There is NO pleasing people. Try to accept yourself, because you can never win with trying to be accepted by the world. And please do not make these types of comments to other women. Also to Harmony Nice, thank you so much for this video. You are helping so many.
I'm very lucky because I love my face with my imperfection, my mum and dad helped me in this because i look like them mixed and this i precious to me, now I also like my big nose 👃
I’ve been having the absolute worst breakout and my body dysmorphia makes me think my cheeks are huge and my eyes are tiny. This helped me start bringing myself back to the true me, thank you Harmony 🖤⭐️🖤⭐️
My skin breaks out fairly minimally (just during my cycle) but it’s very pink all over and feels hot like all the time (not burning but like when you blush). Reducing makeup due to wearing a mask at work all the time really helped me except my pink face
@@abigailjadee Yes!! The quarantine was horrible as well as the pandemic but at least it helped me start this journey and I am feeling way better about my face now
I have a really unhealthy relationship with makeup, to the point that I don't go anywhere without wearing it anymore. I wish that I could love my face without it, but I just don't. It's sad to admit really. Thank you for the tips Harmony
Lina Sk I was/ am still in the same boat. Originally I planned on majoring in cosmetology. When I worked on people I never once tried to “change” my clients. My goal was to celebrate their individuality. It was fun and felt rewarding. I realized by doing my makeup everyday it wasn’t the same mentality I brought to my clients. I’d try to get my eyeliner perfect to hide how close my eyes are and the list went on. That didn’t feel like a celebration of myself at all. I still use the same amount of makeup but I really try to be more positive and I’m beginning to forget the things I hated before. That’s my advice, if you feel you can’t leave without makeup on than just try to change how you view your routine. Imagine doing makeup for someone you love and try to give yourself the same amount of appreciation. It’s done a lot for me mentally. Wishing you the best 🌸 it’s not easy.
Coming off of FB and IG was the best thing I ever did for myself! I'm so happy with my life and myself now 😌 nothing matters anymore. No negative vibes from other people. No comparing myself. Just love and life and being free to be me 😌♥️
Although I am male and DO NOT wear make-up (used to wear eye-liner on certain occasions in past time) but I must say, you are beautiful in your countenance and your Flame Hair, very Alluring and Dazzling... Much Love Dear Sacred Sister!
I was wearing full face make up through my whole teen years after going through a lot of trauma and also bullying at school and stuff. When I was about 18 years old I sadly was forced inpatient on a closed ward mental hospital and I've been there for over 1 year and they basically took everything away from me there and I was too depressed for even finding energy to put mascara on or something. I realized I didn't even knew how I really looked without make up anymore before that bc I even went to bed with make up on bc I felt so insecure. In that mental hospital I started to realized how I actually look like and I felt gross the first months but there was this amazing lovely nurse always supporting me and telling me that I am beautiful... and this as strange as it sounds was the first time other people told me that I look beautiful... I am 24 now and I still don't seen myself as beautiful but I don't hide underneath make up anymore and I kinda accept my face... Thank you for uploading this... 💚
If only boomers realised that from the time we're teens into the time we're in our early 20's we *have matured* hence why we look back on these times and do healing work and self-reflection. I did some cleansing work on the waning moon earlier this week before yesterday's new moon.
This video came at a perfect time. Even when I don’t leave the house, even during quarantine, I feel a compulsion yo put on makeup every morning to feel clean and right. Partly to cover acne but also because I have the same feeling that being happy with my appearance will make me happy in general. I also pick my skin and lately have been trying to use mindfulness and tapping to stop that and also cut down on makeup. Eventually I want to be happy with my face but I’m taking it slow and trying to clear my skin
One day I decided that if I put the same effort into skin care that I did with makeup, my skin would be a lot better. So I tried it- face oils for that highlighted 'glow', keeping my skin clean as possible. You'll be amazed at how many people just won't even notice that you're not wearing makeup.
I feel that SO MUCH about relying on makeup making you feel "clean and right", even when alone. Strange how we're taught to not even be able to sit with ourselves and our own flaws. So proud of your progress, you've got this!!!
Omg I did this a few months ago, I threw away / donated(to friends) 99% of my makeup (I've been in the hair/beauty industry for the last decade) It felt so good !(only worn anything like 3 times in the last 6-7 months) Now I have the bare minimum and it's wonderful and I am so much more mindful about what I buy and wear 💚 loved all your content for years and it's no awesome to see how you and your content has grown and changed ☺️
I’m so glad I’ve never worn foundation - because I developed a tricky relationship with eyeliner (wore it everyday and thought I looked hideous without it) and I can only imagine how much worse it would be if I had also been covering my skin. Harmony’s right sometimes you need to go cold turkey and get used to how your face really looks before you can get to a point where you can use makeup in a healthy way.
This new direction you have been taking your content in has become a tremendous source of guidance for me. I’ve been on a spiritual journey myself as of late and it’s been great to hear about yours and to receive tips. Your videos give me new things to think about while I’m learning and growing on my own. Inspired by your growth and eagerness to continue.
You are so RAW and naturally beautiful girl. You're aura has changed and matured and it's the most beautiful thing I've seen! Plus you're so therapeutic to watch 🧘♀️🧘♀️ Blessed Be 🌖🌑🌔
I can relate to this on so many levels. I'm really at the stage now where I'm wearing less makeup and starting to enjoy my actual face more. For years I've covered my face in mountains of makeup and felt in some ways my makeup looks were part of what "made me". Thank you for this video. It's really inspiring to go with this journey
Yes, I feel the same way. I miss her uploading at least once a week. I miss her so much and I am so happy that she at least still uploads. I am glad she's take great care of herself
I don’t know if this will make sense, but since you’ve been on this amazing self love journey and self discovery, do you feel any different about your tattoos? Like do you have a different outlook on them or anything? I love them all so much and some have actually inspired my own tattoos. Just wondering if you have anything to say on that topic :) love u xx
I was thinking about suggesting this as a video too! Thanks for putting it into words for me haha! I love Harmony's tattoos too! She's totally tat-inspiration for me. I've just recently found an artist in my city that I have a connection with, so I'm very close to booking a consultation and just doing the damn thing. I feel like hearing Harmony talk about it would be exactly what I need to hear.
I was born male and now I'm nonbinary. I started wearing makeup to essentially transfer my canvas to my face. Not needing makeup but having it as art supplies is a nice shift in the mindset. To be dependent on any tool is crippling your individual strength. Good for us Harmony ❤ take care !
I love this, Harmony. You have no idea how happy it made me to see you start to embrace your natural beauty and features. I have not owned or wore any makeup in over 6 years now, and i have never felt more sovereign and free. It is truly liberating to love yourself. I completely agree with you, makeup in itself is not bad - it can be a form of art and expression. But it starts to have negative effects on the skin and also on the mind when it becomes an addiction. I think more people just need to understand that beauty is not this identical, artificial "look" that is being pushed by society and the beauty and makeup industry. True beauty is found in the uniqueness that each person possesses. It is our unique features that give us a beauty that no one else will have. You are an intrinsic part of Nature, and no one knows beauty like Nature. You were made by Creator ♡ You need not change a thing about yourself, as you are already perfectly and uniquely beautiful. To whoever is reading this, you are beautiful. I am beautiful. We are all so infinitely beautiful, and we need nothing more than what we are to embrace that beauty!
This was so refreshing to watch. I always use to do a full face of makeup, no kidding it use to take me 2 hours to get ready and that was just for work! Now I’m 35 and it legit takes me no more than 30 minutes and that includes a shower, skin care, a bit of makeup and brushing my hair. The less I do the more I feel confident and beautiful and people give me more compliments now than ever before. I save the heavier makeup for special occasions now and my new best friend is my tinted moisturiser!
I love the transition your going through, I struggle with my appearance, I hate to look in the mirror and I'm constantly worrying what people think of me and I have anxiety about it, you've really inspired me to change the way I'm thinking and to stop putting so much pressure on myself over what I look like....I really love the thought of stripping away the things in your life that dont serve you its extremely freeing.
I honestly cry when I see pictures of my face...like I cry meltdown like wtf that's what I look like..I'm now trying to love myself and started to make videos on TH-cam..I was horrified of my face..no joke full blown meltdowns ..I want to get plastic surgery but i have no money..but I am working on trying to heal..I had toxic abusive ex's that made me feel worthless..I am working on healing ...you are stunning ..you have beautiful white skin and red gorgeous hair.very blessed
What great timing! I've been having a bad today looks wise. I can't stand days where I look bloated in my face and my face looks terrible and pale. It puts me in this depressed state until I look good again. My looks bothered me so much, that I decided to lose a ton of weight. (122 pounds to be exact) which is a positive of course, but I still have those days where I still think I look fat in my face. What I do to cope is remember I do have days where I look great and my skin glows. But it doesn't help 100% of the time. I'm a guy too, so yes guys are self conscious about looks too. It's annoying, when I think I look bad, i worry about what other people think about of me and don't talk to anyone or I get in a bad mood. I wish I could stop worrying about what other people think of me. It hurts my dating life too.
Listening to Harmony share her journey with makeup has helped me gain the courage to finally stop overusing makeup out of insecurity. I switched to a natural tinted moisturizer and a lil cheek tint instead of exhausting layers of foundations and concealers and CC creams daily... I've honestly never been happier with my face. Turns out tons of people have acne scars and lil blotches, and nobody thinks twice about yours
Your glittery eyes are so subtle and pretty! I almost didn’t notice you were wearing any at all. I love being able to wear intense glitter in such a natural way. Love ittttt
I'm a firm believer in divine timing, and your video came to me at the perfect time. I've really struggled with my self-esteem when it comes to looks, and recently it has been negatively affecting my romantic relationship. After a long talk, I decided I need to get to the root of this. A few weeks later, here I am watching your video. Our journeys with self-acceptance have been soooo similar, it's almost eerie. I believe in synchronicities and things working out for us, not against us. I would write every serendipitous moment to show you just how significant this is, but no one wants to read that lmao. Anyways, thank you for sharing your story, and for being a part of my self-love journey.
I recently had to quit wearing makeup due to eye issues, and I honestly had these terrible little thoughts come up like “you’ll never be pretty again,” “people will quit loving you,” etc. it sounds stupid but it is a struggle to overcome, so I appreciate this video 😊
I used to wear make up everyday always covering some acne scars I had. Now I'm a nurse and I don't wear any make up for work because of all this covid situation (wearing masks, showering after being with covid patients...). I've never loved myself as much as now. At first I was afraid but now I just love my skin and I feel more secure. I still love make up but now I wear it for fun when I want to, not because I "need" it.
My new boyfriend really doesn't like me wearing make up. My last one didn't either but was not so vocal about it. It feels amazing not worrying about slapping all those chemicals on your face, plus it's extremely time saving... Also your skin looks so much better when you don't use make-up every day. I may occasionally fill up my brows and put a bit of lipstick on, but I don't need a foundation at all cause thankfully I've got quite a good skin. All the best Harmony!! Very good video xxx
This is so true I thought I loved my face but I realised, the more I got to know about the “new trends” the more insecure I became, I just want to love my face as it is and not being insecure everytime a new trend comes- Also I used to fight my thoughts anytime anything negative came up but I’m coming more peace with all of that and allowing my thoughts to just be I still haven’t understood all of this but I got a whole lifetime to figure that out! Thanks harmony ✨✨💚
I also gave up most makeup!! I don’t remember when it started happening, I was just sick of my skin being red, bumpy, & so tired looking, & always feeling like I ‘had to’ wear it. I now have gone all natural, as well(: I don’t even use store bought shampoo, conditioner, or body wash & make it into a magical experience by washing my hair or body with products from the earth. I am also growing out my natural color hair, after years of being insecure about it. I used to dye it all colors of the rainbow, & ended up ruining my hair /: & I would be so insecure when it was growing back, & was spending so much on products. Since I’ve been growing it out tho, I can’t get over how.. me I look?? I have also put a big spiritual emphasis on my hair, & it’s been so amazing & helped me getting over messing with it🧡 This wasn’t overnight, at all, to anyone reading this. It took me months & months, & it’s still a journey I’m going through, but I have never felt more myself & happier(: Love & light on our journeys everybody 💛✨
I love this video so much. In high school I would wear make up everyday and straighten my hair. It got to the point where I would despise my natural face and hair. I also struggled with acne during those times and I felt like I had to hide my face. Looking back, I put so much fucking work and energy into appearing a certain way. It wasn’t until last year when I was 21 when I realized that I needed to stop feeling like I needed to wear make up and try to love my face and hair the way it is. Thank you Harmony 💖💖💖
Yes yes yes on skincare. :) My relationship with makeup has improved significantly due to quarantine. I see it as a way to have fun with color instead of the mentality I had before
I've literally went from being only comfortable with myself in very heavy makeup, meaning drawn on, cut out brows (overplucked beneath), concealing, foundation, eyeliner, eyelashes, contour and highlight, to very minimal to nothing from one day to the other. I've also stopped wearing wigs (i shaved my head and am letting it grow out now). Not from this video, but from other newer videos of you - i used to watch your videos when i first got into wicca when you still wore heavy makeup, and seeing you now, it's gotten me so incredibly inspired because i used to think you were gorgeous, but when i saw you now, with barely any makeup and the energy you give off now, you're absolutely perfect to me. Thanks a lot for sharing your journey with us, harmony
This video resonated a lot with me. I have such a hard time with liking myself. Physically and spiritually. I've had issues liking myself for as long as I can remember. I remember being a little girl and wondering why other little girls didn't fuss about how they looked. They were just carefree kids. I have such a hard time with the reflection in the mirror...so much so that I even avoided mirrors for a time because seeing myself would just make me cry. I hate how lost I feel in my craft, my spirituality, and who I am as a person. I just want to love myself. The only main difference between your journey and mine was that I've never really gotten big into makeup. I've always been known as all natural face. But I still haven't come to the step of being okay with my natural face. Ugh. It's so frustrating self love. I wish it were easier. I'm finding inner healing trauma work to be really tough. Do you have advice on working on inner healing and trauma through magick? You're such an inspiration. I hope to get to where you did someday!
Just watching this made me feel beautiful. The transfer of your energy is so so so powerful, Harmony!!! What a joy to be on this platform and encounter a video that actually makes me feel WONDERFUL, feel FULL, feel SATISFIED, feel JOY for what I have!! No niggling feeling that I must buy something, or change something about my appearance, which is so often the case on TH-cam. You are a gift.
I really needed this video 💕💕 I used to be so unhappy with the way I looked that I would go to sleep with makeup on with lashes too and when I’d wake up the morning after I’d wash it off and cry when I’d see what I looked like underneath so I would then reapply it, this continued for 2 yrs ...this past year I stopped doing all of that and I am now learning how to love how I look without makeup... I still wear it from time to time but never again like before. I’m having to relearn everything too I’ve been leaning more towards the natural makeup side.
I haven't worn foundation in 10 years. I love it. It's freedom. I don't have to worry that I will look different when swimming, sweating, working out, whatever. before covid, I would just wear blush and some tinted lip balm, but that is covered by my mask most days, so i don't wear any makeup anymore. ❤️
I really feel for you going through all of this stuff while having a big social media presence. I've gone through a lot of similar issues in my 20s and early 30s, and I can't imagine going through all of that with the sense of external pressure that you could feel. It's a lifelong journey loving yourself but I'm so glad you've figured stuff out. You're a wonderful, magical being and deserve to own your identity fully and confidently!
okay, that's it, i am making a habit to watch it daily so i can remind myself every day of these tips until they're engraved in my mind. thank you so much Harmony, this video came exactly at the right time✨💜
YES! To everything you said. I needed this video. And I especially resonate with going back to how you felt when you were younger and just getting into things. We can feel that way now and forever!
also can we not say "it's easy for you, you're pretty anyway." Really pretty people can have really low self-esteem, just like how "ugly" (i say this from a societal standpoint, the only type of ugliness in my opinion is an ugly personality) people can have really high self-esteem. everyone is going on their own journey, and when you tell someone it's easy after the struggle they're going through, it can really make them feel like their personal growth wasn't worth it and that they shouldn't have tried. you don't know what people are going through. don't assume that just because someone is pretty on the outside means they like themselves.
This is an interesting viewpoint. I wear makeup almost every day and often find myself putting on my face to uphold a certain standard I practically enclosed myself in because of the media. Thinking about giving this a try! Love your videos xx
Thankyou very much for all of these videos about self love and self care. Ive struggled with my self image since I was a child. Im 22 now and Ive been doing great, these videos have helped me so much. Ive struggled with self loathing, anxiety, and depression. Less than a year ago I did something really stupid that put everything in perspective. Please dont feel bad nor do i want any pitty from anyone in the comments. I just wanna say thanks because ive healed so much and spirituality has helped me so much (also big thanks for the enchanted endeavors series) Anyone with these issues, you got this, you are worth it, you are strong.
Im tryna face the opposite journey: I really hate my face but I've always put on very little makeup or even nothing on my face. Do I feel 'pretty enough' not to wear makeup? Hell NO. The fact is, I feel like I am so ugly that makeup cant change my face (so why putting so much energy on it). And if it betters my appearence its a fraud, it's not real and I cant spend my whole life worrying about people seeing there's someone behing foundation and eyeshadows even uglier than what they see. Not wearing makeup is like a protection for me, at least people can think 'well, maybe if she wore some paint on her face she could be 'lookable'', instead of giving them the certainty I'm ugly all the same, no matter what. Hope this makes some sense
I feel this! It's similar for me. I just kinda accepted my ''ugliness'' by now... eventho people tell me otherwise a lot, but I mostly think they're just trying to be nice. :/
@@meatysheep maybe you're just insecure. If people tell you that you're beautiful, believe them. You're attractive to them because of your nice personality, but physical beauty probably has an impact too.
The thing is confidence. Some years ago i had little to no self esteem i only used boots, hoodies, 3 shirts underneath and pants (i live in a tropical country where 20° C its cold) i was terrified at the thought of people seeing and talking to me. But then when i was 15 i tried to look at me as someone else (which was easy cause i basically avoided seeing myself during yeaaars) i stopped looking at the mirror when i was 11 so when i saw my face and body i cried so much cause i did not recognized it (2 years later and i rarely recognize me when i see at first). So i decided to do a exercise: look at the mirror at least twice a day and say or think 1 thing that i like about myself. I thought i was being stupid but after a few months i went to school in shorts and just 2 shirts instead of 3 because well i was afraid but i was so fed up that i just didnt even care my apathy was at its peak. Last year i started dressing and acting as i wanted sure i sometimes cringed and wanted to hide but people started to honestly compliment me i started to feel so confident I FELT AMAZING ok there are ups and downs i still dont like how i look i feel strange as if i am a parasite in a human's brain but i started to smile again and thats a wonderful win for me maybe in a few more years i will be fully back to my normal self
Thank you for making this video. I'm very grateful that TH-cam brought you back into my life, especially at this time in my life. Every word you said really resonates with me and I just wanted to drop in and say thank you, Harmony 🥰✌
I know you’re probably inundated with video ideas but it would be so great to see one about you changing your phone/coming off social media. I’ve been thinking about it so much lately and would love to hear your thoughts xx
Ya know Harmony, I've been subbed/ghost watching for a long while. I knew I liked you a lot but I always felt this disconnect? Like you had a giant wall between the authentic, deeper you and the aesthetic you. It felt like you had something to say but you just couldn't get it out in that version of yourself. I don't feel that disconnect anymore. I feel like you're blossoming into exactly who you are supposed to be, thus bringing others up with you. I feel much more connected to you. ❤
Please make a video on accepting your body! ALSO PLEASE MAKE A PODCAST? I would love to hear your talk about your spiritual / self love journey and any ramblings lol
I'm so glad someone is talking about this! I felt like I was the only one who just felt too dependant on makeup! During quarentine, naturally, you're inside 99% of the time, so I wasn't wearing makeup and it helped so much with my reliance on makeup. I use to wear a thick full face of makeup, and now I just put on a bit of brow and blush, and I really feel like myself again. I'm reconnecting with myself again. Thank you for making this video Harmony! It's definitely a message that needs to be heard. Going to use these tips to continue this momentum! 😊
Thank you for sharing your thoughts on this and thank you for the advice! I've gone through a very similar experience in terms of wearing less makeup and learning to accept my natural face. I was in a retail job I hated and used to wear heavy foundation and have lash extensions on a daily basis. I look back now and I'm just like, that's not me! Now that I'm following a career path I love I hardly wear foundation and enjoy experimenting with colourful eyeliners, eyeshadows and drawing little hearts around my eyes and it's so much more fun! I feel like it's so intertwined with our relationships with social media and capitalist and patriarchial beauty standards too. I found researching 'body neutrality' to be an absolute game changer for me - I especially recommend the work of Renee Engeln. One thing I do still find difficult is feeling like I can't wear certain outfits without makeup because they don't look right. For example, I'm happy to not wear makeup if I'm dressing casually but if I want to dress up, wear something a bit more fancy or slutty I just don't think the outfit looks right with a bare face. Anyone have any thoughts on this? xx
I never appreciated that I am beautiful. I really am! I never liked that I am shorter than other girls and so skinny (always people bullied me about my weight- how cliche) but as I grow older I really love my self because I have one body and one life and all I need to do is just be happy about it.
I am a true makeup lover but also enjoy my face! However, it was not until recently that I learned to love my natural face and wear it proudly, flaws and all. This message is amazing and a shared experience. Thank you 💚
Emphasizing YOUR beauty and the things that help naturally enhance what you already have is what allows your inner light to shine out and to attract others that will support that light. It’s such a healthier way to live
This is so unrelated but your house looks like it would smell of incense and cloves and would be warm and cozy and the floor would squeak when you walked on it and it makes me feel so relaxed and grounded.
love this video! i started on a journey of "no makeup" and really developing a good relationship with my skin and skin care routine. My idea on makeup has changed so much!
I really appreciate these videos. Especially the one about stopping wearing foundation all over your face. I don't want to use makeup to cover up or change how I look, but I'm still so paranoid about letting spots and dark circles and scars show. So you talking about this stuff is really helpful. Thank you Harmony x
before i even saw this video, yesterday i was sitting there feeling shit about my body. i've been wanting to make let's play videos but i kept debating if a facecam was necessary and i felt like i wanted to hide because i didn't like how i looked. and yesterday, during my meditation session, after days of me debating this in my head, i had this intense breakthrough. i started to feel this huge love for my body, the temple that is carrying me through life, constantly trying to heal me and keep me alive, the place where i am safe and where i hold all my power and where i pour so much love and kindness and care into. i am an imperfect human, i am a goddess and i am lovely no matter my size.
Thank you for this, Harmony!! Honestly, I think I would have been a person who wears very heavy makeup every day to feel confident. I never really got the chance to. That might sound weird, and my reason for it may sound a bit irrational, but I feel like I never really got the chance to wear all the makeup I wanted was because I have extremely oily skin. It just slides right off, clumps up and smears, and I never had the money to buy more products to help it stay on. SO I spent a larger part of the last decade hating my face, and learning to come to terms with it. I had to look at myself the way I am every day because I couldn't cover it up. I would compare my bare face to women on social media with a full face of makeup and feel like I could never be good enough. My relationship with my skin was AWFUL as well. About a year ago, I began my journey to really loving the skin I'm in. I've even recently began to kind of like my super shiny skin. It doesn't look like everyone else's, it begs to be seen, and it's kind of like having a face full of glitter all the time. We love glitter on everything else, so why can't I love it on my face? I've made it park of my look. I fill in my brows a bit, put a little mascara and tinted lip balm on, and embrace myself. I've even started wearing my hair naturally curly for the first time since 6th grade. I used to think my hair was my worst feature, but now I quite love it. Despite looking the way I always have, I feel beautiful now. I'm thankful to have had these revelations at 20, so I can spend the rest of my life practicing self love and hopefully empowering others to do the same!
It’s so crazy how similar we are and how much I relate to this video. I’m so grateful for this video because I’m really going through healing and self love right now. Thank you so much you’re incredible.
Something I’m ashamed to admit: I’ve been avoiding this video for a while, because of my own insecurities and because in my mind, Harmony is a conventionally attractive/model-like girl who actually looks beautiful without makeup..and I just dismissed the video before watching it because I thought like, “how could anyone who looks like that understand hating your face..she’s like a model” I’m glad I gave the video a chance. Still working on my envy/comparison issues, it’s a daily struggle. I’m realizing It’s important to remember that everyone struggles with this, even people you wouldn’t think. You don’t see yourself as others do. Inner work is the basis for loving your exterior. thank you for making this Harmony!
Funny...I felt the same way. Thought I was the only one 🤭
But like you say, no one sees the same you do. Some people may like your face better without makeup, while others may not.
It's a bit like with art. If you paint a picture, and it didn't come out exactly like you imagined it in your head, you would propably talk bad about it an emphasise the "flaws"....but everyone else sees a perfect and well done painting. They don't know what it was "supposed" to look like. I TRY to think this way about my face. Because let's be honest, there are good and bad days, even WITH makeup. ❤😊
@@masja1790 both of you here have model like faces too. What you said is very fair, we never see ourselves like others see us!
i feel you so much! i compare myself too much and i hate it but i can’t control it. it really is a daily struggle. you’re not alone.
Same
Love you for admitting this❣️
Your “no foundation” make up tutorials legitimately changed my life. I realized I didn’t have to do a full face of make up every-time I wanted to wear eyeshadow.
It sounds so silly but it’s true!
i felt the exact same! ive gave up foundation altogether since i started watching her videos
Yes! My sister started doing this and I love it. My skin is so much happier when I dont do foundation, and it just takes a few days to get used to. :)
I have been doing this for years :p my skin used to be pretty bad and i changed my diet and started taking care of myself and now everyone is asking me what i do with my skin :)
Edit; almost nothing. Wash with water & microfiber cloth every night, put beef tallow on my face every three days 🤣
SAME i hate fondunation now idek how i used to wear it
Same here! Seriously never thought I would be okay with no foundation, she helped make me way more confident
Funny thing. Is like she knows that I was having trouble with this subject. She knows. She always knows.
Same
same!!!!
It’s like....she’s a witch 😉
@@Munstermash1313 lol
Because everyone has
My mother says absolutely horrible things to me about my face on a regular basis, and it's always a constant inner battle with myself to learn to love myself despite the insults. She went hard on me yesterday when she visited, so this video feels like serendipity for me.
I am so sorry 💛 it is so awful when it comes from a family member ☹️ my father and uncle used to bully me because of my face too. how my nose is too big, my face shape is too round, how my freckles look like fly shit and once my dad said that my face look so disfigured when I cry that he is just too disgusted to look at me. it really got to me. really badly. I honestly believed I looked like a monster. everytime I looked at a fly I would feel ashamed about my "shitty" face. I think what really helped me was to realize that I don't agree with them. I don't think I am ugly and the only real reason why it ever crossed my head was because other people told me so. if it was really just me and my opinion...I find my face cute. I didn't wanted to let other people decide whether I can love myself or not. I realized that I would never ever tell anyone that they look ugly! like how could someone do such thing? especially to their family member especially to a child? I wanted to protect myself from those comments by covering myself with love towards myself. I hope you feel better about yourself soon too! based on your profil pic you are sooo pretty by the way 😍
Blessings and healing your way, nobody deserves that from her momma. It does terrible things to us, but I'm so happy for you that you are aware that what she is doing is wrong and seeking beautiful sources like Harmony Nice to heal your energy. You're beautiful, take care
You're so pretty omg!
Also how can an old person call a child unattractive, especially when them themselves are a flabby, wrinkly, crusty old ass 💀
Im so sorry you have to hear that from your mother ;-; it must be hard to think that you look nice in such situatuons, but please know that 'looking good' is something that comes from within us, and its not something others get to decide. There is no such thing as the 'most beautiful face', bc everyone is so beautiful within( i know that sounds SO cheesy lmaoo im sorry). Also pls remember that i think youre pretty. 💖🌺
you are so so so beautiful regardless of what anyone says. your mother is likely projecting her insecurities onto you and trying to bring you down to make you feel better, which is so wrong but it isn't your fault at all and its not about your appearance. you need to try setting some boundaries with your mum, in the ned of the day im guessing youre both grown women. you ant allow people around you that are treating you this way, so tell her to clean up her act or start distancing yourself i think.
My biggest thing was I stopped apologizing to people when I wasn't wearing makeup. Things like, "hey guys sorry I look like a mess." I didn't even realize how much I apologized for just having a bare face.
Yes this!!! Constantly apologizing for my makeup less face because I’m so used to being told I look sick or tired when I’m not wearing any. Got used to apologizing for my natural appearance !
When I stopped wearing makeup, shaving and wearing a bra, I felt so 🌛f r e e🌜 and people noticed how comfortable with myself that I became. I switched to all natural/organic skin/hair/hygeine products and now I have an external glow too 💕
Almost all my insecurities about my chest disappeared when I stopped wearing a bra, as counter-intuitive as it may seem!
About shaving and freedom: my thought process is that if I can't be outside without being shaved, it means I'm not really free, or not as free as I could be (or as men are). Since my aim in life is to have a free soul, I try to shave as less as possible until I feel comfortable with my natural body. It's a journey :)
Please share what products you use!
Makeup is fun, I wear makeup because I'm extremely insecure about my face.
When you said: "I think my sister is the most beautiful person in the world" and she said:" But we are both so very alike, if you think im so beautiful, how can you not be?".
That made me feel so sad, I cried, I'm still crying, because that was so beautiful and deep and sad. You are gorgeous Harmony for being you!
That's a quote inspired from the book called The Selection by Kiera Cass. Fun fact: she actually looks like the character that says that
The fact that I’ve been looking at appointments for facial fillers the past 3 days and you uploaded this today
do what you want with your face but just know that with or without you are absolutely stunning ❤️
There's nothing wrong with wanting facial fillers, but maybe do some more self reflecting and figure out why exactly you want the face fillers.
I once watched this video:
th-cam.com/video/x8BMBE165vU/w-d-xo.html
about filler spreading with time (it might look like it disolved after a few years, but it is also spreading) „Victorian Cosmetic Institute“ is a chanel I enjoyed on the topic of fillers. :)
You will look beautiful no matter what you decide, but if I'm being honest, I think people look better before procedures almost every single time! I'm sure you're lovely. Maybe wait a bit longer to feel comfortable with your wonderful little face before giving some stranger your $$$
Just noticed your profile pic and you are so gorgeous! But at the end of the day, do what will make you happy
I had the opposite journey. I spent my whole life with a bare face, because I was afraid. I had a fear that people would look at or notice me if I tried to wear makeup so I never learned. It was a big deal just to wear a lipstick on occasions. Then a few years ago around 27 I gained courage from watching beauty TH-camrs to try it out. Now if there’s a special occasion I feel very meditative taking the time to apply and hype up for the event.
That’s exactly how I am! I’m 19 and so nervous to even learn how to do makeup because people would probably look at me weird since I’ve never worn any before.. I really want to learn how do hopefully I get enough courage to learn and be able to wear some whenever by my bday in 2021
This! This is what true glam is all about -- you nailed it, girl.
omgg same :( i thought i was the only one: Reading this made me a little happier :D
Me too! I like to wear some on special occasions to look extra glam :) but i personally usually only go out with blush, lipstick because my lips are pale and sometimes some mascara or brow gel and i really feel beautiful. Frizzy hair and all there's just something nice about being used to your bare face, you realize your own beauty :). I hope everyone feel beautiful in their own skin
same, I am 19 , and ive never really applied makeup my whole life, cause I thought everyone would judge me and even I would judge myself 'as a wannabe pretty whos always gonna remain ugly no matter what she does'. I really wish to change this mentality and start applying makeup
It's weird how so many naturally beautiful women are insecure about their appearence. she talks about accepting her face as if there is something repulsive in it, but to me it looks so beautiful and cool. It's so sad how brainwashed we all are :( and the amount of inner work on self love it's needed to get out of it a little bit
The TV and Movies magickly convinced everyone that they had to look alike with certain god-goddess-like proportions, like Athena & Diana! If people really like you, they should appreciate your face.
The amount of green in your background makes me SO happy. What a joyful set up.
I feel like no one ever talks about self esteem when it comes to soecifically your face. Im pretty much fine with everything neck down (obviously there's good days and bad days), but i HATE my face. my nose, ears, smile. its most of my insecurities and its so hard to get over
yes sameeeee
SAME
I’m the same
mee too
same here
I think lockdown helped many people get over the "having to wear" makeup routine. As well, more and more people and celebrities were posting images of themselves without makeup, in lockdown in their homes. Let's hope that continues, to alleviate the pressure to look a certain way all the time. :)
Yes!! I agree! I’ve never gone so long without wearing makeup and became so used to my natural face. It really helped me cut down on makeup and just use it for special occasions or for fun
Same! I never went so long without make up and now I love how I look without it! 🤩
i cant really relate to this in terms of makeup because ive never really worn any but this is exactly how i feel about shaving my body hair. i used to feel so disgusted and embarrassed by my body when i didnt shave but then i just stopped shaving one day and got used to how my body looked naturally without me having to change anything about it and now i actually really like the way my hairy legs look :))))
Same! Went through that a few years back now I love my little fuzzy legs!
I now only shave my leg hair once a week when I put fresh sheets on the bed 😂 I love the feeling!
I bet that's just because you don't have trouble with very very thick and black hair all over your body 😂...
@@Rivaiye i do haha :))
@@hannahtaylor6235 I too have really dark and long leg hair, both on my calves and my thighs. I never got past that point of accepting it. I don't like or love it, I don't hate it either, but I really wish I had more confidence and self-esteem to wear shorts and just... not shave. Thankfully winter is around the corner so who knows, maybe I'm just gonna stop shaving for good. But comments like yours really help me get closer to loving my body hair. So thanks for posting it. c:
I would love an accepting your body vid! Also, you don't sound preachy at all, no worries.
I find myself hating my face most after a binge of Instagram and TikTok. I can’t stop myself from comparing myself to all the beautiful girls. It doesn’t even help when people say “oh that’s social media that’s fake” like maybe but sometimes not. There are just beautiful people who can take a video of their face without hating themselves and I just wish I was one of them.
thanks for being so vulnerable, Ive felt like this too
take a video and get 10k+ likes for literally just l o o k i n g at the camera. it sucks, and makes me feel terrible as well. i hope you’ve healed at least a little since this comment
I'm 31 years old, and I only stopped wearing make-up about a year ago. I was a complete slave to the feeling of having to be "made-up" just to pop to the grocer's, to pick up my kids from school... and I decided that I didn't want to do it any more. I also stopped straightening my hair, and I'm so much happier with it. Women are held to such a ridiculous standard of beauty; it's such bullshit.
You are absolutely right. Its no wonder we feel like this when the makeup industry is worth hundreds of billions of dollars... this artificial beauty image is always being pushed onto us from every angle. I threw out all my makeup in 2014 and have never felt better about my life
@@ashleysalazar2012 Its hard to love ourselves when we compare our features to the standard "look" that society calls beauty. Believe it or not, true beauty is inherent in everyone, because its the unique features we have that no one else will have.
@@ashleysalazar2012 its ok girl. Self love is a journey ♡ much love to you
I realized being comfortable without makeup when you’ve worn heavy makeup for a long time is a matter of legit wearing no makeup for days or weeks consistently and looking at your face as it is. Sooner than you think, you’ll begin to become more familiar with your own natural face. The key for me is wearing makeup as little as I can, it’s hard to hate your natural face when it’s been two weeks since you’ve seen makeup on it. The more often makeup is worn the more your mind is trained to focus on the insecurities when we see our faces as they truly are, when we’d never look twice at these features had we never felt the need to cover it in the first place
I wish... I hardly ever wear makeup and I just HATE my face. Seems like I still have a long journey ahead of me eventho it is like that for over 10 years already....
meatysheep educate yourself on mental health and building genuine self confidence as much as you possibly can, don’t ever stop putting effort into these issues until you reach it, you can do it, you are beautiful, and your worth is much deeper than skin. The skin on your face , the bones within your face, and body, are what give you this incredible experience of life, they support the brain that keeps you breathing and thinking, the love and connection you give and receive to/from your loved ones and family, we,YOU, are worth so much more than your face. But I guarantee you, your face is lovely, I don’t need to know what you look like to know this ✨
Wow, thank you all so much for appreciating my input ✨
This!!! Haven’t worn makeup at all bc of quarantine and did my makeup the other day and I feel like I look so strange with makeup now because I’m so used to my face without it
Orewa Houston yes queeenn get it!!
I was always bullied because of my nose and fat face. It took a while for me to accept myself. I use to beg my family to get me plastic surgery for my nose and round face. I was also really small as a kid so my body wasn’t growing at the same rate as my face. But now that I’m older i realize that all I need to do is accept myself to be happy. I was seeking the approval from people that didn’t matter, so I let them control my life and decide if I was worthy. What really matters is what you decide for yourself. You decide if you are worthy.
PSA: NEVER ask a woman if she is sick or if she's been crying because she isn't wearing makeup.
I've had women do this SO many times to me and it really has made me feel like shit about my face.
And then on the other side, I've had women make fun of me for wearing makeup every say, saying "ugh, who is she tying to impress" etc.,, yet the only reason I used to do that was to feel halfway decent about myself and avoid all the negative comments about my bare face.
There is NO pleasing people. Try to accept yourself, because you can never win with trying to be accepted by the world. And please do not make these types of comments to other women.
Also to Harmony Nice, thank you so much for this video. You are helping so many.
I'm very lucky because I love my face with my imperfection, my mum and dad helped me in this because i look like them mixed and this i precious to me, now I also like my big nose 👃
I have a small nose and I've always loved and wanted a big nose! Go you for appreciating what you have :)
That is so sweet, what a unique way to look at it! Our imperfections are illusions, we are so perfect the way we are.
I’ve been having the absolute worst breakout and my body dysmorphia makes me think my cheeks are huge and my eyes are tiny. This helped me start bringing myself back to the true me, thank you Harmony 🖤⭐️🖤⭐️
I also reduced makeup. I used it mostly to cover my acne. Now I only wear it occasionally. Really improved my feelings towards my face, try it guys.
I agree! I haven't been wearing any since March (cuz quarantine) and it's actually improved my self image with acne.
My skin breaks out fairly minimally (just during my cycle) but it’s very pink all over and feels hot like all the time (not burning but like when you blush). Reducing makeup due to wearing a mask at work all the time really helped me except my pink face
@@abigailjadee Yes!! The quarantine was horrible as well as the pandemic but at least it helped me start this journey and I am feeling way better about my face now
I have a really unhealthy relationship with makeup, to the point that I don't go anywhere without wearing it anymore. I wish that I could love my face without it, but I just don't. It's sad to admit really.
Thank you for the tips Harmony
Lina Sk I was/ am still in the same boat. Originally I planned on majoring in cosmetology. When I worked on people I never once tried to “change” my clients. My goal was to celebrate their individuality. It was fun and felt rewarding. I realized by doing my makeup everyday it wasn’t the same mentality I brought to my clients. I’d try to get my eyeliner perfect to hide how close my eyes are and the list went on. That didn’t feel like a celebration of myself at all. I still use the same amount of makeup but I really try to be more positive and I’m beginning to forget the things I hated before. That’s my advice, if you feel you can’t leave without makeup on than just try to change how you view your routine. Imagine doing makeup for someone you love and try to give yourself the same amount of appreciation. It’s done a lot for me mentally. Wishing you the best 🌸 it’s not easy.
Yea me too. I can't even take the garbage out with out makeup on.
Coming off of FB and IG was the best thing I ever did for myself! I'm so happy with my life and myself now 😌 nothing matters anymore. No negative vibes from other people. No comparing myself. Just love and life and being free to be me 😌♥️
As someone with a facial difference, it can be really hard to love my face. Thanks for this video!
Although I am male and DO NOT wear make-up (used to wear eye-liner on certain occasions in past time) but I must say, you are beautiful in your countenance and your Flame Hair, very Alluring and Dazzling... Much Love Dear Sacred Sister!
I was wearing full face make up through my whole teen years after going through a lot of trauma and also bullying at school and stuff. When I was about 18 years old I sadly was forced inpatient on a closed ward mental hospital and I've been there for over 1 year and they basically took everything away from me there and I was too depressed for even finding energy to put mascara on or something. I realized I didn't even knew how I really looked without make up anymore before that bc I even went to bed with make up on bc I felt so insecure. In that mental hospital I started to realized how I actually look like and I felt gross the first months but there was this amazing lovely nurse always supporting me and telling me that I am beautiful... and this as strange as it sounds was the first time other people told me that I look beautiful... I am 24 now and I still don't seen myself as beautiful but I don't hide underneath make up anymore and I kinda accept my face...
Thank you for uploading this... 💚
Wünsche dir alles Gute ❣
@@freelife1121 danke ❤️
If only boomers realised that from the time we're teens into the time we're in our early 20's we *have matured* hence why we look back on these times and do healing work and self-reflection. I did some cleansing work on the waning moon earlier this week before yesterday's new moon.
You’re pure. I adore you.
Your natural beauty shines. Your hair is gorgeous. Letting go of the superficially is so freeing
This video came at a perfect time. Even when I don’t leave the house, even during quarantine, I feel a compulsion yo put on makeup every morning to feel clean and right. Partly to cover acne but also because I have the same feeling that being happy with my appearance will make me happy in general. I also pick my skin and lately have been trying to use mindfulness and tapping to stop that and also cut down on makeup. Eventually I want to be happy with my face but I’m taking it slow and trying to clear my skin
One day I decided that if I put the same effort into skin care that I did with makeup, my skin would be a lot better. So I tried it- face oils for that highlighted 'glow', keeping my skin clean as possible. You'll be amazed at how many people just won't even notice that you're not wearing makeup.
I feel that SO MUCH about relying on makeup making you feel "clean and right", even when alone. Strange how we're taught to not even be able to sit with ourselves and our own flaws. So proud of your progress, you've got this!!!
Omg I did this a few months ago, I threw away / donated(to friends) 99% of my makeup (I've been in the hair/beauty industry for the last decade)
It felt so good !(only worn anything like 3 times in the last 6-7 months) Now I have the bare minimum and it's wonderful and I am so much more mindful about what I buy and wear 💚 loved all your content for years and it's no awesome to see how you and your content has grown and changed ☺️
I just wanted to say there’s some sort of like extreme happiness exuding from you. As soon as you sat down in the frame I could sense that from you
You can’t imagine how badly I needed this
I’m so glad I’ve never worn foundation - because I developed a tricky relationship with eyeliner (wore it everyday and thought I looked hideous without it) and I can only imagine how much worse it would be if I had also been covering my skin. Harmony’s right sometimes you need to go cold turkey and get used to how your face really looks before you can get to a point where you can use makeup in a healthy way.
This new direction you have been taking your content in has become a tremendous source of guidance for me. I’ve been on a spiritual journey myself as of late and it’s been great to hear about yours and to receive tips. Your videos give me new things to think about while I’m learning and growing on my own. Inspired by your growth and eagerness to continue.
You are so RAW and naturally beautiful girl. You're aura has changed and matured and it's the most beautiful thing I've seen! Plus you're so therapeutic to watch 🧘♀️🧘♀️ Blessed Be 🌖🌑🌔
I really miss seeing new videos from you. But I hope you’re thriving and happy.
I can relate to this on so many levels. I'm really at the stage now where I'm wearing less makeup and starting to enjoy my actual face more. For years I've covered my face in mountains of makeup and felt in some ways my makeup looks were part of what "made me". Thank you for this video. It's really inspiring to go with this journey
me when harmony posts: YAAAAS MY QUEEEEEN
Yes, I feel the same way. I miss her uploading at least once a week. I miss her so much and I am so happy that she at least still uploads. I am glad she's take great care of herself
I'd really appreciate someone with a folklore profile picture on this channel
@@amritveersingh7407 hehe
you have no idea how many times i’ve checked for this video to be uploaded
I don’t know if this will make sense, but since you’ve been on this amazing self love journey and self discovery, do you feel any different about your tattoos? Like do you have a different outlook on them or anything? I love them all so much and some have actually inspired my own tattoos. Just wondering if you have anything to say on that topic :) love u xx
I want her to make a video about this now lol
Agreed, would love to hear her talk about this! I'm planning out new tattoos and would love to hear how she feels about them now x
I was thinking about suggesting this as a video too! Thanks for putting it into words for me haha!
I love Harmony's tattoos too! She's totally tat-inspiration for me. I've just recently found an artist in my city that I have a connection with, so I'm very close to booking a consultation and just doing the damn thing. I feel like hearing Harmony talk about it would be exactly what I need to hear.
I was born male and now I'm nonbinary. I started wearing makeup to essentially transfer my canvas to my face. Not needing makeup but having it as art supplies is a nice shift in the mindset. To be dependent on any tool is crippling your individual strength. Good for us Harmony ❤ take care !
I love this, Harmony. You have no idea how happy it made me to see you start to embrace your natural beauty and features. I have not owned or wore any makeup in over 6 years now, and i have never felt more sovereign and free. It is truly liberating to love yourself.
I completely agree with you, makeup in itself is not bad - it can be a form of art and expression. But it starts to have negative effects on the skin and also on the mind when it becomes an addiction.
I think more people just need to understand that beauty is not this identical, artificial "look" that is being pushed by society and the beauty and makeup industry. True beauty is found in the uniqueness that each person possesses. It is our unique features that give us a beauty that no one else will have. You are an intrinsic part of Nature, and no one knows beauty like Nature. You were made by Creator ♡ You need not change a thing about yourself, as you are already perfectly and uniquely beautiful.
To whoever is reading this, you are beautiful. I am beautiful. We are all so infinitely beautiful, and we need nothing more than what we are to embrace that beauty!
This was so refreshing to watch. I always use to do a full face of makeup, no kidding it use to take me 2 hours to get ready and that was just for work! Now I’m 35 and it legit takes me no more than 30 minutes and that includes a shower, skin care, a bit of makeup and brushing my hair. The less I do the more I feel confident and beautiful and people give me more compliments now than ever before. I save the heavier makeup for special occasions now and my new best friend is my tinted moisturiser!
I love the transition your going through, I struggle with my appearance, I hate to look in the mirror and I'm constantly worrying what people think of me and I have anxiety about it, you've really inspired me to change the way I'm thinking and to stop putting so much pressure on myself over what I look like....I really love the thought of stripping away the things in your life that dont serve you its extremely freeing.
I honestly cry when I see pictures of my face...like I cry meltdown like wtf that's what I look like..I'm now trying to love myself and started to make videos on TH-cam..I was horrified of my face..no joke full blown meltdowns ..I want to get plastic surgery but i have no money..but I am working on trying to heal..I had toxic abusive ex's that made me feel worthless..I am working on healing ...you are stunning ..you have beautiful white skin and red gorgeous hair.very blessed
It took me 3 months of procrastinating to finally watch this video, glad I did.
What great timing! I've been having a bad today looks wise. I can't stand days where I look bloated in my face and my face looks terrible and pale. It puts me in this depressed state until I look good again. My looks bothered me so much, that I decided to lose a ton of weight. (122 pounds to be exact) which is a positive of course, but I still have those days where I still think I look fat in my face. What I do to cope is remember I do have days where I look great and my skin glows. But it doesn't help 100% of the time. I'm a guy too, so yes guys are self conscious about looks too. It's annoying, when I think I look bad, i worry about what other people think about of me and don't talk to anyone or I get in a bad mood. I wish I could stop worrying about what other people think of me. It hurts my dating life too.
Maybe therapy can help
@@sofia_rms Tried it. Doesn't work for me. Thanks for the advice though!
Listening to Harmony share her journey with makeup has helped me gain the courage to finally stop overusing makeup out of insecurity. I switched to a natural tinted moisturizer and a lil cheek tint instead of exhausting layers of foundations and concealers and CC creams daily... I've honestly never been happier with my face. Turns out tons of people have acne scars and lil blotches, and nobody thinks twice about yours
Your glittery eyes are so subtle and pretty! I almost didn’t notice you were wearing any at all. I love being able to wear intense glitter in such a natural way. Love ittttt
Yeah
I'm a firm believer in divine timing, and your video came to me at the perfect time. I've really struggled with my self-esteem when it comes to looks, and recently it has been negatively affecting my romantic relationship. After a long talk, I decided I need to get to the root of this. A few weeks later, here I am watching your video. Our journeys with self-acceptance have been soooo similar, it's almost eerie. I believe in synchronicities and things working out for us, not against us. I would write every serendipitous moment to show you just how significant this is, but no one wants to read that lmao. Anyways, thank you for sharing your story, and for being a part of my self-love journey.
I recently had to quit wearing makeup due to eye issues, and I honestly had these terrible little thoughts come up like “you’ll never be pretty again,” “people will quit loving you,” etc. it sounds stupid but it is a struggle to overcome, so I appreciate this video 😊
I can't wear eye makeup or foundation but I find that I look lots better with lipstick. I hate myself without it.
Adore you with and without makeup Harmony, you’re such a refreshing addition to social media and such a great influence. Thank you ❤️
I used to wear make up everyday always covering some acne scars I had. Now I'm a nurse and I don't wear any make up for work because of all this covid situation (wearing masks, showering after being with covid patients...). I've never loved myself as much as now. At first I was afraid but now I just love my skin and I feel more secure. I still love make up but now I wear it for fun when I want to, not because I "need" it.
My new boyfriend really doesn't like me wearing make up. My last one didn't either but was not so vocal about it. It feels amazing not worrying about slapping all those chemicals on your face, plus it's extremely time saving... Also your skin looks so much better when you don't use make-up every day. I may occasionally fill up my brows and put a bit of lipstick on, but I don't need a foundation at all cause thankfully I've got quite a good skin. All the best Harmony!! Very good video xxx
This is so true
I thought I loved my face but I realised, the more I got to know about the “new trends” the more insecure I became, I just want to love my face as it is and not being insecure everytime a new trend comes-
Also I used to fight my thoughts anytime anything negative came up but I’m coming more peace with all of that and allowing my thoughts to just be
I still haven’t understood all of this but I got a whole lifetime to figure that out!
Thanks harmony ✨✨💚
no girl i completely resonate with you. I recently deactivated instagram and now i’m so much happier with my bare face. It’s a game changer!
I also gave up most makeup!! I don’t remember when it started happening, I was just sick of my skin being red, bumpy, & so tired looking, & always feeling like I ‘had to’ wear it. I now have gone all natural, as well(: I don’t even use store bought shampoo, conditioner, or body wash & make it into a magical experience by washing my hair or body with products from the earth. I am also growing out my natural color hair, after years of being insecure about it. I used to dye it all colors of the rainbow, & ended up ruining my hair /: & I would be so insecure when it was growing back, & was spending so much on products. Since I’ve been growing it out tho, I can’t get over how.. me I look?? I have also put a big spiritual emphasis on my hair, & it’s been so amazing & helped me getting over messing with it🧡 This wasn’t overnight, at all, to anyone reading this. It took me months & months, & it’s still a journey I’m going through, but I have never felt more myself & happier(: Love & light on our journeys everybody 💛✨
I love this video so much. In high school I would wear make up everyday and straighten my hair. It got to the point where I would despise my natural face and hair. I also struggled with acne during those times and I felt like I had to hide my face. Looking back, I put so much fucking work and energy into appearing a certain way. It wasn’t until last year when I was 21 when I realized that I needed to stop feeling like I needed to wear make up and try to love my face and hair the way it is. Thank you Harmony 💖💖💖
We need to critically analyse makeup more 💜💜
Yes yes yes on skincare. :) My relationship with makeup has improved significantly due to quarantine. I see it as a way to have fun with color instead of the mentality I had before
I've literally went from being only comfortable with myself in very heavy makeup, meaning drawn on, cut out brows (overplucked beneath), concealing, foundation, eyeliner, eyelashes, contour and highlight, to very minimal to nothing from one day to the other. I've also stopped wearing wigs (i shaved my head and am letting it grow out now). Not from this video, but from other newer videos of you - i used to watch your videos when i first got into wicca when you still wore heavy makeup, and seeing you now, it's gotten me so incredibly inspired because i used to think you were gorgeous, but when i saw you now, with barely any makeup and the energy you give off now, you're absolutely perfect to me. Thanks a lot for sharing your journey with us, harmony
This video resonated a lot with me. I have such a hard time with liking myself. Physically and spiritually. I've had issues liking myself for as long as I can remember. I remember being a little girl and wondering why other little girls didn't fuss about how they looked. They were just carefree kids.
I have such a hard time with the reflection in the mirror...so much so that I even avoided mirrors for a time because seeing myself would just make me cry.
I hate how lost I feel in my craft, my spirituality, and who I am as a person. I just want to love myself.
The only main difference between your journey and mine was that I've never really gotten big into makeup. I've always been known as all natural face. But I still haven't come to the step of being okay with my natural face. Ugh. It's so frustrating self love. I wish it were easier. I'm finding inner healing trauma work to be really tough. Do you have advice on working on inner healing and trauma through magick?
You're such an inspiration. I hope to get to where you did someday!
Just watching this made me feel beautiful. The transfer of your energy is so so so powerful, Harmony!!! What a joy to be on this platform and encounter a video that actually makes me feel WONDERFUL, feel FULL, feel SATISFIED, feel JOY for what I have!! No niggling feeling that I must buy something, or change something about my appearance, which is so often the case on TH-cam. You are a gift.
I really needed this video 💕💕 I used to be so unhappy with the way I looked that I would go to sleep with makeup on with lashes too and when I’d wake up the morning after I’d wash it off and cry when I’d see what I looked like underneath so I would then reapply it, this continued for 2 yrs ...this past year I stopped doing all of that and I am now learning how to love how I look without makeup... I still wear it from time to time but never again like before. I’m having to relearn everything too I’ve been leaning more towards the natural makeup side.
I haven't worn foundation in 10 years. I love it. It's freedom. I don't have to worry that I will look different when swimming, sweating, working out, whatever. before covid, I would just wear blush and some tinted lip balm, but that is covered by my mask most days, so i don't wear any makeup anymore. ❤️
I think you look positively lovely. A natural beauty! No makeup needed. 💗
I really feel for you going through all of this stuff while having a big social media presence. I've gone through a lot of similar issues in my 20s and early 30s, and I can't imagine going through all of that with the sense of external pressure that you could feel. It's a lifelong journey loving yourself but I'm so glad you've figured stuff out. You're a wonderful, magical being and deserve to own your identity fully and confidently!
okay, that's it, i am making a habit to watch it daily so i can remind myself every day of these tips until they're engraved in my mind. thank you so much Harmony, this video came exactly at the right time✨💜
YES! To everything you said. I needed this video. And I especially resonate with going back to how you felt when you were younger and just getting into things. We can feel that way now and forever!
also can we not say "it's easy for you, you're pretty anyway." Really pretty people can have really low self-esteem, just like how "ugly" (i say this from a societal standpoint, the only type of ugliness in my opinion is an ugly personality) people can have really high self-esteem. everyone is going on their own journey, and when you tell someone it's easy after the struggle they're going through, it can really make them feel like their personal growth wasn't worth it and that they shouldn't have tried. you don't know what people are going through. don't assume that just because someone is pretty on the outside means they like themselves.
This is an interesting viewpoint. I wear makeup almost every day and often find myself putting on my face to uphold a certain standard I practically enclosed myself in because of the media. Thinking about giving this a try! Love your videos xx
Thankyou very much for all of these videos about self love and self care. Ive struggled with my self image since I was a child. Im 22 now and Ive been doing great, these videos have helped me so much. Ive struggled with self loathing, anxiety, and depression. Less than a year ago I did something really stupid that put everything in perspective. Please dont feel bad nor do i want any pitty from anyone in the comments. I just wanna say thanks because ive healed so much and spirituality has helped me so much (also big thanks for the enchanted endeavors series) Anyone with these issues, you got this, you are worth it, you are strong.
Im tryna face the opposite journey: I really hate my face but I've always put on very little makeup or even nothing on my face. Do I feel 'pretty enough' not to wear makeup? Hell NO. The fact is, I feel like I am so ugly that makeup cant change my face (so why putting so much energy on it). And if it betters my appearence its a fraud, it's not real and I cant spend my whole life worrying about people seeing there's someone behing foundation and eyeshadows even uglier than what they see. Not wearing makeup is like a protection for me, at least people can think 'well, maybe if she wore some paint on her face she could be 'lookable'', instead of giving them the certainty I'm ugly all the same, no matter what. Hope this makes some sense
I feel this! It's similar for me. I just kinda accepted my ''ugliness'' by now... eventho people tell me otherwise a lot, but I mostly think they're just trying to be nice. :/
@@meatysheep maybe you're just insecure. If people tell you that you're beautiful, believe them. You're attractive to them because of your nice personality, but physical beauty probably has an impact too.
The thing is confidence. Some years ago i had little to no self esteem i only used boots, hoodies, 3 shirts underneath and pants (i live in a tropical country where 20° C its cold) i was terrified at the thought of people seeing and talking to me. But then when i was 15 i tried to look at me as someone else (which was easy cause i basically avoided seeing myself during yeaaars) i stopped looking at the mirror when i was 11 so when i saw my face and body i cried so much cause i did not recognized it (2 years later and i rarely recognize me when i see at first).
So i decided to do a exercise: look at the mirror at least twice a day and say or think 1 thing that i like about myself. I thought i was being stupid but after a few months i went to school in shorts and just 2 shirts instead of 3 because well i was afraid but i was so fed up that i just didnt even care my apathy was at its peak.
Last year i started dressing and acting as i wanted sure i sometimes cringed and wanted to hide but people started to honestly compliment me i started to feel so confident I FELT AMAZING ok there are ups and downs i still dont like how i look i feel strange as if i am a parasite in a human's brain but i started to smile again and thats a wonderful win for me maybe in a few more years i will be fully back to my normal self
@@lbh515 thank you
I feel the same way
I love that moon mirror 🌛💙
Thank you for being so authentic. You’ve been a huge inspiration. Thank you!! 🦋
I was just thinking about the fact that I lost confidence without makeup... and I saw your notification. YOU’RE ALWAYS ON TIME
Thank you for making this video. I'm very grateful that TH-cam brought you back into my life, especially at this time in my life. Every word you said really resonates with me and I just wanted to drop in and say thank you, Harmony 🥰✌
I know you’re probably inundated with video ideas but it would be so great to see one about you changing your phone/coming off social media. I’ve been thinking about it so much lately and would love to hear your thoughts xx
Best highlight on youtube when Harmony posts 🖤🖤
Ya know Harmony, I've been subbed/ghost watching for a long while. I knew I liked you a lot but I always felt this disconnect? Like you had a giant wall between the authentic, deeper you and the aesthetic you. It felt like you had something to say but you just couldn't get it out in that version of yourself. I don't feel that disconnect anymore. I feel like you're blossoming into exactly who you are supposed to be, thus bringing others up with you. I feel much more connected to you. ❤
You are absolutely radiant harmony, I seriously am so happy for you
you’re so sweet🥺💕
I actually have come to love my face the past couple months. I hope more people are able to come to this point ☺️☺️
Any girl named Amy is beautiful!
Please make a video on accepting your body! ALSO PLEASE MAKE A PODCAST? I would love to hear your talk about your spiritual / self love journey and any ramblings lol
I'm so glad someone is talking about this! I felt like I was the only one who just felt too dependant on makeup! During quarentine, naturally, you're inside 99% of the time, so I wasn't wearing makeup and it helped so much with my reliance on makeup. I use to wear a thick full face of makeup, and now I just put on a bit of brow and blush, and I really feel like myself again. I'm reconnecting with myself again. Thank you for making this video Harmony! It's definitely a message that needs to be heard. Going to use these tips to continue this momentum! 😊
Thank you for sharing your thoughts on this and thank you for the advice! I've gone through a very similar experience in terms of wearing less makeup and learning to accept my natural face. I was in a retail job I hated and used to wear heavy foundation and have lash extensions on a daily basis. I look back now and I'm just like, that's not me! Now that I'm following a career path I love I hardly wear foundation and enjoy experimenting with colourful eyeliners, eyeshadows and drawing little hearts around my eyes and it's so much more fun! I feel like it's so intertwined with our relationships with social media and capitalist and patriarchial beauty standards too. I found researching 'body neutrality' to be an absolute game changer for me - I especially recommend the work of Renee Engeln. One thing I do still find difficult is feeling like I can't wear certain outfits without makeup because they don't look right. For example, I'm happy to not wear makeup if I'm dressing casually but if I want to dress up, wear something a bit more fancy or slutty I just don't think the outfit looks right with a bare face. Anyone have any thoughts on this? xx
I never appreciated that I am beautiful. I really am! I never liked that I am shorter than other girls and so skinny (always people bullied me about my weight- how cliche) but as I grow older I really love my self because I have one body and one life and all I need to do is just be happy about it.
I am a true makeup lover but also enjoy my face! However, it was not until recently that I learned to love my natural face and wear it proudly, flaws and all. This message is amazing and a shared experience. Thank you 💚
Emphasizing YOUR beauty and the things that help naturally enhance what you already have is what allows your inner light to shine out and to attract others that will support that light. It’s such a healthier way to live
This is so unrelated but your house looks like it would smell of incense and cloves and would be warm and cozy and the floor would squeak when you walked on it and it makes me feel so relaxed and grounded.
Is that why she is so beautiful because she accepts her face and sees it better therefore she is beautiful to us too idk
love this video! i started on a journey of "no makeup" and really developing a good relationship with my skin and skin care routine. My idea on makeup has changed so much!
I really appreciate these videos. Especially the one about stopping wearing foundation all over your face. I don't want to use makeup to cover up or change how I look, but I'm still so paranoid about letting spots and dark circles and scars show. So you talking about this stuff is really helpful. Thank you Harmony x
before i even saw this video, yesterday i was sitting there feeling shit about my body. i've been wanting to make let's play videos but i kept debating if a facecam was necessary and i felt like i wanted to hide because i didn't like how i looked. and yesterday, during my meditation session, after days of me debating this in my head, i had this intense breakthrough. i started to feel this huge love for my body, the temple that is carrying me through life, constantly trying to heal me and keep me alive, the place where i am safe and where i hold all my power and where i pour so much love and kindness and care into. i am an imperfect human, i am a goddess and i am lovely no matter my size.
Thank you for this, Harmony!!
Honestly, I think I would have been a person who wears very heavy makeup every day to feel confident. I never really got the chance to. That might sound weird, and my reason for it may sound a bit irrational, but I feel like I never really got the chance to wear all the makeup I wanted was because I have extremely oily skin. It just slides right off, clumps up and smears, and I never had the money to buy more products to help it stay on.
SO I spent a larger part of the last decade hating my face, and learning to come to terms with it. I had to look at myself the way I am every day because I couldn't cover it up. I would compare my bare face to women on social media with a full face of makeup and feel like I could never be good enough. My relationship with my skin was AWFUL as well.
About a year ago, I began my journey to really loving the skin I'm in. I've even recently began to kind of like my super shiny skin. It doesn't look like everyone else's, it begs to be seen, and it's kind of like having a face full of glitter all the time. We love glitter on everything else, so why can't I love it on my face? I've made it park of my look. I fill in my brows a bit, put a little mascara and tinted lip balm on, and embrace myself. I've even started wearing my hair naturally curly for the first time since 6th grade. I used to think my hair was my worst feature, but now I quite love it. Despite looking the way I always have, I feel beautiful now. I'm thankful to have had these revelations at 20, so I can spend the rest of my life practicing self love and hopefully empowering others to do the same!
girl... i love you, this helped me so much❤️
It’s so crazy how similar we are and how much I relate to this video. I’m so grateful for this video because I’m really going through healing and self love right now. Thank you so much you’re incredible.