Yeah I honestly don't like the OP in this story he should have left him alone, doing this stuff on someones Birthday is so fucked up, Poor Noah he deserves so much better, hopefully he's doing well
This story really spoke to me, considering I went through similar circumstances with a recent ex. bottom line I believe people that are interested should never in under any circumstance play with heart strings too much and for too long, mabye Noah and OP would've been friends had the OP had made it clear and straight foward that they don't feel that way. the fact that it happened on his birthday adds Weight, I know first hand how difficult it would be to enjoy a day that important because someone important to you somehow doesn't care, let alone to stay and support you and get you back on his feet. OP was really selfish.
Some people just don't deserve to be in a relationship. Leave them for those who are committed. Props to OP for owning up to his mistakes though. I really liked how this was a story for everyone to learn from.
At least OP told it as it was, but I wished he didn't ruin Noah's birthday.. I also experience something similar with someone on my country so I know the feeling, at least on my part we're good friends.
I had someone like this from 14 who started developing a crush on me. This was over knowing them for a very long time. Didn't work out but I wasn't actively looking to 14 for dating anyway. OP to me seems to have commitment issues. A lot of people do out there and its part of being painfully human in the dating pool. You can be in a relationship and still have commitment issues. I don't think they were actively tying to do harm just a lot of really bad decisions. regardless if Noah forgives OP, OP should really just move on. After 2-3 attempts at having any kind of a bond even a friendship with someone you were intimate with will only leave one/both sides staying unhappy.
I've been in this relationship also and the regret and self reflection never go away afterwards. you just keep apologizing to that person in your head.
I think OP definitly has some stuff to work through- and sad to say, I don't know what good could come of a friendship between them at this point. They are doing well in continuing their self-work, and I like that in this narrative, they seem to own their decisions. I hope they can see it in themselves that there will be someone for them in the future- they'll get another chance, and when they do- hopefully they'll take the lessons they've learned and apply them for the best. It's not over!
i can understand op there a bit, but what i felt in a simliar situation, there is much preassure from outside, how people see relationship, and that can make people go strange ways
ngl OP was a real p.o.s. for the story. Playing with someone's emotions not once, not twice, but THREE whole times. And then literally smashing Noah's heart on his bloody birthday!? Dude... actually wtf. I have anxiety too, but seriously? Come on. Still, at the end of the day OP was adult enough NOW to own it, admit it, and realize they were a p.o.s. and are actively working on bettering themselves. I hope one day they can message Noah and sincerely apologise for their b.s. behaviour and then remove themselves entirely from Noah's life for the sake of themself and Noah. That kind of emotional abuse is not ok :T
he has serious commitment issues that devolved into him sleeping with another person. while i don’t like him, he needs to consider some serious therapy. by the third time, he should’ve known that he’d mess noah up significantly after that. he deserved better; hopefully he did get someone who loves as hard as he does.
Hey all my name's Elric Brightsoul (in game). An this video is so FREAKY TO ME. Why?, Well i recently started playing cause of the Xbox beta! and already have had 2 people interested in me. An one of them was a gay guy called Noah.....so hearing this has me like "wtf?" But it's definitely not the same Noah. Cause the one i knew never had relationship that went to real life. But oh my god this made me feel odd lol.
I can emphasize with this OP... I know how it feels if you just cant settle with people. The Internet provides a nice protective screen but when that wall falls... I also dont think lesser of him getting in bed with a random guy, either: though he didnt know that stranger, it was safer emotionally. We meme about "emotional damage" but forget that that kind of pain cuts deep. I can understand being afraid opening up to someone else who isnt family...
These drama stories make me feel better. I met a girl on FF with a bf, she left him and me at the end of it all after I bought her a plane ticket and her telling me she wanted to start a family with me and crap. Crazy game. I was a fool for believing her. 🤡
Not trying to be rude towards OP, but I feel like they were selfish and should've considered Noah's feelings, I honestly hope Noah is doing well and has found happiness.
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Yeah I honestly don't like the OP in this story he should have left him alone, doing this stuff on someones Birthday is so fucked up, Poor Noah he deserves so much better, hopefully he's doing well
I agree. Like what, but they were perfectly ok with sleeping with someone in the same city? Crazy, after 3 chances!
@@JuggaletteNJlexI know right like seriously wtf
Noah dodged a nuke my goodness
Noah dodged bullet
As soon as a thought, "right now will be a good time to hear a story from Pathra.." this notification pops up. 😂
This story really spoke to me, considering I went through similar circumstances with a recent ex. bottom line I believe people that are interested should never in under any circumstance play with heart strings too much and for too long, mabye Noah and OP would've been friends had the OP had made it clear and straight foward that they don't feel that way. the fact that it happened on his birthday adds Weight, I know first hand how difficult it would be to enjoy a day that important because someone important to you somehow doesn't care, let alone to stay and support you and get you back on his feet. OP was really selfish.
OP had feelings for Noah though... But had commitment anxiety and got cold feet the moment it became serious.
Some people just don't deserve to be in a relationship. Leave them for those who are committed.
Props to OP for owning up to his mistakes though. I really liked how this was a story for everyone to learn from.
At least OP told it as it was, but I wished he didn't ruin Noah's birthday..
I also experience something similar with someone on my country so I know the feeling, at least on my part we're good friends.
I respect op for being so honest but omg poor noah
my heart hurts for him 😭 I hope he found happiness
some times people are only in our lives for a short time, letting people go is also a lesson that is hard to learn
I had someone like this from 14 who started developing a crush on me. This was over knowing them for a very long time. Didn't work out but I wasn't actively looking to 14 for dating anyway.
OP to me seems to have commitment issues. A lot of people do out there and its part of being painfully human in the dating pool. You can be in a relationship and still have commitment issues. I don't think they were actively tying to do harm just a lot of really bad decisions.
regardless if Noah forgives OP, OP should really just move on. After 2-3 attempts at having any kind of a bond even a friendship with someone you were intimate with will only leave one/both sides staying unhappy.
Me and the husband are sitting here watching this and just going “no shut the door don’t hurt him on his birthday”
i dont feel sorry for OP. You cant tell me they didnt know after the 3rd time. Poor Noah. He even slept with a random guy
Poor Noah, he seems like a sweetie too. 😢
Damn I didn't know my ex was talking
I've been in this relationship also and the regret and self reflection never go away afterwards. you just keep apologizing to that person in your head.
Pathra I already watch all your videos, they are like a drug 😫
Facts 😂
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Omg something to listen while at work! Ty Pathra♥️
I think OP definitly has some stuff to work through- and sad to say, I don't know what good could come of a friendship between them at this point. They are doing well in continuing their self-work, and I like that in this narrative, they seem to own their decisions. I hope they can see it in themselves that there will be someone for them in the future- they'll get another chance, and when they do- hopefully they'll take the lessons they've learned and apply them for the best. It's not over!
OP is too wishy washy tbh, it's really hard to feel sympathetic for someone that fails to consider his partner's/lover's feelings
he wasn't seeking sympathy? tf
This story made me cry.
i can understand op there a bit, but what i felt in a simliar situation, there is much preassure from outside, how people see relationship, and that can make people go strange ways
That was a heart wrenching tale! I feel so bad for them both. 😭
Omg, a story from ya after class that catboi on the thumbnail is sooo cute! Lol, i'm like the op still tanking andhealing gives me anxiety
ngl OP was a real p.o.s. for the story. Playing with someone's emotions not once, not twice, but THREE whole times. And then literally smashing Noah's heart on his bloody birthday!? Dude... actually wtf. I have anxiety too, but seriously? Come on. Still, at the end of the day OP was adult enough NOW to own it, admit it, and realize they were a p.o.s. and are actively working on bettering themselves. I hope one day they can message Noah and sincerely apologise for their b.s. behaviour and then remove themselves entirely from Noah's life for the sake of themself and Noah. That kind of emotional abuse is not ok :T
Damnn, Noah did the mostest for OP and OP just dropped them like this.
Noah my man if you see this comment know that you just dodged a big ass bullet.
That is a cute Catboy ngl. Great thumbnail 😺
I took a photo of my cat boy friend at Shirogane beach haha
The hair looks so good
Noah will have my undying support and loyalty until my last breath.
destroyed Noahs heart on his birthday week. thats cold
I had tankxiety. Enough raid bosses and trash mobs beat it out of me. Now I collect vulnerability stacks and dare the bosses to flinch.
he has serious commitment issues that devolved into him sleeping with another person. while i don’t like him, he needs to consider some serious therapy.
by the third time, he should’ve known that he’d mess noah up significantly after that. he deserved better; hopefully he did get someone who loves as hard as he does.
Hey all my name's Elric Brightsoul (in game). An this video is so FREAKY TO ME. Why?, Well i recently started playing cause of the Xbox beta! and already have had 2 people interested in me. An one of them was a gay guy called Noah.....so hearing this has me like "wtf?" But it's definitely not the same Noah. Cause the one i knew never had relationship that went to real life. But oh my god this made me feel odd lol.
The name has been changed from the original story and we cycle through random common names 😊
Major yikes OP.😬
i know EXACTLY who the bard/dancer is
Pausing at 16:00, can't bring myself to watch further... (edit: watched further, oh no..)
I can emphasize with this OP... I know how it feels if you just cant settle with people. The Internet provides a nice protective screen but when that wall falls... I also dont think lesser of him getting in bed with a random guy, either: though he didnt know that stranger, it was safer emotionally. We meme about "emotional damage" but forget that that kind of pain cuts deep. I can understand being afraid opening up to someone else who isnt family...
This sucks for Noah, but at least OP is self reflective and is looking to fix herself.
Himself. OP in the story is also a guy.
This OP infuriates me. The worst type of people. Karma will get you boy.
I would tell OP the LTG speech if I were his bf 💀
So based on the Story, the Op sounds like a selfish loser really.
Too bad this came out after work finished.
This OP is the worst person to be involved with. Op is one of those people anyone should avoid!
this op pissed me off so much i couldnt even finish the story, thats a first. what a horrible person
soo i thought this is sad one but 18:25 i lost it ^^
These drama stories make me feel better. I met a girl on FF with a bf, she left him and me at the end of it all after I bought her a plane ticket and her telling me she wanted to start a family with me and crap. Crazy game. I was a fool for believing her. 🤡
Not trying to be rude towards OP, but I feel like they were selfish and should've considered Noah's feelings, I honestly hope Noah is doing well and has found happiness.
Op sucks so much, and the random hookup on Grindr???? Horrible person
Oh, OP. Wanna come out? I just wanna talk.