Love is Blind’s Aaliyah Reveals Truth About Uche and Lydia

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  • @sincerely5906
    @sincerely5906 ปีที่แล้ว +5501

    Thank y’all for giving Aaliyah a platform to share her story. I feel like her voice was drowned out by both Uche and Lydia, and I feel like she was the true victim in all of this.

    • @laurens7542
      @laurens7542 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      Perfectly said.

    • @Mzldy1shari
      @Mzldy1shari ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Agree completely

    • @djsalteenuts
      @djsalteenuts ปีที่แล้ว +27

      How was she a victim? She let Lydia get in her head and ran instead of talking to Uche

    • @ZariyaJ
      @ZariyaJ ปีที่แล้ว +74

      Yeah I felt like the producers did Aaliyah dirty

    • @oliviamadison5989
      @oliviamadison5989 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      ​@@djsalteenutsI bet it's really the Producers did that ...

  • @CallieDHopes
    @CallieDHopes ปีที่แล้ว +2661

    When Uche chastised her for not being honest (with someone else!) only to turn around and reveal he’d been lying the whole time, I was floored at the audacity. She’s a beautiful soul and I’m glad she dodged that bullet.

    • @loram9976
      @loram9976 ปีที่แล้ว +103

      I was thinking the same thing. It felt like a lot of projection from Uche

    • @parulama5710
      @parulama5710 ปีที่แล้ว +89

      Not only lying he himself cheated bruhhh
      Not that only how he said being honest is so important hypocrisy at the highest level

    • @SiNCERELYTAYY1
      @SiNCERELYTAYY1 ปีที่แล้ว +102

      Uche is just narcissistic and just corny to me

    • @user-my8uf1yh5m
      @user-my8uf1yh5m ปีที่แล้ว +54

      SAME like the BALLS on that man!! “Recent cheater” like he wasn’t cheating on Lydia!!!!? I didn’t like him after that lol.

    • @yoda12121
      @yoda12121 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      I agree but then I have to wonder did production have something to do with Uche and Lydia being quiet up to when production wanted them to reveal the truth... they are known to be messy as well in fact they're getting sued again as of a week or 2 ago.

  • @Nooooooooooooooooooooo7913
    @Nooooooooooooooooooooo7913 ปีที่แล้ว +7154

    Look at the Hamiltons getting the ACTUAL tea because we KNOW the Lachey’s won’t and never do at the reunions! Love this!

    • @VashtiPerry
      @VashtiPerry ปีที่แล้ว +58

      Yes❤

    • @charliebarrow7086
      @charliebarrow7086 ปีที่แล้ว +271

      I honestly feel that the reunions should be done by somebody that lived through the experience themselves. Unfortunately, the Lachey's do not ask the questions that the majority of the viewers are interested in.

    • @dakotalove8015
      @dakotalove8015 ปีที่แล้ว +115

      Girl this is the oneee! Cam seriously did a great job and wasn’t pushy with it either 👏🏾

    • @tikendrickhallshe-her-hers4911
      @tikendrickhallshe-her-hers4911 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      For real!

    • @victoriaemerson-ds8du
      @victoriaemerson-ds8du ปีที่แล้ว +83

      I wonder how much it is the Lacheys vs. what the producers are whispering in their ear… does anyone know… how much freedom do the Lacheys have to ask what they want?

  • @specialkdm900
    @specialkdm900 ปีที่แล้ว +3200

    I felt like there wasn’t a single person on this season that was truly READY to enter into a marriage.

    • @margaretturner4467
      @margaretturner4467 ปีที่แล้ว +232

      I beg to differ. I believe Aaliyah was ready. I wish she had met someone, who was a bit more mature.

    • @chancarter3440
      @chancarter3440 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      That part!

    • @diamcole
      @diamcole ปีที่แล้ว +241

      @@margaretturner4467 I disagree. She's so kind and has so much to offer but she's got to work on her communication skills instead of leaning into the impulse to be reactionary.

    • @thobilembuli8571
      @thobilembuli8571 ปีที่แล้ว +113

      I honestly think Stacy is ready. She just needs to find a man in her league

    • @ArethaRenee
      @ArethaRenee ปีที่แล้ว +10

      None were ready.

  • @Jess_cool25
    @Jess_cool25 ปีที่แล้ว +2628

    Wow. Aliyah is a very wise woman. Truthfully the fact that she left LIB was the best thing that ever happened to her. She dodged the bullet of a potentially hurtful toxic relationship. This was a blessing in disguise. I wish her the best!

    • @letzsnuggzz
      @letzsnuggzz ปีที่แล้ว +135

      I wish she stood her ground and didn't re-engage him. Because he was able to keep manipulating and mentally abusing her. It's evident that he gains power when partners give him multiple chances.

    • @michhart9262
      @michhart9262 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      ⁠​⁠@@letzsnuggzzHow did he manipulate her? He said he doesn’t want her 🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @Jess_cool25
      @Jess_cool25 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@letzsnuggzzI definitely agree but I’m sure she tried her best. Hopefully she continues therapy.

    • @Vitaluv
      @Vitaluv ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@michhart9262manipulation

    • @mamimelusine
      @mamimelusine ปีที่แล้ว +29

      @@letzsnuggzzwe dont always realize right at the moment we should. I’m just glad she eventually got it and got free.

  • @KhanyaModipa
    @KhanyaModipa ปีที่แล้ว +4302

    Sad we can’t get Cameron & Lauren to be hosts for LIB. This interview is evidence that they ask the right questions without that “gotcha” vibe. So kind and yet honest about addressing issues we all want clarity on. We deserve Cam. & Lauren, these producers SURELY have to see this.

    • @ayeeshahm9078
      @ayeeshahm9078 ปีที่แล้ว +132

      I agree. He created such a safe and empathetic space for her to share from. I really wish they could play a mentoring role in the show, just as past Bachelorettes do on that show.

    • @planetaugust6310
      @planetaugust6310 ปีที่แล้ว +63

      The producers see it but nick and vanessa got them in a chokehold

    • @shortyp1000
      @shortyp1000 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      I agree. They would bring an authenticity that Vanessa and Nick do not have.

    • @joyous1011
      @joyous1011 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I agree but I think it's more of Cameron and Lauren not wanting to vs. LIB not offering...I could be wrong

    • @planetaugust6310
      @planetaugust6310 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      @@joyous1011 nah they’ve hinted at Netflix being the ones holding it up several times

  • @Lattyj1
    @Lattyj1 ปีที่แล้ว +1100

    Any guy who ends up with Aaliyah is fortunate. She is beautiful, intelligent, gracious, empathetic and emotionally open.

    • @MartaRC32
      @MartaRC32 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      I´m not sure people realize that because she opened up her soul to Uche and went very deep, it will take a while for her to heal. Some women never do... it´s harder in women than in men to recover from a broken heart and trust other people again. Therapy might help but not necessarily.

    • @Solointhed
      @Solointhed ปีที่แล้ว +62

      She’s in a new relationship and engaged so happy for her!

    • @authoryardleyvashon7439
      @authoryardleyvashon7439 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      agreed! She is so calm and measured.... would be a great wife and mother.

  • @JulieElvenMusic
    @JulieElvenMusic ปีที่แล้ว +405

    Aaliyah is a great example of quiet confidence. Loved her openness, rational thinking and empathy, while at the same time being courageous enough to walk away if needed.

    • @hashtagtrending
      @hashtagtrending ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I truly respect the manor it which she left without giving closure. If you cant understand (Uche) what you did wrong to make someone so uncomfortable they felt it was safer to leave without a goodbye, then idk what to tell you (Uche).
      I've felt that way before and the other person was as equally angry with me silently leaving vs if I would have given them a heads up.

  • @dioniciarodriguez-rs9zc
    @dioniciarodriguez-rs9zc ปีที่แล้ว +1422

    This is a 10/10 interview. This is a vulnerable convo but also positive and respectful. I can appreciate these type of interviews. I’m glad she left when she did; takes a lot of courage to leave. Good job!

  • @magnoliaskogen
    @magnoliaskogen ปีที่แล้ว +687

    One of the, if not THE, best interviews I've ever seen related to reality TV. Cameron moved through this conversation with such compassion and empathy and kindness. Aaliyah is incredibly wise and kind. What a gift to be able to watch this conversation! Thank you both!

  • @s0nGsTriSs
    @s0nGsTriSs ปีที่แล้ว +107

    I haven’t even finished the interview yet and I’m already so impressed with both parties. He is asking thoughtful questions respectfully and she is so articulate in her responses. Most important is that HE IS LETTING HER SPEAK. Usually hosts constantly interrupt their guests and it ruins the interaction.

  • @DaniNouveauWitch
    @DaniNouveauWitch ปีที่แล้ว +535

    Cam has the healthiest masculinity ever. Folks could learn a lot from this man!

    • @rhondataylor66
      @rhondataylor66 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      So true.

    • @selfishgirlsgofirst
      @selfishgirlsgofirst ปีที่แล้ว +31

      yes, he is a true masculine man. And he is so hot. Lauren is the luckiest, they both are❤❤

    • @ZedGirl
      @ZedGirl ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Very well said 🎉

    • @VC-qt3gz
      @VC-qt3gz ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yessss

    • @virgo8626
      @virgo8626 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@selfishgirlsgofirstAmen to this!!!

  • @GarnetDust24
    @GarnetDust24 ปีที่แล้ว +196

    Nick and Vanessa could never. Thoughtful, vulnerable and hopefully truthful conversation! Would love more of these in the future.

  • @tashecayvette88
    @tashecayvette88 ปีที่แล้ว +487

    This entire season was cringy AF. But their particular story was the epitome of gaslighting and manipulation. Uche talks like a lawyer even in intimate situations. Which is a clear intimidation tactic. But dude how are you trying to press a woman you're trying to get to know. Like make it make sense.

    • @hadijatkubrat3580
      @hadijatkubrat3580 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      For sure! It was a stanking hot ass mess. I felt no chemistry with any of the couples.

    • @Sharon174
      @Sharon174 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@hadijatkubrat3580true no couple has that connection where we feel it from afar.

  • @ksgnation
    @ksgnation ปีที่แล้ว +72

    You can tell when someone’s on intentional healing path. Just the way she speaks with intention, so that not one word is misconstrued.. I love it🦋

  • @sfo16
    @sfo16 ปีที่แล้ว +691

    Anyone can be manipulated.
    Confident people can be manipulated.
    Confident people can become insecure due to a relationship.
    Manipulative people see vulnerabilities in others and use that to their advantage.
    Manipulative partners always position themselves as correct. They are never wrong. When they're wrong, they're still right.
    Manipulative partners slowly escalate their behaviors until the person is dependent on them.
    It is not Aaliyah's fault for being manipulated. It is always the fault of the manipulator for seeing someone's kindness and forgiving nature and using it against them.
    Manipulation can be intentional or unintentional but it remains harmful.
    I hope Aaliyah can heal❤

    • @TheJtoben
      @TheJtoben ปีที่แล้ว +15

      I disagree . Sometimes one must take partial blame in certain circumstances . Uchees manipulation was clear as day and harsh and direct . Even the blind could see that . I would understand ur sentiments if it was more subtle. People need to stop victimizing themselves

    • @sfo16
      @sfo16 ปีที่แล้ว +66

      ⁠@@TheJtobenWe saw the "highlights". We have heard before about how dates last hours and hours. We have no idea what led up to the boiling points. From the outside looking in it can be obvious. But from the inside it can be completely inscrutable.

    • @tabbatharenea8766
      @tabbatharenea8766 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Perfectly said.

    • @gdhaney136
      @gdhaney136 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      I felt like a bad situation was my fault for not paying attention to red flags, but liars and thieves practice their skills. A good liar can convince even the smartest people that they are the truth teller. Manipulation is a skill, and some people work on that skill daily.

    • @suras8984
      @suras8984 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      It takes two in any relationship. I have been manipulate before but you must take responsibility in order to not be manipulated again. You do have a responsibility in creating boundaries for yourself. Also its not black and white like this. Even "victims" can be manipulative like when people use their victimhood to get people to feel sorry for them or do things for them.

  • @MB-gb2zp
    @MB-gb2zp ปีที่แล้ว +813

    And this is why we wanted you and Lauren to host instead you really delve deep and give people a safe place to share without judgement or bias. Great interview ! The laches are judgemental, lead thier interviews with a direct agenda to fullful false character tropes.

    • @VashtiPerry
      @VashtiPerry ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ❤❤❤

    • @dakotalove8015
      @dakotalove8015 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      🎯🎯🎯

    • @ThisTriniWill
      @ThisTriniWill ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I agree but also 1 on 1 is different from a group setting.

    • @MB-gb2zp
      @MB-gb2zp ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@ThisTriniWill obviously it's different with more people but I think what wont change no matter how many people are there is how open Cameron is and how he creates a space where the interview is not lead with bias and judgement but rather an open mind and heart. The Laches lead with an agenda and a tone of judgement and only care about getting what they want out of you which is your character trope.

    • @32Theresa
      @32Theresa ปีที่แล้ว +4

      true, but I think this is a better format for them on TH-cam where they don’t have producers yelling at them to hurry & go straight to the dirt. This way they’re their own bosses & they can go as long & deep into something as possible. This conversation would never happen on a reality TV show reunion sadly

  • @sfo16
    @sfo16 ปีที่แล้ว +282

    finally! she's allowed to speak!

    • @TheEboniDanielle
      @TheEboniDanielle ปีที่แล้ว +18

      I'm so happy she moved on! She's beautiful with a beautiful personality. She will definitely find someone who is perfect for her.

    • @livinlifewithla7142
      @livinlifewithla7142 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@TheEboniDanielleI hear she’s newly engaged to someone else ❤

  • @mrsroseyp109
    @mrsroseyp109 ปีที่แล้ว +607

    I love Aaliyah’s personality, her vulnerability, her grace, and how clear and reasonable she is in her thoughts and explanations. I wish her well and I know she will find someone that loves her the way she desires and deserves to be loved

    • @sonjamiller8266
      @sonjamiller8266 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      After watching this I must agree

    • @emhu2594
      @emhu2594 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I am worried she will fall for another terrible man like Uche. Hope she learned and grew from that

  • @sussexsquadperennial4785
    @sussexsquadperennial4785 ปีที่แล้ว +281

    A great interview Cameron. Thank you for giving Aaliyah an opportunity to fully talk about, and explain her perspective, point of view and feelings. It was refreshing that you, Cameron, the interviewer, gave her space to fully complete an involved and complicated thought process, when sadly soundbites many times are all that interviewers want. Well done! ❤

    • @mahoganyhope
      @mahoganyhope ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Exactly. Would love to see a love is human series from Cameron & Lauren or Couples Convo with dining maybe Cameron can be the chef! Definitely giving curl up and dive in vibes. Love the safe space ❤.

  • @yeseniagarcia8468
    @yeseniagarcia8468 ปีที่แล้ว +390

    This was amazing to hear because the show only shows the drama but hearing her story explained a lot about everybody

  • @LaquishaSprings
    @LaquishaSprings ปีที่แล้ว +290

    Something about Uche from the beginning had me yelling at the screen. “Girl, run!” I saw the manipulation. I saw the gaslighting. Then when the “dishonest” conversation happened the nail was in the coffin for me. I will also say when the Lydia situation was revealed I was mad at Lydia. She was manipulating as well. I understood why she left. Shocked but I understood.

    • @Hdhsjid
      @Hdhsjid ปีที่แล้ว +5

      ABSOLUTELY.

    • @charronsmith1795
      @charronsmith1795 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Agreed… I wish she hadn’t came back and told Uche she wanted to be with him!!!

    • @yasminehmmm6020
      @yasminehmmm6020 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      As someone that has dated someone that almost exactly like Uche personality wise I was trying to deduct if it was lawyer talk or some INTJ analytical persona… but the vibe is very manipulative and narcissistic. Especially hearing he wants to control the narrative to the other cast members.

    • @Ksay21
      @Ksay21 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      EVERYONE KEEPS SAYING THIS!!!! I MUST HAVE NOT SEEN IT, LYDIA WAS THE ONE WHO FREAKED ME OUT

    • @Izlandprincess1
      @Izlandprincess1 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      ​@@yasminehmmm6020this....when the cast had met up outside the pod and he was so invested in talking about his past with Lydia and how she was crazy. Even if that was the case....his relationship with her was done and in the past and she was engaged to someone else so why the need to want to speak to her fiance and then also to tell the other castmate. He didn't want to let it go.

  • @KonversationsWithKogi
    @KonversationsWithKogi ปีที่แล้ว +328

    Great conversation Cam. This such a wonderful in depth interview, sheds a light into what happened. Unfortunate, that Uche didn't let her explain further tho. I understand what Aaliyah is saying about her empathy. But chile these new episodes really show who HE IS TO HIS CORE.

    • @gdhaney136
      @gdhaney136 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      She dodged a bullet, for sure.

    • @tahde
      @tahde ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Yup best thing she never had 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @tinamitchell4543
    @tinamitchell4543 ปีที่แล้ว +207

    Thank you Cameron and Aaliyah. This in depth interview was fantastic. Cameron, you asked all the questions in a professional and empathetic way. Aaliyah, you answered the questionS with truth and authentic emotions. To Cameron and Lauren, you need your own show because you guys have grown beyond LIB. ❤️🧡

  • @km_72
    @km_72 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    FANTASTIC INTERVIEW. Cameron was super respectful and gave her the space to say what she needed to say without forcing her to go too far, and Aaliyah is so well spoken and does a great job of advocating for herself. She did an amazing job of saying her piece without being disrespectful or spilling the tea for the sake of getting it out there. LOVED THIS. 🙌🏼

  • @Queen_G_513
    @Queen_G_513 ปีที่แล้ว +159

    She is GORGEOUS! My goodness. And so emotionally intelligent. I just wish nothing but good things for her.

  • @colieaziza9371
    @colieaziza9371 ปีที่แล้ว +78

    "Everyone does things that they are not proud of." Such a graceful human being. I appreciate her so much.

  • @citrynerose
    @citrynerose ปีที่แล้ว +73

    Such a beautiful discussion. Aaliyah you’re a beautiful soul and a great example of a healed high vibing black woman. Often times black woman aren’t seen this pure, honest and vulnerable. I can tell you’ve done deep healing and alot of shadow work. God bless you! Sending you love. Cameron you kilt it. These interviews show your EQ and your ability to extract vital information that brings light and healing to everyone that wants a healthy connections in their lives. I look forward to how your skills expand.

  • @MaryBieber7
    @MaryBieber7 ปีที่แล้ว +360

    She is poise and class manifested in such a beautiful vessel. I’m proud of her and her growth, and honestly for taking the high road in this. She could have trashed both of them, and it would have been warrented. But this interview speaks so much to her character. I pray she gets nothing but the best out of life. ❤️

    • @hajjaa.8194
      @hajjaa.8194 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      The way you worded this was everything 🫶🏽

  • @SharonWarfield
    @SharonWarfield ปีที่แล้ว +48

    Uche missed the opportunity to build a life with a beautiful and genuine woman. I’m glad she was given an opportunity to speak for herself. Great Interview ❤

  • @Jada-hq2oc
    @Jada-hq2oc ปีที่แล้ว +43

    This this confirmed for me that Uche doesn’t like black women and that’s why he had unnecessary smoke for both Aaliyah and Miriam but none for Lydia and Stacy.

    • @taheeshab.4208
      @taheeshab.4208 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Exactly

    • @autumnjanee
      @autumnjanee ปีที่แล้ว +17

      The way he treated Miriam was nuts! A great example of his hate for black women and self hatred for himself …
      I was proud of Miriam for standing up for herself but saddened over the optics of it. People looked at her like a villain while sympathizing with Uche. It was absolute madness

    • @Nekole1
      @Nekole1 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Agreed, I dont date nor mingle with BM anymore. Too much colorism and obsession with skin tone.

    • @livinlifewithla7142
      @livinlifewithla7142 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I didn’t even watch the season but saw a clip including him and a heated interaction with another black woman . I immediately saw the difference in how he interacted with her vs anything other woman . These comments confirmed those thoughts

  • @maresascott7093
    @maresascott7093 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    There was a whole petition signed to make you all host and this is a prime example why. You ask the difficult and uncomfortable questions while still creating a safe space. I’m glad Aaliyah had time to reflect and was given this platform to be open, honest and transparent with her experience and perspective. I am so happy her and Uche did not work. She seems like a very sweet soul and he came off emotionally abusive

  • @ashleytune1598
    @ashleytune1598 ปีที่แล้ว +136

    The fact that he told her she wasn't his ideal type makes me think he only dates lighter-skinned women, since he dated Lydia. Which is really sad because Aaliyah is STUNNING.

    • @bxbeautynyc
      @bxbeautynyc ปีที่แล้ว +16

      I was thinking the same thing. I think she didn’t want to say it. She’s so beautiful 😍

    • @Bazet465
      @Bazet465 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      It’s not sad people have preference we just need to respect People’s preferences and life choices.

    • @ashleytune1598
      @ashleytune1598 ปีที่แล้ว +74

      @@Bazet465 colorism isn't something that should be respected.

    • @Bazet465
      @Bazet465 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@ashleytune1598 yes colorism but personal preference should be respected. Uche never said Lydia is ugly cos she’s dark skinned but he’s not his type and it’s okay.

    • @ArethaRenee
      @ArethaRenee ปีที่แล้ว +33

      I’m sure she was too dark for him and her hair was too kinky for him. I think is safe to say he likes lighter hues and other races preferably. Aaliyah is gorgeous.

  • @aishagordon9693
    @aishagordon9693 ปีที่แล้ว +123

    Thank you Cameron! This was an awesome interview! You actually asked the right questions, and got all the questions the public has for her answered. You really should be the host at the reunion. 💯

  • @salomefrancis5332
    @salomefrancis5332 ปีที่แล้ว +252

    Thank you so much Cam and Aaliyah for this conversation. I really appreciate Cam creating a safe space for Aaliyah to share her truth. As for Aaliyah, it’s good to see her take what she needed to learn from the experience and move on to a healthier space ❤️.

    • @charliebarrow7086
      @charliebarrow7086 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      I am very impressed about her ability to express herself so well, differentiate and give deep insight into the complex emotions she felt in that environment. I hope she finds a partner that appreciates her intelligence, grace and beauty.

    • @salomefrancis5332
      @salomefrancis5332 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yes, I completely agree. Wishing her all the best. A very lucky man will marry her one day.

    • @charliebarrow7086
      @charliebarrow7086 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@salomefrancis5332 Amen!

    • @Wishfull171
      @Wishfull171 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      And he doesn’t over talk her, actually listens, respect 👏

    • @Wishfull171
      @Wishfull171 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@charliebarrow7086 I was blown away watching and seeing her level of maturity and communication honestly.

  • @keepingitnatural7601
    @keepingitnatural7601 ปีที่แล้ว +118

    Can I just say I only starting watching love is blind in September this year. Once I finished the first season, I instantly looked up Cameron and Lauren to see if they were still together. Then I discovered the TH-cam channel and immediately subscribed! I appreciate you guys ❤

    • @mwoods4608
      @mwoods4608 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      i didn't start until season 3 and the fact we have a few couples that are still together I consider a win. dating irl is hard on reality shows is harder, idk how many people from The Bachelor are still together but I like the couples that actually make it through this journey together

    • @specialkdm900
      @specialkdm900 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Sadly, it’s downhill after Season 1. Cam and Lauren were both ready for marriage. Haven’t seen any couple prepared or ready since them.

    • @Wonderwoman79G
      @Wonderwoman79G ปีที่แล้ว +8

      ​@@specialkdm900Three couples are still married from season 4. Tiffany and Brett are often compared to Cameron and Lauren.

    • @keepingitnatural7601
      @keepingitnatural7601 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@specialkdm900 I think Tiffany and Brett in season 4 were ready. Apart from them two I don have to agree with you. The thing is, people have seen it’s popularity and just want the after fame from the show.

    • @MartaRC32
      @MartaRC32 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Cameron and Lauren are the lucky charm of the show. The creator and main producer - Chris something - said that when they were taping Cameron and Lauren interact and then the reveal, they went - oh sxxxx, the formula of the show really works, we won the lottery with these two... Until their reveal, they had no clue the premise of the show could work, regardless of the quality of the casting staff in finding possible matches going through social media profiles and activities. It turned out Cameron and Lauren accepted the invitation to be on the show and the formula worked. But there is a big BUT here, the quality of Cameron and Lauren as people is different from many of the other participants on the show - both are highly educated, have amazing families, are compatible from a social, economic, and educational background, and were ready for a serious relationship. Many participants of the current season 5, for example, Izzy. Jonie, Lydia, Milton, Uche, Stacy , pretty much most of the cast of this season are far away from this status, like thousands of miles away...

  • @sassynchicago
    @sassynchicago ปีที่แล้ว +89

    She as the best people in the whole season! So played and manipulated by Lydia’s immaturity and Uche ‘s Ego! Love her honesty and the way she has grown to become a confident women. They weren’t showing all her strengths on the show but just this candid interview shows what a confident consider and classy woman she really is.

  • @priscilla4901
    @priscilla4901 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    She is too good for Uche. She’s so mature, kind,and really just a fantastic woman all around. Uche fumbled HARD

    • @Tom6567my
      @Tom6567my 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      She is a cheater 😂. No she was not too good.

  • @CamilleRodriguez
    @CamilleRodriguez ปีที่แล้ว +61

    As much as I would LOVE Lauren and Cameron to host LIB, I almost don’t want that for them only because I feel like production will put too many restrictions on them or make them ask things they don’t want to or won’t be beneficial. I much prefer for them to do something like this where they have freedom and they can be their real selves that we all love. 🤍🤍🤍 team Lauren and Cam forever!

    • @kegaugetswesethusha9858
      @kegaugetswesethusha9858 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Oh I agree. It would be amazing to have them as hosts but not at the cost of such authenticity and transparency. Team Lauren and Cam 🙌🏾

  • @Nomad332
    @Nomad332 ปีที่แล้ว +215

    Aliyah is such a beautiful soul, God protected her from Uche. I really hope she finds what she is looking for!

    • @MartaRC32
      @MartaRC32 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      In some cases, the right person is already around her but she´s not seeing him yet... she´s a nurse, so I think that someone in her profession might be a better fit - when she´s ready...

  • @kalabryant400
    @kalabryant400 ปีที่แล้ว +118

    The most beautiful LIB interview I’ve seen. On both the guest and the host!

  • @murphymomof9
    @murphymomof9 ปีที่แล้ว +141

    What an incredibly beautiful, intelligent, articulate, grace-filled soul. (You're a great guy too, Cameron. 😉) Both of you were/are so respectful to the process and all involved. Thank you! We need more of this.

  • @sherriabrooks
    @sherriabrooks ปีที่แล้ว +41

    I love how mature and level headed Aalyiah is....she looks at things from both sides and she gives grace to others and herself. She will make a great wife.

  • @annab0511
    @annab0511 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    Thank you Cameron. You asked the right questions and gave her the space to speak. Beautiful interview !!!!

  • @ErinMBlack
    @ErinMBlack ปีที่แล้ว +25

    I can’t wait until you and Lauren get your own show. It will be amazing. I am so glad we got to hear her perspective for once. This was such a great interview. Thank you both!

  • @jeannemalungukabamba
    @jeannemalungukabamba ปีที่แล้ว +40

    I’m hanging with the Hamiltons… Cam Cam, you are killing it… great interview✨🔥

  • @mqk1697
    @mqk1697 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    Cam you’re so good at being an empathetic interviewer. Would love to see more episodes like this

    • @randomterri363
      @randomterri363 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Would like follow up with Taylor and JP!

  • @Covers-and-Commentary
    @Covers-and-Commentary ปีที่แล้ว +39

    Cam this can be a great series, interviewing Love Is Blind casts. This is a great interview.

  • @blahdomschannel
    @blahdomschannel ปีที่แล้ว +37

    Cameron is a really GREAT interviewer! Netflix should probably have that conversation 👀

  • @ufomechanic11
    @ufomechanic11 ปีที่แล้ว +86

    An exclusive!!
    Finally, contestants have decided to use this couples platform in the smartest way for all of them. I feel like any exclusives should come through Cameron and Lauren.

  • @danielavargas7093
    @danielavargas7093 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    Love her maturity. You can see that she’s worked on herself and knows what she truly values. She deserves someone so amazing. Same can’t be said about the rest of the cast.

    • @elviarestrepo340
      @elviarestrepo340 ปีที่แล้ว

      Especially Lydia, who had a suspicious behavior. Aaliyah is a beautiful human being. ❤️

  • @SlimGoodie004
    @SlimGoodie004 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Thanks Cameron and Lauren for using your platform to allow beautiful Aaliyah to speak ❤. Great interview!

  • @amaliagrassi6870
    @amaliagrassi6870 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Whoever ends up with Aaliyah is going to be a very lucky person. She's such a great girl. I liked her from the first moment I saw her on the show. Expressive, intelligent, emotionally intelligent.

    • @Tom6567my
      @Tom6567my 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Unless she cheats AGAIN 😮

    • @amaliagrassi6870
      @amaliagrassi6870 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@Tom6567my I can't really remember the woman I wrote this comment about but sad to hear she cheated, sad to hear anyone cheats.

  • @beautifullife5216
    @beautifullife5216 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Great interview! Truly felt like being a fly on the wall to an authentic conversation between friends. I’m sure it’s easy to do with people like Cam and Lauren who are so grounded and genuinely interested in what the interviewee says and has to say. Great job Cam! 💙

  • @nichelseadenay
    @nichelseadenay ปีที่แล้ว +33

    I LOVE THIS INTERVIEW!!!!!! I don’t understand why the Cameron and Lauren can’t be host on LIB. The questions were asked so audience can better understand the cast experience on the show. The interview is such chill conversation as if we are seeing two friends talking yet still getting answers to everyone questions. I love Aaliyah even more after this.

  • @Kristen-og9wo
    @Kristen-og9wo ปีที่แล้ว +83

    I really respect Aaliyah. She handled this situation with grace and maturity. She should feel very proud of herself.

  • @DenaSimone
    @DenaSimone ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Omg I love this so much! The Hamilton’s should be interviewing Love is Blind contestants going forward because they have been through the process. This was great. Thank you thank you thank you!

    • @AfroLatinasUnited
      @AfroLatinasUnited ปีที่แล้ว +1

      We all know that, that’s not going to happen 😒 but I highly agree with you!

  • @EnchantedStringsToronto
    @EnchantedStringsToronto ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Thanks for being so articulate Cameron. You guys are upstanding humans. So happy to hear Aaliyah is in a better place and can reflect back and see that she did an amazing job.

  • @kyliestone588
    @kyliestone588 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    she really bothered me on the show but this conversation is really vulnerable and i appreciate her openness. another reminder that not everything on reality tv is as it seems.

  • @PraiseAra
    @PraiseAra ปีที่แล้ว +47

    Thank you so much for giving Aaliyah the platform to tell her story. She's a brilliant woman and I truly wish her all the best

  • @ieishah
    @ieishah ปีที่แล้ว +7

    A conversation between two very intelligent, honest people! Loved listening to this, beyond the drama

  • @TheEboniDanielle
    @TheEboniDanielle ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Finally an interview with someone who can relate to the process. Good interview ❤

  • @JHanson856
    @JHanson856 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Cameron is so respectful and was still able to get the answers we were all wanting to know.

  • @usernameeeeeeeee1055
    @usernameeeeeeeee1055 ปีที่แล้ว +127

    love this ! thanks for letting alliyah share her story ❤

  • @planetChristie
    @planetChristie ปีที่แล้ว +47

    Uchi is clearly emotionally abusive. To do all that just tell her you not my usual physical type 🙄. He not even a looker lol

  • @Cogicgirl84
    @Cogicgirl84 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    It was pretty wreckless for the producers to let 2 folks with that much baggage & history on the show. What happened? An innocent person got caught in the crossfire 😢

    • @_jadaxoxo
      @_jadaxoxo ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Did the producers know from the beginning?

    • @hannahwatkins7992
      @hannahwatkins7992 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      ​@@_jadaxoxoThey definitely did. Probably casted them both for the drama of it all. Lydia did say they were told by the producers not to tell Aliyah

    • @_jadaxoxo
      @_jadaxoxo ปีที่แล้ว

      @@hannahwatkins7992 Yes, I seen the reunion after watching this. They were wrong for that!

  • @ayanabenjamin
    @ayanabenjamin ปีที่แล้ว +52

    This interview was really awesome. Thanks for being so open and willing to share aaliyah

  • @gracitajohnson1880
    @gracitajohnson1880 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    Thanks Cameron for inviting Aaliyah to share her story LIB Season 5. Everything she said, epitomizes her character (heart, mind, soul and spirit). she is honest, kind, nonjudgmental, beautiful and has great empathy for others 🙏🏾🙌🏾❤️. I am happy she left because I believe her true soulmate was not Uche. Aaliyah will know when she meets her soulmate, keep living life and enjoying the things that bring you Peace and Happiness. GOD'S plan and timing is always Right on Time✝️♾️

  • @ForMySoulSistas
    @ForMySoulSistas ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I love her calm demeanor, she's really beautiful and forgiving. I'm glad she's passed all of this and is saying that she won't talk about that much anymore. You go Aaliyah and love is on the horizon for you! Loved the interview. PS: We are waiting on the dating show/app/event from the Hamiltons!

  • @ADRCATS
    @ADRCATS ปีที่แล้ว +42

    I absolutely love Aaliyah and I was so relieved when she left the pods and did not end up with Uche he’s got issues…Aaliyah is intelligent beautiful and an amazing human that deserves so much more from a partner!🙏🏻

  • @slayjaybts
    @slayjaybts ปีที่แล้ว +14

    The moment I heard uche speak, I knew Aaliyah wasn’t his cup of tea. Lol she’s not his demo and I was PRAYINGGGGG she would come to that realization and talk to someone that could FEEL how much of a true gem she was/is. Aaliyah is a pure soul and her king is definitely coming! Handled this whole interview with grace and respect.

  • @taslynmatina
    @taslynmatina ปีที่แล้ว +25

    For anyone that has dealt with a narcissist you would have seen a lot of these things coming. It’s a typical narcissistic trait to ask you to be honest then tear you down and condemn you for anything that doesn’t look like his beautiful view of his subject at the time. Also they tend to have the same or worst skeletons in their closet but they work hard to keep them private. Hence why he needed to discredit Lydia. The reason why he flipped out is because Aaliyah leaving took away the control. Sis you dodged a bullet. He’s the reason why Lydia is so unhinged all thar narcissistic abuse. Run and run fast don’t look back 🏃🏽‍♀️

  • @rubysaltzman6942
    @rubysaltzman6942 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    genuinely thank you for giving aaliyah a voice! cameron facilitated this conversation so well and i feel like we understand more of what happened. i genuinely feel so bad for aaliyah, but i'm so glad she's better now 🤍

  • @zaicherry1092
    @zaicherry1092 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Awesome interview! I saw people on Instagram taking sides and i was baffled because to me there's truth on both sides. Glad to hear confirmation from a person involved.

  • @FaithWalks
    @FaithWalks ปีที่แล้ว +13

    This was a great interview! This is the version of Aaliyah I’m happy to see! She was always there and she didn’t allow the foolishness to swallow her! She’s a jewel! This was so respectful, mature, and I didn’t hear an ounce of bitterness from her even though she could be! Praying the best for Aaliyah!

  • @kzamora6939
    @kzamora6939 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    I know many people want you guys to host and I certainly would not be against it. Honestly, I love the fact you can ask the tough questions your way. I feel like the producers would get in the way of you two being your authentic selves. This interview is very authentic and i love it.

  • @Covers-and-Commentary
    @Covers-and-Commentary ปีที่แล้ว +36

    She wasn't his normal type? sigh...she's lovely, beautiful, fit, soft, feminine and caring. So what is his type and why did he even go on love is blind??? Lydia clearly was his "type" which says a lot but i digress.

    • @Tom6567my
      @Tom6567my 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That can all be true and the person still not be your type.

  • @shethingsd
    @shethingsd ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Aaliyah, you were my favorite person. I found you the most open and genuine. I wish you the best.

  • @divinebeauty2070
    @divinebeauty2070 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    We need more interviews Cam! This was GOODT🥰

  • @thedaysideas
    @thedaysideas ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Hanging with the loveliest Love is Blind couple. Thank you for the interview with Aaliyah!

  • @courtneymayfield8163
    @courtneymayfield8163 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    i loved this interview! she moved throughout the show & this interview with so much grace & i love that for her .

  • @tuesdaynightsWULU
    @tuesdaynightsWULU ปีที่แล้ว +13

    This interview was sooooooo well done!!! Bravo. Aaliyah has handled this all very well! And Cameron as a host asked the right questions with being fair to everyone involved.

  • @SalemNaMe
    @SalemNaMe ปีที่แล้ว +24

    So gracefully done from both ends. Just love how she still speak gracefully of other parties.

  • @leenam925
    @leenam925 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    Cameron, I’m about 5 mins in, and I’ll say this video to me, feels authentic and very heart centered. I liked the approach here. Thank you for taking my feedback from another video. It may not be always what you want to hear, but the truth of someone’s perspective on your video (whether it triggers you or not) can actually help you find a method YOU like to do your videos. I’m actually an intuitive and can sense a lot about celebrities. I work as a business analyst and an intuitive coach. Done both for about 12 years now. What I can say is this - when you’re in your heart center completely - we feel it in the videos.
    Again, every criticism and praise “that touches you in any way” is just a reflection of how you see yourself. 😉 Keep up the heart centered work my friend.

  • @kdbeaut
    @kdbeaut ปีที่แล้ว +17

    No cap Aliyah needed her own platform to speak. I hope she’s able to write about this experience and host her own show.

  • @tawandarashael2024
    @tawandarashael2024 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Great video Cameron! Thank you for giving her a safe space to share her story. Wishing Aaliyah all the best!!

  • @rashidaindigeaux6938
    @rashidaindigeaux6938 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    I really enjoyed this interview Cam, great job 👏🏾 and Aaliyah thank you for your honesty and vulnerability gorgeous! ✨

  • @KonversationsWithKogi
    @KonversationsWithKogi ปีที่แล้ว +80

    Well done Cam. Thank you Aaliyah for being so open with us. ❤

  • @makealey
    @makealey ปีที่แล้ว +19

    ohhh....the tea is piping!!! Let me take my seat. I'm glad she is able to tell her story!!

  • @brightgreenleaves
    @brightgreenleaves ปีที่แล้ว +43

    They really gave her a bad edit, she’s very thoughtful and lovely in this video

    • @AlishaOutridge
      @AlishaOutridge ปีที่แล้ว +7

      She didn’t get a bad edit from casting - she got a bad edit from Uche the Terrible.

  • @WeeksWatch
    @WeeksWatch ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Great interview! I truly wish we had more of Aaliyah on the show and appreciate her having a chance to share her story!

  • @strictlyjoking
    @strictlyjoking ปีที่แล้ว +17

    You could tell just from watching her appearances on the show that Aaliyah is a bright, kind and good person. She was the last person to deserve this kind of treatment. Thanks for giving her this platform because I know they won't do her justice at the aftershow

  • @amneal2019
    @amneal2019 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Great interview Cam!! We desperately need you and Lauren to host more interviews with cast members. 👏🏾👏🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @Tiffany-bq4td
    @Tiffany-bq4td ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This interview is 10 out of 10! Wish you guys were the hosts for the show. But so glad you and Lauren worked out so beautifully 🫶🏼

  • @InThisEssayIWill...
    @InThisEssayIWill... ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Aaliyah deserves all the happiness, I'm so glad to hear she's living her best life pursuing her passions and doing things that fulfill her.

  • @jakestroll6518
    @jakestroll6518 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    She just confirmed my theory in the most ladylike way possible, lol. There’s truth in both sides. Uche and Lydia did have a longer relationship and Uche’s downplaying it but also Uche was trying to move on from her and she followed him to the show.

    • @Sibby496
      @Sibby496 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      She didn’t follow him. This is not confirmed. It’s hearsay, so that’s not valid.

    • @JC-unome
      @JC-unome ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Uche could say that he saw Lydia turn into a cat and you'd believe it

  • @uselessfarmer
    @uselessfarmer ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Loved the interview, way better the ones we get in LIB for sure.
    Thank you Hamilton for hosting and thank you Aaliyah for attending, it was very insightful.

  • @sallyburnell8082
    @sallyburnell8082 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    Great interview. She was the only person I really cared about this season. I really enjoyed all the past seasons and cared for so many people and couples. Love is Blind became my favorite dating show because it focused on finding love and not drama. I hope they don't change and focus on creating drama and bombshells. And yes, I wish the Hamiltons would host the show!

  • @ndanatseyichibanda9082
    @ndanatseyichibanda9082 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I loved this interview. Such kindness in Cameron's questions and for thank you so much for giving Aaliyah the space to tell her truth. There was such confidence, kindness, and love in Aaliyah's answers.

  • @TheDawnofVanlife
    @TheDawnofVanlife ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Great interview Cameron!!! Glad to hear Aaliyah’s perspective and I think she’s right, we’ll never know the whole story. Lydia and Uche are a mess.