Thank you, I needed this today... Here's what I got from this beautiful video... 1. Validate their feelings 2. Listen to the end of their thoughts (don't interrupt) 3. Don't rush to correction 4. Show them instead of Tell them 5. Age Appropriate Transparency 6. Laugh not Lead sometimes 7. Use the phrases "I trust you" to empowered their decision 8. Forgive 9. Ask for forgiveness 10. Set up a safe space - No Judgment - No repercussions - Unconditional love
BOL!!!! WOW!!! Allowing my children to make decisions saying “I TRUST YOU TO MAKE GOOD DECISIONS” Empowers them to know that I TRUST them. Words are soooo POWERFUL!!! - Also -Allowing them (and others) to complete their thought shows that I respect them and I am listening to what they have to say... what they have to say is important! I love, love, love you and your channel!! You are my Womentor and inspiration DAILY!!! Continue to do ALL that you do to Motivate the Masses!!
Cheers for this, I have been researching "life coach for children" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Have you ever come across - Elilan Coachify Domination - (do a google search ) ? Ive heard some unbelievable things about it and my cousin got amazing success with it.
I could cry, this hit a huuuge gut bubbler for me! I am a first time mother of a 15 month old son, and so much healing is coming up for me that sometimes gets in the way of my ability to truly stay present with my son AND fiancé. It's getting to my own self-esteem, and I can see it spiraling down to them and into my creative healing arts businesses. A huge #BOL was about forgiveness and not hanging onto what we say we're going to forget. It is so easy to bring up the last mistake when my shego wants to be right! Ughhh!! But everyday practices of mindfulness and ending the toxic cycles of my family's conditioning has really helped me to continue unfolding into the phenomenal woman that I am intended to be. Thank you, Lisa, for being the inspiration I need to re-insert myself back into life after childbirth. You're one of my top influences that keeps me hanging in there! You are super woman, and though we haven't met (yet), I am standing by your side, and helping us heal the heart of a woman and the soul of mankind. Peace & Love
YANA! My mother used a lot of the tools you gave here Lisa, and I'm so grateful for that. I grew up knowing that my mother isn't perfect and doesn't know everything, but that she loves me respects me and trust me. More than that, I was so proud when she said to me that I'm one of her greatest teachers, because I learn so much from her all the time and she is one of my role models. So thanks for this video 💕 xoxox
The reminder that someone whose ego is keeping them from getting back to love and that I need to hold space for them in unconditional love shot right to my heart. That simple yet profound reminder just changed the course of my actions from this day forward. Thank you, Lisa. Love you.
OMG! I really needed this. I'm raising my 10 year old daughter as a single parent and I've been struggling with some things. the trust is a huge part. She will rather withhold the truth due to fear of getting in trouble. It upsets me and definitely builds a wedge between us. I will be using these methods to overcome some of the obstacles we've encountered lately.
Ms...Lisa.I love this video..I skipped over this video for 2 days and now that I took the time to listen, you brought back comfortability and self reflection, I have a teenager and we have been disaray for time. I needed to hear all 10 reasons because my parenting skills need to get better. The suggestion you made about unconditional love is what I resonate with the most, my daughter is not doing well with her self confidence or self esteem. As a mother to a millennial teen you have try different angles of parenting and stick with it. I needed to hear this video so I can improve my parenting skills and I will listen a second time to see if I missed something. This video was eye opening
I can and will set a safe space for my children, grandchildren and my spouse...I can see my life changing with each step that you lay out and I follow! Thank you my Sister! RS
I just came across your channel today researching videos that can help me boost my child’s self-esteem. I am in tears because all of the things you’ve mentioned I have never experienced as a child. I have some healing and apologizing to do🙏🏾 Thank you! This is very helpful!
Wow, just what I needed to hear today. School report cards just cane out today and my 15 year old didn't have a favorable grade in 2 classes (this is a 1st ever of any of my children) so I have to address this the right way the very first time! Tip #3 - Don't rush to correction stood out for me. I acknowledged his good first so that allowed him an opportunity to explained why. I would've never gotten so vital information out of him if I just started in the "correction" mode. Thanks for teachibg/allowing me to put water on the fire instead of gasoline! Grateful!
Thank you Lisa! I really needed to hear this! I was in a very abusive relationship for 11 years. My children saw so much. Their father created a lot of damage in them. Lowering the self esteem of my oldest especially. #4, 7, and 10 I know I really needed to hear! I am definitely going to try these helpful tips and allow them to blossom in our lives. Right now I am legally their only parent, so tending to 3 little ones sometimes can be overwhelming. I myself am trying to undue the damage he caused in me. I believe with this kind of help we can all grow and overcome together. Again, Thank you so much!!!! KC
BOL! #lovingmethroughmyugly!!!!!!! Yaaaaasss!! Unconditional love IS a beautiful thing. May these 10 points plant seeds, water seeds to yield bountiful harvests of unconditional love. Thank you Lisa. Big hug.
BOL “Feelings are neither right nor wrong, they are real”. Lisa I needed this video today, my high school son was really weighing on me and I needed this reminder to acknowledge him and replace the BUT with AND. I love the list it is so practicable I can’t wait to go home today and hug him, let him know I trust him, I trust his decision because he is empowered to make good decisions, and start over applying these techniques. I am looking forward to great results!
Lisa all of what you said is helpful for all relationships. Especially liked the "safe spot" it takes so very much consideration to not want our own ego to get in the way. Thank you for your tools & communication skills are so very important to learn the art of listening and not to judge to practice unconditional love. God Bless You
Hi , your words inspire me . I was able to get hold of my self because of what you said. I quit my job to be with my children as a single parent. I am now in action with my baking career. I went In full force and ever since I am in action. Thank you. You save me and because of that I saved my children .
Wow, I never had a safe place growing up. Ever! I've evolved in life as a seeker, self help, spirituality etc. The idea of the safe space is an excellent idea! Thankyou Lisa!! U have really inspired me. As a single mum I am very hard on My self when parenting my son and not developing those tools from parents as a child. All's I ever wanted is a safe space. I'm going to use this. Much love xx
BOL!!! Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. I have been following u for a few months and u have truly changed my life and my mind. I have been having some really tough issues with my 15 year old daughterand I went stretching for a weird from you, then. BAM. I found this video. I needed ALL of this, but the commitments in the end were especially needed because I do all those wrong things u spoke of. I am going to have these rules as the base of our next mother daughter talk. And I'm also seeking the teen motivational videos u may have, so she can watch and be encouraged. Love you sis!
Haha haha haha :-) I'm the 11th viewer of this video :) Gotcha right away, lovely lady ;) I guess I missed a couple of videos but for a good reason. Everything in my life s changing!!!! YESYES YESYES YESYES Gotta love this YESYES. Wow... Since I been watching you on video, sloooowwwwly, things started to really shift. The one thing I remember is when you said some of us are frozen. That hit the nail on the head! Yes, I was frozen. You know, anxiety/depression blahhh blabla. Diagnosed, meds, counseling, the works. And I am grateful for ALL of it. I believe everything comes as an dear from the spirit realm and is meant to help humans. Where big pharma has taken it, well that's what we doooo.. Well, some... And it has helped shareholders and CEOs...to take on their own personal lessons. If someone is greedy, well, maybe they believe there isn't enough. Not enough love . Cut cut cut Dear Lisa, you can't imagine....omg I quit meds, I found 2 (!!) personal spiritual teachers, I'm on track with my tasks on this earth... synchronicities. . Intuition working I started singing in the street!!!!!! Never in my life did I think I would have the guts to do THAT SORRY I'm talking soooo much hahaha I'm so happy every day. I found that I am really a teacher. Teacher for languages, self love, etc etc I am a singer. My kids are so happy that I'm off meds!!!!!! You, my friend, deserve all the best and all the good you can possibly receive ;) Forever grateful, Love, Lisa S. Big hug, sista from another mistah...I was laughing so much at this expression.....
To my dearest Lisa, Thank You Again. The words that you are saying are very true. This validates my approach that I have with my children. I have full transparency with my children. I also homeschool them so we are with each other all day. I want my children to understand the gravity of what can come from them being trusted. I guide them the way the Creator guides me, and I that guiding is just to simply allow them to grow up creating their own thoughts and mindsets by living in a way that is beneficial to them and the world. I tell them everyday how they are such geniuses. They are absolutely, hand downs, some of the most wonderful Beings that I have ever met. I tell them how much I do trust them and it has allowed them to be more open and trusting of me. I am a firm believer that my family is my truest and best blessing that the Creator has ever given me. I told my children that I only have one expectation of them in their life, and it's simply, to become the best minds that they can become. Becoming the best mind allows them to grow into the best Beings that they can be. I want them to be universal and trusting with their love, and that starts with me, guiding them to their lives of Abundance in the way that they want, not in the way that I want.
It's the first time I have seen anything here and I must say, the content and delivery has really hit home for me. A great big thanks Lisa Nichols and team for sharing how I can be a best mum for my children. I look forward to integrating these principles into our lives. xxx
Absolutely fab. Number 10 is for me. My oldest child is 11, just started secondary school so we need that safe space as we both learn and grow together.
Lisa, thank you so much for this beautiful message. I paused after each point to take my time to reflect on how these gems can help me be a good mother to my daughter. I loved the safe space idea and also reminding my child that I trust her ability to make choices. Thank you so very much for this, Lisa.
Great tips! I think I do much of this already, but will be more mindful of it - especially the "I trust you to make good decisions" and also not rushing to correction. Thank you Lisa! xo
#BOL This is right on time! I set the intention to be more present with my 9 year-old daughter. Being in the moment and allowing her to feel what she feels hit home for me. But the one point that I absolutely am working on is letting her finish her thought. Growing up, it was always the adult knows best and they don't need to hear your thoughts. Allowing my daughter to have a voice is my mission because I know that this will build her confidence and by the time she is out in the world on her own, she will know her truth is important and is wirthy enough to be voiced. I love you Lisa and THANK YOU SOOOOOO MUCH!
This was so needed today. I am so grateful that I came across your video. Today I will put into action steps 1, 2 , and 3 with my children!!! Thank you!
How do I not get walked over by my son but still love him unconditionally? Thank you you so much for all your amazing advice , you are so clear in how you explain things with examples of daily life
Thank you soooooo much for this. Never had this growing up so to see my 11yr old daughter struggle with the same exact things as me at her age I have to turn this around. If I don't this same thing will happen to her daughter or son. Breaking generational curses is such a huge task. To be honest just admitting that it is a generational curse is heavy in itself. I came prepared and wrote down all ten steps and I plan to practice on these.
Love you Lisa...i am a mother of two beautiful daughters.... One is going to be a teenager this year.... This talk really helped me knowing how to deal with situations which i would have done otherwise.... Thank you.. Thank you....😘
Hi everyone You did it again Lisa you are great. You know that one person that loves you more than anything in the world? For the first time I know is my baby girl Mia. All my life I observed and felt that feeling on others. Now, for some instinct I treat my little girl as how I would like to be treated and now is clear to me that I’m doing it right. I do wonder sometimes if is going to dismiss authority later on teens years? It wasn’t easy growing up for me so I became a difficult girl. I pray for many fears I have. But don’t worry the ride in the back seat 👍🏼 Thank you I learn so much every time 🦄
I need to work on few things however, I have what you would state a safe space but we set up a time where no matter what you have to talk about I have to do all those things you stated like not get agree or disappointed etc. IT WORKS! I LOVE YOU.
Thank you for your very own constant understanding, imagination coupled with understanding to benefit my trip to progressively more consciously aware in addition to spiritually connected.
Lisa, it’s good to know I’ve been utilizing some great methods to encourage my daughters self esteem! I needed that reassurance ☺️ I raise my girls to love themselves first and I’m glad to continue to exercise these tools with them AND myself 😍 Thank you sista! 🙏🏾
Thank u my kids are 4 and 5. Its tough to remember that they are people with feelings that deserve respect.Its so easy to feel like they just have to listen to me without their own input.I will do better with that. I am teaching them decision making skills while also learning how to make better decisions myself. The safe space is a great idea. Im looking around my apartment now to see where a good place will be. I think I should ask them where they would like the safe space to be.
Awesome content! I️ needed to be reminded of saying “I️ Trust YOUR decision.” But #10 is the game changer. Creating the safe space to communicate is just what I️ need right now!
love love love supppper love!! well, sometimes i practise most of these lines with my 2 and half-yeared angel, and sometimes i fail bad!! i need to listen to this video many many more times, not just for my little son but for my husband as well. thank you Lisa
I love them all, but especially about listening and bot intrerjecting. I have practiced it but not as much as I would like to have. But hearing you talk about it is inspired me to put it into practice more and more
I really needed to hear this. My oldest daughter is 18 and we are struggling in our communication and understanding of one another as she transitions into young adulthood. She has made some challenging decisions that have not been safe and could’ve let to serious repercussions. I am confused by her behavior. I am going to talk to her about the agreements that you discussed and see if she is willing to engage in such a contract when we discuss challenging things. I am also going to implement your recommendations when interacting with my 12 year old
#YANA# raising a boy alone is not easy, i made countless mistakes , however Today's lesson gave me victory over that cause now I can , press the reset button and by starting op a new page by doing the right thing. and that is ask for forgiveness , Listen to the end and not to always correct! Thank you Lisa
Hi Lisa, I listen all the time to your speeches. I love this one how to raise your child self esteem. I definitely is going to improve some of my parental skills. Thank you so much. I hope someday to meet you in persons. You are very empowering. I hope that I can empower or inspire others just like you. Thank you.
Hello Lisa, 👋. I am jesee You have an unique ora of love/wisdom radiating with your being. Your beingness is close to unity. Love/ unity is contained within you/all. Your humbleness as a servant of light/love is appreciated. You are a harmonically gifted teacher/ student of unity. with infinite love ~jesee
BOL!!!!!!! Yes yes!!!! Thank you Lisa i needed that! Numbers 1,2,3 an 10 i needed to hear. I love you listening from Trinidad..... truly motivating the masses. 💪
This was soooo good! Can you do something on how to speak to your teen about dating/ go about dating? I would like to start dating now that she's 15, but I don't really know how to combine being her mom for 15 years and bringing in someone new to our world.
As a hospital specialist in the uk (similar to a child life specialist in US) I have often but many of these points in practice and have witnessed the empowerment, reassurance etc. children and young people get from them. However as I watched on I had BOL with your last point of the safe place. I know how beneficial this is in my work role so WHY WHY do I not always provide opportunities for this at home with my son and my stepson. I know deep down I probably have to point at times but now I am definitely going to look at settings up purposful safe space times and reassuring that what is said in those times are NOT allowed to come back at you outside of that time. And I hope that my agreeing rules for these times that we both have to agree to e.g no judgment is made during these the time unless asked for and even then its not to be criticism but supportive guidance.
Hey Lisa! I love what you did here for the parents. I would love to come to one of your workshops! I just love you! I am a certified positive discipline parenting educator. You could say instead of going to a correction you can ask "what do you feel you could do different" tht really helps build their self-esteem and makes them think. I love the "I trust you." Awesome! Do you have any trainings for working with parents that I can incorporate into what I have already learned? I love that agreement for the safe space!
Lisa..my dear you are Awesome... forgiving, unconditional love,safe zone is the need of the hour for not only children but for us adult too... You are Awesome Lisa... I have question.. in this era where videos video games, face book, Twitter & I instagram where children dive deep In to it..the emotions are draining out killing so many every day in one single game, Do they have time to understand even if unconditional love is given to them do they get to recognise it or appreciate it?
What are your suggestions for while a kid is throwing a complete tantrum without listening? I'm a step parent and although I hear what has transpired the previous 8 years, I wasnt there and only hear one side. But ultimately, she is conditioned to throw a full tantrum anytime something doesn't go the exact way she wanted. Even if it's about who drives her to school. She also uses the phrase "mom doesnt spend time with me, even though after school, time is completely devoted to her aside from making dinner and washing dishes, all the way until bed time. How would you respond to those things in the moment? I loved the talking points and agreements, I think implementing those will help to curb current behavioral issues down the line, but what can we do in that moment?
I love the safe space idea. To be able to speak freely and not have what is said held against you or thrown in your face .
Thank you, I needed this today... Here's what I got from this beautiful video...
1. Validate their feelings
2. Listen to the end of their thoughts (don't interrupt)
3. Don't rush to correction
4. Show them instead of Tell them
5. Age Appropriate Transparency
6. Laugh not Lead sometimes
7. Use the phrases "I trust you" to empowered their decision
8. Forgive
9. Ask for forgiveness
10. Set up a safe space
- No Judgment
- No repercussions
- Unconditional love
BOL!!!! WOW!!! Allowing my children to make decisions saying “I TRUST YOU TO MAKE GOOD DECISIONS” Empowers them to know that I TRUST them. Words are soooo POWERFUL!!! - Also -Allowing them (and others) to complete their thought shows that I respect them and I am listening to what they have to say... what they have to say is important! I love, love, love you and your channel!! You are my Womentor and inspiration DAILY!!! Continue to do ALL that you do to Motivate the Masses!!
Cheers for this, I have been researching "life coach for children" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Have you ever come across - Elilan Coachify Domination - (do a google search ) ? Ive heard some unbelievable things about it and my cousin got amazing success with it.
I could cry, this hit a huuuge gut bubbler for me! I am a first time mother of a 15 month old son, and so much healing is coming up for me that sometimes gets in the way of my ability to truly stay present with my son AND fiancé. It's getting to my own self-esteem, and I can see it spiraling down to them and into my creative healing arts businesses. A huge #BOL was about forgiveness and not hanging onto what we say we're going to forget. It is so easy to bring up the last mistake when my shego wants to be right! Ughhh!! But everyday practices of mindfulness and ending the toxic cycles of my family's conditioning has really helped me to continue unfolding into the phenomenal woman that I am intended to be. Thank you, Lisa, for being the inspiration I need to re-insert myself back into life after childbirth. You're one of my top influences that keeps me hanging in there! You are super woman, and though we haven't met (yet), I am standing by your side, and helping us heal the heart of a woman and the soul of mankind.
Peace & Love
YANA! My mother used a lot of the tools you gave here Lisa, and I'm so grateful for that. I grew up knowing that my mother isn't perfect and doesn't know everything, but that she loves me respects me and trust me. More than that, I was so proud when she said to me that I'm one of her greatest teachers, because I learn so much from her all the time and she is one of my role models. So thanks for this video 💕 xoxox
The reminder that someone whose ego is keeping them from getting back to love and that I need to hold space for them in unconditional love shot right to my heart. That simple yet profound reminder just changed the course of my actions from this day forward. Thank you, Lisa. Love you.
OMG! I really needed this. I'm raising my 10 year old daughter as a single parent and I've been struggling with some things. the trust is a huge part. She will rather withhold the truth due to fear of getting in trouble. It upsets me and definitely builds a wedge between us. I will be using these methods to overcome some of the obstacles we've encountered lately.
I can totally relate my daughter is always afraid of getting in trouble
I used it for helping my own self-esteem. I just talked to myslef as talking to inner child. Powerful. Thank you Lisa!
Ms...Lisa.I love this video..I skipped over this video for 2 days and now that I took the time to listen, you brought back comfortability and self reflection, I have a teenager and we have been disaray for time. I needed to hear all 10 reasons because my parenting skills need to get better. The suggestion you made about unconditional love is what I resonate with the most, my daughter is not doing well with her self confidence or self esteem. As a mother to a millennial teen you have try different angles of parenting and stick with it. I needed to hear this video so I can improve my parenting skills and I will listen a second time to see if I missed something. This video was eye opening
I really needed to hear that I am so quick to correct them thank you for allowing me to refocus and get back in the positive driving seat of parenting
I can and will set a safe space for my children, grandchildren and my spouse...I can see my life changing with each step that you lay out and I follow! Thank you my Sister! RS
I just came across your channel today researching videos that can help me boost my child’s self-esteem. I am in tears because all of the things you’ve mentioned I have never experienced as a child. I have some healing and apologizing to do🙏🏾 Thank you! This is very helpful!
BOL!!! Allow my child to complete their thought or point. Even if my child is my child within. I love this. 💝
Wow, just what I needed to hear today. School report cards just cane out today and my 15 year old didn't have a favorable grade in 2 classes (this is a 1st ever of any of my children) so I have to address this the right way the very first time! Tip #3 - Don't rush to correction stood out for me. I acknowledged his good first so that allowed him an opportunity to explained why. I would've never gotten so vital information out of him if I just started in the "correction" mode. Thanks for teachibg/allowing me to put water on the fire instead of gasoline! Grateful!
I love you Lisa. I thank God everyday for having you as my mentor (daily). BIG HUG to you xoxoxo
Thank you Lisa! I really needed to hear this! I was in a very abusive relationship for 11 years. My children saw so much. Their father created a lot of damage in them. Lowering the self esteem of my oldest especially. #4, 7, and 10 I know I really needed to hear! I am definitely going to try these helpful tips and allow them to blossom in our lives. Right now I am legally their only parent, so tending to 3 little ones sometimes can be overwhelming. I myself am trying to undue the damage he caused in me. I believe with this kind of help we can all grow and overcome together. Again, Thank you so much!!!! KC
BOL! #lovingmethroughmyugly!!!!!!! Yaaaaasss!! Unconditional love IS a beautiful thing. May these 10 points plant seeds, water seeds to yield bountiful harvests of unconditional love. Thank you Lisa. Big hug.
BOL “Feelings are neither right nor wrong, they are real”. Lisa I needed this video today, my high school son was really weighing on me and I needed this reminder to acknowledge him and replace the BUT with AND. I love the list it is so practicable I can’t wait to go home today and hug him, let him know I trust him, I trust his decision because he is empowered to make good decisions, and start over applying these techniques. I am looking forward to great results!
wow, thank you... I have 4 girls and i will be using all these suggestions. I love it... God Bless you lisa..
Lisa all of what you said is helpful for all relationships. Especially liked the "safe spot" it takes so very much consideration to not want our own ego to get in the way. Thank you for your tools & communication skills are so very important to learn the art of listening and not to judge to practice unconditional love. God Bless You
Hi , your words inspire me . I was able to get hold of my self because of what you said. I quit my job to be with my children as a single parent. I am now in action with my baking career. I went In full force and ever since I am in action. Thank you. You save me and because of that I saved my children .
Wow, I never had a safe place growing up. Ever! I've evolved in life as a seeker, self help, spirituality etc. The idea of the safe space is an excellent idea! Thankyou Lisa!! U have really inspired me. As a single mum I am very hard on My self when parenting my son and not developing those tools from parents as a child. All's I ever wanted is a safe space. I'm going to use this. Much love xx
BOL!!! Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. I have been following u for a few months and u have truly changed my life and my mind. I have been having some really tough issues with my 15 year old daughterand I went stretching for a weird from you, then. BAM. I found this video. I needed ALL of this, but the commitments in the end were especially needed because I do all those wrong things u spoke of. I am going to have these rules as the base of our next mother daughter talk. And I'm also seeking the teen motivational videos u may have, so she can watch and be encouraged. Love you sis!
All points are powerful, it will need consistency to perfect on them all.
Haha haha haha :-) I'm the 11th viewer of this video :) Gotcha right away, lovely lady ;)
I guess I missed a couple of videos but for a good reason. Everything in my life s changing!!!!
YESYES YESYES YESYES
Gotta love this YESYES. Wow...
Since I been watching you on video, sloooowwwwly, things started to really shift. The one thing I remember is when you said some of us are frozen. That hit the nail on the head! Yes, I was frozen. You know, anxiety/depression blahhh blabla. Diagnosed, meds, counseling, the works. And I am grateful for ALL of it. I believe everything comes as an dear from the spirit realm and is meant to help humans.
Where big pharma has taken it, well that's what we doooo.. Well, some... And it has helped shareholders and CEOs...to take on their own personal lessons. If someone is greedy, well, maybe they believe there isn't enough. Not enough love .
Cut cut cut
Dear Lisa,
you can't imagine....omg
I quit meds, I found 2 (!!) personal spiritual teachers, I'm on track with my tasks on this earth... synchronicities. . Intuition working
I started singing in the street!!!!!! Never in my life did I think I would have the guts to do THAT
SORRY I'm talking soooo much hahaha
I'm so happy every day.
I found that I am really a teacher. Teacher for languages, self love, etc etc
I am a singer. My kids are so happy that I'm off meds!!!!!!
You, my friend, deserve all the best and all the good you can possibly receive ;)
Forever grateful,
Love,
Lisa S.
Big hug, sista from another mistah...I was laughing so much at this expression.....
To my dearest Lisa, Thank You Again. The words that you are saying are very true. This validates my approach that I have with my children. I have full transparency with my children. I also homeschool them so we are with each other all day. I want my children to understand the gravity of what can come from them being trusted. I guide them the way the Creator guides me, and I that guiding is just to simply allow them to grow up creating their own thoughts and mindsets by living in a way that is beneficial to them and the world. I tell them everyday how they are such geniuses. They are absolutely, hand downs, some of the most wonderful Beings that I have ever met. I tell them how much I do trust them and it has allowed them to be more open and trusting of me. I am a firm believer that my family is my truest and best blessing that the Creator has ever given me. I told my children that I only have one expectation of them in their life, and it's simply, to become the best minds that they can become. Becoming the best mind allows them to grow into the best Beings that they can be. I want them to be universal and trusting with their love, and that starts with me, guiding them to their lives of Abundance in the way that they want, not in the way that I want.
It's the first time I have seen anything here and I must say, the content and delivery has really hit home for me. A great big thanks Lisa Nichols and team for sharing how I can be a best mum for my children. I look forward to integrating these principles into our lives. xxx
Absolutely fab. Number 10 is for me. My oldest child is 11, just started secondary school so we need that safe space as we both learn and grow together.
Lisa, thank you so much for this beautiful message. I paused after each point to take my time to reflect on how these gems can help me be a good mother to my daughter. I loved the safe space idea and also reminding my child that I trust her ability to make choices. Thank you so very much for this, Lisa.
Great tips! I think I do much of this already, but will be more mindful of it - especially the "I trust you to make good decisions" and also not rushing to correction. Thank you Lisa! xo
#BOL This is right on time! I set the intention to be more present with my 9 year-old daughter. Being in the moment and allowing her to feel what she feels hit home for me. But the one point that I absolutely am working on is letting her finish her thought. Growing up, it was always the adult knows best and they don't need to hear your thoughts. Allowing my daughter to have a voice is my mission because I know that this will build her confidence and by the time she is out in the world on her own, she will know her truth is important and is wirthy enough to be voiced. I love you Lisa and THANK YOU SOOOOOO MUCH!
Thank you Lisa for this powerful message,I am raising my four kids.I really needed this. I am glad i found your you tube channel.
This was so needed today. I am so grateful that I came across your video. Today I will put into action steps 1, 2 , and 3 with my children!!! Thank you!
Number 10, safe space....so profound!!! I will implement urgently. I wish I had safe space growing up.
How do I not get walked over by my son but still love him unconditionally? Thank you you so much for all your amazing advice , you are so clear in how you explain things with examples of daily life
I like you lisa,yes because u’re an awesome person but because u encourage self love & dont manipulate it as selfishness 🌼🌺🌼
Thank you soooooo much for this. Never had this growing up so to see my 11yr old daughter struggle with the same exact things as me at her age I have to turn this around. If I don't this same thing will happen to her daughter or son. Breaking generational curses is such a huge task. To be honest just admitting that it is a generational curse is heavy in itself. I came prepared and wrote down all ten steps and I plan to practice on these.
Yes! Love this!!! Let's break those generational curses!
Love you Lisa...i am a mother of two beautiful daughters.... One is going to be a teenager this year.... This talk really helped me knowing how to deal with situations which i would have done otherwise.... Thank you.. Thank you....😘
Hi everyone
You did it again Lisa you are great.
You know that one person that loves you more than anything in the world? For the first time I know is my baby girl Mia. All my life I observed and felt that feeling on others. Now, for some instinct I treat my little girl as how I would like to be treated and now is clear to me that I’m doing it right. I do wonder sometimes if is going to dismiss authority later on teens years? It wasn’t easy growing up for me so I became a difficult girl. I pray for many fears I have. But don’t worry the ride in the back seat 👍🏼 Thank you I learn so much every time 🦄
I need to work on few things however, I have what you would state a safe space but we set up a time where no matter what you have to talk about I have to do all those things you stated like not get agree or disappointed etc. IT WORKS! I LOVE YOU.
Thank you for your very own constant understanding, imagination coupled with understanding to benefit my trip to progressively more consciously aware in addition to spiritually connected.
Really Needed to hear number 6. Loved all of them.
Excellent advice to have a safe place, for children and even grandchildren. I am sharing this video for sure
Thank you I needed to be reminded.
This is very helpful! Thank you Lisa!!
Lisa, it’s good to know I’ve been utilizing some great methods to encourage my daughters self esteem! I needed that reassurance ☺️ I raise my girls to love themselves first and I’m glad to continue to exercise these tools with them AND myself 😍 Thank you sista! 🙏🏾
Wow this message was right on time
Thank you my coach just when I needed this. No. 7 Lisa creating a safe space sis, Thank you ill be a better mom and aunt from this lesson
Thank you for sharing this. I agree with all you are saying. God bless you
Hi lisa this is really amazing...you are amazing. I do love watching your wonderful videos. Keep posting. Thank you for all your brilliant thoughts.
Thank u my kids are 4 and 5. Its tough to remember that they are people with feelings that deserve respect.Its so easy to feel like they just have to listen to me without their own input.I will do better with that. I am teaching them decision making skills while also learning how to make better decisions myself. The safe space is a great idea. Im looking around my apartment now to see where a good place will be. I think I should ask them where they would like the safe space to be.
Awesome content! I️ needed to be reminded of saying “I️ Trust YOUR decision.” But #10 is the game changer. Creating the safe space to communicate is just what I️ need right now!
Very good advice and inspiring thank you 🙏🏾
love love love supppper love!! well, sometimes i practise most of these lines with my 2 and half-yeared angel, and sometimes i fail bad!! i need to listen to this video many many more times, not just for my little son but for my husband as well. thank you Lisa
I love them all, but especially about listening and bot intrerjecting. I have practiced it but not as much as I would like to have. But hearing you talk about it is inspired me to put it into practice more and more
Thank you very much for your wonderful advice 🙏
Thank you Lisa; good day!!!
I really needed to hear this. My oldest daughter is 18 and we are struggling in our communication and understanding of one another as she transitions into young adulthood. She has made some challenging decisions that have not been safe and could’ve let to serious repercussions. I am confused by her behavior. I am going to talk to her about the agreements that you discussed and see if she is willing to engage in such a contract when we discuss challenging things. I am also going to implement your recommendations when interacting with my 12 year old
Yes YES my sister in prosperity,you are the best.
Amen!!! You've been really helping me for sometime now! God bless you Ms. Lisa You're Doing God's Work!💯👑🙌💜🔑
#YANA# raising a boy alone is not easy, i made countless mistakes , however Today's lesson gave me victory over that cause now I can , press the reset button and by starting op a new page by doing the right thing. and that is ask for forgiveness , Listen to the end and not to always correct! Thank you Lisa
Hi Lisa, I listen all the time to your speeches. I love this one how to raise your child self esteem. I definitely is going to improve some of my parental skills. Thank you so much. I hope someday to meet you in persons. You are very empowering. I hope that I can empower or inspire others just like you. Thank you.
Hello Lisa, 👋. I am jesee
You have an unique ora of love/wisdom radiating with your being. Your beingness is close to unity. Love/ unity is contained within you/all. Your humbleness as a servant of light/love is appreciated. You are a harmonically gifted teacher/ student of unity. with infinite love ~jesee
this is amazing Lisa i love you darling you have transformed my life,am gona follow this
OMG! Lisa! Thank you for sharing! This was so on time and on point! #9 and #10 knocked me out!
Incredible video so helpful!!!
Really. Great. Advice.
BOL!!!!!!! Yes yes!!!! Thank you Lisa i needed that! Numbers 1,2,3 an 10 i needed to hear. I love you listening from Trinidad..... truly motivating the masses. 💪
Thank you Lisa,well said
Thank you for much!!
Wow! BTOL! I Needed this!
Nice I use alot of these but will add to my list might have some great results for my young adult boys
Omg power woman- yes beautiful thank you!!
Wow! Thank you
I really liked number 7. I trust you. I liked 2 listen until the end. Thank you
Thanks soooo much for this, God bless!
This was useful thank you
This was soooo good! Can you do something on how to speak to your teen about dating/ go about dating? I would like to start dating now that she's 15, but I don't really know how to combine being her mom for 15 years and bringing in someone new to our world.
Gosh you are a beautiful day soul!
As a hospital specialist in the uk (similar to a child life specialist in US) I have often but many of these points in practice and have witnessed the empowerment, reassurance etc. children and young people get from them. However as I watched on I had BOL with your last point of the safe place. I know how beneficial this is in my work role so WHY WHY do I not always provide opportunities for this at home with my son and my stepson. I know deep down I probably have to point at times but now I am definitely going to look at settings up purposful safe space times and reassuring that what is said in those times are NOT allowed to come back at you outside of that time. And I hope that my agreeing rules for these times that we both have to agree to e.g no judgment is made during these the time unless asked for and even then its not to be criticism but supportive guidance.
Awesome. I look forward to implementing theses with my children starting with asking for forgiveness. Thank you. #BOL
Thanks Lisa BOL with my daughter
Hey Lisa! I love what you did here for the parents. I would love to come to one of your workshops! I just love you! I am a certified positive discipline parenting educator. You could say instead of going to a correction you can ask "what do you feel you could do different" tht really helps build their self-esteem and makes them think. I love the "I trust you." Awesome! Do you have any trainings for working with parents that I can incorporate into what I have already learned? I love that agreement for the safe space!
Waiting until they are finished speaking whether they are 5, 15, or 50. That one was big for me.
WOW!, thank you Lisa, # 9 and #10, I have two boys 16 and 18, its very hard to reach out to them, thank you for sharing... love your videos
I Love all of this!!
Wesene I love your motivation I'm excited I don't know what it is something 💖
Wow!!!!!!thanks Lisa needed this
Just go to the point!!!
Thank You 🙏
I love you Lisa
#3 was my BOL.
#10 thank you so much for this video
Create a safe place
Hola Dios Te Bendiga Que Pases un Bonito Dia Gracias.....
Lisa..my dear you are Awesome... forgiving, unconditional love,safe zone is the need of the hour for not only children but for us adult too... You are Awesome Lisa... I have question.. in this era where videos video games, face book, Twitter & I instagram where children dive deep In to it..the emotions are draining out killing so many every day in one single game, Do they have time to understand even if unconditional love is given to them do they get to recognise it or appreciate it?
What are your suggestions for while a kid is throwing a complete tantrum without listening? I'm a step parent and although I hear what has transpired the previous 8 years, I wasnt there and only hear one side. But ultimately, she is conditioned to throw a full tantrum anytime something doesn't go the exact way she wanted. Even if it's about who drives her to school. She also uses the phrase "mom doesnt spend time with me, even though after school, time is completely devoted to her aside from making dinner and washing dishes, all the way until bed time. How would you respond to those things in the moment? I loved the talking points and agreements, I think implementing those will help to curb current behavioral issues down the line, but what can we do in that moment?
Create a no judgement safe space
Thanks so much! Xoxoxo
BOL yes, YES!
Forgiveness