INTP trying to have a casual conversation (fail)

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  • @advanceddoodler4174
    @advanceddoodler4174 3 ปีที่แล้ว +611

    Is that what happens when I can't think of what to say? Inner voice we need to have a f*cking talk.

    • @itiswhatitis7200
      @itiswhatitis7200 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      I fill the conversation gaps with “hmm”, “uh huh”, “oh” and fake smiles.

    • @ksanag3426
      @ksanag3426 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Mine does not work at all during conversations. And that's the reason I have all these shameful memories. Where can I exchange it.

    • @amandakatesp1
      @amandakatesp1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      You can totally repeat the last word of someone sentence it works too, it doesn’t when it’s a question but you can always say “yes” or “no”.They don’t wanna hear what you say anyway they wanna talk.

    • @krachr1
      @krachr1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@amandakatesp1 that was golden advise right there. Remembering that they want to talk takes away so many awkward moments. Not all but a big chunk.

  • @MerjemBejtić
    @MerjemBejtić 3 ปีที่แล้ว +750

    as a female INTP... i think that i have found my new favorite channel

    • @LiliAqvq
      @LiliAqvq  3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      😍😍

    • @midoarin6874
      @midoarin6874 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      Mee toooo. Finally someone I totally can relate to - oh that relief! 😂

    • @fredo2961
      @fredo2961 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Oh me toooo

    • @lishayost44
      @lishayost44 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Same!

    • @LiliAqvq
      @LiliAqvq  3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@lishayost44 💕💕💕💕💕

  • @BimmerWon
    @BimmerWon 3 ปีที่แล้ว +457

    This is why we INTPs usually just try to avoid people because of how awkward it gets. It’s the equivalent to the awkwardness of Amazon Echo and Google Home trying to have a conversation.

    • @ChrispyNut
      @ChrispyNut 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      FWIW, it gets better with experience....... so long as you don't end up in a psych-ward before Fe gains the experience and therefore maturity to cope with such things (or, in my case, being raised by an ESFJ and thus getting a headstart by observing, memorizing and replicating the blah blah blah that's meant to follow blah blah blah initiations).

    • @feuerschlange6374
      @feuerschlange6374 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@ChrispyNut lol i have to ask this, how many times did this routine just work on autopilot without you noticing what you were saying and just zoning out?

    • @ChrispyNut
      @ChrispyNut 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@feuerschlange6374 still does, frequently. I just have a "social engagement" sub-routine that auto-executes and immune to interrupts. Frustrating, but saves the awkwardness of trying to think of things to say, on the spot.

    • @thexskating
      @thexskating 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Too true!

    • @maurimyllyaho534
      @maurimyllyaho534 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me as INFJ try to get the conversation normal but I think I just destroy him and my self inside 😅

  • @adamborkowski2355
    @adamborkowski2355 3 ปีที่แล้ว +313

    step 1: *INTP.exe stopped working*
    step 2: "What? No. Why would I.....?"
    step 3: "What is .....anyways?"
    step 4: "What if..... "
    YEP, can realte

    • @LiliAqvq
      @LiliAqvq  3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      I didn't even notice the steps while I said it 😂 This is very interesting, I will save it in my "video ideas section"

    • @anacasallas6415
      @anacasallas6415 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      the "WHAT IF", yes, always

    • @Heyits_Mai
      @Heyits_Mai 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I can not believe how true this is. My friend asked me why i never dated someone. And i exactly followed those steps 😂😂. Why would i date someone? For what? What is dating purposes anyways? What if i didnt date someone until im 30 yo? Then i will get a house near my best friend's house so i could become her child babysitters :v

  • @anabananapeed370
    @anabananapeed370 3 ปีที่แล้ว +508

    I am so awkward when it comes to having a conversation with anybody. One time this one girl was telling me about her dead great grandpa and she had mentioned that he had a lot of money, and I straight up asked who got the money after he died. I have been avoiding her for three years now. I regret everything.

    • @LiliAqvq
      @LiliAqvq  3 ปีที่แล้ว +134

      OMG !
      But I would have probably asked the same. You're not alone.

    • @zaraf
      @zaraf 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      Same, I always bluntly go straight to the point but my parents forced this habit out of me. I still do it tho

    • @miriamlacoste547
      @miriamlacoste547 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      This is funny 🤣

    • @yoyoyuan
      @yoyoyuan 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      same here, I’m very direct but I run towards awkwardness🤪

    • @manuel6183
      @manuel6183 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      I still don't get what is the dramatic point of dieing. We all gone die some day it's not like it's coming out of nowhere.
      My response probably would have been something like: I hope you didn't have any trouble with all the Organization and paperwork you have to work through that is necessary when someone died. This really can be a pain to deal with...

  • @bestetass
    @bestetass 3 ปีที่แล้ว +156

    Hahaha "hobbit.." and "you didn't question that?" 😂😅

    • @applebits8324
      @applebits8324 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      I only realize too late how some things I mishear don't make sense. I never question things when in dreams, too.
      Dead relatives having tea with me underwater? Completely normal.
      Why am I like this...?

    • @feuerschlange6374
      @feuerschlange6374 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@applebits8324 some unidentified time later
      wait a second this i heard (unidentified time before) then doesn't seem right

    • @michaelhighlights1614
      @michaelhighlights1614 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@applebits8324 yeah i never get how dumb my dreams are, once i was hoping that it wouldnt fool me again, and guess what, i did something just to be sure its not a dream (like why would i care?) and it was LMAO

    • @meaningoftheunicorn
      @meaningoftheunicorn 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      So relatable haha

    • @Soul_Cat_1
      @Soul_Cat_1 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😅

  • @CaDzA818
    @CaDzA818 3 ปีที่แล้ว +129

    3:18 Intps mind always after conversations.

  • @awkwardzoltar3529
    @awkwardzoltar3529 3 ปีที่แล้ว +215

    I can’t remember names, it scary how I can’t remember names. Am I that socially deprived... yes.

    • @yoyoyuan
      @yoyoyuan 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Why do people call each other “honey?” Because they can’t remember names.

    • @cristianpiecho
      @cristianpiecho 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yes me too. But it is more problematic that I have a hard time remembering the faces. Damn prosopagnosia

    • @IamHeliumm
      @IamHeliumm 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      I can't remember names...sometimes faces too...i forget the whole person ever existed 😂

    • @unicorn1111
      @unicorn1111 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@IamHeliumm Saaame😂😂

    • @cadosian078
      @cadosian078 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I can’t remember names either

  • @malloryjenkins8347
    @malloryjenkins8347 3 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    "You should feel something for her.. and I guess it is happy" *holds up venn diagram* lol so true...

  • @onethree123d
    @onethree123d 3 ปีที่แล้ว +81

    "That explains why I came up with blood"
    Gold hahah

    • @cinthiagoch
      @cinthiagoch 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      It makes so much sense the laughing actually hurts! xD

    • @LuisPerez-gr3eo
      @LuisPerez-gr3eo 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same! Really good. I really appreciate this girl and the existance of this channel

  • @Felixia33
    @Felixia33 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    I wish I had an internal monologue.
    -INTP that overthinks without actually thinking at all.

    • @stevo946
      @stevo946 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same

  • @scoutdoe13
    @scoutdoe13 3 ปีที่แล้ว +210

    Oh I didn’t expect this to be so relatable! I’m cry-laughing so hard!
    Finally a perfect female INTP depiction, no wonder I have no friends 🤣

    • @LiliAqvq
      @LiliAqvq  3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      That inner voice looks like a concerned friend 😂 does that count

    • @helloworld7818
      @helloworld7818 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@LiliAqvq MY inner voice is basically a robot that makes up funny shit in the wrong situations. Also sometimes I'm just blank. There's nothing there. It usually happens when people talk to me..

    • @LiliAqvq
      @LiliAqvq  3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@helloworld7818 That would also make a good video 👀

    • @midoarin6874
      @midoarin6874 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      My inner voice is. A mix between the THE DUDE, Johnny Depps' character of fear and loathing in Las Vegas and a hyeana laughing hysterically. Outside I wear a straight face and get called an ice block more often that I can count by my non-friends.
      #me.an intp - girl.
      How I survived till this day I deem a mystery 😅

    • @poolfloaty4522
      @poolfloaty4522 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      My "inner voice" literally just argues with every thought/opinion I have I stg,,,,
      Outside I look bored inside I'm having a full on debate with myself 🙃

  • @samylopez1497
    @samylopez1497 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Married+Crazy+Love
    Video: shouldn't you feel something for her
    Me: sorry
    Video: happy
    Me: oh, well that makes sense

  • @midoriemi3859
    @midoriemi3859 3 ปีที่แล้ว +97

    "You should feel something for her" omg so relatable, but we just can't say "Oh good for you! I don't care." T_T stupid social norms

    • @Ladywren101
      @Ladywren101 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Omgosh yes!!!!!

    • @meiouita5302
      @meiouita5302 ปีที่แล้ว

      True.

    • @sonushinobu2050
      @sonushinobu2050 ปีที่แล้ว

      tbh I just try to say the complete opposite of what is normal, making the conversation not boring

  • @I-Cant-Feel-You-There
    @I-Cant-Feel-You-There 3 ปีที่แล้ว +130

    EXCUSE YOU. IT WILL NOT ONLY BE PROCESSED FOR THREE DAYS - IT WILL HAUNT ME FOR THE REST OF MY LIFE!!!!!

    • @LiliAqvq
      @LiliAqvq  3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Sad
      But true
      😭

    • @I-Cant-Feel-You-There
      @I-Cant-Feel-You-There 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@LiliAqvq 😭

    • @mikeo7803
      @mikeo7803 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Its like a ptsd cringe attack for me.

    • @pacha777
      @pacha777 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I’m 32 and still sometimes I think about interractions that happen when I was a little kid… And still analyze them too…

    • @EnclaviousFiraga
      @EnclaviousFiraga 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      LoL! The story of my life.

  • @pomogrenade3515
    @pomogrenade3515 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    why does this happen tho? like even if someone died and someone mentioned burying them my first question was why are funerals so expensive. everyone looked at me like I was emotionless. My brain forgets what situation I'm in and it makes me look rude even though I wasn't intending to.

    • @ls_waifu2789
      @ls_waifu2789 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I can relate haha
      My relative died some time ago in a waterfall. I felt so sad for him. At the funeral the atmosphere was so sad and serious, but I almost ruined everything when I arrive. There is a big waterfall wallpaper behind the body lol
      It was so hard for me to concentrade and don't laugh
      What saved me ? The mask ! Haha

    • @pomogrenade3515
      @pomogrenade3515 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ls_waifu2789 Im glad the mask saved you.

    • @damnib4722
      @damnib4722 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ls_waifu2789 that’s so funny omg

    • @ls_waifu2789
      @ls_waifu2789 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@damnib4722 I couldn't stop staring at that wallpaper lol

  • @tomgang5612
    @tomgang5612 3 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    - Which section is marriage now again?
    - Section 112, Rituals.
    - Well, that explains how I came up with the blood.
    LOL

  • @idgaeta
    @idgaeta 3 ปีที่แล้ว +162

    Its nice to see the female INTP perspective. Instant mini crush -INTP dude

    • @midoriemi3859
      @midoriemi3859 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      I have the impression that there are more INTP men than INTP women... am i right?
      (BUT WE'RE HERE HAHAAAA)

    • @midoarin6874
      @midoarin6874 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      So intp guys have that too?

    • @jtwattsmusic
      @jtwattsmusic 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@midoarin6874 You betcha!

    • @bbbbhz2393
      @bbbbhz2393 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@midoriemi3859 why ?

    • @midoriemi3859
      @midoriemi3859 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@bbbbhz2393 just an assessment ?

  • @yoshi314
    @yoshi314 3 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    well, that escalated ... slowly but inevitably ;)

  • @serakali4654
    @serakali4654 3 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    The cringe during post-awkward social interactions always haunt me for the rest of my life

  • @delightedhoney3747
    @delightedhoney3747 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    2:44 INTPs' rationality leaving them behind when the conversation is leading towards "about emotions" lol

  • @melinavdw342
    @melinavdw342 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    I love INTP's.
    Kind regards,
    ENTJ

    • @LiliAqvq
      @LiliAqvq  3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      And I love ENTJs 🤭

    • @meta8209
      @meta8209 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@LiliAqvq thats the best emoji 🖐🖐⬇️

    • @meta8209
      @meta8209 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      just looked up entj and yall seem like boss ass bitches so yes love u too ❤

  • @lyrics7405
    @lyrics7405 3 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    At the age of 5 I knew that i have an aunt, before that I thought she was only a friend of the family , i felt awkward at that time .

    • @LiliAqvq
      @LiliAqvq  3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      😂😂😂

    • @blissfu_lee8522
      @blissfu_lee8522 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      My aunt once called on our landline when I was little and I asked her maybe like three something times who she is, and each time she answered "It's auntie", and to that, I kept saying "Auntie who?". I'm pretty sure I did not understand what an aunt was.

  • @carlhausman8157
    @carlhausman8157 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Well. The 4-AM internet rabbit-hole brought me here, and I'm definitely staying. These sketches are phenomenal.

  • @cristianpiecho
    @cristianpiecho 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Jesus, it's incredibly similar to what I do internally. It's scary

    • @LiliAqvq
      @LiliAqvq  3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      God save us

  • @onlyunknown9274
    @onlyunknown9274 3 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    Sometimes the post conversation analysis doesn’t even occur because fuck, such an awkward moment might happen again
    Love your channel btw, keep doing what you're doing, it's dope

    • @LiliAqvq
      @LiliAqvq  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      True!!! Thank you 👐

  • @katherinesmith1849
    @katherinesmith1849 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    This made me laugh so much XD I love the “ah rituals...that’s where I came up with blood” 😂

  • @antoniodias2179
    @antoniodias2179 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    2:01 the accurate result followed up by a natural smile demonstrates an fair amount of time expent in "how to small talk" tutorials, that were, naturally, studied while a deadline was coming.

  • @redskyalice2529
    @redskyalice2529 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    This is amazing insight to the INTP. I've known a few INTPs and always wondered what goes on in their head lol. Also explains the "delayed" responses. I love INTPs for their logical reasoning. I find when we let them just be and share their knowledge, observations and passions, they shine up like a new penny! New subscriber!

    • @LiliAqvq
      @LiliAqvq  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you so much for your words! 🥰🥰🥰

    • @Tilnaor
      @Tilnaor 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      well, it's not quite accurate depiction. imagine that like an algorithm with n+6 outcomes - and we run through all before talk.

    • @pacha777
      @pacha777 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      INTPs and our mind we are always in interracation with each other even when you talk to us…

  • @stevenkrum3940
    @stevenkrum3940 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I always thought I couldn't remember names because I'm a pot head...

    • @LiliAqvq
      @LiliAqvq  3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      It is because they are not easy to find in our head, probably under 30895 layers of precious random facts

  • @burntt999
    @burntt999 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Oh man... this makes me feel so much better that I’m actually just in a category where other people do this too.. before learning about the personalities i was wondering if there was something wrong with me lol

  • @efectovogel8295
    @efectovogel8295 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    1:20 yes but MBTI is not enough. I will also need their enneagram (with their wing), instinctual variant, tritype, socionics type, alignment, neurotype and temperaments. Also they will need to take a cognitive functions test for me to better analyze their function stack.
    please god don’t let me find more of these

    • @LiliAqvq
      @LiliAqvq  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Jahahahaha lool I didn't even know all of them 🤣

    • @dardhadard837
      @dardhadard837 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Your username, comment complexity and pfp come together like halloum; labneh; and baked, crisp, oily bread

    • @ykpersson
      @ykpersson 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      dangerous a psychologists would not be eager to mbti :) unless very Jungian and still on the iffy side.
      or bloody type / and or astrology :) When the inner beingfall down from the sofa about marriage..why oh why i can't even, oh why.

  • @damnib4722
    @damnib4722 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    I remember people by their zodiac sign than their names since I’m obviously not a functional human being

    • @LiliAqvq
      @LiliAqvq  3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Same 🥺🥺 In fact I'm usually the only one who remembers everyone's birthday because of their zodiac sign, it is fun to have information categorized 😂

    • @cristianpiecho
      @cristianpiecho 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Lol!! I will never understand how a person can believe in the symbols of the zodiac or in religion. But I respect it. Although I find it even more strange coming from an intp, both things lack logic.

    • @LiliAqvq
      @LiliAqvq  3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@cristianpiecho I think it is about curiosity 😂

    • @nightcrawlergap1733
      @nightcrawlergap1733 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Google their chart while they're not looking 👀

    • @damnib4722
      @damnib4722 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@cristianpiecho more than likely you believe/identify in time, death, & days of the week another man made structured system. Astrology is nothing but a system that was used before the new made made construct of “time” took its place

  • @CIA.2024-u9b
    @CIA.2024-u9b 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This is so weird, yet brilliant = so INTP! The channel is (still) so underrated.

  • @BlackRose4MyDeath
    @BlackRose4MyDeath 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I see no problem in having "weddings" under rituals, fairly accurate archiving.

  • @blackestmamba
    @blackestmamba 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My gf is INTP and watching her interact with people is kinda hilarious.
    Thanks for showing me what happens inside her head.

  • @trystparadox9186
    @trystparadox9186 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    It's so accurate that it's scary, I'm also female INTP

  • @loveacy3697
    @loveacy3697 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I was eating noodles when u were talking about marriage being whack and what if I wanna drink their blood to be together forever and I legit felt like someone was watching my brain. Never felt so exposed in my life. Not necessarily drinking blood but some kind of thing where we’d be able to logically say that we physically are always with the other even when we aren’t right next to each other. I’ve thought of different ways to express deep emotions to someone without marriage. The current system is just a contract. But yeah very cool.

    • @LiliAqvq
      @LiliAqvq  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      At first I thought something happened to you with the noodles 😂😂😂 but yes, I can't agree more with marriage being a contract :(

  • @christianbyers8332
    @christianbyers8332 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I’m not an INTP but I really like this channel. Keep up the good work!

    • @LiliAqvq
      @LiliAqvq  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you!! What is your type?

    • @christianbyers8332
      @christianbyers8332 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      No problem! I’m an INFJ.

    • @LiliAqvq
      @LiliAqvq  3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@christianbyers8332 I'm thinking about eventually making funny interaction videos between INTP and INFJ because my sister is also an INFJ 😊

    • @christianbyers8332
      @christianbyers8332 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@LiliAqvq That would be so cool! My favorite cousin is an INTP and I just love y’all.

    • @midoriemi3859
      @midoriemi3859 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@LiliAqvq Oooh my mom's an INFJ and i'd really like to watch such a video X) sometimes we're incredibely not on the same wavelength lmao
      Go on this could be a really nice video!! :D

  • @davidhearne9875
    @davidhearne9875 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Only recently discovered I'm an intp, and it is such a comfort to no I'm not alone

  • @Chordofcontact
    @Chordofcontact 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Being an intp female,
    I can relate to every single moment that happened in this video

    • @Ab-ub2ii
      @Ab-ub2ii ปีที่แล้ว

      hello, are you an Indian?

  • @azeaze2943
    @azeaze2943 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    hahaha "maried + crazy + love, you should feel something for her"

  • @mariram7593
    @mariram7593 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I've watched other MBTI videos about INTPs, even made from other INTPs as yourself are doing, but you're the only one who REALLY got me and any trait of my hidden weirdness (such as wanting to drink others' blood). So keep it up!
    (yeah, I'm stalking your channel, sorry not sorry)

    • @LiliAqvq
      @LiliAqvq  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you so much for supporting the blood drinking

    • @mariram7593
      @mariram7593 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@LiliAqvq I support a lot of other things (such as cannibalism) that I probably shouldn't be writing, but yeah my pleasure 😌

  • @lesnyduch4645
    @lesnyduch4645 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    it reminded me of my conversation about ecology and zero waste with my friends: ME - there is no point in worrying about it, because the earth will eventually burn in the sun in 5 billion years xD

  • @arthurhouston5685
    @arthurhouston5685 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The marriage was spot on. Almost scary how similar the words were to how I've said it. I've literally lived that conversation. "We also have to put marriage in the right section" I was like I'd put it in ritual. Then I was shook 5 seconds later. Lol

  • @Arranthie
    @Arranthie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    For a long time I thought there must be something wrong with me, because a lot of appropriate social responses I had to learn through observation of other people. I thought normal people are supposed to have this innate knowledge how to behave according to accepted social norms and couldn't understand why it's not so natural to me. Guess it's just the INTP experience. And there are dozens of us. DOZENS.

  • @mikelplancarte8707
    @mikelplancarte8707 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is so accurate... When i was 15 i was hanging out with a girl, she was interested in me, and i kinda had feelings for her too. One day we went to the movies and she asked me if i gifted flowers to a girl before, i told her i no, because I'm a shy kind of person. Then she bought flowers in some random store, and gave it to me and told me "give it to one girl you like". I gave the flowers to the first stranger that walked near from me. The girl never talked to me again, it took me one week to realise she bought the flowers so i could gave it to her. 🤦🏻

  • @syedshabazs1036
    @syedshabazs1036 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So bloody relatable... Pretty plain and ridiculous as it can get with Convos
    And yup still hanging over convo's that happened 5 years ago

  • @danielwilson5165
    @danielwilson5165 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Please, from the bottom of my Fi function. Don't die and keep uploading such hilarious videos.

  • @mauritsbol4806
    @mauritsbol4806 ปีที่แล้ว

    Im always stuck in the “confused and overwhelmed”

  • @thatwierdkid.
    @thatwierdkid. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    the "what was her name again?", "plans to marry". and the every section for different concept and topics that was there by overthinking the process over and over in different angles and directions r jus too accurate....
    actually fuck it.... the whole video was too accurate...

  • @mokari9268
    @mokari9268 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Marriage - rituals section (wrong ritual)...

  • @enfynet
    @enfynet 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Initiate small talk
    Error

  • @onethree123d
    @onethree123d 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This is so unbelievablyy accurate

  • @JR-ow8xg
    @JR-ow8xg 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is amazing hahaha now I understand why I always take the lead in conversations with my INTP friend.
    -ENFJ

  • @lenaluthor7167
    @lenaluthor7167 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    this channel is the best thing I found during quarantine, I LOVE IT

  • @grayfox6930
    @grayfox6930 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Blood ritual marriage doesn't sound too bad 🤔

  • @ghibliculture
    @ghibliculture 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    it's weird watching this cause it's exactly like this especially the overanalyzing part for days

  • @dear_v.n7568
    @dear_v.n7568 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    nenhuma palavra de mentira aqui, nenhuma palavra de mentira.

  • @firstlast1598
    @firstlast1598 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Very relatable; I often feel like I have to talk to myself while I’m talking to someone else because I can’t do it on my own lol (which seems like it would be the same as just talking to someone on my own but I’m referencing the little me in my head)

    • @LiliAqvq
      @LiliAqvq  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I understand!!! I relate to your comment and now we are in a relate loop

    • @firstlast1598
      @firstlast1598 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@LiliAqvq did you create the term “relate loop”?

    • @LiliAqvq
      @LiliAqvq  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@firstlast1598 yes, I have no idea if that is a thing or if it is correct english 😭

    • @firstlast1598
      @firstlast1598 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@LiliAqvq lol it’s fine I like it I’ve just never heard of it before

    • @firstlast1598
      @firstlast1598 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@LiliAqvq also how did you find the courage to make TH-cam videos I am too scared that someone I know will see them and judge me or try to talk to me about them 😭

  • @piscestarot8846
    @piscestarot8846 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is hysterical 🤣🤣🤣💀💀💀 and accurate. Analysis of the entire conversation for at least 3 days... 🤣🤣🤣

  • @lifeofeslam1788
    @lifeofeslam1788 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    my short casual conversations in my imaginations be like :
    guy: hi
    me : hi
    guy : how are you?
    me : fine and you?
    guy : fine. how is everything going?
    me : great and you?
    guy : good too. nice to meet you
    me : nice to meet you too. now i got to go to do bla bla
    guy : cool see you later
    me : see ya
    anything more than that is totally awkward to me and has no other responses and i wish all the casual conversations be like that.

  • @thexskating
    @thexskating 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hahaha you never fail to portray me perfectly. As an INTP guy, my inner monolog is like a British AI and it sounds weird lol. Yes I'm weird.

  • @delusionalfan
    @delusionalfan ปีที่แล้ว

    sad that we always have to reflect back on the conversations we have had

  • @teadrinkerfication9160
    @teadrinkerfication9160 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Do you have plans on marrying someone?
    ABSOLUTELY NOT WHY WOULD I DO THAT?!?!?!????!?

    • @Miss315y
      @Miss315y 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I thought it was only me, but now I see it's a INTP thing 🤣

  • @alyssert1743
    @alyssert1743 ปีที่แล้ว

    The fact that you have the confidence to listen to your own recorded voice though…
    I could never do that

  • @ST710
    @ST710 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    No tengo palabras para decir lo admirable que me resulta esto, lo que me gusta la gente capaz de hacer cosas así, y lo extremadamente raro que es encontrársela por ahí.
    Saludos de un INFP 😘

  • @zelpazz
    @zelpazz 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Forgetting people's name is so real. I remember in high school this rather cute guy came up to me starting to talk how I've been and everything and I could have sworn I've known him once seeing as he seemed to know me and it still to this day don't know who he was and I've also forgotten how he looked like so that's shitty, it also happened another time when a guy I also could have sworn I've known once asked me for a lighter and I just said I didn't have one and jumped into the bus home, still don't know who he was either

  • @romanceenthusiasm7972
    @romanceenthusiasm7972 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Personal status” 😆😆 that cringe exhale is my mind while conversing with someone after I make a blunder as such. You are so spot on I love it 🥰

  • @josiep.8349
    @josiep.8349 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I feel like in these situations intp's always unironically act like that one wendy Williams meme.
    "Aw she died...aww..*puts on sincerest face * .. anyways"

  • @carmentasha2789
    @carmentasha2789 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hey Lili, I usually just read the comments, but I had to say (write) something. I LUUUV this skit. INTPer here. I can relate. When you said 'drinking the blood to be bonded forever', I was onboard with that train of thought. It would be more personal than a ring that society has conditioned women to crave. Then the inevitable look comes, when you pop their bubble. The added bonus, categorizing marriage in the 'Ritual' section. Priceless 😆.
    Now I know why some just walk away after a 'nice' convo with me 😂😭😂.
    Thank you ❣️ Keep putting out the content, you know, when you feel up to it. You how it is for us. 😉

    • @LiliAqvq
      @LiliAqvq  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you so much for appreciating those details 😂
      ❤❤❤🥰🥰🥰🥰

  • @courtneystuart9265
    @courtneystuart9265 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Goodness this is a wonderful video! The part where you just empty your thoughts about marriage showed exactly why, I think, I usually feel like I’m not supposed to say what the brain is thinking (:
    Because people aren’t gonna take the honest objectivity stuff well since they don’t understand where I’m coming from when I say that.

  • @thisourdailylife3979
    @thisourdailylife3979 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m an infj but my love is an intp and I feel like I am understanding him so much better (after 5 years lol). We are similar in many ways, or at least I can peer into the intp brain and appreciate it and understand what I can do to support it more. 😂💖 love your channel Lili!

  • @atomiccritter6492
    @atomiccritter6492 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    a little life tip: If you forget someones name simply say "I am a complete klutz with remembering names and I somehow cannot remember yours, forgive me" I think people are so used to people bs-ing that the rare moment of honesty is actually good and refereshing. Dont do this if you have forgotten the name of your significant other :)

  • @Kitsune-kun663
    @Kitsune-kun663 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I'm so happy that I can blame me not remembering people's name on my personality type, I thought I had some kind of mental defect. It's so weird when I'm at work and someone come greet me by saying my name and I don't know who the fuck that person is

    • @LiliAqvq
      @LiliAqvq  3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yess😂 and how can they remember our name??? That always surprises me

    • @zeemonrollin8340
      @zeemonrollin8340 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@LiliAqvq well... my name is only a few letters long and I just say hello in response to everyone.

    • @willywonka6948
      @willywonka6948 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@LiliAqvq Same! Whenever vaguely familiar people recognize me and remember literally anything about me, I'm always a little bit surprised. It usually happens with teachers.

    • @Kitsune-kun663
      @Kitsune-kun663 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@LiliAqvq yeah, that's the really weird stuff cos I'm 100% sure I've never met those people before. I feel like I've been watched lol

    • @feuerschlange6374
      @feuerschlange6374 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      well in school i learned the whole class list within the first few days. Then in class trying to map the faces with the names. What helps is that the teacher also says the name

  • @masodemic4509
    @masodemic4509 ปีที่แล้ว

    That pause before a “greaat” was so real 😭

  • @kunal1957
    @kunal1957 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I just play along pretending to know them. It works out well
    Or if you feel like they're gonna talk for while and not just normal talk and go, then straight out ask them and say sorry you forgot them with awkward smile

  • @peterspilltheteaparker4109
    @peterspilltheteaparker4109 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    The chart you pulled out when she said she’s married. My brain also was like why 😅🤣

  • @r0yce
    @r0yce 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I have developed contingencies to make sure such an event never happen. I have templates to follow for each of these scenarios that I can load anytime I'm put in a situation like that. Of course you can never account for out-of-syllabus interactions in which case you act all emotional and say you're not doing too good that day to avoid converrsations. Make them speak instead of speaking and use that data to continue the conversation until you see an way out.

  • @ls_waifu2789
    @ls_waifu2789 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    As a female INTP I've always been frightened by girl groups. Just like the video hahah.
    Other girls scared me lol

  • @Nina21_
    @Nina21_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was hilarious XD the 'why would i get married ' part cracked me up XD i'm so glad i found your channel Lili ! :D

    • @LiliAqvq
      @LiliAqvq  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you so much 🥺

  • @ezequielgjevt8697
    @ezequielgjevt8697 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm kind of just like that but it's different with friends, with them I can say dumb or weird things and they just find it funny.

  • @ToBeingLazy
    @ToBeingLazy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Dat Venn diagram tho XD

    • @LiliAqvq
      @LiliAqvq  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      XD You noticed

  • @melany1120
    @melany1120 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sometimes i CAN NOT have a conversation with people, so i just laugh awkwardly at anything they say ,and if they ask me something i don't know how to answer i just laugh HARDER. (trust me it doesn't work)

  • @kylier3496
    @kylier3496 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Painfully relatable ahah Jesus all those social mistakes are so painful, especially when my social batteries are low (almost always ahah)

  • @sooryasrinivasan8276
    @sooryasrinivasan8276 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    cool acting + cute looking INTP. Your Nuances are great. -INTP

  • @la5369
    @la5369 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    the entire reason why I reply late in messages and try to end conversations in real life immediately. :)) we need time to process the right info please. huhu

  • @awn2860
    @awn2860 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Well my advice to my intp's is to instead of running away from those interactions, just face them. It's going to feel uncomfortable at first, but working on that will ultimately take the weight off your shoulders.

  • @glueball214
    @glueball214 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    🤣🤣🤣 .. love the “ put marriage in the right section ‘ INTJ 🇺🇸🇮🇪

  • @LuisPerez-gr3eo
    @LuisPerez-gr3eo 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Damn, this is so good! I really appreciate this girl and the existance of this channel

  • @natasa04tsats15
    @natasa04tsats15 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My inner voice is just laughing with my extremely awkward or scary answers i-

  • @victorhugo-ko6vi
    @victorhugo-ko6vi 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Something similar happened to me last week 😄, your videos are the coolest thing I've ever seen, and learn a lot of english words , Thank you very much😊 , greetings from Mexico✌🏽

  • @kristyevans5143
    @kristyevans5143 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    plz make more of intp and entj ones

  • @larsswig912
    @larsswig912 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I kind of like the idea where you want to drink their blood to be bonded forever
    but wouldn't that be unhygienic? I guess not if you use a syringe and make sure your partner has a compatible blood type as you, then I guess it might work. I've accidentally cut my lips enough times to know that blood tastes kinda nice so taste won't be a problem either
    I'm thinking way too much about this

    • @midoarin6874
      @midoarin6874 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      If you are really drinking the blood, as in oesophagus - stomach, the blood type is not of importance as the hydrochloric acid, which is contained in the gastric acid, will destroy everything. You could basically eat metal and it will be dissolved by your stomachs acidity..... And now my brain remembers one guiness world record where a guy ate a whole airplane. So yeah, eating/drinking blood ain't an issue. I mean, with all the rare steaks and blood sausages going on world wide...lolz
      The only thing that might make it dangerous though is that, if there should be micro-tears in the soft tissue of mouth and/or oesophagus and the "blood donour" is having some infectious sickness, then via those micro-tears one could get infected too as there wouldn't be a functioning mucous membrane barrier.
      So therefore, I wouldn't advise drinking it. Though chances are slim, I wouldn't risk it if I wouldn't know the other person is 100% healthy.
      Oh, and on that note if one thinks that micro tears - different blood type would cause issues - because the intake/contact of different blood types would be so small, that the immune reaction would be to dissolve, the to the body unknown, erythrocytes. (blood transfusion obviously are a total different story)
      ... As with all things - the dosage makes the poison.
      (any grammar error or bad choice of words. Sorry. English is neither my 1st nor my 2nd language 😉)

    • @larsswig912
      @larsswig912 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@midoarin6874 bruh your English is excellent
      why do people type out whole ass college level essays with complicated sentence structure, then apologize for their English lmao
      and then native speakers are like "mE LiKe eGg"
      anyway back to the point, would you get nutrients from drinking blood? if there were any nutrients in whoever's blood you're drinking, you might be able to absorb them

    • @midoarin6874
      @midoarin6874 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@larsswig912 well... Thank you.
      And with the "apologising for English" thing... I obviously can't speak for everyone but I can imagine for a lot of people it has to do sth with insecurities. I, f.e.,was subpar in school in english, always was on the bottom grade-wise. Basically learnt english when working in another country. But I learnt it "by ear", instinctually so to say. With talking I am confident, but when writing I start to doubt myself. So that's way, at least for me, the reason to apologize as I don't want to, unintentionally, give a wrong impression by f.e. not using the absolute correct words.
      As for the nutrition level of blood...it is not as high as one thinks. Yes, water is the major content, but it contains, thanks to the hemoglobin, quite a bit of iron. (This is also a reason why, when low in iron levels, liver is suggested to eat. As liver store blood for when the body needs an higher amount of it (mainly with flight animals. Cows, especially within horses, can store up to several liters of blood in theirs so as when fleeing they basically are doping themselves with EPO😂) )
      Other nutrients, like I said, are not AS high content wise. I know of one indigenous tribe in Africa (pretty sure there might be other tribes in the world who do this too) that, when there are really dire times, they will once in a while peg their cows for a tiny amount of blood as to give them something that has a bit of nutritional value. They won't do it often, as their survival very much depends on their livestock, so they take great care not to do it too often and only when there is no other choice. (so no worries, cows survive this😉)

    • @larsswig912
      @larsswig912 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@midoarin6874 cool, I have anaemia. I guess the best remedy is to drink the blood of my fallen enemies

    • @midoarin6874
      @midoarin6874 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@larsswig912skål🍻

  • @Emmanu.el30
    @Emmanu.el30 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    La voz interna de la intp es un montón, pero un montón con mayúsculas. Que se meta en mi cabeza cuando quiera jaja

  • @kepler238c8
    @kepler238c8 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Ahahahah this is so relatable it hurts. I’m loving this channel! :)

  • @camocaplamo4020
    @camocaplamo4020 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    As a INTP myself I also didn’t know what the hell hubby meant until it was pointed out

  • @Reverse_Cat_Cowgirl
    @Reverse_Cat_Cowgirl ปีที่แล้ว

    As an ENTP, I've seen my ISTP bf act all stilted like that, sort of like a human but more like human programming, lol. I get good chuckles from it, and even though it might be rude, I can't help it. I think INTPs can have a harder time making it smoothly through, but unlike the ISTP, they can give off a unique charm.

  • @SyckoSiren
    @SyckoSiren 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love your sketch’s I truly feel identified by them xd

    • @LiliAqvq
      @LiliAqvq  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank youu 😍

  • @teongbinjari
    @teongbinjari ปีที่แล้ว

    "We're gonna have to analyze this interaction for at least three days..."
    Yeah, like that's gonna stop me from googling other interesting stuff and completely forget about it. LOL