Great topic! Patience is the key! 🙂 If my wife wasn't the kind of Filapina she is, the LDR part never would have worked. When she knew she wanted to be with me she was all in! She went above and beyond to make the time zone challenge not a big deal. She was always available when I text her or video called, and believe me, we both "tested" each other in the beginning when we were establishing trust. We were both cheated on and hurt in the past, so we knew all the red flags, and made sure they weren't there for us... I think an important part of an LDR though is to make a commitment to get together in person as soon as it is possible because that will serve to strengthen everything, and add the missing parts to the bond, experience and memories. That makes your relationship much stronger if you do have to spend periods of time apart...
@@Rubeauti Yes, I can sense you are also the type of Filapina that would make sacrifices to make your special someone feel important, wanted, needed, and desired... 😉
In a long distance relationship with an American boyfriend for 4 years now. I'm proud to say we survived the pandemic and everything is worth it. Commitment, Communication, and Consistency are Key. Not to mention Love, Understanding and Respect.
@@2000ViperGTSsubscribe we are still waiting for the annotation from PSA of my annulment. Hopefully, early next year we can start processing the K1 visa. God permits.
My Makati-born Cebuana and I are still going strong five years into our LDR. She's been there for me through a lot, including my contracting and recovering from covid. We have many things in common and nearly every time we talk, we find something new that we share. She's slightly above-average height which bodes well for me because I'm about 6 feet, 1 inch tall (app. 187 cm).
HI RUBEAUTI ❤ OUR CONVERSATION TIME IS MY MORNING AND HER EVENING. I HELP THE KIDS WITH THEIR HOMEWORK. I SUPPORT HER AND THE CHILDREN AND I AM HAPPY 😊 HOWEVER, THE JEALOUSY IS A TURN OFF 😢
They say LDR is not easy But their is so many people out there who in LDR until today but still together no matter how far they are from eachother I'm here and proud to all long distance relationship couple stay strong
My beautiful Filipina fiancée and I were separated for 2.5 years due to covid. We kept our love alive by chatting at least three times a day without fail and by the time the borders finally opened we knew each other better than many married couples I know. Finally holding her in my arms when I came out of Manila airport was the most incredible feeling and we suddenly felt like we had never been apart. Our relationship also survived me having a heart attack in April 2020 and her love for me never faltered. Even though we couldn't be together, she would constantly check in with my medical team to make sure I was okay and recovering. We are now together in Australia and life together is awesome.
I love to pride in my relationship with my lady. We've been long distance dating for 10 years and we only get to meet once a year. We should be living together this year if this visa finally goes through. I pride in our relationship because despite us being on opposite sides of the world, we trust in each other and love each other, we are inseparable and our relationship has lasted longer than most marriages I know of. We've both been tested nonstop in our dedication to one another and we never once betrayed each others trust and feelings. I like to use our relationship as inspiration for those around me, if we can do this, surely anyone can.
I have to admit... I don't know if I could ever do long distance. Not being able to meetup for a meal or have an experience together would be too hard. I can't understand dating someone if you can't be there with them. I guess if you meet someone and have visa issues... I could understand then, but as soon as the visa issues are done you have to be with each other
Wise words Rubeauti! We get Skype problems talking within the UK, never mind to the other side of the world. When I struggle, I just remember how my Mum and Dad managed. My Dad was in the navy during the Korean war. Letters once a fortnight (so long as the mail wasn't interrupted(, a telephone call maybe once a month if you're lucky. They didn't see each other for two years but their love never slackened. Count your blessings folks! ❤😘
Rebeauti. You are 100% on target everything you are bringing to life is so right on target..I congratulate on every point you are reporting on. Truly excellent 😊
Thanks Rubeauti, for This Fine Way You've Outlined The Limitations and Frustrations of Long Dustance Relationships. Having Been in a LDR, I'm Well Seasoned in The Time Differences, The Dropped Calls, The Slow Connections , Etc. We Survived 4 Years. Haha, Wasn't Easy For Sure, But We Always Enjoyed The Time We Had Together.
I didn’t seek a relationship with a filipina but I just started talking to one everyday and now I can’t imagine life without her. So far we haven’t pondered watching tv together because we can still talk for 2 hours at a time, often twice a day, it’s surprising and even strange, but so easy and happy. I really like her. :-). Thanks for your videos, they sometimes are the subject of conversation.
LDR's can be very hard, especially if they go on too long. I think in the future I will wait until I have my trip scheduled to start investigating ladies. You offer very good advice for dealing with an LDR.
I really enjoy your videos, I have been watching them for awhile, see I watch Philippine Pea too, I have watch others but I feel you and Pea are the most open and show how it really is there, right now I can't help by sending money to support both of you, however I do watch all the advertisement, so I can at least do my part, after she does get here, I will support both of you, right now I'm putting her through school as a healthcare worker, keep up the great work, and thank you for your insight
14 months in an LDR. Video chat many hours a day. I see her daily routine, she sees mine. Province woman, Country boy. Going to live there permanently in 2024. So far so good.
@@Rubeauti LOL! Actually 14 MONTHS is too long! But I have things to take care of (sell everything) and make sure my retirement income is working. I could never make a woman wait 14 years for a "maybe".
Sister rubueaty,im in a 4 year LONG DUSTANCE RELATIONSHIP AND,DESPITE GOING THROUGH EVERYTHING THAT YOURE TALKING ABOUT (LOADS,TIME ZONE,ITS ALMOST MISNIGHT HERE IN BRONX,NYC)BUT..ITS WORH IT..SIS THANK YOU FOR THIS BLESSINGS ALWAYS
With everything that is happening,most of us are a paycheck away from being homeless,hope we are all prepared,get yourself an alternate source of income
My heart goes out to everyone temporarily separated by distance. I loved your advice that it's mandatory to plan a future adventure together. I'm moving to the Philippines this summer. As tempting as it is to contact a woman online now, I'm desperately trying to wait until I get boots on the ground so I can avoid the challenges of a long-distance relationship.
I’ve worked the swing shift most of my life 3:00 to 11:30 or 4:00 to 12:00 and it works out best I’ve found because it’s often early to late afternoon there and it gives someone PLENTY of time to talk.
Nailed it on the time difference lol. I was in a L R with a 19 year old girl from Singapore . Was on cam 24/7 Her night was my day but she would watch me sleep and I would watch her sleep although she was in college so I would chat with her and on cam as she is going to and from school plus she would cam with me as she is in school as well when she could . I was switching my sleep so we had more time together . I loved working the grave yard shift so I was use to it . Just didn't know how far wrong I was lmao. She would fly here to Florida and stay 2 to 3 months at a time . My Mom loved her and would spend a lot of time with her as well when she was here but they also chatted on the cell a lot as well.. Then I was hit with Hurricane Irma Lost power for 9 days meaning no contact other then now and then a cell call if the phone was charged. After the power was back on they were having a hard time with the internet . so I was not able to be on a lot of the time because of that. mean while a guy was flirting with her stopping by visiting her making sure she was getting home safe and then 2 days before Christmas she told me she has been doing things with the guy and thinks of him all the time and wanted to be with him. She said she was needy and well I was not there for her and he was. Mother nature really showed me it is not just for nature any more .
Philippines is actually on the perfect timezone difference. My ex was asleep while I worked. I was asleep while she worked. We spent mornings and night time together on video calls. It could not be more perfect. That is one of many reasons I will only date a Filipina now. Other women are basically invisable to me.
@@Rubeauti Salamat. Its ok. My ex was too independant. She grew up with her family pressuring her to be independant so she could not resist being rebellious to me. So she finally pushed me too far and lost my trust. So i had to break up with her, even though we were engaged and I danced with her Lola in the village. I know Thai women are very good women too but I fell in love with the Philippines and Filipina women. My ex treated me so well, when things were good, that I can only date Filipinas now. So I am heading back to Palawan this October and I am getting more serious about learning Tagalog. I just need to find a young Filipina who is more religious and is not pressured so much to be independant. She needs to put God first, not career.
Your vlogs are always so great! You are so articulate and encouraging, and your content is so well written. Do you do everything yourself? I find you very impressive as a presenter and wise in your comments. Keep going! I wish you the very best with your vlogs!
I could write an essay on this subject Ms. Rebeauti. I just got back from my first trip to meet, and engage my Filipina sweetheart, and it was far from inexpensive. My advice to men seeking love with foreign brides is , make sure you are financially, and emotionally ready, it’s a lot of waiting, expenses, and long airline flights, and there is a real person, with real feelings on the other side of the line. Assess your finances, and willingness to sleep alone for months on end before pursuing a life partner somewhere else in the world. Good luck 👍.
Hello from Ireland. I have been in a long distance relationship with a filipino lady of similar age since 2018. She is not working. When I got to know her first, she was a carer. We got to know each other through an offline irish magazine. The inside back page has a penfriends section. One of her friends living in ireland placed an ad in the magazine for her. I wasn't working at the time, and am only working part time now. So I guess that is kind of an advantage as we can choose what time to communicate. It's usually in the afternoon here/evening there, and evening here/morming there. So it's generally twice a day every day. I have been only there once, in 2019, as it's quiet expensive. 1,260 euros in December 2019. I'm going back at the end of this month with the intention of marrying her, and hopefully at some stage getting her over here.
For me its the Time Zone Lang , it just does not Work .. And yet for so many it Does work ,, Now if i was in the Pilipines Permanently ,, i know 💯 percent it would work . GREAT UPLOAD THANK YOU ❤🇵🇭🇬🇧
These are very good, well thought out tips, thank you. It occurs to me, the best way way to facilitate success in your relationship between two people of different countries, in my case, American and Filipina, is to actually visit the country for a few months. Difficult perhaps, but no more difficult than going back and forth repeatedly. Choosing a mate is, of course, a really important thing, and what better way to show a Filipina that you're serious about finding a relationship, capable of getting things done, and willing to do the work, and spend the time. This also serves the purpose of getting to know the country, the people, the customs and traditions that are such an important part of her life.
Another great video Rubeauti !! I am in a recent LDR with a Filipina and agree it is a challenge. The timezone is a challenge but fortunately we are only either 2 or 3 hours apart (I am in Sydney, Australia). Long video calls are magical, but we find lots of short video calls during our shared timezone day of even 30-60 seconds make us feel very close. We are meeting for the first time in June for 30 days and are so excited !! Please keep making such insightful videos lovely lady !! 💜💯💜
I think a 'ldr' while getting to know one another would work fine, you need time to get to know someone properly anyway, however if or when you start seriously talking about a future together I would start planing the relocation as soon as possible in order to be ready for when that time comes, especially if you have a business that needs some setup or if you plan to start a 'opc' in the Philippines once a relocation is decided.
Rubi, Great tips in this video. But if you and I could connect there would be NO long distance, oh No! You'd be in my arms, the only way to go. I rate this video a 9. To get a perfect 10 rating, you have to have a neon "hello" sign in the background. Be good, Chef Paul
Have to say I love your videos I have been dating it's more like we are married a Filipina for the past fifteen months and the worst thing for me is my friends and my family here think that I am being used and that this isn't real but I know with all my heart that it is as real as it gets
I met my wife on Facebook. She is from Surigao City Philippines and we talked everyday for one year on messenger and I went to visit her, we got engaged and I petitioned her for K1 visa. We got married in 2020 and in a few years I retire and we will move back to the Philippines. LDR works but both people have to put in the effort and you better have some money because the trip to the Philippines and the K1 visa process is expensive
I did the LDR during oandemic and Filipina was on her best behaving and acting sweet but when I got here after 18 momtjs she turmed out to have mental health issues and my money went to here head... the thing failed after 2 months.... I met my current GF here and we are well suited and happy... I am here 13 months and have my SRRV so here to stay... Do not send money unless you are here..
Great video. When I was in a LDR with a Filipina we would schedule our video chats for the weekend. I would get up a little earlier on Saturday and Sunday and it would be her evening. You might want to call the fire department about that fire behind you. 🔥😀
Thanks for your advice and I was thinking all what you said and I agree I bean talking to amazing women for 1 yrear and 6 months and finally asked her out and I see her in 6 days now can't wait we bean through alot in are almost 2 years
Hi Rubeauti good video and info. I have been there and done that. Anyone I was chatting with I always left messages every day. It is important to keep contact with each other. The video call part I have done that too and it is a bit frustrating but that is the internet in the Philippines. I had some good connections that did not amount to anything and some that ended up in a good friendship but not real serious connection. Even though I did not find that special someone I still moved to the Philippines for my retirement. I am in no hurry to have a relationship but at least here I can meet in person easier. Keep smiling and stay safe.
Good video with tips I appreciate it rubeauti I believe that communicate with action is definitely key 🔑 and being patient. I also believe that Filipina need to become a ASSET for the foreigner partner.
Very good advice Miss Rubeauti. I’m wondering if you have or have had a long distance relationship because you seem to have so much knowledge about them. Mine lasted 6 years before we were both in a position where we could get married and be together full time.
I think the last three years has been has a Hugh huddle with Covid if you can survive LDR. In this period you have a bond or a foundation to build on good luck to everyone who endured this time
Everyone seems to assume that LDR means "never met but doing distance"... I met someone in Philippines and have been back twice with LDR in between. Meeting someone online and staying LDR for months without ever meeting them... is something I would never do.
Thank you for that miss rubeauti I am just now starting to experience all those things with a real nice girl we are just friends but hopefully it turns into more 🤞🙏💖💋
I like the 12/13 hour time difference, depending on daylight savings. Gives me a little break to play video games or other hobbies while she sleeps 😂 Will have to figure a way to shoo my Filipina out of house when I move there. Need some alone time!
I have a strong desire to visit the Philippines so I decided to try two different reputable dating sites for Filipinas, so that I would have someone to meet when I arrived. 100% of the Filipinas I communicated with asked me for money either in the 1st chat or 2nd chat. Super big turn off. Not one was interested to know me and not one even asked a question about myself, just went straight for the wallet. So LDR is off the table for me. I will go ahead and plan my visit anyway, and if I am lucky to meet someone during my visit, then that will be great. But if I meet someone and she asks for money on first or second date, then I am done. There are too many other nice places in the world to visit.
@@Rubeauti You don't need to worry. You said it correctly, ganda. But "burger" popped into my head when you were about to (and did) say "fonder." Your burger analogy with the buns was a good one.
While technology can be frustrating, we just need to remember that not long ago it would have been impossible for people from different countries getting to meet each other without actually traveling to those countries. So now is becoming a good time to embrace this.
It isn't only the foreigner responsible to be open minded because to us Filipina is a foreigner also, most of us are open minded, some over do yes but most non-filipino understand that we have to be open minded but some Filipina doesn't have a open mine, you'll have to help each other have a open mine as well, there always a obstacle but I do believe we can reach a common ground.
I've been listening to you for a while the only thing that really gets me is it seems like everything you say is about us mand always understand in your culture always understanding your ways we're the ones that have to adapt. I have never heard once that they have to try and adapt to our culture our ways . When you really come down to it we are the men we don't go down to Webber once we do that we become a symptom and are defeated A real male would understand the culture but does not have to accept it Over there own If a woman really wants the security of a man she will change Not the other way around.
Long distance relationships will only work as long as you set deadlines for when you both will meet up in person and also when the foreigner works towards a goal of being with his Filipina in person permanently
I love your content, after falling in love with a beautiful Filipina we are in an LDR. After video chatting for almost a year I asked her to marry me. Can you make a video of the process of her getting a visa to come to the US? We plan to marry there but she wants to spend a few months here in the states.
Yes, we are 8000 miles apart, 1/3 around the world, we should only be 1/3 of a day apart in time. But because the time zero reference is in England, Seattle is 8 hours behind Greenwich while Manila is 8 hours ahead of Greenwich. The jet lag hits me hard when I fly from Manila to Seattle. Not much going the other way.
Have a few episodes/series highlighting morena beauty in notable centers of Philippines. Pepper episodes with colonial reconstruction. Perhaps model episodes with beauty pageant themes, morenas in swimsuit episode, in evening dress episode, answer social concerns, etc.
Currently waiting on my fiancées K1 visa approval … such a heartbreaking thing to be separated! Have visited twice and communicate daily but still very hard on both of us. We love each other and just want to get married. Asking for prayers for patience and peace as we endure this process … 🙏🏻
I went to the philippines and married my filipina partner in December 2022 now i am back in the u.k as i left the philippines on march 16th 2023 the distance is already causing a problem.
I've been involved with Filipinas online for years off and on, they all ways tell me, oh I'm not chatting with any other men, I'm not dating any pinoy, i don't like them,, only foreigners, fellas , don't let them rush you into an online relationship, im keeping and open mine and fly there
I met my Filipina January 31, 2023. She was referred to me by a Filipina Facebook friend. We chat every morning and every evening. On the weekend, we spend hours and hours talking. I am going to meet her June 16th 2023, and if all goess as good as I know it will, I will be helping her get a K1 visa to come live with me in Texas where we will be married. Yes, I know, we haven't known each other that long, but when we talk, everything flows so naturally and she loves my sense of humor. It was like God brought us both together at this point in our lives for a reason. I am 65 and she in 56. Both of us have two failed relationships behind us. Me, two divorces and her, two short term boyfriends. Her first relationship lasted two months and her second four months. She has never really had a man in her life and never married. I chose her for her beautiful personality and her comittment to our relationship. She is everything that most American women are not. Thanks for your video and keep up the great work!
I will be in Manila in May. Now I’m not sure if the woman I was coming to meet will be with me while I’m there. Maybe I made a mistake. At this point I’m still not sure but I’m feeling like there’s a strong possibility that I’ll be alone in Manila.
Call her unexpectedly at 3 am and see her without makeup! Ironically it was easier 20 years ago as photos were harder to alter as filters now are automatic with videos and photos
This is one of your best videos. One of the biggest problems with a lot of Filipinas is their lack of good communication skills. I don't mean the English. I am talking about the lack of deep conversations and texts. They are great at selfies but in dialog not the greatest.
Yo I’m a Filipina and love deep conversations, though I’m not too great at selfies cuz I don’t send a lot of photos of myself. Are those the type of Filipina women that you have dated in the past?
The time zone thing hasn't effected me to much I work the night shift and my sleep schedule is right around what my filipina's is sooo it's working really well for me
Looking back to my past, I realize I have been in a LDR years ago. In the time of letters by mail and 1.5$/minute phone calls. It never worked. It is a silly idea. It is not a relationship.
My LDR is going splendidly for me we some how find a way to video chat 4 to 5 hours in the morning and at night we do about another 3 hours she is the best future wife. I hit the jackpot ladies and gents.
Great topic! Patience is the key! 🙂 If my wife wasn't the kind of Filapina she is, the LDR part never would have worked. When she knew she wanted to be with me she was all in! She went above and beyond to make the time zone challenge not a big deal. She was always available when I text her or video called, and believe me, we both "tested" each other in the beginning when we were establishing trust. We were both cheated on and hurt in the past, so we knew all the red flags, and made sure they weren't there for us... I think an important part of an LDR though is to make a commitment to get together in person as soon as it is possible because that will serve to strengthen everything, and add the missing parts to the bond, experience and memories. That makes your relationship much stronger if you do have to spend periods of time apart...
@@Rubeauti Yes, I can sense you are also the type of Filapina that would make sacrifices to make your special someone feel important, wanted, needed, and desired... 😉
It’s *Filipina hehe
In a long distance relationship with an American boyfriend for 4 years now. I'm proud to say we survived the pandemic and everything is worth it. Commitment, Communication, and Consistency are Key. Not to mention Love, Understanding and Respect.
4 years? WHY are you still apart? With respect, f I have GF and serious, I will go to her or bring her to me on a K-1 or K-3 po.
@@2000ViperGTSsubscribe we are still waiting for the annotation from PSA of my annulment. Hopefully, early next year we can start processing the K1 visa. God permits.
@@Rubeauti yes that's true. we are lucky enough to have fought the distance and stress brought by the pandemic.
@@filipinamorena OMG PH government strikes again with that. So sorry for you both po.
@@2000ViperGTSsubscribe No, it's okay we're done with the annulment, though. All good things never come easy, I believe.
My Makati-born Cebuana and I are still going strong five years into our LDR. She's been there for me through a lot, including my contracting and recovering from covid. We have many things in common and nearly every time we talk, we find something new that we share. She's slightly above-average height which bodes well for me because I'm about 6 feet, 1 inch tall (app. 187 cm).
Wow bring back memories this video 12-hour difference from the Philippines to the US going out for years married with my wife
HI RUBEAUTI ❤
OUR CONVERSATION TIME IS MY MORNING AND HER EVENING.
I HELP THE KIDS WITH THEIR HOMEWORK.
I SUPPORT HER AND THE CHILDREN AND I AM HAPPY 😊
HOWEVER, THE JEALOUSY IS A TURN OFF 😢
They say LDR is not easy
But their is so many people out there who in LDR until today but still together no matter how far they are from eachother
I'm here and proud to all long distance relationship couple stay strong
My beautiful Filipina fiancée and I were separated for 2.5 years due to covid. We kept our love alive by chatting at least three times a day without fail and by the time the borders finally opened we knew each other better than many married couples I know. Finally holding her in my arms when I came out of Manila airport was the most incredible feeling and we suddenly felt like we had never been apart. Our relationship also survived me having a heart attack in April 2020 and her love for me never faltered. Even though we couldn't be together, she would constantly check in with my medical team to make sure I was okay and recovering. We are now together in Australia and life together is awesome.
I love to pride in my relationship with my lady. We've been long distance dating for 10 years and we only get to meet once a year. We should be living together this year if this visa finally goes through. I pride in our relationship because despite us being on opposite sides of the world, we trust in each other and love each other, we are inseparable and our relationship has lasted longer than most marriages I know of. We've both been tested nonstop in our dedication to one another and we never once betrayed each others trust and feelings. I like to use our relationship as inspiration for those around me, if we can do this, surely anyone can.
Thanks! Keep up the great work. Pursue your vision. Life is too short. Easter egg included.
@@Rubeauti you are in my daily prayer for your success. Embrace the moment. PS. Happy Easter.
I have to admit... I don't know if I could ever do long distance. Not being able to meetup for a meal or have an experience together would be too hard. I can't understand dating someone if you can't be there with them. I guess if you meet someone and have visa issues... I could understand then, but as soon as the visa issues are done you have to be with each other
Wise words Rubeauti! We get Skype problems talking within the UK, never mind to the other side of the world. When I struggle, I just remember how my Mum and Dad managed. My Dad was in the navy during the Korean war. Letters once a fortnight (so long as the mail wasn't interrupted(, a telephone call maybe once a month if you're lucky. They didn't see each other for two years but their love never slackened. Count your blessings folks! ❤😘
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Rebeauti. You are 100% on target everything you are bringing to life is so right on target..I congratulate on every point you are reporting on. Truly excellent 😊
Thanks Rubeauti, for This Fine Way You've Outlined The Limitations and Frustrations of Long Dustance Relationships.
Having Been in a LDR, I'm Well Seasoned in The Time Differences, The Dropped Calls, The Slow Connections , Etc.
We Survived 4 Years. Haha, Wasn't Easy For Sure, But We Always Enjoyed The Time We Had Together.
I didn’t seek a relationship with a filipina but I just started talking to one everyday and now I can’t imagine life without her. So far we haven’t pondered watching tv together because we can still talk for 2 hours at a time, often twice a day, it’s surprising and even strange, but so easy and happy. I really like her. :-). Thanks for your videos, they sometimes are the subject of conversation.
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LDR's can be very hard, especially if they go on too long. I think in the future I will wait until I have my trip scheduled to start investigating ladies. You offer very good advice for dealing with an LDR.
I really enjoy your videos, I have been watching them for awhile, see I watch Philippine Pea too, I have watch others but I feel you and Pea are the most open and show how it really is there, right now I can't help by sending money to support both of you, however I do watch all the advertisement, so I can at least do my part, after she does get here, I will support both of you, right now I'm putting her through school as a healthcare worker, keep up the great work, and thank you for your insight
14 months in an LDR. Video chat many hours a day. I see her daily routine, she sees mine. Province woman, Country boy. Going to live there permanently in 2024. So far so good.
@@Rubeauti he said 14 months miss not years. So just a little over a year haha.
@@Rubeauti LOL! Actually 14 MONTHS is too long! But I have things to take care of (sell everything) and make sure my retirement income is working. I could never make a woman wait 14 years for a "maybe".
I would consider a LDR with you well worth it 🌹😘
Sister rubueaty,im in a 4 year LONG DUSTANCE RELATIONSHIP AND,DESPITE GOING THROUGH EVERYTHING THAT YOURE TALKING ABOUT (LOADS,TIME ZONE,ITS ALMOST MISNIGHT HERE IN BRONX,NYC)BUT..ITS WORH IT..SIS THANK YOU FOR THIS BLESSINGS ALWAYS
With everything that is happening,most of us are a paycheck away from being homeless,hope we are all prepared,get yourself an alternate source of income
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@Kashif Majeed you lost my interest at the word "leveraging". The words "margin call" spell "disaster".
My heart goes out to everyone temporarily separated by distance. I loved your advice that it's mandatory to plan a future adventure together. I'm moving to the Philippines this summer. As tempting as it is to contact a woman online now, I'm desperately trying to wait until I get boots on the ground so I can avoid the challenges of a long-distance relationship.
Rubeauti, this is one of your best videos. Educational and Informational!!
I’ve worked the swing shift most of my life 3:00 to 11:30 or 4:00 to 12:00 and it works out best I’ve found because it’s often early to late afternoon there and it gives someone PLENTY of time to talk.
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Doing it right now.. It's rough sometimes.. But yuh gotta have patience and a plan..
Your message hits home as I am recently communicating with a filipino women and the time zone difference is 8 hours.
Love has no distance!
True love can and will overcome any obstacle.
Nailed it on the time difference lol. I was in a L R with a 19 year old girl from Singapore . Was on cam 24/7 Her night was my day but she would watch me sleep and I would watch her sleep although she was in college so I would chat with her and on cam as she is going to and from school plus she would cam with me as she is in school as well when she could .
I was switching my sleep so we had more time together . I loved working the grave yard shift so I was use to it . Just didn't know how far wrong I was lmao. She would fly here to Florida and stay 2 to 3 months at a time . My Mom loved her and would spend a lot of time with her as well when she was here but they also chatted on the cell a lot as well.. Then I was hit with Hurricane Irma Lost power for 9 days meaning no contact other then now and then a cell call if the phone was charged.
After the power was back on they were having a hard time with the internet . so I was not able to be on a lot of the time because of that. mean while a guy was flirting with her stopping by visiting her making sure she was getting home safe and then 2 days before Christmas she told me she has been doing things with the guy and thinks of him all the time and wanted to be with him.
She said she was needy and well I was not there for her and he was. Mother nature really showed me it is not just for nature any more .
@@Rubeauti Umm we was together for 4 years and she cheated on me with a guy in her Country . Just 2 days before Christmas .
Very sad you wasted all that time and emotions.
I personally would never be interested in a LDR. Would much rather form a bond in person....eye to eye....heart to heart.
The rituals suggestion is a good one. I never thought about watching a film together
Philippines is actually on the perfect timezone difference. My ex was asleep while I worked. I was asleep while she worked. We spent mornings and night time together on video calls. It could not be more perfect. That is one of many reasons I will only date a Filipina now. Other women are basically invisable to me.
@@Rubeauti Salamat. Its ok. My ex was too independant. She grew up with her family pressuring her to be independant so she could not resist being rebellious to me. So she finally pushed me too far and lost my trust. So i had to break up with her, even though we were engaged and I danced with her Lola in the village.
I know Thai women are very good women too but I fell in love with the Philippines and Filipina women. My ex treated me so well, when things were good, that I can only date Filipinas now. So I am heading back to Palawan this October and I am getting more serious about learning Tagalog.
I just need to find a young Filipina who is more religious and is not pressured so much to be independant. She needs to put God first, not career.
Your vlogs are always so great! You are so articulate and encouraging, and your content is so well written. Do you do everything yourself? I find you very impressive as a presenter and wise in your comments. Keep going! I wish you the very best with your vlogs!
I could write an essay on this subject Ms. Rebeauti. I just got back from my first trip to meet, and engage my Filipina sweetheart, and it was far from inexpensive. My advice to men seeking love with foreign brides is , make sure you are financially, and emotionally ready, it’s a lot of waiting, expenses, and long airline flights, and there is a real person, with real feelings on the other side of the line. Assess your finances, and willingness to sleep alone for months on end before pursuing a life partner somewhere else in the world. Good luck 👍.
Hello from Ireland. I have been in a long distance relationship with a filipino lady of similar age since 2018. She is not working. When I got to know her first, she was a carer. We got to know each other through an offline irish magazine. The inside back page has a penfriends section. One of her friends living in ireland placed an ad in the magazine for her.
I wasn't working at the time, and am only working part time now. So I guess that is kind of an advantage as we can choose what time to communicate. It's usually in the afternoon here/evening there, and evening here/morming there. So it's generally twice a day every day. I have been only there once, in 2019, as it's quiet expensive. 1,260 euros in December 2019. I'm going back at the end of this month with the intention of marrying her, and hopefully at some stage getting her over here.
For me its the Time Zone Lang , it just does not Work .. And yet for so many it Does work ,, Now if i was in the Pilipines Permanently ,, i know 💯 percent it would work .
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Also,busting my ass learning tagalog, but its worth it
These are very good, well thought out tips, thank you. It occurs to me, the best way way to facilitate success in your relationship between two people of different countries, in my case, American and Filipina, is to actually visit the country for a few months. Difficult perhaps, but no more difficult than going back and forth repeatedly.
Choosing a mate is, of course, a really important thing, and what better way to show a Filipina that you're serious about finding a relationship, capable of getting things done, and willing to do the work, and spend the time.
This also serves the purpose of getting to know the country, the people, the customs and traditions that are such an important part of her life.
Thank you! 😊
Trust is the key to success!!
Another great video Rubeauti !! I am in a recent LDR with a Filipina and agree it is a challenge. The timezone is a challenge but fortunately we are only either 2 or 3 hours apart (I am in Sydney, Australia). Long video calls are magical, but we find lots of short video calls during our shared timezone day of even 30-60 seconds make us feel very close. We are meeting for the first time in June for 30 days and are so excited !! Please keep making such insightful videos lovely lady !! 💜💯💜
I think a 'ldr' while getting to know one another would work fine, you need time to get to know someone properly anyway, however if or when you start seriously talking about a future together I would start planing the relocation as soon as possible in order to be ready for when that time comes, especially if you have a business that needs some setup or if you plan to start a 'opc' in the Philippines once a relocation is decided.
Rubi,
Great tips in this video. But if you and I could connect there would be NO long distance, oh No! You'd be in my arms, the only way to go.
I rate this video a 9. To get a perfect 10 rating, you have to have a neon "hello" sign in the background.
Be good,
Chef Paul
Have to say I love your videos I have been dating it's more like we are married a Filipina for the past fifteen months and the worst thing for me is my friends and my family here think that I am being used and that this isn't real but I know with all my heart that it is as real as it gets
I met my wife on Facebook. She is from Surigao City Philippines and we talked everyday for one year on messenger and I went to visit her, we got engaged and I petitioned her for K1 visa. We got married in 2020 and in a few years I retire and we will move back to the Philippines. LDR works but both people have to put in the effort and you better have some money because the trip to the Philippines and the K1 visa process is expensive
I did the LDR during oandemic and Filipina was on her best behaving and acting sweet but when I got here after 18 momtjs she turmed out to have mental health issues and my money went to here head... the thing failed after 2 months.... I met my current GF here and we are well suited and happy... I am here 13 months and have my SRRV so here to stay... Do not send money unless you are here..
Great video. When I was in a LDR with a Filipina we would schedule our video chats for the weekend. I would get up a little earlier on Saturday and Sunday and it would be her evening. You might want to call the fire department about that fire behind you. 🔥😀
Love this video. Good advice people, make sure you listen
Thanks for your advice and I was thinking all what you said and I agree I bean talking to amazing women for 1 yrear and 6 months and finally asked her out and I see her in 6 days now can't wait we bean through alot in are almost 2 years
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Good morning, good evening Rebeauti.
Hi Rubeauti good video and info. I have been there and done that. Anyone I was chatting with I always left messages every day. It is important to keep contact with each other. The video call part I have done that too and it is a bit frustrating but that is the internet in the Philippines. I had some good connections that did not amount to anything and some that ended up in a good friendship but not real serious connection. Even though I did not find that special someone I still moved to the Philippines for my retirement. I am in no hurry to have a relationship but at least here I can meet in person easier. Keep smiling and stay safe.
Good video with tips I appreciate it rubeauti I believe that communicate with action is definitely key 🔑 and being patient. I also believe that Filipina need to become a ASSET for the foreigner partner.
Very good advice Miss Rubeauti. I’m wondering if you have or have had a long distance relationship because you seem to have so much knowledge about them. Mine lasted 6 years before we were both in a position where we could get married and be together full time.
Very insightful. Thank u . But I will raver come and look in person.....
Will meet u in a view months. Want to arrange something special for all the single women making videos. God bless u
I think the last three years has been has a Hugh huddle with Covid if you can survive LDR. In this period you have a bond or a foundation to build on good luck to everyone who endured this time
Your videos keep getting better. What does a Pinay w/ visa being uploaded at the airport mean?
This advisement is helpful and the topics discussed are very useful, thank you for sharing
Hair and makeup superb 👌
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Very informative love your channel, everything you said is true, my girlfriend and I are going through this right now
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L.D.R.'s are tough and may not be always completed !! Being in same location to start Isa big advantage!!!
As you said, absence makes the heart grow founder. But then it could be 'out of sight, out of mind'! lol
Everyone seems to assume that LDR means "never met but doing distance"... I met someone in Philippines and have been back twice with LDR in between. Meeting someone online and staying LDR for months without ever meeting them... is something I would never do.
So true,informative and funny.Great bideo.0:42 haha
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Thank you for that miss rubeauti I am just now starting to experience all those things with a real nice girl we are just friends but hopefully it turns into more 🤞🙏💖💋
I like the 12/13 hour time difference, depending on daylight savings. Gives me a little break to play video games or other hobbies while she sleeps 😂
Will have to figure a way to shoo my Filipina out of house when I move there. Need some alone time!
I have a strong desire to visit the Philippines so I decided to try two different reputable dating sites for Filipinas, so that I would have someone to meet when I arrived. 100% of the Filipinas I communicated with asked me for money either in the 1st chat or 2nd chat. Super big turn off. Not one was interested to know me and not one even asked a question about myself, just went straight for the wallet. So LDR is off the table for me. I will go ahead and plan my visit anyway, and if I am lucky to meet someone during my visit, then that will be great. But if I meet someone and she asks for money on first or second date, then I am done. There are too many other nice places in the world to visit.
Enjoyed the video. You tell a hopeful story. 😁❤
Absence makes the heart grow a burger.
@@Rubeauti You don't need to worry. You said it correctly, ganda. But "burger" popped into my head when you were about to (and did) say "fonder." Your burger analogy with the buns was a good one.
While technology can be frustrating, we just need to remember that not long ago it would have been impossible for people from different countries getting to meet each other without actually traveling to those countries. So now is becoming a good time to embrace this.
It isn't only the foreigner responsible to be open minded because to us Filipina is a foreigner also, most of us are open minded, some over do yes but most non-filipino understand that we have to be open minded but some Filipina doesn't have a open mine, you'll have to help each other have a open mine as well, there always a obstacle but I do believe we can reach a common ground.
"LDR is like a delicious hamburger without the meat" - Rubeauti quote will last for centuries
I've been listening to you for a while the only thing that really gets me is it seems like everything you say is about us mand always understand in your culture always understanding your ways we're the ones that have to adapt. I have never heard once that they have to try and adapt to our culture our ways . When you really come down to it we are the men we don't go down to Webber once we do that we become a symptom and are defeated A real male would understand the culture but does not have to accept it Over there own If a woman really wants the security of a man she will change Not the other way around.
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I ❤ this video. You're so sweet with this subject. The zoom ins and cut edits are a little um distracting🤔
Clips great, zooms unnecessary. Your content and beauty is all we need🤗
Long distance relationships will only work as long as you set deadlines for when you both will meet up in person and also when the foreigner works towards a goal of being with his Filipina in person permanently
I love your content, after falling in love with a beautiful Filipina we are in an LDR. After video chatting for almost a year I asked her to marry me. Can you make a video of the process of her getting a visa to come to the US? We plan to marry there but she wants to spend a few months here in the states.
👍long distance observer here
Comment 1: "Great video, keep up the good work!"
Thanks so much! I appreciate your support 🤗
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My girlfriend is time is 16 hours ahead of me during the winter and 15 hours ahead of me in the summer.
Yes, we are 8000 miles apart, 1/3 around the world, we should only be 1/3 of a day apart in time. But because the time zero reference is in England, Seattle is 8 hours behind Greenwich while Manila is 8 hours ahead of Greenwich. The jet lag hits me hard when I fly from Manila to Seattle. Not much going the other way.
Have a few episodes/series highlighting morena beauty in notable centers of Philippines. Pepper episodes with colonial reconstruction. Perhaps model episodes with beauty pageant themes, morenas in swimsuit episode, in evening dress episode, answer social concerns, etc.
Good advice and cute humorous clips, Beauti. Thanks.
@@Rubeauti You are so cute!
Currently waiting on my fiancées K1 visa approval … such a heartbreaking thing to be separated! Have visited twice and communicate daily but still very hard on both of us. We love each other and just want to get married. Asking for prayers for patience and peace as we endure this process … 🙏🏻
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I went to the philippines and married my filipina partner in December 2022 now i am back in the u.k as i left the philippines on march 16th 2023 the distance is already causing a problem.
Great upload!
Thank you!
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You have no idea!
It's Mike.
I've been involved with Filipinas online for years off and on, they all ways tell me, oh I'm not chatting with any other men, I'm not dating any pinoy, i don't like them,, only foreigners, fellas , don't let them rush you into an online relationship, im keeping and open mine and fly there
Great topic
It can if it was meant to be and you have a plan . I quess so what the heck miss beautiful have fun
I met my Filipina January 31, 2023. She was referred to me by a Filipina Facebook friend. We chat every morning and every evening. On the weekend, we spend hours and hours talking. I am going to meet her June 16th 2023, and if all goess as good as I know it will, I will be helping her get a K1 visa to come live with me in Texas where we will be married. Yes, I know, we haven't known each other that long, but when we talk, everything flows so naturally and she loves my sense of humor. It was like God brought us both together at this point in our lives for a reason. I am 65 and she in 56. Both of us have two failed relationships behind us. Me, two divorces and her, two short term boyfriends. Her first relationship lasted two months and her second four months. She has never really had a man in her life and never married. I chose her for her beautiful personality and her comittment to our relationship. She is everything that most American women are not. Thanks for your video and keep up the great work!
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I will be in Manila in May. Now I’m not sure if the woman I was coming to meet will be with me while I’m there. Maybe I made a mistake. At this point I’m still not sure but I’m feeling like there’s a strong possibility that I’ll be alone in Manila.
Thank you rubuity
Call her unexpectedly at 3 am and see her without makeup! Ironically it was easier 20 years ago as photos were harder to alter as filters now are automatic with videos and photos
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I will be back in just a few days 👌❤
Thanks for the heads up! Looking forward to it! 😊
This is one of your best videos. One of the biggest problems with a lot of Filipinas is their lack of good communication skills. I don't mean the English. I am talking about the lack of deep conversations and texts. They are great at selfies but in dialog not the greatest.
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Yo I’m a Filipina and love deep conversations, though I’m not too great at selfies cuz I don’t send a lot of photos of myself. Are those the type of Filipina women that you have dated in the past?
I love talking to my girl in the Philippines have night and in the morning and I'm coming to your beautiful country to be with my love ❤️❤️❤️
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Hi Rubeauti, good morning.
so good ty
The time zone thing hasn't effected me to much I work the night shift and my sleep schedule is right around what my filipina's is sooo it's working really well for me
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Think about it. Most "in person" relationships end. Why wouldn't a LDR? Especially if it's never been "in person".
Think about money that your partner is going to bring to you. Money always makes long distance good. Believe me I have been there before
Looking back to my past, I realize I have been in a LDR years ago. In the time of letters by mail and 1.5$/minute phone calls. It never worked. It is a silly idea. It is not a relationship.
My LDR is going splendidly for me we some how find a way to video chat 4 to 5 hours in the morning and at night we do about another 3 hours she is the best future wife. I hit the jackpot ladies and gents.
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Filipinos never say “No” it’s always a roundabout answer to a request, building hope always!!🙏😅😊
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Shared TC God bless y'all 🙏✝️